How HIGHLY Confident People Demonstrate Value! 

Wow, that is really interesting!

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Yo it’s so cool that both of you still are connected decade + years RSD 4 Life 🤘🏾

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Hate that stupid calm down saying well your a female males it's way different

@@perrycoffey5410 I don't like it when people tell me to calm down either. It helps me feel better though when I tell people that I am nervous, if I am actually nervous. I actually tend to get along with males more than females in general. I don't know if it's because of my autism. I HAVE had females in the workplace that I got along with, but the ones that I get along with tend to be tomboys. Even though there are females out there who are straightforward with what they are thinking, I find that guys are generally more straightforward and tend not pretend that everything is okay (with passive-aggressiveness). I like it when somebody just tells me that they have a problem with me, we solve the problem, and then it's done. Otherwise I find it to be emotionally draining.

I know what you mean. Saying you have anxiety right of the bat helps. But we don’t wanna do that, we want to eventually just not have to do that and be free.

True. I always want to wear clothes that I personally think makes me look good and stylish but don't do it because other people will think they're not good

Great comment. I'm your age and have arrived at this clear belief, which is capital T true for me, that 99% of people's paradigms for long term relationships and marriage are absolutely INSANE. Nothing but appreciation for the red pill podcasts that deal with the darker side of things (check out Owens brief appearance of FnF). However since rediscovering Julien and Owens content recently, like you I feel encouraged and enthusiastic - and can already see results, which are getting better every day. I still request a full 2-3 hour podcast with Owen Julien Myron & Rollo - that would be next level game changing stuff!

That's great man! Thanks for sharing.

"I am in my early 40's and I always have this feeling that everyone else has life under control and knows more than me & is more successful. As if I feel like I mentally am still a kid at heart and learning. " Felt like that since I was 17. late thirties here. Felt like my mindset really hasn't changed in this regard since 17. insecure. low self-esteem. shy away from large crowds of eyes. always trying to look cool. THe best thing I"ve heard from Julian is: stop trying to be cool, relax and tell yourself "it's ok", when things seem to be going wrong.

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Letting go is the best

Amazing to hear! You're very welcome!!

That's great!

10-15 hours ?! What do you do concretely? 😅

How do you practice letting go? Like someone judges you and you just don’t care?

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Thanks! Glad this resonates with you!

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I want to believe that you’re probably German, but the name is misleading…. Well played

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@@JulienHimself the way you told those young guys that where next to you, up stage telling them to yell! And it makes total sense it's almost freeing your whole self, by just yelling

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This covers everything that I know when it comes to letting go + step-by-step social skills: becomehighvibe.com - Enjoy! 🔥👊

It is and it is a big chunk of old conditioning. Start letting go. Make it to a regular practice and all will come on its own. You can only change your behavior after resolving those trapped energies(emotions) behind the reactions

@@Gragon777can you please explain what Julien or you mean by let go? Like should I just don’t care of people judging me?

I interpret it like this (and it helps me against panic attacks and OCD): - stop thinking - become fully aware of how your body feels, especially all the bad feelings (muscle tension, stomach ache, adrenalin, whatever) - explore, feel it fully (no thinking) - and then relax into it It helps immensely

@@celticshe-wolf5936 thanks I’ll try. Really need it this morning

@@yuvrajoberoi7834 hey sry for no reply, i got no notifications here. Guy above me explained it pretty well. Letting go is feeling. For example you start feeling more and more, i mean putting your focus on your sensations in your body. After a while you will connect again if you are completely disconnected. You will feel an underlying feeling wich doninates your life. It can be an unpleasence or just a feeling you are trying to supress for a long time. Usually it’s enough to just take some time without music or any stimulation and just feel how you truly feel inside. Then when you finde the sensation for example fear. You start to feel the fear instead of pushing it away. Your basic inner activity ist unconsciously pushing against unpleasant feelings. Its what everyone does. But now you change this part. Instead of fighting it you feel it. You might have a blockage to do that. If you cant feel you just ask yourself why cant i feel that. And there will come another feeling you gotta feel first through. When you got access to the feeling, doesn’t matter what kind. You just start to consciously feeling it. You might have to lower your resistance about it again and again. You do this through relaxing your inner body. Name it what you want you can name it emotional body. Then you will locate the feeling. For fear it is solar plexus. You feel the feeling and can try to find its source. You just follow the sensation. Usually its located in a spot and then it can fill your whole body. You feel it and dont judge it. You let it flow. You feel how this energy, you will judge it unpleasant or maybe even horrible energy, will get easier and more pleasant. At one moment it will feel acceptable. At this point you can fully put down the resistance and let it completely flow. Then usually you will feel the energy go up stream to your head. You pass the energy and release any resistance you have about it. And it will go through pressure to your head. This all needs time. Every supressed emotion needs time to pass. Sometimes its a really hard one i need 1-2 weeks for that feeling to pass.(f.e. If its traumatic) and then you will feel the pressure on your head/third eye. You feel the pressure and let it flow. Then if its fully completed you will feel how it is to be free of that. Ususally a very plesant and rewarding feeling. And then you move on with the next one if you like. Thats how it is for me :) good luck

