How To Change Your Child's Behavior : Follow These 3 Rules!

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What to do if you don't yell, abuse and hit your child? Watch the second part of this video where I help you advance your bond and love with your child.
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With all due respect to parents, but I strongly believe that parents who hit, yell and abuse are stupid, dumb, arrogant, dominating and have no respect for themselves or the child. These parents lack love, empathy and need to update their parenting skills BIG TIME!!!
I have a solution for parents who are struggling with their child’s behavior. It could be stubbornness, aggression, lying, disrespect, back answering, hyperactive, attention disorder or something else, it really does not matter.
The solution is to follow 3 Rules that I personally use and have explained in the video. I promise you will see a change in your child's behaviour within a few days.
Only and only if you can sustain following the 3 Rule’s for 30 days and still don’t get results, send me an email on crm@murtazabadri.com and I will personally coach you for free. The reason is that it might be a little more complex and might need an intervention.
Some parents are going through a lot of stress and anxiety and I highly recommend they watch this video for an effective parenting solution.
Share the video and comment, which rule are you struggling with the most.
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@MurtazaBadri 5 лет назад

What to do if you don't yell, abuse and hit your child? Watch the second part of this video where I help you advance your bond and love with your child. English video Link - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-rrZwZ-pG0ME.html Hindi video Link - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-hhOYF0CqXLI.html With all due respect to parents, but I strongly believe that parents who hit, yell and abuse are stupid, dumb, arrogant, dominating and have no respect for themselves or the child. These parents lack love, empathy and need to update their parenting skills BIG TIME!!!

@starqueenlotus3755 5 лет назад

MY PARENTS ARE NARCISSISTIC. I WANT TO GET OVER THEM, MOVE ON AND LIVE A HAPPY LIFE. I AM STUCK.

@MurtazaBadri 5 лет назад

How old are you? if above 18 and can manage yourself and your life... then move on and live a happy life... who's stopping you?

@HappyKidsTVColoringForKids 5 лет назад

Thank you for sharing this information. I will surely be trying them out.

@carlosmendez3757 5 лет назад

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@nishaabdul4670 5 лет назад

Thank you so much sir i will try this in shaa Allah

@mukramjabri3168 5 лет назад

now a days as all knows raising a good child becomes a very big task. ... Allah help us and make khair

@RosaPBabu 4 года назад

Thank you

@parentingbeyondbehaviours6382 2 года назад

It sure is we need to get effective strategies

@robbinsnest6163 5 лет назад

I'm guilty of yelling, thankfully not hitting or verbally abusing. But I hate yelling. I need to work on that.

@WA-hornet007 4 года назад

Ditto

@babukannan2556 Год назад

Sir this is Rekha from Chennai my Son is13years old he is not leasing anything and not Even doing his own things Sir I'd don't have thing to do please give me some good point's to teach him

@robertomendez187 10 месяцев назад

You can do it! Children listen more when you don’t yell. Because they feel loved and respected

@khadijai.6270 5 лет назад

will try this 3 things InshaAllah 1) no yelling 2) no abusing 3) no hitting

@786inspirations7 5 лет назад

🤗

@HappyKidsTVColoringForKids 5 лет назад

Definitely worth trying. This is good information.

@rahimumar5175 5 лет назад

@travisneely5754 4 года назад

Get out of here

@tousiyapendari556 4 года назад

Lol... Difficult to not yell when ur child pulls your hair, scratch your face and bites you everywhere

@MsUri26 5 лет назад

OMG. I had tears because this Is exactly what we going through.

@kryptickiddo8481 4 года назад

Me too

@shivaniagarwal8641 4 года назад

Yaaa same here....

@knbhargavi9009 4 года назад

Me too

@fawad9254 3 года назад

Same situation with me as well

@aguilarchristine3401 2 года назад

OMG me too I ended up crying for my child I also feel so helpless when I cant control her. Thats really true.

@AQ12804 5 лет назад

Thank you very much for this video. I watched and took on the challenge for 4 days now. I am loving the results. My 2 year old was going out of control and I felt really helpless.

@tamasha4 5 лет назад

1. Stop yelling and start respecting for who he/ she was. 2. Stop verbal abuse 3. Stop Physical abuse.

@tanziyafathima3611 5 лет назад

srrr

@umaannita1493 5 лет назад

Im not doing any of this...but my son is naughty😭.

