HORROR Stories About Cheap Men (Be Careful!) 

"You don't need to have a lot of money to be a good man" - I agree with this

My grandmother used to say "Always avoid two kinds of men: cheap/greedy and alcoholics".

My grandpa had very little money so he walked my grandma home to be sure she was safe, everytime they met; so, ladies, money isn’t an issue if the guy is a true gentleman

I totally agree with you. I divorce my first “deadbeat” husband after 4 years of marriage who treated me like a trash. This is his words to me “You’re going to be stuck with me because nobody will get interested with you because I over-used you and you’re like a rotten fruit that nobody wants to eat” but he was wrong because I married my second husband who showered me expensive jewelries, bags and we’re living in a nice place here in Mallorca, Spain. Ohh and more, he also sent my son (from my previous husband) to an exclusive school. There you go, there’s always a way to get out from a toxic relationship.

True story: my fiancé and I were flying from one foreign county to another. And on one of our flights, the air company upgraded him and him only to business class seat. There were no other passengers at the business class. No kidding. I asked to be moved with him, but was rejected a number of times without any explanation by every air company rep. So, without further ado, my fiancé refused to seat at the bus class without me and asked for us to be seated together at the economy. And that’s how we flew))) I assume this was a very good sign of someone who truly cares...

One time my boyfriend (now fiancé) and I had economy class tickets on a flight. He was upgraded to first class because he travels a lot and has status on the airline, whereas I do not, so I was not upgraded. He made me sit in first class and he sat in economy. I will never forget how that made me feel - cherished. Ladies, hold out for a man who treats you like this. I have had the other kind and honestly I would rather be single.

When a man shows you his true nature don't try to change him ladies just observe and then make your exit.

When a man flies on his private jet and you are given a cheap non-direct economy flight......? He's married.

my grandmother always told me that if a man truly loves you then he will give you the world, poor or rich, he will find a way

Also, there are men who lead lavish lifestyles but have cheap characters. Be wary of those who shower you with gifts while demeaning and disrespecting you

My husband is not rich, we are rather poor actually. When we had our first valentines day, he transformed his lounge into a beautiful room, with a gorgeous table, set to perfection, fire going. He cooked me a wonderful meal. He has always treated me like I am the most amazing woman in the world. I was shocked when he proposed to me, as the ring cost a large amount. I was amazed he would use that much of his savings, didn't have to! He then did the same with wedding ring and recently my anniversary ring. He is incredibly romantic.

Ladies, Anna is so right. Men of a higher caliber are always generous and always show class, even just to be kind (i.e. not wanting to date a lady). I was recently on an overnight in another city, so my husband was not with me. For reference I wear a very visible diamond on my ring finger, and there is no question as to whether I am married. As I was staying at a resort with a country club, I chose to have my dinner alone at the bar, speaking with the female bartender. I ultimately found myself in an enjoyable discussion with a married couple and a third person, who also happened to be there alone. The third person was an older gentleman who had been playing golf, and he spoke a lot about his wife who was at home. Prior to leaving he ordered his wife her favorite dessert and shortly after he left I asked for my own bill. I discovered that the man had discreetly paid my bill. I was shocked because I had ordered the wagyu beef as a special treat for myself. It was over $100. I was so genuinely touched that I asked the bartender to thank this man for me when she saw him again. But guess what else? I tipped the bartender and then I got up to leave, but two men who had been at another table having dinner came up to me and insisted on paying for my dinner, too! Talk about gracious! So of course I had to let them know it had been taken care of. Ladies, these men exist.

I can't believe women are being treated like this, let alone putting up with it. Here is a tip for free, if he is not treating you like his Princess, then he is just wasting your time, while he is waiting to meet his Princess.

Anna casually saying “low level men” without batting eye is a total mood.

I always get the feeling selfish stingy men would throw a woman off the Titanic and he would get in the life boat.

I agree with this even though my husband isn't particularly well off. I met him when we were both students. He insisted on paying for every date dispite my offers to split. Fast forward 10 years I am a stay at home mother & he still corrects me every time I say it's his money I am spending, saying 'our money'.

For me, a generous man automatically becomes extremely attractive. No more pretty boys.

Mama always said: never marry a stingy man... even if he gets to be rich, he will always still be stingy.

Got one too: It was my birthday, and a friend of my brothers offered to take my out for it, because my family was busy. He left the table to "ensure the birthday dessert would be ready"; apparently, he told the restaurant that I was getting the bill and walked out. I had to call my dad to talk to the owner. It was so humiliating since the bill was way over what I could afford. Good news, the owner banned the guy and red flagged him to every other restaurant in Aventura's business council. Lesson learned.

