He Took His Date To The CheeseCake Factory & She LOST IT... So He Kicked Her To The Curb 

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Imagine saying you're too good for the Cheesecake Factory while wearing a 22$ dress from Shein

He's WAY out of her league and she thinks she's better than him. INSANITY

I’d be so grateful if a first date took me to Cheesecake Factory. It’s pretty expensive, the majority of us are struggling in this economy. This kinda behavior turns the good guys into assholes.

She'll go home telling herself that he lost a dime piece meanwhile he'll go home knowing he dodged a bullet. He's way out of her league.

She tried to embarrass him but only managed to reveal how awful she is. He was so patient with her and I'm glad he stood up for himself. There's a much nicer girl out there for him.

Instead of getting upset, he literally turned it into a teaching moment. What a legend

My girl came from a poor village in China and lived in a foster home there for years. She moved to the country recently and we started dating and I took her to the Cheesecake Factory. She had no idea what it was and only knew of 2-3 American food chains. Long story short, she thought it was the fanciest thing she had ever seen and told me how lucky she was to have a guy take her out to such a fancy place like this and we fell in love. Fast forward 1 year later and we are engaged and get married in 9 months and I've never felt so lucky in my life to find a woman like her that appreciates the small gestures

“I’m Fresh, I’m Fit, I’m moisturized… and MONETIZED!” The shade never ends! 😂

The most disgusting part is that she’s so obsessed with herself she spends the entire time looking at her phone to see herself rather than looking at the person she was having the conversation with.

Nothing wrong with the Cheesecake Factory! They have good food and are moderately priced. Her behavior was disgraceful and ungrateful period.

She's doing him a HUGE favour by putting all her red flags on the field up front and self selecting OUT of the dating market.

She expected him to just deal with it. The repercussions of her actions was just hilarious.

The fact that they were suppose to go to a nicer restaurant and missed their reservation because she was an HOUR late. Ridiculous.

She was shocked that he actually stood up for himself and respectfully took her and her nasty entitled attitude right back home.

As a 40 something year old, during the times I dated pre marriage. I swear, my ideal date was grabbing two cups of coffee & walking at park/beach/pier & talk about life. Seriously. Those simple 1:1 dates were the best. I’m happily married now & so grateful. Yo this new mentality is on another level. 😂

Other women will be lining up for a date with this gentleman! He handled this lunacy very well. I’d honestly be beyond confused idk if I’d even understand what was happening if I were him in the moment lol. And this makes me want some Cheesecake Factory, haven’t been there in a minute!!!!

Meanwhile, she’s basic AF and looks like she eats cheesecake for breakfast every morning. Respect to this man for not losing his cool.

What’s crazy is he was the perfect gentleman. Picked her up (in what looks to be a nice car), waited patiently, booked a reservation, pivoted when she made them late, was kind, and asked to get the door for her.

He is such a gentleman. He deserves a lot more. What a good man.

Omg this lady😂 I knew someone like her. This guy is so friken calm and I admire how he turned that around. Another podcast pulled them on to Interview them. Her whole story changed and she was asking for another chance. Because she "understood" how she needs to be more lady like and grateful. She won't change.

I like his style! He was cool, calm and collected. He made his point, didn't lose his temper, she could not look more foolish. He remains a REAL gentleman!

Note, he made a date prior, that had reservations, he made said reservations, and told her what time they had to be there. She took too long getting ready, missed the reservation, and our guy decided it’d be better to go to Cheesecake Factory. So she’s upset cause she didn’t get a more fancier experience, when our guy MADE the reservation to have that experience. The self entitlement is real. Props to our guy to go for better

For me, date was over when she pulled out the phone and started the camera. Too good for cheesecake, meanwhile looks like a street walker.

Damn he waited for an hour!!!! That definitely goes crazy 😂 dude is hella patient

She did NOT get the response she was expecting. 😂 I don't understand how some women have become so entitled. The look on her face and how she changed her tone when he said he was taking her home was priceless! She's gonna end up sad and alone.

Watching someone who thinks they are exposing someone, expose themselves is so satisfying. I’m glad she brought us all on this humbling adventure with her.

