how to be your own dream girl + decentering men

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Welcome to the Spoiled Girlie Support Group podcast! In this episode, Elle shares some valuable insights and strategies for women who want to become their own dream girl and center their own desires. Elle starts by discussing the Dream Girl theory and how it can be applied in everyday life. Listen in as she talks about the value-investment curve and how to know when you are his dream girl.
The conversation then shifts towards developing your own dream girl. Elle offers some practical tips on how to change your reality to change your mindset. She emphasizes the importance of treating yourself with love and doing things that someone who loves her would do. Curating your circles is also a crucial aspect of becoming your own dream girl. Elle shares some powerful insights on why you need to surround yourself with people who uplift you and how to drop the pickme girlfriends, the scarcity mindset girlfriends, and the negative girlfriends. Elle also introduces the concept of having a delulu day, where you embody the woman you want to be and schedule activities that are normal for your dream girl. This helps you slowly morph into your own dream girl and make your dream life a reality. Establishing boundaries is also key to creating your own dream girl. Listen in as Elle shares some powerful insights on why you need to be stronger with your boundaries and surround yourself only with the people who are embodying their dream selves.
Toxic self-improvement is another important topic of discussion. Elle talks about the self-improvement fatigue and how to recognize when you're doing too much and it's actually starting to harm you. She also emphasizes the importance of always being in discernment. Finally, Elle reminds listeners that life has seasons and sometimes you're in a changing season, sometimes you're in a flowering season, and sometimes you're in a hibernating season. It's important to give yourself grace and remember that you're doing all of this for YOU.
So tune in now and get ready to become your own dream woman. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more content like this!
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Chapters:
1:09 what is a dream girl?
03:49 the value-investment curve
04:55 how do you know you are his dream girl?
06:09 what happens when you are his dream girl
06:26 the dream girl theory and business
07:24 decenter men = center yourself
08:15 how to become your own dream girl
08:27 step 1 - change the reality to change the mindset
10:18 step 2 - curate your circles
12:36 step 3 - have a delulu day
13:34 step 4 - establish boundaries
18:41 toxic self-improvement?

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14 июн 2023

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@minuit6305 Год назад

Just because you're NOT HIS dream girl it doesn't mean YOU AREN'T a dream girl. Know your worth!

@Ihavemadeit999 11 месяцев назад

True!

@alessandrajackson3768 11 месяцев назад

THIS! My mom dated a guy who left her for a 16 year old when she was 20….2 months later she met my father! She hasn’t worked since, he paid off her student loans, financially put her through school, has taken care of me, my mom, and my sister till this day, and I’ve never seen her go without flowers or little gifts! Also because I’ve seen girls say that only guys 10 years + older will do this for them, my dad is only 2 years older than my mom. She was just his dream girl!

@heyitsyyourmoodybunny 8 месяцев назад

IKR

@celestialys 7 месяцев назад

so true, she may not even realise herself that he was not her dream man either but put too much effort sadly

@GodYermonia 6 месяцев назад

Yes ma'am! I am THE dream girl and I had to leave men behind that didn't understand how to embrace me and my love. YOU ARE ALWAYS THE PRIZE. HE HAS TO BE RIGHT FOR YOU!✔️ EMBRACE YOUR LOVELINESS❤❤❤

@coziigurl Год назад

“You are not put on this earth to suffer for the benefit of others” Wow 😭

@jessicanorris3614 11 месяцев назад

Despite what the manosphere would have you believe .... 😂

@flusthd3194 6 месяцев назад

Isn't that a job??? All our jobs can't be the dream job and even a dream job works with imperfect and bad people sometimes. We suffer while working but we make it to the end of the day and it didn't end up killing us and sometimes makes us a better person going through tough experiences.

@user-ov9eu4gx3z 6 месяцев назад

"If he's not sure, he DOESN'T want you "

@kokoya400 Год назад

1. Change the reality to change the mindset 2. Curate your circles 3. Have a delulu day 4. Establish boundaries

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

💅🏽

@jessica3218 Год назад

What is delulu?

