How to Be Sure If You're INFJ 

Frank James Yea Frank but what if we respond positively to other types that have similar aspects to INFJ. I had another INFJ SAY I MIGHT BE INFP OR ENFP. Frank please do typology when we go grocery shopping. I’ve been told by somebody she will never go grocery shopping with me bc I have to read every label and find as much as I can that is non gmo and organic. Like I care anyway , lol.. Love doing research at the grocery store. I even punch in on my phone a particular item to see which is the better option. Thanks for hopefully reading this. You better. Ha ha. I wear something black everyday. It goes with anything.

Frank, still waiting for you to do an INFJ lightworker vid

Type meeeeee.

Hi frank As an infj,what is your typical day like as far as thinking and doing. Thanks buddy.

I wear Black saraong on color... it’s a skillset, lol...

BRILLIANT 💖

Yep pretty much lmao

Yes!

Omg yes...

Seems like a limiting belief 🤔

makes sense

damn that's... accurate

Actually the ppl of mbti tests studies made a book,saying that INFJs are the most probable type to purchase their book....and It was trueee

You're totally true 👌

Touchè

We mirror everyone

This!

we don't quite fit the either group *^^* (but just constantly trying to)

I’m going to remember this one.

Omg so true! Due to my feeling side, i feel everything a little too much, but i try to intellectualize my feelings and give logic to everything i feel. XD

I agree with all those except for me I kinda just give up after a while trying too much or I’m too lazy too

Yes true but I usually go on calls muted myself when talking to others but I talked a lot in calls with my friends the most :)

The last one got me. Can we chat anout nonsense and peanut butter? ✌️😂

I AM BEING CALLED FINALLY ?!

@James K I like speaking in metaphors and sometimes double or triple meanings... Open to interpretation WHY?

DarkLordGanondorf190 literally 😂

We should all get jackets ✊🏻

How INFJ of you...

That's how an infj would feel about being infj lol

Not just me then haha

Genius idea

Its called a library 😂

i would love to be a part of that..

someone on twitter make a group chat for INFJs and im telling you it's awkward in there. i don't even understand why people made that group. nobody even talked after a week 💀

Hitler was also an INFJ so let’s not get too high on ourselves. 😆

I clicked 👍🏽 immediately after hearing this😂🤭

Lol same as here

i looked down and noticed i am currently wearing black.

As I am wearing all black...

Been wearing black only since 1984

OMG, yess, I do this too! 'o' I always thought I was getting crazy. lol

I definitely do that a lot ☺️

OMG same here. I DO THAT ALL THE TIME! :D

this is too relatable that makes me feel uncomfortable

Yes🤯

Fursteve ferret Im INFP...I edit, delete, Type it up again and then decide that no one will care about it, what I have to say doesn’t matter, and delete it again. And after all that, or even during, I feel completely drained.

@@louiseavannorden4710 I feel your pain.. It must be a shared infj infp struggle.. I've spent a good hour maybe more in an evening writing out a comment. Only to delete the next morning before I've even brushed my teeth. What are we like Lol..

Fursteve ferret I know! It’s crazy!

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I love this :)

@@margiebok441 ❤️

🤯🤯

Exactly 👌🏻

Yup. A walking contradiction.

The first one hits me hard... a few students in my class are basically everything I can't be. I've been in a vicious cycle of doing and procrastinating... and my classmates make me feel so dumb. I lose the motivation to do anything when I am near them.

Stop all these comments need to stop describing me and reminding me of things that bring me into another over thinking spiral 😭

Yes 😂😂

Bingo!

Can you explain what gut feeling is always right means?

