9 Signs You're In A Fantasy Bond, NOT Love 

I'd like you to cover more on verbal abuse and how it'll affect you in adulthood since verbal abuse can cause stuff like depression, anger issues, and anxiety

Im an INFJ, but still suspicious if i am an INFP. Could you make a test for it please?

Anger Issue :D

Personally I’ve loved all the videos I’ve seen you guys posting lately. Love this channel :3

I'm enjoying there being less sexual related topics

FRRR

Same 😭😭

Trust that I've been watching psych2go since middle school. You must trust you'll get used to the pain of reality. Lol

Same…

Right 😭

3:02 you avoid conflict

Empty happiness is one I feel to much, not that I'm in any relationships though 🫤

Thank you 💙

Thank you!!😊

Thank you 😊

Well, now you can begin learning how to form real, meaningful bonds and eventually experience real love.

@@elvinfp peachy. What the point in doing anything though Knowing everything I do for her has been a facade Some of my best changes came from the idea of eventually changing enough to where I'd be with her Knowing this is all a ruse, now what. There's no point in taking care of my body. No point in running for class president. No point in going out for sports. What am I supposed to do without any motivation?

​@@Dastormlive for you, not for her.

@@normanclatcher hmmmm We'll see

@@Dastorm Do it, dummy~ Have your 'revenge' be that you're genuinely _happier_ with yourself for moving on. I'm in the same boat. Finally taking care of _myself_ in ways that I *would've* been doing _all this time_ if _someone_ **(cough cough **_Mom)_**** would've let me do from the start. Codependent women _(suuuuuck)._ My best revenge? Heal myself. 😁 And I have courage and confidence in _you_ that you can figure out how to do the same. Stay open to possibility, and let _real_ love in when it presents itself.

Glad we released at the right time! If there's another you'd like us to cover more on, do let us know! :)

I just dream about MONEY and my HOBBIES . . . Totally HAPPINESS

Yes, everything in moderation.

That last part got me.

Self centred narcissist.

have a look into attachment theory. It deals with the things youre speaking about

​@@emmaboyett8667 ah right. I forgot about it. I shouldve looked into it before this. I have an anxious attachment style and from how he acts, he may have an avoidant attachment style. I guess we dont really match. Thank you for this!

If you shed tears and he did not respond with concern for your feelings this is not the man for you. Again if you shed tears it is because he crossed some important values and that is a major red flag! Never betray your values for a relationship.keep your dignity you be grateful later.

Fr 😂😂😂

That was a mood

People don’t like being and vibing alone because for a very long time being alone = is viewed as a something negative and being with someone = something positive or seeing as a happiness. But strategically, and demographically, for centuries, men and women were encouraged to live together simply to have children, that is to say to put more people in this world ! It took centuries after some people began to see that happiness depends on each person ! Even nowadays, the mentality of some people in society does not yet change on this subject and thinks that living alone is depressing or negative, etc because there mentality and the perception of each person are different ! There will never have videos that will encourage people to live and vibing alone in an advertisement for example and seeing as happiness. I’m starting to see little by little in RU-vid videos but it’s very rare ! Most videos is how to be with someone, or like this video fantasy bond, or you have to breakup with your bf, blah blah blah . . . How much you see people very desperate, lunatic, delusional from nonsense thing . . . And think that living alone and vibing alone are the same as loneliness . . . (Which is completely different) The reason why they search some people or feelings to complete inside them . . .

Thanks so much J1!

same.

Same makes me more comfortable

Sameee!

That's fantasy not love 😅

real.

Thanks for being here! How do you like this topic so far?

@@Psych2goIve always loved your videos that covered the topics of love and so far I like the video. Keep up the great work! :3

Stop being so insufferably superficial and shallow.

@@MichaelF-cc8ri You think? Well, I gotta say. I can't do that instantly. It needs process, and it's gonna take a long time. Got it? 😊

Take your time and watch it again. You may want to write down the "pro's & con's" of your relationship. 😊

Thanks for your love!

Thank you!!

This is Amanda Silvera 😊

This means a lot! Thank you!

Also, (im just watching the video and adding more), it does seem sometimes my world will revolve around him and i may do some of my hobbies less but he notices and also he gives me time to make music, write, and do whatever else I do. He also has his own hobbies and we compromise tons to make time for work, hobbies, and eachother. We spend a lot of time talking but never get bored of eachother. Yes, we are both obsessed with talking to one another but we both still have our own things, and share them with eachother. We even write together.

Very true, it's a strong, self made drug, it's like fear, it protects you in many cases.

It means so much to us! What are your thoughts on this topic?

Psych2go thank you for always being here whenever I had doubt about relationship and everything your knowledgeble videos are always come to educates me and informe me about various things that I can't even know before that's help a lot for me for everyone ❤❤ and your voice always my family girl I wish you happiness 😊