Kati Morton ooh I’m fangirling that you responded! I love your videos! I’m studying to be a therapist. And I think Trish has bpd too, among other things. I’m not trying to judge whatsoever though because these things shouldn’t be stigmatized!
Trisha be like: Why is she looking at him that way. Me: Because she's actually listening to him. Jason: So, this is what a mature conversation is like without being asked/forced to marry or have a baby every 5 minutes.
@@Katimorton I'm new to your channel too because of coming over from Jason's channel. I love seeing that you comment back to some of your replies. Thank you for interacting. (I'm an older single female parent that raised my daughter alone since she was 5. She's an awesome 20 yr old now.)
As a child of divorced parents who never fought in front of me, I can say that in my case I found it very confusing when I was told my parents were getting a divorce... But as time went on, I realised how lucky and how grateful I was for them never fighting in front of me and keeping me out of that. So it didn't necessarily make it harder on me :)
He looks out of it. I'm sorry but my alert system is on alert and red flags are going off every where. This man struggles with sleep and depression. Most in comedy do though. Poor dude. That ex must be a pain.
first, I'm sooo glad he's an interactive father & had a cohesive co-parenting relationship...... i get there was hard times but this could of been a more impactful convo......... I'm a woman & am fighting for fathers cuz the reality is most fathers are steam rolled by their ex and/or the family court... this is a crisis in my opinion, it needs addressed and voices! ⭐ Kait, is there anyway this can get coverage by you? Its effecting metal health of fathers by depression n suicide and then subsequently the children.................. 😭 Yes there is a heavy stereotype of deadbeat dads but that isn't the majority. Many fathers are getting false abuse allegations and/or the "standard" every other weekend and 1-2 phone calls with zero decision making with huge amount of child support!!!! 😭💔 this needs to be brought to attention and stopped. Jason is a great dad but his experience is truly rarely fortunate... I know a collection of great dads that pay thousands to be rejected of seeing their kids & don't stand a chance just cuz gender...
Amazing topic. I am JUST DIVORCED (LOL)!!!! Not "JUST MARRIED". Having been separated for three years and raising two teens: girl and boy. My situation is not at all like this gentleman's. You and your ex-wife have done a great service to your children. It STILL takes two to parent even AFTER a divorce. Bless you! Thank you for discussing this topic, Kati!!!! **maybe another video on "when parents cannot co-parent due to a toxic parent being involved in divorce". **
I am so glad you liked it.. I was just so impressed with his story, I wanted to share it with you all :) I will definitely add that to my list!! Great video idea for sure! xoxo
Kati I can't study.. School started and I really need to study hard this year because it's my last chance.. But when I come home I am so lazy and I just want to be on my phone and sleep but I know I must do my homework and study but can't make myself to do it... Helpppppp
I have a ton of videos about school struggles!! Here's one: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-BZKxoAvzK-8.html But just search "Kati Morton School" for more :) xoxo
take a nap and wake up and do your homework i remember being up until 4am finishing my homework you just need to figure out your own type of schedule and school is totally useless now college just puts students into debt and they end up working at starbucks
Totally! I watched the video on his channel as well, I think its great that people are opening up and speaking about things like this, also great seeing you in 'therapist' mode. Amazing!
My divorce was and still is hard. I have full custody but... the struggle is hard as hell. I’m a great father and I try to give my little man more than I ever had.
We can always work to improve ourselves and how we interact with those we love :) Maybe there are some things you can change now that will help :) xoxo
Well sometimes having a 8-5 type of job or several keeps people from being with their children as much he has a unique job so that's why he can do this type of stuff
Hey Kati! I know that you did a video on repressed memories a bit ago, but there’s just something that I’m struggling with and I was hoping that you could help. Lately I’ve been having nightmares and what I think could be memories about being sexually assaulted and/or raped. But I honestly can’t tell if it’s a memory, just a nightmare, a hallucination, or a delusion because I can’t remember everything, just bits and pieces. Could you maybe make a video on how to tell the difference?
