How to Avoid a Bad Relationship According to the Bible (19 Relationship Red Flags)

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@lynyu5673 5 лет назад

I admit I have all of this characteristic . I am praying that God will change my darkness heart and teach me to be more like him.

@carmenseguridad7105 4 года назад

Amen. Same here. We can overcome together

@Sidney051 4 года назад

@Jocelyn Gardner I would like to encourage you. I know how you can overcome all of these negative characteristics and it’s not difficult. Please bare with me. I can be long winded but I will try to be as brief as possible. Jesus said whoever sins is a slave to sin but whom the Son sets free is free indeed. Jesus was saying that because every person that has ever lived and that will live in the future has sinned, and because we have sinned we are separated from God, the giver of life. We have to be freed from what the Bible calls our sinful nature. The sinful nature are the characteristics described in this video. Jesus said whoever he sets free from sin is truly free. I will tell you how you can be free from your sinful nature as well as free from the condemnation you may feel because of your mistakes and failures and sins. Jesus said whoever believes in him passes from death to life but whoever does not believe in him stands condemned already and Gods wrath abides on them. The key to being free from all of these horrible characteristics described in the video is you have to be set free from the power of the sin in your life that has made you a slave to repeat that sin and mistakes over and over again. The ability to overcome sin comes from God himself. It comes from his Holy Spirit. Jesus said that in order for a person to enter the kingdom of heaven or even see heaven you have to be born again with Gods spirit. Without being born again by Gods spirit you cannot see heaven or ever enter it. You stand condemned in your sinful nature and you need Jesus Christ to free you from that sinful nature which is powerless to sins temptations. Sure without the Holy Spirit you can do good for a day or two but what always happens? You return to your sins again to repeat them over and over again. The problem is not the temptations. The problem is you do not have the will in your sinful nature to continually fight off these temptations. You actually enjoy certain sins that keep you in bondage like a slave. You need to be freed from them by Jesus Christ. You become free from every sin you have ever committed in your life when you truly have faith in Jesus Christ. See many people claim to believe in Jesus Christ the person but what they have never truly done is truly believed in their heart all their sins have been forgiven by God because of what Jesus Christ did on the cross. Jesus said when you believe in him you pass from death to life and every sin you have ever committed and will ever commit in the future is forgiven. God takes your sins and separates them from you as far as the East is from the West and God remembers them no more. God wipes your slate clean and you are no longer under Gods wrath. You become a new creation in Christ Jesus and Jesus gives you his Holy Spirit which gives you the spiritual power you need to resist those temptations that you use to struggle with so much. Also when you become born again spiritually God changes your heart and gives you a new Godly nature that desires to serve him and obey him. The proof of being born again is the infilling of the Holy Spirit in you. It’s called the baptism of the Holy Spirit. John the Baptist said “I baptize you with water but one is coming after me who’s sandal straps I am unworthy to untie and he will baptize you with the Holy Spirit.” John the Baptist was talking about Jesus Christ and he was saying that Jesus Christ will give you power to overcome sin when you receive the Holy Spirit from Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ gives you the Holy Spirit when you repent of your sins and believe in Jesus Christ in your heart. The moment you have truly believed in Jesus Christ as your savior and believed in your heart that Jesus died on the cross to take your sins that you have personally committed and you believe that God raised Jesus back to life and that he now sits at the right hand of God as Lord of the heavens and the earth your sins can be forgiven and are forgiven immediately never to be remembered any longer. You will be born again and as long as your faith was genuine and you have repented in your heart of your sins you are born again. If your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and savior is real you will follow Jesus Christ and obey his commandments. Jesus said if you love me you will obey my commandments. Just remember though. You don’t get born again by doing good works. You can only truly come to God and be saved by believing in Jesus Christ and repenting of your sins. That means giving up your sins. It doesn’t mean you’re perfect. Nobody is perfect. It just means you trust in Jesus Christ for salvation and you commit with all your heart to follow him and obey his commandments and love him. Jesus Christ is the Lord of the universe. That’s how you overcome sin. Jesus said the flesh is weak but when you let Jesus Christ live in your heart, and reign in your heart, and lead you, all things are possible with God. Jesus said all evil thoughts and actions originate in our hearts. This is why you need to be born again by believing in Jesus. Jesus changes your heart and forgives you of your sins when you believe in him as Lord and savior. Jesus promises to give you eternal life when you believe in him. That’s all you have to do. Do you believe truly. Ask yourself if you have truly believed all your sins are forgiven because of Jesus Christ.

