I spent about 5 months trying to break up with a guy who wanted to marry me because I realized I was in love with one of my best friends. When I finally broke it off, I didn't know how to cope with how horrible I felt so I downed a bottle of wine as fast as I could, threw up all over my bed room, and passed out. There are still faint stains on the carpet as a reminder 😮💨
Lost sight of my identity in Christ dating who I thought was the love of my life. Tried to bring him to Christ but he mainly only did it for me. Ended up cheating on me and was on dating apps which happened to see on his phone on accident. Worst pain and betrayal of my entire life. Went back briefly a few times because it was comfortable and I was weak and alone. I know my worth again and I choose to not settle. Oh and he's my co-worker.
Going thru this right now..and I was dumped by my ex who was from a different Christian denomination. He was lukewarm and did not really care for doing Bible studies or praying for too long..it just worked for 3 weeks max 4. His family didn’t approve me because I was off a different background and Christian denomination, despite having such less differences however he kept convincing me that he would stand up for me and convince them..and I remained hidden and this was the main reason he broke things off me..and turned on me despite making these promises. There was more of a focus on getting to be intimate pretty quickly more than having God as our foundation. I’m grateful for God saving me from an even bigger mistake..
I had one of those wrecker ones too, girl. Because we were friends before dating, and he told me he loved me and wanted to marry me..only to text me that is wasn't working and abruptly leave my life. I had no idea anything was wrong until he began pulling away. I believe he wasn't fully healed honestly, but it hurt like hell. I didn't want to eat or do anything. I relate that mornings are the hardest..you forget the pain when you're asleep, and then you wakeup and the pain and stomach churning begins and you fall apart at random places. Healing took a while and the scar is still there, but it did bring me closer to the Lord, thank God, and He did bring me someone who is ready to love me how I need and loves unconditionally. And I'm so glad you have found a wonderful man too! ❤️ I wanted to stay friends but looking back that hindered moving forward. Anyone going through a breakup needs to cut ties, not talk to him, put the photos and mementos away and then throw them out when you are ready. You need to stop praying he comes back, and pray that God shows you whatever he needs you to see. Use it as a time to draw near to God and have Him give you clarity. Repent of any sins, recognize unhealthy patterns, and mature in Christ. And then you will be more ready for when Mr Right comes along! Don't listen to depressing breakup music lol and dwell in your grief that way. Writing down your feelings helps and you can turn it into a prayer to God. He wants to hear what you are going through even though He does already know. He wants to heal and redeem. And girl, whoever reads this, know that God will not let it fall apart unless it was not meant for you. He has better. Read the Word and listen to what God has to say; be honest with yourself and God, and set those boundaries you need for yourself to heal. Protect your heart ❤️ sending love and prayers to you all who may be hurting. God has not finished your story! Lean on Him and His love xoxo
Girl I literally went through such a painful breakup at the beginning of 2020, and can completely relate to what you just said about how soul crushing the aftermath can be. YET, God is so gracious, kind, and merciful to us if we turn to him in our brokeness and pain. A year later I am SO grateful I went through tha breakup. The guy I was with turned out to be nothing like what he had portayed himself as, and knowing that God has saved me for someone who will truly love and treat me the way that honors Christ is encouraging. People wondered why I didn't remain friends with him after we broke up, especially because we attend the same university, but honestly when God ends something in your life wheather it be a relationship, job, or friendship running back to it does no good. When he frees you from something he doesn't want to linger and hold on it. Yes, seeing him around campus has been kind of painful and abrasive to my heart but it is constant reminder of how good God has been to me.❤
I get what you're saying, but for some people listening to break-up music, at least at first, helps them get their feelings out better. (But you shouldn't prolong that period more than it needs to last.) God bless, have a good day!
Ah for real... I’m going through a breakup right now and I’ve literally been praying for healing in my heart and searching for a Christian’s perspective on heartbreak and this pops up today. Thank you and praise Jesus !!
It’s so sad how so many women put their self-worth into men. They stop doing their hobbies and put all their time and effort into the relationship. I don’t seen men do the same and that’s probably why they can move on so easily. I’ve been there, it’s the worst. I really want to teach my future daughters self-worth and living their own life. Glad you were able to move forward!
I really needed this video right now. About 7 months ago, I really liked this guy & although we never dated, we talked everyday and hung out & he would write me sweet notes. We had such a connection but then he started pulling away & said he wasn't ready for a relationship. It honestly broke me because I had put him on such a high pedestal in my life that it all just came crashing down. I also was going through family issues and felt I had no one to talk to. While I am still not completely ok, I am healing everyday, and looking back I have been able to see how this has made me stronger and how the Lord has helped me. While I still struggle with missing him, I now know that we wouldn't have been good together. The song Seasons by Hillsong has really helped me. Especially the lyrics "You're the God of seasons, I'm just in the winter" because it just reminds me to trust Him through it all.
