If she flirts with other guys in front of you then she is disrespecting you, that´s more than a red flag, if she does that she is not testing you she just belongs to the streets.
That's a major red flag. If a girl you're serious about doesn't even respect you and has the audacity to flirt with other men in front of you, just make her your side bitch/booty call and find yourself a real woman.
"It might seem like she is insulting you, but what she is actually doing is testing you" Uhm, no. What she is actually doing is insulting you, and her justification for it is irrelevant.
But this would cause you to not have any empathy which would make you unrelatable and unreliable especially for reproduction, to have standards is completely different than not giving a shit
On the flip side, those "tests" can backfire. Some of us lose all respect and interest when we see signs of manipulation and games like this being played. It's a huge turn off. The man who is just as comfortable being alone as they are in a relationship neither has time for that crap, nor will they put up with it.
Women who use these tests get manipulated by players who know their game. To get a real high value man or woman, you have to be a high value man or woman yourself. Manipulative games aren't going to make up for your lack of value.
Having been around the block a couple times, I can tell you that all this "act indifferent" response is basically a band-aid for a much deeper issue. If you REALLY know what is right and wrong, if you REALLY know your particular values and beliefs, you don't have to "act indifferent", you will BE indifferent. And that is because any woman testing you in this manner is being immature and disingenuous. Once I hit 30, I just noticed what seemed to be irrational behavior of this sort from women, and I just tuned it out and let them know that I was not playing their game. The key is, it was not because I actually WANTED them to accept me, but because I really didn't want to deal with shit in my life. That's where these kind of videos lose the plot. When he says, "act indifferent, she'll actually like you because of it". Yeah, maybe, but do YOU want a girl who plays games like these in YOUR life? Ask yourself that question.
Completely agree...my 2 sisters are watching this too...have been 53 years with their husbands between them...5 kids between them...have had lots of disagreements and arguments...but never tested them....must be a modern thing...guys if ur tested, walk away...life is too short
Absolutely. 100% manipulation. And while I get there is an evolutionary purpose to testing there very much is a line and it speaks to their character. Videos like this try to show how to pass all their tests but fail to show you that they are not the only ones that should be testing. And to much testing is definitely a red flag. If a woman needs constant reassurance that you are high value that is a clear indicator that she is disloyal and out for herself and will always have her options open no matter what you do. If you really do value yourself you would not put up with that. And this is where it falls off. What this is is a game and ultimately a way to fake something. And eventually if you are faking it will allways come out in your actions anyway. What they should be teaching is how to value ourselves so that these self beliefs are genuine and part of that is being selective on what you invest in. We are not here to be slaves to woman who over value themselves. Only desperate men would jump through all these hoops for a woman in the first place. If she wants a guy who does not value her opinion then she will get it. But it's a sign of a toxic relationship either way. These woman are playing silly games and they will win silly prizes. They just cause damage and should largely be avoided. A little testing is ok and natural but flirting with other men is disrespect and should never be tolerated period.
Mercedes has more value too and if you buy a old one it last`s too :) thinking am going todo it to, and if i want or need sex its more easy to buy a escort"Girl-Frend Pack deal" after having money hehe :D
I can handle almost all of these just fine. The jealousy "test" will piss me right off, though. Not because I'm jealous, but because it's disrespectful in the extreme and I won't tolerate it. I've broken off relationships in the middle of dinners, parties, etc because I got fed up with being disrespected to my face. Never got verbally or visibly aggravated though, just told them that since she's so interested in the other guy that she can't even wait until I'm not around, I'll give them some space, and her things that I have at my place will be ready to be picked up the next day at noon.
@@beasthaven1571 A couple girls I've 'dated' have flirted with other men in front of me and I left them for it, but only one of them ended up with the guy afterward. They're now married and have a kid, so I'm happy for them. The rest I guess just wanted attention and it didn't matter who they got it from.
@@user-zr6pl6nb6z I'm not actually 'happy', it's just a term. I'm indifferent because it doesn't affect me at all. It was irritating in the beginning, but after years passed there's no reason to care at all, so in the spirit of being 'neighborly' I'm happy for them, in so far as being cordial is concerned. Kinda like telling someone their kid is so cute when they show you a picture. I don't give a single shit about the kid or how they look, but it's common courtesy.
@@forkme3165 I see. I'm the kind of guy who probably wouldn't even think of her anymore. I've had more than my share of manipulative women and they only get the chance to annoy me once.
