Hey Steve: Should She Give Him a Second Chance? || STEVE HARVEY 

Yes I agree

Nature doesn't respect logic.

@@timiadetona I'd ignore you on this.

@@Noix009 lol, wasn't expecting a reply to begin with 😊

@@timiadetona ✋🏽

And clearly has a habit if he need money for food

Yes but the sex is good that's why she wants him lol

Lol exactly!!!

It was a mistake

@@SnowFoxParty so then just keep it to a friends with benefit thing...

@Allen Reynolds exactly. It's probably why she wanted a young guy- someone who she thought she could manipulate and control. He most likely cheated because he needed his freedom. As an older woman, she appeared more like a mother figure than a girlfriend.

She like drama and kids you can tell the way her story were being told. I bet Steve wanted to say set down dumb girl (the woman).😐

She already knew what was up and what she needed to do.

@Allen Reynolds thats the huge problem with Ladies these days...but hey, just like she wants what she wants lets she have it bcuz at the end of the day, she knows what she getting into...

Guys who have their finances popping around 40s & 50s attractive can get younger women than her alot of them don't have to deal with a girl over 30. He can decide not to cheat & get more $ she can't become at 25 yr old in her prime no baggage again. She could hold the guy don't mess with him for a little check his character his habits, see who else may be checking for you if any1 is trying to wife a 35 + yr old. Her prime years are with this guy.

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Ob O so stupid, smh

or 2 , perhaps 3?

it makes perfect sense when you understand women.

@Allen Reynolds How do you know she is that kind of woman? What gave her away? And what's wrong with a woman wanting to take care of things herself? Why is it such a problem to men and why do they usually want to demonise it like it's a problem or even a crime?

Ustaleone tooo many red flags nd shes dumb af

This man "just even cant" rather than "just cant even"

@@DFluent Exactly! I put that there for you to find ;).

@Allen Reynolds facts she been with him for 5years it won't be that easy for her to let him go. I guarantee you she'll take him back.

True 💖😍😍 Cheating Is A choice.

Boonie Pop and they said old town road wasn’t country music lo... her whole situation fits that song 😂😂😩😩

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ride that horse for free and get free money

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HILARIOUS 😂😂

louise scott 🤣

louise scott lmao this got me 😂

Buhahaha, the best answer for this lady. This got me.

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gagahaha

Preach!! That and the "man shortage" crap.

I love the message here but its woefully irrelevant. The biological clock doesn't control anything.... but it does come and go whether the modern woman likes it or not. You either get with the program or you lose your chance to have your own children. Unless you decide to adopt, in which case you still need a life partner, who ever says they can do it themselves is selfish and not thinking of the well being of the child. Either way....the clock is ticking, whether you think its "fair" or not

@@primetimeourway It's not that expensive to freeze your eggs. Average cost is $10,000 and $500 a year for upkeep. If the clock is ticking and you can't afford that, you can't afford a child. Hell, even if you don't have 10k in the bank, get a loan. Most people owe way more than that. Being desperate and marrying the first one that comes along is not the brightest idea. Certain kinds of men that prey on the weak will smell that on a woman like a shark smells blood. Making a mistake in marriage is one of the worse a person can make and if children are in the mix the woman and the man won't be the only ones paying for their own mistakes. Live your life and meet people and when the time comes get married to a man that treats you right and have your family in a healthy relationship.

@@ladynottingham89 or, if you're running out of time, have a child by yourself and find a good life partner afterwards. Egg freezing is really close to being a scam. you need 12 decent egg frozen to achieve 1 pregnancy. ANd these stats are for women under 35 with perfect health. Over 35, chromosomal abnormalities are so frequent that you better aim to secure 20 eggs per / planned pregnancy. Problem is, a lot of modern women have underlying fetility issues past 35 anyways. Lot of them will be poor responders to fertility drugs used in the freezing process so to harvest 20 eggs, you'll probably have to do 2 + cycles making the total bill 20K$ at the very minimum. And guess what, when comes the time to thaw these eggs, anything can happen and your chances of having a viable pregnancy are slim anyways. Don't rely on egg freezing, have your babies while you can

So become lesbians than.

Lol

Damn right Steve 🙄

what does that even mean.

Salsadivva Lol 😂 so true!

Salsadivva He's crazy like a fox. He knows exactly what he wants and can get her to give it to him. Hey, free money!

Ok like this shouldn't have been an ask steve

Iyanla vanzant😉

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Skye Styles yes people need to realize there are other single and loyal men out there!

Going to a new man? The desperation will still show and that new man will run....

Skye Styles I should of hopped on that horse with my kids. Oof! 🤦🏽‍♀️

At her age? GL

Soleil Rose getting Ah new man is not what she needs she needs to be single because she will continue to go through this until she can learn to forgive and also learn how to satisfy her partner and another everyone cheats but everyone does it different and some are smarter at doing it so that being said she needs to learn how to deal with it

I agree with you sis. Just that breaking soul ties require prayers...

