How Men Try To MANIPULATE You!

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Let's talk about Tinder Swindler documentary by Netflix, who is Simon Leviev and red flags that show that you probably should not go on this date as it might turn out to be not what you hope for.. Live a more fabulous future by taking part in my FREE workshop: fabulousfuture...
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@AnnaBeyOfficial 2 года назад

Thank you for watching! ❤ Ladies, which red flags do you watch out for? And to learn more about my level up journey and all of the mistakes that I've made and learned from, so you don't have to make them as well, join me in my new and FREE workshop "How I Went From Broke & Awkward To A Million-Dollar Life" by visiting www.levelupsecret.com

@Fir3Crack3r 2 года назад

Analyze Anna Delvey please. Perspective of how female friends could also manipulate. Or the perspective of how she studied her character to know about wines, fashion, and have a foot in the door if the wealthy... Just that she used her skills for Evil 😆. People felt sorry for her, idk if it was her baby doll face or her age that made people want to take care of her

@wingsphysio 2 года назад

I really thought you were going to say that a truly affluent man would never ask to borrow money from a woman

@cannelledupond3567 2 года назад

Anna, sorry but just tried again to register to the workshop level up secret for tomorrow 9pm. But the link is not showing a confirmation message and haven’t received an email from your platform. You are probably fully booked... But you’ve posted 45 minutes ago a message and I used that link again. It’s not showing that I’m registered. Could you help please? Thanks. Happy Sunday from London. 🌈🌺

@anoukc6928 2 года назад

@@wingsphysio Yes, that’s a red flag too. But because scammers usually don’t ask for money at the first stages of dating, I believe that Anna wants us to be aware of red flags when you start dating a man (such a love bombing, etc.)

@777SO 2 года назад

@@wingsphysio my point exactly since when an influent men,a millionaire,would do such a thing make no sense to me,this is not a red flag at this point it’s a deal breaker I’m out!

@thembiesthandwandlovu7749 2 года назад

Desperation makes one ignore the red flags. Desperation is a huge blind spot. Thank you Anna.

@M_SC 2 года назад

Those women didn’t seem desperate to me. The first one seemed dumb. But not desperate. And the others neither

@oracien9858 2 года назад

That’s 100% true 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽….. Selflove is very important❤️❤️❤️

@payattention31 2 года назад

@@M_SC She went with a stranger after the first date to a different country. I think it might be different in Europe as people travel through many different countries easily, not like North America. So, that might be a cultural thing that I’m not used to. So, I can’t judge there. But, my first thought was it was dangerous right there. I wouldn’t. Too fast, you don’t know the guy.

@Cantetinza17 2 года назад

Also the need to floss on Instagram makes you ignore red flags.

@Cantetinza17 2 года назад

@@M_SC The first one just loves love and was caught up in the romance of it all.

@alinad.8976 2 года назад

The love bombing was a HUGE red flag, if a man declares he wants to marry you, have family with you, move in with you in barely one month of dating.. watch out.

@tessamarie8698 2 года назад

Makes my skin crawl

@Ben-uv2jq 2 года назад

I mean tinder is a hookup site, that's the biggest red flag. These women are dumb and go what they deserved

@cara7942 2 года назад

Why?

@elefoundation3703 2 года назад

Nah they just empty looking for need meditate as love

@sunshinesmile94 2 года назад

Apparently Michael Douglas told Catherine Zeta Jones he was going to marry her and be her husband on their first date. Or was it the first time they met? It was one of the above.

@preranapradeep3963 2 года назад

I wouldn't go on a date with a person who has Instagram like that. It's a turn off for me for few reasons: 1. Showing off. 2. Egoistical and narcissistic 3. This man has too much time on hand to keep up with the feed (bcz it doesn't make sense for a super rich super busy businessman to be doing this) 4. BUSINESSMEN (not guys in their early 20s) don't do this as it's not so their style (if they are not in artistic industry/promoting anything) 5. I'd not believe even if an affluent woman posted too often flexing. I just don't buy it. Because so many influencers buy luxurious stuff, wear them few times for the feed and sell it or return it back. Also hardworking affluent men and women don't have much time in their hand so I'd pass these type of guys

@oracien9858 2 года назад

Oh yeah, that’s so so true…. 100%👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽 Thank you ✨💐🌿☺️

@jabuliledhlamini7315 2 года назад

Girll !!! Absolutely true

@Cantetinza17 2 года назад

Also it shows that he has no personality cause he's leading with Ego and Ego alone.

@DM-xj6se 2 года назад

100%

@natalitsaaa 2 года назад

1000%

@gracegiles5462 2 года назад

Lesson number 1: men with that level of money aren’t on Tinder…..

@fclay2634 2 года назад

Why would a rich man post what he has, for women to chase him or criminal to attack him. My dear they are very discreet and don’t even have social media sinew of them .

@Sierrz 2 года назад

Not true actually. Just most aren’t, I’ve dated celebs off tinder when in la.

@user-ji8ll1qn6o 2 года назад

Lol

@bababamooo906 2 года назад

And lesson number 2 : Men with that level of money don't want women on Tinder. They are not interested.

@viktoriyannmcclain 2 года назад

Please speak a little louder for those who cannot hear in the back!! Lol!!

@EdieRoxUrSox15 2 года назад

Another HUGE red flag: He always used pet names like "sweetie," "my love," "honey," and never actually used their real names. That way he doesn't get the names mixed up since he was talking to multiple women at once.

@doriska2cme258 2 года назад

😹😹😹😹😹

@henipure5050 2 года назад

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 totally right !

@thepizzaqveen 2 года назад

And he can easily copy/paste the messages he sends

@hilaryc3203 2 года назад

@@thepizzaqveen Chances are, if you google the messages, you might find them all over the internet.

@mlisasweeney4308 2 года назад

You are absolutely right. Too me awhile to catch that trick.

@snowbird1485 2 года назад

The first girl was so naive… she just jumped on a the plane with him 🤦🏻‍♀️ she could’ve easily been trafficked or kidnapped omg!

@johnkayanas6755 2 года назад

She wanted an adventure.. you can't imagine how many are like her..

