Preach are you doing okay ? I really feel like you guys need a hug. You’ve been looking at some difficult topics lately, don’t forget to take care of yourselves ! I always appreciate your perspectives!!
False rape accusations should result in legal consequences. Edit: Let me clarify. People who intentionally falsely accuse others of rape should get the same sentence the "rapist" would have gotten.
well there's defamation but there should be grades to it like murder has. False rape accusations even when found false and proven false will hold lifetime consecuenses for the accused that at times are irreparable. That mother will still excuse herself till the day she dies, with no children at her bedside and nothing but a fractioned family full of bitterness or a family that healed and repaired their relationships by crossing her out.
Yes.!! And, I would argue, anyone whom falsely accuses another of such an abominable act as rape ought to face the same punishment as the "rapist" would have incurred. Added to that, any financial costs associated with this false allegation ought to be paid by the liar, any time lost at work, any court costs and lawyers fees, any psychological treatment to be covered and the "pain and suffering" compensation for all the heartache. This subject sits pretty close to my heart after a false allegation was levied against my son. Thankfully, the truth came out and we did not have to endure a trial. Even so, there is a stigma attached to those whom have been falsely accused, one that sticks with them for a LOOOOOOONG, long time.
If it's proven to be factually false the accuser gets the original punishment the accused would have gotten. +5 years and financial compensation. Nothing short of that will be justice in my eyes or mind.
After a few minutes of processing I realize how shit that it was pretty shitty for the daughters too. I imagine if that became a rumor at school they would have had a real rough go.
My late dad was a truck driver so he wasn’t home a lot. When he was away, my mom would call him a monster and try to convince me of a bad person he was...at the same time spending all of his money. My dad could be an asshole but he was at least a truthful asshole. My mom lied so much about him and put him through absolute hell.
This is beyond disrespectful this estranged him from his kids. She is create a lie from the pit of hell. This is what men go through all the time.She create a hole in everyone of those people. Women that do this destroy the family.
There is nothing she can do the apologize for that disrespect. She destroyed years of his life. How are you supposed to apologize for that. You can’t get this shit back
After her affair failed, my ex-wife told my kids that I poisoned her. She told everyone on the island we live on. I was called in for questioning by police. She was trying to get me arrested and simultaneously trying to take my pension. Fortunately for me the lie failed, and she got nothing in the divorce. But the immediate aftermath was I didn't speak to my adult children for 8 months until they started realizing that their mother was lying. To say it hurt me to my core is an understatement.
You’ll be fine my brother walk in the path of Jesus Christ and you shall rest peacefully at night. Don’t let the devil in your ex-wife posses you and steal you god love. Have a bless day and never stop loving your enemies. If harm shall come there way let it be by their own hands just as Judas after he betrayed Jesus. God is great, Gd night
i understand what preach saying , but this father was not absent on purpose. he couldn't be around his little daughters because of what the mother accused him of.
Truth truth TRUTH! I’d rather be abandoned than abused. It was trendy to stigmatize all black men for leaving. Finally we get back to balance: some relationships are worse together than apart. Plain and simple.
This hurt to watch. He seems like a good man, the girls suffered bc of their mother’s bullshit. This is why it’s important to have integrity in coparenting.. the children pick up the tab for your bad behavior toward their other parent. She hurt everyone around her with this lie.. they didn’t deserve this
With three kids there usually is at least one that still stands by the mother. You're not going to erase 25+ years of being raised by the mother - and thus her imprinting her own twisted way of thinking on the children - with a single lie detector test. FFS people are in jail for rape or murder and their partner still loves them.
Imagine living his life with a registered sex offender label stamped on his back. The children lost their father while he lost his entire existence. I can't even imagine how he coped with that.
That's the father's role. It ain't about you or yall. It's about them. The wife can have the family unit and the ideals and such that the man supports, but his job is to take care of the kids. She is grown and capable especially in today's society. It's on him to support and the worst way a woman can hurt a man is to force him to work and support a child without him having any influence on the development. This was just evil and she cool with it. It's easier to just not get there with the wrong one...well easier said for most of us.
Honestly, “hurt people hurt people” is not a valid excuse for me. It’s a vengeful and shallow reaction to being hurt. Break the cycle don’t perpetuate it.
I always feel bad for others who got hurt, because I've been through that. I was broken and made whole again. I survived without perpetuating the pain I've endured. So I give no sympathy when they're hurt and go on to hurt others. Zero sympathy. None at all. Because the minute they pass on the pain: they become the problem. Not the past, not the pain, but them.
that's true that hurt people hurt people. but hurt people can be kind to people because they don't want others to be hurt. and non hurt people can hurt people because they are psychopaths.
@@raymonds7492 The fucked up part is this type of stuff BEEN goin on, for at least 60 years. Weaponizing children and keeping them from their fathers is the most evil thing that a woman can possibly do. A lot of mothers ain't shit. Probably most of them.
Fighting a bitter baby mama over the kid/s will only make you lose mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually & financially. Just call it a loss & move on.
@@g.o.a.tjames3256 When I say "fight", I mean never stop making an effort to be there for your children, in every way that you can, as much and as often as humanly possible. My apologies for any confusion that I might have caused. I hope that you never have to face a life of painful fatherhood, like a lot of us have to endure. 😰
Been a single father to twin daughters for 4 years now. This shut right here is true af. My bm was literally a fucking danger to myself and our daughters. And I still had to toe the line to avoid getting tossed in jail. And still have shit thrown on my name because of trash that came out of her mouth.
