He’s ONLY Interested In Having Sex With You! (6 Clear Signs)

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In this dating advice video, I will give you the 6 signs he just wants you for sex. I want you to know if a guy is genuine or if he just wants you for sex. You may see the signs he just wants you for sex on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to this dating advice and be sure to watch the entire video.
I don't want you to automatically think that every man is looking for friends with benefits. I know that sometimes it can be frustrating for a lot of women when you start to notice the signs he just wants sex. As a relationship coach and a dating coach for women, I want you to be able to tell the signs he only wants to hook up and help you answer the question of does he just want sex?
I want you to be able to avoid situations where you may be wanting more and he only wants sex. Make sure you take heed to this dating advice for women to be sure to know the signs he only wants sex so that you can avoid being friends with benefits.
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@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

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@laurenpierce7723 10 месяцев назад

As far as “the man” that only wants to have sex with you. I feel that it is important to let women know that this doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with them in regards to them doing something wrong to attract this type of man and the reasoning why a man with would do this. Once you realize that this is the type of man your dealing with you can decide whether or not you want to deal with him. A man not stating his intentions seems like it would be almost impossible to not know this at the very beginning stages if you are dating with intentionality and asking the right kinds of questions in the vetting process of getting to know someone. You can also tell a lot through there actions and body language what their saying n and not saying. Telling him your on your period! You don’t have to unless this is a booty call and if that’s the case you knew what it was sis! You on ya own😂 If a man addresses everything with something sexual maybe there’s a chance he is not aware of this being he is a man and a sexual being, redirect conversation and if that doesn’t work in regards to his behavior then make a choice. A man never wanting to stay the night with you. I would make breakfast plans and if he still bounced after that then there you go! 😊, Not letting you into his world! Take the blindfolds off and grab them bifocals on the dresser. Put them on. I feel a man should know pretty quickly if he wants to commit in some type of way if your speaking on being equally yoked!

@laurenpierce7723 10 месяцев назад

Hosea 4:6 My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children. A lot of people don’t seek knowledge or they reject knowledge or have outdated knowledge only based on their own personal experiences. Not seeking knowledge could be the reason why some people go through difficulties etc. Ignorance is not bliss-it is oblivion. Philip Wylie

@kias.3106 10 месяцев назад

1) He never takes you anywhere 2) Won’t clearly state intentions 3) He cancels when you’re on your period 4) conversation always sexual 5) He never wants to spend the night 6) He does not let you in his world Bonus : He never commits

@marysizemore191 10 месяцев назад

I stopped talking to a guy because every time he would talk to me it was about sex I tried asking him questions to start a conversation but it always went to sex so I stopped talking to him and I blocked them. I can't stand man that's disgusting and disrespectful. I'm 40 years old I'm at a point in my life that if you're not on my level we can't talk.

@denisechestnut5650 10 месяцев назад

I did the same like 2 months ago. I even ask him if he could have one conversation with me without sex coming up. Just 1. He claimed he has. Lie. So yes I did the same. Don't blame you. Best of luck.

@amandakropen3273 3 месяца назад

I had a guy ask me during dinner if I like Doggy style. I ate quickly and left!

@natnat0576 10 месяцев назад

Some men just dont want to have sex, they want to kick it with you and do relationship things with sex but not really be with you...Lets got with flow...

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

@Ralph_Kreutzberger-Blumenfeld 10 месяцев назад

Those are the ones that usually say: "I'm not looking for anything serious right now"

@ButterCookie1984 9 месяцев назад

@@Ralph_Kreutzberger-Blumenfeld Bingo. Or "Let's see where it goes."

@thecommonsensecapricorn 3 месяца назад

Yep I was dating a guy for 2 months and we did say we wanted it to be casual at the beginning cus he was only gonna be in town for work for a couple months, but he was asking me to hangout 4-5 days a week, taking me to dinner, taking me out with his friends, holding me in public etc… I got so confused. When I told him I developed feelings, he said he did too & we even talked about long distance etc but in the end he wasn’t giving enough for me. He was consistent but the intimacy and depth to the connection wasn’t there. I still wonder if he was telling the truth about having feelings for me or not. It was confusing.