@davidskeete5166 4 года назад

@@Sidney051 thanks for letting THE HOLY SPIRIT use you...a child could understand how you said it..the world complicates it.so most won't understand..Be Bless and stay saved .IN JESUS NAME

@Sidney051 4 года назад

@David Skeete Thank you for the compliment. I appreciate that so much.

@benjamindelgado7555 4 года назад

Amen

@SophiaTRKF 5 лет назад

2 Timothy 3: 1-5 1. Lovers of themselves - relationships should be about mutually self sacrifice 2. Love of money 💰 3, Boastful - let someone else compliment you 4. Proud 5. Abusive 6. Disobedience to parents 7. Ungrateful 8. Unholy 9. Without love 10. Unforgiving 11. Slanderous 12. Without self-control 13. Brutal 14. Not lovers of the good 15. Treacherous 16. Brash 17. Conceited 18. Prideful 19. Lovers of pleasure than God

@tessack2777 5 лет назад

Lucky duck thank you my friend☺️☺️ be blessed in Jesus name

@tiffytoo 5 лет назад

Ugh oh.

@anthonyloveriza2791 5 лет назад

10* Unforgiving. Godbless!!

@SophiaTRKF 5 лет назад

MeltyouDAZ thank you. Updated

@truecolors2604 4 года назад

Lucky duck oh my god my ex had all of these! 🤷🏻‍♀️

@AnthonyMartinez-jg8lo 4 года назад

All the bad qualities you've listed here all resemble me. I'm very humbled and sad. I've been blind for quite some time now. All glory to Jesus Christ and the father!

@jp-ez1rt Год назад

Same here , I need to improve but the question is how

@Blk_tape_ang Год назад

Read the word of God it helps so much and give your life to Christ he is the way the truth and the life

@sonia626 5 лет назад

I recently broke up with someone who had most of these qualities. God revealed this and I realised I couldn't have a future with him. I'm praying that I'll meet the right guy one day. Thank you for this, it's very helpful advice!

@JYO2023 4 года назад

I’m giving up listening anymore about relationships. Dating today is to complicated today. Have to give it to God.

@delishme2 5 лет назад

Mirror mirror on the wall.... Often these wonderful video's don't just help us navigate relationships with others, but allow us to see what to be mindful with ourselves. There are times I cringe and say ouch... Yep I'm guilty of doing that sometimes.. But it's never a bad thing, I welcome the opportunity to grow in Christ and become the best version of myself I can be. Thank you once again, spot on. 🙏

@jai5531 5 лет назад

Thank you for your Godly wisdom! I am blessed from your ministry. My heart was broken after being in a 5 year relationship. A counterfeit was sent while my heart was broken. He was a non believer, but my emotions were deceiving me. I prayed and God released the relationship. "Above all things, guard your heart. The heart is deceitful above all things. Who can know it?"

@chrisbrow5467 5 лет назад

I think God has brought me to this video, I have gotten out of a 6 year relationship which I was engaged, I am ashamed to have to admit this truth, but I am guilty of 19 red flags of this video and I am submitting myself to Jesus and I don't want to be the man I used to be, and sadly I'm learning this now to become a better man and to learn my lessons even though it was tough to watch this and I have lost my fiance, but I seriously believe I was to watch this, and I gave my whole heart to Jesus and I trust him as my lord and savior. I am ashamed of who I was because I lost the most amazing woman that God had blessed me with and I live in regret today and alone and now I lost her for good because what I've done and I was not living with God at the time , I pray earnestly to be better than I used to be, God bless you and may God bless your family and for helping spreading the word of God to help people like me to learn and to walk with God and be protected by our lord and savior Jesus Christ.

5 лет назад

"RUN FROM A NARCISSSIST RAGE PERSONALITY "💯💯💯😈😈😈💩💩💩🐐🐐🐐🕵🕵🕵

@Justadudeman22 3 года назад

Yep

@naz-nazneen886 5 лет назад

🙏🏽 God forgive me, certain family members & past boyfriends crossed my mind as these were mentioned. I forgive them in Jesus name.