Man…scrolling through the comments and seeing all of the stories about people’s bad experiences with their own mother really makes be grateful of the mother and father I have. I am truly sorry for everyone who has been through anything remotely close to this. God bless.
Thank you. Thank you for not saying this like “we should forgive our parents” or stuff like that. Thank you for understanding the different experiences and not dismissing them. Best wishes for you and your family. ❤
Some men do some messed up shit but women......they can destroy a man's life with a few sentences....A FEW GODDAMM SENTENCES...a few lies....and have NO repercussions AT ALL.....society is far more than disappointing my friend
U can spread the word of Kristy rene Anderson aka Kristy rene goodloe and her lies in Idaho make the police hold her accountable make them hold police accountable for allowing this behavior by women
@Ayanokoji SOCIETY doesn't. It's us you idiots, it's us who believe women over men. It's us who privilege them over the testimony of another human being. It is our innate desire to protect women and because of that we give them the greater benefit of the doubt over another man. It's us ... it's not simps and it's not men in general, it's all of us. Women AND men.
@@isabellathecutekitty4340 it's true fathers get screwed in court. Court gives women custody 91% of the time only way he would have gotten them kids is if the mother is a crackhead
@@armandohenriquez2103 sometimes even if they are a crackhead and have mental problems they will still get custody. jonathan vanderhagen lost full custody of his 2 year old child despite the fact the mother wasn't fit for having full custody. you know what the judge said when jonathan said she wasnt fit? he said its all in the past. later on the 2 year old child died and when jonathan spoke out against the court they jailed him for 2 months.
@common sense detector you are not really living up to your name as the "common sense dectector" with this argument. There are 8 billion people on this planet. This excat same scenario with the roles reversed could have happened, it may not of happened. My guess is it probably has happened just because of sheer probability. But since neither of us know 8 billion peoples life story there is no way of proving or disproving it. And it is not a gender thing. You have toxic men and women because human beings are just capable of huge levels of toxicity. So please live up to your name and stop being a childish idiot.
this video made me cry remembering what my mother would say to me about my dad. i missed SOOOO many years with my dad because of her bs & lying to me as a child. i’ll always feel guilty for believing her & allowing her to keep me away from him. RIP dad, i’m sorry! 💔
i hear and feel you, i can personally relate. my mother said horrible things when we were too young to understand. later she intercepted mail from us to him and him to us. when i was 15 and snooping in her things i found the letters. she only kept the ones he sent (i think she liked to read his pain, it's the only thing that makes sense). they all said the same thing we felt. "why don't you write to me? do you not love me anymore?" things like that. it fvcking broke my heart. that was HARD to get past. and he died 4 years later. all those years she robbed from us. God almighty! still breaks my heart. please forgive yourself and put the blame where it belongs. i hope you find your hearts ease.
Fight harder.... That line hurts me. If I don't fight, I'm weak. If I fight, it's not enough. If I fight harder, I'm possessive and abusive. Any sign of danger/instability from anyone. Walk away slowly.
It's sad that something can be so devastating to a person they actually take there own life sorry to the ppl who had and are having to go through a loss in this way.
I think that quote resonated so much with me, too. It also highlights why my father took full custody of me in 1983... a black man, who literally searched the laws to figure out how to actually win, during a time when most Black folks of all genders, were being inundated with a heroin and crack epidemic. This is also why I've always empathized with male-identifying parents. Truth is, and unfortunately, women can be so callous. Sad. We can all do better, for sure.
@@TeraGreene1 Wow, that's an amazing "testimony". I'm glad you at least had one parent who cared about your well-being. For me, my mother was very abusive, both physically and psychologically and my dad was never in my life at all. I reconnected with him some years ago, but it was evident that he didn't care about me either. However, with all that being said, I still have more trauma to work through that my mom caused than what my dad caused.
My grandson is going through this now. The ex wife, is doing things and saying things to those babies to make them hate him, and Brad is the finest sweetest young man. Works hard, she says now she want to have 50/50 custody so she can date freely now. but wants him to pay child support for the whole year.....it just keeps getting worse everyday. And we just tell him be the best dad you can be, love them, don't say bad things about her. Keep a bloody journal! Of everything..... It makes me so sad...
@@terryhogan327 it really baffles my mind how people like that woman can walk freely while being a leech to society. I hope grandson goes through this well and on top of this situation.
This woman not only destroyed the life of her ex partner,by falsely accusing him of the most heinous thing but also harmed the very important relationship between a father and his kids,for revenge! Shouldn't that be prosecuted? I'm gonna say it again...we need to believe people based on EVIDENCE and not on GENDER.
Βαρώνη Δελητάνη Unfortunately, with real victims, the evidence is not always easily obtained. The perpetrator does these acts hidden from the view of others. And this woman took advantage of that fact. She should be punished for her lies.
@@Tangerinesorbet I totally agree. In addition,I believe that, these issues should be handled in a different way(not quite sure how)but not as an entertainment product. The only positive (if I can even say that)thing is that people watching these clips have a more wholesome perspective on what's equality today and how it affects both genders.
In my country you can't just sue even if you have proof. This story is si similar to mine its chilling. But as a man you get unfairly treated when kids are involved. I bet he got no help from the social services even if they knew the allegations are false
@@alexpurchas1538 what country you from? In the uk some witch tried weaponising the kids against my brother. After months of his health deteriorating, he found himself walking happily outta the courtroom with full custody and her in tears. Uk is know for being biased but there was hope not sure if that helps but hopefully it does 🤞🏾.