Wow, what a fascinating yet logical perspective you have. I love it XD And who could or would argue with the mighty universe? Only a fool would do that. Just like my great grandpa always used to say: "There are many fishy octopussies in the dripping wet sea of kum island". lololol....
So true. also if a woman..oops wrong word "Small-minded little immature girl" is directing your pain to where you feel like you are being played with, then leave...Work on yourself, learn more new skills from what was already naturally Given to you, it could be, painting, Learning how to build things, or play an instrument, learn a new language. Learn how to spend more time with your self and you will uncover so many awesome things about yourself that you never knew was possible. Remember: You hold the key to your life so shine bright because Your Soul is Colourful and Your Story is Still being made every second. You do not have to impress a woman for her to like you but what you can do is share your new skills/knowledge and You will attract the right partner that was your Destiny the whole time. Where ever you are, when you are not looking for a life long female partner it will be as if she appeared out of thin air 🤝👌🙏❤💞💯
Not exactly to dont care because easiest and most stupid way for boooth gendres is to stop care for thing. Reject before they reject you or being cold and playing tough guy/female from the beginning of meeting and not even started so its not so correct to dont give a damn.
not carring subconsiously works it means you are high value and any woman will want you she wants you even more but if u do it to pass the tests she can see it and leave you
@@bozhidarpetrov I believe he means the mentality you have to have...DGAF! It works. Many women have skipped over romantic guys because they take it as a sign of weakness or that she already has you ...it was too easy. Somewhat depends on circumstances but If you have a date with a girl that backs out ....ok no problem....go out with one of her friends or acquaintances that you may also be interested in and don't initiate any further communication with her.
@@jowoo45 it is less common to find a woman that likes the romance, but i feel like once you do find it you should stick to it . Im a guy who usually didnt give af for a couple years and now i got this one girl who is romantic gives attention and treats me good
2 rules: 1) Don't ever get angry with a woman. When it's done, acknowledge it and just leave. If the test happens in the middle of a date, you end that date. Right then, right there. The person who values the relationship least is the one in control of it. If you show her you'll leave if things arent the way you want them, she's less likely to test you. This is the hardest lesson to learn as compromise is normally considered a reasonable alternative when two parties disagree. The problem with that here is if you show you'll bend when pushed, she loses respect and is going to keep pushing, if she sticks around. 2) When you recognize she's playing games, don't play. Almost universally the best answer to a woman's games is walking away, and remembering to not get angry. The one thing that woman will always be searching for is acknowledgement and attention, her games are designed to get her both. Give her neither, understand she is trying to control and manipulate you and do not allow it.
@@ItsCamaro3 when they go cold I'd lose interest. Going cold for a period of time is a red flag of cheating. If you give them less attention, and they do nothing to get it back (attention is currency with them), they are very likely cheating on you and like the reduced pressure on them. Just an opinion of course, but sadly it's supported by my past experience.
1. Insults you 2. Playing hard to get 3. Going cold 4. If you mow your lawn 5. Just kidding on number 4 Here’s the rest ....jealousy test....and getting you to betray what your values are! Gentlemen Good Luck out there!!
If you mow your lawn she says: "Not again this is so noisy." But if you wait: " Your lawn looks horrible, don't you have any pride." BOTH are shit tests BTW :D
See this actually happened to me. My girlfriend insulted me, and I did get upset because I thought she shouldn't be trying to hurt me if we are together. I always tried to make her feel good about herself so I expected the same in return...but...that caused me to fail this test and that was the end of the relationship. It was odd because honestly in retrospect I should have been the one to walk away from it, however she got there first. Growing up I didn't realize that women these days actually aren't on the level of maturity as women who came before them. Since the relationship failed I have had the opportunity to meet and be with even more beautiful women then her and to meet and be with women who treated me better as well. Oh well. What do we call? blessing in disguise? I dunno
1. "Same to you, thanks!" 2. Don't you ever double text or otherwise persue her. 3. Go cold on her back. 4. Ignore her attempts to make you jealous. 5. Stay true to your values. IN SUMMARY: Stay true to yourself, and ignore all her wimpy attempts to throw you off. Whatever she does, do not ever let her get away with disrespecting you or with making you do something against your values, beliefs, or whatever you consider important.
in other words, literally deprive all sense of emotion or any care in the relation ship, "as long as you give 0 f's. she will love you." WHAT LOGIC IS THAT!! SHOWING THAT YOU DO NOT CARE ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP MEANS EXACTLY THAT TO HER AND SHE WILL LEAVE THIS DUDE IS STUPID!