"MONEY IS A LOVE LANGUAGE" I've always understood the meaning but Anna has perfectly expressed it in words

Shout out to the strength of Anna to speak topics which almost everyone is afraid to speak loud.

Idk why people give her and her channel such a hard time. She’s teaching women to have self respect and high standards.

I went on 3 dates with this young guy. For the first 2 dates, he kept constantly complaining about the price of the food. On the 3rd date, he made me pay for both of us. Some backstory, this man was a Marine and receiving 3000 in government checks a month and was a full time student living with his family and paying no bills. At the time I was also a full time student living at home on a 200 dollar a month allowance. I had 40 dollars left in my wallet for the rest of the month, and he still made me pay for both of us. When I told my mother this, she said if I ever saw him again she would lose all respect for me. Now I'm in a relationship with an older situated blue collar man who refuses to let me ever lift a finger for anything and spoils me rotten. Never settle, ladies!

On the first date with my ex he paid for everything. He was only 21 (a few years younger than me) and worked as a garbage truck guy and did not make a lot of money, but he even bought me the taxi home because the date lasted so long that public transport quit for the night. We dated for three years, and soon I got a great tech job and my salary exceeded his. He still payed, every time. I of course spoiled him as well, with expensive gifts as well because I loved him, but he was a true gentleman all through out. It did not last for other reasons, but I still think very highly of him and the woman he ends up with, despite him having a working class job, is very, very lucky.

When my husband and I met neither one of us had much going on in our lives. But even with no money he treated me like a queen. He always has opened doors for me , I don’t carry anything EVER! He’ll break his back carrying all the groceries while I don’t lift a finger. He gets mad if I insist on helping. He opens my car door and always gives me his arm as we walk. He works long hours but still comes home and will change diapers and let me take a break. 3 years ago we finally found our way in life and now live a financially comfortable life. He works hard.... denies me absolutely nothing. Still brings home flowers randomly and I still don’t carry anything EVER! We found our “money” together. He protected and doted on me from the moment we met and still cherishes me dearly....These men exist. They don’t always have money... But because they love you they will find a way to make something out of themselves so they can provide everything you want and need in life. ♥️😊

When I was in college, I dated a guy who, when we went out to dinner, would get angry and berate me if I ate too much of an appetizer and couldn't finish my entree ( they were late dinners, I was coming from class and starving!) It tolerated it for far too long. On my first date with my husband, I couldn't finish my entree. I began to apologize profusely. He looked at me like I was crazy. He said, " Eat it, don't eat it, have it wrapped up and take it home- I don't care! Whatever makes you comfortable. I just enjoy your company." That's when I knew he was The One!

I one time went on a date with a guy who worked at a movie theatre and got free popcorn, he got a large and we shared. I was being very mindful and was eating slowly and respectfully. He then took the popcorn away from me and told me I was eating too much and went on to eat majority of it. I was so mad, how do you be stingy about something that is free ?

My ex-husband didn't have a ring when he proposed to me, so I ended up buying/paying one myself to avoid the awkward moment where people would ask me to show off a ring :) It didn't have to be expensive, but he didn't even buy me a cheaper ring or a "placeholder" or whatever. Ended up paying for 90% of the wedding myself. Needless to say, we got divorced now.

My husband always paid while we were dating, always drove over an hour to take me out.....and now, he provides everything we need for our family. It’s important to not date a cheap man! We are not wealthy, but all of our needs are met, we travel, have a family and I’m a stay at home mom. Choose wisely ladies!

Stinginess is NEVER an isolated fault. Stinginess is the tip of the iceberg of a turd of a personality.

Some time ago, I met a guy who had just retired as a Lt Commander in the Navy. We went to a salad bar for dinner (the meal actually coat $7). Then he brought me home and expected sex. Sex for a salad? Like I owed him for that? He didn't get what he wanted and I decided never to see him again.

Went on a date with this guy, he had no money so i paid AND HE KEPT THE CHANGE

Being cheap doesn't mean he's poor and cant afford to give you nice things, it's about being selfish and not showing you respect!!

If the man treats you with disrespect at the beginning you really shouldn’t be with him. They do not get better over time.

Geez, this is why I'm single and working towards making enough money to buy myself the life style I like. Thank you for these lessons so I know what red flags to look for.

