How to Be Confident in Spite of Your Insecurities (Matthew Hussey)

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Happy New Year!
I’m going to keep this short, because I think this video is going to say it all, and be an incredibly powerful start to your year.
Do you want to be more confident this year? No, really. Not just say it, but BE it? Do you finally want to step into your life, feeling not just comfortable in your own skin, but owning it, ready to take on whatever challenges come your way?
If so, these 7 minutes might be the most important 7 minutes you’re going to have today, because they are going to shape your mindset for the entire year. Seriously.
In the video you’re about to see, one of our podcast listeners asked me what insecurities I struggle with, and how I maintain my confidence. This was my answer, and I genuinely believe it’s one of the most important things I’ve said in my career.
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@paulesaturday9490 3 года назад

"Someone isn't better than you just because they have different resources"

@selectiveoutrage6617 3 года назад

Yet that's the excuse a lot of men who are failures give. "But, but, but, his father was rich! I'd be successful if I had a rich dad."

@Carsonbobarson98 3 года назад

Are you quoting that bc you agree or disagree?

@paulesaturday9490 3 года назад

@@Carsonbobarson98 I agree with the message. People come from all walks of life and defy the odds...my life is an example.

@roarn7346 3 года назад

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@micheledefinis6166 3 года назад

Hi beautiful can we talk private? Micheledefinis34@gmail.com

@Chrysilla_QuantumHealing 3 года назад

I can be in the worst mood but seeing your optimism and smile is contagious and just makes me smile.

@kyliebennett2494 3 года назад

Mmmuuujjaahaha. Discombobulating I see

@fabiohuston7776 3 года назад

Hello how are you?

@peralatanemas 3 года назад

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@loisxding 3 года назад

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@roarn7346 3 года назад

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@SamElle 3 года назад

I think the fake it till you make it mentality truly works. I was never very confident to begin with but I started acting as if I was confident and loved myself and eventually, it became reality. I started to realize all the different qualities I loved about myself and I stopped putting other people on a pedestal

@daliathaler756 3 года назад

Wise words

@SamElle 3 года назад

@@daliathaler756 thank you!!! I hope you had a great new year!

@craigpurcell1628 3 года назад

Hello Sam Elle

@morganbaraffe8833 3 года назад

How do you fake it until you make it? What specific actions did you take? :)

@MiMi-ch8zr 3 года назад

that Cooking show/ingredients analogy really resonated with me

@emiliabolsas 3 года назад

Brilliant

@teressaginthe303 3 года назад

Ditto.

@morgandouglas9455 3 года назад

Me too!

@meganable123 3 года назад

yes, especially the part where we only got 1hr life is too short, for us to feel sad about what we aren't given at birth.

@natsnicnacs2346 3 года назад

Yes! A great metaphor!

@angelachiazzese 3 года назад

Anyone else hungry for a better version of themselves. Love this. Now let’s see if I can make tofu taste like the best steak dinner ever.

@christinabs5636 3 года назад

Nooo 🤣Tofu will never taste like a steak! Just try to make it taste like the best tofu ever! 😄

@TheUIATarot 3 года назад

@@christinabs5636 that in itself is a lesson! :)

@lioydwilliams1850 3 года назад

Angela Chiazzese,your lovely smile can make the news

@haileypoulton708 3 года назад

“Life is like Master Chef” That’s one of the most brilliant things I’ve ever heard!

@oocarpa 3 года назад

This guy's energy, vibe, logic, communication skills...really? So inspiring 🙌

@fabiohuston7776 3 года назад

Hello how are you?

@lioydwilliams1850 3 года назад

Andrea Cornejo,I admire your lovely smile

@craigpurcell1628 3 года назад

Hello andrea

@TheRelationshipDoctor777 3 года назад

2021 should be the year that we embrace our insecurities in order to face them head on. Wishing you all a Happy New Year!

@IEVAKambarovaite 3 года назад

So true.. Some of those insecurities are our biggest strengths if used in the right way 💜

@gratefultammy 3 года назад

Happy New Year !

@zahavapappagallo3240 3 года назад

"The extent to which your insecurities dominate you" , that's the difference- wow....

@fabiohuston7776 3 года назад

Hello how are you?

@kmk7367 3 года назад

Start 4:12 This is the best motivational/self esteem/confidence video I’ve ever watched. Thank you Matthew for this amazing gift for new year’s

@aslanholmen7467 2 года назад

thank you so much

@tomaspeixinho4447 3 года назад

"Being confident isn't about accepting the worst version of yourself", very good, sir! I always thought that but I've never heard it stated like that. Powerful stuff, dude

@ladygood7384 3 года назад

True

@hayleyferguson3346 2 года назад

Exactly! this is why I don't understand the media glorifying crude, judgmental, brash or disrespectful people as being "confident" (and the loudest of them will say "I'm just being me, so deal with it") because it's accepting the worst versions of themselves.