@courtneykirk478 3 года назад

Amen, Mr. Mark. Keep God and Christ on your mind and in your heart. Many of us hear you.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 3 года назад

Thank you and God bless!

@TheHelenhunter 5 лет назад

Coming from an abusive relationship, this was really good. I think we had all the bad stuff you mentioned and guess what's the reason: a Godless person.

@MyPasture 5 лет назад

You are appreciated more than you know! Thank you for following what God has led you to do.

@veramariecano289 5 лет назад

Give all the glory to God and God alone thru Jesus Christ!

@goosebumpsk 5 лет назад

Thank you for more practical advice around scripture based red flags for relationships. Very helpful for me and to all. God bless :)

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 5 лет назад

My pleasure John :)

@gabrielreinhard2714 5 лет назад

Hey, I have watched 2 of your videos, How to differentiate God's Voice and yours and the other one is How to know God is calling you. Now i know i'm a bit off topic, but i just want to say, God speaks and called me through his work, God gives us what we need not what we want. I trust in God when it comes to the stuffs regarding what i will eat and all of my needs. So many things that God has done to me, as an example when i was in highschool when i didn't have the money to buy any of the books, my mom prayed and outta nowhere there's a Teacher called me and gave me almost all the books that i needed, i know its God's work. Another example is when i have no food to eat about a few weeks ago(i'm in the Uni now), and once again i saw how God worked, He gave me food through my friend, even today He gave me food(I prayed the Prayer that Jesus taught all of us in the afternoon) when i don't have enough money to buy food. God will never give his Son or Daughter stones to eat, instead He will give us bread, and from now on i know that i have no worries about what i should eat for tomorrow and what i should wear. Our God, Jesus Christ Bless you all.

@nelsoncouto4042 5 лет назад

Love your ministry. Peace of Jesus, from Brasil.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 5 лет назад

I'm so glad you are enjoying the content!

@claudialu 5 лет назад

Brasil ♥️🌱

@samanthers 5 лет назад

Thank you so much for your videos. I'm praying that God leads me to my future husband one day ❤️

@kimberlyflowers921 5 лет назад

Knowledge is power! Continue to teach in His name🙌🏽

@jesuslovesyou4659 5 лет назад

I cannot add enough thumbs up on this video! Thank you for you effort in preparing this!

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 5 лет назад

I'm so glad it was helpful!

@jackjones3657 5 лет назад

Wow, what a great video, loaded with biblical wisdom. Thank you.

@JayJ111 5 лет назад

How about someone who continues to gossip behind your back and report privacy in the relationship to everyone and anyone than laugh and lie about it. Thank God he continues to show me. God bless you!

@leticiac.s.6218 5 лет назад

Wow! My relationship was a mess and everything that I would complain about is there on the list... the weird thing is that the person was actually responsible for bringing me to your channel... Thank you so much for opening my eyes to see to the truth. I still pray for him to change. God bless!

@stephaniekaymarie4 5 лет назад

Really enjoyed your video, perfect description of my ex husband, an evil narcissist. Thank God it's finally over😊

@dahna4822 4 года назад

Wish I knew This Years Ago But Bless God I’m Learning Now!🙏🏽 Amazing & Needful Info💜#Wisdom

@harmonmusic 5 лет назад

Thanks so much for these videos! I've learned so much from your biblical discussions concerning relationships on this channel! Right now, Im a protestant at the Catholic University of America and its been a very eye opening experience after stumbling and finding my way back to absolute truth. Even though I might have thought that the person who I almost dated was the one, God revealed to me that she was only interested in herself and pleasures rather than a relationship with Christ. Like you said before, "God won't bless you with idols," Ive learned to be content with Christ alone and to have complete faith in his will. May God bless you! -Garrett

@AnaPRose 4 года назад

I think these are all great. I'd also say, it's good to keep them in mind for friendships too. 🌹

@trishg8852 5 лет назад

YES I agree! Well-said! Thank you! Its very helpful to be aware of these things. God bless 🙏 your ministry. 😀

@coreybrescher4416 5 лет назад

Its simple instead of looking for the "perfect" one , I work on myself and the one will come

@olengndiango 5 лет назад

Thanks for sharing brother Mark we are learning a lot. God bless you all.