@derekbanks7377 Месяц назад

The answer is MOST men initially just want to have sex!

@severinlippold7841 10 месяцев назад

Unfortunately, the trouble is, you only notice it too late. You've already invested feelings and that's why it's so difficult to end the thing. Especially if he continues to send mixed signals. I experienced something like this for the first time, I didn't even know that men could behave like this. My previous partners were always very clear about their intentions, so that it didn't work out in the long run is another story, but I always knew where I was. Just not with this last man. I have learned a lot and gained experience in the last 12 months. I've finished it now. I would describe him as a slightly egotistical gentleman, because he never treated me meanly or insidiously, we talked for hours, he always made sure to hurt me as little as possible despite everything, which is exactly why it was so difficult for me to leave. But it's all useless if we don't look in the same direction. Thank you very much Stephan, your videos have helped me and my self-confidence a lot to interpret the signs correctly and not to doubt myself, whether I'm not just exaggerating. Thanks for that... Greetings from Germany

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@keciabrown8321 10 месяцев назад

If the next guy is giving mixed signals, leave.

@marygranke204 10 месяцев назад

That is why it is so important to heal so you can spot the red flags and address them as you see them and if he doesn't change... you need to move on. I am so grateful that I have healed from everything....and I feel all this positive energy now and it is easier to spot things and listen to your intuition....remember as a woman you have to become attune to it. Trust God and no it's not easy, but it can be done.

@severinlippold7841 10 месяцев назад

@@keciabrown8321 Yes, that's exactly what I'll do then. Definitely.

@severinlippold7841 10 месяцев назад

@@marygranke204 Thanks for your answer. That's what I'm going to focus on for now, to heal. I learned a lot from this experience and that will also help me in the future to keep my eyes open. I actually have a good intuition, unfortunately I didn't notice it at all this time. I literally bathed in my feelings of being in love and was unfortunately completely blind to the warnings. I'll be more careful in the future though.

@heartsandpearls239 10 месяцев назад

I met this older man 53 and he wanted marriage and everything. He was ready to meet my parents immediately. He started providing for me and making plans for our future. So 3 months down the issue of sex came up and I said I was not ready. Long story short, he said when I'm ready I should let him know and that he would always love me. That's it...he slowly went Ghost. Well I'm not a ghost whisperer so I didn't go looking for him, it's been a month.The end. But he showed none of these signs. But these are the signs he showed me. 1. Anytime I visited he was quick or insisted multiple times on serving me alcoholic beverages, I often refused ... Mind you he wouldn't drink. 2. He often insisted I spent the night, and my excuse was I live with my parents and I can't stay out without him meeting them first cause I have to explain were I spent the night.😂😂😂 3. I'm a thick tall girl so I'm quite endowed, when we first met, the first thing he saw b4 approaching me was my back, low key I didn't trust him, and he confirmed that's what made him approach me. 4. There were signs he was entertaining other women. I saw the messages on his phone😂. I just kept quite. And on certain days he will ghost you for 2 days straight ( he has company) and have a lame excuse.

@cget 10 месяцев назад

Honestly, I think you're overthinking it. What a lot of women don't realize is that whether or not a man is serious about you, he wants to have sex with you. No man would be that intentional for months just for sex. It's a lot I can say about how waiting that long affects a man and how he thinks you view him. But the fact that he even gracefully parted ways from you is another indicator he was serious.

@Lebannax 10 месяцев назад

@@cgetyeh I agree 3 months is a long time and he probs thought it was never gonna happen

@serenaw5107 10 месяцев назад

I think you might be overthinking it with this one, men are very simple and they usually don’t want to work for months at trying to have sex with you especially if they have a bunch of other girls, especially that are very willing. I think what it sounds like is he didn’t want to be with you and Liz for her and his intentions. And I’m not saying this is your fault, but I think when you told him that you didn’t want to have sex with him, he probably realize that you aren’t as attracted to him as he was with you, and just called it quits and slow ghosted. Men like to feel wanted and attracted to, and I’d say that’s probably one of the biggest problems man usually have was their relationships that they don’t feel wanted.

