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My woman saw this video, and immediately asked if we could go to Cheesecake Factory for our anniversary while laughing hysterically. We went, she hated it, and now I've made reservations for the place we originally were supposed to go.
Idk if she would learn but since shes filming, might as well correct the record. This was the best thing he could have done aside from cancelling when stood up for an hour
I need to learn from him cause how he reacts to this probably means that's how he is in other areas of his life. I would have came off as so damn annoyed and mad. haha
She tried to embarrass him but only managed to reveal how awful she is. He was so patient with her and I'm glad he stood up for himself. There's a much nicer girl out there for him.
The bro had bn consuming blackpill and redpill content, hence why he’s like that. And if he hasn’t then fuxk he’s bn dealt a shitty hand. I think the only way to approach a girl is to do cold approach but make sure you’re not surrounded by people, incase she or u makes a big scene.
So true! Is there anything that these people can do that will let them see how they’re the problem?! He totally dodged a bullet. That woman is drinking the delulu lemonade
Thats just it, the cheescake factory, in my opinion is a fancy restaurant. YOu're paying around $20 for a slice of cake, that you could get at a grocery store for 10. Not like he took her to mcDonalds or something.
@@andrewrogers3067you won't be disappointed. It's mid scale not to expensive and the serving sizes are big. And they have cheesecake. Bread is mid but the food is good
The most disgusting part is that she’s so obsessed with herself she spends the entire time looking at her phone to see herself rather than looking at the person she was having the conversation with.
The narcissism. She thought she was the main character. Ironically she is the main character now, but not in the way she was hoping. 🤣🤣lookin like a whole ass.
I couldn't believe the amount of BS she was saying. She is such a narcissist. I understand having self confidence, however having it, is being QUIET about it. Not proclaiming to the whole world '' I am so pretty ''. And let be frank, she isn't THAT pretty,
@@JPKelly-xr7tr The league of a man with far superior patience and etiquette. I don't think spoilt people understand the kind of personality you have to have to keep your cool around insanity and stare it down as you do it. The patience of a decent man does God's work in most healthy relationships.
Her entitled ass very childish and that dude dodge a bullet and I’m happy for him and I hope this dude finds someone that will appreciate him for putting in the effort.
My girl came from a poor village in China and lived in a foster home there for years. She moved to the country recently and we started dating and I took her to the Cheesecake Factory. She had no idea what it was and only knew of 2-3 American food chains. Long story short, she thought it was the fanciest thing she had ever seen and told me how lucky she was to have a guy take her out to such a fancy place like this and we fell in love. Fast forward 1 year later and we are engaged and get married in 9 months and I've never felt so lucky in my life to find a woman like her that appreciates the small gestures
Yeah the food there isn't the absolute best, but one of the reasons I always go to cheesecake factory is no matter how picky you are of an eater there's always something for everybody on their menu it's huge. RIP firecracker salmon. 😢
Good on you mate. I didn't have such hardships as your finacee in life, but if any man (which would now only be my husband) took me somewhere...it's not about where you are, it's who you're with. Congrats to you and your future wife.
Note, he made a date prior, that had reservations, he made said reservations, and told her what time they had to be there. She took too long getting ready, missed the reservation, and our guy decided it’d be better to go to Cheesecake Factory. So she’s upset cause she didn’t get a more fancier experience, when our guy MADE the reservation to have that experience. The self entitlement is real. Props to our guy to go for better
she sabotaged the date before it even started, then tried to make him look like the bad guy. the entitlement and delusion is paplable. it's women like this that killed chivalry.
"Beautiful Woman" ????????? You are nice at the best of days & this is not your best days.not being mean. Your arrogance is 20 out of 10 unlike you rating which is 4 out of 10. This 4 out of 10 is for your soul not your looks. It's amazing how kings/Queens of this world only finds clowns.
@@msto8225 I don't think it was about someone paying her dinner. It was about her being a narcissists that can not handle ''no'' or criticism in any form.
