How Men Know She’s The One 

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Usually when I feel “yeah, this guy is the one” it’s the beginning of 3-year therapy

1: He doesn’t care about other women 2: She makes him feel amazing 3: He is very attracted to you 4: She brings him peace 5: He enjoys her non- sexual company 6: He can trust her 7: He feels loved and desired

My beloved late husband asked me to marry him 2 weeks after I met him. We were married for 46 years. Raised 2 children. I miss him. Good marriage.

Agreed , My father knew my mother for 6 month and married her. They were married for 50 years before she passed away from Alzheimer disease. That's his forever lady.

Wow! My husband and I were in the same setting in college for a couple of weeks. When he asked me out on our first date, he said, “I think you would make a great wife.” (I wasn’t thinking about marriage at that time). That was 41 years ago. We just celebrated our 39th wedding Anniversary.

I didn’t know my wife was the one when we first started dating. But after some time, she became my very best friend as if she was a part of me and I knew I wouldn’t be able to live without her. I had to seal the deal lol

I watched this video a week before I met my partner. We spent the whole weekend together and when we finally said goodbye, he said to me, you’re the one… Four months later, I’ve been watching so many of your videos because I truly want a lasting relationship, and I found out he listens to you too😅 We’ve recently decided we are both the one for each other. I’m really grateful for all this advice you share. Your worth your weight in gold!! I owe my relationship to this channel!

Even as a teenager my husband knew. He knew within less than a month. We were 15. I thought he was probably wrong and that he would change his mind. He didn't. He really did know I was what he wanted in a wife for himself and in a mother for his children. He says I was unusually put together and grown up for our age and it was easy to see the kind of woman I already was. Also...that physical chemistry. It was and still is off the charts. He was right and never lets me forget it. 31 years and 3 kids later I am thankful he was so aware of what he wanted. He's a wonderful husband and dad.

He told me "you are beautiful..you have a natural beauty" wow. we have been dating for seven months. i am a 66 year old widow; he is a 66 year old widower.Yes love can happen at any age!

Ladies this is true. I was single in December and I have a ring on my finger as of this week 🥺 he’s a god loving, god fearing man and the love of my life. The biggest blessing I’ve ever received. We go to church every Sunday and Wednesday and do devotionals at night. Thank you Lord ❤️

as a dude myself i could say that everything this guy says is just absolute truth, the woman that i have in my life ticks all of these boxes and its kinda amazing how he actually nailed all of it. being with her makes me feel infinite, like it’s only me and her against the world. i want to be a better man a better person everyday because of her, i believe that she’s the best person in this world and she deserve nothing less than the best man also.

Here is a quick tip ...if what he is saying makes you angry, if it triggers you, you're not ready. I say this with love.

I'm shading tears nearly at the end. Isn't it beautiful to be found?! Congratulations to every woman that was found. To the rest of us yet to be found let's find ourselves and true happiness void of insecurity because probably that's why we are invisible

My husband told our coworkers and my step mom that I was going to be his wife the very first time we met. I didn't find that out until 10 years later. He was the best man, son, father , friend, lover and the ultimate husband and provider. He passed last year after 20 years of making me thee happiest woman ever created. Cinderella and snow white have nothing on me!!!! My Prince was designed by God and he was just showing off when he made my husband! Fact!!!!

A man will simply show you through his actions that you are the one for him, he will put you as one of his priorities, you have his undivided attention, and he’s actually follows through with what he says if he keeps his promises that means he loves you and does anything to make you happy. ❤

I’m so in love with the purity and the positivity of this comment section! Thanks for all the amazing stories guys.