Arthur Schopenhauer was right, women will always be children at heart. Those childish tests/mind games are exhausting and that's exactly why i stopped dating. I almost feel manipulated and i genuinely hate it. I don't want to drain myself by analysing everything, i have better things to do.
It's about faith. If you have faith in your value against others, you'd really know that whatever happens she cannot leave you. When this happens, you become more carefree and not try to restrict your girl. It's like how a caged pigeon suddenly becomes more loving and faithful when you let it go on its own.
As for your girl flirting with other guys while you're around it is also a warning sign but she may not be very good for you and want attention of other men. I've experienced this. Don't tie your life and your money up with one of these.
To me it indicates that she's incapable of asserting her preferences in front of me, if you have a strong mind and personality, you don't try to play tricks like that on people, you know what you want and if you wanna be poly, you just say so, you see the other person opening up to you, you do the same, you talk about your needs and wants and how you see the world and assume your mentalities and actions, if you need to half ass schemes like this to test someone, it indicates that you have emotional problems, you may perhaps be narcissistic and, thus, egoistic as well, if you are strong, you don't see all of this and ignore it, you call her out for it, confront her with the facts, let her make the choice on the question of, do you want to know thyself? do you want to learn, to grow and to improve, and thus be a better version of yourself? and if she rejects all of that and prefers to play dumb tricks, you let her go, there's that special someone for you, waiting for you at the end of the tunnel so to speak, don't make compromises, assert your dominance in intellect by being true to yourself and to your values, and by expressing what you feel in a ballanced, healthy and confident way, don't act like a cold douchebag, as for the video, I can say that it works, but for getting it on with nasty girls who will not provide much if anything to your growth and life so, do as I told you, and try to be the best version of yourself.
Yeah but age matters, Idt a girl would look to settle with children when she's at the age of 20. I'd say typically >26 y.o. would be a mature woman age, unless you're looking at bad woman then we all know she's not in for something awesome, on the other hand, there are quality woman
Yes and no. Yes to the games no to not caring about these specific things. I know I care about a man I'm interested in sticking to their morals and values.
A few things. Respond to an insult with upset doesn’t mean you care about what she thinks but instead that you care and respect yourself. When I see men take on a cheek from a woman like this, I can’t help but to think he’s a wimp. Also, when they go cold - don’t chase. You’re right there. You’re wrong with what follows, there are consequences to each person’s actions. Don’t chase, but more importantly never take her back. That relationship is over but maybe she’ll think harder about doing this to another man. Jealousy. Don’t be jealous - at least don’t show her any sign of this. If she cares so little about you to try to test you in this way, you are much better without her in your life. Walk away and stay away. Never betray your values. Our lives are not subject to women’s approval.
If she does these things, then guys, she isn't worth your time. She's gonna drain more energy out of you than anyone else. It's an indication that you should probably reconsider the relationship with her and if needed, go to better things and people in life. Honest and clear communication and intentions are basis of a good and healthy relationship. Anybody, whether boy or girl, starts getting manipulative or starts playing dirty games like these is gonna cause major problems for you and your career. Just don't give anyone so much control to decide for you!
Well said my man. Search for girls who have clear intentions and pure at heart, those are worth it, anything else can go fuck herself. Girls who play games like these are the pettiest people ever
5 ways of female tests: 1. Insults you. Tests how you handle validation, how you care what she thinks about you. Show her that you don't need her validation & don't care about her opinion about you. 2. Playing hard to get/pulling away. Tests your confidence & trys to find out how investet you are in her, how desperate you act. She wants to see if you chase after her. Don't pursue her. Never chase after her. It shows her that you have no value, other options & nothing going on in your life that keeps you busy. 3. Going cold. She wants to see if she has any impact on you. If a simple girl can shift your intire frame or expose your mental weakness, how can you handle the difficulties that men has to face in life? Show her that nothing that she says or does has an impact on you. 4. Jealousy test. She flirts with other men. Show her that it has no effect on you. 5. Getting to betray what your values are. Can you keep your word, stay true to your value & believes? Be solid like a rock.
Why do women do this shit. They claim they never test etc. But this and many other RU-vid channels show what I already can confirm. Basically men are simple and play checkers girls push dudes away and play chess then whine that they are single
As a woman, I don’t know about others but I’m not out to “test” people and be sly. Literally all I (and probably many other women) want is someone to put as much effort into a relationship as I do and to be honest and straightforward with their feelings rather than beat around the bush.
Thats truee, but! Dont u use those tests in the begining? Its appauling but most women, (from my own and friends and facebook group of men talking about intimacy and relatioms) do use those..
