how to protect your energy when you reject men + margot robbie is mid? 

that's a nice clapback

Excuse me ma’am? You dropped your crown ;_;

I'll be using that 😂

😂😂queen behavior 👏🏽👏🏽

Excellent response! 🥂

It’s actually quite typical. That ego, gets me every time. Margo is the shit.

It’s actually also a pick up ‘artist’ technique called Negging.

Maybe sour grapes. The fox and the grapes from Aesop. They can’t get it so they devalue you.

It’s easier to ask it to some streamer who wouldn’t even acknowledge their presence, and call them whores😂

Exactly. An insult is low-level violence. Especially from a man to a woman. Anytime you feel threatened or intimidated, that is violence.

It's the breadcrumbs for me

Ive never gotten validation from men unless they were gay men

Wait unto you turn 40. Then it's the wall and the body count and yadda yadda cat lady. 😂

​@@videoettaceo8900 boy this is an adult conversation

And wear a ring on your ring finger when out alone, especially at night...it helps to keep most of those types of men away.

​@@bubbles_mc_rainbowI doubt men see rings on fingers, or care if they do.

@@byJessCh depends on what country and city you live in. Where I live men will 'respect' a woman more and leave her alone if she has a ring on. Not because he actually and literally respects her, just that she appears to be another man's 'property' which is sad. I've had men go from nasty and lecherous, to 'deferential' and saying "god bless you miss!! your husband is a lucky man" once they saw my ring, 😂 it had nothing to do with actual respect for me, but whatever it got them to leave me alone.

He's asking if you are taken. Women are sniveling pu ssies. Grow up.

@@bubbles_mc_rainbow That’s sound gross. I don’t have a ring on my finger and I haven’t dealt with that.

I’d like to point out that in her previous roles where she was simply there to appeal to the male gaze (just from what I’ve heard, never researched this directly though) she was seen as absolutely stunning. Now suddenly, when she played the role of Barbie, all these same guys who thought she was gorgeous are calling her “mid,” just goes to show that no matter how attractive you truly are, if you don’t cater to men, they will see you as “ugly” lol. I doubt they truly see her as “mid,” they’re just mad she’s not playing the role of being their little toy to look at… and it makes them feel powerless😂 how pathetic!

@@MashedTaterz "not playing the role of being their little toy to look at" ironic that this came with the role of Barbie 😅

@@enraegen561 hahahaha true! didn’t even think about that lmfao

You nailed it 🔨

It's also an attack on anything else a woman can be, her accomplishments, and how else she can be valued.

Cause they’re sick in the head.

Cause Harley Quinn runs after joker and she suffered which made them feel special. But Barbie is on women side. Barbie talked about womens right. That's why

Cause Harley Quinn runs after joker and she suffered which made them feel special. But Barbie is on women side. Barbie talked about womens right. That's why

You said it! They're not up to having the same standard of grooming, fitness and clothing and style themselves that they expect us to have, then they wonder why we reject them.

@@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259 We're not expecting men to wear makeup. But a decent haircut, good grooming (hairs out of the nose trimmed, etc.), a bit of thought about fitness and clothing, and MANNERS, respectful behaviour toward women... brash behaviour turns women off. Often men assume that they are being rejected for their looks when it is actually their poor grooming and brash behaviour that turns women off.

I agree with that, but it’s also an objective fact that women are more physiognomically beautiful than men.

Yeah, and even those cavemen with unkempt hair and untrimmed beards who dress like teenagers want to elevate theis status by hitting on the most beautiful women. The level of audacity is ...honestly almost impressive. Apparently men can be in their delulu entitled princess energy too.

Yep I had one guy say "Hi" to me while shopping and because I said, "Hi" back as an auto retort I then had to spend a whole hour with this guy not letting me leave drilling me for all my details & life story I gave him all lies he wasn't getting one true thing from me it's like "dude I don't know you!" I drew the line at my phone number simply cuz I didn't have a fake one memorized and didn't want to give this "drill sergeant of love" someone else's number by mistake! The guy also never stopped doing a deep stare one me either!

@@destroyraiden Ew. I would’ve done the auto hi too and been stuck with that weirdo. Nowadays they’ll pull out their cell phone and call you to check!

