How I Met My Abusive (ex) Boyfriend 

Here’s all the proof you need. This is the “report” the officer filed. twitter.com/illymation/status/1279990200806961153?s=21

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"Age is just a number" *and hell is just a place*

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hi illymation, i know this is 4 years later and you may not see this, but this video made me realise what happened to me as a child was not healthy and, thank you. I know this video must have been hard for you to make, but when I saw this as a child, it changed my perspective and I was able to get the help I needed. Our voices need to be heard and this video helped me raise my voice after so long of denying what happened to me. I wish you nothing but the best in the future, and I hope you're doing wonderful

“Age Is Just A Number” *And The Electric Chair Is Just Furniture*

"Age is just a number" You know what else is a number? *911*

I was 13 too when I was put in a situation like this online. My friend was the one who finally convinced me to block them and get away. This hits close. I'm so proud of you for getting out.

It’s insane looking back on this video and how much it helped me avoid situations like this. There have been so many guys who’ve talked to me like Harris did to Illy, and it’s because she made this video that I was able to see the red flags and walk away. I literally can not thank you enough. This saved my life and countless others because you had the courage to tell your story.

“YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR ANYONE’S HAPPINESS!!” -JaidenAnimations

“Age is just a number” *hell is just a big fireplace*

I remember watching this when i was 13. Im 17 now and im still taking her advice from meeting and getting trapped by people like harris. Stay safe everyone

I was raped when i was seven now im 18 amd was also raped in march of this year... I blame myself for all of it... Even if i didnt know what was going on at the time. I filed a report for the most recent one the police made me go through all this shit just to not even try to do anything about it. I felt so stuck. All this trauma caused me to have 5 mental diagnosises. And im scared... I really dont know how someone could do stuff like this. I 100% relate. Just know you are not alone... And NON of it was your fault...

“we’re like romeo and juliet, okay?” romeo and juliet was a 6 day relationship between a 16 year old and a 13 year old that ended in 3 deaths

Haris: "Were like Romeo and Juliet" So he wants to die?

As someone who never got justice from *my* abuser, (He was 35, I was SIX. FUCKING *6* , he threatened to kill himself, AND HE ACTUALLY DID IT. HE SHOT HIMSELF IN THE FUCKING HEAD) It makes me sad to know there’s people who went through something similar to what I went through..

Ilyssa, you sharing your story honestly helped me SO much, 2 years ago I was being groomed when I was 13 by 17-year-old year also. It took me many months to realize that I was being groomed but hearing your story made me realize what a bad situation I was in. As the days went by I found myself being more isolated from my family and friends, I would always have to message and call him or he would guilt trip and even threaten me. Much stuff occurred within the time period that still affects me today, but thanks to this video, I eventually got the courage to distance myself from this person and block him. If it wasn't for you, this could've went on for much longer. So from the bottom of my heart, thank you.

“Age is just a number” *WELL PRISON IS JUST A ROOM*

Age is Just a Number You Know What else is a Number 911

Thank you for speaking out about this. In my own situations when I was a preteen / teenager, I made a lot of those same statements to myself regarding "I should have done x". It took a long time for me to really address how badly it messed up my ability to trust, have healthy relationships, and understand what was or wasn't right for me. I'm glad you're doing better now, sincerely.

Illy, I’m so sorry to hear you had to go through this, but I’m happy to hear that you’re doing better now and have been able despite all the trauma you’ve been through. I think I speak for everyone in the comments when I say I’m proud of you, and I wish you happiness, love, peace, and all the good things in life.

‘Age is just a number.’ Jail is just a room.

“Age is just a number” and jail is just a room

"Age is just a number" "911 is just a number" "Jail is just a place" "A death sentence is just a thing"

You are so brave for telling what you’ve gon threw and I hope that you can continue using this experience as a story to help others that are in need of help so thank you ❤

“Age is just a number” *and murder is just an ACTION*

“Age is just a number” *and hells a giant oven*

Illy, thank you for sharing your story and raising awareness. I watched this series when I was 11. I’m 15 now, and by no exaggeration, you have saved me. I’ve made many friends online and had multiple encounters where my “new friends” told me never to tell my parents. I immediately blocked and reported them because you taught me to. I didn’t learn this in school. I learned it by watching this series. Thank you.

thank you for sharing this. i’m so happy that people like this live, or have the will to share these stories. you are such a strong person. keep up the great work 💛

“Age is just a number” And my sword is just a weapon.