After 25 years, a decent person won't have the energy to do anything against them. Because any action would be less for her, but sufficient for him to be in prison.
Take out "sometimes" and that's spot on. It takes no effort to be absent. And an absent father (as mine was) won't necessarily cause harm (as mine didn't). But a toxic mother is actively making things worse. I'm very thankful to my mother for not being toxic (even towards my father). It was that character she displayed that kept me from building bitterness in my heart.
I agree. Most times toxic anyone is worst then absent, I wished my dad was absent for a long time but people dont get that cause they'll tell you "at least you have a dad/mom".
Of course they are. Absent father's aren't there. Which is bad, but they're not actively harming the child through their actions. Their inaction has ramifications, yes, but it's not then purposefully harming their child. Toxic mother's at there, spitting poison and bile into the minds of their children, knowingly damaging their relationship with their father and likely men in general, and can in turn even lead to absent father's, as seen from this video.
Society doesn’t acknowledge toxic moms enough. They are allowed to operate as they please and harm who ever they see fit with no punishment and society will see this POS mother and then protect her like she is a diamond. Wise up people!!
My mother used me for welfare benefits, didn't allow me around my biological father and kept making stories up while she would leave me with random people growing up then abandoned me 15, I looked for my father and found out he died that year and then when she reentered my life she slapped me infront of my friends and we fought the same day she came back... she turned my whole family against me and said, "She was abusing her and sleeping around with boys when she was on drugs, and I was a Virgin. It took a lot of forgiveness but still angry my reputation is ruined by her still to this day she successfully isolated me to where I'm a ruined adult at 33.
You aren't a ruined adult. You got a taste of the ugliness of the world much sooner than most, but you can still move forward, step by step. And part of being an adult is realizing you can't hide from the nasty shit people say and do to you and about you. So, the fact that you are fighting to move forward and not stay trapped in the hole she dug for you shows that you are adjusting well. Just keep going and building yourself back up and don't stress about it too much in the meantime. Anyone who believed her lies was either naive or not worth your time.
The accusation is public with name and details, forever searchable. The retraction, if any, will be smallprint somewhere. And then you're still fighting the "where there's smoke, there's fire" thoughts, plus the fact that the initial impression has been completely ruined already. Guess what happens when you apply for jobs and such.
I know... personally went thru it myself.. Luckily she was dumb enough to send a taunting msg to my ex-wife(wife at the time) on fb, pretty much saying, "hahaha, yea I lied about the rape since he chose you over me. Enjoy your marriage." Ex-wife took her laptop str8 to the police station with the msg still open and showed it to them. Detective flat out said, "I figured. What an idiot." But in the end, nothing happened to her smh
Narcissism is very ugly people outside and in regardless how they look. They're dead souls with no hope of repentance. They're REBROBRATES. They're literally a vessel for satan at that point. What you seeing in the video is a demonically puppetted person.
@@Kurt_Duaneits the common mindset of people now a days, no personal responsibility. It's always someone else's fault not their own. it's gotten so bad its even affecting people that were raised in a time of personal responsibility.
Beyond men not wanting to fight an almost impossible legal battle, men have to think extremely hard about even living with a woman or having unprotected sex, because once in a defacto relationship or a child is produced your at risk.
He wouldn't fight her lies back in the day. There is barely a defense against a mother lying like this today. Majority of men accused still lose their kids today. You can't fight the system and win as a man.
Forgiveness is misunderstood. How my father explained it to me was this: "Forgiveness of your enemies is putting them on notice for the Lord's judgment. You've pressed charges. Let the Law deal with the rest." Forgiveness is letting you remove yourself and out of the way of Cosmic Law enforcement. Holding that anger takes years to dissipate. God understands that. But you can't be a spiritual vigilante and take Cosmic Law into your own hands. Leave it to the Courts. Understanding this helped me forgive my enemies a lot easier, and really, their sin committed against me is not my weight...it's THEIRS.
Facts. Forgiveness is hard, but like the old story in the Bible goes. God forgives me for my sins and mistakes so I should do the same for others. I heavily agree with what you said. Just like God says, "Justices is yours; Vengeance is mine."
@@kenudice9841 You hit the nail right on the head. I remember in middle school we had to read a book called, "To Kill a Mockingbird". The book was fiction and it covered several themes but the author did say that the actions depicted in the book described what happened around her in real life during the 1930's. Namely, (white) women pointing their fingers at a (black) man and saying "He rap**d me". Well you can guess what happened then after a statement like that is said out loud. The men in the town listened and believed, and suddenly the next you see, everyone is standing around grinning ear to ear next to a black man hanging from a tree. You can still find the pictures if you want. Was justice served? Which political party advocated, "Believe all women" then and which political party still espouses the same attitude? Be mindful, when you hear the phrase, "It's my truth". Women didn't care about their sons then and they don't care now. Where are the marches from the so called "mothers" to protect their sons? Listen and believe all women? I think we've had all enough of that. But it doesn't matter what I think because women make up the majority of voters and they don't care enough about their own sons to want to protect them by having laws enacted to prosecute vindictive women.
@@kenudice9841 the #Metoo movement is to bring light to actual victims of sexual assault. In any positive movement there will be toxic and dangerous people using it to push sick agendas. Women like this "mother" spits in the face of every genuine victim of abuse and lessens the credibility of their assaults. This shit has been happening to men for a long time. This hidden and unpunished emotional and psychological trauma is an outrage. And men who have experienced this crime on them should also have their stories told. #Metoo for them as well. Women who report false crimes directly hurt women reporting actual crimes and ruin innocent men's lives. I'm so sick of generalizations of generations, genders, movements, races etc.
