How to approach without being creepy

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I get a lot of questions from guys who find girls trying to get away from them immediately after they start talking to them. The reason for this is there approach is not good. In this video I tell you how you should walk up and talk to a girl. It took me practice to get it right but it basically involves not coming in too strong or too hesitant.
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@AnonCitizen000 4 года назад

Hit the nail on the head. None of my friends believe me but honestly in a club if you just approach a few girls that you’re actually interested in just approach them and make small friendly talk, tease them a little for a minute or two then just make a excuse to leave. If she’s interested she will either come back and find you or put her self near you. If not you’ve lost no more then a minute or two of your life

@dolphins_and_manatees5960 2 года назад

So true

@fuzzypanda1684 Год назад

I've been to clubs hundreds of times, and that hasn't worked once lol. If you talk to a girl, flirt, tease her whatever, then leave, I've never had her come back up to me. I've gone back up to them later on, but they're usually pretty uninterested by then or have already found another guy to leave with.

@TheSingleGuy 5 лет назад

It's like the difference between being needy and showing interest

@markbennett5812 5 лет назад

TheSingleGuy the whole practice things sounds like what I’ve been taught as harsssment. I’ve been taught in my classes at school that if you mess up you are a predator and shouldn’t have a professional job and should be in prison. That if you walk up to someone and they didn’t want to talk or you accidentally creeped them out you commited a human rights crime( no I’m not trolling, I had to seriously go to the title 9 office for asking someone for notes in class and I wasn’t even intending to hit on them and only talked to them because the professor told me to ask them. All I did was ask “ excuse me , the professor told me to ask you to borrow note from the last class I missed because I was sick”. She didn’t respond to me. Just got up right when I finished saying that. I also got sent to title 9 before as well because I said to a person I didn’t want to talk because I was sick in class ( that was apparently considered discrimination)

@TheSingleGuy 5 лет назад

@@markbennett5812 That sounds retardedly harsh. The sad thing about schools and the media is they are not here to help you they are here to not get in trouble with parents and fulfill their own agenda. Don't listen to them, listen to me, I am here to help you. I have approached thousands of women and pissed some of them off but I have NEVER gotten in trouble with the law. You'll be just fine man, just give yourself permission to fuck up and don't hurt anyone physically.

@southerncaliforniafreedoma4968 5 лет назад

Hey bro I'm planning to go to a nightclub next Saturday by myself give me some good advice what should I do because I'm planning to get myself a girl by the way I like your video awesome work👊👊👍👍

@DavidCardamoneNinja Год назад

@@markbennett5812 says in the Bible if one wants to make friends one must be friendly

@markbennett5812 Год назад

@@DavidCardamoneNinja I try to be friendly with people but I probably come off wrong due to my disability

@bullfrogboss8008 5 лет назад

Also if you're coming too ugly that also makes the approach creepy

@nwobhm8914 Год назад

As he said in the video, you’re physical looks almost certainly won’t creep her out unless you’re REALLY ugly. So bad looking that it’s extreme and unusual basically. Most guys aren’t THAT bad looking.

@plethoradulcet Год назад

then don't approach if ur "too ugly"

@jzeus9842 5 лет назад

man you're the realest of all these "dating coaches" out there

@TheSingleGuy 5 лет назад

Haha thanks man I try and make my advice actually applicable for people

@mietoe7582 4 года назад

Also check out based zeus

@SimplyNow 4 года назад

I guess u never heard about Alpha Male Strategies...shame, coz this SingleGuy is blue pilled as fuck.

@blackout2430 4 года назад

Mie Toe no

@Petra999 3 года назад

@@SimplyNow lmao ok bud

@jaspergabriels8933 5 лет назад

My biggest issue is always the first 10 minutes to get them keep engaged and keep talking and get them into you until they start investing in you..

@TheSingleGuy 5 лет назад

If you are relaxed in your approach then she will relax too. That's a good place to start

@bullfrogboss8008 5 лет назад

If it's only ten minutes, then you're doing great anyway

@nobodysperfect06 5 лет назад

It feels or seems the margin for error is much larger on a guys part than a girls part when it comes to the seduction or attraction process

@jeffherrington 5 лет назад

Definitely for sure, probably because guys in general will take what they can get and not be selective like women in general.

