How Men View Sex: What You Need To Know

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How men view sex, what you need to know... In this dating and relationship advice video, I sit down with Koereyelle of the "Girl Stop Playin Podcast" to discuss men and sex, plus much more. Take heed to this dating advice, and ensure you watch the entire video.
I don't want you to be confused about how men view sex. I will tell you what you need to know about men and sex in this dating advice for women. I want you to understand men better and learn more about what men think about sex.
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@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

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@jeanwynter2574 2 года назад

So why do they get so upset when women have sex with someone else?

@ac1901 2 года назад

@@jeanwynter2574 EGO

@mooremtemba6353 2 года назад

@@jeanwynter2574 When women have sex with a man,they are attracted to that man.

@heartstrings110 2 года назад

Where have you been all of my life?! I couldn’t agree with you more! Stellar insight. Superb communication skills. You’re a gift to this world.

@yingvang1276 2 года назад

Stephan, you keep saying go to God. I have multiple times about the same partner. I'm still confused on what God is telling me. There's this answer in my heart asking me, Jesus never gave up on the lost, he's a lost soul so why are you giving up on him? Treat him the way you want him to treat you, that's God's law. God forgave you 7x777 times, so why can't you. .. these words lives in my soul and it's making hard for me to leave him stranded. Some times I feel like I'm making it excuses too but this voice is telling me to hold on. Such a killer for me.

@shawnlove4502 2 года назад

What I've learned about dating is to never tell a man too much too early. Don't tell him exactly what you want, you will give him the code to play you. Sit back, be yourself and enjoy the company. Let him talk and you will see the person you're dealing with. Just listen and sometimes be vague with what you are looking for. They will show you their version of being a good man. Then you can decide if it's what you want.

@MA-mh9mi 2 года назад

Very nicely put sis

@catherinem7748 2 года назад

For sure you are 100% spot on. If you tell a guy you like flowers or perfume you are giving up the key which they use to play you. Tell them nothing, sit back and watch what they do, actions speak LOUDER without you telling them what you want. On the flip side women in general are ruled by emotions, men not so much. Someone told me long ago, The head don't pick who the heart loves. Don't think we will ever figure out the opposite see but we all got to work a little harder.

@privatepo5876 2 года назад

@@catherinem7748 Sounds like games. I don't know the feeling of being played because I've being straight up with a man. No pretenses. Generalization that women are emotional is not true. Yes, uncommon. I'm an ENTJ which is the rarest type among women. So thought process is more logical. Men tell me, "what I like about you is honesty and no games". It appears from the comment there is an expectation of being played. If this is the angle of the thought process I can see that manifesting into the outcome you have expected out of a man.

@mag12381 2 года назад

Well said ! Thank you

@margaretwince2748 2 года назад

When they ask what are you looking for tell them "I will know it when I see it".

@tbyrdrandom Год назад

Someone once said sex for a man is like a dog pissing on a tree. They're just relieving themselves. I've never forgotten that.

@pnwlady 7 месяцев назад

Can’t respect dudes that sleep with people they don’t respect. How can they respect themselves?

@anointedone1995 7 месяцев назад

They don't 😂 @@pnwlady

@ihcnutchi 6 месяцев назад

Gosh. I'll never forget this too.

@WeObsessOverPopCulture 6 месяцев назад

Damn.

@TheMissTeddyDoll 5 месяцев назад

ewww

@maragirl1658 2 года назад

We can sense when people aren’t interested in us at the level we are interested in them. We just need let go instead of trying to win them over.

@gabriellagrace4734 2 года назад

Bam truth

@caleciashirley9802 2 года назад

Yes yes yes! We? Know. We do know.

@lovelyIberia 2 года назад

I agree!

@mistyl1987 2 года назад

💯

@Merdrynn12 2 года назад

💯💯

@SabrinaKim-Lee Год назад

I’d just rather be single for life than try to decipher this whole dating thing🥴🥴 I wish everyone the best of luck 😁

@melissaturner7636 Год назад

Same girl same. #overit

@alyssasmith8385 Год назад

Omg I know I been single cuz I don't want games

@SabrinaKim-Lee Год назад

@@alyssasmith8385 yes, too much mental gymnastics for me.

@zakiyanafisa2979 Год назад

Agree

@katiriaortiz6047 Год назад

same, if he loves me good, if not out the door, im done with the mind games

@alexandrahendrick4352 2 года назад

It hit me when he said... men will say they want to marry an 8 but will sleep with a 6. Bottom line is men, people in general will not always put much value to you, but it is up to you to value yourself! If a guy thinks you are a 6 and not worthy of marriage... keep your legs closed. There will come a man who will value you as an 8, not due to beauty, but your overall worth. I practiced celebacy a lot before my husband because men will use you like you are nothing if you let them. You can see me as a 3 all you want but you aint getying these cookies... my husband values me so he got it... period

@citilifemedia8800 2 года назад

Awesome and true😁🙌🏽👍

@forwardrecording1445 2 года назад

I dunno Ive worked at a golf course as a beverage cart girl for years and they can be married to a ten or a two and still cheat. Men just dumb and usually confused about their own sexuality. They'd rather hang with their golf buddies and demean women so much in order to get off

@bazoukalification 2 года назад

Good on you!!! You are totally right about what you said.

@watermelonsugar6909 2 года назад

Wow.lovely

@joanncole-hodge179 2 года назад

Say it again friend for the people in the back 🔙 row!!!!!!!

@nealiecruz2532 2 года назад

“Women don’t get played, they play themselves. Stop ignoring y your intuition.” Omg, that’s powerful!!!!! Teach your baby girls that from a young age.

@shaisomahere8329 2 года назад

See it comments like this that rub me the wrong way.. Why can't we teach our young boys too to be more emotional mature.. Smh why is it Females always have to fix up and when we ask men to fix up.. We seen as men bashers smh.. This world is lost

@araseleprieto1459 2 года назад

Yesss

@FujishimaAkiko 2 года назад

In reality, this is how men blame women for how they as men behave in general and towards women. This is why so many men have difficulty taking responsibility, understanding simple things like "no", and why they often can't handle rejection. It's because everything they do often falls onto women. Women are blamed for things men do to them, rather than the men who made the choice to play a person. This is victim blaming. You can teach girls and young women that some men are players, but the fact remains that when a person thinks or feels they're in love, they're blind to red flags, plenty of lessons learned in life are through experience rather than being told. People need to teach their sons better, rather than blaming women for not seeing through the game, because some game is far more slick than other game. You always have people saying "pick better men" to women, while I say, "raise better men" and stop the "boys will be boys" mentality, where most of the problem stems from.

@MeganWall1019 2 года назад

Stop blaming women for giving people chances when the men are clearly liars and two faced and then letting shit characters off the hook

@k.d.6114 2 года назад

Yeeeesss!! I just said I’m my thirties learning to trust myself

@sharonmaxson9777 Год назад

I'm with her. I can't be with someone I don't like. And it hurts when you've been with someone that only wants you for sex.

@truetwinflameandspirituala8211 Год назад

Women do this too. I have. Women give our power away too often and worship males too much. Let's be honest, Women are low-key doing this too.

@Calida Год назад

My feelings got real hurt this episode 😂😭😂

@vernonpaigejr.1517 Год назад

Reason men have side chicks. Only for the sex, men 90% of the time never leave his woman for another woman.

@josiahkudakwashe Год назад

lol how does one know that the one they like, likes them back, you may like someone who doesnt like you even as half the way you do, and actually not like someone genuine, so how does that work

@winning3329 Год назад

Men are incapable of love and empathy and they have said that they see s3x as a hand shake and nothing special.

@annaclaire9927 Год назад

Best to forget about men and buy a puppy. At least a dog is loyal.

@priyanshiwadhwa8309 5 месяцев назад

Adopt 💕

@patriciasenter7601 5 месяцев назад

Right 👍

@ChiamakaUkachi-sk3mp 4 месяца назад

Lol😂😂😂

@loref4552 2 года назад

When two ppl have sex, it's never just physical, their souls intertwine doesn't matter what gender you are. Casual sex is spiritually toxic

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@nuellyvee 2 года назад

most of us would want to deny, but it's true

@emperorshe1644 2 года назад

Agreed, Most definitely. I learned this many years ago!

@carolaherget6876 2 года назад

You said it thanks 😊

@reneesaccount5095 2 года назад

If you desire a man, you need to realize he more than likely won't see it the same. Learn to protect you.

@CarlyO1092 Год назад

Ladies, if you are an empath or highly emotional especially, remember that when you feel like you are “falling in love” “head over heels” YOU are releasing those chemicals and feeling those feels. Essentially, you have allowed yourself to create those feelings. The problem is that that feeling of falling in love feels so good that you convince yourself its only because the other person must feel the same way. Truthfully they may not be feeling the same way at all. TRUE “love” is a CHOICE made by both partners, with the expectation that the highly emotional feelings of lust are going to subside at some point. Do not confuse lust with true love. I think romance stories as children really set us up for failure. They all paint lustful, young “love” relationships as true love and the gold standard. The real gold standard is the person who makes the choice to commit to you, who has seen you at your worst and best, and still chooses you even after the excited lustful feelings fade!