"AgE iS jUsT a NuMBer" *And prison is just a room*

I applaud your bravery and transparency. Very creative way of approaching this topic. You are making a difference.

I was raped at the age of 9. This hits hard. Whoever is currently dealing with this, I’m so sorry. You’re not alone.

“Age is just a number” You know what else is just a number? The amount of time you’ll spend in prison

“Age is just a number” And jail is just a place. And years in jail is just a number

This is something that helps my daughter memorize these issues for safety. This happened to me and as much as we talk, these videos help. I'm so sorry this happened to you (us) and you are helping people. Thank you

I’m so so sorry…I know the words are empty when you haven’t experienced it but…Thank you for informing us about how this happens and sharing your experience with us so others and I can understand ❤

"AgE iS jUsT a NuMbEr" *AND MURDER IS JUST AN EARLY DEATH*

"Age is just a number" well jail is just a room. Thanks guys for all the likes. ❤❤

Illy I’m so glad that you’re comfortable sharing your story and I’m so sorry it happened ❤️❤️❤️

I was in a relationship very similar (although the guy was literally the same age as me, & was in the same town) in highschool, and it's something that's so hard for people who haven't had the same experience to understand. The psychology of it is very hard to snap out of, but I hope to everyone who's going through this that they escape that situation. Control is not love, and abuse is not love. Stockholm syndrome freaking SUCKS.

“AgE iS jUsT a NuMbEr” And Death is an eternal coma.

'aGe iS jUsT a NumBeR' yeah.. aNd jAiL iS jUsT A rOom

I think the whole world needs to hear stories like these, just so people in that situation can realise what they are going through and learn how to do something about it. Thank you for being so brave, Illy. It means a lot for the people that understand.

Aww poor girl. Please keep yourself safe. We are giving you all of our love and support ❤️❤❤

AGE IS JUST A NUMBER BUT SO IS 911

"I was 13, just like many of you watching" Me as a 21 year old watching this: "...well then"

I’m so sorry you had to go through this abuse, Illy! You deserved much, much better. Glad you can talk about these topics so openly and help so many people!

thank you for posting this. i’m a victim of the same thing, and i always thought my story didn’t count sense it was online. but this lets me know that it DOES. it took my young childhood away, from 12-14 i was always getting harassed and had to stay up late bc they demanded to call me or for me to send photos etc. at the time he was “14” when we first met, turns out he was 15. so he was 17 by the end of it, but it was “ok” bc he was still a minor. it makes me sick to know this has happened to other people. right now i’m 15, i still haven’t told my family bc it terrifies me. but i am going to trauma therapy for it. he cannot contact me anymore bc i blocked him on everything, changed my usernames/make new accounts. i even moved so that he wouldn’t know where i lived anymore. this stuff is serious, terrifying, and when you’re young you don’t think it’s as bad as it actually is and you play down ur feelings to js say “oh it’s ok bc….” thank you for sharing your story, for people like me and way more will know that they’re not alone. i’m thankful to god that i didn’t stay long and had a way to get out. i’m so sorry you didn’t, but i’m so glad you’re out now. much love ❤

"Age may be a number, but so is your prison sentence." -SorrowTV

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You're the first animator I've watched that's a RU-vidr to actually give educational content in a video. Thank you for your bravery to make this. Much love from Fiji 🇫🇯✨

Illy, I have went through SA around the same time as you did. Coming out and telling your story to everyone must’ve took a lot of courage to make this video. You are so brave for making this series and me and all of your fans love you very much, and thank you for sharing your story and spreading awareness 💕

"Age is just a number" - Stabbings just aggressive poking

To those 14% that put “yes” on the survey for this happening to them God bless you. I hope you are better now