@blackout2430 4 года назад

Jeff Herrington Not at all. I haven’t even slept with that many women in my life because I will not waste my time with a woman that I’m not attracted to. Never understood why guys will fuck porkers and sevens just to boost their numbers and ego and then lie and say that they were hot chicks and we all know that they weren’t

@nobodysperfect06 2 года назад

@@jeffherrington Probably because it only seems that it's guys or men that can screw up an interaction but not women

@HYCbruno 2 года назад

You mean narrow. Also, water.

@princeolifestyle 5 лет назад

Great video, if she has the option to leave or not, she will definitely feel more comfortable.

@wiskrzysztof 5 лет назад

I stopped watching your videos lately, but i was like "Yup, this is the one for me!"

@TheSingleGuy 5 лет назад

I'll bring back more of the practical advice in the next coming videos

@Christian23724 5 лет назад

This is probably true of what I'm doing wrong...I took a bootcamp with probably the best in the world at this (RSD Derek) and his instructions were to open strong, square up, etc.

@almondyesterday1337 4 года назад

basically she is always right and he is always wrong until she says otherwise. Same msg in all videos

@studybooks3395 Год назад

all this seduction gurus sell that crap mesage

@moncorp1 4 года назад

I don't waste time. I just ask them straight off if they want a shot at the title.

@stevenlee578 4 года назад

Yea this guy really does care about us guys

@Kid871 5 лет назад

Great vid man you seem alot more authentic and not arrgonant like other pua

@TheSingleGuy 5 лет назад

I like to think its cause I had a good upbringing.

@RajveerSingh-xw4nl 5 лет назад

Get Evil Stifler on

@fazebot2405 4 года назад

Look for the third wheeler girl 😂

@TheDarkstarsk8allday 4 года назад

Your videos are great bro

@arc6144 5 лет назад

How does one become secure in their self if there's always room for improvement? What does it actually mean to be secure

@TheSingleGuy 5 лет назад

You can be confident in who you are but know that you could be better

@russbg1827 3 года назад

I've pretty much cracked this. Basically prolong the approach as long as you can. Give her time to look at you before you start talking. Make it funny. if she's standing, hover your hand over her shoulder for a few seconds before you tap on it. Stair into space and don't look at her until you start talking. If she's sitting, sit down next to her in a comic slow motion manner and let out a fake sigh. Stair straight ahead. After a few seconds, turn to her and look shocked. Gasp "I didnt see you there" "Hi". This works almost universally. They'll walk away sometimes but usually they won't.

@charlessmith263 Год назад

Additionally, men: treat the first encounter with a female stranger like you are a schoolteacher meeting up with a child. Avoid even the "good touches" especially on the one-timer on female strangers, because even an innocent touch (i.e., a pat) could be perceived as potential "predation" (or "creepiness/neediness") to her, and that woman will just bolt away--and you are dumped just like that. Instead, start with your mouth doing the touching without touching--and try to do unique openings without those "lines". That is the way to avoid creepiness. Then let the lady leave after a few minutes after you connect with a casual conversation, exchanging business cards if you need to when it is all over. You can begin "good touches" on the second encounter especially when the chemistry is right and the reciprocation is perfect, but not until then!

@mopbrothers Год назад

If a girl is with a group of her friends, how do you approach her differently than if she was by herself?

@joseGarcia-lf4es 5 лет назад

Keep giving us that game

@clownworld4655 Год назад

My issue is not knowing where I stand with a girl I’m courting. If she doesn’t show clear signs of interest I nitpick all of her actions and assume she’s not interested as the slightest sign. I fear being seen as creepy and over pursuing far more than rejection, especially as a physically intimidating guy

@gambit_toys6554 4 года назад

Practical advice without all the fluff.

@rickvangils100 5 лет назад

How do i have a decent conversation with a girl in the club? The music is so ridiculousy loud that you have to yell into someones ear and even then they can often barely hear what you're saying. It makes me so uncomfortable that often don't even end up doing it at all.