@@cniknik9863, as you stated, "In any positive movement there will be toxic and dangerous people using it to push sick agendas."I see that you conveniently forgot to mention anywhere in your writing, any consequences for those individuals who lie about being sexually assaulted. The ends justify the means, right? Who cares if innocent people accuse of sexual assault and their families are destroyed. What's important is "Her truth" needs to be shouted to the heavens. If you cared about justice, you would demand what you stated earlier, but more importantly, that all liars be mandatorily given 20 yrs to life for lying about sexual assaults. You strike me as one who would be more than satisfied that the liars be given a dismissed misdemeanor charge. Maybe life should find a way for someone to accuse you of r*pe and you find yourself without the money to defend your good name. After you have been passed around with every HIV/Herpes infected prisoner, you'll eventually get out of prison. At that point, you can tell us how much more important it is for the MeToo cowards to espouse "their truth" than it is for innocent people to have a law that forces the justice system to throw the book at all liars.
AnObviousMjolnir its never all women, but its way too many. We let women get away with shit like this and so only the best ones chose to be accountable even though they don’t need to.
if i was her daughter i would simply never speak to her again that is an INCREDIBLE character flaw and this cannot be the only time shes abused her daughters like this, this would've been the straw that broke the camel's back
This girl my brother rejected accused him of rape, and she would always say “I can’t take it back if you date me, it’s that simple”. She was so bitter he didn’t like her that she took this lie all the way to court, dragging my brother through the mud and putting his life at risk. Thank God the truth came to light, but I’ll never forget the tears of anger and pure frustration that he cried every night, then those tears of relief and thankfulness when it was over. Naturally she faced no legal repercussions, she wasn’t even expelled. I’m just grateful some of the girls in her dorm caught her lacking.
God as a man this sounds like the epitome of frustration. I am sure women too who were actually raped and deserve justice will be hurt as these fucking liers are also indirectly hurting their credibility too. Something needs to be done. The law needs to be changed in a way that makes liers pay without scaring away actual rape victims. (I am using male and female in the stereotypical roles because I am most familiar with that. not saying women can't rape and men can't be raped. but that is another can of worms imagine being a man trying to convince a court you were raped by a woman...)
@James Cooper yea his mental health took a huge blow. He was already dealing with a lot so this was just the icing on the cake. He was diagnosed with depression, we couldn’t leave him alone, and till this day it’s messed up how he sees women. Girls are threatening rather than nurturing to him. I’m so sorry you had a similar experience. It’s not fair and it’s not right. I’m literally crying for him and you and others that have been tormented like this. I’m so sorry my love
Narcs have a wonderful way of blaming their victims for their abusive behavior and its never enough what they put you through. If you call it out thats when they double down to attack your character even more.
Calling someone diabolical is assuming that they are intelligent and in total control of their "master plan". This is an old lying b that's all. Dime a dozen
@@youngshaun92 lol I'm sorry...I don't consider lying to yourself and everyone around you intelligent and in control. People who get caught up in lies are not in control. The lie was in control she couldn't even convince herself to tell the truth on her own due to her disillusioned pride. Not in control of self. Not smart. Just destructive. Ps she didn't even get what she wanted in the end...so definitely not smart.
I'm never too upset that fathers arent around because if he made the choice to not be there then imagine the damage he could have done by being around I rather you walk out and instead of sticking around and making my life hell cuz after my parents devorce the first breath I took when my dad left was the first breath of a new life I was at peace
@@garciamckenis8135 in your situation, it does sound like you were better off without your father. However, the situation in this video is very different, the man WANTED to be in his children's lives, and he wanted the best for them. These women got stuck with the wrong parent.
And yet the first, and most important villain in your comment, is men. Shocking... Then get off your lazy ass and change the courts.. We mgtow will sit and wait...because we know you won't. Getting that check is more important. Make no mistake sitting around doing jack and ahit is what's allowing this shit to happen. We mgtow have already walked away, when your screaming for help because someone took your gas can away..or some bad dudes are taking your shit and burning your business down..and you turn to us..MEN..to save you..we won't. Becsuse as you sat on your ass allowing this shit to happen..when the bad things start happening to you..we won't help you. That is the world your single moms fought for..enjoy it. Hope you like it. Don't like it? Wtf you doing to fix it?
I’m the oldest of three daughters and my mother did this. Luckily I was old enough to know better but both my sisters have been brainwashed by the abuse. My fathers life has been ruined. My relationships with everyone on my mothers side and my sisters no longer exist. My mother has no remorse. This shit hit so hard. Thank you for covering such a sensitive topic.
Same, I was 16 when my parents divorced and my mom filled my head with lies and made my dad the villain because he cheated, it costed me years of having a good relationship with my dad who as an adult now I realize is emotionally repressed and can't express himself properly, and that played out in the wrong way for him. He did some bad things too, like being verbally abusive to my sister which led me to want to break his jaw. I feel like ass everytime I remember those days, they did us dirty, we were a kid and a teenager, I wish my parents would have acted like adults.
There is a special place in hell for people like that who are that spiteful and vindictive to innocent third parties like that. There are some lines you just do not cross. That shit must have been traumatising. I send you all the virtual hugs in the world and I hope you're doing well these days
My ex-wife pulled this on me. Same story. I couldn’t see them for 2 (almost 3 years). Has to get a lawyer to finally see my kids again when I was able to afford a good one. A lot of these women out here are truly “ain’t shit individuals”.
