Things About Women I Wish I Knew In My 20’s 1. Rejection is a part of life never, take it seriously. When one bus leaves another comes in 5 minutes. Abundance mindset 2. Never play the nice guy buddy buddy role with women. When a women friend zones you, she’s rejecting you. But she still wants you around so she could use you for free attention. 3. Never Chase A Women After Being dumper or FriendZone 4. Quiet/Shy Nerdy girls are the BEST girls to date. 5. Female Hypergamy Does not care about you. 6. Never make a women your whole life. A women should only be complimentary to your life 7. Men at the age of 18-25 will have the most difficult time dating 8. A woman can never love you, she only loves you on how you make her feel 9. Women at the ages 18-25 are not looking to settle down they just want TO have fun 10. Never let a women walk all over you or manipulate you just because she’s pretty always stand your ground & follow your principles as a man.
Yeah, well some of these are true but some are not. Women can actually love you of course and it can be true love, the myth that women only care about men for their value and that they are always looking for better is just a myth. Of course value attracts women, but in a marriage or in a serious relationship that attraction turns into love attraction which can last for life. Please never think that women can’t love, they can, life would be so stupid if Only Men could love, but the life is in fact perfect, think about this... ;)
@@AutistenKick they are focused on whatever is important to them. Morals money whatever it is. Just stay focused on the task at hand and study your ass off. No one is well respected without work ethic no one. Your work ethic speaks, so be known for something & that’s it. The women will follow
Exactly, they are focussed on what is important to them so their time becomes valuable making certain women want a part of it. But high value men seem to be the ones that self improve themselves as well. Those that are caught up with just their goal especially if it is money then they aren’t as attractive either.
@@888records Let me explain what a high value man is. A high value man is NOT based on looks or chains or none of that stupid shit. A High value man is based on characteristics and principles. How you handle yourself and the outside world. How you handle power, how you handle losses, how you handle victories. What are you capable of. What type of person you are ultimately
The majority of women who has ever showed interest in me were never my type, and dare I say even ugly. I never understood why for a long time, and it all came down to how I acted around them. Because I wasn't attracted to them my behavior was totally different. It's hard to act what feels counter-intuitive, but treating a hot woman as no big thing puts you at a greater advantage than anything else. Knowing when to flirt a little and when to play cold is a skill, but worth playing around with.
The point is, Chase your dreams and live your life at the finest first... Because mostly true love come unexpected and you didn't even search for it.. It just comes
That is called a Karmic Relationship. It will be nothing but a rocket ride of personal growth, and the woman being nothing more than a mirror of your own stuff.
More like free sex. True love is there with you since day 1. True love adds substance into your life. It's not some liability that munches off of you when you become successful.
I have some advice. Whenever I want a woman to leave me tf alone I act genuinely invested and impressed by them.They ghost and I can continue chilling and having a good time.
@@lecomtedeneuch9994 yup i do the same when she starts ratcheting up my stress levels over nothing burgers and i've concluded she's a bat shit crazy liability to my finances. works like magic baby lol
You are not the man you used to be. You are stronger and wiser and freer than you ever used to be. And now you have come at the crossroads of destiny. It’s time for you to choose. It’s time for you to choose good
Let me tell you what makes a man high value. Being confident, and being the best version of himself, on a physical, mental and emotional level. Confidence is self explanatory; regardless of your gender, people will give you the value you the them you have. This is a general instinct; if you don't believe in your own value, few other people will, even if they will still be nice to you. But let me explain the other things: 1) On a physical level. Most men don't realise how much effort women put into their appearance, because subconsciously they know it is important to their perceived value in society. I am not talking about caked on makeup, extentions and a dress two sizes too small. I am talking about general hygiene and grooming, finding clothing and hairstyles that help them appear more feminine, skincare, eating healthy, keeping a good posture, working out and other things. They do a lot to maintain and improve the beauty they were born with. If you notice, most men who are perceived high value generally take very good care of their appearance as well. Overcompensating and going extreme is not attractive in either gender; but a high level of attention to health, hygiene/grooming, and appearance tend to show higher value. That is because it first of enhance your physical attractiveness, but it also shows some good character traits (such as making an effort, and being confident), but also having a high mental capacity. 