ENTJ - Your feelings are irrelevant. INTJ - Your feelings don't solve anything. ENTJ - Hard to forget. INTJ - Hard to know. ENTJ - Have a good experience with me. INTJ - Don't have a bad experience with me. ENTJ Ideal Award - Last Man Standing INTJ Ideal Award - Most Improved ENTJ - Credentials are meaningless... Here are mine. INTJ - Here is the cooI project I just finished. ENTJ - Forgot where I left my keys. And car. INTJ - Forgot the past 15 years.
People who mistype as INTJs and take a lot of pride in being “the mastermind” would absolutely hate this video. I, however, am having the time of my life because you’re revealing my weaker qualities that I refuse to admit to anyone that knows me
I also believe having your weaknesses pointed out is a good thing, so you can work on them. I feel confident I have my INTJ paranoia under control, but I have to admit I'm mystified with regards to the "never ask an INTJ about their past" point. I wouldn't have a problem with that (but might not answer if I felt it was none of your business) and can't remember even having felt different about this.
@@bartnauwelaerts4283 exactly what I thought, everything was more or less on point, but I didn't understand this past thing... Also I am not sure if I am making all my decisions lightning fast, many times (especially important or stressful situations) I can take a really long time and be indecisive
@TheBlondie oh yeah, that's exactly how I feel about my past.. I dispise it sometimes, especially when I know I haven't achieved as much as I set out to or I'm not there yet where I know I could've... Then I hate even looking at my past. Intj
I'm infj but hate how the academia is structured, it's too slow and most of it are unverified or old knowledge that I need to memorize...ARGHHHH..but I do quite well in exam even at the last minute..thanks for Ni hyperfocus lol..anyway I think chase might be implying that u might be intelligent in any areas but not be in a intellectual temperament.. I think what he meant by intellectual temperament is those who are thinking pragmatically or practically ..academic by definition (just search it up) is impractical and learn for learn sake only.But for an infj who learn to extremely pragmatic in their way of thinking can be an intellectual.
I totally agree with your statement that ENTJs lack delegation. My boyfriend is an ENTJ and most of the time people around took him for granted because he's just so chill. You would really think he's not mad at you but he'll certainly plan a lot to make you miserable. Once you betray an ENTJ, they will not hesitate to let you go or make you miserable. For me, ENTJ is one of the most loyal & most faithful personality types. If you have an ENTJ partner, never let him or her go. Bdw, I'm an INTJ. 😉
It's actually surprising to see two INTJs (Kristelly and Lori) that say good things about ENTJs. I had two INTJ employees and they hated me. Of course, I hated back, too. INTJs never seem to understand me (ENTJ) so we always had a disagreement. Anyways, most loyal and faithful - HELL YEAH! Nice point there. Most people think ENTJs are selfish, arrogant, and bad but people who really know me well they think completely reverse of that. It's just that ENTJs are very hard to understand from a normal people's point of view. BTW, I didn't quite understand, though, what you mentioned about lack delegation (Lori, below, said isn't good at delegation) but that's what ENTJs are the best at. Don't know what you are talking about. The reason Elon, Bill Gates, Steve Jobs (and also me, hehe) are great entrepreneurs is because we are good at delegating. We have grand plans and ideas and we don't like doing ourselves. Of course, in the beginning we do them but as it builds up we delegate to people and then grow the company. Isn't that how you grow the company? In my case, I used to to A to Z. But now I don't do any everyday work or daily routine jobs. I process ideas and delegate them to employees.
@@Jayturbo_ENTJ Elon musk, Bill Gates, are INTPs, and Steve Jobs is an ENTP, so if you resonate with them that much then you might be some sort of XNTP.