@annengendo6819 Год назад

This right here is truth that really speaks to me. Thank you for this insight.

@CarlyO1092 Год назад

@@annengendo6819 thank you for the kind words and glad mine resonated with you!

@emd1494 Год назад

I was with most of what you said... however I don't believe love is a "choice" you can't help who you love and it goes both ways... even when you don't want to love them anymore and make a choice not to, it's not that easy or black and white with matters of the heart.

@eseosafadaka395 Год назад

If you're an empath you'll have a strong intuition. You'll know when the emotions you are feeling are not yours. You're like a walking lie detector, it's nearly impossible for anyone to fool you unless you let yourself not see it. You need to learn to separate your emotions from what others are projecting around you. If not that's a big problem.

@mariatravieso5226 Год назад

Well said.

@latashalee7275 2 года назад

I most definitely can’t sleep with a man that I’m not attracted to hell I can’t even kiss a man I’m not attracted to.

@jayc5756 2 года назад

Thats cause most men date casually most of the time, so it is what it is.

@brendajones9110 2 года назад

Got that right!!!

@jasmincass573 2 года назад

Chile.

@nicolejennings3339 2 года назад

I have, because at the time, I felt like I had to, it was horrible but oh well just for that seconds it lasted & then I got out of there quick.

@jayc5756 2 года назад

@@nicolejennings3339 LMAO!!! 😂😂

@pattylyons9645 11 месяцев назад

To quote another dating coach "Women are the gatekeepers when it comes to sex, men are the gatekeepers when it comes to commitment".

@TheRealNelsons 10 месяцев назад

That’s good

@maryloucarey3886 7 месяцев назад

Just because people think that way doesn’t make it right. That basically says men aren’t capable of having morals of their own.

@talibahdivine 5 месяцев назад

Damn I love that

@Tnc874 5 месяцев назад

That's fine. He can go pump and release on another woman's body. Keep your legs/gate closed to the honey pot.

@yolaaaaa120 5 месяцев назад

Kevin samuels

@angelique2653 2 года назад

I was very happily married to a beautiful man for 33 years. Sadly, he passed recently. Our happiness was based on the fact that we loved each other more than we loved ourselves. We accepted our little flaws. We supported each other during bad times. We had great chemistry which was deeply spiritual as well as,physical. Importantly, we never tried to change one another. We had opposite personalities but shared values and interests. We travelled a lot. We didnt care about status or wealth. I am blessed to have joyful memories. Ditch all the " high value" rubbish! Good health and great Love are all that matter in this short Life. 💚💙💜🙏🙏🙏

@hatpb Год назад

That’s beautiful. I’m sorry for your loss ❤

@ashrise Год назад

That's a beautiful relationship ! My condolences.

@vanessak7069 Год назад

Thank you God bless you💕

@Ramanhere468 Год назад

Well said, Angelique

@adriennerobinson1180 Год назад

Oh no, MY Heartfelt Condolences to You and your Family.

@Pinkflo363 2 года назад

When he said “women like masculine energy not bad boys” I thought to myself Yesssss 👏🏽. That’s exactly correct. It is a primal instinct of ours. Can you hunt and gather the food, or do you watch someone else do all the work? Its a turn on to meet manly men.

@mrs.w8193 2 года назад

I take it farther, women like toxic masculine energy. The bad boy troupe is toxic. That men have to be macho, tough, violent, a rule breaker. That’s not necessarily masculine

@aswadsyednaz3073 2 года назад

Bad boys DO give masculine energy LMFAO. Bad boys Are the masculine definition for a man now. Because they have both masculine features (the ones you like and the toxic ones that you dont like) Thats why you prefer a bad boy over a nice guy. The nice guy doesnt have masculine energy but remember ladies,I have knowledge on how men act and be aware of this: When a man has a lot of things (money,power,attractive face, good body + confidence) which are the things that most of you want,they are less likely to stay loyal because they can get any girl so my advise would be that you need to choose better,there are good men out there and we dont have extreme masculine energy. Choose wisely,do you prefer a man who cheats on you or a man who stays loyal? Having both is just being selfish,you cannot change the natural behaviour of men for your sake. I am giving you advise for you to not get hurt by the players,if you want to keep going for them then its fine is your decision but its never a good long term decision. Go for the good men early in life (20-25) instead of trying to find them at 30 or over and avoid toxic men.

@aswadsyednaz3073 2 года назад

@Louis Kingsta There are good men out there,the issue is that the majority of them would never approach a girl,they are either not masculine enough to be confident to do it or they just are not interested in girls at the moment,maybe they are studying( like i am doing) or maybe they are focusing on working and getting wealthy or healthy physically,but at some point in their lifes we consider getting a family.Its up to us to decide we want it or not so everyone is free to do their choice and I think thats fine. "fake nice guys" would do whatever it takes to get sex lol. I know how their game is,but genuinely nice guys are usually invisible to girls,since we dont even try it because we lack qualities that girls find attractive(amazing social skill,tall,confidence,good physique, good career or jobs etc...) and we are trying to achieve some of them. Real nice guys exist,but they are usually not THAT interested in girls so they are hard to find. My parents have always told me to be careful about women,so I try to avoid anything related to complimenting a woman,trying to get a number of anything regarding women interaction for now because I might look creepy of I try or my reputation in my friends group or job could go to waste. I do not have what they want,and thats fine,I will work up to there though,since I am 19 I have so much time to improve. As for the fake nice guys,listen,humans can lie,both men and women. We also have it tough when we run into people like Amber Heard thinking we could be happy but we are being manipulated or used (I have been used to pay for something for a girl without even realising) so its up to decide which whom we wanna spend time with and we cannot detect liars,gold diggers,or those who put men into friendzone and manipulate their feelings you know,its the same for us. Be confident with what you want and happy if you would like to change and try diff things. Have a great day.

@eveyantha3142 2 года назад

@@aswadsyednaz3073 p

@ImranKhan-tj3dr 2 года назад

@@eveyantha3142 Hi 🙋🙋 I love u so so much really I like u seriousely I m alone single 👧👧😍😍❤❤🌷🌷🙋🙋

@august8158 2 года назад

Yesss!! Intuition is EVERYTHING! Ladies, asking for a sign IS a sign! Trust your gut... ALWAYS 🙏🏾❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Always important to listen to your intuition

@jayc5756 2 года назад

Exactly

@MsTachi 2 года назад

You will never go wrong. My intuition and finding proof saved me from going in a marriage full of lies.💯

@LRamey 2 года назад

Powerful!!!!!

@wesodopefamily 2 года назад

This is so true what she is saying about us being to hard.

@Cmrsvrd 10 месяцев назад

Bottom line is don’t get into a sexual relationship until there is exclusivity. Men will stay with you if you are convenient and meet their needs. Doesn’t mean they care. They are waiting until they find someone they are in love with.

@adrianporter4554 9 месяцев назад

So accurate!!

@alexiscarte5044 9 месяцев назад

And a lot of them can't commit or stay when in love either bc they don't know how to

@lisabarcia7107 6 месяцев назад

This is just so heartbreaking 😢

@Yay-hovah 4 месяца назад

They will only make you believe they are committed.

@lo.p4089 2 года назад

I asked my now-husband loads of questions when we met, 12 years ago - financial, morals, etc. Turns out he lied about loads of stuff. He just admitted it one year ago. He had debts he was hiding, and told loads of other lies. Kept stuff secret for 11 years. So, asking questions does not guarantee you get to know them. I'm gutted.

@MessengerofTruth222 2 года назад

With this narcissist epidemic spreading, it's very hard to find truthful people. Be careful out there

@thedrflo4558 2 года назад

Lo. P, I feel you Sis! I’m learning to do vetting when I 1st meet a man, it’s more than asking questions. I think Mr. Stephan has a video on that. Vetting goes deeper than questions. Sending you much love and light ☀️

@habeshasister11 2 года назад

Was he able to fix those things while y’all were together?

@prettybrownskingirl4992 2 года назад

Yes my husband lied about a lot of things and we are going through a divorce now

@-beTHEchange-123- 2 года назад

I would bet there are much more than you know about with him, and more to come. Ya

@reginajackson9184 2 года назад

“If you let someone talk enough they’re going to expose themselves” you are you 100% correct, and I have now been learning to spot the red flags right out the gate, Talk about it if necessary or otherwise be strong enough to move on😌

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@JKT.life_Keshia 2 года назад

I wish I could like this 10,000 times! I always know! It’s just that I convinced myself it was something else!!

@jayc5756 2 года назад

Exactly

@mygrace77 2 года назад

That's the key word, being STRONG enough.

@marissapacheco9840 2 года назад

Real matured men understand that with us ladies on an emotional and mental level. The immature guys don't really get it and just go on to the next woman like nothing smh. Some men think we're being difficult and not making things easy for them but we want someone to not just make love to us but understand us on an emotional level and that respects woman and themselves enough to not sleep with many woman like a dog. A real man that respects his body will not just sleep with anyone just because she's easy to get. A decent man of God wouldn't like that for himself. I have so much respect for men like that.