2) On a mental level. Generally speaking, being skilled in areas you are passionate about gives an impression of who you are as a person, and helps you feel confident. The more skilled you are, the more confident you will feel, and the higher value you will be perceived. It shows good genes and intelligence/ability to learn, or physical fitness (depending on the skill). You are someone who have something positive to contribute with. 3) On an emotional level. This one is super important! Many men think that an 'alpha' is some loud, obnoxious asshole. This could not be further from the truth. Being emotionally stable, means you are able to enjoy the full emotional spectrum. You are not bound by fear, so you are better able to engage with other people. And do you know why the high value men often have more success? Because they are actually interested in the girls they engage with, at least on some level. about 95% of men who chase a women, are not truly interested in her as a person; they are mostly interested in sex. And most women can smell this 10 miles away. The high value men may also be mostly interested in sex; but they also show some genuine interest in her as a person. They are more emotionally receptive. They don't need to play games, or manipulate, because they are confident in what they have to offer her (on a personal level), not just what he might be able to get from her. If you show her no interest, she will probably think you are not interested, and move her attention elsewhere. Unfortunately, the modern way of thinking do not teach these values. Modern lifestyle to a very high degree teach both genders to be a worse version of themselves, although girls to a higher degree are raised to meet certain standards. This is why so many men struggle. You need to focus on becoming a better version of yourself, inside and out, if you want to improve your 'value'. Regardless of your gender, you have to actually be valuable to be perceived as high value. To be able to contribute with something. If every man lived up to these things, all men would be high value. It is not always about being 'better' than others, it is about being the best version of your authentic self. :)
@@fk8495 watch many, take snippets, see what patterns you find and compare it to what youve seen in reality. Just comes down to self improvement, motive, work and a lot of other stuff 😂
These are principles that I generally follow but I feel that it comes at a price. For example, I'm tall, muscular and attractive and when I go to the gym I constantly get people staring at me since I never engage with anyone, avoid staring at other women and focused on my workout. Over time I noticed that people even the gym staff pick up on it and give me the looks as if they think something is off about me like I'm some serial killer.. so I try to smile and greet certain people when I can to establish that I can be friendly. The more you try to avoid attention the more you receive it... Its because PEOPLE WANT AND EXPECT YOU TO BE A BETA. I noticed that when you walk with a confident swagger yet remain silent, you may attract more women but you will also get a lot of those "stares" from other men and older women because just as you and I are able to watch these videos.. well, so can they and some of them are on game and are aware that girls are attracted to this and will paint you as a player, other guys will find you intimidating or threatening when they bring their girlfriends (because they know she's attracted), you get mean mugged all the time It has gotten to the point where a lot of people just want YOU to be BETA and stay BETA. If you aren't they will criticize you as if something is wrong with you for being more MASCULINE and COLDER.. So be ready to handle the haters, its one of the hardest parts at first because certain people will challenge your masculinity when you apply it and try to make you feel like you are being arrogant, toxic and unapproachable.
@Mithilesh M Yeah like bringing a balance to everything.. i get it. I try to come off as a gentle giant at times but ultimately it gets exhausting to care what others think, so I just decided to just hell with them and be happy with being me while treating others how im treated.. im an ex marine so my confident swagger is pretty much brain washed into me.. if they think im arrogant or a serial killer for always maintaining my distance at the gym, theyre stupid because im just a humble dude focused on my own goals.. So i share this for anyone else experiencing the same.. Just do you bro IF ppl hate on you, for men its a reflection of their own insecurities and for women its a reflection of them knowing they cant control or manipulate you which could also turn them off instead of attracting them
I was that one guy who never told a girl how beautiful she was and when i told a girl she was beautiful she was so happy,not like I was the first guy to tell her, girls really want what they can't have
@@romeoxx9721 lol, its the same for every human, if they hear too much of something, that something gradually starts to loose its value İts the same in economy too
Don't be nice Don't give her none of your time And Don't ever give a hoe your resources. If you can't get go on to the next one and have an abundance then scarcity mindset Live your life not hers kings.
All people are just part of the sea of people, including women hot or otherwise. Actually, you can standout doing very simple stuff like not looking at them if they're hot. Once you see she's hot you don't need to ogle at her, just don't. After a while she WILL notice that you're not looking at her like the others. She will even start doing silly things to try to "catch" you looking at her lol. For some reason, even the hottests of girls just can't stand a random dude not looking at them like they're the second coming of Jesus. In short no, you don't really have to put in that much work to stand out.