On a first date with a guy, we went to a historic tour site. In the midst of it I told him I’m thirsty and if he would be kind enough to get a bottle of water for me (deliberately, to test his stinginess). He pretended to look around and said there are no vendors nearby. After a few mins I asked him again and said i see a vendor selling water and asked him to get me a bottle again. He then proceeds to grumpily comment “this is why one should be responsible in preparing their water bottles from home. “ 😱

A man that is stingy with his money will be stingy with his affection

Men do this on purpose! They laugh behind your back about how little they have to do for you yet they still get your attention. STOP! And let him know you will not settle for the basi or "at least".

Self-respect is the most important thing we give to ourselves.Never let anyone to take it away!

The cheapest date I had been on, I split a plate of dumplings which cost less than a dollar (converting from my currency) with my date. He pulled out his card and I offered to pay too as I usually do,.... he asked the waiter to split the bill so that each ended up swiping less than 50 cents. The waiter was rolling his eyes, I am embarrassed, And this dude was just glowing like he's achieved the top tier of being feminist.

And another thing.If a man doesn't spend money on you , dont expect him to financially support the children that you have with him too! So many mothers love to complain that their ex doesn't financially help with their kid but when you ask them if he was generous with them , most times the answer is no.Your children are also negatively affected when you only date cheap men so don't do it !

I sent this to my mom a few minutes ago. She said "This is why I'm divorcing your dad. I don't want to be a cheap man's money bag, while he treats himself like a king."

If a burger is expensive for him, how about diapers, how about maternity bill? Will he be able to cater for that??

She is right ladies. I’m studying behavioral psychology and actions speak louder than words. Actions don’t cost money. You are priceless and your mate should always treat you that way.

A high quality man starts with a high quality mother. Ladies, teach your male children how to be a gentleman. Sometimes you look at some men and think to yourself *"who raised you...? Wolves?"*

Once, a guy invited me to the movies, when I arrived at the cinema he had already bought his ticket, he told me " I can go with. you, so you buy your ticket." and I told him to go by himself to watch the movie instead, and I left. My boyfriend has never made me pay and has never made go on Uber. You can. see the difference between a man and a boy.

They're doing it on purpose. Men like to test women and see what he can get away with and what she won't put up with.

I was so in love with my bfriend in my 20s that I didn't see signs that he's absolutely worthless. He put my emotions on the edge constantly until I invited him to my home and he met my family and family friends. His first impression, when he arrived was: "You Really live HERE?!! OO" I never showed my quite high social status by my clothes but he didn't get it by my good manners and love.. until he saw the money viewing my home and meeting ppl around me. Then he changed 360ds: he started to give my little gifts as golden earings etc. To me it was obvious that he wanted to buy his place. To me our relation was over because he didn't treat me the same way before he noticed material value. Sad.

the Singer Cher said: "A man is not a neccessity. A man is a dessert" so choose the dessert that compliments your meal.

My mom says: when poorness enters the door, love jumps from the window

I went out with a man 15 years older than me, first date he don't let me pay at all, second date- "ok you can pay for the drinks" third date- "let's split the bill". no fourth date for me thank you

My mother already had a difficult life since she came from a poor family so she worked hard to be financially independent but when she married my dad and it became worse. He did not even provide for me and my sister's education and child support. She had to give up her time and money to give us a better life. If I must say, she gave up on herself to provide for us. It is such a waste that my mom who is a good woman, a graduate of a prestigious university, hardworking and ambitious, never really had that opportunity for her to shine. She really deserves better than this.

Stinginess and bad manners are becoming a virus it's unbelievable. Everyone is just super selfish these days. Don't let anyone disrespect you ladies! Thank you Anna for this, truly, women need you in this world ❤️

The worst part is that this type of guys never mind being generous to their side girls but not to their woman

My absolute worst first date experience was not only he was 10 mins late, but He was so cheap that he waited for me to came back from the bathroom , as the waitress already half way took the billed after he placed his credit card , and he had to called the waitress back and told me that I should split the $13 bills with him. Now I looked back , it was dumb but I am glad I had that experience. Then I met my boyfriend later on which we been friends for two years prior to our two years dating. He remembered things that I mentioned that I would love to do, so on our first date, he surprised me and booked us to the penguins encounter experience at the aquarium, and finish the night with a romantic Italian dinner which he claimed he make the reservation a few days prior since he was nervous he wouldn’t get the table. Till this day , he still treated me like a queen. My point is: sometimes you gotta meet some frogs till you meet the prince that will treat you the way that you deserve. Never settle for less! ❤️