@lanag9318 5 лет назад

Thank you for this helpful advice based on the red flags in relationships from scripture as this has truly been so helpful to me as i love God and believe in Him with all my with all my heart . May the good Lord bless you richly brother Mark and your family always. 💖💖

@migdaliamojica165 5 лет назад

Amen, 19 flags. I love the way you brought to the light the word and teach the message that God put in your heart. Your growing in your ministry beautiful.I've haven't seen too many people in this generation that teaches like that. It's a very clear message.wich people need to hear with all the great advice given to them as well. I thanks God for his word and may God keep blessing you and your in a very mighty way. These messages are always a blessing to me.God bless you.💛

@ericae6611 5 лет назад

Thank God that I ran across this channel! The way you present this information makes things so easy to understand and receive correction for my life. Thank you!

@kyshamwandawiro734 5 лет назад

This list has opened my eyes big time. It has confirmed that I made the right choices in the exes that I left. Also it has eliminated ALOT of people that I had interest in and also some who were pursuing me. Thanks Mark. This is INDEED your calling!!!!

@newlookzone6902 5 лет назад

Thank you so much for this. I knew a person of this type but l thank God for protecting me.

@sirenamontreala.k.aelibatt4699 5 лет назад

Thank you so much this is so helpful now that am going back to leadership 😊💓 God bless😊

@rachelelouis3612 5 лет назад

The first time I saw one of your video I felt they were inspired by God word. Sincerely I'm feel fulfill by every one this. May God still inspire you to help others and give you all you've always dreamed of In your ministry. The crown of life my best wish😊.

@nicky1682 5 лет назад

Priceless INFORMATION.. 🙏🏽

@sashac02168 5 лет назад

This channel has blessed me.

@aren960 5 лет назад

Amen Amen and Amen!! Thank u vry mch Mark..God bless

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 5 лет назад

I'm so glad it was helpful :)

@catherineachibile3234 5 лет назад

God Bless u more....wisdom is speaking pay attention

@natashajohnson321 5 лет назад

Great teaching Mark!!!

@Godistheanswerministries 5 лет назад

Thank you. Great information.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 5 лет назад

My pleasure :)

@amandalee3948 5 лет назад

Thankyou this was so helpful bless you brother ❤️

@TheGlossyLife222 5 лет назад

WOW! Thanks for sharing!!!

@marthag2424 5 лет назад

Thank you! It is the best advice 😉👍

@ernestleong476 5 лет назад

Wow, you are so thorough! Thanks and God bless! :)

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 5 лет назад

My pleasure! I'm so glad it was helpful :)

@wilsonwaigwa520 5 лет назад

Absolutely true.

@divinefemininegoddess5348 5 лет назад

Love this , thank you💗

@Brianna-yh7iy 5 лет назад

Very good video, Mark :)

@mariaglover4202 4 года назад

This was really REALLY helpful. Thank you!!

@e.turn.ot.e9850 5 лет назад

Just say "No"

@ronaldblunt1477 3 года назад

Yes I still need deliverance in a lot of these characteristics 🙏🙏🙏

@destinyakhigbe8663 3 года назад

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@shimontamar2043 2 года назад

Brilliant Pastor Mark , Thank you very much!

@estherjoseph332 5 лет назад

Thank you , I sure this with my children, thank you Holy Spirit thank you man of God

@lorilepore6435 5 лет назад

This was brutally honest but very beautiful. Thank you 🙏

@Gentile3234 5 лет назад

THANK YOU MARK‼️. IM YOUR NUMBER ONE FAN‼️ THANK YOU FOR YOUR BEAUTIFUL WORDS‼️ 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️‼️ IM RUNNING AS FAST AS I CAN WANT TO RUN WITH ME? SMILES. GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS‼️

@michellestorz6179 5 лет назад

It's called being narcissistic

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 5 лет назад

Thanks for sharing

@christophergaribay2777 5 лет назад

Hello Michelle

@annabellouise9375 5 лет назад

Your videos are just great

@carolynbohannon4602 5 лет назад

hey. i sure dont see any unforgiveness in these comments!!!! praise God. . he can heal our hearts. for we have ALL SINNED and fallen short of the glory of God. if u want to avoid ask the Lord for discernmeny

@annabellalea6979 4 года назад

Great list! Thank you 🙏

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 года назад

My pleasure!