The ENTJ I know was BAD at delegating. 😂 If possible, he'd go and bear all the burden himself. It's why I call him a "tank". Resilient, one of the hardest hitters I know, driven, and larger than life...but often also overworked. I help him out because it often turns out we want the same outcomes. The good results/ output pleases him, and my part in it is often warmly mentioned by him.😂 Said ENTJ has developed a fondness for me and was often ready to mentor me when I had shown him potential. There were very few flash points between us. He liked my independence and self reliance. ENTJ only remarked on my lack of initiative only once, but added I'd be well-rounded when I finally have that. :3 -INTJ
That's interesting to me. Your mention of Driver's license and the 'Delay' in INxJs. Everyone in my family (brother-ENTJ, sister, cousins) got their license immediately after turning 16. I waited/hesitated. 3 years later, I got it. Thanks for that insight. I don't feel such an oddball in my family. Between me, my brother (ENTJ) & my sister, I am the oldest and waited a long time to finally get it. I needed to hear this. Thank you.
As an INTJ, I definitely agree we can be insecure about a lot of Se things. I’ve had to teach myself it’s just in our heads and it’s okay to make mistakes or not be like everyone else. I don’t care as much anymore, but sometimes I still face those insecurities or second guess things I’ve said or behaviors. It’s definitely something that can be worked on though by improving Se. The only way to get over it is by living through it!
I can switch through 5 lanes of freeway traffic seamlessly to reach destination asap. Passengers have been impressed. It's my super power lol.. I'd make a good getaway driver but I'm a law abiding citizen. - INTJ
This is the best lecture you’ve ever done. Pure content, zero fluff. You fit a lot of very good information in to a short amount of time. I’d love to see more of this.
Cs joseph is so underrated. I always keep coming back to him after some time, and I find that those that have watched CS J actually have better understanding than most
Recently showed my ENTJ friend this. I'm an INTJ, and many times we feel like we're on the same wavelength. This is the first time she's seen a video in regards to her type. I helped typed her a while ago and went through the cognitive functions (several times to ensure we got it right). Seeing this, she was floored at how scarily accurate this all was to her, and now she's hooked. The four sides of the mind is so refreshing to see and a great insight into the mind. The loyalty check you mentioned in the ENTJ video applies to us (more so her) at the moment. She's currently doing a loyalty check on a mutual friend, while I suggested maybe cutting her off (after a few circumstances). I ended up yielding and am watching it unfold. This is so informative and points out our flaws (unlike many other explanations), which gives a new perspective on how to improve...like not following people into bathroom stalls. Great video. 11/10
As an INTJ-A when driving. I subconsciously race.... everyone it’s especially dangerous on a motorcycle. I take ridiculously unnecessary (calculated) risks.
I keep going through this cycle where I first start to doubt that I am an INTJ, then I go through all my qualities and maybe rewatch a few videos before I convince myself that I am infact an INTJ, and that logically, since I do have many of the attributes of an INTJ that the majority of other types dont have, I can only be an INTJ. I then chalk my doubt up to Ti critic being extremely critical and I become, once again completely confident in my assessment if my type. But this never lasts long, as a day or two later I am once again assessing the possibility that i may be a different type. ☹ I have also seen a lot of other INTJs do this so I know I shouldnt be doubting it, but of course, the doubt keeps returning... and of course, Mr CS Joseph, your probably all too happy with this, as uncertain INTJ's probably help fuel ur business with all their type verification requests... 🙁
Lol, I keep doing the same. I go through countless resources, and videos, and I conclude that I'm an INTJ, using the same reasoning you mentioned that I can't really be any other type. Then after a while I forget about it, and I start doubting it again, and the cycle continues 😅
INTJ in here. Se inferior is spot on. Like i care so much about physical appearance but every now and then being super busy and tired i get lazy when it comes to dressing and I’ll just pick the 1st clothes from my closet and that’s it and once it was one of these moments and my ISTP sister told me”u have terrible fashion sense u can’t dress at all” and i just lost it i was like”i would’ve rather u call me anything else in this world just not badly dressed”
As an entj married to and intj for over 7 years, I have to agree with you on your intj points and don’t feel that it is too harsh or negative. Those are some of their blindsides. You can woo or talk them out of these behaviors though with some patience and persuasion and helping them to relax in their insecurity and feel safe.