"How a man treats u says a lot about how he feels about you "! Actions speaks louder than words. If a man is interested he will invest. However if he doesn't feel u are worth it he wont even bother buying you a Coke🤣🤣🤣❗

I once had a man offer to take me shopping. I made ok money but would never buy myself anything extravagant. He walked me into the store telling me that I should get what I liked. Fortunately, I felt bad having him buy me something with too large a price tag, so I chose something cheaper. I did the whole 'oh I dont know...' and he did the 'you deserve it' so I took it up to the counter. And he walked away while the cashier was ringing it up! To save myself from embarassment from being in a store that I would never have otherwise been in, I pulled out my credit card and bought the 350 purse. I never returned the purse and whenever I go on a date I wear that purse to remind myself that some guys are not as high quality as the purse.

I met a guy when I lived in Germany and we went on a couple of dates. He was quite wealthy, had his own company and brand new convertible. In our second date we decided to go for a picnic and we went to a local store to buy food. He complained about the price of everything (at Rossmann!!), he didn't let me pay 10 cents for a bag and made me carry all he stuff in my arms for a long distance. 😬 And that day I understood why a very handsome and wealthy man was still single at the age of 35 😂

Once upon a time, a male college friend and I decided to go a see a French (we were studying French) film. He drove as I had a broken foot. When we arrived at the cinema, he announced that we were going to see a different film that the one agreed and has he a had driven I should pay for his ticket. I pointed out that I was going to offer, but has he had the temerity to ask/expect, I would not be doing so. Also he had decided to change the film we had agreed on. The one he had chosen was mildly pornographic and I was not comfortable seeing that film with him. So I hobbled out, called a taxi and went home. He was extremely miffed with me, but that did not bother me and he accused me of being an independent women. I took that as a compliment. He did try to get me to repeat this failed 'date'. But I never repeat my mistakes. If a man is mean like that, then he is mean through and through. So ladies, if you do not look after yourself, who will.

I remember dating this guy who has a very good job and living a good life and driving a sports car. One day I was visiting family and he called me, telling me he missed me and wanted to see me. I declined but he kept on persisting until agreed. So he came over to fetch me, and as we were driving, he stopped at the petrol station, poured some gas and turned to me to ask for gas money. I was shocked, I paid and after I told him I want to go to my place as I wasn't feeling well. After arriving at home, I sent him a message explaining how disappointed I was with him and blocked him.

My cousin, though not incredibly affluent, paid for several high quality hotel rooms for family to attend my mother’s funeral. THAT is a generous man. Even the most wealthy man can lack generosity, and the poorest man can be the most generous

Before I seen this video I was actually considering calling my ex boyfriend who I dumped three months ago. Now I won’t bother, thank you for reminding me why I broke up with him! Us women are worth so much more than we settle for

I'd always wanted to be a lady of class since my teen years. I became one. Then fell for a cheap man. Lived together for 4 years. Tried to change him by showing him class, all he wanted to do was hangout with his loud friends and drink cheap beer while i wanted to dine and have lunch at the elegant waterfront restaurants. I paid for outings, I paid rent, furnished the house... Had enough and left. I won't ever settle. I'm back to being my old self, surroundng myself with like Minded individuals. Remember Elegant ladies, birds of a certain feather flock together

The pilot story was interesting, I've been meeting what I call "jealous" men, anytime the woman gets treated well or favored by others he is envious because he wishes that treatment happened to him not her.... sometimes i wonder if men like that are "straight" or effeminate in nature.

Oh, the story's I could tell! Was dating a pilot, he had all kinds of money to buy house after house on the water here in Florida. But the one day we went to the market, I was picking out some nice meats and cheeses for a charcuterie board for us that evening( I had bought breakfast so I asked him if he would help out with dinner expense)He had a complete meltdown, told me that's not how he wanted to spend his money at the deli. He could afford all this waterfront property but I'm not worth some basic meat and cheese from the deli???!! It has always been my experience that if a man is cheap with their money, they will be just as cheap with their emotions..... Unfortunately, I feel like too many women these days put up with this tacky behavior out of loneliness or having low self esteem. So it perpetuates this cycle..Men will continue with this bad behavior unless women develop a sense of worth. .I have been with men who had very little to start out with who have been the most generous. I know this one guy (who eventually became my husband) ate peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for a week because he knew how much I'd been dying to go to a certain high end restaurant. At the end of the day it's not really about the money, it's about the lack of care and consideration for your partner. People treat you the way you teach them to treat you every time....

