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Yet isn't it a blessing rather than a curse Knowing that person wasn't the correct one You are free & blessed, no need for healing The correct comforter will be the healing Kindest of regards
It definitely says alot about Icelanders that even after a divorce an expat wants to stay there! :) I hope your transition is as smooth as it can be, given the circumstances xxx
I'm sorry your life has been turned upside down you will find a new love eventually! Be strong ! And leave Iceland I think there's gonna be a bad earthquake there ok!
I'm a 72 year young man that is happily in love and married to my third and final wife. Life has all kinds of twists and turns which though not seeming to have purpose ultimately turn us into wiser people. I've been through the heartbreak and pain but looking back it was all good. I have not one single regret because to have regret is to not want to be where one is in the present. I would not change a single thing in my life because I found the most beautiful intriguing woman on this planet walking this path. So from me to you take some time to recharge the best in life happens when it's least expected. It happens we are coming to Iceland in October for a honeymoon we never took and thanks for all your videos which helped us tremendously!
I feel like this could have been written by my father 😅 He's 78. My mother is his third wife. He always says that, while there are things he could regret, ultimately it all brought him here, to her and to having us, his children, so he can't regret anything ♥️
While I’m saddened that you had to go through this, I’m happy that you’re both doing what you need to do for yourselves. As a black woman I’ve really enjoyed your perspective of Iceland, and I’m so glad you’re going to continue! Wishing you all the love and peace during this challenging time. Be kind to yourself!
@@prefixman I’m not sure I’m following your reply. Jewells was a long time friend, then wife. While one never knows the behind the door of a marriage- it never appeared Gunner was unkind. I hope you are wishing her the best. As PoC, sometimes we wonder if a breakup is due to this or whether there were other innate differences. I wish you and yours the best. And for Jewells, who knows-maybe a separation will allow the spark to rekindle. Or she may move on to a path that offers her more choices and love. Either way, whatever is best. Sending love❤
As a black girl, seeing you living in a place I didn't think 'we' would fit in, you've been such an inspiration and I've got Iceland on my bucket list because of YOU! All the best with the journey ahead - feel your feelings and allow the pain to do what it needs to do. You WILL heal ❤❤❤
When anyone tells me they are getting divorced, my first thought is congratulations. I've been through it and truly believe that a divorce is better than an unhappy marriage. It takes a lot of courage to reach that decision. As you move forward, I wish you healing, joy, and love--all in good time!
It is a sad thing to get divorce and a sad thing to stay in a miserable marriage. No winners at all. It is a new chapter in your life, just embrace it and move on. A failure is a failure. Nothing to be happy about. Take it as a lesson learn and just try to do what is best for you moving forward. I don’t congratulate anyone who decides to get married and I don’t congratulate anyone who decides to get a divorce . I congratulate someone who is just simply happy with where they are in life at the present. 😌
I kind of knew. Your whole vibe has been more like a single gal for a while. You're totally beautiful inside and out. I trust that you will find your forever. God bless you Jewells. Thanks for bringing Iceland to us. We love you!
I figured some people were picking up on it but I needed space to share it when it felt right. Thank you for your lovely comment and encouragement. I love you too! ❤
A Black Woman with dreadlocks moved to ICELAND at the time when you did I could only imagine the challenges you've had to face, I'm a black woman from the Caribbean who moved to the US in 1990 with dreadlocks, became an RN and was put through literal hell by most people almost everywhere I went, it's now 2023 and some of my bullies have past away and some have had dreadlocks themselves over the years......I admire your calmness, your resilience, and your beauty......God Bless🌹🌺🌻🍀🌹
Your true love is...Iceland. I can see how happy you are when you talk about the country. It shines thru. As for the future - keep your heart open to love. Good things will happen.