What’s crazy is he was the perfect gentleman. Picked her up (in what looks to be a nice car), waited patiently, booked a reservation, pivoted when she made them late, was kind, and asked to get the door for her.
And throughout the entire convo he was willing to talk, and more than likely willing to move to another restaurant. That was before she started with her shit
And notice how the guy voiced all of his opinions. Yet didn’t once mentioned anything about her calling him up. So I’m getting the impression she didn’t even bother to let him know she was going to be late
I like his style! He was cool, calm and collected. He made his point, didn't lose his temper, she could not look more foolish. He remains a REAL gentleman!
He was on camera, what else could he do to not escalate situation, the date was off at least he got his off, I would drag her off my car and left cause I'm not half as patient.
@@decepticonavidgamer882 A simp would've taken her disrespect and would've bent to her will when she was in the wrong. This guy is a rational, level-headed person
@@bman6198yeah he's a good guy. Good guys still don't put up with bullshit he was kind enough to take her home and everything I would've made her find her own way back for wasting all my time.
Watching someone who thinks they are exposing someone, expose themselves is so satisfying. I’m glad she brought us all on this humbling adventure with her.
Yessss! It’s so sweet seeing how everybody is roasting her now after she thought she was such hot shit🤡 the sad part is all the backlash still won’t be enough to humble her.
This dude is actually a badass. Planned on going to a nice restaurant but then changed it to cheesecake AFTER she made him wait outside her house for an HOUR. Yooo mad respect to this dude 🫡
That’s not really how it went down. The place had a reservation time and they couldn’t make that time cuz of how long she took to get ready. Probably still would’ve taken her there if the reservation time was a lil later still
@@rotcev1327 idk man. A person like you described would have called for another reservation or at the very least responded with “I had a reservation at a nice place but we missed it” right away once she started saying shit about Cheesecake Factory if not before that. He didn’t tho, he waited awhile to throw that at her and you can tell by the convo and his demeanor that he was probably making that choice regardless if they made it in time.
@@richboii6597 You'd call for another reservation when some rando-ho makes you wait an hour? He was respectful as heck, I'd have driven off after she got close to the car.
To all the workers at Cheesecake Factory, pay no attention to this woman keep up the good work and I’m on my way right now to provide moral and financial support
I give that man MAJOR props. He's not a simp, he's a gentleman of integrity, self-respect & dignity. He gave her the benefit of the doubt about being late, didn't flip out yet still stood his ground & called out her behavior respectfully. He deserves so much better than some twit like that. I don't understand her issue anyways. I'd be in absolute heaven at the cheesecake factory!!
@@carlosf.xblackjack simps seek acceptance, validation & attention. The motive born out of desperation is what makes a simp a simp. A simp would have gone along with her requests. This man didn't act desperate nor let her walk all over him. He acted calm & dignified. Big difference.
If he had any dignity you would have never saw this video because he would have bounced when he had to wait an hour lol? I guess dignity is putting up with a narcissist bird’s attitude lol
She did NOT get the response she was expecting. 😂 I don't understand how some women have become so entitled. The look on her face and how she changed her tone when he said he was taking her home was priceless! She's gonna end up sad and alone.
This mans DMs better be blowing up, because the way he handled this, with the utmost class and respect... I've never seen such a gracious trash collector. No piece of garbage has ever been handled with such tenderness and civility. If this is how he treats garbage, imagine how he will treat something valuable!
Guy gets made respect. He owns a car, took her out, was respectful and classy. I'm guessing he's getting plenty of DMs now from women going, "Her loss."
Omg this lady😂 I knew someone like her. This guy is so friken calm and I admire how he turned that around. Another podcast pulled them on to Interview them. Her whole story changed and she was asking for another chance. Because she "understood" how she needs to be more lady like and grateful. She won't change.