Nope. All you got to do is ignore them, no matter how good looking they are and give off the vibe of having something better to do other than drool at them. Then she will be the one bending over backwards just to get you to look at her and give her a compliment. Just remember to compliment her ONLY if she actually done something to deserve it-looking cute is not enough. Making you a meal is!
This video proves that our self-esteem, confidence and life experience defines what we earn in life, either in dating or career opportunities or life style
True High Value Men do not think about what makes them "high value,: nor do they even care. Their character and persona are real and always showing without him needing to turn anything on-and-off.
I believe it's a balance. Men should try to attract but at the same time be ready to advance when their the ones obviously being attracted. A lot of women have low confidence and your lack of attention can come off as disinterest. Show her you're interested but at the same time; not easily won.
And going if what they said it also applies to certain people if she’s loud and showing more narcissistic traits be cold if shes shy and like u said maybe seeming a little insecure you approach and advance.
Rule 230: Stand your ground and stay firm in what you believe in. If a girl finds that you are malleable she will try and manipulate you into what she wants you to be, and she will try to turn you into a puppet. Show her that you are what you said you are from day 1.
@@kiwi9065 you just have to "Do You". Everything else will fall into place. Spent a great chunk of my time wondering if/when my special lady will find me, but I finally broke free and started doing my thing (getting priorities straight, working on myself mentally and emotionally, gaming to fill in the blanks, etc.).
@@kiwi9065 that's the thing I had to learn though. Happiness comes from within and radiates outward around us. The key is to be happy and at peace with yourself first, that way you attract more peace and happiness. Everything begins with YOU.
Frothy psychobabble and wishful thinking. You can't catch a fish without putting a line in the water. The ones that jump into your boat are not going to be the ones you want. You are NOT likely to get the woman you want without some kind of pursuit. If you go into a club and sit by yourself, never approach any woman, just wait for them to come to you, no matter how much you love yourself, you go home alone. There IS competition for quality women. If you don't engage her/them in some way, you fail. This video is largely myth and so is the notion of Sigma. It is a convenient excuse for men who for whatever reason are fearful of approaching and schmoozing women to be OK with being Beta. Instead of being just another shy guy/Beta, you get to pretend you are above it all and wait for them to come to you. How convenient. Even if they did come to you, what makes you think you'd want them? Do you seriously think this will work? How blessed are men to be able to choose which women they engage vs sitting and waiting for them to come to you. Sure, it COULD happen, you Could win the lottery or Publisher's Clearing House too BUT I prefer to up my odds. An Alpha pursues HIS choice, not wait on women to come to him. There are NO REAL SIGMA's. It is a myth. Guy's who are frozen with fear are the "Simp's", guy's who sit and wait for women to choose them are the Simps. Guys who believe in nonsensical notions of "Sigma" are Simps. Simps are guys who don't do well with women because of fear of some version of "NO". So yes, man up. Make your desire for her known. It is better to try and fail than to sit and wait. People get what they want by pursuing it, not by waiting for it to come to them. Don't be a fool.
Chase success, not women. A woman is not supposed to be your whole life, but rather a compliment to it. And only give the gift of your time, which you can never get back, to women, or even just people in general, who show by their actions that they are genuinely worthy of your time.
true highest value men don't give a f. they act how they want, they can be a female pleaser just for fun cuz they live in abundance and really don't care what others think. it's all about vibe not behavior.
Yeah, exactly. It seems that a lot of people think that if they just imitate the behavior of someone successful, they can just instantly become just as successful. The reason why men like these are attractive is because they are confident, the behavior itself is just product of that. Imitating their behavior is not really gonna make you suddenly attractive to every woman out there.
That's not a high value man that's just a beta male faking acting like an alpha. A true alpha understands that all it takes is a knife or gun and stepping on the wrong feelings and your "I do as I please" schtick will result in you getting killed and or hurt badly. True alphas understand the power of making friends/allies.
I'm glad I'm learning at 19 that it's way easier to get girls when you don't chase them. Just better yourself and achieve your goals and the girls will line up.
As a woman, this video could have easily been transferred to what high value women do. In my opinion, men are naturally the pursuers. I am not saying you should simp or forget about your career and make temporary people your life, but if your seeking a high-value woman, she has the same mentality of not chasing but attracting.
