I've realised what it is about your content that I enjoy. You have a different way of looking at things to most people - it's refreshing and much more positive
no woman is going to like the guy she is dating to text her every couple of hours or even every day. That isn't how women remain attracted to their lover. Not at all. Predicability and constant contact kill attraction
Hey there, thanks for your comment. Understand where this comes from as we've seen what other dating coaches advise, but this is not our experience nor a strategy we recommend, for a few reasons. Firstly, most people we speak to are looking for emotional security and consistency/appreciation/feeling chosen. If they are attracted to other behaviours and dynamics it is usually because of past trauma and subconsciously replaying past, negative patterns that feel familiar, despite not being what they want. We usually help people overcome these issues! Also, connections need trust and safety to flourish. Playing games may create mystery and make us feel like we have the upper hand in the short term, but damage trust and safety in the long term. Thirdly, feeling the need to play games is not a confident mindset because you're basically telling yourself you need to play games for someone to see you as worthy or valuable. So if someone wants to play a game, we ask them - what kind of person do you want to attract? What dynamic do you want to create? How you want to see yourself and your value? And recommend approaching dating based on the answers. We go into this more here - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-2fMJJH-awGo.htmlfeature=shared. Sam @ CATCH.
@@catchdatingofficial it isn't a dating strategy or a game. Living your own life without "checking in" every few hours is healthy. And not hearing from your boyfriend or girlfriend all day long or for a few days is what makes seeing them again such a pleasure. Again, it is healthy.
@@lessons8708 Agree with this! If you aren't replying every few hours because you are genuinely busy, and reply when you see it, that's not a game. If someone only replies every few hours or days to create attraction, that's a different story!
