00:00 my channel is one- sided 01:20 do you want this responsibility 02:15 my little pony is a parenthood indicator 03:38 more people are choosing this 04:42 mobile vasectomy clinic 05:16 one of the biggest reasons people don't have kids 06:49 sometimes this is just a preference over having kids 08:27 don't let pressure decide for you Full Video: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-M9mUg0Lr9jo.html
@@13baby8 Being stress free, happy. Having peace of mind. Not having to worry every single second of your child. Never having a break for the rest of your life. I.E. kids aren't till they're 18, kids are the rest of your life. ((I've met some mothers who say they don't want their kids having babies because they don't want to take care of more babies again.))
@@christins.1481 fair enough, you do know a good family and children is what brings lifelong fulfillment to MOST women but not all, you could be the exception. But don’t you fear potential lifelong loneliness in your final years? I feel like raising a good family should be an important part of most peoples life’s.
@@13baby8 There are so many parents in nursing homes, that never have visits from their children... you should not create life for the sole purpose of thinking that child is obligated to relieve you of "loneliness"... yikes!
Childfree woman here. I was able to buy a nice, largish house, big enough to have extended family visit. I'll have my house payed off about 3 years after I bought it and be completely debt free by the time i'm 45. Because i'm child free. (I also did not want kids for reasons other than financial, But the financial piece is a huge perk.) I come from a middle class family, so no inherited wealth. I did this all by myself, without any help. Yeah, I'm proud.
I regret having kids it is not fun don't have kids if you don't want stress in your life.Dont let people pressure you not like they will help you after you have them
When I worked in retail, I was always the one who was expected to work on Christmas Eve because "you don't have kids." I had to remind them that I am someone's kid and wanted to see my parents just as much as everyone else. It's ridiculous. Do they think we just hatched?
This channel is technically not called "Childfree over everything" or whatever. I understand where these comments are from People rarely watch all videos before making a comment, but ofcoz you have a point
Why would anyone complain about this channel being about a childfree life only?? There's plenty of parenting channels already, they can go watch those 🤷🏾♀️
I don't get parents coming onto this channel and complain about not talking about having kids. That's about as stupid as going to a vegan cooking channel and whining they never show recipes for steak. Here's my reason I don't have kids..I don't like them and I like my independence. But any reason is a good one.
40 years old here and not married. For years I did feel as if there was something wrong with me, and that I was lacking in that area until my dad told me, “please don’t feel as if you’re missing out by not having children.” “Because if you do it the right way like your mother and myself did, it’s hard work.” My 4 bedroom brick house is paid for in full (thanks mom and dad) and I live a fulfilling life by enjoying the work that I do, traveling whenever I want, working out, dining out, and being a dog mom to my beautiful pure bread German Shepherd. I don’t care who doesn’t like nor agree with my lifestyle. It’s mine.❤✨❤
Thank you for expressing this side of womanhood. I hate that we are all forced into a box and then told we are monsters for not being a parent or the strong desire for children. I wish people would mind their own business and leave us childfree alone. I actually now just lie that I am infertile. To avoid the 1000 questions. And questioning my morality, since not having kids means I hate humans and don't sanction life.
Hey ohh no you actually know there more to life then reproducing ohh no you figured it out that great and don't ever have kids if you don't want them YOU ARE A WOMAN NOT A BABY MACHINE
I wish I had this years before I had my son. I’m stuck. I listened to my family. I still don’t feel comfortable talking about it with my parent but I’m at a point where I don’t care if she judges me because I think she’s wrong about this.
There are youtube channels that may help you as other people are going through exactly what your going through, I hope someone can help you more especially if your sons other parent is in the kids life, that person may be able to take on more of the responsibility or be able to relate to you
Don't keep this bottled up. Keep talking about it to relieve the stress. Even if you have to see a therapist about it, go for it. Tell the therapist about being worried with being judged. Just don't forget that we're here for you.
You don't have to apologize for not wanting to have children 😸 way too many humans on the planet anyway . ! I had an Aunt & Uncle & they were awesome people & they were very happy & successful & they had no children .!