Facts bro .. I was dealing with this in relationship . I’m about to 25 and was with her for almost 2 years . It started to bother me that her happiness meant more to me then mine meant to her . I lost track of myself and started to regret my decisions everyday and we ended pretty messy .
This the trap that's hard not to fall into. You gotta put yourself before anyone else on the planet. Your happiness and health comes before anything. Don't forget that when going after a girl.
DEAR STRANGER, Have this mindset: - What does a girl give you in life? Yeah. Not much. - What can you give yourself? Yes.. alot! Focus on your goals, The girls will come. You have to love yourself to get others to love you. I WISH YOU THE BEST IN LIFE AND GOALS!
Love don't exist in this generation because everything is about lust you build a marriage and a relationship off love and it all depends on what type of Wemon you choose
That sounds pretty beta. You say “don’t chase women,” yet you sound like you care too much about impressing women. Maybe you should try being yourself, instead of worrying what others think, then you might have more success with women.
@@johnfurlong457 i think he meant show a little of your worth and interested and sit back watch if they gonna jump in your wagon or not if they do, good for em, if they don't, only them are missing.
Don't discount the power of effective "friend making" with women to whom you are attracted. The dread of the "friend zone" that these dating coaches and gurus are trying to instill in you allows them to keep propagating content that leaves their followers asking for more about that elusive "alpha male" or now "high value man" which keeps them hooked. These are constructs that correspond more to the goals of effective marketing than to anything that exists in IRL. Believe me, to one woman, you are a "high value man" while to another you are a "beta male," whom she will ignore. These constructs, if they are to mean anything at all, (which is probably asking too much from them) are deeply dependent on context and therefore relative. So realize that these videos are largely for entertainment purposes. Enjoy them, but take their content with a grain of salt.
I think you misunderstood the point. The video is not saying you cannot be friends with a female, it says your strategy for getting a girl you desire should not be to befriend her. If you like a girl and approach / interact with her as platonic friend you are not just lying to yourself, but also to the woman you supposedly like. It would be a relationship based on a lie and ulterior motives.
OK, you go to a club where nobody knows you and sit in a corner and just be your awesome self. Then at closing time you go home alone. This video is pure bullsh*t.
If you are trying to appear high value to a woman it's because you see yourself as low value. Stop trying to be something. Just be the best version of yourself.
This. Good posture, working out, eating well, getting a good physique, having good hygiene and high self confidence and carrying yourself in a confident and attractive way absolutely destroys any 'mental tricks'. If you're the smoothest talker but look like a saggy testicle you're going nowhere.
This is so true... Just value yourself, your attention and heart. That does not mean that you have to act like you are higher or superior being than others, but simply as this guy says, be hard to obtain. I stopped chasing, I learned 8 languages, built up my body, learned to speak and 90% of girls I speak with, after my first audio message to them, they are 99% conquered by it... All of them say how sexy my voice is and how confident I sound. Be there, but do not show them how impressed you are by their photos, videos or etc... Have a delay between messages sometimes, enter their head. And later, I promise you will enter "deeeep inside" - Hodge Twins haahhaha
My friend and I call this the principal of least interest. Whoever is least interested and ask aloof gets the attention of females. It's the same as in a power dynamic in a couple. Whoever cares the least has the most power. If one person in a relationship is ready to walk away in the blink of an eye, the nine times out of 10 the other person is the least dominant and has the least power in that relationship.
I believe all men use rule no.1 and 2 depending on the girl if its someone they want doesnt matter how high valued they play themselves girls will sometimes have this value to and the only way to get to them is to have alot of money. Some of the prettiest girls you cant even talk to unless you have money because they already have 100s of guys after them who might have good looks but one with good looks and money will score.
Dump the video games and learn, learn, learn finance. Learn to trade and make money. In 5, 10, 20 years video games will not matter. How you spent your time to make money will. Set a goal. Pursue it with passion. Never let up. Let the girl know that is your passion. She will respect it and you for it.
@@BiohazardPuppy , making or playing? If you can make bank doing either, great. My point is don't waste your time playing video games, eating cheetos and beating off. That is a wasted life. Learn. MANY have made $$$ by dropping the video games and pursuing trading. Good luck out there.
@@deez994 , did I say daytraders? Bud? You obviously don't know about swingtrading, cash covered puts, covered calls, or trading the wheel strategy. Like I said, LEARN to trade. Since you are on RU-vid, have you investigated the many trading educational videos? Even Fidelity, Think or Swim and the other brokers have tutorial videos on here. My guess is you haven't.