@Love-ic4fs Год назад

“If they run away because you go deeper then they are not for you “ 🎉❤

@potatokid7193 Год назад

Then* ffs

@jasaitoussaint9896 Год назад

That don't make sense

@asiadp Год назад

I thought girls liked it deeper tho ? I’m immature ignore me 🥲

@InkHearted448 Год назад

@@asiadpXD

@RiverB.x Год назад

My advice is NEVER sleep with a man too early and never give too much away. Get to know a man for a few months in a respectful manner, going on dates, talking on the phone, getting to know each other on a deeper level. Build the emotional connection before the intimate. And by not giving too much away, you’ll keep them guessing whether you even want something long-term with them and not give them the arrogance that the ball is in their court and it’s up to them if things progress or not. You’ll soon weed out the men who are just after your body or are inconsistent.

@etcwhatever Год назад

For me no sex before marriage. I was engaged and did the mistake of living with him. In my house. I regret this very much. Actually i regret losing my virginity in my 20s. Im in love with purity. I want a man like me who repented and is living as God commanded. Someone with a similar path. Who wants a wife and a friend and who wont jump my skirt before marriage. After marriage its a different story.. 😂😂

@akalv27 Год назад

I’m on the other side of that coin. If it ain’t it in bed, it ain’t it at all. Waste of time. Dude could be sweet as pie and loving, caring etc. but you wait months and then find out he ain’t anything of what you want in the bedroom… you just wasted a whole bunch of time 🤷🏻‍♀️

@RiverB.x 11 месяцев назад

@@etcwhatever I agree. Me and my partner are also trying to save ourselves for marriage. It really makes a HUGE difference when you’re evenly yolked and both on the same page. I tried bringing celibacy up with my ex and it caused drama. When I brought celibacy up a few dates in with my current partner, he was all for it! We’re now nearly 1 year in and compatible on every level ❤️ I hope you find your man and good on your for setting those boundaries 🙌🏻

@BeastModeXCIII 11 месяцев назад

Sounds like you haven’t considered the very real possibility that performance in the bedroom is something you can learn and develop over time

@akalv27 11 месяцев назад

@@BeastModeXCIIInah of course that’s a very real possibility, like you say. But I personally don’t want to spend time teaching someone I’d rather them already know. To each their own

@sunshinedayz7032 2 года назад

That is why we get into bad relationships- "Rules are for people we don't like" We drop our boundaries and let rules go when we like someone. It makes us weak and vulnerable before we know that person's character.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@musicmaker1311 2 года назад

THIS👆🏾‼️‼️‼️‼️👏🏾

@annekajordan6952 2 года назад

So true, no rules & lowering your standards (even for people you like) can easily lead to your judgment being clouded.

@arielringo2141 2 года назад

We make rules for people/things we don't like but should set boundaries for things we want to preserve. Wow!

@_prettybrownbrown7729 2 года назад

True sis very true . I just learned this

@Uchechukwu777 2 года назад

"She's getting dudes who want her, she's just not getting the ones she wants to want her". This hit! 😿

@marissasharp9892 Год назад

Story of my life. 😔

@Sheena-bt6mw Год назад

Oh so true for me also.😥

@Sheena-bt6mw Год назад

I would love some help. I am elderly however I am funny, articulate and loving. In fact, I have it all however I can’t seem to find an equal and of course I am happy to compromise.

@ranata Год назад

Same here.

@akemi2929 Год назад

It was true for a while until now. The one who I'm dating rn loves me more than I do him. I was the one crushing on him first, and a close friend ratted me out. Didn't realize he'll fall deeper eventually. Feels unreal. Icing on the cake: He believes in Celibacy. I do too, but not for religious reasons. I do for emotional and attachment reasons.

@hopefuluproar7464 2 года назад

No feelings hurt. We all have value. Personally, I rather digest the sometimes bitter truth, than keep sipping on a slow poisonous lie. Thank you both, for this enlightening interview

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

@jemmafrizzell2901 2 года назад

Wow !!!! 😊♥️❤️ what powerful words you have used Orchid Bliss. I am screenshotting/ saving this to my gallery, because l want to remind myself of this and keep digesting this again and again and again, so thank you. Sometimes l am my own worst enemy, and l don't value myself enough, so l have casual encounters, then realise the man doesn't care for me, and why am l here ? Then l repeat the encounter, which results in me hating myself. I am trying to be a better person now, because I need to be. I am going to watch the interview now 😊 xx

@MrAllysonn 2 года назад

Same here! I'll digest the bitter truth! 🖤

@susananderson4835 2 года назад

@@jemmafrizzell2901 but we're all human so forgive yrself & don't repeat if it upsets you. Most women bond thru sex which is y its so much better when Yr with someone u like & who likes u back x

@nellyswagg 2 года назад

Same!! Truth is always better than a lie 👌🏾👏🏽👏🏽

@shemikamedlock Год назад

I absolutely LOVE her questions and how she’s conducting this interview! I’m learning SOOOO much from his answers!

@MeetStephanSpeaks Год назад

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

@kidchocolate9253 2 года назад

My brother told me, men are very transparent if you listen to them they will tell you exactly what they want you just have to listen. Also, don't play hard to get, be hard to get.

@Venus_Pkwy 2 года назад

Yessssss a whole sermon my last relationship taught me not to play hard, but to be hard to get.

@claudidadi6633 2 года назад

Yes!!! Men are easy to deal with. Women tend to complicate things.

@anamariam5391 2 года назад

I love listening to him because he is very realistic and objective, friendly and with common sense.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

@ajjajk 2 года назад

he was a little defensive yrs ago, but now he’s more open minded to both sides.

@tonirayemoss4813 2 года назад

He does seem friendly but he has a tendency to speak as though he is an authority on all men and women. One minute he says "some men" next minute he says "men". He also questions the possibility of a man being able to pull the wool over a woman's eyes when, in fact, I know men who are very good at portraying one role and years later you discover they were someone different. When your instincts kick in, follow them. Eventually, the truth will be revealed.

@sylviahernandez4977 2 года назад

Love him too ! I learn so much with him

@inasyal6311 2 года назад

@@tonirayemoss4813 yes he rarely speaks of Narcissist

@livb3420 2 года назад

This interview cuts like a knife. When you think you’ve healed from past partners and a conversation comes around to remind you…😢 Discernment is power.

@musicmaker1311 2 года назад

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💜

@kaoshi_kutie 2 года назад

Don’t worry girl , you and me both!! We will heal ❤️❤️

@dominiquefelder1809 2 года назад

Amen!

@kwashaburts933 2 года назад

Oh man take this as a learning experience. Things will always come around to make you feel guilty. I'm praying for your healing.

@carivera199 2 года назад

Facts.

@smish0688 Год назад

“If they run away because you’re diving deeper they’re not for you” I love that-so true. I like the way this man is explaining everything straight out even though it’s hurting some feelings😂 online dating has felt like such a waste of time

@etcwhatever Год назад

Online dating was a minefield for me. I gave up.

@saynotohookups 11 месяцев назад

I don't bother with online dating. The dating sites are a joke.

@dawntheeducator7455 10 месяцев назад

I hate on line dating.. complete BS!

@HapillyMe 10 месяцев назад

Online dating sucks. What's up with these men?

@number-uz1es 8 месяцев назад

Just play around with them- the main mistake girls make is thinking is legit. It’s should be a quantity of quality thing - because your not gunna get quality with those apps. Talking to 5 dude rn, no heartache babes 😂.

@cmonjes 2 года назад

"A lot of the times, women don't get played. They play themselves." True!!!🤛 ..."They sense that something is not right, but again they try to ignore it."

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

You're absolutely right and they end up setting themselves up for disaster.

@candicedawson4264 2 года назад

This is so true!

@cheryl6smith-mcinnis232 2 года назад

Yup agreed , these women are so pathetic and will settle for anything. They need to start checking their own motives. Women gotta treat these nigga’s the way they treat women. Stop following your emotions get your shit off and keep it moving!!!! Think like a man

@vivienneink 2 года назад

There are also women who do the same. It really depends on mindset! Know what you want because interest doesn’t equate to relationship. And sex doesn’t equate to interest as well.

@eveheart2876 2 года назад

Women be hopeful. That’s the problem. I been hopeful once. Never again

@IAMIB 2 года назад

As a 21 year old young lady myself, I think I just made my mind up officially to just be single, rich, and travel the world with my family. This dating game is becoming a bit boring & useless having to be on the look out for so many red flags. It takes the fun out of it for me. Lol So I’m good on “mEn”. 🥴More to life than getting heart broken back to back just to find Mr.Right. Rather do something else with my time. Great content though! Ladies… I will say though that it’s more to life than just being in love with a guy. There’s other things to be in love with like our passions, volunteering in the neighborhood, teaching our younger girls about self-love; things like that. Anything that can get our mind off of feeling like we need a man to make us happy. I used to think having a man was the ultimate goal, or like a prize, or trophy, but I’ve learned that it’s really, not. 😐 Kinda the other way around at this point. 🤧 Lol, but I’m sure there are good men out there. Feel sorry for them though because women get burnt out & too hardened by time they get ahold to them. Lol So…. Yeah. Good luck with y’all’s dating life. 🥴🥳💕

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Before you give up on dating try changing your focus from dating to learning and you will start to see positive results in your dating experiences ❤ 🙏

@IAMIB 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks okay, I can put my pride aside and try that out. Lol Thanks. 🧘🏽‍♀️💕

@ashleyjasmine7534 2 года назад

Your comment resonated so much to me. I’m also 21 and dating is not on radar . These “mEn” are something else

@oritsenojorvwede8926 2 года назад

Business??