@AndreyZenperial 3 года назад

Embracing who you are is one of the greatest acts of self care and love✌🏻

@ismeneedecaste3592 3 года назад

Matthew always makes sense. Always sounds like he's actually genuinely been listening to people around him. Always gives me references. Reasonable things to think about, revisit. He's being honest about things both men and women think or do about themselves or other people. Personally, not things I don't already know, but hearing them again, like this, like a caring older brother or father or whatever; it just makes you confirm things. You trust him and so you keep trusting yourself and you keep moving. Stay grounded, buddy, as you are; wishing a happy 2021 to everyone.

@aparna8857 3 года назад

I came here for the decorations..

@boutiquebabe 3 года назад

Lol me too😉actually I really appreciated the content!!!

@natalievelikaya2161 3 года назад

Matthew, this is what I needed to hear today. One couldn't use a better metaphor about life than you did about Master Chef - absolutely love it! It's so true - how quickly we forget what we've already achieved and how often we don't even celebrate our achievements!

@fabiohuston7776 3 года назад

Hello how are you?

@marihoney3057 3 года назад

Simple analogy but effective. Thank you Matthew and God bless everyone reading this♡

@christyroberts6628 3 года назад

This is my favorite video of yours to date. I run events for plus size women and men that prefer to date plus size women. People ask me constantly how I'm so confident. I just had to decide to be and run with it. I've still had insecurities, I just couldn't let them define me. You just explained it better than I ever could have.

@lioydwilliams1850 3 года назад

Christy Roberts,you got a lovely smile

@desidivine555 3 года назад

Matthew how do you always always always upload the exact videos I need at the exact time? So grateful for you!!

@andreasandor3242 3 года назад

Love this video. I listened to it 5x today.Thank you for sharing Matthew! Wish you and your loved ones a healthy happy and prosperous new year!

@kslash_lady 3 года назад

Daaaaang. That chef analogy hit it head on

@reidpurcell3949 3 года назад

Hello Kelli ❤️

@reidpurcell3949 3 года назад

How are you?

@lioydwilliams1850 3 года назад

Kelli Stewart,you got a lovely smile

@agiorosz9705 3 года назад

I watched this after watching your home retreat. It's crazy how much your accent has changed!!!

@aminahodzic4782 3 года назад

I actually watched this live on instagram and I love that he posted it, such a great state of mind ♥️

@rebe2103 3 года назад

This is in my opinion one of the best videos from you in a long time. It just felt so refreshing and new. I think you said it all in that beautiful metaphor. This is huge. Wow, Happy new year indeed!

@v.m.7239 3 года назад

This came at the exact perfect time. I really appreciate your work, Matthew, you are saving lives and dreams, one “regular” girl at a time. Happy New Year to you and your team! 🥂

@ashc222 3 года назад

I can’t count how many times I have listened to this today. Couldn’t have come at a better time. Thanks Matthew!

@kathysees4177 3 года назад

This was a huge message, Matthew!!!! I was on the verge of making those epiphanies myself as the New Year snuck up on me. I've missed performing so much this year, and was listening to recordings from a Cabaret show I've done the weekend before New Years for the past two years. It was a much needed reminder of the talented bad ass that I am. I've been thinking a lot about what else I can do with my talents while still essentially stuck at home. My confidence comes from how far I've come that allows me to actually be able to accept myself and share my talents.

@ElyottRyan 3 года назад

"This is what I got, What can I do with it" such a powerful soundtrack I am going to steal.

@anitatodorova8563 3 года назад

Hey Matt! The topic of confidence you dedicated this first video to has been incredible. Personally, I have a few challenges in that area and your insights have supported me to live a more happy and fulfilled life. I would kindly ask you to talk more about it on your channel because you bring a unique point of view on confidence that truly made my life better. I believe that to be true for other people as well. Hope to see more confidence content from you. As always see you in the next video. Sending kindness from around the world to you and your whole crew! Yours truly, Anita ✨

@dianaso 3 года назад

I've been watching a lot of these lately and have loved all of them but this one definitely takes gold

@RecreationalUseOnly 3 года назад

Confidence comes from taking action, not fearing silly things.

@sarahgriffin6408 3 года назад

I’ve listened to this multiple times and love it every time. Thank you Matt!!

@hosna7211 3 года назад

I loved the way you described confident and life . I'm pretty sure that ,I'm never gonna forget it!

@hoagapyear Год назад

Thank you Matthew, this is the best video I've watched so far this year.

@nizagarza5214 2 года назад

BEST analogies on confidence… EVER!!! 🙌🏼 I wish I had heard it explained that way years ago! It would’ve made a huge difference! ♥️

@lisacrawford1378 Год назад

I've watched this over and over! Nail on the head!!!