@kernaishaxoxo Год назад

@@jessica3218delusional lol

@Mariam_Q_0110 Год назад

Im deluded everyday , its a personality trait.. x

@ot1040 Год назад

@@jessica3218ok glad I’m not the only one sitting here like “did I miss the Delulu explanation…?” Lol

@theerarestjewel Год назад

Women simply cannot function without her internal male gaze. 😢 Free my sisters

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

🥺🥺

@SR-mv2mf Год назад

Yup am beginning to see how toxic that male gaze mindset is.. it is literally the water we have been swimming in and wasting our precious time on 😢😢

@MsTaLaiah Год назад

I am women. 😢 Watching bc I just told my guy friend this morning that I need to chill on secks. I realize-the hard way!-that I over give and even tho it’s amazing I am resentful. 😑 “If you know you can do better, then do better. “ Much love to allllll my sisters centering yourself. You’re the one you need. 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

@Shekinahs_Sohl_Tarot 5 месяцев назад

🖤🤍🪷🤍🖤

@goldenretriever1528 4 месяца назад

unrelated but you're gorgeous

@sabrinaoliveira3654 Год назад

Can I just thank you for introducing the concept of decentering men?? The amount of mental peace this brings me is unbelievable. I'm someone whos done a lot of inner work throughtout the past few years but for some reason I noticed how much I started to put provider men on a pedestal as if this was the ultimate goal to achieve in life. And most of these feminity content coaches definitely put men on a pedestal. Well, now I'm in a position in life where i got the provider man and as the months go by I noticed how much I'm letting of myself go. Time to get back on track with my own purpose. God is the ultimate provider 💕

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

thank you for sharing bestie 🫶🏽🫶🏽

@adrienne7642 Год назад

THIS! Thank you for shedding some light on this bc I feel like a lot of us do put provider men on a pedestal.

@rorirm Год назад

I like what you said there. What luck that I found this channel!

@Ilovesushi123456 10 месяцев назад

I’ve got a bf and he’s great. I noticed I focus a lot on him and sometimes have a hard time focusing on the things I love. I’m on my journey to decentering my bf. It can only make the relationship healthier.

@mastermanifestorsubliminals 10 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for your comment coz you put to words and gave me an epiphany of exactly how I feel. It’s so validating. You said “making the provider man an ultimate goal” and that is just so been my reality for a while. I think now hypergamy has been so pushed forward that it’s become a chasing goal. But the root for girlies with provider men is their self concept and them knowing their worth. If you haven’t had a provider men around it becomes such a pedestal that you lose your sense of self, but for me I’m taking a month off dating and focusing on self concept and then learning to hold on to it when they come bk

@leahmayns3202 7 месяцев назад

Once I started seeing myself as my own dream girl, I became comfortable in being single. Male attention should never be a metric used for evaluating how cool, beautiful, attractive, or successful you are. YOU decide that. YOU give that value to yourself. Be the person YOU want to date.

@theonewhosthere Год назад

I loved the “change your reality to change your mindset”

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

@whatsnew955 Год назад

True here. Becuz as someone who is very stubborn, I really cant change my mindset😂I need some tangible solid prove so that my minds actually believe in it😂😅

@user-dn8hd6xn1e 5 дней назад

@@whatsnew955that is real. The best way to believe you can do something is to literally just go do it.

@ayesha8809 Год назад

Your channel saved me today. A guy asked me out over text and I came specifically to this video for moral support in saying no to him and I am so glad I did. He pushed back twice after I declined 🙃. I am SOOOO glad I said no and didn't let my people pleasing or "there's no harm in getting to know someone" ways blind me today. GROWTH BABY GROWTH!

@athulyasurendran7639 10 месяцев назад

Kudos to you for this

@ayesha8809 10 месяцев назад

@@athulyasurendran7639 thank you!!

@AliceArnaud-zs8sq 8 месяцев назад

yes girl, slay

@19LuLe96 8 месяцев назад

So a guy invited you on a date and you rejected him, and that's called growth now? What am I even reading lmao

@Rosetta-gp9mk 7 месяцев назад

⁠@@19LuLe96yes. Why the fugg do you expect women to always say yes to everything? NO is a valid answer, whatever the reason. When you grew up with the mentality of being a people pleaser, being assertive is a BIG step in the right direction. #WomenAreALuxury and not everyone can afford one. Period.

