Hey Steve: Two Household Marriage? 

@Leonard Johnson tt

I agree she minus will stay bitter and single the rest of her life

This ^^

I agree

She doesn't have to stay single. There are men that share the same views as she does but hopefully she has been straight up with this man because they want different things

Sade_Ashley Bye FELICIA ....girl bye 👋....wasting his time and energy on you. Please

Sade_Ashley 💯 11/5/18

Girl.... she got issues. That man needs to run🏃😅😅😅

Sade_Ashley Lol, completely unrealistic.

Exactly!

And that’s exactly what it is! Well said!

The when the man cheated on her she will be complaining....but wait was she planning on taking care of 2 houses 😆 she's crazy

#BOOP!! THIS the comment I was looking for!!!

she just want the title married yet doesnt want to be in marriage.

That is madness

I almot felt like she just wanted to channel that holy spirit to those 2 beautiful lost ladies

looooooooooooooooool...spot on ..hehehehee

No she want a damn *DIVORCE*

She's gonna put the cat out because it wants too much attention. She's selfish and doesn't want to do anything she doesn't want to do.

umurs4eva she’s not selfish, She knows What She wants, Why should She have it any other way? Everyone’s different, that dont mean She selfish tf

@@rageaden5744 you just said the same thing. Your explanation of her selfishness. Tf

Concrete Rose I’m sitting here shaking my head, thinking wth! What does she truly want?

She doesn't want children and he does, so not going to work anyway.

Exactly!

Ridiculous

@@speerrituall1 she wants to able to say she's married but wants nothing else that comes along with it

Precious Jewlz right !!!

Indeed

The poor guy needs to run for the hills ! This chick is crazy . Waste of time

Quick!

move on? he has to run

exclusivesuperblend “yeah!!! C’mon” 😹😹😹

Medjine Seguy 🤣 love it

I love her reaction😂

@@exclusivesuperblend Me too. Marriages like that SHOULD be celebrated

Super excited💞

Maybe that was her way of trying to get a girl's phone number don't know just saying. The girl in red eyes but said enough to give up the number

Joe Woodfin she is confused

@@desiremakungu3372 Yes, I try to have an open mind...and to each his/her own but to get married and not want to live together just doesn't make sense. She is very confused

@C caymer you don't need to get married for sex. And having your own household while being married is also indicative of not wanting to be married for financial reasons. Getting married for financial reasons usually requires people to live together so as to cut down on living expenses in order to generate financial stability and ultimately, wealth.

She wants a D.

i tell yah, we havent.

Sharla... we still waiting to listen more😋

Sharla Samuel Exactly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm in shock right now 😂😐

She’s gotta be an idiot

Me too

Count me too

She probably after his money or something like that!

Thank you

Is she serious? Me too I ever ever heard something like that.

Yessss!!!!!! KEEP IT SIMPLE SPECIAL

Right, She is asking for advice but don’t want to hear it.

She’s just trying to find someone who justifies her way of doing things. She didn’t get it.

maybe living separate simplifies her life?

@ Naya Abannor, Sascrisse, exactly..she knows what she wants...

Angel Stephenson 😂😂😂😂👌🏾

Thank you !!!

@@sabrinar.purnell3869 took the WORDDDS out my mouth! THANK YOU!!!

Angel Stephenson that's what I said. Lol people need to go talk to their pastor.

Ugh I feel so bad for her. This is not the right forum. It's like 200 vs. 1. This is not productive.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣he's too much!

Nope. Not if everything is paid off. My wife & I have done this for 11 years. We live 5 minutes apart. She had a house before we got married and so did I. Never had one infidelity issue and we are as nuts about each other as the day we met. Just because others have their own philosophy about it doesn't mean it's concrete. That's just them. Other people's ideals should have absolutely no bearing on anybody else's lives. Every situation is different. We've done it our way for 11 years and we'll keep doing it.

@@atlanticmilklord4049you live in a two house hold marriage?

2 seperate households is completely different from 2 different bedrooms😟

@@akila5628 I said a duplex and not separate addresses!

@For the Love of my peoples 4life I know...

dymplez exactly

dymplez ok like he wants kids she dont neva gonna work

@@tiberiusedwards3968 he is going to to find a woman that is going to be on board with everything he wants and then she is going to be S.O.L. she has the right to want what she wants BUT you don't have the right to try to control what HE wants.

yes...lmao

Yessss!! 😂

love to meet her.

Lmao

The way I was rollllllling, she's great man!

Chemma Daniel: Yes

Well... Men who are like that are gonna do that regardless. Ya Know.. While in the same household.

Men are still smashing other women while they live with us.