@anthonyfletcher8053 4 года назад

Uma Annita is their a man in the house?

@gamzeelmao1157 4 года назад

My mom be like: im just going to pretend i didnt see that

@mynameisreallycool1 4 года назад

You'd think this would be basic common sense but apparently not

@larrynewman7087 5 лет назад

nicely said.....keep promoting love and kindness . .the world is dying because people forgot to be humble and kind.....i wish everyone peace and happiness!

@kuajohnbare4827 5 лет назад

Thanks brother, I have four kids and by watching this video I will try to change my approach to discipline my children

@786salmay 4 года назад

Very difficult to do in my situation HOWEVER I will try to implement these three rules In Shaa Allah .. May Allah SWT make it easier for me and all ... Jazak Allahu khairn kaseera brother Murtaza

@JustME-zn2vu 5 лет назад

Thank you so much for this! I’m a first time mom and trying to figure out how to parent my baby and I find myself yelling all the time. I plan on stopping and getting my daughters attention and talk, that seems to help the best.

@naomirussell-tucker4578 5 лет назад

Thank you for this! Much needed and I will strive to follow the 3 golden rules. Confirmed what the problem has been in my family.

@kamamujawar3297 2 года назад

I promise I will stop abusing and hitting my child. Thanks for reminding me that I gave birth to my kids. So they are special to me. Thanks bro.

@MurtazaBadri 2 года назад

Most welcome 👍❤️

@parentingbeyondbehaviours6382 2 года назад

You are special and your child is special please know that hitting is not Necessary there are more effective strategies that work

@tasneemindorewala6697 7 лет назад

it was a grt to c u sharing these basic rules. definitely if it would b applied by every single parent ,I m sure there would b magic or miracle I must say.. thnx for sharing this vedio..

@MurtazaBadri 7 лет назад

The challenge is will parents use them.

@mohammedyasin4207 5 лет назад

Masha Allah..…................….......…. Very truly said Inshallah I will follow all these rules.Allah(SWT)has given us a precious gift..........that is our kids

@MurtazaBadri 5 лет назад

A gift.. no one can buy or create without the creator.

@mkvkhuptong1833 5 лет назад

I wish i see this before my son is born,i really appreciate it,thnks alot.

@kadeejaali1364 3 года назад

same regrets here😣😢

@fancysonja 5 лет назад

thank you very much for your advices. I am a mother of 3 children (25,18,13) . I have always communicated with them in the way you are talking about. I must say it´s worth it. They are very understanding, helpful and open minded. Now I´m working with kids of parents I don´t even know. I´m helping them with the homework for school and I am with them for breakfast and lunch, but I realized, that I am not getting heard, if I talk to them like I talked to my own kids. (Would you please get off the shoes..?...…and so on) They don´t even give me the chance to talk to them;; either they run away or they say nasty things to me or they even kick with the foot in my direction. There are children who have almost no rules at home or there mothers go on holiday an leave the children at home with grandma. I don´t say anything against grandmas. Most of them do a very good job, but I ask myself: " Is this the way how children should grow up. And what can I do as a nanny to teach them how to get a friendly and successful person ?" Sometimes I´m really frustrated and don´t know anymore what to do and how to react. If everybody would follow your 3 rules, there would be less squarrels and disputes all over the world.

@nabilakhan7231 5 лет назад

i'm so thankful to you for this video, i'll find a way to make my mother watch this (my father is lost already and can't change anymore).

@LindseyDawnArt 5 лет назад

I live by positive reinforcement with my kids and it works. I do yell im not going to lie and i hate myself for it afterwards and feel so guilty x

@vanessamcdonald1585 5 лет назад

Thank you im a single parent of two and i need help with this . i am also young too . and trying my best to be calm

@lysa7211 5 лет назад

Needed to watch this again. I was doing good then I lost track

@lubnamirza7946 6 лет назад

Beautiful advice. So true. I wish I watched this video 14 years ago.

@MurtazaBadri 6 лет назад

Does not matter start now and make a good ending.

@memeiammemagic6263 5 лет назад

I'm so frustrated at my four year old son right now. He broke my new flat irons. And I haven't had them for a week yet. I want to whip his butt. Somehow I ran across this across this video and now I see I need to find a different approach. I thank you for thework that your doing. Cause now I know I am not alone in the battle of frustrations and parenthood.

