Admiring at and looking at beauty and your personal definition of beauty doesn't make you gay... Aesthetics and curiosity is not gay... It's awareness. Lack of privacy and lack of quarters doesn't make you gay...nor does a locker room make you gay.. Frecuently folks are curious about the body and their body....none of that is gay...nor their permutation nor the sum of all of it.
BOY SCOUTS!! THE RUMORS ARE TRUE (LOL... ) how about the basketball coach in the showers!! ahhh russ, you made me laugh today. thank you. from a cancer patient.
I wish there were computers and RU-vid's with Russ Marine! when I was growing up, it would have made such a HUGE difference in my life. But, on a lighter note, I did become a Marine and didn't know I was gay until afterwards. love you!
And then it hit me that I never felt that way about my girlfriend. We never even kissed. (which, the two of us never felt the need. we didn;t base a relationship on physical needs, but just on the fact that we were happy with each other. all she ever wanted was for me to just love her, no sex or kiss needed.) I soon told her about myself being... gay. To which she just asked me if I still cared about her, and for the first time (next to my mom) I told someone that I loved them. I loved her...
Nah.. Some men.. They're just so handsome it's breathtaking. Some men just have a face that I could stare at for hours. I've only met one particular man as such, but he's straight. :P
It would have to be when I was in the 6th grade and started putting only posters of hot guys and such on the walls and door in my bedroom and kept checking out my best friend who played baseball. He was just so gorgeous.
She never felt the need to teach us about religion, or about stereotypes. She didn't want us to grow up into organized religion like she was. She wanted us to make our own choices and believe what we wanted. So I never knew about the concept of having an attraction towards the same-sex. Didn't watch Brokeback Mountain, never saw some older movies with it. Just missed out. So, skipping on. After looking at more guys, I noticed how some just... made me blush and get hard...
It's probably because on a chemical level, we are all bisexual. We just want sex. On a mental level, well... nurture is far more influential than some would think, but not because of parents. A various number of things influence your sexual orientation. Any male can be attracted to a man, same as any female can be attracted to a woman, but most people have sub-conscious opinions and feelings which lead to them preferring one side over the other. That is probably why they are "confused."
Or Flamenco or Sevillanas dresses or stories with hand gestures of the sea and mer and moons and sun...I promise the stories will bring you right back...hehe Or Hawaii skirts and luaos...hehe
How did I know I was gay? 2nd grade got excited about catching a guy in Duck Duck Goose 4th Grade a next door neighbor's son said he liked me I got excited also 4th Grade a friend in class suggested we were bfs and I liked it when he said it. 8th grade checking out those sculpted bodies in the swim locker room, 10th grade being jealous of an openly gay guy 11th grade finally coming out to a friend and still hating effeminacy though I was pretty effeminate in grade school.
well what if you dont use facebook?? i pretty much use everything besides Facebook(probably because i hate everyone i know there :P) how else can i join :/ ??
the first time i realized i was gay, is when i got a crush on a swiss guy on holiday! kinda fell for him as soon as i seen him come round the pool in his shorts.... HOT!!!!
I was gay but that wasn't the reason though and I am so into the sport that I never get "into it". Haha I am better than my best friend. I'm a state champion!!!
Wrestling is neither straight nor gay, it's sport. But I do like seeing two men's bare chests come into contact with each other. I wrestled a guy once.
First off, I love your videos, but a lot of those responses are not necessarily how you know you are gay, but rather how you figured out your attraction to guys... I have been battling with my sexuality for close to 8 years, but I finally accepted to myself that I was gay when I realized that the only way I would be truly happy was when I was with another guy...
i knew i was since a little kid playing with homoerotic toys, the ones you can take the clothes off hahaha but then in middle school when i fell in love with my best guy friend :'(
If I admired a marble statue that is nude in NYC about Ancient Greek Culture...does that make me gay... Porn doesn't make people gay...it's also awareness and curiosity...etc...
How I knew I was Gay? Well I was having sex with guys but, I was in my teens and didn't know what Gay was (it was the 80's). BUT looking back, I remember once looking at a couple in a store (dunno how old I was ... possibly 11) and I remember thinking that the guy was better looking than the girl.
i tought i was gay for a second... because i really like how skinny (even woman) jeans feel/fit me and i find some men attractive wouldnt date or do it with them but i just admit they are good looking hahahaha but... i guess not haha i remember when i was in kinder kissing under the playground with a girl xD and played doctor with her hahahahaha P.S. i just realized we all played doctor when we were kids ;) hahahaha great game :$