But does one action gives you the right to label a man as "toxic" though?

@herkeda He's a young man struggling and asking for help the way he could. He "cheated" once according to her and that was years ago from now. You don't know the man's circumstances. It is a true struggle that pushed him to ask her for a little help. That definitely does not give him the tag!!!!? Toxic would be a person who is purposely manipulating and playing with their tail in a relationship, not struggling with their life and attempting to take an advantage of an opportunity that came up (which is a reunion in this case.)

Like Steve said before, a man can only do what a woman allows him to do. She made it too easy for him.

@@SoLiTaRyBoNe Yes, he's toxic, for her. she talking about wanting a baby. How can he take care of a child and he can't even take care of himself.

Real Talk..

Yes, indeed.

Yup

@@Terry794, hahaha. Good for you. Keep well.

@Allen Reynolds, I understand. However, hardly anything good will come out of it. Hopefully, children born in these forced relationships will be taken good care of by their parents.

@Natasha Williams, we console ourselves when we meet our end by leaving a child behind (so we think and say sometimes). Yes, we do say that for our own "benefit" than the child's. You are right.

Allen Reynolds I have no sympathy. I just watch and get entertained.

So many people dont believe in soul ties!they are real! and can be good or bad !

That thing is real🥺🥺🥺🥺 ...I've just broke up with my boyfriend of four years n when I tried dating again I always felt I have n obligation not to be with someone else even though I couldn't be with him ...but m glad I took five months dedicating myself to church n deliverance services ...now m able n ready to move on ...n I hope it works for me 🥺🥺

Soul ties are real i concur with you, they have messed up alot of people lives so bad.

NO...She was sexually involved. He was sexually and financially involved.

Exactly! That’s why I will be celibate until marriage.

Thank u!!

OKAY!

It works 🤓

You're Right!!!! All day and night. 😅😅😅

She already knew! smh

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Looooooool..the best line,EVER!

Yep! 😁😁😁

I got to remember this.

Fertility treatments are so expensive and Janet has the money to do whatever she needs to get pragnent! But this lady is not rich,and if the only way to get pragnent is throw this dusty guy so let it be if that makes her happy! But she should be aware that maybe she will raise that kid alone!

@@MaRiAm936 I said that I wasn't suggesting it. I thought it ws obvious why I wasn't suggesting... your reply was exactly why

@Allen Reynolds pregnancy over 35 is risky period. There are specialist for that. I know because I had both of my kids after 35 but before 40. Again, I said that I wouldn't suggest someone wait until 50. Biological clock is still not a reason to mate with someone that is supposed to be temporary

La Jo A broken clock is right twice a day. Some people survive jumping off of a 10 story building. That doesn’t mean that you should do it nor does it mean that that you’ll make it. Either way, you’re doing yourself and your possible family harm down the line. 1. Child not surviving 2. Health issues(autism is on the rise) 3. Child dying randomly at an early age 4. You WILL have less energy/strength to chase around a kid. 5. The odds of you being alive when the kid turns 18. 6. The odds of you even seeing grandkids let alone being around them often is slim to none. 7. God forbid something happens, good luck even getting attention from another man There’s a reason why people got married and have kids at a younger age. I’m just posting this for the women who think this is a good idea. And for the younger women, you better pay attention.

She has money. The best doctors can make it happen. But 35 years old on the dot and above. You need to see a doctor for treatment before you have a baby because you might give birth to children with syndromes or might have a miscarriage.

Right! 😁😁

I bet she'll go back to him. Steve wasted his advice.

And a father

He is 26. He is a grown freakin' man! This man needs a J-O-B!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@@tianamiller6820 His parents have already raised him. He needs to be a man! and grow up.. and buy his own food!!!!!!!!

@@Michelle-pn9xt As a man he should know that.

yes sir

I vote yes, no matter how successful women become careerwise they can't ever be as heartless and emotionless as men and continue being emotional fools

Oh yes she going back. Ole boy must be breaking her back. Happens all the time with these women. They complain but still go back.

@@damonkinc , ikr i hate such women

Apple Ton and she will keep going back and forth until he find another sugar momma. He only 26 too.

🙌this

Very wise!

@Kir By For me getting merried and having kids ts not a must.It is up to her if she wants to have a child and raise her child by her self.About the guy, he may be struggling now but that doesn't necessarily mean he will be struggling for the rest of his life.If he is really interested in her and get it together, they might do well.I know how it is raising kids when the other parent is not helping.That is why I commented that.

@@marthamichael7592 No that's struggle love next. And she said she helped to build him up and he's still asking her for stuff please. It's not the responsibility of a woman to build up a man to be successful in a male dominated society. He wants a mother not a girlfriend/wife. The majority of the time men don't respect the come up woman. Steve Harvey is an example of that his current wife would of paid him no mind if he was a broke comedian.