This man deserves so much more

Y'all make me feel normal about not being able to control my facial expressions when stupid happens. Thank you.🤣🤣🤣

This dude is actually a badass. Planned on going to a nice restaurant but then changed it to cheesecake AFTER she made him wait outside her house for an HOUR. Yooo mad respect to this dude 🫡

He handled her nonsense better than 99% of guys would have 😂

Just came across your ch recently and love you two together as a team being real n speaking the truth always ❤️ you make me laugh

My question is why?? Why go on the date if you're going to be rude and disrespectful to a perfect gentleman? Don't expect to be treated like "royalty" when you don't behave like it!

"Some of you are so miserable that part of me wishes you die alone" -Aba. Word dawg.

She’s actually one of the most blatant narcissists I’ve ever seen

Brother man is in complete disbelief he had to have that conversation with a grown ass woman

He said Shorty is "MID" and he was KIND !!!!! 😊😊😊😊

She’s lucky she got a ride home acting like that.

Yo this dude deserves a 100 dollar cheesecake gift card for the way he handled this!

8:51 her face says it all I knew he was going to say that she was late. Her face: oh no you’re not gonna tell them I was late you just didn’t

5:33 loving the subtle fresh and fit dig in the ad read

To all the workers at Cheesecake Factory, pay no attention to this woman keep up the good work and I’m on my way right now to provide moral and financial support

The internet been dragging tf outta her for a week now 😂😂😂

Yo preach you're goood, i heard thom yorke when you sang

Him walking back and forth with his head cocked took me out LOL!!

This mans DMs better be blowing up, because the way he handled this, with the utmost class and respect... I've never seen such a gracious trash collector. No piece of garbage has ever been handled with such tenderness and civility. If this is how he treats garbage, imagine how he will treat something valuable!

I think this was the best first date ever... he learned EVERYTHING. He needed to know about her...

Was waiting for you guys to react

Eyy boys! Couldnt wait to see you do this one! Well worth the wait!

Handsome, respectful, level headed, and patient. Dude is an absolute gem.

I give that man MAJOR props. He's not a simp, he's a gentleman of integrity, self-respect & dignity. He gave her the benefit of the doubt about being late, didn't flip out yet still stood his ground & called out her behavior respectfully. He deserves so much better than some twit like that. I don't understand her issue anyways. I'd be in absolute heaven at the cheesecake factory!!

This was a skit. This was not real. Both of them are actors.

this was a SKIT, the ladie's real name is Nickia Lowery. This WAS NOT REAL. There are two different videos of this because their actors. she's coming out with a podcast. smh what is wrong with people these days.

As a woman we do not claim her, I blame the parents for raising her like a princess even as a teenager and she grew up to this immature mentality because of it. Trust me, most of us would not mind Cheesecake Factory and I don’t understand why that’s a problem because CF is not even cheap. 🤦🏽‍♀️

She went viral for being a horrible entitled woman...and she also helped show the world what a good respectful man is. Good gentlemen exist - it's women who choose to be blind. I hope he has a line-up around the block of eligible women now!

It’s REAL! They actually did an interview after it that y’all should watch. It’s pretty wild (not in a ratchet way, but in how real it actually is)…Dude was still mad respectful and nice even in the interview. My mind was literally blown even more after watching it.

Props to that dude for amazing calmness. I think I'd have lost my temper and kicked her out the car in the parking lot of the cheesecake factory. She's got a phone, she can get an uber home.

That "I'm fresh, I'm fit, and I'm monetize" still makes me laugh like it did the first day

My jaw legitimately dropped when he said she didn't come down for an hour. He's incredibly patient, I would've given 20 minutes MAX.

I would totally go for cheesecake and ice cream parlour dates, it’s day time casual, the evening dinner date in restaurants is for later dates where you may be going back to a place together ya know. Would definitely go for cheesecake or a picnic in the park with snacks

9:50 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣... Homeboy in the back is done!!

As a woman I have to say he has way more patience than I would have.

“I have my requirements for a girl and you’ve already broken every one” is a really nice way of saying “I can already tell you’re a waste of my time and energy.”