@tbanda 2 года назад

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👌

@bmask4731 Год назад

Never get attached to a person, as hard as it may be, until they prove themselves!

@zen_mindset1 11 месяцев назад

Facts

@cryptogirliebtc3987 10 месяцев назад

“ If they run away because you’re diving deeper they’re not for you “ amen 🙏

@Brownsuga27 Год назад

This is healthy dialogue. Stephan is experienced & well versed in relationships. He touched on many key points & as a women there are many take aways I will apply to my personal life moving forward. 👏🏽

@justanoldsnufkin9747 Год назад

I agree, it's such a healthy dialogue, so pleasing to listen

@Co33coco Год назад

I agree.

@sophiesmith4563 Год назад

@tweetibyrd3962 2 года назад

It's totally messed up that women have to do this much work to get someone to be honorable to them. I think it's a really poor factor in men that they are so weak sexually that they can't even treat a woman in the way that she treats him. I think it absolutely sucks that a good woman has to go through so much just to get a man to think of her is more than a piece of ass. This is why I just stopped there's absolutely nothing out there that can treat me the way that I would treat it. Men are always playing games I won't play myself because I'm not even gonna deal with them. I will live my best life and I am living my best life now that I'm not in a relationship catering to some idiot Something in the way that men are wired is being explained here and I believe it. So basically men just a waste of time period it would take so much and so much energy to find "" the right one.. That we could be doing a whole bunch more with our life. Move on. If the right 1 shows up in your circle then hes just gonna show up because God dropped him there. But it's a waste of time shopping through men dating through men trying to get to know men because all they are are lying sex hounds. They never actually hear you mentally or spiritually they will fake you out. So the best way not to play yourself is to leave them mofos alone. I build my life I build my businesses I bought my home I'm doing so much better than I ever was with a man. I'm not saying that I agree with women that say that they don't need a man but men don't give you a lot to want about them.

@adriennerobinson1180 Год назад

Truth Indeed AMEN

@gorgeousfrazier5903 Год назад

💯

@christianrodriguez5346 3 месяца назад

I am a good man and I have insane level of sexual discipline. I never had sex with my exes and God knows that cause I am saving myself for my future wife. I always been a good lover too. I met a good woman and she is Christian as well. I just hope she saved herself cause having the discipline as a guy is not easy at all.

@michelleb8337 Год назад

If ppl would just follow Gods plan. There wouldn’t be all this confusion, heartache, and feeling used. God designed sex for marriage only between one man and woman for life. Anything less than this makes a person feel used and totally cheapens sex to simply a physical act to be selfishly enjoyed. But sex in marriage is a very powerful connection both emotionally and physically that God designed to strengthen the marriage bond.

@IAMNEO.THEONE Год назад

Wow guys are heartless basically

@annlatham 2 года назад

If you feel like you’re getting the bare minimum then that man don’t deserve sex. PeriodT.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@007amy-n1b 2 года назад

Yes, this why i grew hearing no ring no thing.

@amab1853 2 года назад

Exactly 💯 we as women have to stop rewarding bad behavior from men that are not treating us the right way

@kennethpurcell262 2 года назад

Bad behavior should not be rewarded but do understand if your partner is not getting what they want or need from you…. They will get it, if they really want it!

@annlatham 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you for all of the hard work! We appreciate it!

@shereenlovelace6217 2 года назад

Omg! When he said "Potential is an imaginary perception." I went through that with my ex. He could have been more, but he was comfortable as he was. Glad we ended things.

@pekoml3999 2 года назад

Yeah we hold on to a potential but it's all fantasy. Crazy how we play ourselves...

@Bea.ASMR. 2 года назад

sAME

@lyahazuki9728 2 года назад

🤣🤣 nice!

@shirleydaniels9310 2 года назад

Exactly why I'm single and sexless for five years and so happy and grateful for my peace and tranquility

@katherinedelva4870 2 года назад

Same

@musicmaker1311 2 года назад

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@ashleyjasmine7534 2 года назад

I can’t wait to be in a place like that . Peace and clarity

@ellenjohnston1312 2 года назад

Absolutely

@AFFTFOMSICHTS 2 года назад

Same never been happier and more emotionally stable since I completely stopped dating and having seggs.

@seriousbutfunny2 Год назад

Enjoyed the conversation. I'd like to add that trauma (emotional and physical) plays a huge role in how vulnerable people feel in relation to another. It's an unconscious thing that people bring/carry with them. I moved to a place where I was around individuals who grew up in households where they were loved and valued. And their marriages and relationships with their family and friends looks and feels completely different from where I came from. It gave me a template of what healthy love is. Now I will add the people that I know who did experience trauma throughout their childhoods, are human beings who desire and deserve love, just don't have the tools or template on how to give or receive it. May they find that path in their life too. This is my prayer.

@emily4360 Год назад

Therefore, everyone is supposed to go to therapy, you can learn so many things and tools for having and maintaining a healthy relationship

@maryellwood3653 9 месяцев назад

💯 you are spot on, there are many kids who grew up with all sorts of trauma and were never taught or experienced the love that they should have and have carried this with them. This has a huge effect on future relationships and trust and being vulnerable. Sometimes it's impossible for them to trust.

@SatumainenOlento 7 месяцев назад

And it is not the therapy which is teaching you the best, but to actually see healthy love, healthy relationship template playing out in your surroundings. You need that template! That's why trauma runs in generations when there is no healthy templates around to follow 😢

@EllieM_Travels Год назад

Women have nails and their hair did, nice clothes, high heels…. I’m disabled and can’t do all that, so I used to try to be extra cute and fun. Maturity taught me to stop that. As soon as I started loving myself as is, a really amazing guy came along and asked me out. Go figure.

@m.b.1702 Год назад

Guard your bodies Ladies at all cost!!!! 🛑

@Christina_320 10 месяцев назад

No ring, no fling!

@tsims1983able 2 года назад

I really love how he gives the real but not condescending to women. All women, especially black women need to hear what he has to say. Love it.

@fashionblows4158 2 года назад

Why especially Black women?

@tsims1983able 2 года назад

@@fashionblows4158 bc these are things that black women unfortunately are just not taught. Most learn thru trial and error and others never learn at all.

@annawallace3264 4 месяца назад

doesn’t relate to color, it relates to how women are raised…my Dad passed when I was 13 and I wasn’t taught much.

@CT97559 Год назад

Dating is exhausting. There’s a lot that my dad didn’t teach me and I ended up making mistakes in my late 20s and now Early 30s that I should’ve made in my teens and early 20s. It’s hard because men aren’t serious these days so I’m gonna work on being okay with being alone. I wish everyone the best of luck!

@beverleyreid7572 Год назад

I agree with you. It's not even worth it anymore.

@TomikaKelly Год назад

Lol, this entire conversation, when put into practice irl, just sounds overwhelming, exhausting, and daunting.

@CT97559 Год назад

@@TomikaKelly what’s your thoughts on dating in today’s times?

@shyannleah5945 Год назад

Same here 😭 I’ll be 26 soon so I’m just glad I’m realizing a lot of things now rather than later

@saynotohookups 11 месяцев назад

I just got out of a relationship with a man who is 58 years old and still playing the same games that teenagers play.

@DenelsiaWalker Год назад

How we perceive ourselves is not always how others see us. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

@CrystalDatingCoach Год назад

Be with people who perceive you as you do.

@etcwhatever Год назад

@@CrystalDatingCoachim not sure about this. Sometimes we lack self awareness. Its important to get therapy if needed to fix issues.

@alaalfa8839 9 месяцев назад

If sex is a routine it's not sex. It's a robot vacuum cleaner. :) or dishwasher that looks like a human, but has no human emotion. If a man is a robot with no human emotion, then he must be very bored. It is the same with junk food. You eat junk food only when you are bored to decrease boredom, but it creates no freedom but more boredom. the boredom multiplies. Intimacy is also emotional intimacy separatedly from sex and its beautiful.

@godsgirl724 2 года назад

“If they’re running away because you’re diving deeper…they’re not for you.” 💯

@liv6316 2 года назад

My man and I started out with casual sex and it led to dinners and longer talks. Now we 4 years together. Communication and respect is on point. I think finding someone right for you is completely by chance and that’s a beautiful and difficult thing at the same time

@sarahvesa1655 2 года назад

Yes....this video lends to toxic views of men and women that break down communication. Be intentional and honest and communicate constantly.....don't come to randos on RU-vid to learn about the opposite sex

@shamajabrown9749 2 года назад

This honestly doesn't work out that way for everyone, most get the short end of the stick

@kirstenbrogan5958 2 года назад

If he meets someone he wants to marry, he will. 4vyears in and he isn't willing to take it to marriage?