I've already told someone I am not comfortable talking to them but they still won't budge and say that they'll wait for me when I've finally healed from our toxic relationship. The thing is I've already cut them off but they don't want to cut me off too, and they say that they'll keep waiting on me. How do you deal with a situation like this?

​@@Arifumiko just block them from everywhere

@@Arifumiko tinycindy is right. Go no contact, if possible. Be safe and don’t bother being polite if you feel you’re in danger. This person sounds narcissistic. Narcs love stepping over your boundaries so be firm. Don’t allow them to talk their way into your home or car.

😭😭

Omg that’s terrifying

It’s true though. The second I started wearing an engagement ring and telling men, “sorry, I’m married” they immediately met my rejection with respect and admiration for my partner. 🙃

To be honest it does not work everytime but it's still a good try. I'm quite young and even I want to start wearing an engagement ring

This is a really annoying fact. I got sick of men insulting me and getting aggressive if I said no even when I was being very very polite and kind. So I asked a friend could I just pretend he was my partner any time I needed to fend men off.

Femcels lol

@@jorgenavarro311 what part of what I said is "femcel" ?

@@bonzai9802 where's the cope? It's all facts. Studies showed the happiest women are single, whereas the happiest men are married so It goes to show who needs who. No offense, but males are a burden to women, they can be easily replaced by a d1ld0

@@bonzai9802A man here snooping in women content was is the a threat to your manhood?

Hii spoiled girlyy💅​@@bonzai9802

Ugh that happened to my friend in college. The guy in our campus ministry group was a total dickhead and he was constantly flirting with me which was annoying af. He started dating another girl from our group who he eventually married (yikes) but while they were dating he asked my lesbian friend if she wanted to have a threesome with them. We both were certain he hadn’t asked his gf and just was being a disgusting warthog to her. It was sad funny and pathetic.

I’m in the EXACT same boat, and I tried all the same shit and got all the same responses and now have to give them all the same lie just for them to go away, it such bullshit🖤🌸be safe!!

Oh yeah! Those are trash! Don't fall for the hype!

@@AyaEgbuho Yup, they are just deflecting. Like, if I wasn’t a catch, then why are you having a mantrum ?….👀

You keep ascending dear because obviously these low vibe men sour that you caught onto their bullsh*t

thank you for sharing 🫶🏽 i love the support group vibes on this thread

Love bombing then insulting is def narcissistic

...they devalue it to us, [our time, body, presence, gifts] so we wont charge for it

WE are not freakin participation trophies. STOPPPP going out with people you have no interest in.

we do not owe anyone a chance to disrespect us. BLOCK THEM.

a men is the most dangerous when his ego is hurt when he feels insecure. dont give them the chance to disrespect you.

@@naomi-ey7yb nah a men is most dangerous when he has everything to win.

I am so sorry you had to experience that. I have no blame for you and you should never be blamed for his actions (I say this because I am aware of the negativity that we have to face). Thank You for sharing your experiences with us. By posting you are warning other women of the dangers that are ahead and for that I say Thank You. Please never be discourage from sharing your point of view; it is so valuable. I wish you a good life.

We are conditioned as women to sacrifice everything, even our own wellbeing and values. It's not your fault. I'm so glad you got out of that safely! Keep thriving girlie 🎉

True her smile lights up the room. ❤.

She's one of us (Margot Robbie) she was a producer of 'Promising Young Woman' starring Carey Mulligan -- she's the whole package with a powerful opinion. The movie is a must see!!!

Yep, it’s the moth to a flame thing, our energy is so pure and then whether they get us or not, they have to try to remove our light

@@bluehorizon17 💯

@@tffnyc1033 ❤️✨

They also target her single mother status, her education, and her high-earning status. The new one that these losers throw out at high-earning women is “she priced herself out of the dating market”.

@@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living Well that's just another way of saying "What are we as men even good for anymore?"

Hes busted and disgusted. He's mad cuz you as a younger woman at that time wouldn't accept his older funky azz.