Nothing but respect and a warm heart for your decision to share this with us. You are a part of Iceland and I am so impressed by what you've built for yourself. I am sad for you that you are going through this but I am happy for you that you have grown from it and that you are staying in Iceland. I was in Reykjavík for the first time last Oct. and my taxi driver spoke of you and how he thinks you're a wonderful addition to Iceland. 🙂❤️🇮🇸❤️🇮🇸❤️🇮🇸
Praying for peace! I went to Iceland solo last August and was able to bring my sister’s ashes there. You helped me do that. My sister always wanted to go to Iceland but never made it. I started researching and came across your vids and began planning. I enjoyed myself a lot. Beautiful country and I understand why you’d want to stay 💜
So sorry for your loss. What a beautiful and thoughtful gesture for you to take her on that trip to somewhere she'd always wanted to go. I wish she were able to go there in life, but glad she at least could be there in death. Wishing you and your loved ones the best as you navigate your new life without her ❤
I'm sorry that you are having to go through this. You mentioned that you moved to Iceland for love (for a person), now you are staying in Iceland for love, of a people, the nature, and the country. I truly wish you the best during these very difficult time.
I’m so sorry to hear that you’re going through this! As a fellow American who came to Iceland around when you did, and have also stayed, I have found your positivity and resilience inspiring and I’m so thrilled to hear that you’ll continue the channel. Ég vona það besta!
@@genthom72 I had a job offer from a really supportive employer before coming here. The number of people who immigrate from outside the EU/EEA is quite low, and it’s very difficult without a job opportunity or marriage. Not sure how to answer, since for me the “process” has pretty much been the entire last decade of my life.
@@genthom72 If you personally are an EU/EEA or Swiss citizen, you can just move. If not, unfortunately, unless you have a child or spouse who is an EU/EEA citizen and willing to move with you, or is already an Icelandic resident, there is pretty much no option to come here as a retiree. Iceland specifically does not have an option for non-EU/EEA people to immigrate by investment or to retire. Edit: A couple European countries like Ireland and Italy will, under certain circumstances, grant citizenship if you can prove recent ancestors were citizens. If you were able to acquire EU/EEA citizenship that way, you could move pretty easily.
I've had a breakup in Iceland, I was hurt and feel your pain. I'm so glad you are really happy there. If you ever need a talk, I'm here. You are a sweetheart. 😊
I’m watching this from Reykjavik right now 😢. I’m so sorry this is happening but I know better days are coming. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. Representation is so important and you and your channel are a big reason why I came here and feel safe as a black woman being here.
I'm so sorry you're going through this Jewells. My sister told me that going through a divorce felt similar to a death. She advised watching comedies, surrounding yourself with a supportive group of people, reading self-help books on divorce, speaking to a therapist (if you can) and going out and doing activities and dating, when you're ready. You're going to be ok, wishing you the best!
Staying active and productive is the best remedy for yourself achievements. Split from my fiancee but I still traveled my own dreams I still chased, and everybody was still watching me. I don't care about the worlds trend
I just wanted to thank you for sharing your personal story with us. Your composure during the video, as well as your maturity, insightfulness, and gratefulness in spite of your pain, really struck a chord with me. Relationships, marital or otherwise, do change over time and that's okay. I feel like we don't talk about what happens when it's time to part ways and you've shed a light on this very important life change that will surely give others who are going through similar times some hope. I wish you so much strength and I will continue to support your channel and dreams.
Thank you, Alexandra. Yes, it can be so tough to be open about these topics and I hope, like you said, that it helps someone else. Thank you for your well wishes and I appreciate the support. ❤
Immediate reaction: I teared up watching this video as I imagined your pain and struggles as you remembered the immense joy and loss of someone you love. I wanted to reach through the camera, sit beside you and hold you through a good cry and some comfort food! Words of support and encouragement: First, you are such a kind and soulful person and I thank you for making the difficult decision to open up with us. The strength you've demonstrated is fully recognized and appreciated. You're inspiring! It seems you're already on the road to recovery. Thank goodness for your optimistic and resilient spirit!!! I wish for you more... more strength, more success, more beautiful surprises, more friends, more growth, more joy, and much more LOVE!! YOU'RE AMAZING!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
Such a brave video, blessings to you. I'm a real estate agent in the USA, what I noticed many times that after couples remodel homes, they often part ways. Its like something wasn't complete in one's life, that thinking changing the home space is what is needed, when sometimes its something quite different. Don't mean to be cryptic, but just an observation.