The way she handled the whole situation speaks volumes about the type of woman she is. He really did dodge a bullet. And thanks to her going live, many other men will hopefully do the same thing. She set out to embarrass him but basically ruined her reputation in front of the whole world. I love instant karma
"... many other men will hopefully do the same thing." She is exactly like this because of most men's desperation for s3x, companionship & intimacy. It will not change. I'm a guy & i know how guys are. They hear & see this behavior but still continue on w/ the desperation for the aforementioned qualities I listed. It's not going to change anything because if it did this video of her wouldn't exist. But thanks for placing a lot of faith in us lol
@@Apollothe3For me, it’s either I put up with this or die alone. My autism and height (literally the only reasons why I get rejected) automatically make me the bottom 1% even though I’d sound like I’m bragging if I describe myself
The problem is too many guys don’t know their worth and that’s an entitled woman’s biggest fear. It’s the guy’s who know their worth they love and admire while fear all at the same time. The guy they can just use and abuse is the ones they cheat on and use as their atm.
he handeled this situation quite well but you have to give him minus points for even ending up in that situation. You know what kind of woman she is right away and even if you somehow missed that I bet the house that she doesnt feel the need to hide it and posts this kinda content on her socials daily.
OMG I was looking forward to you guys talking about this and as a woman there’s nothing wrong with cheesecake factory. My first date was at cheesecake factory and we bout to get married next year ❤love you guys keep speaking your truth
As a woman we do not claim her, I blame the parents for raising her like a princess even as a teenager and she grew up to this immature mentality because of it. Trust me, most of us would not mind Cheesecake Factory and I don’t understand why that’s a problem because CF is not even cheap. 🤦🏽♀️
Honestly he should be thanking her. She just broadcasted how good this man really is to all the women of the world that he’s chivalrous, respectful, and how he’s ready to be a loyal bachelor to a woman who deserves it lol Edit: … who hurt yall? Don’t be Incels because of someone didn’t reciprocate your feelings. Act like a King, not a Child. Be Chad’s, not Eugiene’s
@@RU-vidUser-mb2ozno he actually had reservations at a fancy restaurant and this troglodyte was 1 hour late. He said he'd pick her up at 4pm and she only came out her house as 5pm. He sat outside for an hour for this thing. He showed her the reservation and then she changed her tune and asked him to call the restaurant to which he said no. They missed the reservation. He didn't make it an issue and brought her to the cheesecake factory but she started acting like a clown. He is actually a gentleman and she lost out big time. I hope he finds a wonderful lady who appreciates his efforts.
Other women will be lining up for a date with this gentleman! He handled this lunacy very well. I’d honestly be beyond confused idk if I’d even understand what was happening if I were him in the moment lol. And this makes me want some Cheesecake Factory, haven’t been there in a minute!!!!
She went viral for being a horrible entitled woman...and she also helped show the world what a good respectful man is. Good gentlemen exist - it's women who choose to be blind. I hope he has a line-up around the block of eligible women now!
@@blacktigar4676just because you meet a couple bad women doesn’t mean you have to turn into a bad guy. Most people are pretty rational and mild-mannered tbh. This excuse of a grown woman is luckily an outlier. Most chicks aren’t like her.
@@HiGlowieI think your underestimating how many women are entitled, it doesn’t have to be this exact situation but they are definitely like this more and more by the year
When you park and get out of the car to open the door for someone. Can they roll the window down from the inside? The answer is no. It was a skit, because he knew he was getting back in the car.