@Deliahszepinzky 2 года назад

that's beyond crazy... and Men are getting scammed every day by pretty lady

@jinde75 2 года назад

I did equally crazy things and had wonderful adventures. 🙂

@anarup916 2 года назад

When i was a teen i would do something stupid like that 🤦‍♀️

@viktoriyannmcclain 2 года назад

I thought the same thing.

@gratefulwoman8848 2 года назад

Watching this documentary left me with food for thought: 1. A high caliber man uses other types of online dating services that match his status. 2. Succesfull men put off arranging lavish first dates because they want to find out If the women are interested in them for the right reasons so the men might even down-play their importance. 3. A high caliber man would NEVER ask his girlfriend for a loan. 4. If it sounds too good to be true - IT IS!

@donnacrane2005 2 года назад

No way

@Nadrushtilo_By_Gayathri 2 года назад

I like the last point. Many times it's true in different contexts too.

@lindalin5998 Год назад

High value men usually dont y Use Tinder, maybe for sex only

@lindalin5998 Год назад

Unhealed men ahd healed talk usually not do

@violet640 Год назад

Spot on ! Best comment !

@ktmggg 2 года назад

Some dudes tried pulling this on me 10 years ago on a couple of dating sites I was on. They all had the "oooh, baby I'm rich" line, bragging about their income, houses, cars, vacations, etc. I was skeptical but open. But as soon as the first request for money came, I called them out on it. I told them to cash in some stocks, ask daddy for a loan, pawn the Rolexes, get a payday loan on the car. You never saw them ghost anyone so fast! lol

@tysonb3568 2 года назад

Good for you!

@musicman76enator Год назад

What Tyson said. Glad you saw right through them.

@jostockton. Год назад

Unfortunately not every woman is taught to look for these red flags

@abhishekvishwakarma2756 Год назад

So you had not problem using his money but when he asked for help you rejected? Looks like he missed red flags that you only WANT and not GIVE

@MatrixofLife Год назад

@@abhishekvishwakarma2756 another poor Tate fan in the comments 🤦‍♀️

@robingchester 2 года назад

Never, ever give a man money!One of the fastest ways to weed out these types is to say "no" and see how they react. This is my experience. Stay strong and confident, and hold your boundaries ❤️!

@aa.9769 2 года назад

But you, can you ask money to a man or is it different because you are a woman?

@robingchester 2 года назад

Asking for money, in my opinion, shouldn’t happen in any relationship from either party. (I’m talking about the early stages of dating). Maybe later, in a serious, committed situation or a marriage there are exceptions to that rule. Even then, proceed with caution. Do your due diligence- man or woman.

@neffy2398 2 года назад

From a biological viewpoint, yea…. it is indeed worse for a “man” to ask for money because it’s a MAN’S job to provide. Not a woman’s

@gabrielar9611 2 года назад

@@aa.9769 no one ask for money. That is not how the game is played. It’s very emasculating to a man to ask for money and it makes the woman look cheap… I won’t school you on the game tho, you sound like the type to ask

@eastwaters4082 2 года назад

@@neffy2398 Nah, we living in equal times now, don't be sexist. You don't want feminism, you want special treatment

@fehyndana7725 2 года назад

No I wouldn’t have gone on a date with him. Men who post a lot of selfies and is wearing flashy designer from head to toe is not manly and vain, likely also narcissistic. All absolute Turn-offs for me!🤢

@ntmn8444 2 года назад

Yup.

@johannaventuroli4398 2 года назад

Totally agree!!!!

@Sheyshel 2 года назад

It's always a red flag for me when a man doesn't take the time to get to know me to find out if I'm worth his time. That tells me that he's either low value or a player.

@nopoys 2 года назад

My number one rule: as soon as a man asks me for money, I‘m leaving!!!!

@r.m5883 2 года назад

@@parrysethi2894 Dude. Your grandma’s generation never paid for sh** stop normalizing men not doing their duty of providing and protecting

@savage_girl_07 Год назад

What if he really needs it??? Shouldn't u support him. Of course he needs to earn that trust first tho.

@honeyorange1447 Год назад

But it’s okay to ask the man for money

@nopoys Год назад

@@honeyorange1447 who ask whom? I have my own money lol

@nopoys Год назад

@@savage_girl_07 is he my husband yet? No? Then next!

@sophiac5765 2 года назад

In my own personal experience the no1 red flag is excessive enthusiasm/interest/attention/impatience to see you, from the get go! These type of men after 2 months can’t keep up their own show and you’ll start to see negative changes in their behaviour. Don’t fall for it and keep your boundaries till you feel you actually know what they are about!

@MsZoe07 2 года назад

Totally agree 👌🏻 in my own experience this is a huge red flag 💯

@gigi9301 2 года назад

Agreed! They will often almost demand to meet right away, and won’t even be patient and talk on the phone for a while first.

@Poodle_Gun 2 года назад

Basically, if the energy feels heavy, leave. Not if you both like each other a lot, but if it feels heavy and burdensome.

@ConstructionKing-e5o 2 года назад

@@Poodle_Gun I really like the way you differentiated that. I do the same thing myself where I try to figure out "is this love bombing or a natural easy connection" and your words will be a more helpful way to frame that when I listen to my gut in the future!

@somethingbambi875 2 года назад

Yes! I had to end because I saw red flags other might be taking for "cuteness". This person would follow me all the way home (went by train), and then on the secound date already be at my station and acted like we already knew each other. I felt the creeps and am so glad I ended it after that, it was much more ofc. Then I met my husband thankfully

@TeresaJeanna 2 года назад

If someone asks for money, direct them to charity programs. Let your tax dollars help them out.

@DianaMillan 2 года назад

Smart move! 😉

@EmmalovesJesus 2 года назад

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade 2 года назад

Exactly!! Even family… I refer people to the United Way, Salvation Army, etc

@BlondeQtie 2 года назад

this. the man from the documentary could have sold one of his „watches“ to live a month. why would i need to touch my savings? and do you want to be with a man that needs to be in a different country every day to escape from dangerous people that are trying to harm him? heck, go to the police and get help and don’t play james bond or shit.