@chatwithanns 3 года назад

Its great to see you smiling in videos Matthew - thanks for taking us into to 2021! Loved this vid

@Teigh_fro 2 года назад

I just saw this right now and I am so grateful I did because I really criticize myself alot and always end feeling extremely insecure. I was literally just breaking down because I felt not good enough or the best in things I am actually good at. This popped up on my screen on time Thank you for those words. Really impactful video

@teressaginthe303 3 года назад

This hit home. I've been keeping tally on how many followers I have compared to a friend in music, but she can't claim she's award winning, and I can. I need to stop comparing and obsessing about this because it really is frivolous. Thank you.

@janelleespinosa6247 2 года назад

That was the perfect example of what we are given, and how we get it all together

@mariasilviafreire 3 года назад

OMG, this is one of the best video I have ever watched about this topic! So simple, so real, so beautiful. You are amazing!!!

@Womansdailyneeds 3 года назад

Love the personality just makes me so happy and makes me know I can do and be anything . Confidence =Key . Keep up the good year. This is my year.

@devammitra3262 3 года назад

Kudos Matthew! This is perhaps the greatest way to look at life and yourself. That masterchef analogy is genius.

@bertucciamajaskoro 3 года назад

Matthew, thank you so much for everything you do and share. Your videos are inspiring and uplifting, giving a sense of focus on what you CAN do in order to be a better person.

@toriedimaggio2041 3 года назад

I have been following you for years, and this is by far my absolute favorite video. What a beautiful analogy. Thank you!!

@DDDina456 3 года назад

Stellar "vintage" advice. Thank you.... I am blooming into the REAL me...I was there all the time, and now becoming a better version of myself.

@fabiohuston7776 3 года назад

Hello how are you

@lioydwilliams1850 3 года назад

Diane Schertzer,your lovely smile can make the news!

@paulaa.6833 3 года назад

What an amazing clear message: look at what you cooked so far. Thank you! I took a chance once, and I believed in myself. Because I already knew what would happen if I didn't try, nothing would change. And it worked out beyond my expectations. I built on that experience, used it as fuel to take a leap on the next challenge and the next and years later, I have an entire recipe book.

@amydassi4429 3 года назад

I really needed to hear this. Thank you Matthew ❤️

@lamialamou242 3 года назад

I think exactly like u.. Every thought... Every technic..every rule and strategy...and it's amazing how u can explain all that so easily ithought im the only one thinking that way ..Im also introvert...and most of people, friends don't understand that and make me feel awkward ...until i found u, u made me feel more confident and i think you are so special

@rhondaalladin9918 3 года назад

The cooking show you’re thinking of is ‘Ready Steady Cook’. This was a wonderful video and you really hit the nail on the head and explained in such an easy and relatable way. Thank you so much for sharing your insights.

@biancawijaya1772 3 года назад

A good boost to start the year. God bless you, Matt ❤🔥

@BadmintonBombshell 3 года назад

I'm a very visual person , so thank you for the cooking show analogy ; it makes it very easy to understand.

@Nah-ah 3 года назад

All these cooking and food talk is making me hungry! Thanks for the message behind that, Matt ! 🙏🏽

@Grace-it5vi 3 года назад

LOVE this. Thank you Matthew

@rekaszikszai2580 3 года назад

Thank you Matthew! Happy New Year! 💕💕

@rashahussain7428 3 года назад

Its great to start the year with a video filled with optimism and smiles 😃 🕊🙏 Thank you

@scarletparadise3272 3 года назад

Love you Matt! You always know how to lift someone up

@sesmotherman 3 года назад

This was the word I needed today. Thank you and happy new year 🙏❤️

@briellehunter7233 3 года назад

What a wonderful person u are. I thought the world was only darkness.

@FreelancingwithFaith 3 года назад

Thank you, Matt. I needed to hear this. Happy New Year, everyone! And belated Merry Christmas 🎄☺️

@safera6820 3 года назад

What a beautiful analogy, you are definitely making the most out of the ingredients you possess and we are all " deliciousely tasting" them. Thank you for sharing your talents and for seeing worth in those who struggles with great levels of insecurities and self-esteem issues.

@woogieluv2304 3 года назад

WOW!! I LOVE this!!! I will keep this forever!!

@tesimilori-ogbebor8065 3 года назад

Pure Gold! Thank you so much for this Matthew?😍🤗🤗🤗

@jewlzn7130 3 года назад

This is amazing. Make the most of what you have. Thank you for this!

@Lisa-mw8fi 3 года назад

I think the reason Matthew comes across as a very confident person is he can articulate extremely well. I have always wished I could do that instead of going around the houses before I can get to my point.