I see this too, it definitely comes off as too personal at times. I feel he has this general sour out look on most intj types. He seems to be a defensive person. I decided to just take wisdom from it because it's overall a pretty good video. He is simply one man. Thanks for sharing, I'm happy to know I wasn't alone in my thoughts/feelings.
Have you ever let yourself get hurt by an INTJ? If you're an ENTJ and already insecure/unsure about your level of "goodness".. or if you dont have strong mental or emotional boundaries.. that INTJ' moral rectitude will flay you alive. 😵
The driver's test was one of the most traumatic experiences of my life. The first time I took it I positioned the parallel park onto the sidewalk. The second time I took it I positioned the parallel park perfectly, but was so amazed by it that I forgot to put the car into park. I ended up rolling backward and failing again. The third time I nailed it though. I didn't have a choice. My Dad looked right at me and said "There's no way in hell we're driving your ass back and forth to college. Go do what you know needs to be done".
Never considered possibly being an ENTJ since I just don't focus so much on social interactions and couldn't imagine considering myself to be an extrovert because of that. But really it's just cause I struggle with those deeper connections. It just takes me years (usually about 3-5 years minimum, 3 years was just one person who really understood me), but that doesn't mean I can't be a good host or anything, I'm usually put in public speaking positions and such because I can easily do it. Just struggle with emotions. But the way the functions are stacked definitely makes more sense that way.
As an ENTJ, delegation is definitely the sign of a more mature ENTJ. Also, many/most people at less professional jobs (early in their career) lack the responsibility making it impossible to delegate tasks to them. The higher in business you get, the easier it is to find CAPABLE individuals who can actually be trusted to get things done on time, with high quality. As an ENTJ, It takes time to learn the lessons of overburdening yourself from not delegating and the problems of covert contracts. Proper delegation is the key that needs to be in place to free up the ENTJ mind to more creative/visionary tasks.
can you talk about ENTJ's as regular people? Not as CEOs of a company all the time. That is not always the case for us. Because of some life choices and moral beliefs, some of us suppress that desire to be in control or lead in a company. Or maybe never had the chance to. But I can tell you this, if I wanted to, I can build an empire right now, but My beliefs stop me from doing so, and am very happy with this choice. But do find a way to talk about the ENTJs regular nonCEO
Dated both .. And as a ENTP I found the easiest of the two ...INTJ. Both in a argument go on about intelligence and how they feel they know everything.intelligence always comes into it.. INTJ way more trusting issues. ENTJ way to controlling ..not my thing.also the driving thing spot on .
@@allisonscanlan4144 I can speak for myself. Because we see the future easily and what could be, we tend to shine a rose colored lens or light of Self-Actualization on certain people for whatever reason. In my case, I see someone who is very smart and or someone I respect and love/like/am attracted to and its easy to believe or trust in their intentions. We may not fall for the snake oil salesman with the poofy hair and shiny suit but we might be fooled when we trust but do not verify. Did you type as an INTJ? Does this sound familiar to you?
How the hell can some people think you are an ENTJ lol? I LOVE ENTPs (no homo)and ENTJs are... difficult. I do my very best to get along with them. /INTJ
I don't know about other INTJs but I'm pretty good at driving since very early and get really pissed off at insecure drivers and people getting in the way and wasting my time. I don't really care about what people think when driving I just want to get to where I want and enjoy the trip at the same time. But otherwise I do think that is the case with more "social" interactions, then I do care how I look or how would I be perceive then become overly cautious and detached or even disdainful of any Fe values involved
@@thesharinganknight9859 Nice. I bet you also have had less crashes and accidents than most drivers you know. In my case though I don't like driving with others or even talking with somebody at the same time while driving, it takes me away form the experience and ruin my concentration so I get sloppy at both.