You know she made him wait on purpose bc she seen somewhere that you make men wait for you lol..she thought way to highly of herself in more ways than one..there is no way she took an hour to get rewad..she has no makeup on just some purple makeup and her boobs are hanging all out like I'm sure a fancy place wouldn't like that lol
Ultimately I agree with you, but fortunately it came out later that this woman and guy made this as a skit. At least she put out a video later but I think she has a channel that does stuff like that
As a 40 something year old, during the times I dated pre marriage. I swear, my ideal date was grabbing two cups of coffee & walking at park/beach/pier & talk about life. Seriously. Those simple 1:1 dates were the best. I’m happily married now & so grateful. Yo this new mentality is on another level. 😂
Yall don’t understand how difficult it is nowadays. You gotta make at least 500k a year, gotta have a boat, gotta be like 8 feet 4 inches, tall gotta drive a Porsche and own 2 properties, preferably one by the beach. You gotta be a surgeon or a lawyer or some kind of athlete and then, maybe you have a shot at a 4/10 😂
@@ParadigmGamer88 I see no problem offering coffee dates nowadays. its fast and effective to sort out the bad apples - and there are MANY, so a fast solution to see what she really wants would be preferable.
Bruh God has truly blessed you, beyond your wildest imagination and desires. I met a woman for Cofffee at Starbucks, since she came straight from work. I suggested and offered dinner at Applebee's. She looked at me and said "I don't eat at Chain restaurants"... im 43 no kids and nevwr been married. It's rough out here...
I’ll criticise him for asking her out in the first place, waiting an hour and still driving her rude ass home instead of kicking her out of the car.. but yeah, hope he finds someone who deserves him, he did everything right and more, even though she didn’t deserve it.
@@dustinb1070I'd agree with you. If he somehow pissed off this woman and she pressed some bullshit charges his life would be ruined. She has a platform on tik-tok and his life would've been miserable.
"Who takes someone that looks like this..." Girl, your attitude shredded any type of physical attractiveness that you may have had in the first place. What makes someone act this way? It's not possible that you can get through life this way. That man was being so corteous and gentle with her and she pulled this out.
This man will be a great leader of a household one day. He can articulate what he needs to get across in a level headed manner. He is an excellent communicator and I can see him helping talk to his wife during difficult times, whether it be financial pressure, maybe postpartum issues related to starting a family. I don’t think there is a thing this man could not LEAD his family through. That is awesome. He had some great male role models in his life and I am so happy he canceled this date and knows his worth. He will find a woman to walk alongside him while he leads them into a wonderful marriage and overall familial success. Ugh, I am rooting for this guy.
“I have my requirements for a girl and you’ve already broken every one” is a really nice way of saying “I can already tell you’re a waste of my time and energy.”
I agree. I met one, female, she thought she was entitled to all kinds of things i would do for her when she was a guest in my home. Now she too thought she was entitled to special treatment but she did not put up a cliché act like this bitch in the video. Fuck i hate people like this and this is a great video how female narcissism looks like. Its this extremely entitled manipulative behaviour.
this behaviour is relatively normal these days, here in the UK as well people who grew up with smartphones and social media often have main character syndrome, and it's worse with women
My question is why?? Why go on the date if you're going to be rude and disrespectful to a perfect gentleman? Don't expect to be treated like "royalty" when you don't behave like it!
@@JeremiahDavis-2894 just because it’s not ethical doesn’t mean it’s wrong. I would’ve kicked her out the moment she started giving me attitude. She’s a woman she can find her own ride I’m sure she can hit up a dude and get him to buy her an Uber if not she can walk home dressed up. Statistically speaking in America the more skin you show the less likely you are to be harassed because it intimidates those who prey on the weak. So it’s not like it’s dangerous for her to be kicked out of the car.
My 17yo asked my hubby if he takes me to Cheesecake Factory. He said Sure, then asked why. She told us about this and now here i am cringing!!!!! 🤦🏽♀️ Im glad she asked us about it, and im glad her critical thinking skills were activated. This woman "diva" in the video will be single forever.
A diva is a nice cute compliment. She is making the American woman reputation glow here. Whether you like it or not this woman is what many men think of when they hear" "dating an American woman" and it's not just this generation. Stereotypes and reputations may not apply to all, but they truth in them.