But how can she even begin... she messed her girls up for years by maintaining this lie. I hate my kids father, but I’m kind to him, I don’t talk poorly of him (around my children and usually not any other time unless I need to vent to an adult friend) and I make sure to nurture the relationship between my girls and their dad. They won’t know we aren’t together because he tried to kill us when they were just babies. That’s how it’s got to be for healthy children. This woman is so fucking vile and you can see this mans demeanor..he is so above this bullshit. He should never accept her apology, she ruined their children’s lives and the fathers lives with this lie. Fuck her. There should be some punishment for her. This ain’t a mistake, this is her being a terrible person. The father is obviously a good man and could have been a great influence on his daughters. What a shame
i can relate to that. i'm happy for you didn't let that video get the best of you. so, excuse for a second.... i'll have to go browse for a new computer screen....and a new mouse ;)
Gene1 X, Narcissism. Accepting responsibility is not going to happen. I was surprised to "hear the words sorry" even though not meantful. Still it takes alot for them to utter the words. "sorry".
Or they at least know it’s something that’s a possibility of happening to them growing up by being exposed to the false accusations or put them at risk of it actually happening by someone else. It’s robbing children of their innocence
This happened to me and my sisters. My mom tried so hard to keep us from our Dad. When he bought us stuff she would either return it to the store, hide it from us, find any excuse to ground us from it. And once she grounded us from it, we never saw it again. It didn’t matter what it was. The only thing she would take from him or his family, is money. The few times we did see him, she and her mom would interrogate us and make us feel so bad, like we betrayed them if we had fun. If his girlfriend braided or styled our hair, she would take them down as soon as we got home. I remember trying really hard to hate his girlfriend trying to be loyal to my mom, but I couldn’t because she was so nice to me, my sisters and my dad.
@@prouddegenerates9056 It was. But my Dad was very abusive and violent towards my mom. He cheated on her with many women after they got marries and also gave her an STD. At one point told one of his girlfriends where we lived and she came over banging on our windows and front door screaming and yelling for my Dad to come out. And when she took off her tires skirted. I’ll never forget that. That was scary as shit. My dad also got hooked on cocaine and years later rock cocaine and drank a lot. So my mom did have good reason to do what she did but it’s a tough situation because me and my sisters were affected by all of it. So he started it, and she had all the smoke for him 😂 but 🤷🏾♀️. They both passed away a year apart from each other. My mom passed on New Year’s Day 2012 and my Dad passed away on Mother’s Day 2013.
@@EbonyWhitee I was was beat, because my father was terrified I’d be weak. He endured more then I could describe in his childhood, but to greatly simplify, he was viciously violated, burned, raped, starved and more. His sister was sexually abused too, but she ultimately starved to death. He blamed himself, because he was thrashed like a pathetic dog as a little boy, who only wanted to protect his sister. He would be locked in a room for days without food, where he’d hear her cry and scream. My sister was cherished, protected like sacred treasure, terrified anything could happen to her, paranoid she’d end up like his sister. My father would die without hesitation for her, but was far harsher with me.
@@prouddegenerates9056 It seems like he also projected his inability to protect his own sister onto you! His I’m so so sorry to hear about all of that. 😧
This made me cry. These girls literally grew up thinking their dad molested them. That is so sad. That mom obviously didn’t care about her girls either.
@@neneodonkor they were children. They were under the primary care of their mother. As children they probably knew the truth but we're afraid to speak!
Daughter: I want you to say that he never f**ked his kids. Mother: I apologise, will you forgive me. Notice how she avoided doing what her daughter asked her to do. Typical narrisist refusing to do a simple things. Life is a game to most people and she is still trying to downplay her actions by not admitting it directly. Thanks for covering this. More people need to see this type of person at play.
When she said "please forgive ME" that's actually all she wanted to say; "me, me, me, forgive me, do what's good for me, me, me, me, this is all about me". Ye, agreed, she's a narcissist.
In Islam the punishment for falsely accusing a husband or wife of adultery (in this case with his daughters so it is more serious accusation) is 100 lashes in front of a crowd of wise witnesses.. you think it's fair enough ?
“Why didn’t you fight harder” That line is, at least, top 5 toxic things you can say. People talk so much shit about men abandoning their children but never stop to think “Why does he have to FIGHT to be involved?” Women are out here telling men “You should have fought hard(er)” rather than telling their knucklehead friends “Stop fighting that man if he’s trying to be in his child’s life.”
That’s why I tell chicks off rip, if we end up having a baby and u become mad toxic, I’m just gonna leave. I’m gonna abandon the situation. I’m not fighting for shit
@@joewill9967 Yeah, then watch that very toxic female start spewing lies and hatred about you to your child, which then might spread to your friends/family.
I agree!!!!! A toxic mother is WORST than an absent father!! The damage is beyond repair. Where’s the nurturing that’s supposed to come from this?!?! No accountability!!!
She knows she can get away with it , Its sad. They can get away with 25 YEARS, of torment , and lies , and un merited hate , and so much more. Why ? Because if you are a man your problems don't exist anymore. And if you are a woman it is ALWAYS the mans fault.
Hurt people who haven’t done the work to fix themselves up hurt people. Hurt people who have done the work make sure they don’t hurt others the way they were hurt.