@@redlotusqueen not all men

she prolly be smashin some in her house too

Yeah that was what Steve was asking but her dumb ass didn't understand the question.

Jay 2Death 😂😂😂

COME ON, COME ON!!! 😂😂😂😂😂

I love that lady!

Was looking for this comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Jay 2Death thought I was the only one that say that

Right she want to make somebody else to be a part of her life decision , if it’s her life. Do she hear herself.

Exactly! Why you asked then? She didn't want his advice or opinion. She only wanted him to agree with her. Who in their right mind gonna agree with this foolery? 🤨

Cynthia Cummings most sensible comment 👏

clownish

Shes one of those people hoping that you’ll agree with their foolery when they ask for your advice.

Right these clowns do be the ones who get good men

purple lady52 And she looks crazy too! 😒

I think she is spoiled and afraid of commitment...why get married? Stay single...you AIN'T READY to be grown..

She won’t have him very long

it's always like that. lol

🗣LOOOOOOVVVVVVVVVVEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😩😩😂😩😩😩

I love it ! lol

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@@NissrineA74 🙂

I need someone like her in my life.. 😂

Look here lady black people don't do what you are talking about And ain't no man on his right sences would do what you are talking about First of all you want to get married second you don't want children and the last you don't want to stay with him together I think you don't know what you want exactly!!!

@@davidgobrain497 the only guys which would agree with that are the ones planning on cheating

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lol amen amen

@Avi hello somebody!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@@himynameisandri right and then wonder why her marriage is not working

Tru Mandy right

Hahahaha! Preach.

@@prophetbunny you feel me

@Tru Mandy, well said, or side chick

Yup

Yup... One time I heard a marriage like that, ended with killed the husband cause she just wants his money. She makes all the excuse to live separated.

I am a widow, but have actually have this thought if I should do it again. 😀

She doesn't want an opinion. She was justification and validation.

@@NODE1975 right a lot of ppl these days want you to agree to their stupidity

Yeah because she's also the type to seriously consider wasting/ruining another's life when she knows at the start they want FUNDAMENTALLY different things. The only sacrifice she's facing is doing the right thing, but she's willing to let him sacrifice (seemingly unbeknownst to him) nearly everything. It's called sociopath or at least a very selfish narcissist.... Ugh. Lol

Bryan Fitzhugh TELL IT!

Bryan Fitzhugh right

So let's get married 😂

Its because she's a witch. Witches don't marry, they control.

The truth is, the likelihood of cheating by both spouses is way too high in that living arrangement. If my wife suggested it, I would tell her, "One condition: I can have other women living with me in that other house."

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Not necessarily. Get your facts straight and respect who wants different things. Point blank simple

That's exactly what I said!

She need Jesus to lay hands on her ASAP

I totally agree! She has serious issues.

@@terrisilaphoenix3695 which is ??

Amen, sister! I really do hope she heals, too..

Lovelyti 😂😂

Hear hear

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I honestly don't think she really wants to be with him. They don't live in the same city currently, and when he does move there she wants 2 separate houses and hasn't even told him that yet which isn't fair. My husband would divorce me if I said some nonsense like that

@@prncessbaby16 There are some people out there who dearly love their spouses, but need their space outside from absolutely everyone to de-stress. I get where she's coming from, if I was rich by the time I was married I'd buy myself a studio apartment to do work in and sleep in for a couple of days a month to de-stress.

She did mentioned she don't have to be married

Exactly. She's just too proud and/or vain to say it.

Pink That's completely different than living in two separate households. Also, if you ever want to get married you'd better get that separate studio idea out of your head now, because no one's gonna be okay with that. If you need tome to destress, then you tell your spouse you need some space and to leave you alone. But no one is okay with leaving for a few days every single week just to 'destress and get some work done'.

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ME TOO!

Oh my goodness 😂😂I couldn’t believe it...

Haaaa

She was bout to smack her haha

Lol she's crazy

Lol basically lol

April Sandifer lmaooo well said

No....because that will hurt his wife. So she back to square one.

April Sandifer Oh right, and when he wants to talk with her, he can go to her house....get food for the kids, get woman stuff for his wife, shoo they gonna be saving some mad moneyyyyyyyyyyy

Hmu bb

Amen!

😂😂

She can't be wrong, she can't be bothered, and she can't put anyone else first.

Because she loves the guy and that's what he wants. But she doesn't get that that isn't what she wants. And because they have two very different goals, they need to end the relationship now. Rip off the band-aid and put on some alcohol before that cut gets infected cause the infection will cause more damage.

