My narcissistic mother slammed the phone down on me then sent an abusive text. I replied in a tone that was kind and polite as I knew it would annoy her that I hadn’t been wound up. Once the two blue ticks showed she’d opened it, I blocked her. 13 months later she’s still trying to get revenge. Most days I don’t even think about her. 💁♀️
My mother does the same. I wouldn’t even flinch if I heard that she passed away because I have absolutely no connection to her. She fav who on her life and we suffered dearly for that. They should’ve fixed her mentally in self to get “fixed” and tied. She didn’t need the 6-7 she had even though some died she kept getting pregnant. Mentally ill people do NOT need any children. She makes everything about her, cries sick for 12-14 years straight, asks for favors or money, hasn’t worked in 15 years since 2009, she hated her husband but stayed married to him for over 20 years. Blamed him for her failures but didn’t do anything with her life/degrees. Now she wants us to give her money and “baby” her like she’s our child😂 I say “what about when we had no birthday parties/celebrations, no gifts, getting mad at me in 2008 for not handwashing her nasty dirty underwear then getting mad at me and trying to make me lose my job. I received a $75,000 settlement all she got was my old iPhone and a charger and phone case. Two years ago. Nothing more.
My mom was a narcissist, but she died before I found out, but I knew that she never loved me and I know she was super jealous of me. She really should be glad she did. I probably would do something to that bitch because you could’ve chose to love me instead of being the biggest hater. 🤬
Im sorry about You❤️🩹 horrible mothers who want revange always - my mother as well. I had moto accident and I was in hospital a few month. She didnt send me even 1 message. Nothing. She didnt care if I die there or not. Guess what? Some people noticed that and started to ask her about it. She answered that I am ok and nothing bad with me happened and that I do many bad things for her, I am so bad human….she was talking that when I was in hospital fighting for my life 😢 it broke me so much :( but videos like his help me a lot
After over 1 year of no contact and me not initiating contact with my ex narc I get a hoover text from him asking if I was alive. Like he assumed that 'the reason why he hadnt heard from me is because I was so distraught over losing him that I killed myself' lol. I was thinking as I read the hoover text "like dude get over yourself". Then I just blocked him without responding.
Haven't heard or spoke to him since this past July 4th! (ruined the holiday) went to my Nephew's funeral the following weekend (got there before I did)!! And this week I noticed a Chime notification from him on August 8th sending me a $5 SpotMeBoost! I sent his $5 ASS a Boost in return... I'm almost sure he needed it!!! Or was "heat checking" even though he can't call nor text me from his mobile number.
OMFG i got the same text too hahaha---- he got me good tho, 'cause I did reply. It went something like this: Him: Did you die omg i'm so worried? I heard there was a severe accident near your place. Me: No, I'm alive. Be good to yourself. Bye. Him: I already knew you were alive 'cause it wasn't even that close anyway like I just looked it up BUH BYE. I guess we all won 'cause he hasn't texted since so I'm chilling--- and in his pea brain he won so he's chilling.
Lee was right! He's always spot on! Blocked my narc ex. Been 4 months no contact before there was a bday party for a mutual friend. He was blocked on my phone but didn't know I had it set where my phone would alert me about messages from blocked numbers. He asked me if it was "okay" If he showed up to the party. I didn't respond. Regardless of me answering or not he showed up. Perfect timing! I was surrounded by 5 guy friends I hadn't seen in a long time (I'm former bartender) he came directly to me and said "hi" I was cordial and said "hi" back and kept it steppin. He tried to buy me a drink. Tried to buy me a shot. I accepted neither. I paid my tab and left. He proceeded to text me telling me I was "heartless" I was an "asshole to him" coming from the guy that said he didn't want to be with me and was done and never coming back. He couldn't STAND to be ignored! I Felt so POWERFUL in that moment! You can do this guys! Don't let them rope you back in.
I blocked him everywhere. Lmao the only place where he's not staying blocked is venmo. If I'm going to put up with BS I expect to be paid for it. These people have the most creative ways of reaching out to you😂😂😂
when i broke up with my narc ex, i eventually blocked him and then ran into him on the street and he asked me “why did you block me?” in my head i was like huh? why would i not block you lol?