@@avivolah9401 no, at no point to I (nor probably most other women) do any sort of tests like that. Not unless they’re manipulative and toxic but normal women don’t pull those kinds of stunts because we wouldn’t want someone to do that to us. Simple golden rule, treat others how you want to be treated.
Never heard of women consciously testing men. To me it seems just disrespectful. Also pretending like you don't care rather than being honest like it is suggested in the video is the worst advice for a relationship in the long term.
@@johnarcher6150 I’m not saying nobody does it, there’s 7 billion people of course there’s gonna be people that do it, but I’m just saying, NORMAL people don’t do stuff like that. Only a woman who’s toxic and manipulative would actually do that
So to summerize the first 4 points, if she insulted you, ignored your messages, got cold on you and flirted with other men ... that doesnt mean she doesnt like you or she's not interested , she s actually testing you... can this get any more ridiculous ?
if she really didnt like you, she wouldnt waste time trying to assess your personality. girls have a lot of options, they have to weed some out so they can attract the highest quality mate they are able to
@@magicseventh9746 If she has to do these tests instead of having honest, open, adult conversations or some other healthy way to get to know you, maybe she is the one that needs to be weeded out from the guy's list of options.
This is crazy A girls doing this to me And its f*cking me up Lately I've been distracted because of these stupid tests... She acts like this and still have the guts to look at me with a smile all the time... Women are something else
Ever since I was a little kid I always thought that getting into a relationship was all about being loyal to one another, sharing the good and bad things in life and love each other. Now the more I grow up the more I realize that relationships especially for us men are a constant challenge. Like you have to constantly be above competition in all terms, weather that's wealth, good looks, intelligence, everything. We are tested and compared with others 24/7. The moment I realized that I completely stopped caring about any "serious relationships" as no such thing can exist when girls offer so SO little and yet always seek the perfect human being. Invest and Pay attention to yourselves my dudes. Girlfriends ain't worth your time.
I'm gonna be honest, most of these are just red-flags in my opinion. I feel like a girl who uses underhanded tactics just to screw with and "test" you isn't worth a moment of your time to begin with. Playing hard to get, throwing insults, going cold, invoking jealousy, and trying to see if you break your own values? I'm gonna be honest, that doesn't come off as just "testing." That comes off as emotional manipulation. Personally, if a girl wants to act that way toward me, I'm showing her the door. I want to be allowed to care what she thinks of me (within reason). I want to be allowed to be jealous when she flirts with other guys (within reason). I don't want a girl who will go cold or play hard to get just to make some point. I want to be allowed to care about her, her opinion, her feelings, and her attention toward me, because I consider that a healthy part of a relationship. Overreacting aggressively or pathetically to those "tests" is certainly one thing, but if the "wrong response" is caring at all, then it just isn't worth trying for.
*"She went from being warm and kind to acting like I ate her last chicken wing"* That could very well not have been a 'test' but rather she forgot to take her psychotropic meds again. Seriously.
I would definitely take the last chicken wing, but if there was a drumstick, I would take that instead. I like a woman who likes to watch me eat and offers me more when I've finished.
Funny most women whom “test” men with these games would fail them. If a woman does these things to you, they will always create tension in your life. Find someone whom respects you & wants to build your lives up.
I don't test people (its unnecesary), but instead evaluate their behaviour and their actions on the real life as it shows their real value. A person who treats others badly as a test (witch means they are manipulative and don't care for your feelings), are not worth anyones time. There is no excuse for this lack of respect, as it is a red flag. You treat me badly as a way of testing me, you ❌don't pass for me. Playing with people lives is not a joke to me.
You my friend, are a life saver. Not only do I see my own weaknesses, you also give us vague ways to repair them so we are not just copying a video, and instead make our own ways. I thank you!
If she starts doing any of these, I show her the door and never welcome her back. Life is too short to waste my time on these types of miserable human beings. I have a family to love and protect, including my friends. I have work to do, resources to gather. I don't have time for energy and time wasting female "tests".
Guys lemme tell u one thing if a woman test u or speak logical that means she not into u and she has no attraction.Bcoz attraction has no test of confidence,if she's into u she will never test your confidence level.Looks matter my brother's. (I'm experienced).
You'll basically pass all these tests by not having a scarcity mindset. Be the best version of yourself. Thus you are the prize, you choose the girls... Not the other way around.