And yes Stas, so true that God will use our journey of heartbreak and healing, to minister to others. It's not just about us. There's a bigger picture. We are family in Christ and here to help bear one another's burdens ❤️
I went through one as well. I found staying busy in the past was helping me. This time I chose to sit in my pain and ask God what he was trying to teach me. That’s when everything changed. I had been making similar mistakes for a long time and I wasn’t learning my lesson by staying busy to not feel what I was going through. Then God started putting me in situations where I had to help others going through pain. I guess realizing there were other people going through trouble helped me. Also staying in his word! Hope this helps!
I’m going through it now. Long story short, been on plenty of dates and never had a relationship. I met someone who I had such an amazing connection with, but as time went by, I realized there was a lot of red flags I was ignoring. He ended up ending things with me. Although I’m sad, I am grateful. I know God has someone out there who is amazing for me
I walked away from a "situationship." I was with a guy long distance for a year and half and he never visited me, never introduced me to friends virtually, he was all talk and said nice things to me but he never showed me he was serious and he wanted me. It's been 6 months since and I'm still hurting. I invested emotionally and mentally into something I thought was real and serious. We were different in terms of values. I was more biblical, he was more secular. I guess I hoped I could change him and I got hurt in the process. Days leading to the breakup, I prayed that God would show me anything. Like if this guy was not in God's plan for me romantically, then remove him from my life. With that being said, things started happening and God ultimately showed me that I needed to breakup with him. It was hard, but I knew I needed to end it. Since then my ex has not reached out. Now I have him blocked everywhere. I'm leaning on the Lord and His discernment while navigating life.
I’ve been trying to find good videos in regards to a break up... I needed this so much. A little over 2 months ago, my boyfriend broke up with me. We had been in a long distance relationship for over 3 years.... I didn’t want to admit that it would happen, but it did. I made a lot of mistakes. It was my first Christian relationship. I feel sooo apathetic at the moment and I have lost so much passion for things... I’m trying sooo hard to move on and enjoy the hobbies I did before, and I feel just sooo hurt and angry. I’m trying so hard to move on, but it’s been sooo difficult. I’m trying to have passion for things like worshiping God and having joy in it, but it’s been so difficult. Please keep me in prayer. I really need it and I want my joy to return and my anger and apathy to cease.
Hi, get help from Dr Steve who can make your ex come back to you begging for a second chance. He was the one who helped me restore back my broken relationship of 3 years by bringing back my ex. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
I’ve been depressed over a breakup for a whole year now. I think the worst part of it was that he was one of my best friends and I lost our relationship and friendship when we broke it off. Also, after we broke it off, I realized how much I really did love him. It sucks because I knew that he had put in my life and taken out of my life for a reason, but it was too hard to see that at the time. Now, I’m finally finding myself and realizing that I need to take responsibility for my actions. But I also know that part of it was his fault. It was such a toxic relationship that we just couldn’t save the friendship after. Part of me still wishes we were together so I could still have that friendship, but I know it’s not in God’s plan for me at the moment. If any of you are really struggling, I suggest praying but also seeking professional help. That has really helped me. I know that God pointed me towards a therapist who has helped me with my mental health issues. I’m definitely not at my best, but I’m now realizing that I need to take control of my life and stop putting the blame on others. I’m so glad that I found God during that time and that I had my church community to back me. Maybe one day I won’t be depressed anymore, maybe I won’t. But I know that I haven’t lived out my true purpose yet.
I have been feeling terrible for 3 months, I cannot imagine a year of this feeling. I am hoping you continue to get help and I pray you start feeling better. I really do. ❤
I am so grateful for everything that you post. I'm 14 turning 15 and I'm struggling with a breakup, this has helped me so much!, I'm currently in the same situation as you use to be, and it feels harder for me then it actually is because I don't know my worth... I'm just praying and focusing on Jesus. It has already helped me alot thankyou Nastasia🥺🤍
Thank you for this . Even thought I cried through half of it lol. My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday 🥺. So I’m definitely going to start this tomorrow. Thanks again !
Nastasia, just wanted to say that you really gave me a new (better) perspective on singleness and finding 'the one'. (I'm mainly referring to your previous videos) Now, I'm a guy (I was actually born in 1996 too) and I was struggling through the exact worries as you... " When will I meet her?" "Where will I meet her?" "Should I try to go to ___ and see if I'll find her there?" I've always thought I'd have a family and recently have been too focused on what I can do to improve my chances on finding 'her'. That is, until you said something like, "If God wants you there to find 'the one', you'll be there. Your decisions can't keep that from happening." That really opened my eyes to what I was doing... So I just wanted to say thank you for that. Your fiance is lucky to have you and I pray that my future wife will share in your love of Christ.