@hummingbird4335 2 года назад

Brilliant 😂😂😂😂😂

2 года назад

There's a finance RU-vidr who says you never lend money. You either give the money with no expectation of having it returned (in which case, you only give what you can give), or you say no. Lending money will only make you lose both the money and the person.

@rosyapplekitchen635 2 года назад

Wow this is so powerful

@inndivideosdocumentales9495 2 года назад

Who in the world is thinking that a handsome millonare guy is going to be in a dating app? a true millonare doesn't need those things he can find ladies in his own circle 🤷🏻‍♀️

@shachede6828 2 года назад

They use dating apps even celebrities have said they use the app. It’s not unheard off. They are still human beings like everyone.

@thesocialintrovertchronicles 2 года назад

You'll be surprised to learn that in this time and era, it's not surprising to find them

@chrystianaw8256 2 года назад

Exactly

@bodnarova05 2 года назад

Those apps are for Dusties and users 100%

@annan.3283 2 года назад

Athletes and rappers are constantly at parties surrounded by women, they don’t go on apps. A d-list middle aged actor will go on app.

@agataprasua1807 2 года назад

I cant agree more with you Anna. These women were giving him the passport details and the residential addresses after a few days from the first date. They are lucky they lost just the money.

@kamilavaskova1627 2 года назад

When he wrote her at the beginning: im leaving tommorow.come to my hotel...and She went 🤦i was like:C'mon girl,you Are not escort!🤦

@BlondeQtie 2 года назад

Being in a hotel doesn’t mean being an escort.

@bemagic-silentsubliminals6890 2 года назад

escort for free

@lunarosa321 2 года назад

@@BlondeQtie oh come on obviously not but in this context she was without even the pay. Babe when a man asks you to go to a hotel with him, he doesn’t want to play card games, it’s implied he wants or expects sex and that should be the message.

@BlondeQtie 2 года назад

@@lunarosa321 Men usually always want sex, especially on dates. It doesn’t matter if you meet him for coffee or in a hotel, he usually wants sex. It doesn’t mean you have to have sex though.

@debspringchannel831 2 года назад

That's why I believe they are not the Victims!

@meghnamathew7094 2 года назад

why should a "billionaire " be in a regular app like tinder where mostly middle class people get together. This question would be more than enough for those ladies to not date him!

@ladybugroyal5264 2 года назад

💥👏R👀👀👀ght!!!👍✌️

@jennifermoriarty2188 2 года назад

They usually are on swinger sites lol

@JENNerationX 2 года назад

Exactly

@moonlightprincess449 2 года назад

I wouldn’t even say middle class most guys I met on there are complete bums 😂

@GypsyMaeRose 2 года назад

@@moonlightprincess449 agreed! 😂 Tinder is full of losers!

@CPT_B 2 года назад

It's sad that so many women become so desperate for validation (*validation is NOT love) and even sadder that men prey on insecurity. Women need to be guarded in all aspects: our inner circle, our bodies/health, our money and our trust. Moving in silence and vetting is the best way to guard against anyone (not just men!) who would want to take advantage

@faizahanif9515 2 года назад

Exactly. The golden silence.

@oracien9858 2 года назад

That’s so true 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

@shachede6828 2 года назад

I don’t think this was a validation case. This is total desperation. They were looking to this man for validation.

@bodnarova05 2 года назад

Desperate for the Disney lie

@KuldeepSharma-mz2qw 2 года назад

thank you ❤

@dolledupbyj 2 года назад

The first red flag was he said come to my hotel and didn’t even offer to pick her up. Great analysis Anna! Can you do Inventing Anna next?

@dianaadhdchannel 2 года назад

Exactly my thoughts! Where is the car service picking me up? Red flag 🚩

@dolledupbyj 2 года назад

@@dianaadhdchannel right like he posted all those cars but can’t pick her up in one 😂

@livelife1899 2 года назад

Yes to an analysis on Inventing Anna please! 😊

@Bt2027 2 года назад

He did have her dropped off though 🤣

@foxymama2003 2 года назад

Looking at his Instagram profile, I would question why there are no other people in his pictures! No family? No friends? Just him and all the luxury things. This would tell me he either photoshopped all the luxury in or he is not a nice person because he had no friends!

@becky15707 2 года назад

But not everyone wants to expose their family or friends in social media .

@ninnithecat 2 года назад

After watching this documentary, I tried to put myself in the woman's shoes. To see how I would react if a man would ask me to join him on his private jet to a different country on the first date. My whole self said NO. A normal guy would not ask for that. I would actually be intimidated. But I am twice her age. So I don't know if I would have back in the days. Probably not. GIRLS - it is so important to be suspicious about men or people in general. Even if it were a celebrity or Hollywood star, I would have said no. That's how you get respect as well.

@preranapradeep3963 2 года назад

Yes you should be equally suspicious of rich people because they have RESOURCES to cover up or take care of their situation if things go wrong. At least in case of normal people it's usually just one or maybe couple of people.

@LotusesGalaxyOcean 2 года назад

Personally I would be incredibly alarmed because I know that is how some quite normal women are trapped into trafficking. I would never travel with a man I did not know exceedingly well for that reason.

@minigolfandothergames7096 2 года назад

What got me was the love bombing that he did right away. It’s one thing to be sweep off your feet, but is should never happen in the beginning of the relationship. Men will do it after trust and love are established.

@payattention31 2 года назад

Yah baby, my love etc I hate when I get that so quick. You know it’s not real.

@raniaralin6233 2 года назад

Can you explain more to me. I don't understand?

@fehyndana7725 2 года назад

@@raniaralin6233 when a man confessed his love for you too quickly, it’s a red flag! 🚩

@bowbrat4012 2 года назад

It's not true..your belief system is quite toxic. Each person's story is different. Do what works for you. Don't create fear! The world just mirrors you.

@sayeeed1303 2 года назад

There is no such thing as love bombing. Love bombing accusers are abusive cause by accusing a men of "love bombing", you are implying that the woman is entitled to his attention, time and money which she is not.