@TheSingleGuy 5 лет назад

Hey man check out my video on "how to get girls in loud clubs." You can talk to girls in areas of the club that are quieter like the lounge and smoking sections. Also if the music is loud try speaking louder from your stomach and speak SLOWLY too

@doomster2914 5 лет назад

"square up bro"

@TheSingleGuy 5 лет назад

after they are more comfortable

@wizard1370 4 года назад

lol

@marceezy6983 4 года назад

I've noticed when I workout in the gym with my tank top some girls look at me .I have a body like Spiderman not skinny wimpy Tom Holland but from the 80s comics but I don't have game

@D0N_Nadie 4 года назад

I relate to that mate, when I lift weights I get real jacked and bitches look at me but I got no game or luck either, in my experience is a thing of luck because even though I'm not lucky with women I have had a few dates cause I have tried and some have agreed to date me but not as much as I would like to in terms of quantity while I see other dudes get girls like flies on shit, it's a thing of luck partner, is just a matter of accepting it and carry on with it

@elmalanmalan2175 3 года назад

I'm good looking man but I guess my problem is that I'm very intense and put a lot interest on the woman from the beginning. I don't know why they found me creepy.

@justinchan6594 5 лет назад

You open by calling her a pollywog

@uzo992 5 лет назад

This seems like a lot of work

@lxrdxrist 5 лет назад

Yea the more you do it the easier it is

@Petra999 3 года назад

@LEO2001 wow

@uzo992 5 лет назад

what if you are creepy just a creepy person, how do you come off not creepy?

@hg8301 4 года назад

Fix yourself or be creepy forever

@gug8774 3 года назад

not ur fault

@JesusFChrist666 4 года назад

Is this jokim Noah’s little brother

@TheSahil360 2 года назад

A lot less ugly

@jeffstone7912 4 года назад

What do you do if she makes fun of your man-bun? 🤔

@alexc08 4 года назад

I got so much ass with a bun so mad I cut it

@imranshaik2282 3 года назад

this is all good and blah blah blah until you see the girl and your heart beats and you forgot about yourself

@TheDarkstarsk8allday 4 года назад

How long have you been in the game for?

@herip1949 3 года назад

Don't be a simp,if she ignored you or rejected you,move on don't waste your value in wasteland

@enniswhalen2428 2 года назад

OR, JUST WAIT FOR WOMEN TO APPROACH, TO MAKE SURE THAT THEY ARE ACTUALLY INTERESTED . . . . .

@clownworld4655 Год назад

Unless you’re a super high value guy women will VERY rarely ever approach you. Hell you even have a solid chance of living your entire life without being approached

@enniswhalen2428 Год назад

@ cw46 - Look around you. Can you now see why guys are looking to make CERTAIN that the women are interested in them? What do you want to see ?

@clownworld4655 Год назад

@@enniswhalen2428 keep waiting for that girl to approach you bro 💀 have fun with that

@enniswhalen2428 Год назад

@ cw46 - You can put your agenda aside for a moment, but I'll play . Best introductions come from family and friends , involving people who are actually INTERESTED, without the 'games' . If you want it some other way, "BRO (?) " , no one is stopping you , so "have fun with that " . . . . .

@SPACEDOUT19 4 года назад

3:20

@DavidCardamoneNinja 3 года назад

I find this interesting. Back in the old days people had cocktail parties at their homes and invited everybody and people just talked to each other. The 50's and 60's cocktail party were social events and people socialized. It shouldn't be too hard for people to socialize with each other. So what is happening? Now, in the Millennial times, people in extremist groups have created propaganda jargons and set-ups to re-frame a situation. What looks like a normal social situation is now labelled 'creepy', by feminazis and far-right far-left sexual groups who are trying to sabotage heterosexual interactions. Of course, there is a wrong way and a right way to do things, but the 'set-up' caused by propaganda jargons is making heterosexual interactions more difficult than they are. Being 'set-up' re-frames scenarios in different ways and creates a feminazi theater. This means that the feminazis are taking the heterosexual interactions into their feminazi theater, out of the heterosexual theater.

@sealofapoorval7437 3 года назад

Here's a protip: don't be this creepy

@SPYCONAgentDebonair 3 года назад

@@sealofapoorval7437 This is all bullshit. The KGB and other foreign spy sleepers do a lot of propaganda, social media, and PSYOPS to undermine the quality of life of American freedom. This is one of them. Its all a 'set-up". If you are NOT a child molester or a rapist or a murderer, then you are NOT creepy. Thats it. All this judgement over nothing. If you don't deserve judgement then you don't deserve it. Non-Creepy people are Non-Creepy. THey don't need to be seen as creepy by all this nonsense people do to over-exaggerate things. Its bullshit. Bullshit.