@siyamahmed9907 5 лет назад

Melissa Jasper Girl mine broke my iphone7 pluse and his new ipad his dad brougt .he broke the ipad with a screw drive and i just looked at him i felt my heart ace and i just cried .i didnt tell his bad yet coz its make me looking irrisponsiable

@dhchoudhury10 5 лет назад

@Murtaza Badri, I suggest that you should keep your dumb satanic logics with yourself⚠ ....So kindly stop fooling the people here for your personal gain, just for the sake of making money persons like you have now started to flood the youtube with videos full of bullshits in the name of spreading knowledge⚠ ....Have you came here simply to improve your English speaking skills⚠ ....Today the world is going through the time phase of anti-christ, therefore majority parents all over the world are giving birth to children without knowing or infact don't want to know how to upbring a child⚠ ....Let me educate u, that only two true Prophetic and time tested policies exist in this world to educate and discipline any child, which are: 1) RELIGIOUS EDUCATION ALONGSIDE SECULAR EDUCATION WITH A FOCUS ON TEACHING THE CHILD ABOUT THE PUNISHMENTS FROM THE LORD IN BOTH THE WORLDS FOR DISRESPECTING ONE'S OWN PARENTS, and 2) STRICT GUARDIANSHIP ALONGSIDE GIVING JUST THE RIGHT QUANTITY OF LOVE"⚠ ....Using stick on the child upto the age of 15 years is compulsory inorder to create fear and respect for parents in the heart and mind of the child, this way the child will remain obedient and disciplined⚠ ....Pleasing the child too much by agreeing to fullfil all his/her wishes under the excuse of Love is the root cause of all the evils⚠ ....If you cannot discipline and make your child obedient than it is better to kill the child rather than succumbing to his/her's pressure or blackmailing tactics⚠ ....Otherwise, it would be better not to become parents if you can't remain strict with your children bcoz loose guardianship is a total "NO"⚠

@sonapurple2882 5 лет назад

Melissa Jasper please don't whip him. Poor boy didn't do it purposely. He loves u. Why will he hurt u. All my love to ur sweetie pie

@roohijamal 5 лет назад

Nice

@anasomar7863 5 лет назад

Melissa Jasper jjq

@treecytreez23 5 лет назад

Shurkan my brother.. as a muslim woman mother and wife it gets extremely hard.. mahshallah!!! I needed to hear this.. Shukran🧕🏾

@teKKiJishan 5 лет назад

Im going to share this video with all my friends...jazzak allahu khairan brother....im a mother of 2 yrs daughter....Alhamdulillah im not hit my baby and my husband also....Allah hame sahi rah dikhaye...Ameen

@sanacraftlifetamil5062 6 лет назад

Thank u so much...I'm facing these problems rite now... He s 6 years old...not going to school coz we changed his Skool for 2nd std...yesterday I hit him n scolded as u said..felt very bad n inshaallah I will change n accept your golden rules..thank u sir

@MurtazaBadri 6 лет назад

Thank you for sharing and wish you love and patience with your child... the first step is to regret, the second step is to create an alternate behaviour and then start changing.

@worshipthecreator9081 5 лет назад

Never hit a child.

@afsahfarooq710 5 лет назад

Never hit a child its a killer thats always an alternative

@verasverrucktevideos1810 5 лет назад

yelling and calling a child names is killing the bond. hitting kills trust and most of all the child is having self esteem issues later on. I grew up like this. now I am a mother of a 15 year old son and I don't yell at him. and I never hit him. talk, communication and logical consequences do the job. give them rules and also responsibilities. and trust me...my son was quite one hand full. he went through one hell of puberty with all you can imagine. I kept telling him that I love the person he essentially is. we had horrible 14 last months but now it's getting back to being respectful and loving. he even verbally said" thank you mom for loving me the way I am" those were the best words I have ever heard cause it showed me love is most important and not ego. thank you for sharing and confirming I always knew I wasn't wrong.

@MurtazaBadri 5 лет назад

You are an Awesome Mom! You are proof that with love, belief and being Alive & Fearless you can help a child find and accept who they are with confidence.