@nicholaowen6375 2 года назад

Back when I used to date, first dates were to focus on finding obvious red flags, second date was to find green flags...third date was to find chemistry

@charusaraadikari5235 2 года назад

When I was watching the show, I kept on thinking, wow! These ladies need to get some classes from Anna. 🤭

@mimihappy4563 2 года назад

Me too!

@dimosthenismandilas6893 2 года назад

Gold diggers hahahaha

@yourweeklydose7691 2 года назад

Me top hahahagah

@BobbieBrownie 2 года назад

Please don‘t fall into misogynistic mindsets here

@libelinhaa2079 2 года назад

Looks like he was the one who had classes 😂 I guess this is the male version of marrying rich

@hillarylenavarro2673 2 года назад

What was the most scary thing to me was that he was running from "enemies". This just seems so unsafe!

@maril1379 2 года назад

Better to be on your own than with a bad guy. Be careful. You deserve to be treated well meaning respectfully. Don't let men pressure you. A man who is truly interested will not pressure you.

@lipstickandbooks. 2 года назад

💯❤️

@chrystianaw8256 2 года назад

True

@BeatzByMK 2 года назад

Yes ❤️

@Ben-uv2jq 2 года назад

Just remember respect is not given, it's earned. They didn't deserve respect for they didn't earn it

@faliandra7659 2 года назад

On top of all the red flags she's mentioned, one of the first thing I found off about this guy is the way he talks. All the voice messages that were played really didn't sound anything like a sophisticated, well educated guy that you would expect with his (faked) background information. Maybe I'm being extremely judgmental there, but the guy seemed so incredibly superficial and simple-minded just from the way he spoke. And he calls all the girls "babe" or "baby" ....Dont know,but he lost me right there.

@sarahzaki8875 2 года назад

I don't think you are judgmental. My boyfriend said exactly the same thing!

@bodnarova05 2 года назад

Right. He called them babe and baby to save time.. he was sending them/ reusing the same messages and didn’t want to mix up names !!!

@JadeOh181 2 года назад

I met this guy a long time ago and he tried his best to get close to me on our 1st date but it felt off and I was not attracted to him. Shortly after that he called and gave me a sob story about his friend needing money desperately and he didn't know anyone else he could ask and so he wanted to "borrow" the money from me. At that time I was in my early 20s and I knew something want up but I didn't know what to say so I told him that I needed to think about it. A week or so later he called and I pretended to be my sister and said that I was not around and he never called back. Phew! Since then I've had a few encounters with other "friends" asking to borrow money but I've never given in and I tell them that my policy is that I don't borrow or lend money to friends and that's how we can be friends longer. But as soon as I've said that, they always disappear... Hahaha..

@orubek355 2 года назад

You never lend to friends for real?

@Cantetinza17 2 года назад

I would say I can't I have bad credit. I'll lend money if I know you WELL meaning multiple years and I don't lend what I can't lose. So if I never get the $100 back will that ruin me that moment? If not then I'll lend it, but if I can't lose it then I say, "I don't have it".

@chrystianaw8256 2 года назад

@@Cantetinza17 too many words. Just say no. No is a complete sentence, there's no need to explain yourself.

@lululs4014 2 года назад

“this guy” you mean Simon Leviev or what?

@Cantetinza17 2 года назад

@@chrystianaw8256 But I like it. I love hearing the sounds they make when I say it.

@angellawalker4948 2 года назад

Apart from all the red flags....I would not keep "lending" anyone money so many times, when they are not even repaying, period.

@josephinebournes8212 2 года назад

Exactly, that was pure stupidity on their part.

@swatisaini6447 2 года назад

@@josephinebournes8212 sadly they were blinded by thier love from him

@marionandrews176 2 года назад

This is why I am so afraid of online dating,especially as an older woman.

@NamuBang 2 года назад

They prey offline too. Just be careful of the stories

@mcleanroom7997 2 года назад

You will be fine. Just be super aware.

@gigi9301 2 года назад

I’m afraid, as well At 54, I’m Much more careful now than I was a few years ago when I first got divorced. There are a lot of nice guys out there, but also a few bad apples:((

@MIMIDSH 2 года назад

Me too. I lost my husband and have vowed I will never ever give anyone any money, no matter what the relationship. I will never enter into any legal agreements, investments, etc with anyone either. And if someone is way way too into me, I'm out.

@marieshka1 2 года назад

Thank

@lone8636 2 года назад

Anna, I am so glad that you are finally addressing this huge issue! I am worried for the naive young ladies out there who may fall into worse hands…the hands of a human trafficker!!!! So, yes, women need to be educated and never ignore warning signs! Our female nature is so prone to only see the best in people.

@cara0405 2 года назад

Agreed, we often like to see the best in almost everyone-whether they haved earned it or not. It is quite important to be educated on behaviors such as narcissistic, as well as others. Dr. Ramani's videos, serve as a wonderful tool for this.

@laundrybasket2689 2 года назад

Oh yes. And the Toxic Positivity culture also promotes this attitude of only seeing the best in people/situations/circumstances, etc. BAD bad way to think in this world.

@Pinkui 2 года назад

Yes. This happens often in my country: women are offered a job overseas and they dissapear with no trace. I know first hand an experience of a family who lured a woman with too many kids to give them the small daughter for them to rise and she being so „desperate“ agreed. The girl was the home servant until they kicked her off… be careful

@Santababy86 2 года назад

No, I always mistrust men. Look what's going on in the world since centuries... Why would I trust men from the beginning? A guy has to prove first that I can trust him. If he is really interested in you, he will show true affection, all other crap will jump off and that's good!

@Clairs88 2 года назад

it's not naiveness. it's stupidity. stupidity pays.

@jo-anna1477 2 года назад

One other thing I've learned over the years is to pay attention to how a person treats others, whether it's a server in a restaurant, or someone else in their life past or present. How do they speak about them? This is important because it is a big clue as to how they will eventually treat YOU. Excellent video here!

@annan.3283 2 года назад

I think it’s so important to see how he treated ex girlfriends. Did he cheat on them or abandon a baby, he will do the same to you. Khloek

@ntmn8444 2 года назад

Did you watch this documentary? Here’s a spoiler: one of his victims spoke to his “baby mama” and she said he was a good guy. Turned out, she was defrauded by him in 2016 and now she’s in on his con. So you have to be careful even with that.