Bro I’m relating to every comment about being an infj but I didn’t get it in the tests so I’m kinda confused I got -ENTJ,INTJ,INFP but I tried different personalities of mine each time and now i realized that’s an infj thing so anyways how does anyone gets infj if they have different personalities?? 💀💀💀 lmao

@Cristina Llaguno I don’t 100% relate to you and tbh I don’t care much about being a specific type now cause it looks like I’m a mixture of some types and I kinda believe we’re all like this cause there’s no way that there’s only 16 personalities in the world

BYE this is me, I zoned out and then became busy reading the comments 😭🤣

this is why i'm at the comment sections

@@meghnaelizabeth8293 damn thanks dude but yea the personality tests were really fun but I don’t really care about them now tho it was a nice experience :)

I feel called out... Lol

yeah same, im so confused if im an infj or not. its annoying to keep trying to figure it out

me every single day doing ominous research on INFJs just to make extra sure.

Because taking the test several times on different days when you're in different moods and different situation and then you think maybe it's the format of the test so you find another and test again and you're still an INFJ.

So am I an INFJ? lol AHAHAHAHA coz I also get INFP. This is such a hard process. I just wanna be understood. I didn't get to sleep because of researching hahahaha

Yes, I hate small talk to the point that if it's not deep I'm out of here. My husband brought me to a prayer meeting and it was so boring I never went back. The leader asked my husband why I never came back after 2x,, so my wonderful husband told him what I said oh, that it was boring! But I don't care that's how I feel. Get on the stick come on people liven and up this is so monotone this is so surface go deep go deep dive dive. But you know the leader took it to heart and so did my husband so you could say I am a catalyst for change because I am honest at times when I don't give a crap! When you're almost 70 you get that way. look, I have one foot in the grave I don't have time for this The meeting is changing can I might go check it out if it stays that way.

Wow look at that, I finally got confirmation for myself too. 😂

This!!!!

Well put! 🙌

Yup.

Yeeeeees

hi there im in this category

same and i love your pfp so much btw

@@barasedivcova7954 thanks☺️

Dude this is so true

WHERE WERE YOU ALL MY LIFE ?! WHERE WERE YOU WHEN I HAD MY FIRST IDENTITY CRISIS ?! ( i thought i was the only one i can sleep knowing damn well what i am )

- very low self esteem - value ourselves and our opinions as less than others’ - Took “Fake it till I make it “ too far until I don’t even know which version of me is real

Sounds like Impoter syndrome with Anxiety and some PTSD 😊

I can relate to this. Second guessing is super legit. All in all, I guess I'm not so sure huhu.

I want to listen but I can't listen too 😂😂

dang i thought it was only me who did that lol. this is my second listen now but i kept zoning out so now im just reading comments whilst the video plays in the background ahah

😆😆😆 Same!!

Lol I actually did the same.. Now. I have paused the video to peacefully reply to your comment!

SAME i was paying attention but then i got lost and didnt hear a single thing, still watched it tho lol

👍

I feel you, I went from like "Woah that's cool there are some other people like me, I'm not an alien, I'm just different" to "... Still feel super lonely though."

I cried when I read the Infj type profile 😅

Yes so true

Same except INTP

too much maybe

Found life boring/funny/ironic in my 20s other people seem on a conveyor belt reading a script of what to do

@@Simon-ww7qp is that true ?? im an INFJ in highschool and tend to see life just like you said ....

Number 4 is how I am exactly. I am pretty reserved and quiet in public but once I get in my comfort zone and I get to know people I get real talkative. A lot of my friends think of me as an extrovert because they are used to how I am with them in private it is so pronounced. They don't get it until they see me out in a crowd or in a large public setting, when I get real quiet and I become unreadable and reserved. It is a night and day difference and if they knew what I felt inside they would see things very different. 😂😂😂 I can relate to all of the things you wrote but that one is literally me. I am definitely a ambivert or extroverted introvert too. I have only known one person who was like that in such an extreme way and he was worse than I was about it. Now I think he was likely an INFJ and that is why we hit it off and made such good friends.

I can relate to all here, kudos! The point about learning hits me hard - it often makes me feel discouraged in life as I always feel that I'm not healthy/smart/sharp enough to learn as much as I need to. I guess this is the perfectionism speaking to a certain degree, and fear of missing out/not being prepared enought/not reaching full potential/etc.