My parents were very civil during their separation. However a little over a year ago they had huge communication issues and now completely resent each other. I live with my mum and so I hear her baggage a decent amount of the time. And I really don’t want to hurt either my mother or my father’s feelings, but I’m in a very awkward and unfair situation this way. I know it seems impossible... but for those going through a divorce: don’t act like children and hold grudges. It makes it 100x worse for your kids.
oof this made me cry. i don’t talk to my father and when i do i lock myself in my room after bc he triggers me. i wish my father was more like jason. thanks for the video. SEE YOU SATURDAY!!!!!❤️❤️
restriction diary oh shit that is a great question and now I’m genuinely curious! I’ve never thought of that and I hope she replies! Have you watched her self harm videos? Maybe she mentions it briefly.
Off topic but How do I deel with an over bearing mother and sister that don’t see me and recognize all that I do school is a lot of hard work I am multiple clubs organizations I have to stay late tons of work they act like I do nothing and nothing I do matters I know I should do things for me not others but how do I deel with it cause all they do is talk about my flaws and what I “don’t do “ rather then what I do and all I accomplish weather it be in orchestra or theater or being a black student union officer nothing is good enough please help Sincerely Elijah
Honestly I wish my parents had divorced. Their toxic relationship spilled onto me and I suffered because of them. I now have cptsd and extreme anxiety and have had years of toxic relationships because I thought it was normal
I just saw the video you guys did on his channel. I wish you could do more of these demo therapie sessions, it was really interesting and even more relatable than your fact based info videos.
Kati, I can't reach you via your web page and didn't know how else to get hold of you but...I can't join your webpage! The Word Press thing?! I tried to register and everything was hunky dory and then...it wasn't! I have low self-esteem issues and of course, I immediately thought, "Oh, she doesn't want me to join in the fun on her website!". Yeahhhhhh, right! Anyway, hellllllp!
Thank you so so much for making this video! I'm a dad to a 3 year girl. I got divorced in June and had to move back in with my mom which is an hour away from my daughter, and so I'm an weekends-only dad and I'm really sad about it. Videos like this are encouraging to me and help me realize I can still be involved and equally important to her as her mom is. Keep up the great work!
My daughter is 17 and is dealing with some heavy emotional issues. She's also been diagnosed with bipolar disorder. This seems to be a family curse going many generations back. I am hoping some of your content will be able to help her. Found you through Jason.
Fuck, I wish my parents had this relationship, my parents divorced 7 years ago and they are still fighting about the house and my sister and I always were and still are in the middle and its fucking awful. They don't get along AT ALL but thanks for the video, these little things help
I know this guy was only talking about his experience, but it sounded super dismissive when he said he couldn't understand not being amicable in divorce. What if one former spouse is always crossing boundaries or being toxic to the other? If someone treats you badly, it is a matter of protecting yourself and your child to stand up to them. No amicable divorce for abusers.
You do need lawyers to make it official in some cases CTFxC even needed to get lawyers involved even though they knew exactly how everything was getting split up Some couples also can't sort things out themselves and it's a very messy divorce (usually that happens because of cheating but it could be other reasons as well)
Kati, i have an question: i'd kiss in the mouth my little brother while he was sleep. Is this abuse?. Sorry for my english, i'm from Argentina. Thanks!!
I think it's easy to divorce someone when they are amicable and don't have a mental illness. But if you are married to someone with NPD for example- you def need a lawyer and you cannot remain amicable- there is no such word in a Narc's dictionary. You have to limit contact with them as much as possible- for the sake of your sanity and your kids.
I wish my parents would get a divorce... My father is a stupid, isolated narcissist and my mother is subservient. My father ruins everybody's life and burns bridges and my mother just lets him. She had great family and friends until my father got pissed and forbade her to see the others. It's stupid and my mother used to fight back sometimes, but now she just gave up. They even thought before their wedding and now it has been two decades and they just hope the other dies soon.