@swatisaini6447 2 года назад

This treating waiter nicely is emphasized so much!!! What if the guy pretend to be polite to wait staff on date knowing the girl is observing and he wants to make an impression but deep inside still believes that they are beneath him?

@SemekiIzuio 2 года назад

This gives you an in but the really good manipulators will treat everyone respectfully but you

@Blashyrk00 2 года назад

Well, the good thing about being from South America is that, if a random guy asks me, without even knowing me in person, to travel with him to another country, I would think that he wanted to kidnap me for prostitution. Sad but true; many women here suffered this and it's extremely heartbreaking. So, I wouldn't trust at all, my safety comes first.

@rosero776 Год назад

I'm from South America too and I was thinking the same. We are way more cautious, cause we need it.

@ffd1229 2 года назад

Billionaires son’s are not on TInder, they meet people in person, thorugh friends and family, at their family level. If a billionaire guy is on Tinder, he is not looking for something serious…

@uyoebyik 2 года назад

Exactly. They mix in their own social circles

@meaneyedcat1248 2 года назад

How shocking! He is simply a career criminal according to what I have seen online. These sorts of people make me quite angry because someone I know was ensnared by such a fellow many years ago. That young lady's health never really recovered. I think that you have made some very important points, Miss Bey. Too much, too soon in a friendship is a warning. Being asked to lend money is ridiculous. People of substance always have access to resources. They have friends and family, too. Private jets, helicopters, and yachts may be hired quite easily. One red flag that I think is very important is if a lady is never introduced to family or friends. Meeting someone in their genuine context gives one some indication of the person's character.

@Qzm0 2 года назад

I was wondering about the families and friends too.

@meaneyedcat1248 2 года назад

@@Qzm0 Exactly so. Not meeting someone's family or friends is a concern - is the person hiding something? Of course, meeting parents is a serious step but at least after a few weeks to meet a sibling or a cousin and may be close friends. Hopefully, courting leads to marriage and one does not get married in a vacuum. I'm too old-fashioned. Haha.

@ConstructionKing-e5o 2 года назад

100% agree on your red flag. It's the only big one I felt was missing from Anna's list, but also I think her list is more about early red flags/1st date. Ladies need to make sure they are being introduced not just to a man's friends but to significant people in his family (when the time is appropriate) like his mom, sister, or grandmother. If he's not, he very well could be married and at the very least isn't taking the lady seriously. Even meeting male relatives, sometimes they don't care what sort of games their nephew/cousin/whatever is playing with women.

@sranyak 2 года назад

I’m sorry meeting their family doesn’t mean anything as the saying goes the Apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

@meaneyedcat1248 2 года назад

@@sranyak Why do you begin with an apology. If that is your opinion, that is fine. I have a different opinion. That is all.

@kg3718 2 года назад

The profile pics in Instagram are revolting to me. The wealthy men I have know would never advertise their wealth in photos or conversation. They were very guarded and discreet. I would be extremely suspicious of this type of man

@uyoebyik 2 года назад

Most women would be. Wealthy people don't show off like that

@dp1202 2 года назад

Never give a man money EVER. Also don’t be so quick to trust people especially if they are heavily putting on the charm and you don’t know them. I know us W fall in love with our ears but we need to fall in love with our eyes and watch out for specific behaviors. Trust your God given instincts if it feels wrong it’s usually not right. And traveling with M and doing dates in a home setting when you don’t know these M is a huge NO. Public dates only. They are lucky they are still alive and the only thing that was taken was money. Money can be replaced but your life cannot. Ladies stop putting yourself in bad situations.

@uyoebyik 2 года назад

Exactly. Never meet a man for the first time st his home or your home. That is not a date

@kjm7143 2 года назад

My heart went out to those ladies in the documentary especially when they received such horrible comments and insults online. They were the victims! I loved the lady at the end who sold all his flashy clothes and was giggling about it 😂

@VeeLondon1449 2 года назад

I was so happy that she finessed him right back.

@InternetGirl1093 2 года назад

Me too, Ayleen (I think that was her name) was such a boss! But I hope she is being safe, since she had been beaten up before ☹️

@bodnarova05 2 года назад

Apparently he hired men to beat her up severely afterwards… :/

@VeeLondon1449 2 года назад

@@bodnarova05 she was actually a victim of assault and beaten badly prior to meeting Simon. Completely unrelated. And he used that fear, which made her even more afraid of Simons “enemies” he never hired anybody to assault her. He just financially exploited her.

@bodnarova05 2 года назад

@@VeeLondon1449 that’s sad. And makes sense why she had such low self esteem and vulnerability

@artsyhyd 2 года назад

“Desperation leads to danger” this is so true, I could see this on the first woman who used too much feelings right away.

@mehakazeem930 2 года назад

I don’t know if my answer is completely biased, considering I’ve seen the consequences but I usually don’t go with flashy and snobby men who are too much into pictures and posting on social media. This just doesn’t seem like my type. So I think I would have passed

@fionaclarkson7693 2 года назад

I’m so glad you did a video on this documentary! I watched it and he was completely ruthless! Those ladies that were the victims seemed so lovely, but that is why he targeted them and sadly they did not see the warning signs. In my opinion, when faced with a person like this, you need a strong sense of self, authenticity and trust your gut instincts! Thank you Anna!

@simple4kill 2 года назад

If I were dating this guy (which I probably wouldn't, his instagram profile is offputting) and he asked me for a loan, my first thought would be: ''But aren't you wealthy? You have private jet, luxorious cars, brand clothing, etc, but have to ask an almost stranger for a loan? Sell the damn car.''

@oracien9858 2 года назад

100% true 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽 Thank you 💐☺️✨

@katrinaa980 2 года назад

If that was me I’d wonder why he was asking the poorest person he knew for cash. doesn’t he have l rich friends and a dad who’s a billionaire?!!