@12breevans 2 года назад

@@kirstenbrogan5958 this is the issue… everyone is forever promoting marriage because of years… what if they’re both okay with where they are at… what if both of them are not ready for marriage? the last thing you need is someone coming in questioning what they feel regarding their relationship. Shidd i feel whatever works for them works for them.. people seem to forget that they are not the ones in the relationship

@geustache3874 2 года назад

This sounds exactly like me. We were friends first for like 8months and then turned to friend with benefits then being together for 4 years. We just got engaged!! We always talk about how we never thought we would be here but I have really found my person and I’m so blessed. I thank God every day! ☺️☺️

@amayalewis6933 Год назад

I cannot imagine sleeping with someone I’m not attracted to. That’s wild.

@itsmeonyeka2890 Год назад

90% of what my Dad tells me. I am happy I have a Dad who talks about these things to me at 14 years old.

@homehelpheart7440 Год назад

You are so lucky to have that! I was born and raised in the 50s and my parents never said a single word about anything related to sex relationships anything so consider yourself very very blessed!

@AriesWarrior69 Год назад

I wasn't allowed to date at your age and I feel it has hindered me when I got older. I never knew what to look for in a date. Don't chase men. It's exhausting and it back fires. Let them come to you. You're the master of your own destiny. It's good that your dad talks to you. 80's and 90's sex talks were still a little taboo.

@fleur5103 Год назад

i have similar convos with my dad lol. he's a very open person, and i like that he's transparent about sex, drugs, drinking etc.. he explains that although these things can be enjoyable it's also important to be aware of the risks and how you can stay safe.

@7avdes Год назад

i wish mine did too but in my family, it’s considered weird for a man to talk about such things to his daughter, the mother should do it, and now when a convo of fhat subject comes up when i’m with my dad, it’s just plain awkward

@usagixoxo Год назад

Same!!

@Mskiraven 2 года назад

Men view sex as a fun activity. Men don’t think about pregnancy, emotions or starting a family when they think about sex.

@ejay7618 2 года назад

👏🏼🙃😉yes

@sabrinapayal6101 2 года назад

So true

@darlenebush9134 2 года назад

Ditto!!

@danilaroche1156 2 года назад

That is a huge generalization. Just not true. I know responsible, caring, men staying chaste till marriage. These men are Christians though. Followers of Christ.

@milana2020 2 года назад

@@danilaroche1156 not really. Not every man who thinks that way is Christian. Now that’s generalization

@leopardlily3398 2 года назад

Just wanted to mention, as a woman, you may not like getting your hair and nails done, wearing makeup etc doesn’t mean you don’t like taking care of yourself. There’s many ways to take care of yourself that don’t include those particular things.

@monakool1708 2 года назад

I think he wasn’t excluding women who don’t like getting hair and nails done.He was just telling his preference.Cheers

@MissJoannaGee 2 года назад

1000% agree.

@mrs.w8193 2 года назад

Exactly. I hate fake lashes, nails and all that’s crap. I do my own nails and my own hair. I don’t like makeup. I only use on occasion. But I also eat healthy, workout 4 days a week I drink water, I take care of my health and I have a skin regimen. I just hate the frills and extras

@jenniferwright9749 2 года назад

Taking care of yourself could also include taking care of your financials, taking care of your body etc.

@mmaya772 2 года назад

Me too boo!* @@mrs.w8193

@theresabell2492 Год назад

I love being single. These men don't want relationships they just want sex period.😢😢

@saynotohookups 10 месяцев назад

I have more respect for the men who are honest about that from the get go. Normally the men I met are like, "I want a relationship too blah, blah, blah." when they don't.

@christianrodriguez5346 3 месяца назад

Most do not all. I am one that can’t have sex for faith reasons. I want to love the person and see if she is compatible. If both check off then easily for me long term material. I just matured very early on. I am 22 and I met my girl and she respects herself too. So we chilling. You are what you attract

@meashajensen4111 2 года назад

Women have an abundance mindset when it comes to sex. We can very easily deny a sexual advance bc we know there will always have another opportunity to have sex whenever we choose. Women sleep with who we want, men sleep with who they can

@kimberly329 2 года назад

I’ve heard this several times before. However, I think this narrative isn’t as accurate as we think. Women absolutely get turned down for sex. Women desire men that don’t feel the same way and those guys don’t attempt to use them for sex. Some women have no one to call for sexual gratification. This becomes more true as you get older.

@bluejaysmedicmike6831 2 года назад

Facts as a man with a rating of looks of a 5 or 5.5 like me, men are not picky about S3X, men be thinking my Balls be dry for a while I must fix this

@anneb889 2 года назад

@@kimberly329 As you said, women get turned down by men they want…..a woman can get sexual gratification, she will just have to lower her standards. And some women’s standards do seem a little extreme.

@kimberly329 2 года назад

@@anneb889 Lowering her standards to get sexual gratification takes the same effort if a man lowered his standards. We’re equal on that one. Not all or even most (perhaps) women have men on speed dial ready, willing, and waiting. I don’t think some women’s standards are extreme. They just seem ridiculous considering what’s really important and/or considering what they themselves offer.

@anneb889 2 года назад

@@kimberly329 The difference is if a women, even an average basic 5 walked up to a dozen men in a bar and asked if he wanted to have sex….likely at least half would say, okay. If an average 5 guy did the same thing, he would be slapped and drinks thrown in his face….very doubtful he would get any woman saying yes.

@annekajordan6952 2 года назад

It’s such a shame how there are some men out there who can be so blasé about having casual sex with multiple women because they don’t feel an emotional tie; but fail to realise that just because it may not have an emotional impact, that doesn’t mean that there isn’t a spiritual impact. No judgment at all but if those men really knew what was actually going on behind the spiritual scenes, they would think twice.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

It definitely isn't an easy situation but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

@mangoesnbreadfruit01 2 года назад

Not only spiritual....but their actual health. Men think they can go around having sex with multiple women, often unprotected, and they won't get any STDs? LMFAO. And when they don't go to the doctor regularly, or get STD tests just to make sure they're fine, plus they will never be honest about their sexual history to the women his having sex with.....he'll end up getting an STD and giving it to one or all of those women. Not only that, there's STDs that cause cancer. Also, when men and women engage in oral sex outside of marriage or a serious relationship, they put themselves at risk for mouth cancer, throat cancer and stomach cancer. And guess what, none of those guys will be coming back to take care of that woman if she gets cancer (same with the reverse). Men always think about the "fun", but never the consequences and repercussions.

@ddenise8428 2 года назад

Yeah there's no emotional impact for them! But the woman is emotionally and spiritually impacted... But who cares? Right?? 🙏

@lisawilliams779 2 года назад

Totally agree! Soul ties!

@xocarleeryan 2 года назад

Agree, it’s disturbing they feel the need to do this, but they are addicted to the release, and detached from their discipline and emotions of hurting a woman.

@lazygam3r183 2 года назад

Ladies dont give up all hope. There aremen who want to experience true love and romance and men who think sex is much deeper than simply being pleasurable. For me sex is about the connection.. about intimacy and being as close as I possibly can to another human being. So yes.. we do exist. Edit: and I dont just mean in a loving, sweet, sensual kind of way. Although that does have its place for sure but I'm more talking about fiery, intense, animalistic passion and desire

@carlinepreece6313 2 года назад

There just isn’t enough to around by far the minimal which means everyone else is stuck with liars ,infidel , beggars and broke ass drunk heads dope smoking thieves !

@cynthialinus5187 2 года назад

Greater percentage of family oriented, responsible men are mostly found among 48,50 ,60 men, cos most younger men have not realized what dey want, at DAT young age dey don't wanna play with their freedom, am not saying all I said greater percentage, run away from Most gym oriented guys, do older men , dont participate, just watch listen observe wot he wants, don't influence his wants, den u have it

@adriennerobinson1180 Год назад

Truth Indeed

@christianrodriguez5346 3 месяца назад

@@cynthialinus5187I could care less about the math about that. I am 22 and I have stuck to my values and principles. I know plenty of guys who are my age and respect women and don’t like casual sex. You are what you attract

@dreamlight3649 Год назад

As a person who lost her father at a young age, this advice is enlightening.

@elrnballday Год назад

22:16

@corieb1379 11 месяцев назад

Read “what ever happened to daddy’s little girl.” LIFE CHANGING ❤

@jwh648 11 месяцев назад

Respect yourself Baby girl

@KestrelHime Год назад

"your intuition will tell you if he's lying" Love that it's the responsibility of the woman to discern when men are bullshiting 🙄 and if we get tricked by literal lies we're "playing ourselves" 🙄

@alannahrose5 Год назад

I agree it is bullshit and shaming women. Yes you need to know your worth and build a strong emotional connection/friendship first to feel safety. But it doesn’t mean it’s your fault if he wasn’t honest or withheld information. Wtf.