Good for you for standing up for yourself against that idiot 😂

Most men are just trash like that, very vindictive and at emotional maturity of 1 year old. Like, literally, you are on object to them and they feel entitled to your body. You rejected them politely? Still going to insult and sexually harass you, because objects don't have freedom of choice, dignity or feelings. We obviously exist just to please them ))

Don’t fear them. Just ignore them. They’re just rejected and refuse to work on themselves

You have a very realistic view on life : don't you ever change it and let someone talk you into the relationship/ marriage BS. 40 yo, was baby trapped by a nerd who played the good Guy/ savior card on me and pursued me for more than a year. My advice be aware of their manipulation tactics and protect yourself/ your friends. Living childfree & drama free is the New peace of mind. Frim experience, 99% of them aren't worth it, are fake and switch, and use marriage/ babies to trap women.

Please get support or talk to an older person that you trust at home and school if these predators are bothering you or your friends.

Yes, you can also speak up in real life! And btw: no men & no baby! 🎉

Stop being a fucking groveling dog and grow the fuck up. Grown men don't give a fuck about you. If they do, it's because you're probably sexually developed and you look like an adult. 99% of them will walk away when you tell them your age. Maybe you really are evolved to obey and submit if you're going to be this much of a sniveling puss y.

same🫶🏽🫶🏽

Men have nothing but audacity !

@@HankWilliams-kp3io Nowhere mentioning feminist parenting, by the way, sorry for what you endure but that ain't feminist parenting at all, that's just authoritarian, and definitely not what the bible or Christianity teaches, they likely misunderstand the symbiosis between men and women. A man leads out of protection and not submission. Women claiming their value back isn't at a devalue of truly mature and masculine men. Love is out of will and not out of obligation. If you feel like your role is to obey women at the sacrifice of your own free will, then there's something to heal and reflect in the programming given by your parents, and the inability to voice your concerns or opinions to them. Sounds like an issue of oppression rather than an issue of gender respect. Cheers

@@HankWilliams-kp3ionever heard of those lies

This!!! 🎯!! Women also play a huge part in this!!! I can't wait for a topic on horrible mamas boys who make horrific husbands

Yeah but the men have their fathers & all the males outside of the home to undo anything the mothers do so it's one woman or your own house hold of them vs all the trends, jokes, movies, and all the men of the world they'll run into that's not winnable they still come back being sexists, disrespectful, and devaluing the woman around them on a daily, weekly, monthly basis!

So true.

when women hate men, they avoid them. when men hate women, they hurt them🥺

testosterone is one hell of a drug🤡

This! So many times i see online where men invade women spaces and I’m like “why are you here? Do you need a pad like wtf.” This is why women reject you. It’s you.

Ewww that dude must get arrested what a weirdo omg, glad you're safe though, those kind of men have some serious problems....

seriously most men should be locked inmental health institutes. That is full crazy sht behavior and is totally bizarre they can do sht like this sistematically and not get punished

No one asked for your sob story. When I was 13, a grown woman groped my balls. Bad people exist. Get over yourself.

Yes, made the same mistake, never again 😊 this idiots can suffer with my silence

Yes 😮 how sad is that

Women hold men back every step of the fucking way. They would be if not for females.

People think women are jealous of women. But in my opinion men are jealous of women more than they are jealous of men. Their ego ☕

Men liked Margot as Harley Quinn but not as Barbie. Cause Harley Quinn runs after joker and she suffered which made them feel special. But Barbie is on women side. Barbie talked about womens right. That's why

I dated a guy who had both parents the father being quite successful and him basically being the sons hero. Well he was a horrible misogynist and that was passed down from his rich daddy. On the outside you’d think everything was perfect.

@@Nonabacha43 I am now in my 40s and never married because I just never found the right match for myself, but I have come to this same conclusion in recent years. It's not that I *won't* date a guy who did not have at least one sister, but my preference 1,000 times over is that they do, and that they are close to them. It makes a HUGE difference IMO.

That’s something I’ve noticed too. A lot of people like to claim that criminals (in that of male criminals) are like the way they are because they had no fathers in their lives. And maybe that might be true to some extent, but one thing I’ve also noticed is that these criminals tend to have pretty poor or toxic relationships with their mothers as well. I don’t think the main cause to a terrible person’s life is the absent parent, it’s the parent that’s raising them that’s the main cause to how they end up in life. And if the child has an unhealthy relationship with the parent who’s raising them, then most of the time they’re not gonna come out as a mentally healthy adult.