If a man is rude to anyone (wait staff, coat check person, etc.) that's a no-go for me. I don't care how rich someone is, if they are rude - this is bad form and I walk away. Another good video. Thank you.

I’m loving this. This is not about money, it’s about respect. Using the economy vs business class plane ticket example: If a man decides to buy you a ticket, but he buys the cheapest for you and he gets one better for himself, he’s not treating you equally and with respect. He’s basically saying you are not worth a business ticket, and putting you on a lower level. And that is a major disrespect! And for those who may say “well maybe he didn’t have money for two business tickets”, well he should have gotten himself an economy ticket as well and problem solved. :) putting someone down like that is embarrassing and not worth anyone’s time!

I’m 18 and have been in my first relationship for a year. Ever since the start my boyfriend has guilted me into paying my way as he says “times have changed and why should men have to pay”. He earns significantly more than me as I work in retail which isn’t the best wage and I pay for my own driving lessons etc. Yet whenever we go out for food he always makes us split or makes me pay for it completely. Whenever I’ve brought it up he turns on the crocodile tears and tells me that he doesn’t think it’s fair and he wants to be “treated” too. I’ve probably spent over £2000 on him over the past year. It’s taken me this long to realise that I don’t deserve this :(

Once I was dating a guy and he expected me to pay at the restaurant as he didn’t bring any money. He didn’t want the waiter to know I was paying so he made me give him the cash so he could hand it to the waiter himself. LOSER.

I wish this content was around 10 years ago. These are all perfect examples of red flags in a relationship. Single ladies, watch this video on repeat!!

I absolutely agree. Men expect a woman to raise their own status by looking beautiful on their arm, give them companionship, love and sex, then treat them like that? No way! This is what the sexual revolution, the best thing ever for men, has done to women. Ladies, don’t cast your pearls before swine!

My now ex asked me for a christmas gift and I saved months to get him the fancy shoes he wanted. He got me hyped for my gift but he just brought me to the drugstore and had me pick out one thing of makeup. :) When we went out to eat, it was either I paid or we split the bill. This guy likes to collect expensive watches and shoes by the way.

This channel honestly boosted my standards for men. Made me watch out for fake rich people

I was with a stingy man for about 4 years. He never changed... quite the opposite, actually. He got worse with time. It wasn't about the money. I have a career and make my own money. It was about generosity and kindness. I'm so grateful I finally got out of that relationship.

I met my man in Dresden (Germany) at midnight in the train station on the first Night I came there,he is literally the first person I met over there,he was waiting for me because he thaught he schould protect me ..as a lady, he was my Collegue and took contact with me because I was the last missing student of the groupe, he booked the ticket and the Hotel to make sure I ll come safe and on time, he had no money, but took care of me, taught me the language, looked for a place for me, he helped me and acted as a Gentleman before we date, we are married now ,we have a beautiful baby, I want to say to all women, these Men exist just be patient

It makes no difference how much money a man has. If he is selfish and stingy, he is selfish and stingy. He is not a gentleman. Tacky, tacky, tacky.

Reject cheap men at all costs. Cheap man = he doesn't love you. Facts. The cheapness will reflect in every other facet of the relationship. My man is not rich, but the MOST generous person I know and I wouldn't change him for anyone. He gives me everything I want. With how men are these days I feel so lucky to be with someone so kind and generous.

Dear Young Elegant Ladies: I was only a teen when a young man asked me on a date. I agreed, but he called before picking me up to ask if I could pay my own way. I said no and didn't speak with him again. I had been on enough dates before to know it just didn't feel right. My friends and family laughed, but my current husband has taken me around the world and we are currently in Norway as we were on holiday. The moral of the story is....don't settle no matter how old u are. And know ur worth! 💕💕💕

I remember when I was a teenager I was asked on a date by a really cute guy. I was soooo excited. Before the date my dad pulled me aside and told me to always remember I am doing the man a favour going out with him. He is not doing me a favour going out with me. It's all in how they treat you not the amount of money they may or may not have.

I went on a date with a guy once who pulled over in a grocery store parking lot, got out of the car & proceeded to urinate. I was HORRIFIED. I asked him to take me home immediately after he got back in the car & never spoke to him again, it was a massive turn off.

Wow. My boyfriend isn’t rich. He’s excellent with his money and does well (investments and savings etc) but he’s not this cheap! He would never buy me a ticket worth less than his and always gives me the best he can. He’s very generous and kind in all things. Wealth doesn’t make someone highclass in my opinion. These men sound like snakes and low life’s.