I'd like to add something, from my own personal experiences (this is mostly directed towards the ladies)...from my experiences (many, it has happened time and time again for me, ive had many guys think i was "the one" and proposed marriage/were dead set on marrying me, so ive been seeing the patterns) a guy that truly thinks you are "the one" will NOT let your past sway him from viewing you as "the one" no matter what anyone says or what he finds out. The reason being....because he actually loves you at your core and genuinely likes the human being that you are. The guys that do change their perspective of you and "demote" you from being "the one" because of rumors/gossip/your past/for whatever reason 1) never truly liked you as the human you were to begin with and only liked the idea of you and what you could give him or how youd fit into his picture 2)have underlying control issues 3)have underlying self worth/confidence issues that need to be worked out (preferrably by himself). I say this because I dont want ANY women thinking they have to hide anything or fear what others will say when getting to know someone. Stand in your truth. I can say all this without even flinching or doubting myself because I know when I met my "the one " guy, I instantly knew that 1) i felt at ease and comfortable around him 2) it felt like meeting a soul friend that i was familiar with nothing was forced everything was very natural on both sides to the point where it was a lil freaky 3) the love i had for him wasnt unrealistic where it ommitted his past, or it didnt change upon seeing his "undesirable" traits, it felt easy embracing it with understanding that we are all human and we all go through life lessons (pretty or ugly) and that we all have conditioning or things to work through 4) i felt all of these things coming from his side too 5) him seeing my faults and mistakes or oddness etc actually made him see me fully and made him fall even more so for me 6) your gut just knows IMMEDIATELY like a sixth sense. You CANNOT fabricate it, you cannot replicate it, you cannot ignore it, it just happens and you are stuck sitting there like "oh shit" and "i know you" but also "i see you" and "i feel you" and "it feels like we could be best friends but there is chemistry and" ugh it's hard to put into words. It's just a calm knowing and it does exist, it's not a myth. So if you are unsure of someone, or they are unsure of you. Drop them immdeiately because you are wasting both of each others time. When it's right, it flows, and you just know. Anyways, just be yourself always 100% this goes both ways. If a person genuinely stops viewing you as the one, let them, cuz i can ABSOLUTELY guarantee you, you were both only meant to learn lessons and part, not growth with each other and fulfill your higher purposes with each other.

Yep my husband and I married 4 months after we met, he said he knew at first meet❤️ I think Men that are spiritually in tune know immediately.. Other men are double minded and wrestle with Logic.

1.Your true intention to become irresistible magnet 2. The more you need, the less you are likely to receive what you desire 3. Inner story should be changed 4. State from wanting to knowing 5. Negative vibrations should be removed. 6. Stop thinking about them all time and it will increase the desire for you for them. 7. Make them experience of the void. Focus on your energy 1. Be the best version of yourself 2. Be independent - learn to fall in love with you 3. Radiate positive energy. Eg , good things are filling my life today. Keep your thoughts positive 4. Develop the mystery. Like packed gift- create mystery of who you are, what you do, where are you? 5. Maintain little distance 6. Every single day visualize the outcome. Focus on two of you together. 7. Living your life on purpose. Write your goals down.

So true. Met my husband 2.5 years ago after 3 weeks of spending time he asked me to be his gf. We moved after a year and we just got married last month. He said he knew when he asked me to be his gf i was going to be his wife and he is the calm to my storm. God truly blessed me ❤

For women too, the right man will inspire her to change and evolve into the best woman she can be… for herself and her partner 🦋💜

I had just signed a 1-year lease on my new apartment when I met my future husband. We knew immediately we were meant to be married. My daughter took to him and his sons and it was so comfortable for everyone. He wanted me to break my lease, I refused to mess up my credit LOL. On the very day my lease was up, he showed up with a uUhaul truck and we moved in that day. We were married 3 Mos. later. We have been married 20+ years.

"I'm gonna keep her because I don't want anyone else having her" is another reason a man will choose a woman that isn't 'the one'.

This video rings true. My dad was a successful bachelor with no children up until 45 years of age. Met my mother, married her within 6 months, married for 25 years until he sadly passed away a few years back.

When my dad 1st saw my mother, he told her “Woman, I’m going to marry you.” & my mother started crying…..they’re were married up until his death {50 yrs later} my point is yes some men do know when they have found the one….. I loves your dialogues Sir

I met my fiance in December ..and two weeks after he was telling me he wants marriage one day with me and that he found the one. Two months later we were engaged and we are getting married in June. My mother always said when a guys knows he won't wait.....so true it's a classic!

The right man will communicate his vision and his feelings

My husband knew I was the one, within the first 30 days of dating. We were married within 11 months of dating. My past relationship was 7 yrs of time. Too much time. 😂❤

20:25 As my husband said he cut all his other ties he had immediately after he met me…He didn’t want Anything or Anyone to mess it up between us….17 years later here we are…♥️♥️

When HE KNOW, YOU KNOW too. It's a connection, deeper than anything physical. That's how WE KNOW WE'RE EACH OTHERS PERSON!! #Thankful #Blessed #Vibe

You are right Stephan, my husband started talking about marriage a month after we met and we have not even been on our first dat as yet. Needless-to-say he proposed to me on our first date and we are now happily married after 6 yrs.