What a real coincidence that I stumble across this video when my driving test is litereally tomorrow . Wish me good luck guys! (Yeah, I'm a 30 years old INTJ)
Still don’t know which one I am. Id say ENTJ. People perceive me as friendly, outgoing and charismatic and I really enjoy spending time with people but the problem is I’m very picky 😅 and to be honest i dont like most people.
ENTJ here, I have really come to reapect chaos and see its benefits, especially with covid, and have been using it to my advantage very successfully. An INTJ actually showed me how useful chaos can be.
1:14 ENTJ direct, initiating, control 1:18 They are intellectual which means they are intuitive which means they are future thinker. Always focused on the "what if" from a logical or rational stand point 1:28 fine to say they are rational entj or intj 1:32 not fine for intp or entp 1:36 why Chase Rejects Kiersey ideas on the temperments 1:40 His label of calling NTs the rational because they are not rationale 1:46 half of them are and half of them are not. That is why he uses the word I intellectual instead 1:52 infj is an idealist 2:04 Intellectual from human nature standpoint which is intuitive thinker. Not intuitive feeler 2:12 ENTJ and INTJ are intuitive thinker and rational 2:18 ENTJ direct, initiating, control. INTJ Direct, Responding, movement. (INTJ:Chart the course type, see it through type) (INTJ: super focused on getting done they are like laser beam. they go full sniper rifle mode quite frankly) 2:40 Te hero - rationale- what other people think. 2:47 rationale look like- 3:06 logical thinker look like 4:00 INTJ 4:04 INTJ are more wanty than ENTJ 10:18
I was 19. I took it once when I was 16, with bad results. I needed to be able to drive to go to college however, so I forced myself to try again 3 years later. I didn't hit the curb on my second try.
INTJ with an ENTP mother, I had my permit to drive at 16. She was like I AM NOT driving you around forever lol. My Se inferior can get very needy for speed on the highway. Love zooming pass people lol.
Great video I still struggle typing myself. I get like 70% INTJ and 30% ENTJ results in tests. Even with your test I struggles as I am both highly introverted and controlling which seems to be an impossible combo. Sometimes people perceive me as hectic or too fast but mostly I hate chaos, I am poor in making important decisions, I am obsessed with verification. Apart from this I see myself more on the INTJ side just that I do not feel socially awkward. I know social rules and can play by them if necessary. Mostly I just don't because I don't want to and I don't feel bad about it. Anyone else having similar experiences?
There is no one who is 100% intj or entj. Secondly, do not overthink about this topic or you will get more confused. Thirdly, mbti test is a general test which considers the same factors for every types. I myself got your same percentages but after some research, I found out there are "DIFFERENT FACTORS" to determine extroversion of xntj and obviously I'm an ENTJ. That's all I know, hope you get your answer.
You sound like a ENTJ. And like ENFJs I think ENTJs can appear introverted. I know INTJs that appear more extroverted. It also helps if you look at the four sides of the mind. You don’t stay in one part of your mind the more developed you are .Are trying to to become more ISFP like getting in touch with your Fi your creative side? Is your biggest fear letting people down ? do you cry alone in the shower ?
@@Goldforever-vp8zq I do like art, try to get closer to my feelings through self reflection, meditation and awareness. My biggest fear is being helpless all by myself and having lived a life without purpose. I do cry alone but not in the shower ;)
@@jega7981 in my experience as a INTP knowing some INTJs they are a little more stubborn in unsolicited feedback in my eyes compared to a ENTJ that wants to hear my Ti and will later use it themselves. ENXJs are also more forgetful. INXJs come off to my personality as more stubborn a little less humble compared to a ENTJ but of course that’s through my perception because they are my golden pair. So far a ENTJ is the only type that hears my thoughts considers it and will come back and say they don’t normally do this but I am right about etc but yeah if you compare the four sides of a INTJ and the ENTJ it won’t take long and look at the personalities of your closest friends around you. You most likely will not be close friends with someone with the same personality type as you. One more thing look at the vice and virtues of both.
So true about ENTJ's knowing exactly what they want when they want it. I knew one who had his life all mapped out specifically in a time frame, impressive. I as an INTJ am not that particular; it could happen here on the time line or a little later. I see far but don't always actuate, my biggest frustration.