Curse

flying orb I did the same lmao

Black isn’t sad, it’s poetic 🖤

Love black...oh, that doesn’t tell type. 😕

because INFJ is the emo-est personality

I'm an INFJ lightworker, so I just like to wear white often

This is tempting, I mean our subconscious is so strong that we can actually hop into any type by intense observation and manipulating thoughts of any other type .

This is so true

Yeah I did that for years until I finally opened my eyes I was mentally unokay in some ways 💀

yup

I can notice when one is hiding something from themselves too

i dont know how to do it, i trying but still there is something wrong with me, I feel like I think in a way that people wouldn't welcome

Are u INFJ

@@merve.a6454 Start by accepting yourself, take some time to get to know yourself and see how you react to situations, don't worry so much about what others think or it will consume you.

@@abdisamadadam288 Yes I'm

@@yariannifamilia4994 am also INFJ

Wtf, how did you manage to make me feel exposed, i relate to all of these, except for being alone, if I stay alone for a long time, I get lonely, idk I just like to be around people sometimes, not all the time tho, does that make sense?

I dont think you are infj, infj know what they want

And injs sre unpredictable

@@friskyjilli i don't think I am an infj too, i was just writing what I realized bout myself, to have a background and trying to understand who I am. I'm just trying to find the right answer about me. I'm in doubt about my personality, i don't know if I am isfj, infj, or infp. But it's okay, i know I will find it someday. okay it was a big text, but I just needed to unburden lol

@@hiromis3623 oh I'm sorry for doing you feel this way. I don't even know if I'm infj. I did the test a lot of times and the results varies from isfj, infp and infj. they are very similar and I know it's hard to found your personality only based in your test results. so we have to keep attention and analyse ourselves everyday, to find our personality. we have also to study and learn about all the personalities and trying to understand who we are. This is a long process that for some people can be more easy, for others more complicated. but we'll get there!!

I will play out what I am going to do in my head before going anywhere and I tell myself this is how it's going to go down. It usually goes just the way I plan and the minute am out the door I feel so relieved and happy

I'll tell you what changed my life was delivered groceries. You mean I never have to step foot into a grocery store again?!?!?!

It's funny because my INFJ friend doesn't do that. But I, not an INFJ, do it all the time

I dont like RU-vid omg this is great lol. 💯

That's not an INFJ-esque thing. That's just seems like social anxiety. That's a little too far fetched.

Thank you for describing me (except the last bit

The first one is 100% spot on. a lot of people tell me off for trying to analyze and solve their problems versus just being there for them. i just don’t know how to just “be there”, i have to have a purpose in the situation sometimes

@@erinvinson7801 exactly same

completely me

honestly, i understand you. i hope nobody thinks im trying to "act like an INFJ" but I really understand how you feel. there's constant thoughts coming to your mind when you're doing things and its so frustrating. you act friendly and can never try and act rude, even when you're mad (unless you're hella mad). i feel like we're complicated, yet so simple. its just weird, I relate to everything you listed but idk how to feel about it.

same i feel like im floating between infj and isfj, the infj traits are more visible to me but im still not sure

@@metheus9851 me except im between infj and infp :/

@@lilleilei169 me too. But we can be both, we have plenty of time to figure it out. Hang in there :))

@@someome1789 aww :' ) yea you're right

@@lilleilei169 The skepticism proves you guys are INFJs...cause they don't just try to be one ..they analyse everything and seek the truth!!

Yes, as a fellow infj you made sense. 😅

Being a friend is essential

I think we have been friends with ourselves for a long time becoz we have spent a lot of time with ourselves even tho we love close friendships. We are ok with not being social. That's what I have felt most of the time. But yes being a friend to yourself is must :)

I have no idea what that phrase actually means.

nah it means “that’s a strange thing to brag about but.. ok lol” an example of what it’s an response is maybe someone saying “i can fit my whole fist in my mouth”.

@@meganw9380 Peculiar muscular contraction albeit acceptable.

