how to: BE HAPPY SINGLE! 

Oh she knows

Aliyah Winter I just did a video similar to this on my channel! Check it out 💋

Aliyah Winter you are so right! These videos have changed my life

Was just saying the same

This is changed my life too

Same but i'm 19

Same and I’m 25

ooohh yes that last part!!!

That's So Sonya so much truth tho 😭💯

Haha tru

Correct

Very powerful

Oooof my anxious attachment is quaking rn

Tenor

Ha, yeah. I knew after 6 months that she drove me mad. We stayed together 5 years, half of that time was very toxic indeed. Now been single 2.5 years, ready to try again now with the knowledge I have 🤞

Same 🐻 ✌🏻 for me 💯%💀

👏 👏 Same here 😊

My last relationship taught me not to listen to everything a guy say because they lie but let time reveal an not just listen to what a man say. I am glad I'm single ❤

Congrats man!

At 16 this is a very mature way of thinking. Kudos to you, most adults don’t even think this way, you’re ahead of your time Kid keep it up.

@@sheenab0131 Thank you:)

Men and women are not the same, men don't need women like women needs a man. So it makes much more sense as a man to learn how to not need female validation, men are judged by what they do women are judged by the kind of man she can keep. Thats the short version I'm sure even though most women know this to be true some will find a reason to be offended by it, cheers to you - We are Men go out and conquer.

@@jic738the way I cringed, way to uplift somebody -- by bringing somebody else down 💀👍

I second that GIRL!!!

This comment!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

So true...

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

Yassss

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Serena Joon i feel you so hard 💔

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Me too 😭😭😭😭

I know how you are feeling.

Aww this is SO LOVELY to hear, honestly thank you and I'm so happy you are doing much better

I’m so happy for you , keep doing the inner work. ❤

This gives me hope

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

It’s crazy because I first watched this video about two years ago and here I am back watching it. I kept watching it over and over but I was not focusing on myself at all. And here I am back at it and I’m literally just now doing the actual work on loving myself and learning to not be dependent on someone else. I’m really single this time and I mean SINGLE. Not thinking of jumping to someone else and wow it’s just crazy to think it’s been two years for me to get how important this is… THANK YOU BREENY ❤

Do that alot when am home 😊

That's so cool!!!..

I still do it too :)

@@NontohGumede 😊

I pray you find the person for you hun^

Olivia xx THIS !!

Fr

As many undermining, nagging thoughts, this is again a society thing. In some cases you almost feel you're doing something outlawish by being single. Especially as people age up, and their friends and family starts to annoy and bother them about this. That's what boundaries and quitting relationships are for. Extroverts probably have it tougher, to select the people you're with? Still, it's important for your happiness and peace of heart.

This is what I'm going through right now....I honestly feel like no one wants to be with me. It's so much easier for other girls...

Yes all the time!!

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I love how you said responsible adult and innocent child at the same time bc yesss ! I’m 24 & this guy I was dating didn’t like when my inner child would come out & that made me realize that wasn’t the guy for me ..that can’t accept all of me.

exactly

Monica Arnold anytime. Keep reminding yourself of it.

I needed this. Thank you

Thank you😢.i want to be single so bad but he wont let me go.

Amen

🤗Thank you; I so needed to hear this 😍

Dark.Moon.Medusa sameee

@@tiabrah.alhasawi7272 Let 's go out together

Right

I'm over 35. Let's be friends!

same. i have no friends and always alone

Everytime I watch your channel I feel like you are prophesying about my life. You are a healer. God bless your ministry...

Being single gives us the full freedom to get right with GOD, to build into existence once lost relationship, between GOD and creation, between PARENT and child. 1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV 32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction. this world presents love as lust, and if you`re not always touched, then you are not loved = lies and fear propaganda. All of it because the MK ULTRA PROJECTS from masons. John 15:13 KJV Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. And being ALONE (not on your own) does bring forth sober mind.

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Felt that

The word is date with a purpose slow down❤️

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Me too!

I'm 21 never had a bf same here im getting to know myself

23? You're still young! Nothing to worry about. I will recommend a book " Men dont love women like you" by G.I Lambert. Read it through and through. I wished I'd gotten it when I was younger

Juliet Ngweno thanks ill check it out!

Darling, there is nothing wrong with you. It's best to just focus on you. I know it's hard when you yearn for someone to be by your side. I had my first relationship at 21 and I'm back on the single train at age 23. You are young and you WILL find that special someone some day! Just don't dwell on it so much. It's okay to be single, but always have a relationship with yourself first always.

Cashmere.jewel Thank you so much for your kind words. I feel i will find someone too but in due time. All love and focus is on me! Blessings.

Same but remember it’s okay to be not like everyone else that’s what I learn

Girl you’re the only one in control of your feelings. If others project that it’s not okay, that’s a reflection of them and something THEY need to work on. You stay happy single and don’t let anyone influence how you feel about it xx

@@mennasimilawy725 exactly, we control our feelings

Boo them

YES

That's amazing!!!! I am so proud of you! 💘

Hey how is it going being single? I would love to know more 😊

Did it work?

Same it’s so good

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Amen same im 29 just learned the same lesson

because nothing makes me happy, not even myself. people say “do stuff that makes you happy” okay well idk what that is. hobbies only distract me from the reality of my sadness for a little bit of time.

Rught felt attacked but needed it 😫

😂😂😂

😂

Period

PREACH!

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The...Right... ME

The right man, or the man that really wants to be in your life will rise up and meet those standards.

WoooooooooW! !! Ure a strong individual.

@@wendyworgu1368 true

Thank you!