My man told me he knew few hours upon meeting for the first time.....on the ladies part too. You will know when you meet your husband. I don't know how to explain. It's just the most calm relaxing feeling ever. You feel a sense of peace of comfort and peace when you meet the one as well for the ladies

My brother knew as soon as he saw her. They have been married for over 45 years.

I have studied multiple couples who have been married for years and the majority of the men always said they new day one or pretty quickly after meeting her. The women always took longer to realize he is the one.

Thanks, Stephan, I met this guy 3 months ago, and we both just knew we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. He asked me to marry him and I said yes.

My dad is definitely not the romantic type and he said he knew he was going to marry my mom the first time he saw her. They married in less than a year and it's been 36 years💚

You can see and feel it!!! Her energy and presence liberates you. You'll want to just do stuff for her ,especially knowing she feels exactly the same way

It's so true. I've heard this story so many times from almost all the long term couples, the ones who truly have a deep love bond, and this is what I hear. It's usually the man who knew the lady was the one he wants to marry, sometimes at first sight, sometimes within days or weeks. He pursues her, they get married and stay married. Ladies, if you ever doubt whether the man you like likes you the same way, try and move on. Sorry to say this, but keep your dignity by moving on. I say this because if the man really really likes you, you will never be in any doubt about how he feels. He will go out of his way to show you. That's it right there. Love God, love yourselves and show love to everyone and anyone who comes into your space 💖

I had found a man who viewed me as the one and treated me like the world revolves around me and he gave me everything I wanted and needed - but he passed away… He was literally my everything. Now I have to start over, hoping to find someone who will love and treat me the same or similar 😪

Trust and loyalty are important to me as well. That's security for me.

A Man can recognise a woman's value when he is secure in himself and understands that she is GOOD ENOUGH. On the other hand, sees her as valuable and worthy.

I was dating a man and we connected. We had a deep conversations. I was kind of pushy and he wasn’t where I am spiritually. But I fell in love. He was scared and not ready. People got in our relationship. He treated me better than any man I’ve ever been with. He walked away. He told me the timing wasn’t right. He was a gentleman. Didn’t really know who he was in God nor did I. He never promised me anything. I tried to rush God’s plan. I learned a lot.

It’s amazing to see all the couples who found their mate resonate with this! I love seeing positive outcomes! All though my love life just seem to doesn’t exist. I love how God placed me to be a witness to others!! This video has been a blessing for me and I’m grateful to be waiting with expectation. Thank you

Signs he found the one: He stops caring about other women; his attraction to you(look and attraction); he is in peace when she is around him(no drama; stress him out); Happy to be in her presence （he enjoys being around hee outside of sex; fun; enjoyable); he felt he can trust him(Loyalty; security); he feels loved and desired; pieces come together.

I’m annoyed that I waited so long on my ex to figure out what he wanted. But now I met someone that treats me how I always should have been 💕

The connection you speak of is like two magnets being pulled towards one another. In looking into the soul eye, there's a familiarity of feeling like you have known the person for years even in the first few moments of meeting. It's a beautiful encounter, that is sacred. Excellent work, as always!❣

That's true..True love brings you inner peace,calmness and i recovered from anxiety,stress just because of true love!!

I lived in Kentucky and he lived in Florida. We met in a FB 'group;. He contacted me and we started chatting - every day. I thought I was safe because he was so far away and I was seeing someone else but not on a regular basis. We talked about EVERYTHING! After about a month we knew we wanted to meet. He planned a visit, then it turned into him moving here. We were married August 31, 2022 - 13 months after we started talking. We are both in our 60's. True love can happen at any age. We both had been married before.

Women can tell right away that he is NOT the one…Then if she meets the man that has potential to be the ONE she goes into the mode where she begins to pay attention for any red flags 🚩, She learns about his communication skills, and his values etc…♥️♥️

It's a beautiful thing when a man sees a woman who truly loves him as the one ❤️.