@jordynsmommy529 10 месяцев назад

@heartsandpearls239 You did the right thing. I think he was playing a game w/u. He was willing to say & do all the rt things to get the cookie & once he realized u weren't giving it up so quickly he bounced. I think you saved urself from heartache & this is coming from a 52 yr old woman. If he really wanted to be with you & only you then he would be willing to wait even if it meant until after y'all were married if that is your end goal. Keep doing what you're doing..the rt man for you will eventually come along.

@thewisdomdivatv 10 месяцев назад

How long do you think he should have waited? Did you have a conversation about sex at all? Did you consider refusing his resources until you were in a proper committed relationship? Otherwise I see how he could have felt used.

@theorderofthebees7308 10 месяцев назад

Combo platter of all these signs means you got yourself a F**kboy meal😂

@keciabrown8321 10 месяцев назад

This was a great video. I have certain rules about men. One of them are: I don't go on home dates, no matter how they push me, or how attracted I am to them! A lot of women settle for whatever they can get, figure they can change a man's mind, etc. I don't get asked out at all. The last few times were home dates. Some women would cave and deal with whatever. But you have to like and love yourself and know you deserve more! When a man sees value in you or sees you worth his time, he will step his game up! Period! You don't have to come down too meet him! Men do for who they want! Mr. Stephan don't apologize for keeping it 💯! I am overweight and know some men wouldn't want to be seen with me, but will sex me. It is what it is. Women got too hear the truth and be ready!

@cynthiajunious7068 10 месяцев назад

I experienced everything Stephen mentioned in this video. I'm worth and deserve more even though I have feelings for him and he doesn't return the same feelings, I have to let him go no matter how bad it hurts, I value and love myself more. Women who've been through this situation stay strong keep our heads up and keep going like I mentioned earlier it hurts but we are strong women.

@keepgrowing9941 9 месяцев назад

Same 😢

@karinesilva183 5 месяцев назад

Same. I just said goodbye. Not easy 😢

@queenbelle8225 10 месяцев назад

This makes too much sense bc out of the heart the mouth speaks so they will let you know if you’re a good listener by knowledge not by emotion

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@natashastutson769 10 месяцев назад

They say that’s not all they want but that’s all they talk about ..

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

Thank you for your feedback I appreciate hearing from you ❤️ 🙏🏼

@geebeedykxon8710 10 месяцев назад

I was with someone like that once, he never went out with me, he always wanted to come over or for him to come over. He wasn't serious about me He also didn't state exactly what he wanted

@EnollaPhoenixRising 10 месяцев назад

with respect Stephan, I like sex very much & that is why I try my very best not to be alone with a man & put myself in that situation, I don't want to create a soul tie with a man or please allow me to put it this way; I am not going to pass myself around like I am a stick of gum; it is a gift I share with someone & if I make it so casual it isn't special to me or anyone else. LOVE

@LadyKT7232 10 месяцев назад

Great video!! You broke it down piece by piece. And all is very true. Ladies beware of the signs.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

@safrinasafrina8378 10 месяцев назад

Been there, geez! 😢 I was so happy someone wanted me and I let him uses me, walked all over me. I was so foolish! Yeah, he didn't wanted to be seen with me.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

@brittneypinckney7317 10 месяцев назад

I just got out of a situation like this. It was annoying because when I offered to be just friend with benefits and it was "naw this it is not just a FWB to me" like dude 😒 come on man, why play.

@pennylanemcdougall1987 10 месяцев назад

Thanks Stephan for the message. God bless you. 🙏❤️🙏❤️

@jacquelinepettiford8212 10 месяцев назад

All these things you mention is definitely confirmation Thank you

@bnb0510 10 месяцев назад

If you’re just meeting at hotels to have sex one or both people are married. Period!