Haha yeah, I’ve only flexed on my weird characteristics. Like eating a whole watermelon at once or four pizzas at once. And no I’m not overweight, I’m just hungry

Yessss lmao

I know this situation

Do you guys have depression?

@@stevethea5250 I've never been to a therapist but yeah, I think I have it. I've got all the symptoms

Me tooo huhu

There is nothing wrong with you 💙 probably you tend to absorb others emotions, so you get tired easily, it happens to me too

Honestly, the same things could be said for INTJ's. ;p

Hahaha thank youuu :3

You also may be an INFJ if your wife looses her shit every time she misplaces her keys! Lol

I brag when I actually get out of the house and do something physical. Lol

@@melissaphillis7247 Real accomplishments 🙏

Crazy right?

i literally had this same exact thought several times in my life lol

I always think about this , especially when I'm watching people from the car window

I think about this all the time, i see someone and cant help to wonder what they are/went through

@@jerocadenazzi6245 Cant we all just meet up and be friends and create our own weird INFJ village??

The same happened to me. I took another test and it showed ISFJ which is the most common whereas INFJ is the rarest. Got really confused and I've started my journey to find the true personality type of mine, hoping it'll be INFJ 🙈

@@vallabhpushti5988 don't hope you will be lying yourself bro

2 things we humans still don't and probably will never fully understand, black holes and the human mind. that being said, no online test is perfect or even in the vicinity, but it is a decent start, just don't read too much into it.

Exactly, the main purpose is to understand ourselves so we can focus on our strengths, work on our weaknesses and eventually find our place in the world, i.e. the role that is most fitting according to our personality. And the very ultimate goal is to be happy. Using MBTI just to feed one's ego is not exactly the best way to find happiness imo. Then you brought another good point, it's easy for Fe-users to be influenced by others' opinions. Actually, I sort of relate with the descriptions of all IN types. I mostly get TP but I realize I'm more of a very introverted FJ.

Well some people express personality types differently

Is that a group on Facebook or where? Lol

The comment sections of INFJ videos are the best! ☺️

Yes, I agree, if you see so much of yourself in the comments and replies, thats the most accurate measure I would say.

How a friend of mine said: "Agreed!"

Most of them talk what an introverts would typically do.

Yeah me too 🤗 Glad to know I am not as weird as I thought.

how many infjs are libras....? 🤣

Yes we are, and it makes me go insane sometimes!

@@evvieelmore I am a Libra and injf-t

@@evvieelmore hello

@@evvieelmore omg me😂

Oh damn..

I died, honestly lol 🤣🤣🤣🙌🏾☠

This is so late but you're welcome

😭

I read on an article that ENFPs and us, INFJs really go along well in any type of relationships.

Happy to help.

You're welcome😂

What the world needs, but not what the world deserves. 😆 Jokes aside, this reminds me of John 15:19, then even Jesus himself is usually typed as INFJ.

We are always trying to figure other people out and ourselves because typically we never felt understood in our early life.

I don’t think it’s depression because I definitely feel the same way!

I feel that way too but I'm not like I'm depressed either

You are anxious of the outcome. what if you don't get it done....but at the same time u make an excuse to itself saying that there is not much time and then it starts feeling like there is actually nothing you can do about it....u wanna do ur thing with perfection but you start procrastinating.....even if u want to do that particular thing u procrastinate....there is something dropping u to do it...I know it's confusing but u have an organised mind if you believe in urself....u will be able to do what you want....... It's not depression it's me all the the time......

it's hard to understand, even now

I'm going to copy and paste that and maybe add it to a story I;m writing lol XD

Alex Ippy hmmm I don’t agree :-) INFJs are extremely into quality and love ART, culture and invest a ton in literature (we love books) and learning (we LIVE to learn! )

We also love to be authentic- it may take us a bit to get there (depending on our childhood/relationships but we can smell BS a mile away and usually tell the fakers from “real” individuals- we crave being vulnerable with others but know it will mostly get bulldozed...our good intentions are never good enough for some people. If we are healthy we take extreme ownership - if we don’t we can become dark and absorbed into our inner world..we have to be careful we exist in two worlds...always!