My father tought me from 14 to 16 and I drove from 16 to 19 without a drivers license. I stopped because I avoided an accident. Took the drivers license at 23 years old because I lived close to school and university. Never had an accident although sometimes I engage in street racing with the car I restaured myself. INTJ
Gonna watch ISTJ vs INTJ next but I'm 100% convinced I'm INTJ. I wanted to comment on the trust and forgiveness thing from my perspective. Everything you said is right about the untrustworthy being absolutely dead to the INTJ. But there is one and only one instance where you can be forgiven. And technically it's still not forgiving the person who broke their trust. But the untrustworthy person within that person has to completely die and the person has to become absolutely brand new. There can be no trace of existence of that untrustworthy individual within the individual. And even if that person is now actually good at heart and trustworthy, they would have to try 100,000 times harder to prove it. If they are not going out of their way to prove it, then they don't care anyway... Now maybe I'm just one of the better INTJ's or maybe it's because I'm christian and the whole "forgive and forget" thing, but that's my take on it anyway. All the INTJ's I've met are down right Satanists...
Here's what I wrote on another RU-vid video before watching this: Here's the thing with trust and forgiving with what I believe to be an INTJ characteristic (from an INTJ)... If someone breaks your trust someway, they can say sorry or whatever, and really truly be sorry even, but if an INTJ senses that the same person who broke their trust still exists within them, meaning they still have the same tendency to break trust, then the "sorry" or whatever is alright I guess, but it means absolutely nothing if you are still the same person that broke the INTJ's trust. INTJ's think in terms of what could happen or would happen and what you would do and they judge you based on that. And if that same untrustworthy personality exists within that individual, then that means that person still would break their trust again, just that a scenario in which that would become evident hasn't been encountered a second time... In order to renew trust or true forgiveness in an INTJ, that person would have to die and no longer exist (metaphorically, I expect that you get what I am saying if you're an INTJ). The same person that broke their trust can never regain it back again because that person is not trustworthy. They have to change and become brand new...
I had my isfj mom take me out before I took any official driving lessons so that I could be prepared, she helps with starting things and I’m able to finish the job which is one of my favorite things about here even if she can be overbearing at times and has zero chill. I was the first one of my brothers to get a drivers license but definitely the insecurity is real. More so when driving to unfamiliar places or with other people to those unknown places. I’m a pretty good driver over all.
Actually our insecurities don't lie in how others see us, but in how well (or bad in our case) we will perform the task. We dread physical tasks, because our awareness lies in the conceptual plane. That's why our Se is inferior and our dom is Ni. I'm a prime example of it. I know the rules and bump into you anyway, because I wasn't aware of the lack of space or that obstacle standing in the way. By now, I haven't driven for about 10 years.
This is really interesting because as an INTJ, my longest friendship has been with an ESFP, and my fiancé who is an ENTJ’s longest friendship has been with an ISFP.
Watching this makes me feel like I have Se child because I've been told that I give really great presents and cook well (giving people a good experience). But at the same time, I drop things very often, bump into things, and have had a history of questionable fashion choices (Se trickster). I give up figuring this out lmfao, just going to wait for that quiz you're working on.😂 On another note though 25:48 when I break up with people it’s usually done in a very very loving way. I’ll comfort them, hug them, reassure them that they did their best, and that I enjoyed the good moments (all true!) But when the door closes, they’ll never hear from me again :) All the while I’m thinking, “you missed out, bitch” hahahaha. So evil.
Omg. I’ve been trying to figure out if I’m INTJ, ENTJ or (as a distant third) INTP. Whenever you talk about INTJs, I’m like “yup that’s me”. The fact that you kinda hate on INTJs is helpful for me because you call out our shit. I’m so insecure about how people see me and I feel so called out about the driving thing. 😂 Everyone else just focuses on INTJ visions and planning... which makes it hard for me to distinguish between INTJ and ENTJ. As I’ve gotten older and more mature, I feel more ENTJ. But my core self seems to be def INTJ.