What can you do about an abusive dad, whos clearly mentally ill but refuses to see anyone or listen. Whom walked out on his family "to find happiness" as he put it because he blamed us for his misery and anger. Whom keeps demanding to see our child claims I'm preventing him being a father and talks himself out of seeing our child saying I hate him and won't let him see our child? When no one has said no to him, he goes through these angry and accusing yet seemingly self pitying and guilty motions every few weeks on messenger to me or our child, he doesn't contact any other way although if his messages are ignored he sends me nasty text messages. He's in a world of his own thats full of anger but he keeps trying to drag us into it and nothing we say or do makes any difference to him and his accusations, our child is frightened of him and just wants him to go away and leave us alone, hes morning for a dad, a real dad just as I morn my ex, he doesn't understand why dad isn't being nice anymore, why he's acting strange He hasn't seen him for months, but its still dominating his thinking and he keeps getting in trouble at school blowing up on the other kids, staring into space in class etc, he is 8 years old and his dad walked out when he was 6 after putting us through emotionally abusive hell for months because he wanted us to hate him so it would be easier for him to leave, my son is on a waiting list for therapy and might need CBT he also has seperation anxierty from me as he is frightened I will die and leave him all alone or I will change like dad did. Its getting to the point where everytime there is any kind of contact, my son explodes at school within 3 days afterwards and gets excluded. Social services were involved but they just gave up when all attempts at mediation and contact agreements fell on deaf ears and the man refused to do anything he was asked too, he still has parental rights and I've been told it would be very difficult to block him as theres never been any violence and thats all courts care about.
Hey kati I was wondering if you could talk about childhood trauma specifically sexual abuse from a parent , your videos have helped me so much throughout the years and it would be greatly appreciated.💜
great video!! can you please make a video about age regression as a coping mechanism? I regress because of childhood trauma and would like to see what a professional has to say about the subject! thank you ♡
Modt divorces are not that drama free. My aunt and uncle got one, and she wanted full custody. She made the divorce crazy, and my uncle is also a very dramatic person on top of that. They would have nasty fights in front their young daughter. She trys to tell her 7 year old how much of a horrible father he is and get her to pick sides.
Katy please talk about tulpamancy and if you believe it’s real tulpamancy is creation of another person in your had similar to imaginary friend but is different by having it own willpower and is created by various practices such visualization and meditation
Can you do a video on parental Alienation Syndrome something we are dealing with and it’s so painful to let go but the court system is not without flaw, sociopath/narcissistic I don’t know but people that do that to their kids I don’t get
In some cases, you have no choice but to use lawyers. If I gave my ex whatever she wanted, I would only see my daughter 4 nights a month and not a single cent on the house I spend half of my working life on.
God when did you start doing collabs I'm like Beyond thrilled to go through and watch these it's been a few since I've seen your videos now regretting that decision
I want to tell my therapist about my self harm but then I’m afraid she will tell my mom. And if my mom finds out she will ground me and hurt me emotionally and be so mad at me and I don’t know what to do.
I remember this dream I had that I rarely think of but I have never been able to forget. I'm wearing a traditional wedding dress walking up the isle of a traditional church. I appear to be heavily pregnant as well. Up ahead of me is someone in a shinning suit of armour. I reach them and they turn to face me - it is a woman in this armour with a gorgeous smile and face and long golden flowing hair. Then all of a sudden I have this massive pain through my stomach and look down to see her sword has run right through me. I am speechless and in shock. She stares and just watches as I keel over onto the floor. Roots from the earth come out the ground and take over my body and I am absorbed and devoured by the ground below me. Then she pulls out the sword and moves off out of the church. LOL. wtf? I have all kinds of weird dreams like that - they make up most of my vivid memories to be honest.