Yep I’m an infj. My facade is fluid

@@carieyounginsurance I'm an INFJ as well and while art, theater, literature can be an authentic interest for any type (though yeah, I'd say maybe there's more of a predisposition for xNFxs) I think it ws just an example chosen to emphasize the difference between INFPs' Fi and INFJ's Fe. That difference is very real. All types can be honest or put on a façade, all types can really act in any certain way if it's necessary, but MBTI is about preference and instinct, at its core, what functions (Ni/e, Fi/e, Ti/e, Si/e) people prioritize in using. Nothing holds up or is untrue 100% of the time for any one type, in other words. This being said, however, I've found cognitive functions and function stacks (which ones your type uses) to be one of the most consistent and clear things about MBTI in terms of differences between types. Fi-doms like INFP value preserving, defining, expressing their own identity far more than any type. Being authentic is important to them, but it's also more personal since it's introverted. The façade an INFP might put on would be more protective than an INFJ's. An INFJ may be reserved too, but it doesn't often stem so strongly from concern over vulnerability. Personally, I'd say it's more strategic and comfortable. I want to understand someone well first. I want to adapt and often mirror people's emotions not to be inauthentic, but because it helps me understand them better, and it helps put everyone (including myself) more at ease. I don't like disagreeing with a group or someone I care about, but if I have to, I'll try to do it tactfully. Sometimes I'm prone to sugarcoating things because of this, but my friends know. The point is, if not the behaviors themselves, at least the motivations for these behaviors, are not very Fi. Fe is more "How can I situate myself in regards to how everyone's feeling, how they are? This will help me understand my own feelings and where I stand better. " vs. Fi's "I know how I'm feeling and who I am. What's the best way I can express this to everyone else, who can support my authentic self the best?"

@@carieyounginsurance Oh I'm actually an animator myself haha! I wasn't trying to say that INFJ's aren't into art and literature like INFPs are I was just trying to list examples of careers that are particularly common for an INFP to pursue

Let's jump right in shall we? 🔥😭

THANK YOU fro existing I feel the same that many other people are strugling with issues similar to mine

It must be demon Se. I can't stand the idea of making another choice that involves something as concrete as fabric. Please let me get back to living in my brain!

Yeah, I happen to be wearing a black sweater... X'D

@@marthaimmer5675 sameee, it is also the most easy. usually makes me look good too :P

@@purplepartytigerd1598 I'm wearing from top to bottom. 😂 But I do have my colorful days, I do like 70s style that are light and airy

@Karina Carvajal I tend to gravitate towards the older styles, too. But I have no sense of fashion X'D. Went to a family party once wearing a pink and white striped tank, light blue plaid shorts, and my green, purple and blue sneakers. Received one or two compliments on my "80's" style, which was really just a mishmash of hastily selected comfy things.

Marla Nicole ikr, it's hard. It's like I want to socialise but at the same time I don't. Most students in my class have this...sort of circle of friends...groups but I'm that one kid who just stands on the corner of the room while everyone is having their chitchats. I have friends, relationship but only on a...'shallow' level. It feels weird not having someone to relate with and to talk to. I try my best to be as outgoing as I could but it feels like I'm trying to be someone else I'm not just to be close with people.

I relate!

Two INFJ's won't be compatible, I've tried it... You just feel so overpowered and so unwilling to be friends... Its horrible

@@ishroom5466 as friends or romantically? I'm curious.. can you tell me more about why you felt it didn't work?

I gave up on that a long time ago. Somehow, all my close friends ended up being extroverts, I love them to bits don't get me wrong, but they just keep inviting me to go out way too much.

you don't need a label to feel happy, labels after all are just for other people to have a place to start understanding you, the rest is up to that person, and that......is what we all fear DAMNIT!!! but i digress. just be yourself and fine those whom you can be yourself around. There are billions on this planet, it is impossible that there are not people around you somewhere that you can get along with and maybe even share a deep relationship or love with. One thing is for certain though, you won't find anyone if you stop looking. and you can take that to the bank (though you probably shouldn't because out of context it might be strange) also i doubt they would give you a single cent for my advice.