Thank you so so much for talking so openly about such difficult topics. And thank you so much more for telling us your personal story in such detail. I‘ve heard warnings about these topics, but never have I seen what grooming actually can look like and how easily a predator can manipulate a child. All of this must have been incredibly difficult for you, back then when you were still just a kid as well as now, telling this story and coping with such awful memories. Many people don‘t understand how vulnerable a person is during their teens, teenagers often seem old enough to deal with things alone but they really aren‘t. And making them think that they have to deal with problems like this alone because „they are old enough“ might be a problem with our society, even though I feel like it is progressively getting better. When I was 13 I had a lot of suicidal thoughts; my „friends“ in school made me think the world would be better without me. Back then I felt so alone and I wasn‘t at all capable of reflecting and understanding that they were the problem, not me. I totally understand that you too weren’t able to understand what was happening to you at such a young age. With 13 I always thought I was old enough for everything, but I really wasn‘t. I get why you tried to deal with this abuser alone, unable to fully leave the situation. I‘m sorry this happened to you, I can‘t imagine how awful it must have been for you. I‘m glad you were able to cut ties with this asshole and process everything to a point where you are able to publicly talk about it. Again, thank you so much for this video!

"Abuse is abuse, no matter what color you choose to paint over it." -PantlessPajamaDoodles

Hi!! Im 15 and i watched this when it first came out, i rewatch it regulary when im going through the roster of all of your videos. Ive had multiple people try to do this to me in the last 5 years and I probably would have fell for it if it wasn't for watching this video. Youve made so much of a difference in the world, love your content ❤️❤️❤️

Illymation, thank you for sharing this information this has prob helps so many people. You are a trooper Illy.

" *Age is just a number* " And being *DEAD* is just taking a long *nap*

"age is just a number" yeah and jail is just a room

I found out from my counselor that someone doesnt has to be older than you to groom you. I was in a relationship like this for almost three years in high school, but since he was my age, i was in denial that he was grooming and taking advantage of me. Please stay safe and know the signs. Its can happen to anyone with any ages

Thank you for talking about this. I went through this and its good to see people talking, educating, and supporting people when it comes to this kind of abuse.

"Age is just a number" The AK - 47 is just a realistic nerf gun

"age is just a number" So is a prison sentence.

TYSM for sharing your story so others can be aware of what may be happening to them. Im so sorry you had to go thnrough that and for that long too. Your so amazing

Wow, I’m so sorry that you had to go through ALL OF THIS!! I can’t imagine being in this kind of situation… Thanks for warning us all ❤

Person- age is just a number Me- yeah and prisons just a room

Am I the only one who's kinda worried about Harris's younger sister?

I had the same age gap (he had just turned 17 at the END of the relationship tho) and I’m so grateful he wasn’t like this… yes it was a relationship but honestly he never asked or demanded for pics,respected my time,privacy,alone time, and respected my boundaries. I’m so grateful for that because this… wow

you’re truly an inspiration to all present and future generations and you’re a great person!

Wow I'm so glad you're with Chris and not with somebody who... Looks... Like.... Me???? Oh no

"Age is just a number" You know what also is a number? *9-1-1*

Illy after watching this video I have known to watch out for ppl so glad ur doing better now and stay strong remember your fans will always love and support you

Thank you for making these videos, they are eye-opening, and I think you can feel happy knowing that the knowledge you spread will and probably already has done a lot of people a lot of good

“Age is just a number” And so is 1... 2... 3.... *shoot*

Illy, I just wanna thank you. My 13 year old friend texted me the other day that she had started a relationship with a 17-going-on-18 year old boy. I told her everything that could go wrong and how it was illegal and all that jazz, and she luckily ended it before anything like this could happen. This video helped me save her. So once again- thank you ❤💗💘💖💓💕💞

I’m so sorry you had to deal with all of this. It must have been very depressing. I want everyone that sees this comment to always know when they get kids you need to share all this information with them so this won’t ever happen. People are just crazy sometimes. I saw both parts and I’m so sorry u had to go through that. But it’s so nice of you to trust all your views and subscribers to listen to this very personal story of yours. ❤

