What Does It Mean To Be INFJ? The INFJ personality type, commonly known as The Advocate or Counselor, is one of sixteen in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). INFJs account for about 1-3 percent of the population. If you get an INFJ personality type, it suggests you're introverted, intuitive, feeling, and judging. Dominant: Introverted Intuition is your primary cognitive function. Extroverted Feeling: Auxiliary Introverted Thinking (tertiary). Extroverted Sensing is inferior. The MBTI test was designed to help people understand their own communication styles and how they connect with others. Knowing your MBTI type can help you better understand your mental processes and behavior, as well as adjust your interpersonal approach to various situations and people. ♥♥♥Help Us Serve You Better! ♥♥♥ Show us love and support through our Patreon: www.patreon.com/ON_TRACK Do You Have Topics In Mind? Comment Below... Share This Video Right NOW: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-UseG1t9QLwg.html ------------------------------------------------------------------------- Thanks for Watching! Are you an INFJ? What more would you like to add? We would definitely love to know! DROP A LIKE, SHARE, Click the SUBSCRIBE Button and HIT that notification bell to get the latest updates! SUBSCRIBE to our CHANNEL NOW 👉👉👉 bit.ly/2LY533N Help Our Channel Reach Awareness Share it With your Friends and Family. Caption Our Video To Your Language Here: 👉👉👉 bit.ly/3gBgWbU -------------------------------------------------------------------------- Videos You May Also Like: 10 Ways That CAN TURN ON AN INFJ ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-9C_hjpv5Whg.html 10 Reasons Why The INFJ Stands Out From The Rest ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dRYZI9crnbs.html Here's Why YOU SHOULD NEVER MESS With An EMPATH ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-42CKb6wGZr4.html Is The INFJ The TRUE ALPHA Of The MBTI? ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-CBgu8SnxxHI.html 10 Shocking Confessions of A TRUE INFJ ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-iliHHAtMhm4.html How TABOO Is The INFJ Personality? ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-jIHFIBeXNr0.html
We don't totally "overcome" the grief. It's always lurking in the background even after we've moved thru the acute phase and actually move on. Always misunderstood, underestimated and underappreciated takes its toll.
Especially to us empaths! 🤟🏾 That’s the lesson of the world, how do you bounce back from darkness; We Bring the Light of Love w/us wholeheartedly ~ Nothing Beats Love 🤷🏾♀️💯✊🏾
Just left 23 years with covert narcissist this video is spot on with the process loyalty kept me there to heal her pain. I completely agree we never remove the pain it's almost a reminder to not let it happen again inner strength just like remembering a loved one when there gone it hurts every time but you know that keeps them alive in your heart. This delivers justice without closure. Bah rambling again.. thanks for sharing.
@@Robyn-Lee-B You are right. I just can't even fathom not feeling or being able to love. Once I accepted that and saw her abusing our daughter it changed everything. Thank you for the comment it definitely helps...
Just broke things off with someone that took my love and kindness for granted. I asked for very little, and I don’t know if it was game playing or general rudeness, but he couldn’t /wouldn’t, and honestly I don’t give a shit. I tried. Several times. He wouldn’t do the basics. Now he’s finding out The INFJ door slam is a real thing, we don’t WANT to but when we do it’s a relief to us. Nobody understands that when we get to that point the walking away isn’t painful, it’s like a boulder has been taken off our shoulders with the decisiveness. Do you agree?? All I can think about is have fun finding someone like me 💁♀️
I agree I just had to do this 3 weeks ago and it hurt 😔 but I had to do what I needed to do and 10 days ago they called from a blocked number.😂 It’s a relief and a metal release so we can put it on someone that truly wants our love and all the awesome things we offer for free. Even if it wasn’t meant to be and they wanted our friendship we just want the best for them even if it wasn’t for us. They still would have had our trust and support.
Tips for moving on: 1. Detach; don’t take things personally. If someone betrays you or otherwise takes advantage of you, know that it has everything to do with them and little or nothing to do with you. It can be easy to question why someone would do you wrong when you’ve been everything they should ever want, but you can be everything and a person can still hurt you because they are empty, immoral, etc. Whatever the case, that person has their own issues that are their problem, not yours. 2. Forgive yourself & move on! Learning to forgive yourself is essential. Maybe there were signs or a feeling you had you ignored, or you regrettably put in more effort than you should have. You are a human who has a need for connection, you decided to give someone the benefit of the doubt and aren’t wrong for that. In the end, hold your head up knowing you were a good and solid person. Know that it’s their loss. A truth in this video is that it’s going to be rare to find a person who is as loyal and amazing as you are. Find fulfillment on your own and be discerning and a little less idealistic going forward. Really take the time before investing in someone again because whomever you decide to put your all into is damn lucky and a decision that shouldn’t be made without heavy consideration. 3. Have faith in the universe; know that there is a lot of good out there waiting for you. I believe that good people will eventually get good. Focus not on what you’ve been through, but what’s to come. Believe that your experiences, no matter how hard, will set you up to have and appreciate the better that’s ahead of you. Just some words of advice from life experience and what’s helped me 🙂
Well said, sharing: "Desiderata" Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.