@@alexisambitious He definitely went into a narc rage after seeing your FB status changed. He is probably stalking your friends from online too. They seem to think they can treat people badly and do other evil things and the moment they realize we moved on, It enrages them. You must document everything, because the police are rarely helpful in this kind of situation. Stay safe💖
@@abcdwasd7063 Stalkerware. He is upset that it is public knowledge that I don't feel the same way. The narcissistic injury is caused by unrequited feelings. His mistake was making his interest (obsession) so public. His goal was to isolate me and damage my reputation. He doesn't want me to be with someone else/have healthy relationships. I see right through him. But some narcissists don't realise they are damaging themselves in the process.
@@abcdwasd7063 BB. You're the only person this pathetic and obsessed. That would devote this type of energy. Ten years of pretending and wasting your time. You wanna spend another 10/20 years? Be my guess. If you were direct, I would have told you from day 1. You're not my type...but you already know that.
His paranoia kicked in when he found out where I was living in a boarding house and he thought I was remarried!!! 😂 I was only renting a room till I moved to my current location and awsome apt! He doesn't even know where I am. 😂
i went no contact with my Ex husband , i didn’t block just didn’t acknowledge or respond..he sent via text WHAT YOU BLOCKED ME !!! like i could if i wanted to lol .. i got a kick outta that. . now i just listen to They Not Like Us n it’s permanent no contact .. our kids are grown ,, so if they want him ok but me .. healing from the Trama my goal
Same, was accusing me entire relationship, I thought the same thing you are for a while, and found out later on he indeed was. Just never knew while we were together
Sounds exactly like my ex. Always accusing me of cheating and checking out guys or needing attention from guys. I’m thinking he is just projecting onto me what he is doing, I never found out if he was cheating but now I believe he was or Atleast was thinking about it.
He discarded me like trash. I doubt I’ll ever hear from him again. He was definitely a narcissist but he was never abusive to me. I’m still in shock a month later.
I'm so sorry you was treated horrible!😢My narc ex did me the same way. Its been 3 mos no contact now. It's hard, but what gets me to remain faithful in the no contact is the memories of how terrible he treated me.
He's been blocked over a year so he and his new supply follow me around town. I pretend I don't see them and head to the police station to see if they notice!
@@MentalHealness Thank you for the concern but the authorities are aware of what this person is up to along with my friends and family. I make sure to call everyone I need including DV centers and I get a lot of help. The words of encouragement from your videos help too! Keep up the great work! 👍
Blocked mine the second they discarded me after two years , and told me they had a date the next night . they came to my birthday party 4 months later while my new girlfriend was there the amount of confusion on both my girlfriend and I face
Number changed and social media not blocked- but deleted! I be dang if another one try to exploit me through using my social media to mirror and entrap me. Life has been sensational.
He was literally traumatized when I blocked him. I know because we met at a party, he didn't say a word about the block, he pretended not to know, because before that we broke up for days and he ignored me and texted me not to leave him. But his expression...I can't describe it.. and pain and anger, hatred,fear sadness...he sank
It could be your sister brother friend etc.these ppl are evil while trying to look so great....hardened hearts ..no empathy...disrespectfull...no accountability....rotten character...entitlement...control..manipulation...oh my stay away from these ppl...,dark spirits control them.silence is best.....dont waste time telling them how they treated you ....saying nothing is best.stay true to yourself be calm cool ...no revenge.😅
its crazy how this works. its like they have unlimited freedom to do w.e and they don't want you to move on. they make excuses. they even bring up polygamy. hell, i'd rather be single for a long time learn to love myself. my kids dad always felt like he had control until i got away. still think that til this day. i hate the fact that they cant grow up and take accountability. raising my 3 on my own and it is what it is. keeping that loser blocked and out of my way.