There may be truth to that - my husband grew up with 2 sisters so he’s pretty sensitive to women’s issues. He’s very sweet ♥️

My bf has a lot of little cousins that he thinks of as sisters. Some of em are around my age as well. And he is the best man I’ve ever dated in my life. Very high emotional intelligence and keeps me grounded.

Do you live in NYC? They love doing this in NY 🙄

When they’re not throwing punches

Wooh, so much hate towards you just because you refused 🥴 you did great by standing for your friend and not letting her alone it's always dangerous to be alone as a woman and even more with alcohol in the body. He was trash you didn't miss a thing by leaving him 👋🏻

Aww I'm so happy you didn't leave your friend, dziękuję ❤❤❤

Sounds like an American. Dodged a huge bullet.

Some inc*l. So glad you ladies got safe❤❤

BBMEM: "you're not what I usually go for" You: "Then don't, byeeee" 💅

Your comment is so right on! You can't win in so many of these situations. Too many men are catch-22 ppl b/c they are such egotistical control freaks - basically narcissists. If they can't control you, they will either abuse you or cheat on you. I have been stalked a lot in my lifetime and it made me so scared that it scared me out of marriage which is one of the reasons I never got married. My stepdad Ron had to even chase this one stalker off in his car b/c he kept coming around and one night, Ron was over and he took the 20th call of the night from this creep who kept calling me. The guy had told me earlier, "you're not that good looking anyway" when I told him I wanted no more contact w/ him but of/c he had told me on our one and only date b4 this that I was gorgeous. I always always get this very predictable treatment as these fools are SO predictable. As soon as you reject them, you can see it in their eyes - the resentment, the spite, the devil himself...I always tell myself, 'it's coming, wait for it, wait just another second - here it comes - 'the you're not all that' line that I always here right after they built me up to tell me how great I was and how much they wanted me. It's been an ongoing pattern w/ 90% of the guys I've ever known since high school. I was always the 'stuck up bitch' or slut or whore, etc, b/c I rejected guys I wasn't interested in. In today's insane culture, I am now called the 'Karen'! Ron told the to get a life and cussed him out and the guy said "I'm taking your daughter out whether you like it or not" - super crazy creepy stuff - kind of like the movie 'Fear'. He came to my apt. and banged on door and said he was coming to take me on a second date and Ron answered the door w/ his 6"4 frame and large football body in the doorway. "If you call or visit or touch my daughter, I'll kill you with my bare hands you weasley bastard!" and the guy ran to his car and then Ron ran after him, followed him in his car and ran him off the road. My stepdad was always my hero like that w/ bad guys. After that dramatic incident, I never heard from that creep again but my history w/ controlling-type men and stalkers and immature man-babies is so rich, I could write a book. These men are all about egos and control. It's disgusting beyond belief. I love seeing women like this content creator use her voice in such a powerful way. Good for her!!

​@@kaitlynkarol4600 yeah, I've learned that if the average joe on the street will say or do anything to feel like they're more powerful than you, especially as a woman.. they'll do it. But women at any age can find a man, but unless they're financially successful it's so much harder for them to find a woman cause lonely men are in abundance. If a man can't enhance a woman's life, most women who know better & know their worth as the Divine feminine.. most smart ladies nowadays think "what's the point then? I'm better off with a man who enhances my life not give me stress."

I'm really sorry this happened to you, this is awful.

I call it the modern bullying: we are not allowed to say "no", and we aren't protected from their revenges especially when they are in a powerful position.

I'm in a similar situation right now, It's affecting me to the point I need therapy

@@glxy1671 Please seek therapy and resources to give you options. If you aren't aware of your options, ask social services, Blackburn center, and dial 411 for resources. Trust me it isn't worth your sanity. Is anything worth your sanity is too expensive.

@@kantik2118 It's definitely not a new thing, just look at Harvey Wein blackballing those actresses coz they rejected his vile ass.

I have a bf absolutely does not work I had a man who I rejected who was 15 years older than me 45 I was 28 telling me how iam old and nobody will want me and he is in his prime !!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

🥹keep your chin up bestie. the devil works overtime in some people 🙏🏽

Instagram is filled with these low-quality chromosomes, block them and enjoy your beauty

​@@SilentTripno fr. Like guys be calling girls a 5 on a good day whilst they literally have no hygiene, are old enough to be their father and no picture

F*** those haters! Don't stop posting your beautiful self on your Instagram page, start deleting unwarranted hate comments!