@mrspinky13560 Год назад

also so many men in the dating pool rn are low value bc of the way men are conditioned many are emotionally unavailable/stunted, don’t know what they want/how to take care of themselves it’s sad but I’d rather prioritize myself than ever entertain another “talking stage” in my life my 20s are def dedicated to unlearning that conditioning and decentering men/romantic relationships esp coming from someone w/ an old anxious attachment/abandonment trauma I feel so fucking freee 💯

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽ty for sharing bestie ✨ cheers to doing what is best FOR YOU

@diamondedevil 6 месяцев назад

literally same

@cruelsummer4 Месяц назад

im just gonna copy paste that in my notes real quick

@jennifergonzalez3895 Месяц назад

Damnnnn so true

@EarCandyAsmr Год назад

9:19 the way I do this is taking care of myself the way I would my child if I had one or my dog. I don’t feel like eating etc but if it was my child or my dog I would get up and make sure they eat a good breakfast, take a shower and are ready for the day. I shower them with love - I deserve the same love I give them.

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

this 🥺🥺🥺

@htcheeto420 Год назад

this also works for mental health issues like self h*rm and depression- my breakthrough moment was realizing I would never treat an animal or stranger the way I felt so comfortable treating myself and I stopped.

@amyw4216 Год назад

Love this!!

@lisasimpson8895 10 месяцев назад

that's a great way to achieve self love. seeing myself as a child that i love and care for has changed my life.

@JennyGaston Год назад

It's so important to listen with our ears and not are triggers. That's why journaling and therapy is so key❤

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

exactly 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@SilentTrip Год назад

You are a gift to the feminism movement, a breath of fresh air ✨️

@tamuz9633 Год назад

It's not about feminism. Feminism strives for equality. We are are into feminity. Feminity reminds women that we are the PRIZE. We dont dont bring anything to the table because we are the TABLE! Feminism is never going to get you the bag sweetheart. Feminism will give you 50/50 at the most...LOL We are not doing feminism. We are doing elegant feminity! Learn the DIFFERENCE.

@jinhub2175 11 месяцев назад

Absolutely 😩🍻

@gii_iio 5 месяцев назад

Exactly, I think Estelle is opening a kind of fourth wave of feminism with her content because it is so revolutionary and clear.

@vwatchem 9 месяцев назад

It’s so true to LISTEN to a man when he talks about himself. I’d go so far to say to listen closely to ANYBODY, at least at first (some people are full of bs and will waste your time) since we can learn so much from others. However; if a man says “I’m a piece of 💩,” or “I have THIS [insert major red flag that should have you running away]”, PLEASE listen to him and DON’T proceed. Unless you want the pain and disappointment of him failing you down the line. Because he WILL.

@vwatchem 9 месяцев назад

Oh! And if he says he doesn’t love or like himself, or he HATES himself-be prepared for the relationship to crash and burn, even years down the line, or just have a toxic struggle. Learned that the hard way 😭

@DiMagnolia 3 месяца назад

He said “You deserve better” and he was right. Believe people when they tell you who they are.

@flyandshy00 3 месяца назад

Once you love yourself, you are turned off by men that are hot and cold about you, or just cold in general. You stop chasing them.

@ktokie338 Год назад

You become someones dream girl by being your own. The peace that comes within from loving yourself and doing what’s best for you. Center yourself. 💅

@rosannarichardson7951 6 месяцев назад

I was with someone for two years telling me I’m his dream girl. Don’t listen to his words, see his actions, or lack of. And check in with yourself. Are you drained, are you being invested in, are you being cared for, does he take you on dates, do you feel like you’re too different/weird/not enough? He said I was his dream girl. But everything else said otherwise. So don’t just listen to what he says: definitely hear the negative stuff and act accordingly/run, but if he’s inconsistent or it doesn’t match to his actions, what he is saying is BS. Anything negative he says and does, that’s what counts. Guilty until proven innocent is my motto now

@aren7138 2 месяца назад

Dream girls deserve heaven. If he ain't giving his girl that, she should leave.

Год назад

I love the idea to schedule a "delulu" day to pack all your dream girl activities in. I love your videos and the fact you're pushing the idea to decenter men from the girlies' lives. Keep doing you!💪🏾😌

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

thank you bestie 🥹🫶🏽🫶🏽

@kassedina 7 месяцев назад

what are your favorite delulu day activities@@therealmanifestelle ?