The most comically accurate part of this video is the narcissist really convincing themselves the ONLY reason for not being able to see someones content is because social media MUST be down. Like there couldnt possibly be any other explanation for it lmao
My Ex Narc Probably went straight into & attack the way he was stalking me I wasn't around to see it but my family told me he was doing all that fake crying & all 🤣😂
8:41 This is where biding one's time quietly with a bird's eye view is fabulous. ...my bird is a really patient vampire owl 🦉 😂 // Thank you for this message today, Lee! God bless you & Everyone seeing this 🙏💙❣️
… when his other exs get tired of his games he will come back around to you. It’s just a matter of time . Resist the urge to tell him off/curse him. Just block and ignore No contact … Trust me
My narc had no response after I pulled off in my rv to live elsewhere, but over a week later he had the audacity to ask me to go aquire his weed supply, just "one more time, please." I was 4 states away by then!!! Ummmm, NO!!!! 💯💪😊
He called me a scam artist once I told him I was going to block him. That insult was unforgivable and the last straw. After everything he caused that ruined our relationship. 😢(I’ve never scammed anyone in my life, nor would I want to)
It’s my birthday week and he is sooo mad because I blocked starting two weeks ago because of his awful behavior and mistreatment. I wanted to actually enjoy August and stop having to deal with a child in a grown man’s body. The guy is over 250 pounds and throws tantrums like a little boy. Gossips and begs for attention like a woman😬 had to tell him “it’s my birthday” and “it’s not about you and that I didn’t care if they go back on dating apps that I didn’t want them” the sad, defeated look on his face 😂 who in the world would want to keep someone like him. To try to “get me back” he controlled the money, refused to buy food/groceries for the house. There is still no water here beside the tap and he said “where’d you go? Who you’re with?” And I said “I am not explaining anything to a narcissist. I have nothing to prove and it’s my business.” He kept trying to trigger me I started laughing hence singing my favorite songs and I left again for two more days. I haven’t been home for two weeks😂 he’s so upset!😊
Literally just went through this. He suddenly reached out to me after years on a platform i didnt realize i hadnt blocked. Blocked fr now. A few days later he reached out from an unknown #🙄 I screenshot both attempts (for evidence)
I was asked, "Did you block me on instagram?" My response was, " Nope, I unfriended and unfollowed because you cheated and we're not together anymore." Silence then tears came in the my phone......if we didn't have a daughter together she wouldn't have received those words being told to her.
Hi Mr Hammock I know my ex narcissist was shocked when I did what he said he told me he didn't want my phone number or me I do believe that he was testing me to see if I would change my number so I did what he said 😂 I got the last laugh because I told him that I didn't need him 🎉❤ he shouldn't of tried so hard to target or play with me I'm not that 1 he tried so hard to get me back trying to go through my sister my daughter calling my daughter trying to get her to tell him where I was (NOT) another thing was he hated it when I would walk away from him but he said what he said and I bounced (SEE YA)
Thank you Lee i appreciate the videos you put out for everyone to see you are doing good work,teaching too with the videos! 😊 thank you soo much you have opened my eyes .
Just blocked her last night, Im done, I cant take these mind games anymore, I will not be seduced or trapped again and I will never unblock that number again.
I read that they don't want to be by their selves so they make reasons for u to stay like making u feel bad for them Also They want u to save them because they can't save themselves
Within 6 weeks of me blocking him - after giving him numerous chances and him cheating on me and being emotionally, financially and physically abusive, as well as having abandoned me a number of times during a 4 year relationship - he married someone else! I know he did it to 'get back at me' but the reality is, it set me free completely!
It's the cutest thing to watch. I didn't block him first. But I unfollowed and unfriended him. He lost it and started playing on my phone. I cussed him out, and he blocked me. It was so cute. Then the fool still finds a way to contact me. It doesn't matter through who. Some narcs talk tonyour business partners, pop up tonyour family. I've experienced it. It's tragic.
Lee, been following you since goin no contact almost 3 yrs now and why do I think of him everyday still? Im still solving mysteries 😢. Hate going to my hometown now because of the trauma...but I'm in a better place just wanted to know will he ever get out of my thoughts/mind? 😢
He's steady creating new Facebook acts and I block them all...just the everyday movie slides that replay constantly it's crazy...am I the narcissist? 😂 😂 only kidding
Hell I blocked my own narc step father. The funny thing is according to other family members he thinks there’s something wrong with his phone because he can’t contact me 😅.