@brendajones9941 4 года назад

Thanks Brother

@bonniehuff3513 5 лет назад

Love your video's

@eddie90059 4 года назад

Powerful message sir God blessings on your ministry

@karenliez 5 лет назад

Thank you

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 5 лет назад

My pleasure :)

@ronaldmartino2610 5 лет назад

Truer words have never been spoken. 32 years later every single one of these traits came to the surface. To use the word blindsided would and could not describe what came to light. "Seek ye first the kingdom of God" there is a safe place when this happens and developing an intimate relationship with my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ is and was the only answer. When I should have been devastated by what happened, God gave me a peace that surpassed all understanding. Thank you Jesus for pouring out the multitude of your mercy on me. My life for you. I still pray for her and always will but putting him first was the best thing I could have ever done. Thank you Jesus. This is one of the best videos I have ever seen. May God bless all who have experienced this and may he pour out his mercy on the offenders. I forgive. In Jesus name with Thanksgiving and praise I pray, Amen🙌

@JM23007 4 года назад

The video I've been needing for so long... I checked off on almost all of those red flags. Got a lot of fixing (with Jesus) to do on myself... Thanks a lot man. Now I see why a good relationship hasn't come by. I wasn't ready, and would've badly hurt some other soul had I gotten in a relationship. Good thing God withheld that for my own and the others good.

@ANuStart8 4 года назад

I think this was one of the best videos.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 4 года назад

So glad you enjoyed this!

@esceecana3291 5 лет назад

All these qualities reminds me of my ex boyfriend. Totally a religious hypocrite. Thank God He saved me from him. Had a really painful experience from him. But God healed me from being broken emotionally and spiritually. 😊

@SwatchMeCrochet 5 лет назад

Since most people watching your videos are single looking for a relationship, have you ever thought about doing an online mixer?

@sixteen.candles.4644 5 лет назад

Whats an online mixer?

@SwatchMeCrochet 5 лет назад

@@sixteen.candles.4644 really just a feed. Like a list of questions Mark could post and females answer on one feed and males answer on another feed. Then the opposite sex can reply if they are interested. I've seen it done on Facebook before. Name, age, location, and then whatever else might be useful, interesting or fun...

@helenlhocker 5 лет назад

2sd Timothy 3:1-5

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 5 лет назад

God bless

@mariesavannah2369 5 лет назад

good advice yet its all up to us to put into practice what God want us to do so we dont have to suffer the consequences

@trush8496 5 лет назад

AMEN!

@lilymonet9702 4 года назад

Just remember, not only do these things apply in. Intimate relationships, but any relationship, as they are all very toxic traits.

@ruffydebaba7283 5 лет назад

Very good video. Praise Jesus Praise God ❤

@jannyamhere4350 4 года назад

Am praying 🙏🙏🙏 to embrace and inculcate good traits so as to be compatible with my spouse

@shanebekker7114 2 года назад

That was a brilliant revelation of the checklist we can regularly make throughout our journey on earth in relationships as a single or with someone as much as with family and the church. Our hearts true nature is revealed and humility has to be adhered too. "Jesus made himself of no reputation, humbling himself, taking up the place of a servant , being obedient, even to death on the cross." Basically we need to learn to do this. This is a life-tool we all need to have with us. Thank you Mark for sharing this with us.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 года назад

So glad it was helpful Shane!

@jennyyan3406 4 года назад

AMEN！感恩

@ronaldbrooks4599 5 лет назад

This was very helpful and also caused me to look inwardly to see things I need to repent of

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 5 лет назад

I'm so glad it was helpful :)

@adrianantoniotec 3 года назад

I feel ashamed, sad and extremely fearful cause I caused damage to the ones who love me. I’m in the midst of a long trip in a bus feeling deeply disappointed of my “walk with Christ”.

@Justadudeman22 3 года назад

My old friend has EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. Praise God HALLELUJAH! I pray for him though. It is very sad. For he will never know beauty that is love in Christ Jesus . And love in general.

@ron6126 5 лет назад

Amen.