Wowww..sameee..

Saaaame. 😂😂

I'm glad I'm not alone 😂😂💚

Llkkk Hind sags

Enneagram might interest you- It helps you see & step out of the box. (While also helping you feel seen & known).

That describes my friend so accurately.

...makes me feel so false sometimes.

This is kind of what made me realize I was an INFJ because I was mistyped as a INTJ

​@@ChantelStays I just find it so draining playing their damn games. I just avoid it and them when at all possible.

I was telling a therapist about how I change my attitude, mood, demeanor, etc... depending on who I'm with ..like a chameleon.. and she said it reminded her of a movie called Zelig ..as soon as I got home I watched it.. lol.. you should check it out.. it's hilarious

We INFJ's don't ever feel like we're human lol :) That's what makes us special...lol.

Asking the real question there

@@heraclea9368 I answered honestly too. In all seriousness, we just feel like others don't understand us. We are super complicated, most of our ideas don't even exist "in the box" as they say. Some things that we talk about are so far out there, that sometimes we question ourselves. Our top 2 functions are why we don't feel human. Our iN is very strong and we can just see without knowing how or why. But like he said, You have to know yourself first.

@Eddyfiu Allwiz Some days I don't. LOL ;)

And I am Okay with that. Helps with the creativity.

Fiorella Lescano it’s been both confrontational and enlightening for me, I am so grateful there are people in RU-vid land such as FJ. I love his content but I also love the comment section - there are actually other people like me!

yep that's true, but the same people only see what you show them.

@@kilo7041 The comment section shows us that we're not alone. :)

I can't believe I've met another INFJ who loves The Strokes *-*

I was half listening to the video and half reading comments and when he said that i thought he said "when my wife has herpes, i dont have a wife." I was very confused thanks for clearing this up😂

@@Webs.x Same. Read the comment like a second after he said it. LOL

IMA GEMMIN AND INFJ 😭😖😭😭

@@xiao-slimp7865 me too

In astrology is also because you are not just one sign haha, the natal chart is literally immense, that's the reason because many people say, for example, I'm a Pisces but I don't have many traits of Pisces" hehe

Yes

Has happened to me a lot

Always.

Sometimes I feel like the responsibility is on me to keep the conversation going.. Even if it drains me

I can relate so much!

Welcome home, brethren 🖤

Me too. Its been bittersweet, but the relief I feel knowing that this is the kind of personality I've got is immense. Just to try and finally understand after many years of confusion and anguish is wonderful.

Stamp

I definitely do this! Now I can even think of people as their types...and it makes more sense as I observe their behavior. For example, that's my enfp friend...no wonder she wants to go on spontaneous trips at the drop of a hat! Or he's an entp, see how he can debate both sides of an argument!

Trust me people who say this and are not ..don't have a clue I'm infj struggled with depression and severe anxiety all my life I'm 41 and never had proper relationship ..even tho I'm good looking and a nice guy..I'm just happier alone but wish I wasnt ...so it's nothing you should wish to be because it's rare. Wtf

Benny Boy sorry to hear that about you, but I don’t necessarily think the personality type is attached to your circumstances- I don’t think it’s inherited necessarily. I would wanna know if the majority of INFJs struggle with what you struggle with to determine if what you’re saying is accurate. I’m sure what you’re unfortunately struggling with applies to other personality types too

@@rayanalfadel5911 ...your probably right...and did have a strange upbringing to be honest..but it's the only type of personality that I can identify with ...even as a kid I told my freinds I wasnt aload out, even though I was ..so I could sit in my room on my own 😂 always felt I was in my own bubble , it would explain alot and i would love to know for sure ... but don't want to sound like I'm trying to be different ya know 🤔🙂