@kellykade 2 года назад

Exactly…. Like ask your dad if anything 👀 The moment he asked for money I don’t know why the women were afraid to say something like that’s the hugest red flag… and even if he was in a money bind why asked the woman why not ask other male family members…

@jennifermoriarty2188 2 года назад

@@kellykade I think they liked the feeling of being needed and protecting this guy from danger. I personally would say call the police and ask your dad for cash.

@kellykade 2 года назад

@@jennifermoriarty2188 definitely have a point there.

@roseannawu716 2 года назад

Someone who's flashy is always a red flag to me, it gives me a toxic impression that they're narcissistic and self-centered.

@kristinebogdanovica9239 2 года назад

If I see a man taking this many selfies, first, it gives an instant signal that he is narcisistic and in love with himself. Second, I always assume that he is gay 🤷‍♀️

@gabrielamartiniuc6322 2 года назад

I have no sympathy for women who give men $. I can t comprehend giving a man $, when he’s supposed to be financially stable!!! If he’s not, I’m out! Simple as that. It doesn’t matter how he looks or what pics are online. A man in trouble ? 😂😂😂😂😂 THAT alone is a red flag. I need a man to help ME when I’m in trouble, if I’m ever in trouble.

@aa.9769 2 года назад

So if your husband need help you won't help him because men can't have troubles? Just asking

@gabrielamartiniuc6322 2 года назад

@@aa.9769 Any husband of mine is strong and capable and can figure out what to do. A helpless man is absolutely not my kind of man. End of story.

@gabrielamartiniuc6322 2 года назад

@@aa.9769 We are not your mother. I don’t mother and “help” men. They are the providers and the protectors !!!!

@gabrielamartiniuc6322 2 года назад

@@aa.9769 My then husband had called me that he forgot his backpack at home when he left for work that morning. And he had a test and didn’t have time to go pick it up. I dropped everything I was doing, put the kids in the car and went home to grab his backpack. That kind of help is the only help I offer a man that is FIRST my husband. Other than that? I expect men to help themselves and figure out a way out of problems. I am not into helpless , alcoholic or drug addict men .

@scarlettspear7447 2 года назад

@@gabrielamartiniuc6322 Who mentioned alcohol and drugs? Oh yeah..you did.

@maitrishah8580 2 года назад

Wow, my dear Anna! This video was spot on:) I have been a victim of love bombing despite being a smart successful independent women. There are many toxic malignant men out there and what I learnt from my experience is to never be desperate.

@ethicalbunny 2 года назад

I’ve not seen the documentary yet but I will just say this. Women need to take responsibility for themselves and their own boundaries, our culture today infantilises women into these little victims who can’t stand up for themselves and I hate it. I have a few friends who have given men money and it never ends well but I don’t get mad with them I get mad with my friends who willingly give men sex and money then complain that the outcome is not what they want. Keep your boundaries and standards high ladies!!!

@HaHaHaLMFAOtv 2 года назад

and the fact that he asked these women money. My first thought is that if he's so well established, he must have some family and friends in the same circle with same lifestyle that it should be easy for him to ask money from them and not the woman he just met

@kathyp1563 2 года назад

Anyone can be a victim, but some people make easy victims. Bad guys always look for the easy victim. The lady who told the story of The Tinder Swindler agreed to meet a stranger without any preliminary chit chat. Most don't do that. She agreed to get leave the country with a man she met an hour before. Most don't do that. She supposed someone who is wealthy must be "safe". Her friends kept warning her that he might be wealthy, but there were signs he might not be "safe". A friend even told her his family was likely connect to all the wrong people. She choose to stay in the relationship, regardless of the warnings of her friends. I don't want to victim blame, but some people make better victims that other people.

@AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult 2 года назад

I was concerned for her too. She could have been trafficked.

@alicebecker2212 2 года назад

My best friend talked to this guy online for a while, and she had her doubts about him. She showed me parts of the conversation and pictures and immediately alarm bells went of in my head. I don’t want to get to personal but I’ve had a rough childhood with a very in stable family situation. I was mostly raised by my brother (only 13 years my senior) and he taught me to ALWAYS listen to my intuition, that feeling of dread in my belly when something just didn’t feel right, even though there’s no proof. Thankfully I listen to his valuable lessons and so did my best friend. Thank you Anna for highlighting the red flags, because if you don’t know any people that are potentially dark triad, you won’t recognize them. These ladies were very deliberately targeted. I wish you all the best in life, never ignore your gut ❤️

@kathleensaenz4717 2 года назад

Good advice!

@HereDiianas 2 года назад

It would be great if you could make a video on the best tips to date online in order to find a serious partner. Unfortunately in 2021 it seems that online dating can't be avoided to have more options. Tips like the better apps, warning signs etc. Here of course he is an extreme case but what are the warning signs that he is a player, not serious about the relationship, has a secret wife, and just wasting our time...

@jennifermoriarty2188 2 года назад

Maybe not need a serious partner

@PosiTiva85 2 года назад

I think warning signs are: he is still on Tinder while you are dating, you have a relationship with WhatsApp, and he has a super rich family but needs your broke a$$ money 🤔

@黑猫警长-l2u 2 года назад

Omg I was about to ask you to make a video on this! Can you please do a video about Inventing Anna, the Netflix series about Anna Delvey?

@juliegarza3993 2 года назад

For another great example of this type of con, check out “Dirty John” starring Eric Bana. True story - and absolutely terrifying.

@payattention31 2 года назад

It’s going to be on Netflix Feb 14

@anoukc6928 2 года назад

@@payattention31 it’s already in a serie and a documentary

@payattention31 2 года назад

@@anoukc6928 not available yet where I am with Netflix

@marib.1309 2 года назад

Yes this was beyond horrible! I watched it some years ago.

@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade 2 года назад

Oh yeah I saw his story many years ago on Dateline

@soniakal7751 2 года назад

I can't agree more and I really want your advice my dear Anna. It's very sad when society sets these standards through social media, television and movies...

@neo5973 2 года назад

And you think the standards will change? LOL women are still going to look and flirt with the good looking cute guys while the good ones who might look not that extraordinary are left out of it. Not surprising why MGOTW is relevant now.