@piyu2003 Год назад

Also, when women are tricked with lies, they still stick with the men due to some reasons whether it be the fear of missing out or the emotional attachment to them, they still choose to not leave them. That's what he meant by getting played, because it's easy for some men to say that since they are not in touch with our emotional nature

@_brianaadams Год назад

Naturally, It is everyone’s responsibility no matter the gender, to discern and test the “fruits” of everyone in your life! No one can live a lie for long nor maintain a lie for so long until that lie starts to unfold! I believe that we receive numerous of signs but choose to ignore them because of our feelings and the potential we may see in that person. No, it’s not your fault but a human’s responsibility is to move with wisdom and in all honesty, with everyone so desperate for some form of love, we’re bound to fall prey to liers and deceivers if you don’t guard your heart!

@Mzalphabody Год назад

I get what you’re saying but that wasn’t the message. He explained it well. We as women KNOW when something is off. We may not know exactly what the lie is or what the red flag may be but we do KNOW when something isn’t right. We as women tend to over look certain things, especially our intuition when we genuinely like the person. Both of them spoke on this. Unfortunately, Liking someone causes a defect in judgement lol

@miakamei1751 Год назад

Women set the standard. It's that simple. I'm the woman, the feminine energy. I'm the ovum, not the sperm.

@クレア-p3c 2 года назад

In all honesty, you don't have to change for a man. Nor the man should change for you. I think the real beauty of love is if two people gets to love each other without changing themselves just to be appreciated by the other. The man who will love you is a man who saw you in any situation, bad or good, and still thought "She is the one I want". Same for the woman. In that regards, it's equality. A relationship begins with attraction, but without friendship, there is no relationship. That's all. When it comes to relationship, I just think it is important to go with the basics that you are searching for a friend that will be involved in your life more than your other friends.

@brw3079 Год назад

My wife made me want to be a better person. I didn't change because she wanted me to, I changed because she deserved a better person than I was. She managed to show me my defects without diminishing me. I told her my goal was to make her the happiest woman in the world.

@buoyanta3372 Год назад

I believe the true beauty is when both want to be better for each other. To make the relationship deeper and better. I've been working on myself so much I don't even get people saying 'we don't need to change for someone'. You don't change because of someone's whim. You evolve for your own better life. It's pretty naive to believe we are born with enough knowledge and wisdom. There's always room for the 'adventure to excellence', as Jordan Peterson says.

@claraisnotmebutilikeit Год назад

what you said is indeed ideal however sadly our minds are already poisoned by media and fiction .They make us see the bad in ppl as we tend to compare them to the unrealistic image portrayed by the media.

@Lorilores 2 года назад

I remember my dad sitting me down when I was young and telling me exactly that. Thank god. Saved me from a lot of hurt.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

❤ 🙏

@Sino.Kate. 2 года назад

Imagine us not having a father 💔. I'm happy for you sis ❤️

@sharonlittle7067 2 года назад

That's the exact reason why so many women know nothing about men. My dad, uncles, grandpa and older male cousins schooled me ,my sisters and female cousins about the mind of most men and what to look for in a qualified descent man. This generation is completely lost on relationship goals and life goals in general. God help them

@CoCoDeLaCruZ 2 года назад

God bless your dad. 🙏❤️

@Jhonny50cash 10 месяцев назад

This person is describing a Male that has no self- control. Men that have self respect will not touch anything that is repulsive to him.

@alisaben1 2 года назад

If you don't have discernment....PRAY FOR IT. I promise, God is faithful and doesn't want you to get played either. ALSO, you'll know them by their fruit....#TRUST #yourGUTisGod

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that 🙏

@pocahontas4583 2 года назад

This just reinforces my distrust for men at this point 🤦🏾‍♀️. Like, I don’t even wanna take that chance.

@yx5991 2 года назад

Life is full of taking risks and chances. You do it daily. You just have to be confident in yourself to be use your discernment and be wise when dating.

@christianrodriguez5346 3 месяца назад

Just save yourself for marriage. You can date guys and say no to sex. It shows his true colors. I am a guy and waiting for marriage and I have dated plenty of girls and each time I said I don’t want sec at all cause I want to know the person I am dealing with before I even considering long term relationships

@mangoesnbreadfruit01 2 года назад

During the first 5-10 mins of this video, when Stephan talked about how men view sex.....I was not shocked at all lol! I already knew. Once you understand that some men even marry women they don't like because he couldn't do better than her, LOL 😭 (and I'm not talking about arranged marriages that still happen in certain cultures). Once you understand how men view sex and women, it changes how you interact with them because u already peeped game. And definitely NEVER tell a guy for example, that you're doing the 90 day rule, or even what you're looking for in man, because he'll use it against you. He'll give an Oscar worthy performance until he can finally smash u, then leave. It's very nice to not deal with men 🙂

@sukiosartchannel3689 2 года назад

Nailed it! In addition, men marry women all the time for all sorts of reasons, very rarely for actual, real love.

@skyejacques 2 года назад

Thank you for this. Needed to gain this wisdom xx

@justalyssa464 2 года назад

90 day rule 🥹🤣. Ok Disneyworld is closed, ok there’s still Disneyland, Cederpoint, Six flags, Seaworld, universal studios……

@Kurio71 2 года назад

It's easy to get a man, harder to keep one. There's more to a relationship than just sex

@sexygabby30 2 года назад

@@Kurio71 yup males really need to take that in heed

@AFFTFOMSICHTS Год назад

I used to cringe when women co workers would brag about men wanting to hook up with them. I wanted to be like “yeah…you have a 💦🐱 ofc he does. That doesn’t mean anything or make you special, he would hook up with any of us if we were down.” it was sad bc they were truly clueless and legitimately thought that meant they liked them and wanted to possibly date them.

@dalmal13 Год назад

I used to think that way up until my early 30s. I'm 38 now and have realized that men hitting on me and / or wanting to get with me is not really anything to be proud of or even brag about. I wish I had realized that sooner.

@simplysarell1720 2 года назад

As a single woman I appreciate this conversation and his view point. I've definitely played myself in past relationships, and had to learn these lessons the hard way.

@ac1901 2 года назад

We all have!!!

@marifortanelli6505 2 года назад

Definitely one too many times. That’s it though NO MORE. sometimes we learn after the 3rd or fourth time….

@denises3779 2 года назад

You're not alone. I'm 42 and finally learned after multitudes of bullshit. Just telling myself not all men are fucked up. I finally woke up and smelled the dog shit. I tell men to shut up when approaching me I'm not interested. I'm focused on myself and selfish with my energy

@kiwibaby335 2 года назад

It's nice knowing I'm not alone cuz watching this video I felt embarrassed and insecure. But I'm only human and can only learn from the lessons and do better AND trust God.

@shamajabrown9749 2 года назад

Same!!!

@heatherduke7703 Год назад

If men don't want us to view them as a threat, maybe they need to be better...

@heatherduke7703 Год назад

It literally does not feel safe to be "soft" with some strange man I just met for the first time. So yes, I expect men to not make a snap judgement based on that in the first meetings.

@MelModica Год назад

Exactly! Can’t trust anyone, never rush into anything with any man! Make them earn your trust! My brothers advice is hang out with them and talk atleast a few months before getting serious! If a guy is rushing sex that is a huge red flag! Good men will have no problem getting to know you and taking it slow! Always keep your boundaries because there is too many shady people out there!

@ehh227 2 года назад

I think for me & a lot of other women we have given our feminine energy to men who were undeserving of it which in turn made us masculine. At some point you just give up on giving any energy to any man! Single women with no kids are actually happier than married women. It’s an actual study! Men gain more from marriage than women. Great interview and can agree to most of it but at some point giving zero energy to men makes us the happiest! 😁

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@beautifulone5509 2 года назад

It's important to know your worth, listen to your gut and Never compromise your Values. It's true there are ALWAYS signs. We choose to overlook this then get disappointed and write men off as no good! It's not about blaming men It's about taking Ownership and Admitting You/We chose to ignore the signs.

@ludmyllaanselmo7413 2 года назад

Totally agree!

@belizeanbaby 2 года назад

100%RIGHT@EH H

@ehh227 2 года назад

@@beautifulone5509 Yes, we can definitely overlook the red flags. I also think men in general need to learn how to treat women. In this time that we’re currently in I think the bad men far outweighs the good men.

@Shannon-ul2dh 8 месяцев назад

This is disturbing

@nomynoms1969 15 дней назад

😂😂😂

@fanicemaxwell3201 2 года назад

Women dont ignore what you know...when in doubt pray and wait..keep praying before moving forward.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@Novembersongbird 2 года назад

Very well stated and so true. Wait!!!

@lillaperendy 2 года назад

“Don’t ignore your intuition” AMEN!!!! There is always a gut feeling when something isn’t right but you choose to rationalize and ignore it. Ladies must learn to listen to their intuition. Oh and I think rather than asking questions (cos as someone else said men can easily lie especially to a lady who WANTS to believe) just WATCH his actions and make note of the things that don’t align with what he is saying.