Grey i get what you’re saying.. but in life, we’re all going to get hurt at some point. So no I don’t feel for those who go around abusing others because they were abused. The cycle was CREATED. Its not just some happening of chance. These are CONSCIOUS decisions and the fact that we see the abuser as a “victim” would justify there actions. Do you think ppl like this ever stop to think that they are harming somebody? No because they are too busy focusing on the fact that they were did wrong. Im speaking from experience on both sides. Ive been both the abuser and the abused. It didn’t stop until I got stop being told i was the victim. I didn’t change until I realized that regardless what I went through it was WRONG of me to put anybody else through it. Its hard to look at ourselves and say we are wrong, its a blow to the ego many can’t handle. And people who have dealt with abuse have WEAK EGOS so that one blow can crush them. We as a people have to stop making excuses for those who make excuses for themselves. Its simply not healthy.
This monster didn't just ruin his life, she ruined the life of her daughters as well. She used her daughters as weapons, and won many battles. At this moment, she lost the war. It was all for nothing.
Do u feel how proud she is when he says, “This has broken me..” she like lights up with joy for a second, watch her eyes and her shoulders. She definitely lost the war, since the truth is out, but that right there was another battle one for her. She’s still wanted him to feel broken, even after the truth was revealed. Evil shit man
I love how he said " This is no game, this is these children's life". He is putting his children in front of himself even though he's probably hurting the most. What a man!
@@superchargedhelium956 Not in today's society. The media, courts and online forums are ALL BIASED FOR WOMEN. The few who aren't are smeared as woman haters and belittled.
@@Navrozs that's part of the joke in one of Bill Burr comedy special. If you haven't watched it, then it would be hard for you to understand the context of Op's comment.
This was extremely hard to watch. My ex wife has made my life absolute hell. She has separated me from my kids with lies and violence. I feel helpless to do anything about it. I guess I'm grateful the lies aren't as evil as this woman's, but her attitude reminds me of my ex so much. No matter what she does it's still somehow always my fault. I have no idea what I did to deserve such hateful behaviour and live every day with a hole in my heart that can never be mended. I love you Jade, Seth and Jye and hope some day soon we are back together.
Sorry Bro. What amazes me is if you read the comments, you hear all this horrific stories about women doing toxic things. But society never focuses on the trauma us men goes through. We are victims in these situations, but once our name is cleared, the women can still go on with their lives, like nothing even happened. It’s infuriating. I hope everything works out for you, talk to other men that been through it. Don’t talk to women, they will give you bad advice.
This is exactly why we cannot make sweeping generalizations and only blame men for being absentee fathers. SOMETIMES it's situations like these that prevent the fathers from being in their child's lives. SOMETIMES the mother brainwashes the child with lies to make the child not want anything to do with their father.
@@andyk9735 I agree. My dad left my mom when I was just a baby because she cheated on my dad in a foursome (horrible woman. She is with a different guy every couple weeks) and she had the audacity to weave this massive lie to all her family and friends, to which some still believe, including siblings on her side I've never even met, that my dad was the one who cheated on her and also beat her, and stole her child (me) away from her. Truth is, my mother could've came to visit me any time she wanted. She just never cared to. The last time I saw her, I was 4 years old. She came by for my birthday and bought me a happy meal from McDonald's (didn't even ask what kind I wanted, I just got told to suck it up and eat what she got for me) and also a train set from Goodwill (the train didn't work, and it only had about 5 tracks) she paid $5 for (still had the sticker on it). Since then, I've absolutely despised her. She could've came to see me any time she wanted. I didn't hear from her again after that until my dad actually tried to start getting child support from her because things were getting expensive. She was receiving disability and unemployment apparently, and receiving pay under the table, so my dad didn't have any way of getting any help. As soon as he tried though, my mom contacted me on Facebook and tried getting in good with me to see if I'd come live with her so she could take it to court to get my dad to pay her child support instead. To this day, I don't think I've ever been so pissed off in my life. I told her if I ever saw her again, I didn't care that she was a woman, I'd knock her the fuck out. Still don't know anything about her nor where she is. Probably has every STD known to man. Idk.
More than sometimes. I see it all the time. It happens a lot y’all just don’t want to take blame. Even now by you trying to minimize it by saying SOMETIMES. SOMETIMES people get raped. See what I did there?
After my oldest sister died when I was 8, my parents divorced. My father financially took care of my mom and my mom's kids by two other men for 10 years. During the divorce, my mom tried smearing his name and made false allegations along with draining his 401K. I always knew my dad was a good man but she ruined our relationship because after the allegations my dad never sat near his kids, hugged us, stood too close to us, it hindered him being able to show his love. No pat on the back, no high fives, just nothing. I was 18 when I broke the barrier. Looked him in the eyes and told him it was okay. I just held my arms out and it was a hug long over do, he cried and he never cries. What she did is disgusting. The worst thing a person can be accused of is hurting their children. She ruined years of others lives just because she was too selfish to deal with her own pain and move on. He is a beautiful man to hold it down through something like that.
@Galva Tron I don't have more than a RU-vid account so... Good try. Considering I am in the Army, I would find it quite stupid if I went around hating men. Clearly you did not understand my story and clearly you are an angry person. Keep you negative bullshit outta here and I wish ya the best luck in life.