@minutesofinspirationwithka5210 10 месяцев назад

Right on time message!!!🥰

@louisa4669 10 месяцев назад

I know a man only wants sex, when he isn't trying to know you. When Conversations are surfaced based and he won't let you in his personal life. They act busy all the time and only available for date nights or the weekends 😂

@ahandl3 10 месяцев назад

Well I just cut it off and now this comes out. Thank you algorithm lol

@theorderofthebees7308 10 месяцев назад

Going with the flow , straight over Niagara Falls 😂😂😂

@debralitton4600 10 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing this, it helps me understand things more.

@tistisjustme 10 месяцев назад

I love it when he says "fustrated" 😂 great video

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

🙏🙂

@TaketheSeal777 10 месяцев назад

I'm always Seeing My Self Telling Him" BYE NIGGA "😂😂😂😂😂

@scorpiored3871 10 месяцев назад

Awesome advice Stephan!Thank you ❤

@jennahopara 10 месяцев назад

😂’Batman signal’ got it! Thank you Stephane for this update.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

My pleasure ❤️

@naomimuyaya6416 10 месяцев назад

This came at the right time. Thanks Stephan

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

@bridgetteperkins6361 10 месяцев назад

I agree 100% with what he is saying. I'm going through this right now but just shut it down ..

@Qwani11_11 9 месяцев назад

Okay, so the only thing I’m concern about is not meeting his family and friends. At the beginning of our dating stage he asked me to be his girlfriend, did things with me and my children. We been on several dates, but that’s slowly fading, I spend the night several times at his place even while n my period. Even did laundry there several times while he was at work.. This man even blurt out while we were in public that he love me. It’s now, I feel like something is off because he doesn’t contact me as much anymore and I wasn’t even invited to his birthday party. We would go back & forward, push each other away. So I’m not sure what to do at this point but just leave him alone, because his behavior has changed towards me. I’ve been celibate for 4 years and now I feel so stupid.

@user-wr3vt6ru3s 10 месяцев назад

Thank you for this wisdom!!! When you know better you do better!!! ❤💥

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

@latashahumphrey769 10 месяцев назад

Now i know sometimes woman may miss this in the beginning but after awhile you will know what it is. Don't be a goof wants you know what it is.

@nexult5733 10 месяцев назад

There are also men who make their intentions obvious, and share his ‘friendships’ up front to give you a choice in a fair way.

@marygranke204 10 месяцев назад

Your very funny and I had never heard the phrase the batman signal. Thanks for all the information.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!

@tanyalaing4031 10 месяцев назад

You hit the nail on the head

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

Thank you 🙏🏼

@wildlyawakened 10 месяцев назад

I've always had a hard time discerning between men who care about you, and are just trying to sleep with you. I've made that mistake before and am trying to avoid that with this new guy I'm talking to. He's 3 hours from me so just wanting to hookup isn't actually that easy with distance lol

@Savingrace457 10 месяцев назад

That makes sense. The crazy thing is that I waited four months to sleep with my ex-husband, and we still got divorced

@Mayfloweralways 10 месяцев назад

It’s about the big picture. And i’ll be the first to admit, if you’ve never seen the picture, it’s easy not to realize what you’re dealing with. I made excuses for men, and tried to fix things or “do better.” But i didn’t understand that none of them loved me. It wasn’t till my boyfriend that i knew what love looked like. If we’re not talking, were texting. We have disagreed. But the feeling is always that we want to resolve things where we’re both happy. We’ve never had a hateful word with each other. We both would drop everything for each other. We both love that we found each other. Everything is so happy and peaceful. A man that loves you, is man on a mission. He wants to fulfill what you want. He wants to show you he’s the one. With all his heart. I man in love has no time for excuses and games. He is all about you.

@jenniferarzadon2525 10 месяцев назад

Great advice couch stephan thank you so much peace and blessings✌️🙏🏽❤️👍

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

❤️ 🙂 thank you for watching I appreciate your feedback!