​@@bennyboy2079 Hey, mate, this personality thingy just shows preference, does not show proficiency. You can prefer to read people, and be bad at it, or good.. You can be awesomely picky about choosing a partner, and be lucky enough that circumstances allow you to marry at your 20s, or be 40 and still looking. Also, you can be mostly a type and still manage to develop other abilities... So it's not always straightforward... The loneliness thing for one, isn't necessarily an INFJ thing. It's just that you don't yet seem to have developed an efficient system to integrate yourself socially enough not to feel lonely and still have the time alone that you need to not feel exhausted. Also, there are types of people that INFJs would be delighted to spend a large amount of time with, and maybe you simply haven't come across one of those. Lastly, I wish you do find someone you can spend life with though. But having a "proper" relationship is an investment of time, energy, resources... the list is infinite. And sometimes, we're just not willing to give up so much, or change ourselves enough to enable one to happen. Like, I don't know what happened with your past relationships, but no relationship should ever be seen it as something you "prefer" (in the context of what is easiest and comes more naturally to a person), because no matter your type, it will always be something that, ideally, will make you get out of your comfort zone, and go through pains, and open yourself up to the possibility of hurt. At any rate, best of luck on your journey man! P.S.: If you still, somehow, got to this end of the internet, is in that age and gender group, and don't know who Jordan B. Peterson is... gee look him up, specially his 12 Rules for Life book. If you have, like, c'mon man, that stuff is textbook "lobster" 101... lol

Algorithms.. (possibly)

Mee too i can relate to many....

feels like it for sure... but maybe it's because we are so empathic and feel how others feel?

I also usually test as infp. But I am different from my infp friends in particular in traits that are ascribed to infj. I make use of Fe a lot. I generally see myself as infj because of that...

Sometimes(all the time), when you take a test, you have, in your mind, how the answer would be perceived by others. This will skew the result. This, imo, is why INFJ is less rare than everyone thinks.

@@lijuowl EXACTLY! My bestie is a true INFP in every sense and I am different than her in many aspects. We both often have the same feelings towards something as well as opinions but while I can see things from different perspectives and other people's eyes, she can't as much. She is really emotional and sensitive, it doesn't take much to make her cry while I have never cried in public. That's why I can't accept that I might be an INFP.

@@w13rdguy yeah, that's right. I often find myself seeking the most morally and socially correct option while taking such tests and hence, I try to think what I REALLY would've done but that just leaves me blank, I can't think of anything else. I am lazy, disorganized, careless, intuitive and more ears than mouth and I try to answer on the basis of that but nothing changes.

Mihi Yoon INFP is literally the cutest personality there is and they live in this dream world of where everything is wonderful and everyone is wonderful. INFJ on the other hand are very real and know when someone is acting just wrong. We also mirror other personalities so you may feel that you are an INFP but you are actually an INFJ. Also INFJ are always in our heads analyzing to the point where it gives us anxiety.

Lol I think the uncertainty is more about choosing between two types than being in doubt because the description on some website wasn't totally accurate. But I did feel like you when I read about Introverted Intuition, it was like they could read my mind. 😁

INFJs act like ESTPs when really stressed, usually

TO be INFJ is to be stressed. I don't think there is an alternative.

@@PiNkSpRinkLe1 there's always an alternative, not every person is the same, even within the same typology. I've experienced acting more like and ESTP under prolonged stress, but that doesn't mean every INFJ will. Just giving my two cents

@@PiNkSpRinkLe1 Only internally as you et older and more able to handle it, it gets better, and easier. Our internal dialogue and our internal life will always be more in interesting than any other human being ever. Get older and you'll be able to share better. What's lovely is how amy share their secrets with us, so easily, and we keep them, thus gaining a reputation as somebody who can be trusted with secrets. INFJ's can always be trusted with even dreadful secrets. They will never tell - ever!

Lol same I had to go back like 5 times and still gathered absolutely nothing 🤦‍♂️

Sammmmeeeee

same I'm literally wearing all black rn-

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@@skyhiker9669 same

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Thats beautiful ❤ thank you