Great video. Every point you’ve listed here is something my boyfriend of 9 months has said to me. (“I don’t want anyone else,” “you make me feel special,” “spending the day with you is more important to me than football”) etc. From our first date, neither of us were seeing other people, he was consistently straightforward with his intentions and didn’t play games. He has told me “I know I’ve found the one I was looking for,” but because I have been cheated on in the past, it has always been hard for me to believe that. I guess I figured he didn’t mean it. But after watching this video I have more confidence, because all his actions and words line up to the behaviors and thought patterns you’ve listed here. 🙏 I’ll post updates.

I met the one half a year ago and i can’t explain how I knew. I just felt it. I’m a young mom (20 years old) and always thought that I was going to be alone for the rest of my life because no one wants a teen mom. And then… out of the blue I met *him* the love of my life and the person I’m going to marry one day. It feels like I know him my whole life and i’m so happy.

My husband said he knew I was the one after our first date. Glad he kept that to himself for a while or I would have run for the hills. 🤣🤣🤣. Stephan is 💯. It doesn't take long.

One can discern the difference between deep attraction/interest for someone and being casually friendly. If your not deeply INTO someone, don't get romantically deep INTO the person and waste their valuable time

Everything you are saying is very true, that’s why I’ve learned it’s important to take your time and really get to know a person. Build a solid foundation first and assess how serious the man is about you before you give too much or put all your time and effort into one person who isn’t willing to commit to you or sees you as just an option. 💯

Thank you for that brilliant point of "the one" vs "who he chooses to be with". It's been on my mind for so long!

Man let me tell you, it took me a long time to find the man I’m with. More importantly I had to realize I didn’t find me yet until I started to look at the mistakes and thought process of relationships I put and choose for myself and dealing and healing from childhood trauma. I got to a point that I finally was ok being alone and enjoying life. My views on how I portrayed myself also changed. Then I met him and all I can say the one is out there. It’s refreshing to not have to worry and deal with instability and he’s right

I knew my husband was the one within a few months, and same for him but we ended up dating 3 years and we have been married this year will be 8 years! And I specifically remember the exact moment I knew he was the one and it was a time he showed me complete respect more respect than I had ever felt before in a situation where it wasn’t going his way and that actually ended up making it go his way just based off how he responded he made me feel loved and respected

I love the fact that you are so incredibly respectful in the way you share uncomfortable opinions. Thank you. 😊❤

*It's essential to understand how both men and women perceive the person they want to spend their lives with. Let's use this knowledge to work towards a love that's deep and fulfilling.*

I reconnected with an ex boyfriend after 20 years of being apart. We have both been in bad relationships in the past and also have kids with past partners. The relationship we have is amazing, he’s the only guy who treats me with respect we’ve been together almost 18 months, he opened up about how he feels about 3 months ago and he proposed last month. We have seen each other at our worst and have both put in equal effort to make our relationship work, we’ve both been through so much prior to reconnecting and we are just right together.

I love this topic. My husband knew I am the one on the first day we met. I also knew he is the one after a few days. We are strongly in love. We thank God for this far. God bless you Stephan.

Multiple men have thought i was the one way too early on when we were still getting to know each other. It made me see them as irrational and idealistic. Almost as though they were desperate and falling for an image of me, without knowing all the facts. It made me question their judgement, and thus I did not reciprocate the feelings. That’s just my experience as a woman.

Men Know! As women we hang in there for months because we really like him. Women have to learn let go and move on. Six months is long enough! He’s just not into you. What God has for you, is for you. He wasn’t the one that got away. He wasn’t for you. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🤗🤗

Some of these men will know she’s the one, but……some are emotionally scared & afraid of letting their guard down & some of us gets tired of reassuring him……so he needs to know & let us know or we’ll move around….ijs

That first example of how men can change their minds quickly after hearing rumors is EXACTLY why I cut men off the first time I hear something that I don’t like because they will not spare me so I don’t spare them in return.

Two men that I’ve dated divorced their wives within two years and came back to me. Of course my heart closed to them and it was hard for me to see them any other way and never took them back. After they married and would call me, I would always tell them to choose the 80 over the 20 and block their calls. I really wish men would use their hearts more when making these long life decisions. Time and true connection are both such precious things to waste.