@@houseofhas9355what’s funny here is men never reflect on what they are doing to attract these kinds of women. Not all women are trash, but if you keep ending up in a dumpster, maybe… just maybe, you and what you value in a woman, have something to do with it. But instead of taking accountability for what choices you made to get there (you are half of the relationship and you choose to be there) and just generalize and claim “American women” are like this. I’m American and a woman and I have never not once behaved like that on any date in my life; hell my second anniversary dinner was at White Castle (long story, no fault of my spouse, but we ate food and have a funny memory about a date that went wrong. Did I complain or act an ass? Nope. I was hungry. I just laughed and ordered a sackful. Pro tip: if you are attracted to women that don’t share your same values (i.e. superficial women that are obsessed with their appearance and status), you are gonna have a bad time.
this was a SKIT, the ladie's real name is Nickia Lowery. This WAS NOT REAL. There are two different videos of this because their actors. she's coming out with a podcast. smh what is wrong with people these days.
@@ivecometoeatwho knows its a skit or not when alotta people filming for ig/tik tok or whatever.... people filming real sutuations/ skits and both situations looking the same 😂😂😂😂 people have a sad mentality or entitlement whether scripted or not
Saying I can’t go into the cheesecake factory looking like this, she wasn’t entirely wrong. Ma’am was wearing a green dress with purple lipstick, i’m gonna be honest she looked like a clown.
@@racheldunning1726shes a queen! Yall just hating. That’s no way to treat a black queen by taking her to some mcdonalds ass place. They always disrespecting black woman period.
She's actually delusional, he dodged a bullet. There are normal people out there who would be so happy to go on a date with someone they are truly interested in just to get to know them better. Cheesecake Factory is totally acceptable for first dates!
I'd argue it's too good for a first date. Spend $10-15 on some coffee or ice cream for a first date to get to know the person first before you waste a bunch of money on some delusional diva. It's low key, low expectations, low stress, can focus on talking and getting to know each other, and a nice bonus test that they won't be materialistic. Shit's too expensive to waste on this kinda clownery.
it was plan b they did have a reservation at a restaurant earlier which she confirmed and then she missed it so cheese cake factory was the compromise LOOL at the fool
This dudes a saint. How many of us woulda taken her from this situation to the restaurant she wanted to go to, then skipped out? This dude was just "Oh, well, imma take you home." Absolute saint.
Wouldn't the skip out be better? Just knowing how most w0m3n view and see us, and how much they loathe us, I truly don't understand a r3dpill brain caring about respecting them when they broadcast publicly and nuclear level to embarrass men in public how much they enjoy disrespecting men on every level.
tbh, I would have said anything necessary to get her out of the car, even if it meant taking her to a fine dining establishment and then excused myself to the bathroom and left. Just the way she presents herself has me thinking she'd have no problem making a false allegation, if need be, to get what she wants.
That man seems like the chillest dude. The entitlement alone is enough to make anyone go off, but he’s willing to talk about it even with the camera rolling. Honestly if it was me I wouldn’t even try to talk to her, I’d just drive her home and wish her a good life away from me.
He's above her league. I watched this on Mediocre tutorials and gathered he's driving a nice car and he was going to take her somewhere fancy. He's attractive. He seems very in control of his emotions. I like how he kept his composure, but ultimately put her in her place - that takes character. He dodged a bullet with this "queen", he could do infinitely better.
Nah, I would've taken her to Arias, let her order everything she wanted, then tell her I'm going bathroom and gap it, leaving her to pay the bill like the Oyster chick.
the fact that she said "isn't there some kind of compromise or something" is crazy when she wasn't willing to compromise, so much so that instead of talking to him about it like an adult she pulls out her phone to record herself not compromising. kudos on the guy for handling this like a reasonable adult.
As soon as she pulled out the phone I'd be done. I can't stand this need to record everything, my business is my business, I don't need the opinion of folks that care nothing for me.
mannn... the guy is such a sweet soul, like seriously... even after being made feel bad and disrespected still he chose to be calm and keep his composure. Kuddos to that good man for still being a good person even after encountering such a bad first date :(
@RoyalCrypt I understand your pov, it would have been about providing for the women (if one was to adhere to traditional roles) but, I think personally it was 'too soon' for the guy to spend so much on the 'first date'. The requirement to have a spine would then come into play on like subsequent dates (depends from case to case) .
