Saying Slurs For Clout | Sad Boyz 

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Thats Freddy Fazback

AI really is out of hand

Hey eddy, and sad boyz if they see this, you guys are my favorite RU-vidrs, I really enjoy your content and want to say thank you.

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James Acaster is basically the only cis comedian who writes funny trans jokes

@@breauseph I love James but he doesn't really do trans jokes. Both that and his "not Ricky Gervais" bit are about clowning on cishet men than themselves being about us trans folk. I bet he could actually write/perform one but probably wouldn't because he knows that's not really his place and wouldn't want to speak over or on behalf an experience he fully lacks.

@@TheNerdySimulation (that's the point)

LOVE HIM

@@breauseph "Because you know who's been long overdue a challenge? The trans community! Oh they've had it too good for too long if you ask me!" Great now I want to rewatch all of Repertoire again.

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As a guy with glasses and a moustache, I agree

They are all wearing disguises.

twinnem

And we can't forget the button down shirts

THIS THIS THIS!

I came down to the comments to say the same thing. It really warms this trans person’s heart to see vocal cis allies go out of their way to educate people.

and for it to feel genuine

There was an episode not long ago where Jarvis was talking about getting surgery for gynecomastia when he was younger, and he pretty casually referred to it as "gender affirming care." That was honestly so unexpected and refreshing to hear. I would estimate that a single digit percentage of all cis people currently understand & acknowledge the reality that any action taken in furtherance of making you feel more aligned with your gender identity is gender affirming care. If you wear makeup because you prefer how much more stereotypically feminine you look with it on, you're affirming your own gender. If you prefer to grow out your facial hair because it makes you feel more stereotypically masculine, you're affirming your own gender. Boob jobs are GAC. Hair plugs are GAC. Butt lifts are GAC. Calf implants are GAC. Botox is GAC. Using performance enhancing drugs, making "likes bacon" a primary personality trait, buzzing your head with a 2 guard every 3 weeks like clockwork, and filling your wardrobe with Carhartt shirts & work boots with extra-chunky soles, even though you work a 9-5 job in IT... all are choices that a lot of guys make for the specific purpose of affirming their own masculinity. Waxing off all of your body hair, wearing a push up bra, setting up standing manicure appointments, wearing wigs, weaves, or extensions... all are choices that a lot of women make for the specific purpose of affirming their own femininity. AND THAT'S FINE! But people have got to stop melting down at the idea of trans people doing the same thing for their respective gender identities. Just let people show up in the world however they want to; the only way you can be harmed by that is if you hurt yourself in your own confusion.

Jesus fucking christ... what if we all got a personality instead of cutting off our tits?

THISSSS!!!

Yes I don't care about any sports but I enjoyed hearing about it immensely

I dont follow any sport and as an outside observer, it seems like no one cares about women's sports outside of those two reasons.

​@@brookejon3695 same. I'm not a sports person and the only time I hear about women's sports is either men saying "lol women's sports are shit, no one cares" or "TRANS RUINING WOMEN'S SPORTS" 🙃

was gonna comment exactly that !!!!!!!! hearing someone talk about something they care about + theyre talking about something i dont know much about + theyre talking about something that clearly deserves to be talked about (and talked about more) ???? banger !! id watch a 90 minute-long video about just Jarvis introducing his aydience to WNBA / college WNBA

bold strategy, cotton! let’s see if it pays off

and they are matching (light colored shirts)

Yeah why is he saying slurs for clout

Someone please dub his brothers face over this episode

saying slurs for content ft. Eddy Burback may not be the best title

he’s not even in the thumbnail 😭😭

Like I will one day have an aneurysm hearing these type of people speak. It's so maddening

not everyone. some people do use no pronouns, in which case you always address them by name.

@@MaryCostantini yeah that's not actually a thing that happens, because it's so incredibly awkward and annoying anyone who tries it gives up. Every language on Earth is based around people having pronouns.

@@modelmajorpita actually it does happen, cissplainer. not only do i know people who don’t use pronouns, but famously, SOPHIE did not use pronouns. language, as gender, is a social construct and it is completely feasible to not use pronouns when referring to a person lmao.

@@MaryCostantini Not cis, which is why I know people who have tried not using pronouns and given up because it doesn't fucking work. Language is a social construct but we live in a society, and it is unbelievably annoying to not use pronouns 100% of the time when talking about someone.

Mustache and glasses for all of them they look under cover

@@sophiaiskeepinittogetherexactly😂 like the glasses came with the mustaches attached when they got them

groucho marx meet up 🥸

you think you're funny or something? cuz you're right

At the olive garden they call him spaghetti burback

i was crying and this comment literally made me burst out laughing tysm

Hivemind bars

​@@shroomyisdying why were you crying?

I know! I wish more people were like them

Yes I feel so comforted by this, we need more like it

"hey siri, set my home menu to 'live: 360° mahabodhi tree cam' and play vibes playlist 2"

"Either its a skill issue or a chill issue" is such a fucking good phrase I love that so much

Thiss :((❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Agreed :) And memento mori

Same. I’ve been watching Sad Boyz since before I transitioned, it was so nice to have a piece of media hosted by cis men that have such genuine compassion for trans people. Been on T for two years this July :)

​@@rizzbusiness Congrats dude!!! Its so comforting to know that the people you watch and enjoy respect you as a person, and it sucks that it has to be a standard at all, but it's just very reassuring to know. Too many people lack basic empathy

I came to comment the same thing like that whole description just exposed what a total idiot that guy is lol

Yes! Thank you. I was losing my mind like "that doesn't even make sense!"