Insults are a red flag. People do not insult people if they are interested. This is the behavior of an insecure person who would most likely be either abusive or co-dependant in the relationship
I don’t maybe it’s my age but honestly at 34 I don’t have time for these games. If you like someone you like them and if they play hot and cold then it’s next. I think if I found out that a woman was doing this stuff on purpose to test me I would be so turned off like how old are you 12? Honestly these tests don’t sound like someone healthy is carrying them out. If you find a woman is doing a jealousy test then that’s a test for you right there that she’s got issues and you need a more stable person never mind how big her yams are
You are right,it's better to be straight forward with each other right off the bat straight from the get-go than try to send each other these mixed signals like some sort of alians
These “tests” should be viewed as positive because they’re giving them to establish if you have attractive qualities like confidence, desirability and humour etc. We just see the big yams as you say and we’re attracted but women need a little more before they invest.
@@johnnyblaze9158 I get where you coming from but these tests should be rare not constant,cuz u know not everyone excels at everything,no one is perfect and before trying to find faults in men,women should evaluate themselves to see if they're perfect and are deficit in flaws
She's playing with fire in that way. And it could damage her.. Those kinds of tests are toxic and selfish. You have to respect the person you love, period.
insults are a cruel way to test us. I'm 48yrs old so I can pick that up pretty quickly. I simply stay in my frame as an older mature dude....but it doesn't mean I have time for it. I just gracefully smile, finish the date , be a gentleman and walk away afterwards....with grace and class boys. Never kick and scream.
The sad reality is that most men don’t expect much from a woman, and females know this. Look OK, be halfway nice, show that you care about us a little bit, don’t act like you belong in a straight jacket, etc. Really simple stuff
@@rezag8369 Let me know when you find this mysterious woman? Eventually they will pull one. I bet you money past girls pulled them on you and you never even know it. Women pull this shit subtlety. Have you had a girl who was all over you then set the date and she blows you off or seems uninterested? You failed a test she pulled out of the hat and decided you're beta and out
@@rezag8369 You brought up the key term: "women". Womenchildren on the other hand love these and stick with equally inmature Menchildren. Finally, men aim higher than silly mindgames and walk away from people who only have that to offer.
Many times, a girl really is busy and hasn’t had time to let you know. That isn’t an intentional test, but if you react with insecurity, she will register that in her mind when deciding your value to her. The jealousy part can work the same way. An emotionally mature woman won’t play these games to test you, she’ll just remember them if and when the relationship starts to become serious. I have a woman now who never tested me, but anytime we were in a situation that fit these “tests”, after it passed, she would compliment me for how I handled the situation. Regarding jealousy, she commented that she admired me so much because I don’t get jealous, or more precisely, I’m not threatened when another guy flirts with her and she flirts back. She is very polite, but sets boundaries when a guy tries to push the flirting beyond her comfort zone. In the beginning, she would apologize to me, but I told her there was no need to apologize. In her job, she has to be sweet and charming, and at times that may include light flirting. Everyone flirts, but emotionally mature people recognize when they need to set boundaries or even end the conversation. The biggest challenge for me is when it feels like a girl has gone cold, or ghosted me. My woman always lets me know what’s going on if I don’t hear from her for over 8 hours, and she expects the same from me. It’s just having consideration for each other. Life is too short to play games. I have no problem with a woman paying attention to how I handle myself in various situations because I do the same.
Lol my ex went cold on me during a road trip. I pulled over and told her she could get tf out the car and find another ride home. I don’t have time for your games. Best thing I ever did👌🏻
To be honest, the jealousy test was tried and tested on me a decade ago Luckily for me, I was kinda watching these sorts of videos (the Phub ads, don't ask) And guess what? I just instantly started making her jealous, although it felt wrong and manipulative. It did work, she even admitted it later on when we became a couple. But I never used these manipulation techniques ever again, it just feels awful. Instead, I just hone my skills in uncovering manipulations used against me now, be it with girls or friends, doesn't matter who. Also did end up being called a psychic or a spy/mentalist often because it is easier to notice manipulations now lol
@@makegainz4218 very well said, very well said. The test are ways for them to mentally convince themselves they are justify. Eventually you fail at something we all do.
The other day, this girl from my college texted me about how one of our classmates was helping her in studies. I just replied with, "So? What am I supposed to do with that information?". I think that was the last test she had for me. Because, from that day, she started texting me herself and even asked me if she could do anything for me... 🤣🤣🤣 Thanks for your videos man! I appreciate it.
Bro, if a woman even tries to insult me, I would 100% leave the scene and ghost that low-quality woman. If she keeps on texting me after I left I would also call the cops cause she stalks and harrasses me. My life is too important for me to hang out with low-quality, toxic and/or stupid people. Great content btw, brother.