Thank you! That's super interesting to hear and I sort of wondered about that. I appreciate you sharing that about that correlation for some couples when it comes to remodeling their homes and eventually splitting.
Aw, Jewells, I’m so sorry that this has happened. Take whatever time you need, relax and regroup. Spend time with your family and friends;we’ll be here when you come back. I’m glad you’re staying in Iceland; we see how happy you are there. I know great happiness in on its way for you. Much love to you, my far away friend ❤
Thank you, Happy Mack! I have been fortunate that my family has been visiting me and that I have a great support system. I appreciate your lovely comment and sending lots of love to you too, friend. ❤
Nothing in the journey is wasted, Jewells. You are an inspiration and your authenticity is apparent. While this chapter of your life has come to a close, I am excited for the journey that awaits you. Keep shining.
Visited Iceland in Nov 22 because of you, wishing you all the best in this big life change and sending love and light from the sunny isles of The Bahamas!
I booked a trip to Iceland in a breakup frenzy. I'm going this June! It's partially thanks to you that I was fascinated by this island. So, from the bottom of my heart - thanks for all that you do, take good care of yourself, and may the odds be ever in your favor 🖤🖤🖤
You know what. I just had a break up myself and finding some comfort in the solidarity here. And you have inspired me. It always me intention to go to Iceland as soon as possible BUT with this relationship starting I derailed those plans. You have COMPLETELY inspired me and I'm going to research the best times to go to Iceland and our in my notice now. Even though I have no ticket and have no idea how I'll get the funds. But to be heartbroken and have a plan for travel than to be heartbroken with nothing to look forward to. Thank you so much!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I fell in love with Iceland when I visited last summer. Then I found your vlogs and have enjoyed seeing Iceland through your perspective. Thank you for letting us into your life. I am sorry this has happened to you. I am a little older than you, closer to your moms age and I can say from experience that life will get better. You are very beautiful inside and out. Take time off if you need it and we will enjoy your vlogs whenever you are ready.
I cant imagine how tough this was to record. Know that you have people out there that are praying for you and are there for you even if its through social media. What a beautiful place to be. There is so much beauty surrounding you, to escape to during the roughest times. It will get better, you will be stronger, and will find your happiness in one of the most beautiful places in the world. and I LOVE that sweater!
When I saw the title I had a feeling that’s what you were going to say. Maybe because my daughter has just gone through a divorce as well. (Late 20s, married 5 years.) She has been a rollercoaster of emotions. As I’m sure you are as well. Its comforting to know that your mom was recently there. Support is everything. Please remember that although you’re no longer with your husband there are people that have been and always will be in your life. Keep being you.
So sorry for both of you that it didn't work out. Having been through this i know how tough it is so just take things at your own pace and work your way to where you want to be in the future.
Growing pains-personally and spiritually-at any age and stage can be difficult, but you are persevering because you are patient, wise and compassionate with yourself. You are strong and positive and will always be successful when/as you grow. Stay upbeat. Best wishes.
I am saddened to hear this, I can feel your pain as a recently divorced 60yrs old black female. Wishing you health, healing, and prayer as you continue on life's journey. I will be visiting Iceland in October. Thanks to you😊
Oh no Jewells, I feel so sorry to hear about this. I wish I could give you a hug now! 😢 Thank you for sharing this with us. I'm happy to hear that Iceland will continue to be your home, despite what happened. I'm sure that things will get better over time. Stay strong! 🤗
@@AllThingsIceland No problem at all! It makes me sad to see you like this. I've also experienced this myself not that long ago. Your positive energy will guide you in the right direction. It sounds cliche, but better times will come! Just take your time and don't feel stressed about the digital world for now.