@@monicadavis6336I second this. Beta males (who are more than likely incels) are invading women’s spaces, including their Instagram, and they’re attacking them because they’re losing, and they HATE it. Your reality is that many people IRL find you attractive and ask you out. Don’t let some keyboard warrior a$$clown get you down.

Those are male identified women. Obsessed with male validation and attention..they will go as far as betraying and even unaliving other women all for the sake of being picked by males

That's awesome builds character too! And now you're bad ass! 😊

true. the sad thing is a significant number of men aren't that deep (deep enough to be interested in a self-possessed, healed, rise-above-difficult-circumstances-and-shine kind of woman)... a lot of them literally HATE that about us.

Yikes! Men can be totally revengeful psycho bitches and hold a grudge for decades! I have done so much reading now to try to pick up sooner if there's a problem. And watch and take things slowly (& always assume there's an ulterior motive). Right now, I've got 3 men in my local area I'm avoiding by being careful when and where I go, and 2 more blocked on the phone. Sometimes I think there are just horrid people marauding around globbing in to anyone they can, so it isn't always us attracting them - they're just there.

As my Mom used to say don't eat where you sh##. Men as friends or otherwise in the workplace was a NO NO. I kept it strictly professional. Even during company events I kept a safe distance between myself and male coworkers. Also get you a fake boyfriend photo and place the pic on your desk, get an engagement ring.

@@khrisi9410 I will definitely take that approach the next time this happens. I have for sure learnt my lesson.

What an absolute scrote. Good on you for leaving toxic spaces that don’t serve you

Sue them I am pretty sure those are workers rights violations right there

Lots of men go Trans to avoid being unwanted. There's a saying that women would get with another woman if she's hot than with the guy nobody wants.

That’s unfortunately true, and I fear for young Gen Z girls who haven’t yet realised the dangers of sharing spaces with predators like that. Women’s empathy is weaponised against us, these men know exactly what they are doing.

This! They’ll be the ones who still present as male and make no effort to “pass”. They aren’t even thinking of lobbing off their nasty peens. They also are the ones to make the most noise when they’re rightfully ejected out of our spaces.

I am glad the women in these comments aren't delusional and aware of this bs. Recently, there was an IT conference for women and a bunch of straight men called themselves non-binary/trans and took up women's spaces 🤦‍♀️ this is why men shouldn't be allowed in women's spaces

​@@yami_mamiI am seeing the pattern lately, they go trans, and suddenly they decide to play sports with women because it's easier to fight biological women or they do s*x work because women are paid more in that industry 😒 which made me question their existence.

🥹🥹thank you

agreed x

​@@therealmanifestelle You are the best RU-vidr 💕

@@Imliterallyherebro Thank you 💕 I really should report him cause he says a lot of stuff that make me uncomfortable

@@azuraseleniteOmg that’s terrible! What are you waiting for sweetie, PLEASE report him to HR, he’s getting away with shit like that if you let him go unpunished. If your colleague starts out with nasty comments and then when he gets the chance to be alone with you, who knows if he isn’t going to take it a step further and try and physically assault you? I hope he doesn’t follow you on any social media, doesn’t have your home address and that you have ways to protect yourself because sometimes these incels can resort to stalking and violence to ‘teach you a lesson’ when they get caught. Sorry I absolutely don’t mean to scare you but it’s better to be aware and prepared of the things these type of men are capable of then to have it happen and not know what to do. Do you know if any of your other female colleagues have had him be rude to them? If so, then you can go to HR together and support each other. Remember It’s all a reaction because of his own shortcomings and anger, don’t take anything he says personally because his goals is to douse your fire, he wants to see you become insecure and unhappy. Don’t let him get to you bestie. Stay safe and good luck 💕 Edit: I just saw your pfp, you are a mix of beautiful and cute. Precious 🥰 Now I know for sure he’s trying to break your confidence. You do you and stay your beautiful self girl, don’t let any man mess with you!! Especially no toxic office troll 🙄

You are beautiful. You are a bad ass. He's probably secretly in love with you and sniffs your chair every time you get up ❤😅