C.S. Joseph the part where is they are intelligent and good at math hell yeah I wanna be entj but still i like my ability to control my anger and wanting to become a good human being ^^
They do make a very passionate, intense duo though. Both eager to provide a great experience for the other. Both have an animalistic impulse. Good mental compatibility, so there’s mutual respect, atleast intellectually/academically. A satisfying pair for both the boardroom and the bedroom. They make for an unstoppable force in those two arenas. Though I don’t see either of them having enough chill to be friends, or being compatible romantically...too much tension (good and bad), no way of having emotional needs met in a healthy, stable way.
You need to reassess your position. But first, you need to curb your problem with "pride" - because "pride" blinds you to reality. Humility is the ability to recognize "Truth" and live in accordance with the "Truth".
Spot on with the driving. I actually learn how to drive while I was a teenager but didn't get my lincense until I was 24 because I had no choice. I resolved to make enough money to hire a driver... Didn't think it was an INTJ thing.
My INTJ ass is officially commiting to learning social engineering. With a Rhetoric and logic background in philosophy. As well as a background in psychology and psychoanalysis I think this is a realistic goal now. Deadline: August 31st, 2020.
It's been years. I watch videos like this and I still can't identify which one I am. I relate to basically all the points in this video for both sides haha. I find it quite easy to see function priority in other people but its like my brain just fails when I try to assess myself.
What a wealth of knowledge you have in the slightest discernment of character! To be honest, you were the key to the door I have been knocking at for a long time. With that being said, I definitely need more, not needing to verify but to build. Could you list other RU-vid channels that are knowledgeable and good books that discuss "functions"? By the way, thank you for not sugar-coating or discussing personality traits in such a vague way, but yet supporting it with truth through the use of functions. This way of teaching is proof that you have mentally digested everything that comes out of your mouth! Lol, thank you! I do have one future request pertaining to a series that I could benefit from; could you discuss in depth, per trait, how the critic and child work together or the inferior and trickster? I know that's asking a lot, but you have gone so far and have so much to offer! Thanks Again!
it took a lot of work and study. I recommend reading John Beebe, Linda Berens and C.G. Jung. as far as RU-vidrs, I do not have anyone I would recommend. Although, I did watch davesuperpowers years ago when he first started out. As for your request, its already in the schedule.
C.S. Joseph Thank you for responding and for the recommendations; I will looking them up to add unto my summer's reading list. Pinker might go back on the shelf! My notifications are on so that nothing will pass me by in the event that you make new videos when I am occupied. One more time, thank you once again.
constantly trying to proof what i believe is actually the truth can drive me into analysis paralysis indefinitely. also 10:33-11:07. Me literally today. You can even add more to it and say that we seek to solve the problem through rationality and it just never works... its just a never ending cycle.
I am VERY forgetful. My phone, my PC (I built) and my whole home office is like my external memory storage. And Si trickster makes a lot of sense. I have an Si dominant sister I get along famously with. I love how dutiful she is and wish I could be as organized.
I'm supposedly an INTJ but have been determined to get the driving license even before i was in high school, so as soon as the other factors align (i get a car haha) to get that driver license i will take it immediately. I will have to do more research on the comparison between these two types and maybe even come back to this video again tomorrow after I've watched a bunch of others, but I'm pretty sure I'm an INTJ
I mean I didn’t wait for my license since the school offered it but idk what it is but I’m a fine driver until the second someone else gets in the car and it all goes out the window immediately
Wow, an entp with Si aspirational, willing to trust in Se despite naturally unable to as an enp type with Se demon. It's fascinating to watch how you're able to jump from idea to ideas, mindset and systems and beliefs to beliefs so naturally with ease.... It's so incredible. You're like a God-like being😂🤣
As an INTJ I do have a chaos occurred = panic mode. When my Ni-Te "plan" backfires, and Se shadow comes knocking. Feels like an all is lost scenario. But usually that chaos is its own cure. After the existential crisis subsides, the chaos wipes the beach clean of flotsam and you are back to a still beach with rolling waves. Maybe INTJs should use Aikido philosophically? Stop, drop, roll. Keep the ball rolling. Se shadow emergency mode, and then back to Ni-Te?