I agree with you guys 100% !!!! 👏🏽

Bro,is so blessed to see the red flags flying so quickly to save his own life 🏃🏼

OMG I was looking forward to you guys talking about this and as a woman there’s nothing wrong with cheesecake factory. My first date was at cheesecake factory and we bout to get married next year ❤love you guys keep speaking your truth

Respect to the guy for standing his ground and remaining calm and collected.

Love the CF

You Dropped This King 👑

What we witnessed here was a traditional man encountering a modern woman for the first time. That wasnt acting, we just watched that man go through a whole development arc. He just unlocked his sense of self respect.

She’s asking him to compromise when he’s been compromising the entire time! She’s lucky he’s taking her home rather than kicking her out of the car

😂😂😂 radio head reference. Priceless

You guys are hilarious!

He's a real man, respectful, well mannered, well spoken 👏 and has dignity.❤

Honestly he should be thanking her. She just broadcasted how good this man really is to all the women of the world that he’s chivalrous, respectful, and how he’s ready to be a loyal bachelor to a woman who deserves it lol Edit: … who hurt yall? Don’t be Incels because of someone didn’t reciprocate your feelings. Act like a King, not a Child. Be Chad’s, not Eugiene’s

This is such a nice guy man!!!!! Honestly he was patient ngl, nad she started acting humble reaaaaaalll quick soon as he changed his mind.

I have seen this video over 20 times, this is the first time i saw the ending.. thanks Aba and Preach

That guy is the definition of patience. Women like this need to go viral for a much needed reality check.

Saying I can’t go into the cheesecake factory looking like this, she wasn’t entirely wrong. Ma’am was wearing a green dress with purple lipstick, i’m gonna be honest she looked like a clown.

If Marvel hasn't learned me anything else, Green and Purple are villain colors.

I am rewatching this and I just love Preach and Aba's back and forth "like we are all immunised, you are a disease" 😂

As a man who has never been to the Cheesecake Factory in my 20 years of my life I can’t believe she’s this this inconsiderate.

She said ,”look at me,i cannot go into a cheesecake factory.” Girl you look like you dressed for Roscoes.

Gotta love that subtle “My friend…” *looks into the camera* “are you happy now?” Preach finally admitted Aba was his friend.

💯 guys!!

He handled her bullshit like a boss. Sprinkle Sprinkle sounds good in theory, not so much in practice. I'm happy he took her goofy ass home.

The way she handled the whole situation speaks volumes about the type of woman she is. He really did dodge a bullet. And thanks to her going live, many other men will hopefully do the same thing. She set out to embarrass him but basically ruined her reputation in front of the whole world. I love instant karma

u guys walking off after that 1 hour wait is priceless!!🤣🤣🤣

Hour.....the looks aba and preach give are gold.

I’m a woman and she should’ve been taken right home immediately or he should’ve left. The entitlement on her is atrocious.

That man dodged a bullet, if she gets that upset over something so little that’s a red flag

“Who takes someone who looks like this…” Ma’am, you’re lucky that anyone is taking you anywhere.

3:29 Ugghhhhhh that "y'know, cheesecake factory" then the smirk and dead face was rancid.... She'd have been out of that car in a heartbeat. that dude's got some saint level patience because I could never....

“Can’t we compromise” woman, Cheesecake Factory was the compromise. That’s a respectable first plan, let alone a backup

“I’m fresh, I’m fit, I’m moisturized, I’m monetized.” YOU WIN! 😂😂😂

He should’ve took her to McDonald’s the way she looked 😂😂😂😂

Idk if it’s because I’ve been watching for a long time, but I started appreciate da squeaking noise whenever y’all walk around 😂😂😂

I’m a woman and this got me heated. If a nice man wants to take me on a date, I’ll be ready on time and happy to go to the Cheesecake Factory. The sad part is, she doesn’t realize how ugly her attitude and personality make her.

She’s literally so mid and acts so entitled it’s literally insane how some women are so disconnected from the perception other people have of them.

2:46 anyone who annunciates a word like this is the reddest of red flags