@@Imliterallyherebro Thank you so much 😭 he specifically targets me even my other co-workers have tried calling him out but then he says it's just a joke. It's so weird cause he'll flip and try being nice when someone calls him out or I do. Either way I'm very grateful for your words🤧

@@udontevenwannaknowbruv Thank you so much these comments really made my day I know I shouldn't rely on external validation but it just feels really nice to hear you guys are amazing I really wish the best for all of y'all 😭😭

@kogo8107 to add a cherry he said he will tell his homegirls about me blocking him and tell me what they say. 😕

No girl, he wants the attention, even if it's negative attention But if you were ever forced to say something, be like "oh, I didn't pay any attention because that's not how you talk to me" lol I learnt this from an older woman

I too am a ring girly hehe 🤫 😉

I’ve been thinking to do this! Use it as a deterrent lol

Listening to Elle made me realise that I had so little seld respect that I was putting a BBLM who treated me disgustingly on an absolute pedestal, being desperate for crumbs of affection from him. In a short time my outlook shifted and I went from infatuation to complete and utter repulsion with a hint of pity in a heartbeat, I literally don't want him to ever touch me again. Now I'm just angry at myself for wasting so much energy on him instead of pouring it into myself.

Yah the mathematical rating for beauty doesn’t make sense… the human body is a work of art! You can’t just slap a number on it. Art is about feeling, expression, soul. BUT. You’re right. If you did put a number to it… women are on average more appealing to look at than men. It’s also men’s FAULT women are so pretty bc they sexually selected for beauty (think the opposite with birds). So to hear them complaining and sour graping is hilarious.

@@schuylergeery-zink1923 that too. I remember as a 9 or 10 year old hearing boys in my school talk about how a woman on telly had a good body. I remember being thoroughly confused about what it meant. I thought a body is just a body. Unless there's something srsly broken about it, surely it's not good or bad? Presumably the 9 year old boys also didn't know wtf they were talking about either but were parroting sth their older brothers or even uncles/dads had said. And presumably they have continued to do that for the rest of their lives 😂

What happened to Keke Palmer and Halley Bailey?

@@Hadex518hello, I’m not a lesbian, I’m high key straight but do not enjoy admiration from men. I would much rather only be spoken to by men I approach.

@@Hadex518 firstly, there is nowhere in OPs comment where she says or even insinuates she’s a lesbian. That’s just you reaching. Second, you don’t speak for all or ‘most’ women. Lastly, I am not the exception, most women I know would also rather not be admired by male strangers and only appreciate admiration coming from men they’re actually into. Saying you would rather be adored by females not males doesn’t make you lesbian. How old are you, 5?

@@Hadex518 There you go again with your assumptions🙄I am not a masculine feminist, I actually happen to be a very girly girl. I’m a girl’s girl and proudly so. I made my account way earlier in life, but now it’s just a profile name. You’re incapable of thinking broadly and take everything at face value it seems. Also, I read her comment and that statement still doesn’t allude to her being a lesbian. Finally, you’re a disgusting person. There is no such thing as m*nor attracted person, you’re just a p*dophile and predator. Get help, loser!

A great way to reprogram your subconscious script is through affirmations or askformations. The key is listening while in a drowsy sleepy state because the conflict between your subconscious and your current low self esteem thoughts that reside in your conscious mind will be eliminated which clears the pathway to input new thoughts or a new way of thinking. Listen to Goddess affirmations, beauty affirmations or self love affirmations every night for 6 weeks or longer, it can take up to a year to reprogram your mind to love yourself.

Omg I've done the free therapy thing... Never again :/

Yes. I spent decades politely saying no and explaining why if they asked, then getting insulted. I have a right to say no and be respected, but pretending I was another man's property was just easier in the end.

@@Hadex518 typical sexist nonsense actually. Plus you've entirely missed the point of the comment, but never mind.

And they say to you, I’m not jealous

thank you 🫶🏽🫶🏽

bro i was never in that situation either but then this one guy asked for my number. I gave it and then he followed me around for like half and hour. Finally he comes up to me and demands we have dinner there and then. I had to sprint out of the mall for my life. Men just are not worth it.

fr😳

exactly, MR would never even give them the time of day

@@Hadex518 she's 33, so you like minors??