@soniakal7751 2 года назад

@@neo5973 Well I was not thinking about this... I was talking about toxic relationships. And in case you don't know there are guys who are good looking and great personalities at the same time. Of course a good looking woman will want a good looking man. We work hard to upgrade our appearance and we don't want someone looking and acting weird to embarrass us in public. This is just common sense.

@jennifermoriarty2188 2 года назад

Just don't listen to them

@jennifermoriarty2188 2 года назад

@@neo5973 Do you flirt with ugly girls or those who hold their own

@neo5973 2 года назад

@@soniakal7751 it's not common sense. That's why this happened in the first place and will continue to happen and no I'm not victim blaming

@MaggieKleppe 2 года назад

His IG is a major red flag. I’d run for the hills. So many pictures displaying wealth and just….himself? Where are your friends, bro? Why so lonely?

@imalrockme 2 года назад

That!

@ceydaerenkol8176 2 года назад

If someone that rich asking you money; first question in your mind should be ;” doesn’t he have a rich friend or family member to borrow some money? why me?” Like Anna says; because of desperation.Loneliness is a big issue in today’s world.

@laramauss1948 2 года назад

I don’t think he is handsome. Who else?

@napturallyyours70 2 года назад

Thank you Anna for your commitment in educating women on how to level-up, and what that really looks like and what it does not!

@sherriledbetter-freelanceh8743 2 года назад

Never give a man you are dating money...period! (learned this the hard way)

@mikhail7863 Год назад

As a man I've met girls on tinder who behaved exactly like Simon Leviev: they were really nice in the beginning but then started asking for money and expensive presents. I was smart enough to break any contact with those scammers.

@fexbd Год назад

Works the other way round as well

@tinaleggio 2 года назад

His profile was a red flag to me not just because he was showing off, but it was only of him. Not him with other people (friends, family, etc.), although I did see one picture with his bodyguard. That ties in with your first point about being a narcissist. Cecilie slept with him on the first date, which also shows desperation. The biggest red flag of all for me was when he asked to borrow money. Even if what he was telling these women was true (about his life being in danger), he didn't have friends or family that he could have borrowed money from instead of someone he was only seeing for a few weeks? What about his rich father that he was supposed to have? All in all I did feel sorry for these women, but you're right in that it could have all been avoided.

@loopsienpeaches6661 2 года назад

That's why even Greta Bereisaite say that being HV woman means to not accept any last minute invitation or jump with man the first time before even knowing him better. It seems so simple but the consequences can be so dire like this

@anoukc6928 2 года назад

Ladies, be aware of love bombing 🚩

@jay_d 2 года назад

I watched this film and I sympathize with these girls. But I looked at this situation and analyzed it. These girls chose this guy not just because he was cute - but because they liked his life and these girls wanted to live like he did. And in fact, for the luxurious life they paid in the debt themselves. Did they like this luxurious life? Yes! So this luxury life is worth money! And as I said at first I sympathize with these girls. But it will be a lesson for them that everything has a price and do not expect someone that will pay for you, because once when this person will be poor. Will you be ready to pay for a private jat, a luxurious car, 5 star hotel? I don't think so! So girls be careful and pay for what you can afford.

@Bearlyhan Год назад

THANK YOU for speaking on the disadvantages of hookup culture for women

@dnydeltoro Год назад

There’s are zero benefits to hookup culture for women, it’s all bad

@jeanlaubenthal698 2 года назад

#2 a woman needs to prepare herself for entering a relationship. If just broke up with someone …take some time to reflect. In General move cautiously. There are really no rules but following your gut and asking yourself questions and being clear what you want.

@decemberclouds 2 года назад

If I saw a similar bio I don't think I'd date a guy like that either. He doesn't seem to have a lot of friends in his pictures. Every picture seems to be showing him doing some amazing thing instead of just regular every day stuff. His 'showiness' can be kind of scary if you value security, since this kind of flashiness can attract thieves and burglars.

@di3486 2 года назад

That is a massive red flag

@msgeorgejourney 2 года назад

I don't consider not a lot of friends in his pictures a red flag. If this was the case Ana Bey pictures would also be considered a red flag.

@imlv2614 2 года назад

Anna is our guiding light through the darkness of this dating climate❤️🤣🤣🤣It actually really takes a lot of strength to stay true to yourself/your principles. I see almost all my friends settling for less…

@faizahanif9515 2 года назад

I once heard that "the male equivalent of twerking is showing off wealth and fake materialistic life" This is exactly what this guy did. He himself appears to be really desperate but gained leverage because he knows this is exactly what lots of women are looking for in their partner.

@wiwiliang4098 2 года назад

Just one quote : "Too good to be true" 😁 Happy Valentine's day all

@kverbrugge4 2 года назад

I thankfully wasn't conned out of money, but my ex lied about his identity, his job, his age, the fact that he was married, even lied saying his mom had cancer. It's so easy to judge other women who have experienced these people/relationships if you haven't been through it yourself. It's scary what we go through when we're uneducated about these red flags and we women have been taught that our needs/boundaries are less important than others'. I'm thankful that I got to learn from this extremely painful lesson without being physically harmed or drained of all my money. Ladies, you matter, your boundaries matter, and your needs matter, don't ever forget that.

@mbtilover3575 2 года назад

I’m also shocked that after being on the news he still got a model girlfriend after prison. I guess she doesn’t care as long as he never asks her for a penny. It also sickens me that not only as he a alleged thief he asked her to ask her house or car. he gets worse and worse

@kasdlu7276 2 года назад

I'd run away screaming when seeing his Instagram! First impression - extremely self-centred, shallow, and too flashy. He"s profile looks like advertising of several designer brands. True affluent ppl don't need to prove anything to the world.

@karltokio 2 года назад

You are right. But on the other side there are a bunch of women who are attracted to these status symbols. He knew this hence why he crafted this image and it worked. One lady had over a 1000 matches but yet still she chose Simon. Jump on a plane with him after one hour, jump into bed with him after five hours. Whether we agree or not, Simon’s image and lifestyle was a huge turn on for her.