@eurusholmes4165 Год назад

You are shining so much that you outdo the sun when you center yourself in your life, and the providers can and WILL adore your when you do it. That's one of the most magical thing I've ever seen. The rumors about changing your mindset will change your LİFE is %100 true.

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽100 %

@iamsomeone8266 Год назад

i want to be skinnier. I want to get abs and lose weight. i will only want to date somone once i feel confident, lose weight and get fit, because of the fact that i want a man who is also fit.

@St3minist Год назад

Me and you both.

@Mariam_Q_0110 Год назад

Girl tell em !

@zaithought Год назад

Same!!

@SPNKL541 Год назад

I wannna gain weight

@reigenlucilfer6154 Год назад

same, hope all of us achieve this!🙏

@melovetolaugh6417 Год назад

OMG thank you for making me realise that the pick me girl-friend of mine who slowly disappeared from my life (despite I and our other friend tried so much to keep our friendship) is actually a blessing! I dont have to cut her from my life, she did it herself! Basically she prioritise the boy she likes over us (her best friends who always support her during her lowest) and when she gets the boy she completely left us.

@VeeKayGreenerGrass Год назад

Me too. I cut off a pick me girlfriend who had a difficult relationship with a narc abusive mother. At one point I even got my mom to talk to her mom, I can't believe I roped in mom into that BS because I thought I was helping her.

@yanzi8543 9 месяцев назад

😢

@c.uni2370 Год назад

I am my own dream girl & don’t need a man or fake friends to show me otherwise. This year and further on I will live my life how I want to live and if you don’t want to be in it that’s not my problem 😌

@goddessvibes08 9 месяцев назад

Love the thought leadership. Also, a Man who is lukewarm about you should NOT have access to you. Period.

@shiotoshoyu Год назад

I love the narrative of becoming my own dream girl way more than becoming someone else's dream girl, because at the end of the day everything I do should benefit ME the most. Tysm for this video I hope you keep these types of contents up for the future!

@themuse11 8 месяцев назад

I've been watching your videos for a few weeks, and I feel the impact of your words. I'm an older lady who has spent most of my life (and wasted youth) as a pickmeisha. I have spent the last few years taking a break from men, and instead centering myself and my spiritual growth. My last relationship left me depleted and broken, and feeling older than I am. Since then, I have grown so much through doing the inner work of healing childhood trauma, building myself up, finally taking care of myself - and becoming my own dreamgirl. It might be too late for me to be anyone else's dreamgirl, but I'm more than okay with that. Being my own dreamgirl is what I really longed for all along. Another thing that occurred to me watching this video for the 2nd time - is that you're channeling straight Venus energy

@matchaleche 6 месяцев назад

I'm so sad to hear that you may be too old to be someone else's dream girl 😢 Why should you? There is love at all ages!

@EarCandyAsmr Год назад

I love the sales comparison! I had an ex who was the “cheap” shopper. He would take me to dinner and get me gifts but it was always a complaint 🥹 my new bf now ENJOYS it and wants to provide and give me things and experiences.

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

generous >>>>>

@aishwarya2130 8 месяцев назад

Wowwww 👀❤️

@aishwarya2130 8 месяцев назад

As he should 🤠💖

@cocoariche Год назад

Yes to delulu days, honey! 💅🏾 Let’s go! 🥂

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

💅🏽💅🏽💅🏽

@BadBadtzMARUU Год назад

How does one schedule how often you celebrate a delulu day?

@cocoariche Год назад

@@BadBadtzMARUU I’m not sure what she’d say, but my advice is to have a delulu day as often as your budget allows ☺️ If I need to swap out a few Postmates orders so that I can afford a relaxing facial, then that’s a worthy sacrifice, you know

@audreyandrea460 11 месяцев назад

@@BadBadtzMARUU I think she said one day a week!

@sirfizz6518 Год назад

Aiming to be someone else' dream is a path to toxic relationships with people who will judge you against their expectations. A good partner (regardless your gender and orientation) will see your actualization and be both attracted and inspired.

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

this

@bellejour559 Год назад

‘A lot of us listen with our triggers and not our ears.’ Never a ‘pick me’ and I would like to add that some men will gather your weaknesses to use against you. Be careful who you share anything with, especially insecurities. Work on you first!