I recently had a discussion with my 22yr old daughter who figured out the lies her mother told her for 20yrs. She asked me why I never corrected the lies her mother told her. I told her I did: I did with my actions, I never carried nor conducted myself nor did the things your mother said. I lived the truth, your mother lived lies. You had already established trust issues with one parent that was me, I didn't see what good could come out of you losing trust issues in both. I would never call your mother a liar to you, I would never talk bad or down to you about her .. She is more skilled with words, lies & games than I am. The only thing that I had in my power to do was be right, be good & be honest in life. And hope & pray that eventually what's in the dark shall come to light. And it did, her mother lived and went in and out of 1000 examples of her hypocrisy over those 20yrs. She made the big mistake of repeating the very same lying process with Multiple baby daddies until she lost all credibility
And that's the mentally of toxic women or toxic people in general. " I refused to take all the blame for all the action I'VE taken, so you need to take a part of the blame" When people play that card it infuriates me.
@Xinny The Flu Yep and some people praise themselves for doing what they're supposed to do. "I feed him, put a roof on his head, buy him clothes, gave him a bed to sleep" UM... YES, YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO DO THAT!
Had he “fought harder” she would have twisted it and he’d probably be dead due to her lying. Women do this a lot and they have no shame, but they want men and to be married? Fuck out of here!
Asking for forgiveness after saying he should have fought harder after she lied and said he sexually assaulted his children? My god, the audacity is unbelievable.
@Talking ape on giant ball flying through space what does this have to do with race, white women do the same thing. you just aknoledged her skin colour and made it about race wtf.
a toxic mother is ALWAYS more damaging than an absent father. you might feel abandoned by the father but the slow torture of abuse you can't escape from breaks you down to nothing in the long run.
This hits home. My ex wife had been lying to the courts for almost 11 years. I haven't seen my kids in 11 YEARS. I only hope one day my children see through her lies and realize how much I love and miss them.
@StoneBoiii420 Nope. She used the common misconception that I am a Combat Vet and have chronic PTSD. I caught her having an affair and that morning went to the police to have me removed. No judge will EVER side with a former special operations soldier with severe combat PTSD.
@@kimharper8444 Why did you have to bring race into it? That's ridiculous. Theres horrible mothers and women if all colors. And before you call me out, I am a black mother.
Watching this, you see that the woman had no remorse or regret, even while knowing that she completely ruined this man’s life and his relationship with his children. That’s evil!!!
InfoZone I don’t think that’s a fair assessment. I get where you may be coming from, and you probably don’t mean ALL black women, but bitterness comes in all forms and genders. You feel me
Retro Pyro For sure, then she’s gonna be wondering how it went wrong as if she took no part in this. Guarantee she makes herself out to be the victim in this situation
@@shadowagent7361 this man has probably experienced his friends and family maybe even his own mother and father look at him with absolute disgust, avoiding him and most certainly talked badly about him, everyone around him would have been like this, he would have felt like the whole world is against him and drowning in despair for many years, this would have caused mental degradation on him and he would have been spiralling for a long time, tbh many people way before this point would have took their own life, which I think I would have, I think by this point if you have not lost yourself your strong character of the past will be broken and most likely lost for good so I'm not surprised he did not hit her and at this point it would be rare for someone so broken to hit someone
When I divorced my husband. I made sure our son's called and went to see him regularly. It's important for kids to have a relationship with their father. So sad, MIRACLES PEACE FAITH AND BLESSINGS 🙏🏾✝️🙏🏾
I see this all the time: mother divorces father. But mother wants kids to have a relationship with father so mother makes the child call the father. They don't know each other. They live in different places. Just talking on the phone, usually while the mother is within hearing, is just awkward and weird for kids even when they know their fathers but these kids never spend time with their father because he is living in a car somewhere with a bunch of his paycheck going to child support while the kid is living in a big house talking about how school is a drag. So their relationship dissolves and the phone calls become another formality imposed by the mother on both against their wills, and then the mother still blames the father she divorced for not being more present in the family she excludes him from. Not accusing you obviously.
So sad, it happens all the time even in relationships, that have no marriage or kids, some women just want to break their ex partners beyond recognition
Yeah... I don't know what can be done to stop this awful shit from happening, but it needs to happen. This DESTROYS, not only the fathers lives, but also the lives of the kids on so many fucking levels. It's so fucked up.
The worst part is if a child is told this young enough, the children will start to believe and remember those things and it also damages those children just as if they HAD been abused. It is evil AF to do that to a man, but you have to be a special kind of evil to do that to your own kids.
madelyn kay Very true. I’ve had to learn myself as I’ve gotten older. It’s really just a matter of having empathy, acknowledging the damage you’ve caused, and working to be a better person. This lady however, should probably also face consequences for something so harmful.
On a related note: My friend was severely abused by her mom, and she would mention it often to teachers at school and even the counselor. All of sudden, there was a series of weeks where she didn't show up to class and there wasn't a note from the office excusing her absence. I thought there was something fishy and I was right. My mom called CAS and she was found beaten, starved, and poisoned in her own house. She died at age 13 in hospital 3 days later...Until we acknowledge that women and mothers can be toxic to, there will continue to be 5 kids that are killed by parents every day, 2 of which, on average, are killed by their mother. Even the most well-known case of child abuse in Canadian history, Aurore Gagnon, was a step-mother abusing her step-daughter until she died at age 10. This has to end!
i think there arnt too many woman who think like you and in these times neither will the goverment put any effort behind this to spread awarenes because us ''Evil" men are not involved in the subject this time
Simple, when the mother is found guilty of abuse either in the situation you described or in this video you just throw em in a jail cell with no light and one meal every month for the rest of their natural lives. When women start seeing that as a punishment they are likely to grow up.... or not..... all the woman would have to say is "my feeling was hurt" and she will be let off with no punishment or warning.