@verasverrucktevideos1810 5 лет назад

+Murtaza Badri thank you 😊. yes I believe in unconditional love towards children. We as adults should lead the way and show them how to do right. we're responsible to form their personalities and this can only be accomplished with love and not with violence -physically and or verbally. we need to show them and tell them were here and love them. also with rules but never by withdrawing love.

@samrah1130 5 лет назад

U r lucky thy u hv child like that sb ayse ni hoty

@judithsonoiya922 5 лет назад

Tinú Nes

@moonmirza7 5 лет назад

How you managed...i had a tough time with my son...

@salsabilajanny9610 5 лет назад

you hit the spot brother.I think we all get the same problems with our kids.all what you sate today in this video is true.the majority of parents are yelling.abusing their kids verbally and physically.I will follow your advices and I hope improve and empower my relations with my little kids.

@MurtazaBadri 5 лет назад

Appreciate the honesty and share.. hope you find the courage to apply these 3 rules.

@rakshaabishekkanna2856 5 лет назад

Every parent shud follow this. Thanks lot. God bless you bro

@jeyasuthatamilarasan5560 5 лет назад

Thank you brother I'm really undergoing this problem. Very much needed for me. I did all those you said. Now I got my mind going to apply your rules. Hope it works.

@MurtazaBadri 5 лет назад

wish you courage, patience and love.

@iLuvTheMostHigh 5 лет назад

Hello, I would recommend : Echart Tolle: “A New Earth”/“Power of Now”.... Eckhart Tolle also did a 10 episode series live w/ Oprah Winfrey here on: RU-vid.

@ns5827 5 лет назад

My son and his wife were to have a baby. He asked me once that what does it take to be a good parent? I responded: you only need three things; 1) love your child unconditionally, 2) be a good example, 3) keep in-laws and non-immediate family at bay - that’s right even they should know their limits. For sanity sake, don’t preach your kids to death. Action speaks louder than words.

@mickeyjojoone4692 5 лет назад

just my strategy and ofcourse constantly teaching them God's way.

@Ayesha-Siddiqa573 5 лет назад

You're such a sweet mom and mom-in law

@MurtazaBadri 5 лет назад

ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-bWx1zEBAuZg.html

@ishwaakahmed9132 2 года назад

@@tousiyapendari556 lool exactly

@sam5687 2 года назад

Inlaws at bay? What about your own family

@nosaefionayi7302 5 лет назад

Thank you for this wonderful video. I will put the 3 golden rule on my brain and I Will discipline myself to do it. Sometimes we parents release anger, frustrations, most especially when things are not going well, and they don't listen.

@nailsbymaz7214 3 года назад

I’m so guilty of these things! Your right I need to change my behaviour and spend more time with my kids playing with them. Thank you

@MurtazaBadri 3 года назад

Most welcome

@magicbox2331 6 лет назад

Thanku soo much

@daaniausrat9500 5 лет назад

Thanks a lot sir I will apply this obviously

@aishaabdullahi8188 5 лет назад

Salam brother, I am a Nigerian a mother of three, 2 daughters & a son... My first daughter is 7, she is not listening to any of my words that I get frustrated so I yell & even hit her..... Honestly after watching this I regretted everything, In sha Allah I will use the 3 golden method.... Astagfirullah!!!

@nalusibajuliet4717 5 лет назад

My boy likes fighting back ..is it age coz is three

@olidabegum9092 5 лет назад

😂

@khaledmahmood6599 5 лет назад

May God guide you..

@JannatJannat56 5 лет назад

Aisha Abdullahi Never hit her specially your first child .Even if she doent listen to you .First child is very sensitive .I lost my daughter I used to hit her when she was young now she is grown up and she stopped talking to us she is not talking to anybody in the house .

@nooreharam9574 5 лет назад

@@JannatJannat56 Mujh sy b yeah glti Hu Mera baby 2.5 years Ka h Mai ab boht pachtati Hu Plzzzz btay kya abhi m usko change kr skti hu?

@marilemua499 4 года назад

I’m crying because memories came in my head. I don’t want to repeat what happened to me with my son.

@MurtazaBadri 2 года назад

Hope you are doing well.

@johnnyappleseed6960 6 лет назад

#1 Take their phone away #2 Explain clearly and calmly how to get it back #3 Dont give it back until the behavior change agreement is achieved/demonstrated for the time period agreed upon. No "yelling" needed, no hate involved.