Amen, I struggle with the same thoughts of putting in effort to try to find who God has for me. It’s so true that God is the only one in control and we need only to be still. Thank you so much for the encouragement!
@@ClimbingUpThisLife actually I'm doing great. God helped me get through that phase. I'm a lot peaceful now, making songs and mashups for His kingdom. If it weren't for Jesus, I don't think I'd be here now. Thanks for asking. Pray you get through this too. Hold on to Jesus alone. Let Him be your comfort and confidante at all times. God bless
Love your gratitude photo journal idea! One of my fav channels 🥰 you are beautiful inside and out, Nastasia! Keep shining bright and encouraging us with your story ✨
I'm going threw a break up now after 6 years he cheated!!!!!I'm sooooo HEARTBROKEN I feel like I cant move on,we still live together he wants to be great friends and that's even harder because now I know when he stays out hes with her and it's just killing me ,I'm in such a negative space and I cant shake it ,I dont know what to do
Such a powerful message! I too have focus and found the Lord thru a breakup and giving up on law of attraction and all that shakra drama! God is good and focusing on Christ is all worth it!
Thanks so much for sharing your perspective. It is true that there is nothing we can do without God. He has already set us up for success and for overcoming whatever obstacle is in our life. What really helped me through my last breakup as you said was to refocus my energy. i just want to encourage the eprson reading this right now to continue to take the time to heal and find avenues that work for you. Sometimes we try to put ourselves in boxes because one thing worked for another person. Allow your interests to direct you in the direction that suits you best!
Is it normal to still feel upset about it 5, almost 6 months later? There’s been a mix of bad things happening, + this break up. Then feeling like he never cared. Trying so hard to stay positive
I went through my first breakup around this time last year and I have been depressed since then. This video has helped and uplifted me at all my lows. May God sustain my hope in Him. Thank you Nastasia for sharing this message with us it lets us know we are not alone.
I pray the Universe grant your heart desires with more love and commitment from your ||Ex|| through the help of the same Great and Powerful man •Dr Steve• who helped me restored my Broken Home. He can make your |ex| beg you for a second chance. I will advise you seek out his help thanks...)
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks..
Hi, was wondering if you could maybe do a video on your Christian relationship and if you ever had any struggles, disagreements, arguments, any problem and how you went about handling it?
I am very broken today.. it’s been almost 4 years… such a long story. Please pray for my peace from the Lord and repentance and salvation for Matt… he broke it off after our 9 day vacation with his children… however I admit and confess he believes in Jesus but is not saved…I made Matt a mini g.o.d… I ask for our Savior’s guidance and peace beyond my understanding. I live in a small coastal town in Oregon and it is very lonely here. Matt and his children live approximately 2 hours away… I’m babbling but am reaching out when I normally would not… thank you 🙏
Hey beautiful- love this video and perspective. Thank you for this. I am working on a video very similar for my channel, so thank you for some sort of guidance. I like how you did this!!
my breakup is happening in a few weeks. i took a study abroad scholarship across the world to study Russian, and i realized that this man is not who i will marry and therefor i have no reason to continue. i plan on breaking up in person tho, would never do so over the phone. hurts so bad tho so i’m preparing lol edit: we’ve been together for nearly two years and through a lot so this is a tough one
Hii, can u pls make a video on what u feel about ppl who r gifted with visions AKA spiritualists/ light workers/ astrologists/ mediums or ppl who do tarot readings. Example - ppl like tyler Henry, Edward and Lorraine Warren ( Christian perspective ) they probably r gifted by God but idk something just doesn't sit right with me . If u r aware of ppl like them and r comfortable doing a video on it pls do a video on it and if u think it is supported in christianity according to scriptures Because I'm not surrounded by ppl who would give me a clear and honest answer on whether it's the right path or not
Haven’t had a boyfriend yet and don’t plan on it until I feel ready for marriage in the near future and even though that is still hard for me I know it’s God’s best
can you talk about the capitol riot? it was heartbreaking for me to see people proclaiming that Christ is King and then proceeding to threaten violence and kill 5 innocent people...I know you don't usually talk about politics but it breaks my heart to see Christians be silent when the consequences are so grave. I really want to hear the perspective of someone I trust...
I went through a breakup really young, (still am young haha) but it was the worst pain I’ve ever experienced. It’s been over a year now and God has done incredible things since then, and I’m so thankful he got me out of the situation. If you wanna read my whole testimony you can follow my Instagram @bible.art.for.jesus :) awesome video ❤️❤️
Jesus loves you all personally have a nice day:) Please turn from your sin and follow Jesus for today is the day of salvation!:) Jesus is coming back very soon!
