How to Build Trust in Your Relationship | Relationship Theory

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Love, trust, and the ever-growing connection between you and your partner. Are you focusing on these positive parts of your relationship, or are you letting anxiety, worry, and insecurity plant seeds of doubt and consume your mind? On this episode of Relationship Theory, Tom and Lisa Bilyeu sit down to discuss such matters as they explore how to deal with insecurities, worry, and anxiety that stems from the possibility of your partner cheating. They discuss how to overcome such negative feelings, steps you can take to confront your own insecurity, the best parts of love, why someone might cheat, and how to become emotionally sober.
SHOW NOTES:
Anxiety | Lisa and Tom discuss overcoming feelings of anxiety due to fears of cheating. [0:32]
Insecure | Tom and Lisa discuss the steps you can take to deal with your insecurities. [2:26]
Constant Reconnection | Tom and Lisa discuss the best parts of what love is about. [3:42]
Why Someone Cheats | Lisa and Tom why cheating isn’t about looks. [6:06]
Emotionally Sober | Lisa shares the power of being emotionally sober and empowered. [8:11]
QUOTES:
“Insecurity is not sexy.” [2:37]
“The shared experience is what the game of love is about.” [3:42]
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Опубликовано:

11 окт 2020

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@caramelbrulee7389 2 года назад

Some personal advice I’d like to give, is understand that these attractive women existed before you and your partner met. He has seen many different looking women in his lifetime, but he still chose you. You’re giving him something that those women don’t. A bond! You two have a connection that is beyond the physical, and every single time he calls you, takes you out, spends time with you, tells you he loves you, kisses you, etc, he IS choosing YOU!

@fortheloveofteaching9514 Год назад

This is wonderful. It starts with our own value. If you’re worried your partner will cheat, it means you need to look inward and fix yourself first. A high value woman doesn’t feel insecure. She knows her worth, her value, and if she’s not treated as such, she moves on. Let go of worry and what-ifs. Go with the flow and stay in your feminine energy. It’s much more attractive. If you find proof of any kind, know that that man made a poor choice in losing a good woman like yourself. It has nothing to do with us. We can’t control our man’s behavior or choices. It starts with how we feel about ourselves. If they cheat, too bad, that’s on them. They just lost an awesome woman (if you choose to move on.). It’s not easy, but this should be our mentality.

@EvaMariposa 3 года назад

Such a difficult topic to tackle when we've been constantly cheated on & lied to. Not just in romantic situations, but being lied to & backstabbed in all kinds of relationships totally influences our trust issues. It's totally a daily battle of mind against reality until we learn to dissociate from the fears and just live in the moment.

@jungungy7474 2 года назад

everytime i think my partner finds someone attractive, i have the same panic that woman has. but then when i find someone else attractive besides my partner, i would never choose them over my partner. it’s very hypocritical but i don’t know what to do anymore

@brookerenee3261 2 года назад

If a man loves you he will find you the most attractive as well as respecting you enough to not go out and entertain what he finds attractive

@outroseok

"this is not your partners problem to solve" THAT PART THOUGH.

@kimseive Год назад

Ugh. How do I protect myself?? That's my fear. How do I not make their actions hurt me??

@rosswardrop465

A simple answer.Stay single.Have a good car instead.Better off.

@tamartamunanemsadze7750 3 года назад

Why was never mentioned in conversation that women also find other man attractive?

@daniellechekel8866

I love what she said about working on her self esteem so that if cheating ever happened, she would know it is about him and not her. I have been cheated on and when the partner told me all those years ago, I 100% felt it was about him and not me and I felt so confident in myself that when he showed remorse I was able to not be angry in that moment and let him know "yes this hurts but I sense you did this because you're in pain and it actually has nothing to do with me". and then I could make my decision whether to stay or leave and yes feeling and owning my anger and pain was part of the process. and that was just my approach, and it felt so empowering. I was really proud of myself. It still hurt like shit..it felt like my heart was being squeezed in my chest and there were some self-doubts. But ultimately it was never my fault or responsibility.

@PreacherDave1

That comment by the anonymous person perfectly shows how I feel in my relationship. Never seen some describe me so accurately.

@mariannematteau3523

oh my god i love the idea of the

@RealTalk-mq2ug Год назад

I claim a beautiful heart-centered healing for the friendship between myself and my best friend.

@_lines_of_joy Год назад

I love this advise. Thank you! Glad I found your channel💖

@evo7126

Im a man that just got my first girlfriend i truly care about, ive had trust issues in women due to my mothers behaviors growing up, this video i feel has truly helped me i. Thanks.