Great video! This actually just happened to me today, cool chick I have known for years, we recently reconnected and there was an instant attraction! Talk a few days, invite her out to lunch, cancels last minute, next day we try again, cancels last minute again. Later that week we finally get lunch and she's 30 minutes late, I'm irritated but get over it, nice date we had fun. Fast forward to today and we had been planning a hiking trip for the past week. Sure enough 30 min before shes supposed to be at my house for us to go, something comes up again. I tell her she has cancelled on me 3 times and was super late to our lunch, this isn't gonna work for me, it's not fair to me or my time. I need consistency. I have been debating back and forth on it all day on whether it was the right thing to do or not but I'm sticking with my decision. I deserve better than that.
Not only did you save your self from being further victimized by this bitch, you taught her that this kind of behavior has consequences. You've done the world a favor. Next time she meets a guy she's interested in she'll probably think twice about cancelling her date at the last minute.
I promise y'all. I ignored my girl because she wanted space so I gave her space. I started reconnecting to streaming on twitch and I enjoyed myself. She would be upset that I was happy without her so she decided to come back. But don't let these girls control your emotions. You're the King 👑
@@MrBates-le1ql Nah, if you're actually a desirable guy, you don't need all this crap. If you come across a girl whom you like and vice versa, all of this is ridiculous. Most people who watch this are simply losers who just seek justification.
I bet she tested you without you even knowing about it. Like how confident you are because that's critical information for a woman her survival may depend on it if she picks you for her partner.
#3 „going cold“: yeah sorry, if you try to emotionally manipulate me by changing your attitude towards me just to test the reaction, im out immediately. I dont know what kind of girls this guy dates, but to me thats a huge red flag. Just date genuine people.
Sounds like the traits of a Cluster B Personality when laid out in this manner. Tests are great, ladies. But understand that the men you're sizing up, can also lose interest in you; if your insecurity makes for excessive testing. They're called "shit-tests" for a reason. Smart guys can smell that insecurity. Sometimes the winning move is not to play the game. Sometimes your juice just ain't worth that squeeze, love. May the odds be forever in your favor, gents.
I'm thinking a real woman don't test because she knows who her real man is. If a woman test a man she's weak and very childish. But she can also test her man out of love so it all depends on her.
These “tests” are insanely unattractive. If she can’t do these tests in a respectful manner, she doesn’t deserve your respect either. Doing things in sneaky fashion already puts a sense of distrust, since she doesn’t want to be upfront. Ontop of that, acting indifferent and letting them disrespect you is a sure fire way that if you end up with them, they will most likely use it against you again. Shouldn’t have to take disrespect to “be in love”. And these sound like all the beginning traits of an lopsided and potentially controlling or mentally abusive relationship.
@@bela5054 that's a good thing. Unless a man is low value, no man wants an unfulfilling casual sex night. They seek out relationships. I don't know if you realise this but real life is not a nightclub
I hate this kind of stuff and it goes both ways. If you feel the need to test someone as to whether or not you’re going to be interested than you’re not looking for a partner, you’re shopping for a temporary acquaintance. If you treat each other with respect, and communicate, you will go significantly further as a couple. Do the little things, and express your concerns. If you aren’t being listened to, or if you aren’t listening than the relationship is likely 1-sided. Love yall, just keep swimming💚
Some of these tests described in the video shouldn’t be entertained by any man. Like the one where she’s giving the same energy she gives you to someone else while you are with her?! You walking away isn’t a lack of confidence, that’s a sign of self respect.
The key to dealing with all these “problems”. Be a man rooted in principle and virtue. Let no one or anything sway you from these principles and good women will want you.
If you past these test. They continue it through the relationship. Trust me I know. They try to break you. They will try to get you to become emotionally invested. They hate you secretly. But they love the challenge of making you weak.
Remember lads, you’re most likely going to be miserable if you get involved with emotionally immature women. The more they shit test you, the more arrogant she is (without being able to back up her claims), and the more self entitled she is, the worse of a time you’re gonna have. Do yourself a favor, and find a girl who’s at least salvageable and guide her towards better behavior by having standards. If you’re really lucky, you might even find a woman who is emotionally mature; but that’s about a one in a million shot, now-a-days. Good luck and Godspeed, gents
Yeah I've got no game with women and would prolly fail all of these tests. I guess I just ain't boyfriend or player material. I'll kill myself too if I'm like 30 and haven't found any kind of love yet. Hardly even a joke.