I, for one, am not surprised by this. Saddened of course, but not surprised. From the very first video I saw of the two of you together, it never seemed quite right to me. I wish the best for both of you and look forward to future videos about Iceland.
Wow Jewells, I felt your trepidation as you started talking, but for some reason you have had different energy for a while. Let me say that I have the utmost respect for your forthright display of transparency and authenticity. The reality is that no one can predict the future with certainty, so there is no shame that you and Gunnar chose to part ways. I wish I were there to offer a hug and a prayer(if you are open to that). I do pray that your heart heals in miraculous ways.....that serve as wisdom for you and beneficial testimony for others. The true beauty of your disclosure is that, in spite of your fear, you have literally taken a step in your own internal liberation AND by your example, you have freed someone else to tell their own story! I am beyond proud of you, Jewells. You are strong, perseverant and truly a deep reservoir of endless possibility. May your tears be sweet and your tomorrows be tantalizing! 🙏🏼🌞🌠🌈
Wishing nothing but the best for you in this new chapter of life that you are entering. I am glad you are surrounded with so much support and love. I am glad you will be staying in Iceland. I am so glad that wasn't jeopardized. Stay encouraged. We don't just care about the content you post. We care about you. I know I do!
Oh Jewells, my deepest sympathy, I feel the pain in your heart and voice. Please don’t let this life event dim your bright light! You are such a warm, beautiful, and creative being. This world needs more beings like you. 💎 Your videos inspired and convinced me n my procrastinating behind to make a trip to Iceland, one of my bucket list countries to visit! Sending positive healing energy your way and much love!❤
So sorry to hear of your separation but glad to know that you are still independent and will continue with your adventures and sharing your experiences as a black woman in Iceland. It is important to have representation wherever we are. My daughter visited a couple of months ago just for an adventure and it has made me want to visit for one too.
Dearest Jewell, just watched your video and I need to tell you that it is ok to have the feelings you are experiencing; and possibly many more. However, I still see and hear in your voice a kind, gentle, loving spirit. I am a 78 year young woman and a member of the divorced clan. We survived the experience and you will too. Write your final chapter to your experience and when your chapter is finished you will know. KEEP SMILING AND STAY SAFE. LOVE YOUR VIDEOS.
@@AllThingsIceland See you early July 2025----you are such an amazing spokesperson and resource! Thank you, you give me the confidence I need to experience Iceland on my own after losing my travel partner of 53 years----at 75 life still has forks in the road!
Oh girl! I'm sending you a virtual hug! I wish you the absolute best and I can't wait to see the beautiful things life has in store for you! As I said on one of your other videos, I love Iceland and I love the people of Iceland and I love that you have shared so much of Iceland with people because there aren't a lot of black women, like us, who know about the beauty of that land. One breakup doesn't stop you from shining and thriving. I can't wait to join you on your next journey in Iceland. Keep your head up! You're awesome!
@@AllThingsIceland - LOL! I corrected my typo (isn't/aren't), but I meant every word I said to you! When you share your life with others, it gets hard because you don't want to always share the pain too. Just know that we are with you & we're your community and we are here to laugh with you when things are funny, celebrate with you when things are magnificent and cry with you when things are sad! So, get your tears out, stomp around, be upset and then shake it all off and go do more fantastic things! You have so much life to live!
I'm divorced as well. I was not happy about it at all, but 2 years later I'm perfectly fine. I had to realize that there is a reason that the divorce happened. Some people are just part of your story and journey and you're meant to add a new character or experience to your story. Blessings to you.
I’m sorry to hear about your relationship not working out. Breakups/divorce can be hard. I did just visit the beautiful island a month ago and absolutely loved it! I did get to see the northern lights which was amazing. It is definitely a place I would love to visit and bring my children. Also, I am a black woman while my husband is white and I felt so comfortable in Iceland! Icelanders are definitely very nice and welcoming. I do wish you healing and peace on your new journey in life.
Many of us have been through the same experience so we understand just how difficult this situation is for you. Take care and do what feels best to you.
