The only part of you that should be worked on and perfected are the skills needed to be a selfless, tireless wife and mother. Not like your own mother. No, you want to be better than her but that only comes after putting in the time to gain the necessary skills and mindset. We aren't born knowing how to do it correctly and you mother certainly didn't teach you anything so you can't compare yourself to past generations who were trained to be adults at 16. Now, at 22, after 4 years of high school and another 4 years in college, women haven't spent even 1 minute on development which is why adulthood is postponed until 30 and even then women haven't a clue what to do. Do it now, course correct, and get started on being a adult which doesn't happen until you get married and have kids. Until then, it's just romper room where your chronological age is speeding ahead but you're stuck in adolescence. Intelligent women are meant to do better at a younger, more energetic age.