@madamekida 2 года назад

Thank you for this! i was waiting for your insight on this! Some stuff I noticed about red flags , 1. Bragger 2. Broken accent (Pernilla had an accent ,but her english is more fluent) 3.Take more than a month to actually know a person 4. He asks for big amounts of money too soon. 5. Moving in too quickly

@chantellewilson9497 2 года назад

I have been married for 18 years, but all young ladies should be educated on this topic. Thankfully they lost money not there lives. Great video Anna this could actually save a young life. 🥂💕

@agnesbrazell1362 2 года назад

Always watch out for red flags. For me, If It's Too Good To Be True...beware! Ladies, never let our hearts rule over our heads. Thank you Anna!

@amalwais6896 2 года назад

365 days and 50 shades. Fictional but more examples of dangerous, wealthy men. P.S. Anna, if it's not too inconvenient, could you use these two in your analysis?

@user-zk8ed4kd2b 2 года назад

I've been love bombed in the beginning of legitimate, very long term relationships, but other than the sweetness, attention and flowers or candy, there were zero other red flags during the entire time. Nothing about those times felt off. Nothing about those guys seemed suspicious. They were really in love or very deep romantic feelings and the feelings were mutual. Sometimes this part, seen in the documentary, can be real, but o If anything strikes you as unusual, abnormal, suspicious, be on your guard.

@Qzm0 2 года назад

I'm a family person I have siblings and cousins and kids and friends. I didn't see any other person than a body guard. Not even an animal. This was a huge red flag for me.

@anab8412 2 года назад

The narcissist men always prey on desperate women, I feel sad for them even though I think they were kinda delusional

@ahsanlikhon9648 2 года назад

Men can also look women for money. So if a man looks for women for money it is wrong but on the other hand of a woman looks for a man with money it is right. What is this ?

@fexbd Год назад

Its modern feminism, riddled with double standards and blatant generalisation and misandrism

@Tng14679 2 года назад

You are always giving us great advice and that's what made this channel become my top favorite in all RU-vid. Thank you so much Anna ❤ I love you

@mariasosin2259 2 года назад

I am working now with a family, where the head of the family is abusive narcissist. And he was running a pharmacy his whole life, his also abusive and manipulative daughter runs this pharmacy now for him - they create a fasade of smiles and positive look for the public. I know the stuff behind closed doors and it is very dark.

@Strandlights 2 года назад

Do tell more!

@farizaabbassova1822 2 года назад

spill the tea

@aprilapril5462 2 года назад

Can’t wait to see your video!!!! 💕- please touch on the fact that the women intentions were to find a wealthy guy with status -they got scammed because their mindset and ability to distinguish a faker was blinded by treasures. As a person you Have to always do your research - (period) -and don’t be fooled by the shiny things.

@soniakal7751 2 года назад

This is so true... Some women don't even get blinded by presents, they get blinded by words! We shouldn't fall in the trap of believing what we want to believe. You're so right

@idivas_Tricia 2 года назад

Too many women have a Cinderella complex. This documentary will hopefully make them realize that there is high price to pay when you are living in Disney World instead of reality.... ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-cwKEkB--Gh0.html

@lelinh2561 2 года назад

even worse things happened from online datings, not just losing money. I once watched a documentary about a woman who was conned to have baby and then the conman planned to sell their baby to a country in middle east. terrifying and hard to believe,, yet it exists. So educate yourself and learn to recognize your insecurities and fix, otherwise bad people will know how to exploit them. This could happen to anyone (just speaking from experiences since I used to have bad experiences with online dating too)

@silverkitty2503 2 года назад

honestly make them work and PROVE they are legit ....don't be eager to get into a relationship at all ...make them wait a while and be friends ...and maybe ONLY meet them THROUGH friends

@nolaclarke253 2 года назад

How about never giving men your money or paying to spend time with men? I've done very well with this rule. Before I got married, I never spent more than 30 minutes on the phone with my husband and I don't have social media.

@PatriciaGawlowski23 2 года назад

Regardless the economic situation of a man, if he drives a Bugatti or a cheap car, if he claims to "LOVE YOU" after a few dates... run! Passion OK but love doesn't happen like that "Alice".

@MissFiorediLoto 2 года назад

Unfortunately, the narcissist"s peprcentage is increasing in our society more and more.

@Ben-uv2jq 2 года назад

I agree, the selfie, onlyfans, and women's over inflated egos are getting worse and worse every day

@LadyCharity 2 года назад

At 3:26-3:28, Anna mentions it is important to know what a narcissist, psychopath, and sociopath are but does not define them. 4:43, she says some that are high-functioning and not criminal. *This is true for people with narcissistic traits or NPD* (narcissistic personality disorder) *NOT psychopaths*. Psychopaths are always criminal--narks are not always criminal but both the sociopath and psychopath are criminal hence those terms are used.

@Miranda-gi9fx 2 года назад

Not true, they are not always criminal, especially sociopath...

@christchaik8317 2 года назад

All things aside, regular middle class people work day and night to secure what money they could get while he is still roaming free and buying Bentley shows you what a disturbing world we live in

@theStarryNYT 2 года назад

This is such an important topic! I deeply believe that a major part of the journey of "leveling up" in life- and in patriarchal society- is knowing and understanding that 1) You have inherent value as a human being, 2) Trusting your feminine intuition and 3) Not allowing anyone to shame you out of trusting and protecting yourself. Self-respect and self-love can powerfully change the way a woman carries herself- and the types of people she attracts into her atmosphere. I would also like to mention that RU-vid, of course, has a whole fantastic community that is dedicated to helping people identify, escape and recover from narcissistic abuse and trauma bonding that I have found personally beneficial, so hopefully others reading this might also benefit. Best wishes to everyone out there and please never be ashamed- or make anyone else feel ashamed- of realizing a mistake. After all, the shame would have been remaining blind to it and never learning or growing. 🌈Onward and Upward!

@thelastmedici4764 2 года назад

People with a "noble soul" do not show of. They prize discretion above all and this applies to men and women 😉😉😉

@Mytravelaccounts 2 года назад

This is such an important video. As someone who has been through a toxic relationship with a narcissistic man, I really feel that people(in this case, especially women) should have a complete armoury of knowledge about these traits so as to be able to identify them easily and not fall prey to such kind of people.