I am so sorry Jewells. I have been down that road of divorce and it is indeed painful. Allow yourself to move through all the stages of grief. Sending you love and hugs as you begin a new chapter.
It's darkest before the dawn, now's the time for you to enjoy the light that's returning into your life. You are a brave and intelligent woman, whatever course you decide to take . I'll be cheering you on.
Not easy at all. I admire your courage to call it quits, especially when you live abroad. I am an American living in France for 25 years, married to a Frenchman (27 years). I support you and send you positive thoughts for this new chapter in life. You're beautiful, remember that.
I am devastated that you are going through this experience. Thank you for all of your content. As a Black woman I have really enjoyed your perspective of Iceland. Because of you, I went to Iceland (came back on 8th April) for four days. I had a terrific time. I am wishing you well and a calm journey for the future.
As a single Black woman from the USA, with a son with a Caucasian man, we have been considering moving to another country. It's been a journey locating a country that would accept us, and where I would be able to financially support us. I admire your courage in moving there for love, and for staying there! ❤
Thank you for sharing the highs and now the lows of your personal journey with those that follow you. Sharing was an extremely brave, gutsy, open, and extremely considerate thing to do. Please take care of yourself and show yourself grace when needed.
I went to Iceland last year and as a black woman I found your videos helpful and interesting. I'm sad for you about your relationship ending... but YOU GOT THIS! Iceland is beautiful and so are you. Stay strong. Stay positive. I look forward to hear more from you. ❤
Thank you for your transparency. I can tell that you are struggling through heartbreak and pain while trying to remain optimistic. It's okay to be sad and to mourne and grieve this loss. Just remember...this too shall pass. You are incredibly brave to remain in Iceland during this time. Two things to encourage you: 1) You have no idea how you may be encouraging someone else who is also struggling through heartbreak. Your vulnerability is giving someone else hope and courage to continue on. 2) I visited Iceland in June 2022, which is why I know of your channel. My spouse and I had an amazing time. I was nervous about us being the only persons of color until I found your channel. I did not want to leave after our week there. Our trip was AMAZING. So...thank you for the encouragement and travel tips. What you do on this channel is not in vain sis. Stay encouraged. And again....this too shall pass.
It was so kind of you to share your life update! And I know this is a tough time, but I am excited to see you grow from here and keep sharing whatever content you want, from wherever you want! Thanks for proving that we belong everywhere!
I was recommended this video by the algorithm and I know nothing of your previous videos or life, but I subscribed so that I can follow Laing with this new chapter. I wish you all of the healing, peace and joy that is to come.
I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’ve moved to my partner’s country to be with him, and I’ve thought about what I would do if we broke up/if I would stay. And I think I would also stay…falling in love with a person is magical, but falling in love with a place is equally amazing 😊 Not to be cheesy, but you have such a beautiful energy and I’m sure great things await you 💕
My heart just sunk. I have binge-watched you all day in my preparation for a 50th Birthday Girls Trip to Iceland in two weeks. You have inspired me beyond measure and my friend even teased me about finding true love while there! I am also from New York, and I just want to give you a giant sisterly hug for just being you. Chin up! I know you are well on the journey to recovery. You are a bright light. May God order your steps. I have also rebuilt a life apart from a previous spouse. Cheers to NEW beginnings!! -A new fangirl
Wow, why am I just getting this in my RU-vid feed now? Sorry if I am so late. Hi and hello! I followed you for quite some time. You have been such an inspiration to me. For a hundred reasons, especially as a single African-American female sailing through life. I’m so sorry to hear you’ve been going through this behind closed doors. I pray you continue to heal. Exciting to see what your new journey will bring. Sending you so much love and prayers.♥️🙏❤️🌻
I admire you for your courage! You are an asset to Iceland so never leave! And when you have healed and are ready, they will be lining up for you hehe. I just got married yesterday to my long term girlfriend from the Philippines. Just love and honor yourself and things will fall into place with the help of your optimism. I hope you have friends you can hug. Be strong 💪
Your authenticity and warmth are what brought me to your channel, and you to model what being true to yourself is, thank you. Sending support, curiosity and compassion. Bravo having the courage to change! Bon chance dear one.