One of the weirdest pieces of "advice" I got about having kids was this: "If you wait until you're ready, you won't have them." I'm not sure that would be considered a good rationale for any other life decision. If you're the type of person who knows on a gut level you don't want to have children, listen to your instincts and don't let society pressure you into a lifetime commitment you don't want. You don't owe anyone an explanation, either.
i’m 23 and im a person who always wanted kids but watching all these videos and the points being made im thinking about becoming childfree. i love freedom
Then be child free screw anyone in who says you are Selfish Evil Missing out A horrible person Don't listen to them you are more then a baby makeing machine live your best life
You are awesome as you are and you are perfectly valid in your decision i made my mind up at 14 and i definitely do not want kids you are awesome in your decision to live a childfree life
The older I get, the more I realize that even if I decided that I wanted to have kids, much of the responsibility would fall on me. Grandparents would be busy living their lives. Children are expensive, a time commitment, and a lifetime commitment. The cost of living has gotten out of hand. Also, after living abroad and seeing the way children and families are treated in other countries (very well), I could never do that in the US (hello, maternity leave?).
What if a person was a neglected kid and just that alone give me PTSD, child helping the parents rise siblings while in middle school , I then went on to help my brother that's a single dad it all was to much bye the time I wanted kids felt burnt out bye this time maybe 🤔 I'd change adopt maybe not thx for this channel felt so alian to everybody around me wt kids
Kids shouldn't have to raise other kids. Being a kid should be the time in life where you can be carefree. Unfortunately that doesn't seem to happen for a lot of kids.
There are many "why do people have kids" I watched plenty, and they are either made by childfree people, or by parents who are totally selfish. Sorry not sorry
Your chanel is great. Seriously. I'm so thankful I made it to 30 no kids. The world and society will pressure you for sure. This topic needs all the attention it can get
18seconds into the video and I just *have* to comment. What the heck is it with these people and what part do they not get?! One-sided?! Of course?! I have been vegan for about 12years now and what the mentioned commenters sound like is getting onto a vegan channel and complaining about how one-sided it is, not talking about non-vegan perspectives. It never ceases to amaze me how people that are in “the majority” group with their lifestyle/preferences/choices and they just can not let people who want to live differently have their own communities/spaces where they can connect with like-minded people and not constantly have to explain or justify themselves they way they usually have to otherwise. Sheesh! 😒🥴😮💨 Thanks for enduring all this nonsense, Hannah! :)
Also love this part 4:42 - 5:11 such a great guy it's such a great idea and very helpful to those who are certain and made the decision to be childfree, it's a humans right and a great business, didn't know about it so thanks for sharing it along.
Hannah, I think it would be super cool to hear from you or Michael’s parents! Not sure if that’s something you’re into but just figured I’d throw it out there :)
That's a fun idea, however they aren't the type of people that want to be on social media. However, a couple of years ago I did this video where they gave me their thoughts on our CF life. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-nXO8w_y4l9s.html
When i was 12 years old to anyone ask if i have a girlfriend i answer them with "i don't want girlfriend or kids". Always they said me "oh, you will change your mind when you grow up". Now always they ask me: "Oh when you will have a girlfriend and childs?" and always i say the same that when i was 12 years old. Now they say me that i am wrong and i have to do it
Great video and agreed 👍🏻 Communication is everything and that's how people should date and get married to each for, the compatibilities they each have in common, not one changing for the other that's a total mess and so are the children topic, they're an option and already there are so many people across this world who just keep reproducing and they immigrate to other countries nonetheless, at least they're happy with their decision but unwanted children by their own parents is a real trauma that needs long time to heal and is very unnecessary when a person could've been living and giving out the things they want and love because good energies are needed and valued in this world, not images but the inside energies matter a lot and when one is relaxed and vibing they should be applauded and congratulated for in a world filled with people trying to fix things in a very messy way of alcohol, addiction, a child for loneliness when it's a new soul that needs to be responsible and taken care of all of its needs emotionally physically mentally and financially. You want it? Great You don't want it? Great Just be responsible for your decisions and no need to change anyone, from the start get to know yourself properly to be able to meet people alike and put communication first and let each person share what they have and fully decide on their own then together if it's the same and if not the same then let go and let each find what suits them better and is more compatible.