@@gerryo25 I wasn't intending to say that she has to support him.I was just responding to what some people said.Some people were saying that her chances of finding a man and having kids is lesser because of her age- meaning not a bad idea if she wants to give the young man a second chance.Again it's up to her.

@@marthamichael7592 Well for those that think 35 is old and you should take just anything they need help. You have to be responsible with who you have children with that just looks like a recipe for single motherhood. Give him a chance she did that for 5 years and he still can't get himself together. And when she saw him again he was still asking for stuff. Some men have a Oedipus complex.

Yep!

It's harder for women over 35. That's on her if she wants try it again with this guy or trade up. Maybe she's got a couple more years of trading up like a woman in her 20s, then but she's gonna get to the wall where all the successful men she wants can get more & better than her. & when these 40s successful men with no kids (I have kids & was married it's a big financial drain) wanna settle down they want a girl 30-35 who can have kids.

Women don't answer her. They just make statements and when someone questions them they don't know what to say. Most of these women are probably single anyways.

@@georgec8210 Well aren't you just a big ole ball of sunshine? Lol

That is so true..this is the most profound message i ever saw on RU-vid. 🙌

@@sadeclarke3879 Thank you... From a Man You ladies have to be careful of your space.... I'm waiting on my Queen!

Second Opinion not really, she is too old to attract the men she wants. She wants a 6ft tall hot man with a stable career not a job.

@@thereisnopandemic chile hush lol....nobody is too old to do anything that they really want to do....

@@secondopinion53 you're absolutely right. And I'm sure I'm not the only one who could see she was vibrating on a lower frequency. She reeks of desperation and operates from a place of lack. Thats why she's attracting the way that she is....

Lmao.

So true, smh 💯👏🤦

If it was the other way around it would be normal and the women would be clapping.

@@georgec8210 what?!

@@SpecialKRNB ya if the girl was 10 years younger and broke and dating a guy 35 it's good and everyone would be clapping saying she's smart.

@@SpecialKRNB let's face it Steve Harvey only caters to Women cause they make him the most money. He's been divorced 3 times how is he giving advice about relationships.

@@georgec8210 so true the double standards is so high.

Exactly!

not old enough to be any type of momma fir this man...............

I agree with you. It amazes me how others can't see it.

Because he was looking for a meal ticket.

Ya it's funny cause if it's the other way around it would be considered normal and she is smart and everyone would clap.

He got a car so that ain’t lack of money, it’s just an excuse

KevAda 1 My thought too! Common sense is not common. 🤔

@@missfancy5708 I don't think she listens to herself.

This deserves a 1,000 likes! Amen 👏👏💯🤦 It's a hard truth but every woman should hear this

Ok so don't help him build and after complain he is broke and not taking care of u.

I don’t think this is the case for all of them . But if they’re just asking u for bread then run.. no man should do that. That’s embarrassing

Nah , she won't.

Yes, indeed.

You know it.

When you that old of a woman, it's difficult to find somebody really desirable.

The older guys are looking for young women

Medline if it was so easy there wouldn't be so many lonely women who end up alone with 9 cats cause they listened to your advice.

12 is a young kid. 26 years old is a young man!

EXACTLY. OMG.

Maybe he wanted someone else to buy his food. When I go to the store people push their items very close to mine as if they expect me to pay for them. I move my items and they push their food and other items as close as they can get to my things. It seems as if lots of people come to the store with no money..

@@Michelle-pn9xt My hubby did the self-serve and did not pay for his food. He was sad that day.

#WORD

Hmmmm !!!! Build by who? So that u will start squeezing life out of him ?

If u build a man u risk him resenting u and u resenting him

Men who are 'built' like that have many requirements that would exclude her out of wifey. Her saving grace is she has no kids.

Agreed 100% !

No the guy is 26

@@tomtom1857 bro I think that was a metaphorical comment on his mentality and actions

@@SoLiTaRyBoNe ok thanks

His age is not the issue. He is a man. They are both adults. His wants her to pay for his food and his vehicle. That is the problem.

His age is the issue Michelle. How many 26 year olds have their life together? Just answer me this Michelle please would it be ok if it was the other way around?

@@georgec8210 It usually is the other way around.

The same thing that men do with 26 year olds................

@@Michelle-pn9xt I'm just stating the hypocrisy.

Not all guys love an older woman lol why is that a stereotype that's been going around?

It's difficult for most younger men to get girls their age, so what's the next place to go? Older

That woman is not old! She is in her thirties. You are tooo childish to watch this video!!!!

Michelle no

Successful on her level, attractive guys like she wants want younger women if they want a wife.

😁😁😁 that's a shame

Mbalentle Ngalo 👋

@Nattie bubbles True. She babied him too much I think as well.

Yes, indeed.

I wish people would stop calling grown men kids. Women do this crap, and wonder why men behave like kids. Well... duh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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