@MurtazaBadri 6 лет назад

Thanks.

@EnlightenedEndeavor 5 лет назад

No cell phone, until 16 years of age, thats the rule in our family. Kids got used to that rule, and no more questions.

@alimulla7709 5 лет назад

Thanks sir.... I will try to follow this 3 thinks... I think it will help... Thanks once again

@jeff4prav 2 года назад

In a Gist 1. Stop yelling; instead communicate 2. Stop hitting; sit with your child give love 3. Stop abusing; support the child's thoughts

@Flamingosu 5 лет назад

Thank you for the reminders.. I do the rules but get back to yelling. I will try my best. I am praying.

@rajamanickamgnanasekaran6594 5 лет назад

Thank you so much for this information. I will follow this rules my entire life. Once again Thank you sir 🌹

@1amnickii329 4 года назад

I will try it starting this secound,Thank you.

@MurtazaBadri 4 года назад

You are awesome! Wish you courage, patience and persistence. Thanks for sharing.

@yasirmpr 5 лет назад

Jazak Allah brother. I have one daughter I love her more than my life ..

@e.shivpriya1176 5 лет назад

Bhai u are right, I some time do it. I feel shame of myself. I will follow it.

@MurtazaBadri 5 лет назад

awesome!

@lifesymphony2024 6 лет назад

Frankly, i don't have a child of my own. But, we have many kids in our family. Mother plays the biggest role in a child's behaviour. My nieces and cousins are an example. The latest child is my brother's daughter. Such an angel. I only see her once a month yet she does her routines everytime she visits my house. My brother loves watching football. He wanted to go out and watch in coffee shops with his friend at late night. My mum didn't allow. She fixed astro and get the football channel for him to watch at home. His friends are allowed to come home but they didn't come because it's very late. The rule is the same for girl and boy in my family. No such thing as boys can loiter late at night. We all do housework, we cook together. Every day my siblings has to mop the house if they want to go cycling in the evening.

@MurtazaBadri 6 лет назад

Awesome! looks like a lot of fun : ) thanks for sharing

@azeemapathan4873 5 лет назад

Sir my son 16 years .he love me but iam forway from him iam leaving out of country me &my husband.before he is with us.becuse not enough money we send india my son &my daughter also they stay with my big sister house. My son is diabetic thatsway what he whats i try to bey for him.he never letoin to me. He sleep let night&he didnot go college. Because he cont weakupmorning.he not take breakfast.&,inj also.what he will ask i need to arrange.other ways he will not take injections.iam very tied what to do ples give me anwer.how can he become good ples.

@skrt11skrt55 5 лет назад

Sharmella Krishnasamy I love that comment and the routine ! Thanks a lot for sharing ❤️

@dhchoudhury10 5 лет назад

@masooduddin9916 5 лет назад

My son have a adhd he is hypertension we are treated him but we want he gets well soon 10 yrs

@user-B3autifu7 6 лет назад

Thank you

@IIXll0llXIl Год назад

📌 3 Golden rules: 1. Stop yelling and start requesting softly with postive tone. 2. When yelling continues his/her minds shuts, and the cycle continues. 3. Stop verbal and physical abuse. Start loving them and spend time with them.

@marcialovell5868 Год назад

I completely agree with everything you are saying. Most parents become very frustrated dealing with their children.

@azhargaming1485 6 лет назад

Yes you are right bro

@davidperez5089 5 лет назад

Good video. It`s SO hard not yelling at them lil`munchkins!

@MurtazaBadri 5 лет назад

Sure, but it's equally hard to not love them : )

@ginam6691 4 года назад

@@MurtazaBadri its even harder when your 12 yr old equates what you can buy for them with how much you love them 😢

@Jabed31 2 года назад

hats off to your amazing explaining technique.... My sister always yelling his 2 year boy & talk to him with abusing language sometime tell him ..... why you born 😐.

@MurtazaBadri 2 года назад

Thank you... Happy you liked it!

@Rithvik0912 5 лет назад

Thanq for the valuble suggestions bro..God bless u & ur family bro

@JayJay-lr5wm 5 лет назад

Good video. Valuable information. I love your enthusiasm as you present this....

@Angeliceyes487 4 года назад

Crying right now...... I am a bad mom.... I really don't want to yell n all... I want to be a good mom...