@emobloomer Год назад

Honestly great video. Gives advice that is less about becoming pleasing for men and more about how to live in this world and get what you want out of life.

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

🫶🏽🫶🏽

@TheMokshananda 4 месяца назад

I always wanted to be a "dream girl" and went way over my boundaries to become someone elses dream girl. Thanks to you and other youtubers (and therapy) I find so much strength to show myself vulnerable and finally find myself, only to slowly realise I didn't have to change from the beginning, there was nothing wrong with me, it was just my environment that didn't nurture my growth. Thanks

@PreparedHome Год назад

I had delulu day today. Nails done. Nice lunch alone. Skincare. Declined a date as it was less than attractive.

@elleblue 10 месяцев назад

Hi Elle from another Elle! I love how thorough your videos are, and how you provide high quality, intelligent and well researched content. Bravo!

@shima8969 10 месяцев назад

you're really explaining the concepts well... I love this video!

@catvalentine4317 Год назад

This just made me realize I actually went through that whole process but didn't up my boundaries, and it explains so so much, thanks for saving me ❤❤

@666oddess Год назад

U and Shera are my aspirational goals.. I like how both you preach a similar message but in different ways. U have a book-smart way to you and Shera has like a street-smart vibe. Killer combo for my morning routine!!

@VeeKayGreenerGrass Год назад

Shera comes across as a grifter, though.

@sapphire_blue3657 8 месяцев назад

@@VeeKayGreenerGrass she ain't a grifter, she's a financial advisor for young women.

@OUTHERETRYNASURVIVE 8 месяцев назад

Shera is an appallingly deluded fraud.

@elena3476 7 месяцев назад

@@sapphire_blue3657she teaches women to go after married men for the bag tho...while elle teaches us to be a girlies girl

@beautifullEternal 7 месяцев назад

@@VeeKayGreenerGrassit’s not a grift if you ain’t paying 😂🎉

@cendysalinas 11 месяцев назад

Just found you today I love the way you explain things in your videos in such an easy way to understand and also your vibe 😊

@h60432 7 месяцев назад

you’re amazing! I’m so glad I found your channel ❤

@stefaniastefi1614 5 месяцев назад

I am inspired. this is such a great idea, can't wait to schedule delulu day xThank you 💕

@hemaavathyganesan2544 Год назад

I just found you yesterday and you are so on point, i think ure my favourite person on the internet right now!!

@Loulien1 11 месяцев назад

I love your content. You are great, after two films i am so motivated and i needed that so bad!!! Thank you bestie ❤

@jm8143 11 месяцев назад

This is a real wisdom~! Your are reminding me important values that I already knew. Actually, I already established these things to build my point of view like more than 10 years ago, but while struggling with all the foolishness around me and while being confused by those foolishness, I inevitably forgot everything that I've learned and built for my entire life. So I really needed this coming from somebody elses mouth and I appreciate it so much!

@EverythingLvl 9 месяцев назад

I've come to a lot of these conclusions myself, bt you are adding a lot of value to that, really great. thanks so much

@supergirl4r-andi868 Год назад

i love you! no sugar coating, this is what i need!

@adelina_369 6 месяцев назад

This is the best channel on yt, i wish i had a friend like you

@MdeM8 Год назад

Thank you Bestie. You're the best. new motto everyday: don't get mad, get paid

@littledolleyedfreak 10 месяцев назад

I especially appreciate the toxic self-improvement segment because I’ve been struggling with it sm!😫

@camillekagen9639 Год назад

I’m obsessed with your channel babes

@Typh211 10 месяцев назад

I followed you on TikTok & Karla Elia recommended your video. I’ve been in my healing / dream girl journey for the past year and a half. I am ready to do more work. This video was so helpful and I can’t wait to watch more of your videos 😍

@sherules5005 4 месяца назад

Thanks Bestie, I've learnt to put myself first and have fewer social contacts but much happier these days. Boundaries are key

@annak804 Месяц назад

Listening to this while cleaning the house now getting ready to hang the laundry. I'm going to be making progress on me because you have reminded me that i love myself and i have to care for me

@kosmopolitanna 11 месяцев назад

I love it! Love your work! Love your voice!