@@clownanonymous6174 Been 3 months since I wrote this bruh, a lot has changed for me. The biggest change I've made is that I learned how to love myself romantically. Might be what you need, too. Besides, women are death traps nowadays. I'm 31, btw. Just use all your kindness, all your energy that you were going to put towards a woman towards yourself and you'll find multiple reasons to live.
Basically, just act like you don't care aka be an asshole, and that will make her like you even more. That's why nice guys finish last, and it all makes sense now.
Yes, this is the paradox. If you show her you care about her, she will never be yours. She will drift away to other guys. If you act like you don't care about her, what she thinks, what she feels, she will be all over you, it will be hard for you to get rid of her.
@@independentthought3390 we can actually give an actual shit to it but the thing is we've biased laws. But time has come we need to take the matter seriously.
@@independentthought3390 well, if the girl is like most, she’ll think you really don’t care about her...so she’ll go look for guys that do make their intentions known but still don’t overdue it’s with her
Thank you I'm in this relationship 9 months she tested me four out of five she never insulted me on anything. I stood on my principles & she come running back.
Looking back at all my failed attempts to pick up girls makes a lot more sense now. Guys trust me. Each failure teaches you a new thing. Don’t be afraid of rejection, embrace it.
It is called mind games not tests. Woman do it because it feels good, it gives them validation having guys chase after them even though they have no intention on being with them. Women especially beautiful ones can get away with it because they have a lot of options. Men need to be confident, cold and never show emotion.
If someone’s insulted me right off the bat I’d walk away. But the reason is because I don’t want to be around a person who insults people. It’s not because of lack of confidence, it’s because of confidence in what I want
"Five ways toxic women manipulate and abuse you." If you try to even win someone who plays this kinds of games, you are a fool, and asking for disaster.
I remember even as a teenager a girl would do those tests on me; so they start young. Wish I knew about sh testing back then; I would've been a lot more successful
Me too. I remember as early as 10th grade when I got my first shit test. She was really attractive, but from what I could tell at the time was only into abuse. We weren’t friends anymore long after that.
@@Frankya92 But now that we understand it’s just a test we can pass them and be more successful in our interactions with girls. Nobody ever told me about this stuff until now
@@brahmadasbyron180 you fail to see the bigger picture , the fact that after hearing this you are still trying to win their approval , you will be failing a lot more than some basic ass immature test by little girls.
@@brahmadasbyron180 The fact that you want to pass these tests speaks volumes. You should feel insulted by them and walk away. Capitulating just validates the behavior.
@@yobogoya4367 Not capitulating no that’s not it. My point is I did not even understand I was being shit tested at the time. Now I do. And you can’t feel insulted at a woman for testing you because they do it naturally But they don’t even know they’re doing it
We all had awkward ways on social interactions. Similar, to this video, a woman initially posted interest on my profile. We chatted. And then when I brought up the question about a date, she deflected and made an excuse about her priorities. I simply posted back if she was ever interested to post me back. And I'll be honest from my end, I most likely wasn't going to be super interested in a long term relationship anyway. Another moment in which I met a woman at a supermarket simply approached me first and told me I was cute. I was flattered since I don't consider myself that. We exchanged numbers. We had a nice first date. However, the 2nd date was awkward. We set up a date hours in advance. Upon the time, I was left hanging. When I told her what happened? She simply responded and giggled that she decided to paint her room. Surprisingly, I wasn't all that steamed although that did indeed throw me off. A few days later, she told me she has this invisible bubble around her (we all have heard of this...lol). I simply listened and was sympathetic about her personal ordeals. A few months later she called me and asked me how I was doing? I simply responded that I'm on a date with another woman. She was silent for around 10-to-15 seconds. And then she told me that I was hoping I was having a good time. A few months later, the same woman who stiffed me on that second date tells me I'm the guy she's always envisioned and she wants to be with me. I simply told her that although I was extremely flattered, I was still with the same woman I had mentioned to her when we spoke a few months ago. To a degree, she may have been a bit hurt. But, I didn't create that situation. I simply respected her decisions at that time. It sort of seemed as if she wanted to almost ruin the positive relationship I had established with this incredible woman I'm still with to this day. It was awkward because in one aspect, I felt a bit guilty about her sort of unhappiness. But I couldn't deny my own affections I found with another woman I'm fond of to this day. In the end, there is a special someone for any of us if we simply allow ourselves to drop our own personal barriers. And stop listening to so-called social experts.