@kg7439 5 лет назад

Its definitely the last days... and people love to discredit the bible... smh These are LIVING words 🕊🕊🕊

@sonicahonorio9412 5 лет назад

Amen

@esischuber4335 5 лет назад

Hello which bible do you use? Can you please write the chapters you read in the summary? Thank you so much.

@storfrassin 5 лет назад

May Yeshua help me get better. May Yeshua help me to learn to forgive more and control my tongue. I pray this in Yeshuas holy name amen

@TheCatD 5 лет назад

I avoid all these types of people. This one was a no brainer for me. lol

@lijokgeorge7094 5 лет назад

Amen 💞😇✝️

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 5 лет назад

God is good!

@heliaalves9062 5 лет назад

What a great piece of advice! I'm so blessed by your videos. Thank you.

@gracemensah5785 5 лет назад

You preached to my soul. Thanks a bunch. Please, which Bible version were you using in the video? I would like to get one. Actually I have mobile one, CEV. Is there any mobile version of the paper form you were using?

@epep50 3 года назад

I'm not walking or living the faith I was taught my whole young life. I can clearly see that those who love and follow Christ have more peace, love, and purpose than those who don't. I have almost every negative trait or some version of it in my thoughts and in my heart. I have enough discipline to not act on the worst of these and detest violence but as a Christian, I wouldn't want to spend time with or even get to know me. I need a Christian therapist with a military background or experience before I can even consider trying to find a church. Maybe some baby steps, like a scheduled bible study over Zoom. Do they have something like that?

@vendetta9792 5 лет назад

All I can say about this video is, oh my god

@sillyquerkylover 5 лет назад

Hey Mark! Could you please make a video of how to talk with your crush and stop being nervous? Cause I really like this guy and we talk a lot by texting, but when we're together I just freeze and never know what to say or what to do... Things get so awkward and I don't want to screw things up 😭

@NatalieDiamond 5 лет назад

Lovers of money is powerful

@godsamazinggrace5331 4 года назад

learn from Jesus He is Gentle and Humble in heart And we will find Rest for our souls Matthew 11 v 29

@jacobwittenberg974 4 года назад

Forgiveness is important, but are there some things or words that are just unforgivable in a relationship, and you must not forgive but cut ties with this person forever? I learned that telling your wife or fiancee not to be disrespectful falls under the catergory of unforgivable.

@bear4814 5 лет назад

I don’t know if you have a video on conflict resolution. But I’d like to see one. Also you find a lot of bad biblical doctrine on RU-vid. I watched one of your videos and it sounded a lot like “Wild at heart” then you mentioned John Eldridge and at that point I was convinced. Have you been to one of his “Boot camps?”

@bear4814 5 лет назад

As for conflict resolution. I don’t think women truly understand their power. My wife could stop me in my tracks with a touch and a kind and loving look. There were times when she would meet me on the field of battle where I was prepared to fight and it didn’t end well for either of us.... but if she came to me with loving kindness then if I still wanted to fight then I was on her battle field a field where I had no weapons or armor. And I always lost the fight. Women have the ability to bring forth the very best in their men. Or they can rip out the very worst in them for everyone to see

@bear4814 5 лет назад

One last thought every time I lost on my wife’s battle field I knew I lost. But she never acted like she won. It was more a matter of her telling me that she didn’t win. Her only desire was to help me be a better servant of God and a better husband and father

@carolynbohannon4602 5 лет назад

what about christian friendships? can u apply same principles

@sixteen.candles.4644 5 лет назад

Ofc

@maggiesalle2256 2 года назад

Yes.

@misst1928 5 лет назад

If a person has any of these could they get past it with therapy and celebrate recovery?

@ou_9268 5 лет назад

But what DO we look for?

@traceyhills5594 5 лет назад

So i recently broke up with someone that was said God said he was the one. But he was on fire for Jesus when he first got delivered & re committed his life back to Jesus but he started to get cold when it came to the lord & i'm growing in God as he calls me to him & i'm seeking first the kingdom of God & his righteousness & i don't want to be unequally yoked i know it when i see it after a good bit of relationships & living the person living for the world. My spirit couldn't deal with as a gf. And then he wasn't to sure about what he wanted for a future after a while. So i'm really disappointed i thought he was the one so to speak so i took it hard but i'm healing but i'm not interested & he got a 2nd chance & still failure that is what hurts the most. But i'm at peace.