@angelaconnelley7957 3 года назад

You're amazing Mathew ❤️

@ashleys1411 3 года назад

Wow. Just wow Matt. I will carry that idea about being the chef of your life close to my heart and remember it when I doubt myself. I will remember all the amazing recipes I made three, five, seven years ago when I wasn’t even that great a chef compared to now. Thank you for the affirmation.

@KELLYKH 3 года назад

Thank you for this.

@divyanikansal3099 3 года назад

Love your perception about life ! You are the best!💯

@takeawalkwithme2742 3 года назад

You're amazing, Matthew

@marcela2699 3 года назад

You’re just amazing!!!!

@nikkig1146 3 года назад

Wow, what a great metaphor! Thank you for your wisdom Matthew

@IsraaAwartani 3 года назад

Happy new year you guys! 🥰

@PhoebeeWu 3 года назад

Hi Matthew, I really like your advice. Your advice has shaped my philosophy over the years, and I appreciate it 🙏 The second half really touched me :) I am grateful for the journey and how far I've come. Thank you.

@beckylee3356 Год назад

Matthew you are sooo good - loved your chef and cooking analogy!!! ❤

@natalijanikolovska4326 3 года назад

Okay, am I the only one who comes to Matthew's chanel in a bad mood and leaves with a huge smile and feeling 10000 times better 🥺 Love you Matthew!!!!!

@meaghanparent8740 3 года назад

Ohhh gosh I needed to hear this one. Thank you!

@renemartz1520 3 года назад

Love the cooking analogy. So true! ❤😊

@ladygypsysoul122 3 года назад

Happy New Year, Matthew.

@killeenryan7284 3 года назад

I love your videos and advice. I suck at relationships. I hate dating. It is so hard. You help me feel better. Thank you

@creditviral4858 3 года назад

You want to talk about it?

@shalizalacombe6330 3 года назад

I admire, respect, and aspire after ppl that possess genuinity humility and love.. just like you♥️...you are intelligent in the way that you understand to use your special talent to benefit the greater good...excellent work💋..Happy New Year🙂

@Anita-uf8lc 3 года назад

Absolutely love the way Matthew starts answering the question slowly and then fires up with the passion and just sweeps you off your feet with amazing truth that we all think to ourselves but ignore it until someone tells it to our faces😅🙌🙌🙌 Thank you Matthew I SALUTE YOU!! Your Genius!! Xxx 🍀❤🍀 🔥 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💪💪💪💪 xx

@peralatanemas 3 года назад

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@archiylevent9387 3 года назад

Love what you say, on so many levels 😁! I always say - it's not what you have, it's what you do with it

@szabopal85 3 года назад

Matt this video is unbelievable fantastic. I am a big fan of you but this is so fundamental to life like the Bible. All the best for you in 2021.

@clarissag2134 3 года назад

Matthew you are a genius. Your insights are truly incredible and I am SO GRATEFUL for all your videos. Thank you so much

@peralatanemas 3 года назад

may it's can help you my friend , ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-iTwL7pUsVM0.html

@sitijurina 3 года назад

the masterchef example is great!

@klaracosic4695 3 года назад

I really love your videos. They are useful and practical.

@liliyabaneva 3 года назад

Happy New Year! 🎄🎁☃️🍾❄️🧸✨

@Yasi_Reys 3 года назад

Happy new year Matt🥰

@Hawelufamily 3 года назад

Wonderfully articulated Matthew. Great video 🙌🏻

@zambiarecreationsbykamosse3172 3 года назад

Happy new year Matt and everyone from Lusaka, Zambia👋🎉...and the work on myself continues💝

@kavithabnair4549 3 года назад

You are an amazing person Matthew.... what an epic example.....Thank you so much for your wonderful words.

@peralatanemas 3 года назад

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@kikayang6759 3 года назад

Great analogy! Thanks and happy new year! 🎉

@dailydose.of.happymess 3 года назад

Thank you so much Matt for this video!!! Badly need this 🥺

@mslizzybell19 3 года назад

This was soooo much of what I needed to hear! Thank you

@marisolfeijoo8212 3 года назад

I absolutly love this video!!! Im going to save it for the next months

@Shurkett1710 3 года назад

I LOVE this video. Exactly right, we've all been dealt cards in life that we then decide what to do with. What can we do with the cards we've been dealt in life? It's not going to be like anybody else's, only yours. And that's what we as individuals need to find out for ourselves and learn to be confident with. "These are the cards we've been dealt with and this is what I'm going to do with them.". Thank you so much, will inspire me to for one of my next videos on my channel 💜

@peralatanemas 3 года назад

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@meganable123 3 года назад

thank you, i really needed to hear this today!

@azgirl215 3 года назад

This was a great start to a new year! I didn’t expect magic to happen in 01/01/21 at 12:01 am. It’s the continuation of the master piece of THIS 👆 thanks Matt! ❤️

@peralatanemas 3 года назад

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