@godsgirl7201 Год назад

❤️❤️❤️👏🏼👏🏼

@tenishaoh Год назад

Period.. sis! That goes along with self-doubt! Nah it’s a tool that we have neglected far too long! Same way I believe that men are gifted with a tool to know us and how to choose us to go along with the bxllshxt they bring.. whether knowing or unbeknownst! Utilize the gift… we get to use it accordingly!

@nicoledavis6344 Год назад

Yes! 💯💯💯

@lindawolfe2885 Год назад

So true.

@ChosenVessel8_ Год назад

💯cause loving someone is a risk these days

@tiffany7269 Год назад

I think I’m “hard” because my mom early on told me to “never count on a man to take care of you”. I think her relationship with my dad wasn’t at its best at that time. Do you think girls were taught by their moms to be tough/hard because the men in their lives weren’t showing up? I still to this day, 35 years later, can’t trust a man to make happy, to be a partner to show up.

@yohaannaa00 Год назад

in my opinion, u shouldn’t rely on anyone for ur happiness (regardless of gender). ur happiness depends on u and u only. even my own mom told me to never rely on a man for not only for my happiness but also financially. but that doesn’t mean u shouldn’t have a partner that u trust, cherish and truly love. i guess that was a way for mothers to try and protect their daughters from men that might take advantage of them.

@petromellalayne6089 Год назад

Me too

@Kim-bt9zc Год назад

Yep and my father proved to me

@miss.jenny.b Год назад

Your mom was right. Stop arguing with wisdom. Thank you.

@lexi9188 Год назад

agreeed i had the same identical thing growing up with a single mom since i was 10 when they divorced. it made me get caught in the independent woman don’t depend on no man attitude

@StrengthNLove Год назад

That's just nasty ,Women keep your legs close wait on a Man that want to be your Husband and be a real Man

@DukeSar77 Год назад

Wow. I'm glad I found a guy that didn't/doesn't just want to sleep with girls just for sex. Swx means something to him, to us. And you don't need to be a 10 to be worthy of marriage. I'd hate a guy with that standard. Damn. Most people aren't hot. Most are average. Attraction definitely has to be there on some level, but for real the personality is a lot more important than a pretty face that could take you for a ride you don't want to be on.

@DabinLUV-tv1oj Год назад

I mean I'm a men but I do respect women decision in sexual relationship. I'm not the dominant type or possesive. Of course I do have the sex urge. But ,for me sex after marriage is better for both gender. Nothing guarantee in relationship ,you can break up anytime.

@supremehealthtotalmindbody7360 2 года назад

Somebody please give this man a medal for all this wisdom. So many truth bombs and so much wisdom he needs a large platform to get the wisdom out to more people.

@kathleenplatt2266 2 года назад

He's amazing and brilliant 👏

@supremehealthtotalmindbody7360 2 года назад

@@kathleenplatt2266 He is amazing. He's the one who should have received the fame that the Kevin Samuels had.

@shaisomahere8329 2 года назад

I love how we as women are always put in the firing line, as if we are the only ones held accountable when we get hurt... But when they get hurt, the woman was to blame a broke a good woman.. Why does he have to do his due diligence too.. This world is a man's world and no matter what boundaries women try to put, we will forever be playing the male game and never win if we dont play by their rules..

@perdetha 2 года назад

Do you connect mentally? Do you both enjoy each other's presence? Is there physical attraction? Big: When you see each other, do you both break out smiling? When you make a sound does he come running to help you? Do you feel him in his lowest times, and really care? Now, you have something that builds into relationships and possibly marriage. It takes time.

@katd137 2 года назад

💯 correct!

@inspirationalshanae5129 2 года назад

This makes sense.

@ladylady7848 2 года назад

That last line "It takes time." But you have so many people thinking that if things don't pop off right from the beginning, the first few weeks, or few months that it can't develop into something real. They want microwave love, love that happens quickly and everything they dreamed of or want happening quickly or it's not real.

@sheslearning9240 10 месяцев назад

This is why, as a woman, I do not have sex with a man soon as I meet them. There has to be a decent time frame where we spend a lot of time talking and getting to know each other before I even consider you worthy of going there. I think some women are afraid of running that man off if she don't give him sex right away. I've always felt, if you can't wait then you can't have me... exit left

@asia_raylee Год назад

“Rules are for people you don’t like. When you like them, you’re more flexible” 👏🏻👏🏻

@christianrodriguez5346 3 месяца назад

Not always true though. I still hold certain rules in my relationships regardless. You got to be firm to your values and boundaries. People make mistakes though but should learn from them.

@chelsabrown7249 2 года назад

As a therapist, I am always skeptical of Men's videos, and I have circled the drain for months on Stephan's videos. I finally took the plunge to watch this one today. Stephan's content is insightful, balanced, enlightening, and accurate. I will continue to watch his videos and will recommend him to my clients. I also like the interview format in this particular video.

@julietgiamartino1228 2 года назад

Just watched my first Stephan video which I enjoyed!

@Eadrene 2 года назад

Watch Tony Gaskins. he's the real deal!!!!!!!!!

@dtv4433 2 года назад

I I'm just like you I really enjoy him I've been married for 42yrs. But I still like to learn 😆

@rh8470 2 года назад

Question, do you only listen and research woman’s opinions and standards? Men don’t need a woman’s validation to tell their truth.

@VonnJackson 2 года назад

He is NOT like the rest! His advice comes from the heart I feel. I believe that he really wants us all to be happy and heal and find our person.

@kristellfoss Год назад

Release control and allow people to be who they are. Your person will come if you are working with the universe, not against it. Alignment is key!❤

@chumbanga 2 года назад

Woman have to understand attention is not commitment. It all depends on how she moves, when we start looking at character and creating proper boundaries you rarely fall for the okie-doke. I’m with you Steph if I’m not into you I’m never gonna sleep with you.

@ddenise8428 2 года назад

Wow, I respect that.

@cm-yu6gu 2 года назад

Attention is not commitment I completely agree with you As a man, can you tell me about this some more? I'm a girl and just come to this realisation, would like to hear the male perspective on this Cause women equate attention with security

@chumbanga 2 года назад

@@cm-yu6gu sure for me personally I’m in the gym a lot, woman will walk around the gym half naked and yes they get attention but those girls never seem to have a partner. Men will look and give attention to over sexualized woman all day long but committing to them is way different. The logic for me is leave something to the imagination, woman like mystery and so do men. I say focus on becoming what you want in a partner ( integrity, honesty, mutual respect)ie your best self. The right person will notice those characteristics and the rest will work itself out.

@cm-yu6gu 2 года назад

@@chumbanga thank you for replying It applies to looks and sex for sure, that is obvious to me. But I've noticed even in a committed relationship, a man giving you all the attention, going out of his way to do anything for you, STILL doesn't mean he's in love with you. Attention not being commitment runs very deep, not just based on sex. Men can be very delusional, they might say and do all the right things. But at the end of the day the real connection 'the one', is not just based on flowery compliments and gestures. Real commitment from a man is when they are willing to change for you. Not change who they are, but change to BECOME who they're meant to be, be the best version of themselves. That to me says more than all the love bombing and seeming 'commitment' partner. Alot of 'committed' relationships I see, are actually just people who don't want to change themselves, and then buzzed they found someone that checks all their boxes and fulfils their fantasy for a while. But then that gets old and loses its sparkle. Real commitment is work, has longevity, but most of all putting yourself first and foregoing any bs about you. Commitment to yourself, is the only way you can commit to someone else. Otherwise it's not commitment, rather just a distraction and using eachother to fill a void

@nofybn7794 2 года назад

@@chumbanga I have, but has yet to work out.

@lovemyself9125 2 года назад

I agree, only because a man interested in sleeping with a woman doesn't mean he interest in a relationship with her. Many women get that confused and think sex will keep a man and hoping for more.

@carlar1820 2 года назад

Luckily I realized that at a young age. Even though I haven't been around the block it's important to understand sex is not a relationship.

@newnew-mv1uj 2 года назад

Well said, so so true

@tgrant9069 2 года назад

Rigghhhttt

@eveheart2876 2 года назад

Early 20s 😝 😂. How I fell into a situationship once and last ☺️. I’m glad it was 3 months

@Slim.01x 2 года назад

@@eveheart2876‼️

@cheeewio 2 года назад

After dating a guy for three months, I finally figured out he was not the one. He told me about his former few sex stories with unattractive women, and even one with a stinky woman. When we had sex, he watched porn during the act. After a few times of that, and a few red flags, I dropped him. After I gave up on dating for a while, I found a wonderful person that treats me well. I’m so happy now. Glad I didn’t stay longer dating other dude I def would’ve played myself.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️

@sl8605 2 года назад

Sounds like something someone I know would say and do. I am sure it was like in my case, GOOD RIDDANCE!!!!!!!!

@sweetpeaj1952 2 года назад

Wow. He was watching p to stay hard. Good riddance.

@taylorfrye8778 2 года назад

Whaaat!?! How’s a man gonna be watching porn while y’all doing it. I mean if that’s certain peoples kink sure but if the other person is clearly not in it or wtf is this, how can the other person even feel comfortable playing ir

@bmbkg4266 2 года назад

why would he care if you stopped talking to him, if he already got what he wanted (sex) ? 🤔

@whatisaheck Год назад

5 minutes in and I am triggered. this is lowkey too much. Know the signs of someone who is not healthy for you, decide if you have compatible personalities, and do not settle for less than what you want/deserve. know thyself and good things will come.