Ladies listen to Anna and listen to her clearly. The route of all evil is selfishness. When a man is selfish, it’s an indicator of his character. I wasted two years of my life with a low life like that and they (these cheap dudes) never get better with time. He will not only treat you badly but will also eventually want your money. I was smart and refused to have his kid and I am free of that looser. Don’t buy into the ‘let’s go half’ lifestyle. A man’s heart is where his treasure is and if his treasure ain’t with you his heart isn’t either.

Loved this video! It isn’t about HOW MUCH money a man has it’s how he treats you. It is the principle!!!

My husband and I have been married 48 years. We met when we were teenagers. He had no money what so ever but always shared the little that he did have. When he bought my tiny engagement ring he used every single penny that he had saved and emptied his savings account to get that ring. I wore that ring for 25 years. Many years later he bought me a much larger diamond. But I will never forget that he used all his savings on that little ring. I love my husband💕💕💕💕💕 And I would not trade him in for all the money in the world he is priceless❤️ He has always shared whatever he had and never treated me without respect or less then himself. Money does not buy love, respect or class. Cheap is not about money cheap is an attitude of making the others in your life feel like they do not matter. Ladies do not put yourselves up for sale down in the bargain basement.

Cash Uber? Red flag, he's probably married!!!! Occasional cash transactions are one thing, but I'll bet the majority of affluent men use cards - simply because they can manage expenses easier.

What's dense is that many women are looked down upon for having standards, yet men are allowed to vocalize what assets they want in a woman

I'm 22 I'm so afraid to never find a good man 😅

Another example: guys who invite you to the restaurant, drive you there, but park their car 20min walk from the restaurant, so just they never pay that 1.5 euro/hour for the restaurant parking 🙄🙄🙄

Changing a man is like raising a boy. You might teach him good manners, but you become his mom.

One time a guy offered me a ring that an ex girlfriend has left in his apartment, I told him that I didn’t need or like leftovers, that I would never settled for anything worthless, used or a hand me down. Another time he took me to a cheap restaurant, it was awful, please ladies stay away from cheapskates, listen to Anna. Red flag right there: a man who is cheap or greedy with his money, is also with his feelings and affection and doesn’t care about you at all!

As the saying goes "don't make someone your priority when you are only an option." I had some relationships like that. :(

I dated this guy and his family was nasty to me. I would always show grace and forgiveness towards his family, but it didn’t change them. They hated me because they were jealous that I was “taking away time from their son”. It was a very dysfunctional family. One time his sister opened up to me and invited me to her wedding, I wanted to get along his family no matter what, I accepted of course! When I showed up, his dad asked him to ask me to LEAVE THE WEDDING. This broke my heart. I broke up with him and learned some self respect. If a man doesn’t stand up for you to his family, ladies, do not wait for him to change. Leave with your head held high.

I was with a low level man that everytime I hinted going out, he would go over the date, prices and everything. He would say something like: If we go to the movies, we would spend $$ on gas, $$ buying the movie tickets, $$ buying popcorn and soda, $$ on this and that. I would always either have to pay for everything or settle for staying in watching Netflix. I dumped him and the man I’m dating treats me like a queen. I am so happy now!

This is why, in older societies and still in some families today, mothers, aunts, fathers, uncles, more mature friends and relatives act as "gatekeepers", not so much to hinder what young women do, but to weed out the frauds and the bad guys. That wasn't such a bad idea. Make it a little difficult for a man to spend time with you.

Unfortunately many Australian men are rough and rude like that. They have been spoiled by their mothers, and have father's who have not given them any good example, or maybe absent entirely!

I have always let myself be treated poorly. Thank you for having created this channel!

As a man with relatively little money, I am shocked. Wouldn't even treat a woman like this if the relationship was ending. Respect is really key, self respect even more so. Nobody should just settle. Whoever you are dating should make you feel better about yourself. Classy is not the same as rich, apparently.

My goodness, how times have changed. Expecting a lady to accept a ride from a complete stranger (Uber) - most men of my generation feel it a very ungentlemanly and irresponsible, not to mention lazy, thing to do. A decent man picks a lady up and escorts her back to her door at the end of the date, unless the lady feels the need to drive herself to meet him. Anna - you are doing a wonderful job, reminding ladies of their worth!

"Stop giving in." Would have saved myself YEARS if I had been more aware of my worth

Even if you are NOT an elegant lady, these men from these stories are absolutely unacceptable!