A really horrible true story about severe child abuse is accounted by the victim in his book A Child Called It where his mother is the one that beats and tortures him for years. Cannot remember the author off the top of my head but that’s the autobiography’s title. Really heartbreaking, but he at least survived
I did, too. It was literally about 4 hours before I got back on the computer, and about 45 minutes before I went back to this video. I had to poke around in the timeline to find where I had left off, and was surprised at how soon into the video that exchange happened (it was literally less than 3 minutes into this video!)
Man I could feel the way my blood boil, to the point I started trembling with anger.. The level of ego/narcissism behind her statement made me want to break something in my room to stop myself from seeing red.
My great aunt accused her nephew (so my uncle) of touching her grandchildren. Now my uncle use to watch me and my sibling on multiple occasions at various ages and never laid a hand on us. Not ever. He only ever took a nap on the sofa while our parents were at work. Now my great aunt was upset because my uncle went from living under her thumb to finally getting back on his feet after. Once he was no longer available to do her handyman work for free... she started marking up stories. And the worse part is its not the 1st time she's done something like this to someone. Now I understand why none of her siblings speak to her after all these years.
@@cocoasmooth8382 true. I think most predators are smarter to just take advantage of every child they have access to. You and your siblings can be safe but your cousins may not, or vice versa.
Studies have found that the damage to a child who is told that they were molested is IDENTICAL to the damage suffered by a child who was actually molested - IDENTICAL. God himself gave her the most precious gift imaginable, a child. A child who should only be given Love, to feed that child a diet of Hate. . . For that there can be NO forgiveness.
Yes, because for children, and even adults, you can create false memories by telling them repeatedly that something happened to them. Even if nothing happened. It’s fascinating how often people have false memories. If you have access to PsycInfo you can find peer-reviewed research articles on this. Google scholar should also have some. I’m sure there are videos on RU-vid explaining it as well.
sheepnoisebah yes she does need to go to jail, but she’s not going to. She inflicted the same kind of trauma to the kids as if they actually were assaulted. There’s no justifiable logical reason why she shouldn’t be sent to jail. But she’s not going to ever face any punishment for not only ruining his life, but also scaring all of their daughters.
I think there should be a legal punishment for this type of lying because of the damage kids incur. It isn’t fair that this man and the daughters suffer so much because of her immaturity. It’s incredibly tragic and there should be repercussions for lying in this manner
That’s what I’m thinking. I was actually sexually abused as a child and shit like this is why people don’t believe. It hurts him, it hurts real victims it’s just bullshit.
@@glenjoke10 it depends on who you tell. For example if you told people who have love or respect the abuser(not for abuse) they are more inclined to believe the abuser because of their own views and feelings for the abuser. It also works the other way.
Yes. I have a cousin who had to endure that. She was the spitting image of my uncle and her mother despised her for it. It got so bad she had to live with our grandmother. To this day they have an estranged relationship and that was thirty years ago.
"Why didn't you fight for them harder?" I'm sure nobody in that room would've been mad if that man had reached across and slapped that Franklin the turtle looking woman out of her seat when she said that.
Actually know someone this situation happened to. He took care of his kids when she went to work. She came home one day and found him asleep on the floor with his daughters and she accused him of raping them. Years later she admitted she made it up because of her PTSD. Something similar happened to her with her dad. But by then the girls were grown, and he had no relationship with them because he had no choice but to walk away. You shouldn't be able to just shrug and "my bad" a lie that ruins several lives.
Men love their children just as much as Women. We literally run into burning building to save them and are left with 3degree burns all over are bodies.
@@BigReggii I don’t have kids yet, but if I did and I had to choose between all of my worldly possessions and my (future) children? It’d be my children no doubt
Emphasis on you shouldn’t be able to just shrug your shoulders and say mad bad, after ruining multiple lives!!! There needs to be consequences for the unnecessary pain these people are putting out… can’t I sue for pain and suffering?
She did it, because she knew she could. She knew she could destroy that man with no consequences to herself. That will happen until women are held accountable for their own actions.
@Crypto QMan .....There’s ALWAYS consequences....nobody is exempt from karma, no matter how long it may take. That father will be made whole and he will watch the destruction of that evil woman through God’s vengeance!! I watched a close relative of mine SUFFER HUGELY on her death bed and she did much evil doings when she was well. She apologized for her heinous behavior & begged the doctors to take away the pain. She suffered for a few months before God finally let her pass away. It was extremely hard watching her go through that although she wasn’t the best person towards me for years. I forgave her and trust me, I thought I’d NEVER do that with all she’s done to me & my love ones. I totally get that a father being falsely accused of raping his daughters appear unforgivable, but when God steps in....things change!! That woman’s destruction may actually cause that man to feel sorry for her. God’s wrath upon evil people is real!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@shonnyd4071 that's not the point he was making, karma happens sure, but when we say woman will keep doing this until they get heavy consequences for their actions, it's not about god or karma, it's about the law each country as, what the media does in this situations, because i can be accused of rape, come out clean and innocent, but i lost my job, lost my family, lost everything and will never get it back, meanwhile the woman that did the accusation gets no reprecutions, do you see what we mean, because God or karma isn't getting back that time you lost, that respect you had and the life you had.
It does happen all the time, my friend was accused of doing it to his son and daughter, he killed himself, it ruined his whole life, but they were lies, after his death the mother of the kids told the truth, it was devastating, another good man taken from his children and family is devastating, women who do this should be on jail for life, he tried to hold on, he just couldn’t take it anymore