True

Only thing separate we can when married is bathrooms or sinks...and cars. But that's it🙅🏿‍♂️

Lol she don't want to get married!

Ayomide Akinlolu 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ikr

Yea. I was weak!!!

Ayomide Akinlolu she jus want to have legal sex some how that marriage certificate makes it better

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Steve is SHADYYYYY LOL 😂

4:04 oh did see her click the blue highlite number

😂😂😂

Yeah as if her seat was electrocuted ⚡

Oh yeah 🤣 and i thought she would break the chair 🤣

I saw her too that’s what I like

T T I had to replay

T T her face 💀

💀💀💀😂😂😂😂😂😂!!!!

Ntombikayise Ncube Right 😂 ha stupid ass

like! babe must be swimming in money to even suggest this.

@@judeokoye9466 right!

Right!

"We go need one set of bills"...riiiight!!😂😂😂😂

You just reminded me of a Kevin Hart joke 😂😂... Thank you lady. You made my night! Well.. you and Steve 🤣🤣

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Word. She's just selfish. OR she's been traumatized and needs counseling.

And that's what I heard as well

She did essentially say that in the very beginning by saying, "I left a 3 year relationship behind" which was the man that wants to marry her and move to LA. She doesn't need to be married or have children to pass this mess along to.

That's what I heard.

True👍... Dats wat she meant

Avakai2 my point exactly!!

then she claims she loves him. The whole thing was just weird, she should end the relationship.

Avakai2 yeah I was confused too

Avakai2 exactly

@@demetriusdavis95 shoot she confused too we all confused by that statement 😂😂

Yes she needs Jesus!

Absolutely

weird is subjective. whats weird to you is normal to someone else

@I Share U Watch no..her weird is borderline insanity

@@etf42 You are right in your subjective feelings. The woman is weird and obviously 99.5 percent of the folks agree. There are too many women for the dude to marry. He needs to let her weird self go.

@@jackpea7102 so the more people agree with something, the more valid it is?

ramoshaba ramoshaba Priceless

I was like TA-DAAAAAA😂😂😂😂

He didn't even gave his own awnser. He was so shocked, he needed the audience help and just by luck he had the right people.

You agree???? My apologies but at that point we’re not married, we’re roommates.

@@Thenoble1jBut ROOMMATES live TOGETHER. She's talking about separate residences, THAT'S what I agree with. Everyone is different. I like my own place and my own space. It has NOTHING to do with love and commitment. Comfort is the key.

Bingo!!

She wants the title of wife without being one

Richardson doesn't even seem like she wants the title because I noticed she said HE wants to get married...so it's like she doing it for him

Agree. Different people have different ways of love. To some , friendship has a higher value than commitment & marriage

complete BS

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YO, too true me never thought so...... just a sad dumbass women.. the way she says... she cant live UNDER a man 24/7.. tells me some bad traume..... but like.. jesus......

This is legit only a question I have since I'm not actually educated in the area. But could it be that she's asexual? By not having a sexual desire for the man she finds it easier to have a separate everything really.

@@monicadacosta7161 it could be that. Thank you for sharing that perspective. ❤️ Honestly, reading a lot of the other comments on this video, it's truly infuriating to me how people don't understand and are judging her so harshly. I believe I've heard of something like what she's talking about and they're all acting crazy about it and like she's abnormal or something. I actually just looked it up again and it's called living apart together (LAT). Clearly these people aren't aware that some married couples actually do this. I guess it's not well known though. ❤️ For anyone who could potentially see this comment one day and want to argue this with me: I'm not here for that. Instead, go do even a little research on living apart together (LAT). There are articles on it. It is a real thing and everyone lives differently and you don't have to accept it, to respect that they can make the choices that are best for them. Just because moving in together after marriage is what you consider the "norm", that doesn't mean others aren't allowed to make their own choice that may be outside of your box of what you do or what you think is acceptable. Okay?? Let's get really clear on this right here and now. You have NO place in judging them or belittling them because you don't agree. Open your mind up and if you don't want to do that (because, again, as humans we can make choices), just go somewhere else with your foolish, close minded thinking.

@@tansley67 oh people can make their choice.. just like people can judge these people as well. If they want to live separately, then don't marry. Also your so call little research, just because some people live like that doesn't mean it is a THING. You might as well say there are pedophiles out there, why can't it be a norm? Don't judge them. You are the only close minded and selfish fool who thinks of that.

@@monicadacosta7161 I think that's a good point but even if you're asexual why did she sleep in another room? Cuddling and sleeping together always goes with intimacy, but isn't necessarily sexual

It's simple. There is only one reason you don't want your spouse to live with you: you need some privacy for you and your side piece.