I am very emotional watching this, thank you for treating your viewers as close friends... From my own experience is even hard to speak in person with only one friend about such things, let alone in front of a camera for everybody to see. Respect!!! You are such a strong and amazing person!!! Wish you well in everything you do, and will be really happy for you to keep making videos, you are so good at presenting anything with that smile, and your calm and pleasant voice! I've loved Iceland before I found your videos, but with you I learned things about this wonderful country from a different perspective. Many hugs to you, my support and respect! ❤ Lina, Canada
Sorry for how tough this transition in your relationship must have been. So proud that you can fairly assess some of your gains- landing in a new home, new friends, expanding your family ties, growing into a terrific story teller. I know you will go forward with the same grace and wisdom you have so frequently shown the world through your posts. Sending prayers and love your way!
Sending you love in this new phase of life. Change is always hard but following our hearts will never lead us astray. Wishing you much success on this journey.
Sending you supporting thoughts:) My partner and I are currently living in the South of Iceland. I've been watching your channel since last year and they really make me want to stay here and integrate more. I really appreciate your videos. I wish you the best recovery from this difficult life event. Takk kærlega fyrir vinnuna þína!
For whatever it is worth from an old gal in So Cal I am so proud of how you live your journey. Thank you for sharing the beautiful country and all your experiences. I wish you all the health and happiness in your life.
It is so beautiful how you have embraced the exprience as a whole and see Iceland as your home, independent of the reason you initially went there. I love your attitude. As they say, "Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened." Keep on smiling. You wear it well. xoxo
Jewels, I'm so sorry to hear that you and your husband are no longer together. I can understand how hard and painful that is. You are not only dealing with the end of a relationship but also mourning the loss of what could've been. I appreciate your transparency during this time. But I also thank you for sharing so much of your life there in Iceland. You've shown myself and many others an amazingly beautiful country. And shared so much information about the truly resilient people there, their traditions, culture, food and so much more. And I thank you for that. I wish you the best as you navigate through this season of life. And I'm glad that you've decided to stay. I remember the video where you said that you "feel safe" there. And it's good to know that it's become your home. Again, I'm wishing you the best during this time.❤
Dear Jewells, I'm so sorry that you're going through this. I pray that you stay close to your friends ♥️ and that you spoil yourself!!!! We, your fans & viewers truly support you and wish the very best for you.💝 Take care of yourself & you might even consider taking a little trip to take in some new air! Have a great day. A sister in Spain. 💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐🌞🌟
I wish you the best in moving forward to your next life chapter. Thanks for trusting us viewers with your thoughts and emotions. You are amazing. Super happy you’re continuing on with your channel.
We thrive on change and I know you will use your strength to use these changes to your advantage. Looking forward to seeing more good episodes from you.
You have really been a part of my journey as an Icelandic expat, feeling sisterhood to you while you are exploring living in my strange native country. Realizing how all human experience is in essence the same but also so personal, it helped me to feel more at ease as a foreigner when things got hard. Hope your new journey will continue to be fruitful, authentic and loving. You are the anchor in your world and I’m so happy you feel at home in Iceland.
I'm very sorry to hear this news. I'm divorced and know how hard that is. However, I'm very glad that you get to stay in Iceland and that you found someplace where you belong. Some people don't ever find that, so I'm happy for you.
I truly admire your strength in sharing such a personal matter. I have been though the same many years ago and I can report life is more than fine! Stay strong knowing your are supported by your follows who love your content.