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Lol, books… This comes from life experience. Check out high vibe communication if you want to go deeper: becomehighvibe.com 😉

Those are great, but they don't cover social skills... I personally haven't found any good books on that topic.

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@@JulienHimself some so well explained concepts also remind on principle in martial arts.. keep the center of body and don't react to danger, lower your body weight.. you are definitely black belt in harisma , keep going ;)

You're not alone in that Bill. I can't do small talk either and when I meet somebody, I am bored by their banalities. The fact that we are both watching this video means that we are not always content with our trauma and isolation. I am sure that there are many people like us out there. As strongly social creatures it is good for our emotional health to know that we are not alone, i hope that you reach out and make bonds with people who are as sensitive and feeling as you. Take care.

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Thank you! And welcome to the channel!

Yeah that part was very insightful

KET POINT right there, yes!

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Learning without applying/taking action = “productive entertainment” 😉

​@@JulienHimself Thanks for the reply. Yeah, I agree with that. I just feel that when in the moment, applying advanced concepts like not trying to get anyone's validation isn't something that just comes out of me, in fact it would take for me to kind of be in my head to even remember "Oh I learned this from julian let me reply a certain way". What action specifically would it take for this to just become second nature?

Yeah, like Julien just said... it's just entertainment than not using it in real time.

​​@@cynx6245 maybe try the rock in your shoe thing. Like, you wear or bring around something all day that represents some thing Julian or any other coach online said, and make it something you cant forget about. But if theres so many concepts, I just narrow it down to teacher=pebble instead I usually dont have trouble remembering a specific teacher or coach or therapist, as a person, even if the theories might get jumbled cuz I watch so many things. But if Im going around trying to remember that teacher, like they're sitting on my shoulder telling me what to do? Even if i dont remember every concept, Ill remember to think about my thinking and pretend Im working it out with that person, and through that fake conversation I remembers certain techniques that might apply to the situation. If I didnt already have a good imagination of them following me around, I would probably try (and idk if this is too weird) putting a sticker on my shoulder with my therapists name on it. 😂 like, maybe I cant see it, but others can, and thats enough to remember that its there. And that sticker is stalking me making sure I remember my BMods lol. And i would just tell people that cuz everyone is doing therapy anyway so its not that weird. 🤷 I guess I'm just re-inventing the What Would Jesus Do? Ring concept but if you wear it all the time youd probably forget its there so I would make it kinda weird and stand outy and switch it up often. Then of course you end up saying "my therapist said..." like a lot, to random people and they will probably be annoyed. I dont care. If im saying it "too much" then Im doing a good job remembering the important stuff for me. Soon itll stop being "my therapist said" and turn into "I said"

Great. I'll think about it.

Yes, exactly! Trying to make everyone like you is going AGAINST nature!

Never go alone? Why?

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“Snitches get stitches.”

There you are bro, I referenced you in my comment - how this video resonated with me brought to mind an old saying of yours, made me genuinely LOL!

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Also @12:27 After he gave us a whole reason to manipulate people for OUR intentions not theirs we're to gather stories... Lol Of course so we can talk about OURSELVES and not them so we can mask our insecurities!! He is literally narcissism 😂😂

@@Brosephuswhen something triggers you this far, that you write a comment about it this long. You should think about it, why it does trigger you so hard. Those things are the biggest insights. Your enemy will tell you the truth you needs because he wants to hurt you. Theres something to learn in that!

LOL dude your response is perfect!! 😂😂@@Gragon777