@treasureforashes3497 2 года назад

Only attraction is such a flimsy reason ,as no one remains physically the same forever,it takes maturity and discipline to honor and love someone,

@user-mb9jx5tx9y 2 года назад

Yup

@ah3738 2 года назад

Yes!!! Totally agree

@sfurlong0712 2 года назад

Nailed it

@MarsharenaLee01 2 года назад

What I have learned is that you never ever ever tell a man about past trauma or hurt in past relationships... NEVER! They will take that and turn around and use it against you doing that same thing again. Even if they ask you, just say that you'd rather not talk about it and change the subject.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@sarahvesa1655 2 года назад

Men or assholes? I wonder if the men in these comments are comfortable with people making blanket statements about their entire gender being a bunch of players.

@thetanishiashanae 2 года назад

Agreed. Anytime anyone ask me of my past I simply tell them “no need to talk about it it’s the past & have no hold of who I am now.” Why reflect on what’s no longer?

@made432 2 года назад

I agree. This asshole is gaslighting me using my trauma against me. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

@kiesha2k11 2 года назад

I only tell men the good things other guys have done for me. It’s interesting to see the result of that. Definitely worth the tell!

@lamerrab7507 2 года назад

We do play ourselves. We are to willing to give the benefits of the doubt when there is every reason to run for the hills.

@elizabethsanchez145 10 месяцев назад

Because of this i.m staying alone I don't think that thier real men out there anymore 😢.

@farasuesgarden7252 2 года назад

I wish I had watched this video when I was 17 yo!!! So much I never learned about dating and relationships growing up! It’s NOT common sense. It’s experience that teaches and now being taught by conversations like this. I love this!!! Thanks so much! My sons will be watching this as soon as its age appropriate!!!

@PinkshadesofNyy 2 года назад

Seeing this comment as a 17 year old lol

@user-qp6ts2dp5g Год назад

@@PinkshadesofNyy me too😂 hopefully it actually helps me in the future

@adriennerobinson1180 Год назад

Truth Indeed

@BeastHunter2121 Год назад

Would you really have listened @17? My mother tried to tell me at 18 and I didn’t listen.Should of though.😂

@mishalci4399 Год назад

I swear the 18 yo in mes is mad she didn’t know this earlier and thankful I know this before I’m 30

@brandiemilligan7858 2 года назад

I have been told by a man that it's just sex. 🤔🤔 this is why I'm going on 2 years without sex. Hey! If that's how someone feels about something they are free to feel the way that they want and I'm free to not want to have sex anymore. I refuse to give myself to another man until the right one comes my way. Right now I'm working on healing myself which a lot of ppl don't do. Once I have accomplished that and built my empire God will send me my 👑 when he feels I'm ready.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Healing is definitely key and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and receive the man God has for you 🙏

@brandiemilligan7858 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks yes, it is key. It's just less fortunate than some of us go through so much before we realize that's what we need. If you don't heal it's going to be a never-ending cycle. The only one that can break that cycle is me. The good part is at least I opened my eyes and realized it. I thank you for your kind words. I know when it's my time it will happen. I have been single since 2019 so I'm content being alone. I have permitted myself to be okay with being alone. Does it suck sometimes? Yes, of course, it does. But becoming the person I need to become is going to have to consist of not having someone by my side.

@latoybraxton949 2 года назад

Amen 🙏

@autism_mommy_3t 2 года назад

I've been abstinent since 2012 and it's the best decision I've ever made.

@brandiemilligan7858 2 года назад

@@autism_mommy_3t it is a really good decision. At first, I was like OMG. I'm not going to be able to do this. But once you put mind over matter it's a cakewalk. I could care less about it. Of course, I don't want to be like this for the rest of my life. But hey if I am then so be it. It's not like I'm missing out on anything. I have been there and done that. 🤣. Sex is something that we desire it isn't something that we have to have. But congrats to you. That’s a long time. 👏👏👏🙏🙏🙏

@Facepaintingfun Год назад

So in the end women need to talk to and treat men like the children they are. GOT IT 👍

@mellimixedmami Год назад

😂

@gigib6105 Год назад

😫😭😭

@pamelawilliams9003 Год назад

🤣😂🤣😂

@juliemiller9760 Год назад

Funny. . .but bitter. EVERYONE has that child inside of them. It could be a happy, free child or a damaged 'adapted' child, or a combination, depending on who they let into their life.

@Facepaintingfun Год назад

@@juliemiller9760 no one cares what you have to say, you absolute NOBODY

@orarichman9948 Год назад

Ain't no 90 day rule with me, my rule is no ass until we're married!!! Hell, I am 48 years of age, I don't have time to play 90 day rules for a man that is pretending to want me just to have sex!!! I'm not the 7 Eleven, my legs are not open 24/7 to men period!!! Oh yeah, if you see yourself in it for the long haul and he does too, all secrets must be laid out there in the open.

@oliviam4134 2 года назад

This man is super open and intelligent. 100% agree that everyone should have therapy and if someone doesn’t want to seek help it’s a red flag and it will never work.

@desssybee 2 года назад

I can see where he’s coming from about women being too hard toward men.. but on the other hand I feel like as soon as your are too soft towards them a lot will take advantage of that and we just end up left being hurt. Tbh I think that’s how a lot of us got hard in the first place, and now that’s just a way of protecting ourselves.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@Ahyawnah 2 года назад

Yes

@_prettybrownbrown7729 2 года назад

Same if they know you like them they take advantage

@elsiemeade3857 2 года назад

@@_prettybrownbrown7729 they say that a woman shouldn't say I love you first.

@cassandraowusu5945 2 года назад

@Living With The Grooms Everything you said is what I’ve been through and is now the reason I’ve been single and celibate for two years now. I feel like I’m extra protective over myself because of what I’ve endured. I also learned from those experiences that it was because of how soft I was and too nice. I didn’t set proper boundaries as well. Now I’m just focused on healing, growth, and self love. ❤️🌹

@mamatosh05 2 года назад

I'm with her about having a man on top of me & I don't like or attracted to him. I don't want a man touching me period if I'm not feeling him. I don't see how women be prostitutes/whores or just sleeping around with multiple men. It's disgusting.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@rhondatuck3167 2 года назад

Broken women…

@TG-nh6ni 2 года назад

Seriously...smh

@Thegazelle1000 2 года назад

Me too...

@cleftheart1969 2 года назад

I tried it once never again 🤮😬

@denisehughes2898 Год назад

One problem women can have is being too kind to men they're not interested in (exhibiting feminine energy), and the man and other people can think she's interested, when she's just trying to be kind. I WORRY about this ALL the time! I do appreciate that Stephen doesn't go too negative on female behaviors like a lot of these men "critiquing" women and really just dogging them. I can't STAND those men. . . and those men don't necessarily know what they're talking about, because the MOST negative scenario, ISN'T always the correct one!

@MeetStephanSpeaks Год назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

@TomikaKelly Год назад

You don't owe anyone kindness. Basic human decency, yes, but kindness, no. Stop trying to be kind to men you aren't interested in.

@Meepsavage 2 года назад

This was such a great discussion. ***I liked y’all chemistry and how you both allowed the other two speak without interruption.

@tabynstyle Год назад

I think every woman should hear his statement bc women often mistake sexual relationship to real life dating.

@alwaysmycamera Год назад

This just shows how corrupted the modern society is. Sexual relationship should happen only with dating/marriage with emotional engagement. They shouldn’t be separated. Ppl are actually thinking this is normal now.

@Jasmijn1 Год назад

I’m glad to know my boyfriend is nothing like this.

@mariamariafujoshiinurarea2524 Год назад

@@alwaysmycamera exactly, i live in a society where sex is only allowed for married people, so 80% of the time it has a deep meaning when you're engaging in a physical contact with your partner , the 20% left is just pple who hate each other and have mandatory marital sex lol

@kaderaydin5081 Год назад

Sexual relationship is easy to mistake when the person with whom the woman is dealing with (can also be a woman as well) also is not honest with their intention about their actual relationship. If the conversation is not honest from the start it‘s hard to figure out what kind of relationship is present.

@Alessastarz Год назад

@@kaderaydin5081 for real. I'm always telling guys if u want something very casual just be honest about it and find a girl who wants the same thing. Itll be alot less stressful than playing and girl who wants a different type of relationship than you

@latoybraxton949 2 года назад

Some women forgot about self respect, standards, & requirements.. It's so sad how some have settled for being treated like this. We must know, our worth .

@nofybn7794 2 года назад

PREACH!!

@annekajordan6952 2 года назад

For real 🙏

@marissapacheco9840 2 года назад

And they just weren't taught about that growing up which caused them to be an easy target. They end up learning the hard way but if they don't put an end to that and practice healthy boundaries and protect their heart they will keep wasting themselves on men. You have to grow, and get to know yourself more, and heal so that you'll be less likely to repeat that again. Don't waste yourself on another man.