What we witnessed here was a traditional man encountering a modern woman for the first time. That wasnt acting, we just watched that man go through a whole development arc. He just unlocked his sense of self respect.
It honestly saddens me because now this poor dude is going to be on his guard whenever women show any interest in him. He was patient, understanding and did everything right, but it still wasn’t enough. Really sad
No what you witnessed was a skit y'all fools really think of a woman with that ego should date a man like that who looks shorter and skinnier than her?????
To be honest deep down inside we all wanted the dude to get at least a little bit petty with her by throwing back some fact back at her, but in the end he kept his cool, was not petty, was a gentleman and took the higher road. He handled it way better than at lot of us would I guess 😅
I would of said sorry then taken her to a nice restaurant that she wanted to go. walk her to the place right when we get in tell her I forgot my wallet I going to my car then leave her their 👻 stay petty 😂
It's just basic respect, (respect for others and for yourself; respecting people enough to let them know when they're being an ass). Don't even think of it as "the high road", that's just how everything works best. If he acted petty that would just be playing her game. He didn't play her game; he stated the facts and called it there.
What’s really something to think about is that she didn’t even know about the original restaurant because he didn’t feel the need to bring up the fact that they couldn’t go because she made them late. He just moved on and picked a different place to go. That’s hella respectful of him. Man is a king 👑
I’m a woman and this got me heated. If a nice man wants to take me on a date, I’ll be ready on time and happy to go to the Cheesecake Factory. The sad part is, she doesn’t realize how ugly her attitude and personality make her.
What makes me laugh is her demeanor and the way she just looks at her phone and smiles as if she was looking in a mirror. She barely even looked at him during the entire conversation
@@562wiseguyshes a queen! Yall just hating. That’s no way to treat a black queen by taking her to some mcdonalds ass place. They always disrespecting black woman period.
3:29 Ugghhhhhh that "y'know, cheesecake factory" then the smirk and dead face was rancid.... She'd have been out of that car in a heartbeat. that dude's got some saint level patience because I could never....
She wanted to go viral, she did for all the wrong reasons. What an embarrassment to us women he handled that with such class. Hope his DMs are full right now. He may be very able to find his future wife based on this video. When I saw her, it was sickening.
@@thebrotherhoodofsleep9857shes a queen! Yall just hating. That’s no way to treat a black queen by taking her to some mcdonalds ass place. They always disrespecting our woman period.
He handled a child that all he did. The entitlement and disrespect of how she was talking to him was pure childish. Props to dude he dispatched all the BS and gaslighting she tried to do to him and saw right through all of this. That woman needs to look in the mirror and realize she was a fucking child
Someone give this dude a legitimate award. I definitely wouldn't have handled this situation with even a fraction of the grace and patience this dude did. I'm literally going to work on myself and try to be more calm and collective. What an absolute legend. 👏👏
this was a SKIT, the ladie's real name is Nickia Lowery. This WAS NOT REAL. There are two different videos of this because their actors. she's coming out with a podcast. smh what is wrong with people these days.
@@nickysantoro314They are just telling you to give people a clearer picture of the situation. It's fine to feel inspiration from a scripted event, just don't take it out on him.
The secondhand embarrassment was almost too much to handle. When she held up her finger and muttered “he got me at the Cheesecake Factory y’all” I was like oh no. Oh no. None of us are too good for a chain restaurant, that’s number one. Second- as a woman I disagree wholeheartedly that a man should spend HUNDREDS OF DOLLARS in a first date with somebody he barely knows. If he has it and he wants to, sure. But it’s not an expectation. Third, she treated him like trash. She was disrespectful- made him wait AN HOUR and disrespected his time and his effort. Then records him without permission. Then she starts going on about being cherished and protected and it’s a literal facepalm moment. This man is literal perfect first date material. She was so ungrateful and entitled. She deserves to be alone.