Talk about spot on, Moved into the same building as, we'll just call her suzie for purposes of illustration, 3 years out of a divorce, admired her but it stopped there, as I was gaining migtow momentum, and was sold on the idea that a man doesn't need a "better half". We always seemed to come home at the same time, strike up a conversation, but I showed no interest. She was interested. One day, when I had had a particularly crappy day, I guess, according to her, I looked right at her and looked away angrily. she left me a note asking if she or the guy she was dating at the time did something to upset me. Left her a note explaining the circumstances and apologizing for my behavior, probably wasn't prudent, but I left contact information. Had many exchanges to follow, Then, one lonely Thanksgiving spent alone, out of boredom, I READ THROUGH OUR ENTIRE TEXT THREAD, START TO FINISH, and fell HARD for her. I'm still there. But I had no idea NOT TO SHOW IT. Went with the Billy Joel song, "Tell her about it" Died in the frend zone. No idea about female nature. Discovered all the psychology resources after the fact.
High value men don't place their value in women. They are not even interested in being chased by women either, but that part just happens. Value a better life based on personal accomplishments and make sure to look poor while doing it so no one eyeballs your pile of gold.
“The words of King Lemuel, the prophecy that his mother taught him: ‘What, my son? And what, the son of my womb? And what, the son of my vows? Give not your strength unto women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.’ “ Proverbs 31:1-3
Rule 229: Never be afraid to let a girl see you flirt with another woman, if you have no strings attached to her whatsoever. Do not apologize for engaging in sexy talk with a woman you find attractive, she’s not yours and you aren’t hers.
No trust me......I literally do nothing and girls are attracted to me. Shidd I even dissed them and they still friendly with me Bruh. Bro it aint now, just do what you doing still and one bound to come around that like you for who you are. Bro you're a king
1. pick a girl that needs something fulfilled inside her such as validation. Don’t pick a happy and confident girl 2. give her mixed emotions. one sec make her feel like she has you and the next back off and be distant. this makes her chase you rather than you chasing her because again she wants validation from you 3. talk about other females around her. this makes her jealous and make her feel like she has competition which ultimately will make her seek validation from you 4. insinuate your desires to her in a subtle way. insinuating that she isn’t enough will make her wanna prove herself to you. subtle speaks louder than obvious 5. give her attention and then give her space. women think about you more when they are not around you. their imagination does all the work for them and they start to create these situations in their heads that make them want you more
I honestly can't believe how many guys simp or try to figure out what women like in order for them to like them. Fuck that, first and foremost: Know yourself. Then work on yourself. You attract a healthy lifestyle that way.
Simps make great sigmas. Patience is the key. The brain is the most powerful muscle in the body. Never get mad internally, more important never show emotion. Instead reflect on why you were mad and make adjustments. Life is nothing more than a series of failures. Walk your own path of failures on your terms. Girls love that crap.
Focus on yourself and your objectives. Keep yourself clean and presentable. Be respectful or even playful to women but don't simp. Find real ones by letting them think you're broke
Honestly, rather than this, was looking for advice on how to act around women who are attracted to you in a way to be respectful and empowering for them, instead of focusing on trying to attract them. This is the type of advice many taken men could use.