Thank you for sharing wisdom of nuggets for us! Confirmation to me for my decision to be divorced, move on from boyfriends. Most people are narcissistic & to an empath, it’s just school in preparation for the ultimate test of marriage 🤷🏾♀️ yet, that’s just my 3 cents worth. Keep your head up & chest out, we’ve beat a whole of spiritual a$$ w/o lifting a finger! Be gentle! Thanks again for sharing your heartfelt words of encouragement & wisdom from on your journey! Ase 🙏🏾
I give too much I am told, but I don’t expect anything in return. When someone is abusive, shallow, manipulative, or gossip/ gaslighting etc I have no problem shutting the door. There is no sense arguing, because if they are willing to listen they wouldn’t have done that shit in the first place. Most of the time I just quietly shut the door behind me. It hurts for a while but then I plan a milestone in my life like a long trip, or large scale endeavour. When I have finished that I conduct a review of what I let happen and never go back. I think I drove a few narcissists into the anger abyss but f’ck em. They try to say they’re sorry and try to send messages of urgencies or to create a response, but I’m hip to that and my intuition even tells me when it’s going to happen (yeah no shit even down to the day and hour) NO response! The door is shut and the DEADBOLT is on! 😮 I don’t need friends, I don’t mind being alone. I actually liked the lockdown during Covid 19 no one to interfere with my peaceful existence. Turn the page.
Yes it's correct just as we can care and love we have the opposite side just deeply. It ain't never pretty. I'm glad we definitely leave an impression though. Means a lot, but do they get it?
I knew for the longest time I was an INFJ, but never really heard if the sigma INFJ, and not sure what the difference is? All of these points hit very spot on so I'm wondering if I'm a Sigma?
I was with an INFJ..they never let me in on their feelings while I was an open book..I am an INFJ and I fit into that mould exactly but my ex partner who wouldn’t allow me inside indicated I was suffocating them..I like my quiet time..I need to be on my own a lot so I didn’t see how this could be possible as they too required personal time..which to me seemed perfect but because I was full of questions they didn’t want to answer I was suffocating them..I got the door slam..slam is the correct term…no one word since that day..even I as an INFJ could not shut out someone whom I loved for a long time in an instant..but then I’ve learned there must be degrees of INFJ..
Any type who has been hurt by someone will disconnect from that person not just the INFJ I think they have been put on a pedestal for too long all types connect with people in their own way no type is special but all are special in their unique way I think to have a balanced relationship you need to be on the same page INFJ'S are Idealist so having this will make an INFJ lonely they need to realize that people are imperfect so they will make mistakes just because people don't agree with the INFJ 's opinions or if a type isn't warm as them doesn't mean the relationship is doomed I don't believe in golden pairs I think it's stereotypical people who have different function stacks from the INFJ if they are both healthy their relationship will thrive .
Salty.. I don't think anyone should be put on a pedestal. I agree that everyone does distance I think the video is for the infj not the other way around to help with there healing as in general they have been abused and internalize the trauma difference. Pros and cons to every personality type not sure how negativity ever helps when honesty should be the goal..
Myers Briggs categorizes personalities accurately. They do not put you in a box, they ask you questions and based on your answers YOU put yourself in a box. Once you take a few tests and figure out your personality type, it’s not only enlightening, but useful for your social interactions. I suggest taking multiple tests and answering questions based on your NORMAL behavior, not your BEST behavior. If you find that you don’t fit into any personality type, then you’ve proved your point, however only for yourself. Once I found out what my personality type was and researched it further, I no longer felt so unique and original in my behaviors, nor right or wrong based on how others behaved, but realized this is how people with my personality type usually behave. So eye opening- especially because my personality type is so rare and it’s comforting to know I’m not the only one who thinks like I do. This personality type categorizing is ideal for people who want to understand themselves more, especially how they fit into societal norms. However, this is not so ideal for those who are not so keen on learning new things, especially the mysteries that lie below the surface of human behavior.