"Age is just a number" And a gun is just a hightech slingshot

The dislikes are probably from all ofHarrisons fake accounts

I just want to thank you I pretty sure you saved me from getting into a situation like this so thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤️

i saw this video when i was younger and also on the internet talking to people. im grateful that you made this video so i knew and understood the dangers of talking to people online and in person in my every day life. thank you for speaking up and educating people about things other people dont talk about

*Haris[Perv]* : Age is *just a number* *Me* : Prison is *just a room* -Edit: So many likes OwO-

"AGE IS JUST A NUMBER!!!" AND A CELL IS JUST A ROOM

Watching this series helps me feel less alone, thank you ❤

I’m sorry ml.. hopefully your better soon nobody deserves this, im glad your taking it with humor. Im glad your better soon but there are a a lot of people like Haris, and I hate how they get away with it. it happened to my best friend it was during the times you uploaded these videos it helped her alot through it and I was the first person whom she told. She was 13-14 at the time and her groper was atleast 24-25 at the time, he made her send pictures of herself and made her mental health worsen. I’m glad she told me and I helped her throughout it, we luckily caught his acts but he disappeared, I’m very thankful for you and others that help people who are in these situations thank you.

"I was just a kid! I wrote Harry Potter fanfiction!" I'm just going to say adios and run away because you ma'am, have just exposed me

God this hits way too close to home. Stay strong girl, you're doing amazing.

5 years ago today this was posted and im proud. im 15 and this video really helped me when i was younger

OK RU-vid I WATCHED IT

At first I heard that she was 16 and he was 17 and I was like "I don't think that's pedophilia" Then I rewinded it... "I was 13 and he was 17" DUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUDE

This video is super important for people who may be In the same situation thank you for sharing your story

I am sorry you had to go through that. Words can not describe the situation you went through, it was really brave of you to tell your story.

“i was 13 like many of you watching” * ill be 22 in a month * well i officially feel old

"Just stop" "Just walk away" "Just ignore him" "Just don't fall for it in the first place" Oh. my. gosh. Stop it, it doesn't help. It doesn't help to tell people that they can just simply do something. It isn't that easy. I've never been in this situation but I can imagine it. I'm glad you're okay now! Please try to stay safe ✨

Illssa im so sorry. I went through something like it. Im very grateful you made this video. Im crying it brings back all the horrid memories.i hope everyone stays safe. And FAR away from these people.

You are so strong! Thank you for sharing this.

In 2018 when I was 14, I was groomed by a man who was 28. A few weeks into it I grew emotionally strained from that relationship and ended up telling my teacher about it. I had no idea how manipulated and brainwashed I was, so the teacher told me to look up stories of other children who went through the same thing as I did, what happened to them, etc. I was busy that afternoon, so I did a quick search and downloaded all the videos, storytimes, and documentaries I found about child grooming... this being one of them. That weekend was my 15th birthday, and my parents (who knew what was going on) tried to cheer me up with a long road trip. They didn't understand that I wasn't ready to be cheered up, so I was unintentially left alone to deal with my emotions while they enjoyed the vacation. The playlist I'd saved was my only outlet. This was one of the stories that stuck with me the most, and I was captivated. It helped motivate me to leave this individual, something I'm still thankful for. I'll never forget the feeling I had, listening to the audio for the first time while staring out the car window. I was lucky. I ran into so many close calls in which I narrowly escaped being lured, enticed, and raped. I had adults in my life who I could trust. If I stayed any longer, the anguish this relationship already caused me would have been much worse, and it still affects me and my decision making at 17. I come back to this video every once in a blue moon and whenever I watch it, I feel grateful and loved. Illy, you helped a little girl dodge a bullet. Thank you. ❤

I feel so sorry for this to happen to you =( I’ve been groomed by 2 people witch it is so awful to hear others who have ever been through this. Stay safe girl! ♥

I am. So. So proud of you, we believe you and love you sm you're so strong and being brave enough to share your story can potentially save an help alot of people going through this situation. Thank you so much ♡