@palmerareynolds 10 месяцев назад

I agree with all of this. But there are some men who won’t make it so obvious and will go through the motions just to get what they want, and then they’re gone.

@yahzerahsstar3954 10 месяцев назад

What is this what kind of man is this is this related to trauma or lack of self esteem, what?

@tracyraven7444 10 месяцев назад

Fantastic channel, audio is a bit loud and distorted though ☺️

@vibesswitliv 10 месяцев назад

Thanks for making this vid!❤️we love u!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!

@AngeletteE 10 месяцев назад

😂 the period excuse doesn't stop some men from trying 🙄 👀

@originalmings1991 10 месяцев назад

Or try to get their penis inside a woman’s mouth; some of them don’t understand that sometimes on period women aren’t very sexual and rather not engage in it

@EricaChavira-on4oz 2 месяца назад

Guys don’t even care about that, from what I’ve seen anyway…my last bf did not care one bit, I always felt uncomfortable, fat and gross and it makes a mess but he still wanted to.

@juliannecarr1005 10 месяцев назад

Some men are just low quality 💯🙄

@melodysmith9875 10 месяцев назад

Thank you. So informative. 😊

@annabanzon313 10 месяцев назад

You know because he will completely drop you even as a friend if you say you want to wait for marriage, etc. Lastly, please factor in that he may be married or already living with his GF.

@CLJ7519 10 месяцев назад

The accuracy of this video!!!👌🏾💯

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

❤🙂 Thank you for watching I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@shariekahwooten3151 10 месяцев назад

This just brought tears to my eyes

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

@annabanzon313 10 месяцев назад

Preach it stephan

@brownsugar2445 10 месяцев назад

Thank You for this video I just got out of a situation....after months of separation and telling him how feel from the time we separated I thought he would have changed but I guess not...I know it's not good to wish nothing bad upon nobody...but these man deserve to feel the pain that we feel of being used and ghosted

@house88874 10 месяцев назад

I just sent the clip to my ex since that is exactly what he keeps saying ....lets just go with the flow, why put labels.....gosh am I proud of not giving in ...he tried , boy has he tried , NOPE door is closed , either you respect me and love me or bye

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

@house88874 10 месяцев назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks yes sir 🙏

@happyhippo1710 10 месяцев назад

This video dropped at the right time. I am trying to decipher if this guy is real or not.. I will call him out on it and ask him directly and see what happens. The other guys I am speaking with do not do that but it is fresh and new with them.. Thanks!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

@Melissa-td6ln 10 месяцев назад

The opening line and the laugh right after 😂😂😂😂. This man is HILARIOUS.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

@PinkRuby 10 месяцев назад

I’ve noticed that the sound is peaking in all of your videos so it sounds pretty bad, so I suggest you lower your sound level on the mic and the audio will sound much better instead of sounding allmost like a broken speaker🙂

@G.Skrebutenaite 10 месяцев назад

Right on time, and only focusing on the looks, I would say, the guy insisted me sending him pics, first convo what in the world? Nude pics maybe he was thinking, when I refused and asked why he didn't ask my name, the guy didn't even bother to ask my name, but asking my pics euhmm, that seemed very normal, after my refusal and question the guy disappeared 😅 Thanks Lord ❤

@nonkululekomdlovu1965 10 месяцев назад

I recently met three guys in one month who have been sweet talking but their actions are saying otherwise and when I tell them I'm not on for it, they just guilt trip me. And now going forward it has me thinking, What Do Men Actually Want?

@NalloryLove 10 месяцев назад

This ☝🏽. They all seem to want sex and give low effort. It’s annoying…

@queenbelle8225 10 месяцев назад

The Batman signal😂😂

@thecommonsensecapricorn 3 месяца назад

I was dating a guy for 2 months and we did say we wanted it to be casual at the beginning cus he was only gonna be in town for work for a couple months, but he was asking me to hangout 4-5 days a week, taking me to dinner, taking me out with his friends, holding me in public etc… I got so confused. When I told him I developed feelings, he said he did too & we even talked about long distance etc but in the end he wasn’t giving enough for me. He was consistent but the intimacy and depth to the connection wasn’t there. I still wonder if he was telling the truth about having feelings for me or not. It was confusing. He was going through a lot mentally and he’s 25, I just don’t think he was ready.