9:00 Se child abuse : you smell / dress / look bad, give bad experience etc. 12:10 Ti critic verifies much more than Ti nem, which is more optimistic about what they think. 15:00 ENTJ to hire-fire hire-fire people until they find a really loyal person. Shallow relationships with their employees. ENTJs must delegate the delegating to someone else. NTPs make excellent operation managers / delegators for ENTJs. 25:00 ISFP delivers to one / ENTJ delivers to many 26:45 INTJs constantly ask feedback on the exp they're giving you.
Iam an INTJ and I have no insecurity about looking good, I don't care much about the impression I give to others and I also got both my car and bike driving license at age of 19 (in India, minimum age for driving licence is 18). However, I will concede one thing. I very much prefer riding bikes to riding cars and i don't really drive cars much. However that is an isolated case and cannot be considered as a general indication of an inferior 'se' or extroverted sensing.
IDK If Im an ENTJ or just an INTJ entrepreneur lol I dont care about academics, I think its the slowest way to get rich but I feel Im very sentimental for Fi inferior.
I love how brilliant you are and yet so true/biased to your own experiences at the same time🤣 it's really great..seriously, I'm not being sarcastic at all.
@@CSJoseph agreed, which is why it is so important for one to fore go reacting to it only extracting the truth. I think if more pay true attention to you they can really see your affinity towards the INJs in particular.
Is there something that either ENTJ or INTJ can do to gain more awareness and mastery over their Si and Fe? I find it very unprofessional of myself to be limited by such poor Si and Fe.
Honestly your right i do get really vengeful and hateful at times and watch everyone like a hawk my weird ass damn near talked myself out of dating because i don't trust people alot and the overall landscape of dating
I’ve been wondering about the differences between the 2. I thought I couldn’t be an extrovert because I’m n or super outgoing and sociable, and I like to stick to a smaller set of people, but I also know that I can be very assertive, spontaneous, impulsive, hedonistic and image focused, especially for a type with low Se. When I was younger, I was very inquisitive, energetic and liked to analyse, and I was a bit mischievous and like a show off, but I was also very naive and trusted people too easily. I was seen as thoughtful, charismatic, intelligent, scientific and eccentric. I was often taken advantage of because of my kindness and warm nature, so I closed myself off for a while and became more hardened. Now I am getting more in touch with my emotions and my vulnerable side to connect with people and to enjoy life. I am also a very sensual type of person and have been very adventurous with sex, food and sometimes drugs.
You said with INTJ’s to always state your intentions. Can you please do a video explaining what to do with every single type in the same vein? Like what do you always do with INFP’s? - I am guessing there is a slightly unique tact that should be prioritised for dealing with each type so that you’re on the same page? I know a few INFP’s and ENFP’s and I just want to know what to do.
Notes (4 me) Intj does not care about their past (Si demon) do not ask about their past- let them initiate🌸 ESFP subconcious ~> some of the best comedians, (intj biggest insecurity is giving poor experiences and so eventually they bevome rly good entertainers)
I am an intp. I have also felt the burning desire to create as well. It sucks that my works are only any good when I am emblazendly pissed or straight up depressed. Any other time and my creative talent turns to dogshit and everything I write feels forced and hollow
So that I am understanding the difference between rationale vs logic, the rational would project their knowledge on something they haven't verified, where logic would have it so everything needs verified?
He is not confused. He's spot on. Many INFJs and INTJs have a fear of driving and delay learning to drive. It's how I learned I'm an INTJ. I searched fears in INxJ Facebook groups. Driving comings up a lot. I delayed learning to drive. You can't be perfect at something if you won't even do it. When I was forced to get in the driver's seat, I slowly stopped panicking when car came behind me and developed my inferior Se.