@SunShine_sublime Год назад

I really need this. Been a good, good girl and those men just treated me unfairly. Let's go!❤❤ Thank you.

@nadanalia3000 10 месяцев назад

Thank youu ❤️❤️ Everything you said makes perfect sense.

@Itssimplyaisha 10 месяцев назад

Okay it’s been months since I watched this but it was the best thing that has ever happened to me cause I applied every.single.thing Elle said in this video. It is truly life changing I can feel myself believing to myself that I am my own dream girl like the concept is tooo good. I recommend this video to every single girl in the world out there. Life changing when you apply it!!!!!!

@fosterfamilyacademy 8 месяцев назад

You are brilliant. I absolutely love your content!

@ts_k36515 9 месяцев назад

This is a very valuable reminder I need to hear today.

@jasminefe 7 месяцев назад

thanks girl, you have no idea how much you've helped! Rate you.xx

@klezzaa8957 4 месяца назад

I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart. This video has helped me more then I could ever explain in words. Thank you so much beautiful sister. You are beyond incredible!🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️

@sharkizinhanha3317 Год назад

I love you so much!! Yet another thought-provoking and amazing video!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼💖✨✨

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

🥹🥹🫶🏽🫶🏽thank you bestie

@Michevell Год назад

I would love if you wrote a short book on economics including dating, I love how you keep mentioning marketing because it’s true. Keep up the fabulous work queen 💖

@strawberrypancakes2438 4 месяца назад

You're so pretty. Thanks for the advice girl. 💅🏾

@iqramohamed7673 Год назад

You changed of how i view alot of things i can't thank you enough❤

@Deepa-1727 2 месяца назад

I just loved this video 📸... First time here and you saved me ,, thank you big sis ..👑👑💌🤗🤗💞💞

@CassandraEvergreen Год назад

I need this energy in my life! I hope you make heaps more videos, I'm so here for it 💃

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

thank you!!!! i appreciate you 🫶🏽🫶🏽

@instagamrr 11 месяцев назад

Best vid of yours ive seen yet, ty for sharing practical ways to implement this! Delulu day is every day for me haha, but now I’m gonna have one extra special delulu day per week to speed things up and I’m gonna love the heck out of it!

@ahria3361 Год назад

Elle, I love your content so much! I've become a spoiled girlie and I am never going back. Thank you so much!!

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

I'm glad you're here bestie ✨

@louiserealandhonest 3 месяца назад

You look so young, Elle, how did you get so wise? I was so naive when I was younger!

@lummie.soares 3 месяца назад

This is far one of my favourite episode ❤

@tokyo204 Год назад

You appeared in my recommendation page today and I immediately subscribed after seeing this video because I knew that you will post future gems for us spoiled girlies. Keep up with the amazing content ❤

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

🥹thank you bestie i appreciate you 🫶🏽

@VeeKayGreenerGrass Год назад

Same. Love it here... Just today.

@Sungod777 3 месяца назад

♥️♥️♥️ you make me love being a women, we are so strong

@M3LTr1 Год назад

I that intro put into an actual long video. It brings me motivation for some reason, hearing you're not his dream girl, empowers me to do better for my own self

@lexirelle 9 месяцев назад

Your content is sooo fun and informative. I appreciate your advice, bestie! :);

@kausha7135 3 месяца назад

Delulu Day is such an amazing idea!!!

@toriscott3283 3 месяца назад

Thanks for the disclaimer 👏🏼

@theauthorgirl-podcast 4 месяца назад

Whenever i fear like i haven't decentered men enough, i always come back to this. It's a crazy fear to have but I'm all for taking care of these fears. This video really centers me bsck to where i should be

@astralovesbooks 6 месяцев назад

Wow, this explains a lot! It hurt's, but we have to accept this truth.

@janettevinza4681 9 месяцев назад

this video was very helpful 💕

@nataliediaz4640 Год назад

This was so helpful and sincere, your words at the end really made me feel seen ❤ur healing the community

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

thank you 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

@quynhao8437 Год назад

Love the content. Love the energy. You earned a new subscriber babes. Can't wait to enter my sprinkle sprinkle era 🥰💖

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

🥹🥹i appreciate you 🫶🏽🫶🏽

@ayadiyar1270 Год назад

Just found this channel, loved this video! I will binge watch the rest of your videos 😁

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

purr bestie 💅🏽

@larosenoirek2197 Год назад

I so needed to hear this today. I told myself these few hours ago.....related to the craziness and ungrateful people surrounding me. I have finally decided that I am coming first.