We dont mind spending our wallet on you as long as you are behaving like a real lady, The problem today is that women is asking or demanding it. He is getting used like this because he is to nice, No women like nice guys like this. I know alot of these men and no one can get a women to stay. Most of these men are virgins, You might say he is perfect but women dont date guys like him. Women will never date weak men they wont feel protected around you, Even though this chick is a asshole he can only blame himself for this, I have never had these issues with women. You need to be a real man with masculine traits or you are doomed as a man, This man dont understand that she was testing him when he picked her up. What he should have done is wait for 5-10minutes and leave. He was asking to get used here, He even let her disrespect him live. Screw that this man has no backbone, Thats the problem with his dating, If he been more masculine this chick would fall in line fast but you need to have that idgaf energy around you or women wont respect you as a man. Men need to get their shit together
Wasn't it very normal for the most part to just go to a diner and chill for a first date, something cheap and calm, but good vibes all around. You don't need exquisite food to get to know each other and enjoy each other's company. If she's not willing to do that on a first date does that mean she's not willing to do that ever? So ridiculous
He shouldnt have waited more than 5 minutes! THAT WAS HIS 1ST MISTAKE! He made a RESERVATION but she made them late! WTF makes a resevation for a 1st date???????? SHE WAS 1 HOUR LATE! Im so sick of these girls shaming, belittling, expecting everything & being rude/ nasty!!
Bingo, only went out with him likely due his financial status/career. She clearly taught she was going to bully dude into getting her a free expensive meal
If you're a woman who wears makeup and you go out with your face being a totally different color than your neck, you don't have ANY right to complain about ANYTHING.
You can clearly see she was shook when he laid the smackdown by exposing her being 1 hour late, and as a result had the reservation of her preferred restaurant cancelled.
"So you just wanna call it a night" What did she expect? That this guy would be cool with his future wife arguing with him while filming the whole thing for thousands of people online to see during their first date? Fuck no!
The guy was even trying to be nice and talk about it after being shamed. That's a king that deserves a queen, not a painfully average princess with a horrible personality.
He actually seems sweet and understanding. How does she not grasp that her weird entitled actions have consequences. No more dates for you, lady. Walk home!
As a proud, respectable black South African woman who works and doesn't expect her husband to be a cash cow.....I would like to categorically say that, HE DIDN'T KICK HER OUT FAST ENOUGH!!!!!! What the fudge is wrong with this woman. I would have left there right there just for my sanity. Furthermore, BIG UPS to this man for keeping his cool. I am so proud of him because I do not know how I would have reacted when someone that senseless decides to be senseless and record it and show my face🤬🤬🤬
Why would you take a woman to an expensive restaurant on THE FIRST DATE? A chain restaurant or a café/bar is perfectly fine for a first date. You then increase "the spend" in tiers after a few dates. She was also an hour late! There is no way an expensive restaurant would hold a table that long, maybe 20 minutes if you call ahead, but she is completely delusional if she thinks a reservation would be held that long🤦♂
I agree, something casual also helps to keep the date relaxed where you can get to know someone whereas I've always seen expensive dates as a special occasion situation. This broad was just looking for a problem to try and clown him to elevate herself.
Personally, I'd be kinda weirded out to be brought to an expensive place on a first date... like I'd be concerned there's an expectation (if you catch my drift)
She is so delusional that she thinks a cheesecake cost as much as a regular slice of cake, when cheesecakes are not only the most delicious, but the most richest and kind of expensive cakes on the planet
Bug facts. First date was Wendy’s. Second date Ruby Tuesday. Then as we grew the dates did too. Now we go shirt and tie. Dress and heels. She earned that shit. Especially when my mom died. She showed me she’s a not a rider but a true partner in crime. That’s my Selina. I’m her Bruce.