Are you okay? I can definitely relate

keep your head up as long as you’re doing enough for YOU, you’re doing fine

Krista,it is an opportunity to get in tune,in love and in control of who you are and let go of people pleasing tendencies.It is an opportunity to let go of trying to fit in even with family.All the best in your journey 🙏

Just keep catering to you, take yourself out, practice self care, talk to yourslef like you are in a relationship with you, loving and patient.

Maybe a move would do you some good? Or joining activities you enjoy to make yrself proud and become more skilled in your interests. Friendship is a very underrated and powerful relationship and it should start there :) dont worry yr not alone on the journey of loneliness, but in our later years it is effort and open mindedness that can take us to new heights even when we thought we'd been everywhere and seen everyone.

Nice youtube!

@@coyiaofficial531 Thank you so much for checking me out

True

I'm so lucky that I can get to see this videos ata my age I'm 23 and was dating this guy who's 30s and I ignored his bad treatment because I thought I loved him or myb was afraid that I won't get the treatment he gave me or let's say money 😂.but later on after watching this videos have realized that respect is important than anything I mean I'm full of life..... I gat time to do what I want and get what I want I shouldn't dwell on someone who's just making me feel like ain't worth it like his doing me a favor......... I'm focusing on having a relationship with My self and be more better than how he met me because there's a point where he made me feel like nothing but again thanks to this kind of videos I can say I'm in a better place now

How to be Happy Single: Have sex with guys. Hook up. Have one-night stands. Have sex on the 1st date, even if you might never see him again. No expectations. Just have fun. Lots of single women are very happy being single & hooking up with guys casually... ;)

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By the time you finish with that detox, you may not even see the point in getting back into those situationships.

😂 same

You're not the only one girl! About to be 21 and I've never had a boyfriend. We won't settle for less!

girl same!!!!! im 20 as well and i’ve never had a boyfriend! we are both beautiful individuals and when God decides he wants us to be in a relationship, trust me he will! 💖💖💖

Exactly thank you for this remainder

Dear, God bless you for saying this

Pooh sweety I'm 28 and never had one... Well not anything serious anyway. Please don't let that discourage you. Had I found video when I was younger, it would've saved me from alot of heartache. Work on yourself, save money, go on holiday, be healthy x

8ballphenty gang gang! 💪🏾

8ballphenty I just did a video similar to this on my channel! Check it out 💋

lattesdarling every single time!

Literally. Iyanla vanzant in her spirit lol

Amen to that

she's a soul healer

Tenor

Hello Changu I stay in Dubai too

You know damm well why u going to dubai

@Courtney Smith exactly

Jr Ola 🤣🤣🤣🤣 you aint shit

I am moving to Singapore alone in April for the same reason. It's a 17 hour flight away. I know 0 people and I am going to come out of this year or two abroad a better version of myself today. I am terrified but hopeful.

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nehway Don't worry about it. Most of us have to deal with rejection. Funny enough in my case, it has always worked in my favour in the long run. Keep focused and keep your head up. Things fall into place at THE RIGHT TIME. Just be ready when they do.

I'm happy to date myself right now until the right one comes along with out telling me to much information.

Yahuah Is My Everything, the last part is beautiful ❤️

So true

PREACH!!! :)

This comment gave me chills. Thank you.

Not all of us are going to land up in a relationship with someone, there is not a lid for every pot. Finding peace being single is a good thing to practice.

Amen! Same here!

Enheritance Derrico Awesome! #TeamCelibate I’m writing a book about my journey and hopefully it’ll help those who are also on the same path! ❤️

Celibacy is life changing I have done it for a year ❤️

Almost 3 years celibate here 🖐🖐

@@Love4life527 wow this shocks me,,, how?? Am 4months down en with the commitment I have I know I can,,,

Me too

I was so depressed too. This video was everything. I may watch it everyday.

Serwaah Akua marva me too

Ugh same & Breeny has helped me shift my focus on something more positive 💗

Tell me about it.

But have you been sleeping around ?

@@mathmatters1064 do you think that's an appropriate thing to ask? It's not. also not everyone is obsessed with s.. and there's something called masturbating ya know? 🤭 besides that if she does that who cares? why do you care so much? jealousy? 😏👀

Sianoi Kimari hey I tried it and it works 😀

1MOM2BOYS sounds like my life😊I wanna date (one day) but loving being single 💕

Neeks Johnson exactly Girl this one guy we talked for a quick minute and I was like never mind lol

Celibate *

Your story is mine too. ❤️

me three 🖤

Me 4

I love that you commented this because I did the exact same thing! I watched it once and realized how many amazing, helpful things she said in the video so I watched it a second time and took sooo many notes. This video was life changing!

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You are strong Jillian and youre going to make it girl!

So did I!! 2 months out of a 3 year relationship with a guy who turned out to be a complete dud. We are gonna make it through this!!

Hit 4 months post break up last July 25th! Everyday gets easier girls.. We’ve got this! 💪🏼

Same girl. We survived :)

Girl idk how you did it. I’m struggling everyday after 4 years of being together we even lived together for over a year

I just did a video similar to this on my channel! Check it out 💋

How did u go about finding ur worth ?

you made me cry, beautiful comment

Well spoken ❤️

Great testimony but still there's no evidence of a god

Wow I needed this, God bless you💗

You can do it Eunice!! Take the first step!!

Hi, I know you commented this a while ago but how is it going now? I’m in exactly the same boat and want hope that I can change

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Fr. Same issue

One step, one day at a time. You’ll look back and see how far you’ve come. Encourage yourself❤️

It's Mumba I just did a video similar to this on my channel! Check it out 💋

Thank you God. I was looking for this!!

Enjoy and Listen to her advice. Single and Happy without opinions of others.

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MacKenzie White right ?!

SunKissNicole Clearly the time wasn't right. In the long run, no great loss for you. Just keep on keeping on.

SunKissNicole please move forward 💕

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