If i was you i would have told her that "ok i am never going to ask you out on a date again" the moment she said that she said she decided to paint her room and stood you up. Don't even give them a chance to give the invisible bubble excuse as she broke a promise for something non important such as painting a room the paint and the room would have been there when she got back
if she tries to get you jealous, that's not the one. Jealously should be an indirect thing that you yourself trigger from liking a woman that hasn't built the bond u wish with her. Once she likes you, there's no need for her to attempt to get you jealous.
I like reading complex sciences and hard subjects myself. I cannot keep up with women, i just dont get them. Emotions that switch by the word. Hot cold temperament it goes on and on. Does not compute
It seems like finding a girl to merely hold a conversation is nearly impossible. I've had several girlfriends and one night stands, but recently has been difficult.
Yep. These covid restrictions makes it next to impossible to meet girls, or new people in general. The only way now is online, which is awful in so many ways.
The number 4 that's how she would learn if you aware of her while she flirts, so she can see if in the future she can cheat on you without you even knowing.
Simply put, spend time caring about a girl if you like her, but when she shows like she doesnt care as much, just dont care about her as well. You have your own life, shes just another human being, what makes her so special as to make you lose yourself in gaining her approval? Nothing. Throughout Your life, you need to love yourself to set the foundation, ofc that doesnt justify that you become narcissistic or treat others badly. If you truly love yourself and know how to be happy alone, you can never hurt another as you know what its like to suffer and you wouldnt want others to suffer as well. Hope this helps on your journey to seek healthy love relationships
Well, I agree about having a high self esteem and not being bothered by small things. But jealousy induced by flirting with other guys to make one insecure ? I think that's a lil fcked up. Bcoz if a guy does d same then that wud be outright wrong in everyones view but same passes as a girl's way of testing ? I wud rather be with a girl who doesn't play such mind games but focusses on making a true meaningful relationship. ✌️
@@whatfffd Bro all girls will do this if you fuck up and sense weakness to see if you are beta and if they were wrong about you being a real man etc. Some who have low attraction will do this as a pre-qualification to weed you out if they have 8 other guys blowing up their phone from bumble, okc, etc. It sucks but is reality today. She will only not do this if she has high attraction and it won't always be the case. ALL WOMEN this applies
If she likes you and she pulls away she wants you to chase her. That's her way of finding out if you really want her. They also find it attractive if you do it confidently. And if you don't chase she will choose another guy who does
After seeing this, i'm thinking girls are way too complicated, i'll never find one who can fully understand me and my needs. I think being single is the best thing for me, just keeping it simple. Being single gives me more time to do what i like and improve myself as a man.
Now, let's start testing women in the same way, or at least do the same test they gave us soon after. If she complains, just say, 'I am just treating you the way you treated me, what's the matter? Cant take it ?'
I find your opinion to be wrong brother because the test she is conducting is testing your masculinity that's why you can't let her go through the same test because she isn't masculine,she is feminine so how can you expect her to pass in the test of masculinity
I agree with the first comment. So I will just continue on from his point. To restate what he said: They are woman. You are supposed to be stronger and masculine so don't lower yourself down on a feminine level. Also woman do not realize they're doing it most of the time. They don't say "oh I'm going to test his masculinity." Its in their biology. It's an evolutionary test. The female of the species always wishes to get the best male to reproduce with to better the species. That's how natural selection works. It's all biological. They don't even realize they're doing it. But you must not allow men or woman to get under your skin. Always keep your cool and people will respect you for it.
@@KingofNewYorkkk I totally agree that we should test her but not in her way but in our way. Men and women contribute different things in a relationship so both of them should be tested to check if they can provide what's their share(the share of their gender)
@@DylanGames1000 Yes ofcourse women want best that's why test us and we should too but in different manner then her, if she tests your masculinity and your ability to protect her and provide then you should test her femininity and supportive nature(You still are the provider and she has to acknowledge, respect and appreciate that)
What a modern way to start relationship by insulting each other :-) IMHO these advices are geared to online dating where narcissists dominate and these advices are mostly geared to these types, avoid both :D
I never let a woman disresepect me. when a woman disrespects you, it's not a test to see how confident you are. it's her way to test your boundaries and to find out how much sh*t you're willing to tolerate from her just to keep her around. If a guy just lets her insults slide, it's not a sign of him having healthy self-esteem, it's a sign of him being a pushover. if she can say something insulting to the guy and still get away with it, she won't see him as confident. she'll see him as desparate, somebody who's probably got no options so he puts her on a pedestal. never ever let anyone walk all over you. if you don't nip that behaviour in the bud, you'll never have a satisfying relationship with that person.