How To Apply MBTI and Typology To Dating or Relationships 

Great video! I'm not particularly interested in dating just yet, but I do find your videos informative and well-reasoned. I look forward to reading your articles :) Cans I ask where exactly you publish them?

So many of the love/life essences stated in this video I've came to realize myself in the past year or so. It felt soothing to hear someone else confirming that. I'm INFJ, 4w5, with Socionics IEI-1Fe. After not re-testing for almost an year I finally decided to re-take the MBTI evaluator but this time I took the paid qualified one from the original MBTI website. I still got INFJ with moderate preference in all of my 4 functions. At least I know for sure I'm INFJ now, I hope haha! My Enneagram archetype is supposedly 461 The Philosopher and that makes me to often question myself 'Who am I?', have moments where I fully know myself and what I want to do & be in life and then other times I'm completely in doubt. Anyway, I'm trying to figure out if a counseling session on dating would be something I'd benefit from. After being single for almost 3 years, 4 months ago I ended up dating/followed by getting together officially with presumably an unhealthy ENFP, 2w3 guy. Well at the time I didn't know he's unhealthy, neither did he. Everything was amazing at the beginning with him, we held the same values, interests and really complimented each other in the areas we were different. The reason why I decided to so out of the ordinary for me to trust him and get into a relationship so fast with him, something I of course ended up deeply regretting. Then 2 weeks before we actually broke up upon his request (yes, I got dumped), he completely changed. Went super cold, apathetic, unfocused. He had some pressure at work he was trying to initially use as an excuse. On the day we split up he admitted to some major stuff he had been hiding from me the whole time which have actually gotten in the way for him. I felt betrayed and both sorry for him, truly cared for the guy despite the fact I had gotten lied to and was the one being dumped. In the end of the whole thing he said he wants to and it's okay to keep contact. He referred to our situation as 'right person, wrong time'. So we kept in touch over the Christmas holidays with text messages here and there, last correspondence was in mid-January. I didn't really do something outrageous afterwards or pester him, but he ended up blocking me on all his social media. As a result I felt like a complete fool, betrayed and disgusted. What remains though is now I'm questioning myself, am I the one doing something wrong dating-wise. After I waited for so long to meet someone I'm truly interested in and connect with but it ended horribly, I ask myself am I ever going to be able to indeed find such a person again or will I somehow ruin it again. Is it me? Was it the guy? How do I confidently and bravely acquaint new guys without the feeling like I'll be let down soon enough? I have to agree actions do speak louder than words. But not only that, consistency with this regard is what matters even more. Your partner might be very giving of you at the beginning, keeping their promises but what I learned with my past experience is that you need to wait out more and see if they will be like this in a longer period of time. I hold the belief that once you get into a relationship, that doesn't mean that you should stop trying and get too comfortable and negligent of yourself or your partner.

What are your credentials re. MBTI/Enneagram/Socionics?