I met a girl, connected with her, she devalued me multiple times, I found out she has NPD very quickly from past experience, I forgave her behaviour because it was caused by her disorder and I blocked and walked away. End of story. Don’t ruminate on it. Let it go.
@@jogriffiths5766 I know it’s tough… but when you can look at it as their disorder causing their behaviour due to their horrible trauma as a child… and not that they are doing everything intentionally to just suck you in and then abuse you for years. It helps. It’s the narcissism that makes them do what they do, they don’t do it intentionally per se. They do know what they are doing but they simply can’t help themselves. They have to live with it for the rest of their lives, we can walk away at least.
They act like they dont care but secretly become your stalker. Try to punish YOU for having enough of THEIR mind games. I deleted every social media account. She will never hear from me again 😂
When I blocked this narcissistic I knew. They ended up creating twenty different social media accounts and trolled the heck out of me on Facebook. Luckily they don't know my twitter or other social media accounts names. Just my Facebook. They gave up on harassing me after they realized they weren't getting a response from me.
-I blocked him, few hrs later he’s parked on my street(in a different car), sat out front for hours..just watching. He said I wasn’t home..but he sat there..waiting to see if he another guy was at my house. He would always want to strip me completely..even if my lower half was removed, everything had to come off & if not he would take everything off himself. Hated it..
When I discarded him I went NC and blocked him. He went CRAZY. Calling me blocked, from different numbers, and kept leaving me messages to my blocked folder.
I hope he does think it was someone but because each time it was. 😂 Soon as he told me he was seeing someone else because I was “rejecting” him I headed right out. ✌🏽
Mine told me he hoped I die of cancer smfh. Been 10 months I changed my number about 2 months in and the thing I am still having a tough time with is the guilt and shame of ever loving someone like that. Literally grossed out by it.
The weird part about this is when I blocked them it’s been 8 months w/o blocking them and one day I woke up and felt the need to block them and literally , it’s like they felt it and I received a no caller id and this time they actually left a voicemail . Out of all the times they were contacting me. I was like did they feel me blocking them or what 😅😬
Hi Lee. I got a question. My ex was a perfect narc with a complete delusional mind (he always said he is so sexy while he doesn’t have fit body, handsome while he isn’t at all, believe that girls love him cz he is perfect,he thinks) and a pathological liar ( he said he owns properties while when i asked him to show me he got angry and offended 🤦🏻♀️) Would they feel shit when we call them out or going no contact hurts them best?
@@MentalHealness I’d really appreciate a post geared towards narcissistic friendships, most videos I see are catered to romantic relationships so I can relate but not fully yk?
Bro, Mt ex 'best mate' has come out of the woodworks now they broke up with their girlfriend. They punched their girlfriend but am playing the victim. I haven't talked to this person in years and now they're looking for supply they're trying to hoover me back. But they said that before I stopped talking to them that I choked them? Wtf! I did not choke them. I called out their DV in front of everyone at the pub (which everyone hated me for because so called friend played the victim about what an asshole i always am to them)and that story has now turned in to they came home from the pub and I choked them. Do they actually belive this happened or is this them trying to control the narrative? I'm 99%sure it never happened. And thanks to you're channel (and others, plus therapy) I can name what's happening. The pub dwellers are all flying Monkeys and im sure my 'friend' is an undiagnosed, vulnerable narcissist with overt and covert traits. Maybe a bit od ADHD and Autism rolled in but it's hard to distinguish. They're high functioning alcoholic too..
I had mine go down a bit differently and I am still seeing beyond crazy(we belong to the same archery club and are officers so kind of have to deal with the physical presence, not so much communication). After the hoover attempt I was done and stated I am blocking you on everything and I am done. Turns out already did the smear campaign to "justify" her reasons but it was to friends I have known longer and they asked cause they were legit concerned about me, so I did expose her. Tried it again but had the messages. Then started the even crazier behavior. Mental break downs, her previous bf who I feel bad for now cause since I can't be contacted she went to him and he has hit me up asking what to do cause she is hoovering him now again, and going nuts. I said leave me alone and gonna block you. Have to do it. Now he has and everything is good again. For now.