@ct8689 10 месяцев назад

I love this. We used to date and go out. Been 3 years now but he works like crazy. We try and schedule something but work always comes up or family issues happen. I took your advice one day and asked about it being just about sex. It made him irritated. He said no, he just works a lot. We do have sex the short times we do see each other. But he actually helps me out at the house when he's here and fixes things for me. I asked at one point if he wanted to be just friends and he said NO. He lives a little over an hour away and works all over as an electrician (big jobs, not residential) and does side jobs. Without me asking last weekend when he came over, he said things are changing and he's done taking extra jobs. I guess that's a good sign but I don't like assuming he'll want more. We watched TV and I made his favorite dinner for him.

@nathalian.7209 10 месяцев назад

3 years it’s looooong time though

@ct8689 10 месяцев назад

@@nathalian.7209 we had a mutual break up. He was working too much. I've dated others since and he hasn't. I'm not really sure if I'm even interested in getting serious anymore. Life goes on and I have my own life

@ct8689 10 месяцев назад

@@nathalian.7209 we're also older and have both been married twice. He's 47 and I'm 44. He's old fashioned. Opens doors, pays for dinners, and he and my mom liked each other. Not just a guy really. He'll fix my car. Do electric for my family. Never charges. Hard to not be accepting of good work ethic when he does show up when I actually need him.

@meesamagill1193 10 месяцев назад

Has he met your friends and family? Have you met his friends and family? Good signs that he has said he will stop extra work but watch actions follow words.

@queenbelle8225 10 месяцев назад

This is going to be good 🎉😂

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

🙏🏼

@latoyasmythe4509 10 месяцев назад

FACTS✨

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

💯 yes!

@OnlyMill101 10 месяцев назад

that's exactly what i need now. there's a guy who annoys me. I thank you for that 😊

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏🏼

@hollybolly9750 Месяц назад

He talks about and brings up the topic of sex in the first few conversations you have

@emiliafranco8900 10 месяцев назад

True🙏🏾👍🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

💯 yes!

@heathergrahame9647 10 месяцев назад

I love your videos, Stephan, and it's probably very rude of me to make a comment before watching this, but I want to say something. Women are interested in sex too. There are many women (just like men) who want to enjoy great sex without a close, committed relationship. But their problem is that they struggle to find a man who they actually want to have sex with. Most men approach sex with the assumption that what turns him on, turns her on. It doesn't work that way. What turns women on is very different to what turns men on. In fact, it goes even further than that. What turns one individual on is different to what turns another individual on. The assumption that "I enjoy doing this, so therefore you will too" is incredibly off-putting. So, too, is a complete lack of interest in finding out what turns your sexual partner on.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️ 🙏🏼

@heathergrahame9647 10 месяцев назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Kisses for you, Stephan. You're a good man.

@thewisdomdivatv 10 месяцев назад

Men and women enjoy sex equally but women are less MOTIVATED by sex because most have been having men “offer” it to them since they were young teens. So it’s not as hard for women to get sex, it’s harder for women to get good, healthy relationships that include good , mutually satisfying sex.

@karinkostolna3245 9 месяцев назад

yes, but wenn you get mixed signals is a lot bad... he was trying to be with me 3 months.. and then this shit... feelings envolved, I am hurt again in 40 .. hmmm hate this hookup culture

@nicolemartin-pz1wl 9 месяцев назад

No offense here brother. Tell it like it is. I love the raw truth. It is what it is..dont water down the truth. ❤ Thank u

@Sunshine-md4mz 10 месяцев назад

Well I have no problem saying sex is all that's wanted. People need to learn how to be honest. Be direct! That way, no one's intentions can be misinterpreted. Gotta be avle to be grown if you want to play!