Im SO glad you brought this subject up.Women who are extremely poor in our state literally get harrassed into getting pregnant by other women or by men. I've seen extremely poor women who don't have a car or a house who were still teenagers just completely harrassed to get pregnant. I think this is an important discussion because in our state poor woman are just to often harrassed into pregnancy because everybody gets pregnant I guess in our state wether they can afford it or not. Theres so many single men getting women pregnant than angrily complaining about their partner got pregnant so they abuse the pregnant women and the child. I think men who are angry about unwanted pregnancy and child support should all get themselves fixed if they are so angry about it. We all learned how pregnancy happens in schools but not getting pregnant just wasn't discussed. I think all of these men in our states harassing women because they got them pregnant need to stop doing domestic violence because their furious they got their partners pregnant. Young extremely poor women in our state who don't even have a house or q husband need to stop being harrassed by other women to put a baby in their wombs. So many times Ive seen teenagers harrassed about not being pregnant by other teenagers. (These teenagers didn't even own cars or homes , unmarried)
i knew i didn't want children when i was in my early 20's. I asked my doctor for a tubal ligation, and they refused me bc "i may want kids later" like WTF here i am over a decade older with no biological children!!! UGH so much menstrual misery avoided.. lavish vacations where i spent $$$$ on too many tampons (lol not really) and i hope the trend of mobile vasectomies is another in the line of mobile blood banks, flu clinics, etc.. BRING THE MEDICINE TO THE PEOPLE!!!!!!
I'll bet none of the breeders complain about the onesidedness of fellow breeders channels. A lot of American males are getting snipped because of the attacks on family planning here in the states, who knows what's going to happen next with the anti-choice crowd.
It’s silly, but when I was younger I loved playing with my brothers ninja turtles and created absurd action scenarios with the girly dolls that were gifted to me. My family tried persuading me to play with the baby alive doll I had to take “cute” photos of me trAining to become a mom. Now realizing how bad this is as it’s the root of indoctrinating women to become devoted mothers with no set of autonomy nor critical thinking
I don’t know why people think everyone’s channel has to appeal to everyone. This is just like tv, pay for the streaming services of your choice. I don’t pay for Disney because I don’t care for Disney or the movies. People are so pressed to be in everyone’s life. That’s just like you going to a parent channel and asking why they don’t make content about being childfree. 😂😂
1:01 - Some ppl need to understand that Family is not only a nuclear Family. There's many types of family!!! If you live with your grandparents, it's a family. If you're married and have cats and no kids, it's family. If you adopted someone is a family... I'm tired, as a childfree person, to be invalidated in this topic!!!
i don't get why anybody would expect parent content in this channel. do we go to parenting channel and go 'but but what about the childfree movement?' sheesh
@@Jean-nr5ch I don't know what you mean. Being childfree means you have chosen not to have kids because you don't want any. Childless means either you have yet to have a child and want one later or you are infertile and can't have kids even though you want one. Simple as that.
Student loans lmao, it’s all part of the human conditioning. Go to school, get into debt. Pay off debt for the rest of your life. I wish more people were awake. I can go on RU-vid and learn the exact same crap for free… as I did.. I started two businesses without a degree or any schooling and am now on half a million a year. Work smart not hard.
I would say it depends what your career is. I got my degree in the healthcare field so you can't exactly learn that for free from YT and then go get a job.
@@WifeWithoutKids healthcare is a horrible dead end job that won’t get you anywhere in life. I was a registered nurse for 4 years and quitting then online learning was the best thing I ever did. Stop working for the man
@@Bettybbeokay Betty. It's not as easy as you think it is. People barely have the time and resources to teach themselves something that can earn them 500k