Love your specificity & delivery; your ability to share real world examples and connect it with spiritual values! You are in your lane and using your gifts to make a difference! Go! Go! Go!

My ex and I had a great relationship, great love, great respect, great connection; with all this good elements, he sent me an email telling me he is marrying his ex 3 months ago. They from the same religion, more or less the same age. I am from a different religion and a little bit older than him. But even with the difference in religion and age, we were still great together. One week after the wedding, he was at my door crying, saying he made a mistake. I send him away, telling him to focus on his marriage and wife. Now he is pursuing me to be a second wife. As much as I care about him, I am not interested in that kind of life. I walked away, prefer to choose me. It still hurts, but it will get better. God is with me, always.

I’m already loving the first few minutes of this video!! It really doesn’t take a man long time for real!!! When you know you know! Thanks Stephan!

On the first date with my now fiancé, he spoke about marriage and family plans. Proposed 3 months later - I said no. Proposed 4 more months later and asked for my father's blessing soon after. On our first anniversary, we were actually engaged already. He had been in long term relationships and claims "but he didn't feel like they were ever really right".

OMG. This is so painful to listen but so enlighting...thank you. Is very important to know this from a man. 🙌

He flat out told me he wanted to marry me back in 2018. Yes, we're still together. But it's important to know that it was I that was the hesitant party. He wanted to shop for rings, but I wasn't ready. He's been patient, and I've asked him to be so. I'm ready now and will say yes when asked. There's no hurry when it's right. If they're deeply in love with you, they WILL wait. It should be known; he said, "I love you" first, too. He is worthy. Special! No regrets.

Love your realness Stephan. No lengthy intro, no video cuts, just straight into the unabashed truth. Thank you 🙏🏼

I met my husband at 16 moved in 3 weeks after meeting him. We have been together for 15 years married for 12

I don't care about him being attracted to other women/finding other women attractive, he just better have eyes solely for me ! 😆♥️

Some of us gets bitter with these men because we don’t have discernment & allows our emotions to get intertwined with the assignments. People comes into our lives for a reason, a season, a lesson, and a blessing…..we have to know which one ☝️ they serves

I'd love for more men to be this honest about the woman who check for them. Honesty IS king...

Great video 🙌🏽thank you for the explanation breakdown, women need to learn how a man thinks in order to bring clarity in any given situation. Stay blessed 💕

I'm currently with the one. We recognized each others souls immediately and fell in love. Last year I was in the relationship from hell that's how I found your books and videos which helped me so much.

When there is a connection, both man & woman would know & would feel in their heart.🧡

Thank you for this presentation. It gave a lot of my understanding. And it also allowed me to look back with my past relationships with honesty and insight.

I'm just in absolute awe with you right now! This is such good knowledge everyone needs to know. So good I immediately I clicked that button! Thank You for speaking the truth & putting it out there!

Often times we learn much later down the line that they were never the one to begin with.

Please encourage women to remove their ego before listening to your amazing advice. Everything your saying is spot on but some women will continue to create a narrative that fits their perspective. It’s so simple yet complicated because we allow our emotions in the mix but your thoughts are spot on and logical. You’ve helped me a lot! Blessings ❤️

Your info brings me SO MUCH PEACE and helpful clarity. What insight ! Thank you

As a woman, this is actually how I move. In every relationship, I thought like this and I moved like this. I’ve always been a practical person with dating. It’s not a gender thing, it’s a more mindset . I’ve dated men that moved like stereotypical women🤷🏾‍♀️ maybe it’s because I were a guys’ girl and a girls’ girl. #balancedbeauty

If a man ever makes a negative comment about you especially continuously. He's not the one. I have learned this about 12 years ago. I was close friends with someone and we took it further but I remembered a comment he made that hit below the belt. That set me off. I never dated him again. We were cordial a couple of years later but never dated again. I think any negative comments, constant criticisms, immaturity, arrogance, insensitivity you know they aren't the one for you. Its not the purpose and purity of what God shows you about relationships the goodness. When we experience the goodness, the great qualities, and joy. Then we know that this person is for us. When its genuine, someone with your best interests at heart, trustworthy, and true interests in you 100 percent they have the qualities of being the one. I would love to see you do a video or ask real couples on when women knew their partner was the one.

It doesn’t take long for a man to recognize when he’s consistently valued, respected and cared for.

