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I'm an ENTP and what I found that works the best to maintain self-worth: 1. Use your Ti to write down a list of values you want to live up to. 2. Live by those values everyday. Let them be your guardrails. 3. Know that when someone disapproves of you but you did not offend your own principles, then your self-worth is intact. 4. If you did offend your own values, then admit your mistake (to yourself) and work on improving it. 5. Don't create too many values that it reaches the stratosphere. Be realistic and lower expectations of yourself. We can't all be ENTPs like Tony Stark and don't want to also. 6. Being helpful to others is useful as stated in the video, however don't hinge your worth on it. Seeking approval in others is the source of suffering for ENTPs (probably all humans :0). Patience towards yourself is key.
It's actually a savage existence as an ENTP. Your superpowers come at a heavy cost. So you don't have much bias? So you can remain impartial and neutral in a world that can only pretend to be that at it's very best day? How does an ENTP achieve this Buddha-like state? Its easy. Don't put much value in anything ever at any time. That's a deep level of apathy. We are VERY detached. Can an ENTP give in and just...idk...live in a role for a few days/months/years? Sure. The ENTP has to stop trying to emulate everything they see others experiencing. We love self growth, and feeling valued. But that feeling isn't gonna come about the same way others get it. You just 'fake it till you make it'. The ENTP is a master at pulling things outta thin air and making it real. That apathy prevents you from getting swept up in the beauty of life. You have to will things into existence. The only thing that motivates me naturally is spite. Not ideal. The rest has to be systematically willed into existence. You feel ignored? Will that shit away. Step into the role of someone that gets noticed. The rest will come naturally.
as somone that has faked it till i maked it for my whole life i can agree but i had to be reminded of this. i have gone trough mental abuse wich made me so uncertain about my own abilities ive become the people pleasing ENTP and im miserable at this moment.
I used to feel the same until I had a role that got me noticed (and realised I was mostly surrounded by fake twunts). It made me appreciate my friends more though tbh. And as for being driven by spite, me being motivated full-stop is a pretty hardcore thing that can come across as being motivated by something negative because, due to the amount of focus, I don't take any prisoners... it's nothing i'm ever particularly proud about but it gets shit done.
One of the best videos on ENTP’s have ever seen, and probably one of the only true ENTP’s on RU-vid…. Your contribution is greatly appreciated Madame lol
I am an ENTP, and the negative talk is strong in this one. I evaluate myself by the same set of rules you apply to others and the rest of the universe. Sometimes, I don't measure up, and basically, cannot cut myself any slack. Makes for a very honest life, a life of high achievement, but not a very happy life.
This is EXACTLY the thought process i have. How can i have value to demonstrate and utilise as a concrete tool to improve society. I have actually starting helping people by gathering knowledge and spreading them around like a mad man for about a month now. They actually tell me they felt refreshed after talking to me !
"Don't pick on ENTPs, they don't have the resources to deal with it." We don't need resources. We'll just deflect with poorly timed, inappropriate humour. It doesn't hurt... It's okay...
As a entp, I'm a listener on a platform to people who need it, I can't offer advice.. literally just walk with people on their issues. And one I realised I'm not going to help everyone, and two, we all need to be heard and not given a solution. When I have a person tell me how lonely they are,u gotta find alot of words entps aren't used to. It's not easy, but not every one wants a solution.
That’s an issue I’ve struggled with particularly with one of my best friends. She’s a feeling type and just bears it all out and my immediate response is to offer solutions to help her but it seemed like she always got angry at me. One day, after she had gone to some therapy, she told me that sometimes- most times- she just needed someone to hear her out.
Its still trying to assign yourself to something else which I think is counter to what self value is. I think we should strive to find that worth no matter whats happening in our environment or what we are or arent contributing towards. It sounds impossible, but thats the magic. Once you find it, you dont need much more than whatever you bring to life in any situation. Taking a breath can have intrinsic value. This is basically one aspect of the journey towards enlightenment
I think I have ENTP preference, and it absolutely grates on my nerves when people glorify the ide idea of intrinsic worth. Intrinsic worth is a great idea and it's a valueble assumption to make about ourselves and others, but when it"s taken to the extreme, as much of the current popular narrative seems to do, it becomes completely disconnected from reality. Value cannot exist as a purely subjective, disconnected thing. And so in my mind, intrinsic worth (just for the sake of existing) is a useful lie at best. Life is full of useful lies, and the lies are valuble in themselves because of how they shape reality in positive ways. But let's not mistake a valueble lie with the objective truth.
This alpha ENTP never doubted my value. I simply discovered my dominant Extroverted Intuitive Feeling functions. I quit the success track and became a protector.
Trynna figure out if I am an ENTJ or ENTP, because I'm very creative and analytical. After seeing this ENTP woman I'm leaning more to towards ENTJ. I've always felt worth inside of me. Naturally I wanted to be the best and to do so is to be as effective as possible. You have learn the skills required to succeed. I'm still not totally sure though
I believe as soon as you do feel that you are good enough, you then become adequate. The truly exceptional people never believe that they are good enough, because you can never be perfect, therefore always strive to constantly improve and better themselves, and although appear to others as exceptional, tragically and ironically never feel that way themselves...
I suppose but as an ENTP intrinsic worth is worthless to me, who cares if a thing has value being a thing, what does it do, I don’t care for my value as just being a human, that’s only important in a court of law, in my daily life achievements are more important
Quiet quitting is screwing over 'The Man'. Believing he's too distracted to notice. And soaking up self-congratulatory weasel points when telling the bros about it at weed session hang-outs.
What if I have self value outside of work? What if I found I have self worth even if I do nothing, even if I fail. I don't know I feel like I have reached a point in life where I stopped trying help/ fix other people and started working on fixing my self.
How have you got 6.4k views but 45k likes? 🤔 That aside this is an interesting podcast. I’m an INTJ and have been with my ENTP fiancée for 20years. It’s been really helpful to see how his mind works with regards to self esteem because I’m sure this is something that could improve on to help his mental health and outlook on the world. I’ve just watched your INTJ stuck podcast and it’s been very insightful 😊