@moniquesle 10 месяцев назад

Facts

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

💯 yes!

@ayotfreda5536 8 месяцев назад

He takes me out Doesn't state his intention I spend the night till morning. I only leave coz I have work Does not tell me what's going on And never commits

@Savingrace457 10 месяцев назад

Too funny and true

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching 🙏

@CherylHagenson 2 месяца назад

I am not the Sample Lady at Costco!!!

@marissasharp9892 10 месяцев назад

10:39 The penis picture is like the Batman symbol, LOL! 😂😂😂 Facts!!! 💯

@DR-xt9gj 9 дней назад

To be fair there are some women who “Date,” see men that they know that they don’t want anything serious with, or want to marry….I’ve had women tell me they just wanted something to do and got involved with men they didn’t particularly like or even find attractive…This goes both ways but when a man does this he’s called a dog or a user….Go figure…..

@Sosogood100 10 месяцев назад

Honestly I WILL NOT ADDRESS blatant disrespect! As a adult we all no right from wrong. You cross the line, I'm DONE! What's understood I will not discuss or explain.

@caffeinewitch1 10 месяцев назад

What if he's treating you like his gf yet saying he doesn't want to be bf gf with you, then goes & dates someone else & starts to call them his gf! Yeah, I said ALL that.

@nathalian.7209 10 месяцев назад

Don’t you have your answer yet?

@meesamagill1193 10 месяцев назад

Hes not treating you like a gf if he tells you he doesnt want that with you. Seems like you were wishful thinking and hes shown you by his actions that he wants someone else. This frees you to find your person

@plutotoad203 10 месяцев назад

What if you live in a separate state and he says he wants a house and plans a future but doesn't introduce you to his family when I visit, has me only as a follower on facebook and only meets me at a hotel? Worse still, he invalidates any concerns like I told him I am annoyed cos I missed him and wanted to see him but he kind of snubbed me to say I should focus on eating healthier (which I've been losing weight) and other things. What does it mean when someone sends you extremely mixed signals?

@jacquelinejackson9017 10 месяцев назад

@plutotoad203 he’s not interested in a relationship with you

@plutotoad203 10 месяцев назад

@@jacquelinejackson9017 Why would he want a house then. I'm not saying you're lying or trying to start anything, it's just odd. Cos he says he's the one who broke up with his baby momma so he's not with her anymore but seems to be afraid of something.

@jacquelinejackson9017 10 месяцев назад

@@plutotoad203 imo it seems like he’s stringing you along to keep you around.

@plutotoad203 10 месяцев назад

@@jacquelinejackson9017 yeah could be

@queenbelle8225 10 месяцев назад

This is really good that’s why I’m keeping my butterfly to myself….. let them have the moths😂😂. But if God say Stephan deserves it…… jp. Keep me Jesus! I just love the subject no disrespect 🫣🤭🫠

@thetravelfairy 3 месяца назад

Okay but how you let the man go ? Do you say something first and then just ignore him completely

@faithmuyoyo5972 10 месяцев назад

Hi Stephan, what would you advise if doesn't want to commit/put a label on us, he just says he's fond of us/me

@anjawecarg9792 10 месяцев назад

Girl Run

@francleighscarlett 10 месяцев назад

If he's American it's an unusual thing to say. However I've heard British men say that as a polite "I'm interested" early on in a dating process.

@faithmuyoyo5972 10 месяцев назад

Hahaha this is an African man

@beefaye6861 10 месяцев назад

🏃 🏃 🏃

@faithmuyoyo5972 10 месяцев назад

Hahahahahaha

@Savingrace457 10 месяцев назад

What if he is not ready to stay the night ?

@Forrsierra 9 месяцев назад

HALLELUJAH!

@lauramata7544 10 месяцев назад

Men should never say that they love you unless they are ready to marry you. Oftentimes, this is not the case, so men are either shallow or fraudulent. Women should not give their goodies until they are married, because men simply lie.....or misrepresent......

@ButterCookie1984 9 месяцев назад

Excellent point.