Yes that's True it Hits Different. The Right Man Has to Encourage her and Lift her up and the same for him. A Special Bond is hard to Break.

I agree with you Stephan, my husband said I love you within a week of us dating each other then married 9 months later. I don’t believe there is a timeframe on when someone says they love you. Some people just know quicker than others. Especially men they know when that woman comes along that is right for them and wants to spend the rest of their life with. My husband said he knew right away and we were in a long distance relationship and I moved to his state to be with him 😊

Agree, with all your key points. Before, you find "the one" you must be able to recognize and distinguish what the one looks like. So in essence, we must know & discover who we are & what we desire. Otherwise, the one will come & we won't recognize that this is the one aligned with your path. Once, a man moves beyond superficial things in the relationship and evolves into a more spiritually "awakened" version of himself where connection, and values matter then he is more likely to recognize the one. When he has a purpose & a clear vision then he is ready to find the one. Women know they have found "the one" when we love their spirit, and the heart of the man. You feel drawn to them, and the love feels like an unconditional love. You essentially just love the essence of who they are at their core, and you just know. Excellent video, many great points, one of my favorites. Abundance & blessings to u. "When you find the one they touch you without touching you".

I was just having a conversation about this topic a few minutes ago with a friend!! Look at God giving confirmation! Thank you for letting God use you for clarification, and edification of the minds of women and men!! Thank you Stephen!

i'm a girl, and coming into this video, I knew he would say it does NOT take long for a man to realize she's the one. i also knew he would say that he can't EXPLAIN it, it's just something that men can figure out quickly. let me explain: in my teenage years my friends were literally only girls. the unfiltered conversations we had about men and what we imagined. i was always scared of talking to boys, and because i had NO IDEA how boys think and how their mentality is, i was always surprised or shocked at some things my friends told me about their boyfriends. completely went over my head, and i sticked to those fantasies i had without actually talking to boys. fast forward a few years, and after a HUGE hit by life personally that really broke me, most of my closest friends now are guys. i'm literally just one of the guys, i dress and i act like it. and they don't actually see me as a girl 😂 so they basically have unfiltered conversations about everything. one time they doubted if i was really trustable lol so they made their own group separately in the beginning, and i caught them. i didn't take it personally, i understood and said if it's uncomfortable, no harsh feelings. they actually really respected me for that, and since then haven't doubted me once. i've never given them a reason to. although i still don't understand some things biologically lol but i am aware of it, i could grasp exactly how guys think and where their mind can be in different situations. in my friends group now, if one of the guys says he's dating a girl and is serious, we can instantiy, INSTANTLY notice from afar how HE looks and presents himself around her, and can figure it out ourselves if she's right for him or not. granted there are exceptions, but honestly, not many. there's just something, SOMETHING that a guy picks up on through the very first few conversations with her and can instantly notice if it "gels" well with her or not. if he can actually envision something further with her. it's a hit or miss honestly, even i can't explain it, but i got the intuition for it. granted both times in my life, the age groups are different, but the fundamental nature of girls and guys doesnt really change. especially in their respective friends groups. even in co-ed groups, you got some things that a girl can't open up to with the guys in the group, and vice versa.

I guess I was never "the one". He finally got us counseling (after agreeing to it several times through the past decade) when he realized I didn't want to live with him anymore. Then he "fights dirty" during sessions. So happy for you ladies who are treated well in your relationships.

This is a great video! It doesn't take a man long to know if they want to marry you or not. I read a story about a Black man and woman who got married 3 days after knowing each other!! They have 5 children and have been married 35 years and counting! I was amazed and happy for them💙💙

This is exactly how it happened between my husband and I. We will be celebrating 3 years of marriage in august

I’m 31 and I really think I found the one and this really resonates with me. Just this morning he said he knew he we are right because I encourage him to be a better man and be motivated and productive in a way he got comfortable in the last relationship and started getting lazy and doing nothing. It really meant a lot to have him express to me that he was happy with me ❤

My father has been saying this for years...when you know, you just know! The first time my daddy met my mother at a spade game night in November 1978, he told his best friend, "She is the ONE and I'm going to marry that little redbone" and in April1979 he did just that!😉 And, yes they are still happily married and getting on each other's nerves but, they wouldn't have it any other way! 😁😁🤗