He Says He Feels Like ‘Less of a Man’ Because His Wife Is Physically Violent 

Her first goal was to deflect and center the topic around what her mother has been doing wrong. Probably what she views as the best reason/excuse for her own abhorrent behavior. Often, when people are willing to act like this, they have low empathy to begin with (likely narcissistic) and are clearly self centered, oblivious to other people’s needs. These type of people often feel the need to put on a show and fake tears are frequently used as part of their manipulation tactic.

Ok but she knows right from wrong and is responsible for her own actions as an adult!!

her parents aren't to blame, she's a grown woman, she can think for herself

And take the children with you

Well, you’re asking such a good question because I feel the same way about women who have abusive husbands or boyfriends Why doesn’t anybody just get out of an abusive situation? I guess from what I heard from victims of abuse that the abuser brain watches them they make them think that they can save everything that they can have they would dream of, and that are the only ones I can make that happen in their lives so they rely on that person to basically survive All all the times victims of abuse apparently rely on financials and food mostly food and you know I think the majority of a lot of it is having to pay for food to eat and a lot of times the person that is abusive controls that part of a person’s life they feel they can’t just get out of there Because I guess their mind is like well, how do I get money to eat? Where Do I go to bed every night? how would I ever get money to even afford a place to live on a daily basis?

But my grandparents were horrible people and they were them to people that always seem to care about themselves and about what they wanted and never cared about anybody else, including me And they forced me to eat what they were having then you literally have to eat it or else starve I mean literally starve and if they controlled what I do on a daily basis and what my hobbies were and that I mean, I could leave I could run away somewhere. I could tell somebody about the mistreatment grandparents are doing to me. When you out in the real world, it’s easier to just run away then anything and then when you get out there it’s like holy cow. I didn’t plan this out very good because now how do I get food to eat? Where can go to stay in sleep? And where am I gonna go next in order to not be found by the people who are abusive to me? These are things that I have never experienced thank God, but I do know I’ve seen RU-vid videos of people that I’ve been through that they have said the exact same thing That’s why I’m able to tell you about it because I have heard people say exactly what I said you know so yeah it’s easier to ask somebody while you just couldn’t get out of there and just run away and tell somebody Duhhhh said it’s easier said than done right and I guess when you’re in the situation, it is easier to ask somebody that then, if you actually experienced abuse by the hands of somebody else whether there’s a family member or a random person That is honestly honestly what they would say you know that they have asked themselves the same questions. They have probably most likely thought about it, but they are basically no independence. They have no money they have no means or necessary financial to survive. Eat you know I mean, you have to pay for food at the grocery store you can’t just walk out with them, you know These things abuse victims often think about and you do think it happens to women more so because they speak out about it, but it does happen to men as well because I’ve heard of it happening to men Did you ever see the 60 minute Australia episode? Where Sarah Jane Parkinson told the police whole bunch of lies about her fiancé Dan Jones. And he basically got thrown in jail and it was so bad that his parents actually had to get divorced because they spent a lot of money on like lawyers and different things trying to get him out of there that they had no money to even stay together because they couldn’t afford stuff for their house you know they couldn’t afford food you know I believe they spent over $600,000 and yeah a lot of that money they lost they spend it all trying to get their son out of jail because he was innocent. He wasn’t a bad guy at all. You know he wasn’t a horrible person. Never did anything to abuse her he loved her. He started to build a house and you know I don’t think any man that abuses a woman would even go out of their way to build a house from scratch. They just take whatever the person owns the abusers would never deal with anything from scratch or make anything from scratch like that Yeah Sarah Jane Perkinson was a girl she was a person. I wouldn’t even call her a human but I would say she is a person who looks like a woman, but she isn’t really woman. I don’t think she is even human you know. And there is another incident on an episode a current affair where this man met this woman on a Muslim dating site and I think I don’t know for whatever reason he wanted out of her life I think maybe he found out that she had been doing things that weren’t OK so yeah But he bought her everything like jewelry, leather jackets, fine dining and different kinds of trips and I think he said that was over $200,000 and she apparently ran sucked the place where they were living in and she said something to him that was more like a threat like a warning And she ran away into the elevator, started giving herself a couple sucker punches to her face to make it like that Weisel the guy that she was dating she wanted to make it look like that he had abused her and that he was a very horrible person that he was treating her very very very badly And he actually got thrown in jail too they actually believed her, but I think what saved him is she got caught unsecure camera when she went in the elevator so there was actually security cameras and yeah, and I think what they did is that they saw the video and Decided to let him out of jail because they made a huge mistake. You know they probably felt bad for trusting her. So yeah, there’s a lot of so-called women out. There are just as abusive and controlling, and our capable of doing these exact same things if not worse then the men were actually abusive and controlling. Men just don’t talk about that as much because I can see a man if they went to the police and said my girlfriend or my wife is abusive to me, and they apparently showed all the bruises on them selves I don’t even think that they would have a trial for the abusive women out there? Yeah they don’t even do enough for women who are abused if they were men I don’t even think that those people would even go to trial at all because they would be labelled as liars. They would be not even taken seriously. And to me, it’s not fair it’s not right you know because there’s lots of women out there who abuse their husbands and boyfriends as well. There’s lots of people who were dating their gender of people who are gay and lesbians who get abused by their intimate partner you know so it’s not just a woman being abused by her husband/boyfriend it could be a woman you get abused by your intimate woman partner Or a man getting abused by his boyfriend or husband, you know they always talk about on the news how domestic violence against women is getting more and more and more out of control

However, do we really know exactly why the man beats up their wife or slaps her in the face sometimes? Majority of women aren’t doing anything wrong, and I know that sometimes though the women could be the one that are being the instigator so And then, sometimes it could be both sides two as well like you know like one is trying to make the other one jealous and the other one tries to get back at the other person by making them jealous you know sometimes it’s on both sides you know left and right So you can’t always assume that it’s always a so-called man or a so-called woman who is the one that blame I mean normally it is just one person and it always seems to be women that get taken more seriously than men And that is why men don’t speak out about dating somebody and things didn’t work out quite well and it just turned into a nightmare for that guy, you know why you don’t hear about it too often, but it probably happens more often than we think it really does. You know I have no doubts in my mind that men are victims abused on the same level as women who are victims of abuse

They don't need god, they need to get away from her.

You honestly believe meds will cure this?

10000%

now imagine if the roles were reversed

@@TotalDramaOwenandNoah the woman should leave too wtf? And she’s dumb as rocks if she stays with a man going upside her head

@@TotalDramaOwenandNoah It's the same idea either way. When you allow yourself to be treated that way and don't leave...

@@GrooveisKing i mean you're right also my guy should fight back bro shes the woman hit her w a 2 piece

What excuses can we make for a violent woman? Can't be that she's an awful person 🤔

Yes, but hitting her 2 year old definitely isn't an excuse. She maybe she should have thought about that before she had a kid.

Blame everyone and everything except her.

There is no excuse for her abusing her children and her husband I am not sorry for her and I am sorry for her children and husband she needs help and she isn't a victim they are.