Delegation = Preference to avoid work (for whatever reasons) + authority/responsibility. If we put children in charge of their parents, they would delegate everything. Delegation done well involves not just passing the buck, but passing it to the right person, who will grow the most from the experience, and who can handle it to begin with. ENTP is better at the former (choosing to delegate). ENTJ is better at the latter (Identifying who can do what). I will say you have a remarkable understanding of the types though. I still think you don't understand Te, but it's not surprising you would think your shadow functions are all "inferior and bad". It's the same reason sensors often distrust intuition and feelers distrust thinking. But anyway your general understanding of types is very comprehensive.
I took a personality test a year apart and didn't even remember taking it the second time i took it , I put my email in at the end and it said it was already used. The first time i took it a year prior I got ENTJ and the second Time i took it I Tested as an INTJ. When I saw i took the test in the past and scored different i took the test again to see if it was a mistake and I tested as a INTJ again. I'm not to sure how that happened.
I'm an INTJ. Listening all your videos. I like how you put emphasis on your words message is very clear and on point. Thank you. I don't skip or fastward anything. You have no idea how good it is to find these videos. Thank you.
About the self fulfilling prophecies I have noticed Ni users do this alot and ESTPs do it too but more in their favor, the healthy ones atleast, have a strong mentality
eros smacos not all of you, of course not, because it’ll be impossible to generalize you all. But the ones I were around were very conceited individuals.
@@Voltaire619 An ENTJ who is a nacissist is a very sorry fellow. I get how someone that is not particularly receptive to personality traits can confuse one for the other, but there is one main difference: Narcissist will tell you how great they are, how good they are at their work, how much money they make, but most of the time they're overcompensating for their HUGE insicurities. If you critique them they'll not listen, and will call you a loser as a defense mechanism ("you are a loser, so your opinion doesn't matter, so the critique you made is not valid"). An ENTJ will tell you how great they are, how good they are at their work, how much money they make, and they'll be only telling the truth. I know most people does not like when some random guy tells them that he's good at something and istantly think that he's lying, but with an ENTJ that's not the case. Of course, they have their insicurities too - like everyone else. But I have yet to meet an ENTJ that is not happy to hear a personal critique, doing everything he can to better himself.
Brilliant! But entjs are way better at delegating than other types. The reason is because of Te. They figure out who can do what and let them rock. I found intjs too shy. Enfps are too self-focused. Intps can be both too out of touch with what they want and too perfectionistic. They need to do it themselves. Entjs can be in host mode and want to create a good working environment.
C.S. Joseph Let's just say I have worked for intps and I believe differently your assessment. I am flattered you answered though. Also, given that most CEOs are entjs I think that data doesn't support your conclusions. The rational which always concerned with facts and the logical which is always concerned with making conclusions based syllogisms. Statistically, entps aren't leaders. They are cultural influencers but not leaders. But I do agree that Enfps make great leaders. This not because they are good delegating but rather they inspiring and create flexibility. But again, I am flattered you responded.
ESTPs are way better at delegation. I’d say Se is better at finding these things than Te. Why INTJs are perceived as better is probably due to their aspiration.
So, after learning the functions and deliberating for a while and asking some non biased people who know me's opinions I came to the conclusion I am an ENTJ. Though I must say that I disagree with chaos being bad. I'm very quick to adapt my plan to better suit whatever changes happen and fully expect unexpected variables to get involved in whatever I'm doing. Even when everything has turned against me I'm still confident that I can completely flip the situation to my advantage. I'm very good at finding weak points, and very good at adapting my strategy to attack said weak points, I'd be foolish to believe that the situation wouldn't react so therefore I'm ready to jump to a different strategy as soon as I notice that the current strategy becomes ineffective. Chaos can be useful because people struggle to navigate it, so as long as I'm ready and able to make quick decisions to change based on circumstantial change I have less reason to fear than others who may be far more dead set on a single strategy working.