Well done - very astute. BUT, be careful with promoting point number 3. Intense chasing is def. off-putting to women (such as flirty messages 24/7), but don't underestimate the power of biology. High-value men should STILL lead, and initiate the relationship... they must show interest, and be the one to make a move/bridge the gap. If a guy doesn't, a high-value girl will most likely lose interest because a). she won't see him as a powerful, leading male figure or b). will realise she's being baited into chasing (something intelligent women resent, because it normally ends tragically for women - a smart girl knows NOT to chase - not to plan dates strategically, not to send a guy song recommendations when he's not showing up consistently, etc). Why is a woman chasing a recipe for disaster? Ultimately, we're all driven by primitive psychological biases and instincts. Men may THINK they want to be chased by the girls they like, but will inevitably *lose interest and respect* if a girl enters 'pursuing mode' with them, trying to 'make things happen'. I think you masculine guys need to feel that you've 'made something happen' to fall in love, and that you can make her happier/provide in some way. If a guy goes all 'receptive' and 'non-pursuing' with a girl he likes in order to *make HER chase* , she might (only if she likes him enough), but he'll grow to resent her because she'll be in 'planning mode' and not the soft, mysterious woman he first connected with. She'll come across as overly direct and tense, and no longer high value. This is how guys unknowingly screw up a lot of connections --> by steering women towards this position, then growing resentful of the woman because they don't actually WANT her to force them into a relationship that they haven't had to work a little for. So guys, be critical thinkers - remember that everything's a half-truth. This channel is v useful for men who chase girls who clearly aren't into them - that scarcity mindset must, indeed, be corrected. BUT, don't get sucked into the notion of power/tactics/not chasing girls who are showing clear signs of receptivity. *Those girls you should CLAIM* Definitely don't be desperate, and definitely don't let a girl know you're absolutely obsessed with her (ever, I'd argue). BUT, if you think she likes YOU, pursue her directly. Show her that you know she's independent, but that you can make her life more magical by introducing her to new things. *THAT is high-value male energy* at its most wonderful.. decisively showing a special girl that you understand her and want to enjoy life with her. Not stubbornly deciding you're not texting the girl you like unless she chases you... that's resonating at a level of angst that will only match you to insecure women who chase (who you'll be turned off by eventually). If she's high-value and has experience with guys, *she definitely won't chase you* if you only throw her crumbs and expect her to initiate everything. You'll miss out on playing out a beautiful connection... you'll miss out on connecting with her feminine truth, as your masculine truth.. if you 'lay back'. You'll limit yourself to impulsive women who don't mind looking like fools and risking everything to chase a guy... most of whom you won't truly like.
Well said 👏🏾. I couldn't agree more and hopefully more guys begin to realize when to do and when not to do certain things when it comes to women and girls cause a lot of guys make the mistake of seeing that a girl likes them clearly but due to this wrongly explained scarcity rule they still don't make their move which leads to her interest dying off
The truth is you don't know what you want. My advice for men : never take advice from a woman when it comes to dating, a fish will never teach you how to catch a fish
My strategy is if it's obvs we'll be together I don't pursue I let my prey come to me :) I'm not competing with anyone and no one can impress me and I stay clean away from pretty people lol
My difference is legit, standing alone, staying in my head, staring at nothing, and keeping a stright back, and then when I look in the corner of my eyes I see all the girls looking and talking, and guys because the girls are talking about me
It's not about getting laid. It's about laying with the same person. Why would you want to keep starting over? The girls will be getting uglier and uglier
Faking body language doesn’t work, just take on an internal attitude that you’re awesome and your body language will reflect that, even if it’s not true, irrational self-confidence works. And, do exercises to improve your posture like planks, facepulls, and rows
@Mithilesh M Pretty close, and not entirely untrue. I read his question as asking about sexual market value specifically, not necessarily value in relationship to potential employers for example. Increasing sexual market value by giving off an air of confidence is a powerful first step, this can be achieved through as you say exercises to improve posture overall, targeted to him specifically address postural issues, for example, just doing benchpress by itself will cause your shoulders to actually roll forward if we don’t do pulling exercises… Internally it’s just a shift of mindset, even holding and a rationally high level of self-confidence, such as a narcissist would, is quite effective. There’s a book that I might recommend, - the subtle art of not giving a fuck Aesthetic tip from a personal trainer: Work the rear delta quite a bit, put a lot of volume and emphasis on the rear delts. They are small muscles but the payoff is big. Also don’t forget to work your glutes, medial delts, and core. Aesthetic goal: broad shoulders, veiny forearms, narrow waist, and a tight ass.
Well I don't give a damn about looks. In my country there's a saying,the talent is the jewel of man,and character is the jewel of woman. They're almost 0 girls who have character in these days so stop wasting time on women. Orgasm from hand or another body makes almost no difference. I mean really..... You really value a girl who already slept with around 5 guys? If you've been clean for your life you deserve a clean girl yourself.
Been focusing on myself and work for 2 years now and not giving a fuck about pumping as many girls as I can. My mindset is way different, a girls gotta be something pretty amazing to get my attention now. Maybe I'll find one maybe not, either way I'm good
It starts with believing you are a creation of a benevolent sentient consciousness that loves you for that one reason being its creation. then you realize that you are not superior or inferior to anyone because you and everyone else are creations of that sentient infinite consciousness.