@queenbelle8225 10 месяцев назад

Some men don’t care if you’re own your time🤮

@NicciNicoleXO 10 месяцев назад

This is my current situation and after hearing it from you, I’m ready to cut ties with that guy.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

Glad I could help 🙏🏼

@cleftheart1969 10 месяцев назад

All men want sex...however I learned it's for 2 reasons..the right reason or wrong reason...yes guys want sex with feelings they do exists...but will wait for the right time...IJS

@mimi12341234567 10 месяцев назад

Agree, Right time=right reason, notet

@beefaye6861 10 месяцев назад

IKR.....ALL men want sex.

@andrewilliams1504 10 месяцев назад

Hi Stephan i was with this guy for a year, i had to finish the relationship with him because of is 25 year old daughter, she was so jealous to the point of wanting to come on holiday with us..... soon as I finished relationship he told me that he is nothing without me. he is going to mashup is house and crash is car...... is this normal..... thanks

@andrewilliams1504 10 месяцев назад

The

@tiffanyyisrael7989 10 месяцев назад

How can you tell? Easy.......he has a pulse. 🤷🏾‍♀️

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@beefaye6861 10 месяцев назад

😂😂😂 FACTS👉 💯

@roxannmedrano2193 10 месяцев назад

He’s not even proud of you.😂 Well… then keep your distant.

@yahzerahsstar3954 10 месяцев назад

For a man who is over fifty these actions are so premeditated & intentional, how sad. Is there no carma or consequences for men who are willing to consciously use women in this manner or should she have known? Men will have these types of scenarios to get a woman to be submissive and when she gets emotional about how she's being treated he calls her damaged when she's just trying to figure him out and why she's being treated like trash... What happens to men like this, what is often the outcome for him? Has anyone man or woman witnessed this and can share what the outcome was for that so called player...?

@nicolemartin-pz1wl 9 месяцев назад

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾❤️ right

@Nik3Nak3 10 месяцев назад

If a man doesn’t take you out but he introduces you to his cousins gradually, that means he’s using her for sex? / he don’t wanna be seen with her??

@artistcreatorallymamii 9 месяцев назад

Im tired of the guys that just want sex Go with the flow type men Boy what I will not longer accept delusions Im turned off by sex at this point Disgusting 🤢

@ayotfreda5536 8 месяцев назад

He took me out but doesn't clearly state his intention.

@prettync23 10 месяцев назад

I need time stamps 😅

@officiallyangel5154 7 месяцев назад

does this apply to younger people like 16-17

@latashahumphrey769 10 месяцев назад

Ladies its game

@keepgrowing9941 9 месяцев назад

All signs are true. 😢

@ImaginationMw 10 месяцев назад

Why does love have to be so complex?

@kashiefaprins5247 10 месяцев назад

Lust and limerance is complex, love from a healed place is easy, uncomplicated and transparent...

@ImaginationMw 10 месяцев назад

@@kashiefaprins5247 thank you.

@monamibambi 10 месяцев назад

That's not love. Most people don't know what it really means to love. When you are ready to leave your ego behind you 're on a good way I suggest

@miduntinah4422 10 месяцев назад

Doesn't worth it,especially men

@georgialouisew4152 10 месяцев назад

It’s really not complex. The two people involved make it that way.

@SuperDflower 10 месяцев назад

Who are these boring stupid men who don’t want to go out and do things in the world? Even if you’re with someone and all they want with you a sex, you can probably assume pretty easily that this is a pattern they would fall into even with someone that they would have a relationship with. So would you wanna have to sit around the house all the time with someone who doesn’t have any life in them? And then following this, who said you can have sex when you have your period? That’s some sort of rule? I never heard of that. Yes, with certain types of men, very prudish. If both parties agree and they don’t want to or if one party doesn’t want to, then I can understand, but there are many people out there who never let that stand in the way. Sounds like a man who doesn’t really like women other than for one tiny little thing. Sorry I got a man wouldn’t say it’s tiny ….Pun intended