The rococo aristocracy was on some crazy shit. Those poor women had to walk through doors sideways 😂

Thank you I was gonna say the same !

@@brookejon3695 true but they slayed

I've been out of school for quite a few years now but I remember that being a very common attitude. In fact it felt like most people fell into the "slurs are sick, funny uh oh word" camp or the "tolerant" camp (whatever that even means, really it's indifference to the potential harm they cause others). We never would've been allowed to have a day of silence in solidarity with queer people, for example (my country's education system is extremely conservative, there's no Sex Ed of any kind and any mention of queer identities would immediately be called "inappropriate sexual content"). So in that sense I am encouraged by the fact that enough kids felt confident in having a silent protest. The fact that we're still having those conversations about "tolerating" slurs is disheartening though.

Its this weird mentality alot of particularly young boys have. I remember in 8th grade my boyfriend said he was friends with a neo nazi because "why should he hate him for a different opinion" i dont even know how youre a neonazi in middleschool but i thought that was crazy

@@RealElongatedMuskrat I’ve always really appreciated the day of silence, but it’s so upsetting to hear people mock and criticize it, I’ve always tried to educate people on topics like discrimination and the negative impact of slurs, but people tend rub it off. I think there will always be those people who don’t understand or appreciate days or weeks or months like today because that’s just what this world is, but having these moments is so crucial to creating a better future.

A lot of people have convinced themselves that you are the one that gives words power, and if you don't take it seriously it can't hurt you 🙃 They think they're progressive

@@Unfortunately_Mickey exactly, like I said to him, just because you personally don’t find offense in it, doesn’t mean others will react the same. And I even had to explain that just because you personally haven’t experienced discrimination, doesn’t mean others don’t. It’s so irritating yet saddening that people are so close minded and self centered.

If they wanna compete in co ed go ahead but how can anyone think they that a trans guy should be able to compete with actual women ??

Omg I remember that. Abbott is such a tool. Hope he gets voted out soon.

it’s one of those things that does sound kinda ??? at first but when you read more about richard byrd (and the state of expeditions like this to both poles in the early 20th century) you realize that anyone wanting to seriously explore those areas at that time was either a bit crazy or a bit stupid or both. he also totally lied about reaching the north pole by flight lol. but these people dgaf about any kind of historical context

You mean he wasn't a cat that met N*zi aliens?

Shoutouts to you for being funny

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I LOVE UR ACCOUNT SM

I’m so glad they caught your factory floor sneak peak

Yeah I thought he was talking about a literal cat and made up the name on the spot.

Literally the worst storyteller of all time lmao

look up what if the world was made of pudding

They look like 25 year old DILFS

The far right just tries to distract the media with fake problems such as People Existing (apparently bad) to distract from actual problems. Facist cycle creates scare tactics and blames the left to try to prevent the working class from revolting in unlivable conditions that were caused by capitalism

a jumpsurprise, if you will

jumpsmile

Omg hi ❤

I was looking for this, I follow Diana on insta reels and love her content. I was so surprised to see her videos on the podcast lol

I can tell you whatever I want, this is a free speech zone! (or some other rambling, this was a joke but I think it failed)

the same person from three different alternate universes lol

59:08 seriously

toby maguire, tom holland and andrew garfield

Put a mustache on someone and they r automatically a twin tbh

I always figured they try to rewrite nazi history so they have less in common with them. ie Rowling denying trans people were hunted and murdered in the holocaust while calling for the same thing today. psychology is fascinating

rightttt the curls are sickening 😮‍💨

He's always so stylish

it frames his face so well 😮‍💨

The curls are so amazing

Was coming here to say just that! The curls!

also, this fucking woman just sold me the shit out, on fucking Donghua Jinlong. Doggamn. I’m buying Donghua Jingling the next time I need Glycine. If ever. Maybe now I need it because of her!!

they even photosynthesize!

One of them is actually Sudowoodo

Love her content

Sorry I just realized everyone else was saying this too

oh my god he is talking about the rococo style

Mfer is a slur? And not just a misogynistic cuss?

the r word and other icky terms were just a part of my family’s vocabulary. the thing is when i learned that it wasn’t just another way to say stupid i stopped using it. there’s so many more witty ways to insult something so why default to unsavory

​@@oakleyvesit's a word that means slow, and slow can mean stupid if the slowness is attributing to brain. It's still used in engineering for its actual meaning though as it's not a slur in that usage.

EXACTLY, the white people I've known that say slurs like that were exclusively attention seekers, the stereotypical bully, the frequent liar, people you just pity.

YOOOOO MICROPLASTICS CAT MADE AN APPEARANCE! THAT'S MY FREN :3

This implies they can take off the mustache

Hahahhaa I was doing the exact same thing 😂

A Marie Antoinette look maybe lol

Iconic

same, i live an hour away from my favorite hangout so i listen to the podcast on the way there and back

@@soldiaz7261 I listen on my way to work. It’s a 40 minute drive one way so I get through the episodes quick 😭