Hello there! I have no idea why this video was suggested to me, but I'm glad it was. I've never been to Iceland (I'm in Washington, DC), and would love to visit. As to the subject of this video, I pray for your comfort and strength as you get used to a different life dynamic. Please know it is okay to grieve what you once had, and then when YOU are ready, move forward to something new. God bless you!!! 🤗🥰🙏🏾
Hi. I’m glad you’re including us on your journey despite being happy times or sad. Take care of yourself. Looking forward to more All Things Iceland. 🥰
Read the comments to you. You sound like a brilliant woman. I had to give up a great dream I was for a long time extremely invested in. Letting go was really hard but once you live into your life you will realize it was for the best. I loved your comment about enjoying the creation of your apartment and then moving on...with. of course, lots more knowledge and experience. I'm an 81 year old white woman and when I hear you say how would Iceland accept a person like me, I sadly know you don't mean a beautiful, creative, extremely intelligent, positive entrepreneur but that you were sharing the color of your skin....isn't that so sad, honey! ❤ I'm going to subscribe. I know nothing about Iceland and figure you are the gal to teach me. Lots of love and light coming your way from North Carolina!
You shine so brightly from the inside out, and you have obviously done that while undergoing a painful life transition. Your authentic nature is part of your magnetism. Authenticity is becoming harder to find, so keep being this beautiful soul that you are. You are powerful and strong, an inspiration! I -- and I am sure many -- look forward to all you have planned for the future, and it is a gift to enjoy this through your bright and sunny-attitude content. Blessings to you!.
Ugh, this makes my heart ache because I just went through a break up last year and it still hurts because unlike him, I want to give my heart time to heal before getting into another relationship IF I do. I'm so sorry you have to go through this right now.😢
I’m GLAD you didn’t share until U were emotionally ready to talk about. Blessings life is a journey. Now you’re beginning a new one as this one is ending💕🌼 I married for the 1st time at 38 yrs old. Relationships are really hard for most people. I learned to not take things too serious. At the end we all have the same ending anyways, so I’m going to just be grateful and focus on the good things ☺️
Man, I am completely crestfallen (and of course it goes without saying this is not about me) but you are the 3rd couple of my faves who have split in the last couple of years. Having said that, I wish yourself and Gunnar light and peace moving forward. Also, I would not share any new relationship until you have been with them at least two years, (that would be my move, YMMV).
Sorry to hear this Jewels! I’m sure with your optimism and positive outlook on life will mean you will be absolutely fine. I’m happy that you both have come to a mutual understanding to do this for the better of both of you, it must be such a hard decision to make!
Your grace and positivity are inspiring. I hope it's comforting to know that you have people all around the world rooting for you! Listened to your podcast during both of my trips to Iceland; it elevated the experience by teaching me so much. Love watching your videos until I can go again. Wishing you the best!
Better to evolve with some pain than to stagnate in discomfort. You are just doing the right things for your age and circumstances. Best wishes to you!
I am very sorry to hear that you and your husband are getting divorced. I am divorced and even with the most amicable divorce, it's terribly upsetting and difficult. So much loss of hope for the imagined future. I grieved quietly within for two solid years, for so many reasons, and then the grief lifted somewhat. Strangely I'm living with my exhusband as his carer, but that's a whole different story. If possible it's important to salvage the non marriage bits of your relationship, and cherish those, while letting go of the parts which do not work for the long term. I also fell in love with an Icelander, back in 1988, while I was studying at HI, and we did the long distance thing (Australia & Iceland) for about a year, but it was unsustainable. He went on to marry a wonderful Icelandic woman, who I like a lot, and they have wonderful children. Happily we are all friends and that makes me feel very grateful. But I do wonder, what my life would have been like if I moved to Iceland to marry him!
Let me just say how amazing you are and how brave. To move all the way out there and to build a community of people that you feel comfortable with is inspiring to say the least. I’m also going through a similar situation and moved back with family for support. I’m wishing you all the best!❤
I’m sorry for what happened Jewels. I’m a strong believer that everything happens for a reason and I believe that you have much brighter days ahead. Stay strong!
Thinking of you and praying for healing and a wonderful new chapter that awaits you. Life comes in seasons and this is just the end of one and the beginning of a new one. Sending you much love.