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I'm rooting for you bestie

@Itssimplyaisha 10 месяцев назад

Since I started curating my circle and setting boundaries, I feel safer just in general and I’m weirdly starting to attract girls that do have better energies like beforeee I got tangled with the messy nelliesss hahhahhahaaa. You’re videos are truly making me to be a spoilt girlie in real Time!

@frankyb4958 Год назад

Love this love everything you said!!!

@user-uz9pd1cn1t 4 месяца назад

Dayum girl, distribution curve to explain this- love it .. we are in a new era

@nakiflo Год назад

Thank you soooooo much for your video! My 20 mins well spent. Fresh and new information that I do not explore myself. Thank you! ❤

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

thank you bestie

@jennv1376 Год назад

I’ve really become a fan of you and your content. Love everything about this! Thank you so much for this and helping all the spoiled girlies out there become better for ourselves. 💜

@allieraquelYT Год назад

The little cuts/breaks in between the steps ("establish boundaries") with the dramatic music made me giggle 😄

@MissSophie218 24 дня назад

Thank you so much for your content. I'm a recovering pick me and I was told the right things by my grandparents but since they are both dead and I have been dating without talking to them I kind of forgot everything they taught me. I'm so grateful that I found you in perfect time before I got baby trapped by a man*. Thanks for your work, teaching and reminding little girls that got lost along the way, that they are in fact entitled to everything. Sending you nothing but love and good energy ✨🤍

@xoxoanshi Год назад

Wow I loved this so much. Please please make more about friendships. I really enjoyed this podcast.

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

thank you bestie. noted 🙏🏽

@Dreamer30190 6 месяцев назад

I love your channellll ❤

@phoebepugh7244 10 месяцев назад

So happy to have found your videos. I just binged like 50 of them and subscribed 💓 You put me in my place in the best way, and have my long-since-depressed-i-give-up-self feeling inspired! I know this is not the point at all, but do you wear foundation? I love how your skin looks in every video. If you do, would you share what foundation you use? Blessings

@gelibeanz_ 7 месяцев назад

I’ve been guys’s dream girl a few times, it’s not all that lmao, also looove your videos I just discovered your channel and I love it and actually feel like my mindset is changing I love it!!

@Anna-yw8yg 8 месяцев назад

Love this! 😊

@idefenentlyhateyousomuch1035 5 месяцев назад

Pink on you is EVERYTHING

@EmpressEmpath44 10 месяцев назад

Market driven dater and friend, good tip. Ppl will drain your energy when they find you appealing

@MandyJRoss Год назад

I didn't know you had a RU-vid channel. Yay.✨️ Delulu life is the best life.♥️

@therealmanifestelle Год назад

purr bestie ✨

@tamuz9633 Год назад

Girl, you are preaching today! After kissing many stingy frogs, I finally found a man who loves my Dream Girl. He literally worships and OBEYS me. His money is my MONEY. He gave me his dual credit card after our 5 week romance and no, I did not have any sex with him until I had my BAG, gifts and my bills paid each month! I achieved this all by being my own Goddess and he in turn saw the Goddess in me. LADIES...be your own Goddess, Dream Girl, Queen, Princess and the right man will embrace all of your AMAZINGNESS. Always be extra ordinary and he will NEVER forget you!

@bro918 11 месяцев назад

As a man this is truly disheartening to read

@jl4260 11 месяцев назад

@@bro918 As a woman, I promise we are not all like this...

@bro918 11 месяцев назад

@@jl4260 Hahaha that is good to hear. This is so bizarre

@keymango 9 месяцев назад

@@jl4260The dick riding is messy and apparent 😂😂 You’ll be fucked over as a single mom, boo ❤

@matchaleche 6 месяцев назад

1. Why the f**k did 65 people like this shit post?? 2. what you seem to have is not a relationship, but a money slave and it disgusts me to no end. He "obeys" you? Do you actually have a few screws lose? Are you okay? 3. I hope men know that this is bs and not what 'women want'