@MurtazaBadri 3 года назад

The first step is realization which you have... now you need to learn the rules and apply it. facebook.com/groups/thinklikeyourchild join this group and watch the videos

@jamesoumar 5 лет назад

I totally agree with you. People think I spoil my boy because I always talk to him nicely even he is wrong but thank God my child at the moment he is the sweet and respectful child. He is 13 years now🙏

@sravzzz3743 5 лет назад

We will try our best to be like this.... bt the thing is some times I loose my control...... I used to think at times chindren are born to point out our own mistakes..... because whatever problem my daughter have is absolutely from me....

@9888342744 6 лет назад

I love you sir with respect u give sach a great advice and very. Useful for me I really satrgel with my 2year old daughter I am thankful to u

@MurtazaBadri 6 лет назад

Most welcome, happy to help.

@jfkfashion8378 6 лет назад

Thank you so much

@asmariaz3832 5 лет назад

If you give respect to your child they will give you back

@khayrsheegmedia4311 5 лет назад

Thanks your advising. I appreciate.

@baileyelaine 4 года назад

I’m a kid watching this because I feel guilty, and my sister called me names I’m not gonna repeat. She also said my mom doesn’t know how to discipline, and if I were in a different family I could’ve turned out right, so I want to change my own behavior.

@MurtazaBadri 4 года назад

I am happy you want to change your behaviour. Visit facebook.com/groups/murtazabadri and join for free. The group is preloaded with a course you can watch and begin changing your life.

@ghousiyakazi5179 4 года назад

The same thing with me ☹️😢

@nidahusain8034 5 лет назад

Thank you so much sir.you explained things very well

@seekingknowledge488 5 лет назад

JazakAllahu Khair for your response and that you wish my dad has good health and life, ameen

@MurtazaBadri 5 лет назад

: )

@sayedhashimi2925 5 лет назад

Thank you for the information. We all struggling with the same difficulties as you said. May the Almighty help us all. Again Thank you for the video.

@MurtazaBadri 5 лет назад

Most welcome!

@fatimarazzaq7282 4 года назад

Thank you sooo muchhh for sharing these rules. I am a teacher and i really wanted to know what is getting wrong with my kids... Identifying these points are really what I wanted to hear right now... May Allah bless you with success and peace.

@MurtazaBadri 4 года назад

Appreciate you being honest and sharing... Thank you for your kind words.

@gamotventures7083 5 лет назад

This video made my day.I will put it in practice

@Streamchecked Год назад

I'm not a parent but I'm changing myself

@MurtazaBadri Год назад

Awesome!

@shellys402 4 года назад

I am guilty of yelling too...thanks for your video. I will try not to yell

@MurtazaBadri 4 года назад

You don't have to try...you need to stop...its, not an option...you won't get what you want by yelling that's for sure. In fact, your kids will become more stubborn, disrespectful and aggressive.

@shellys402 4 года назад

To be honest if I tell him to do something simple couple times and he don't do it I just raise my voice a little more and he finishes doing whatever I told him to do as fast as he can.

@MurtazaBadri 4 года назад

@@shellys402 He is doing because of fear...not a good motivator. Connect an inspire him to do the work without the need to yell or he will get so used to only work when yelled.

@shellys402 4 года назад

Yes that's what I will stop doing cause I don't want to be yelling at him before he does something. No all the time I have to yell on him just sometimes. Thanks for your advice

@diamonddx95 5 лет назад

Thank you so much for this timely message! My husband has passed and I'm left with a 25 year old argumentative and irresponsible 25 y.o. child. I have no problem putting her out and all of my other children are on their own but this one has a baby that I fear would be neglected severely! What would you suggest

@user-gz1kw1qk5j 5 лет назад

Please don't leave your child alone. Your grandchild needs you. Just try to find common ground with your child for the sake of your grandchild.

@tytaylor1843 2 года назад

Don't argue. That's an adult you are dealing with now. Present with 2 or 3 options with time frames that are realistic. Stick to them. It's your house and nobody rules your house but you. At least you gave an option. As far as the grandchild. You can't allow the the 25 year old to control you with that factor because they will. Sometimes tough love is the way and you have to let fate deal the consequences as designed.

@tytaylor1843 2 года назад

@@user-gz1kw1qk5j Sometimes ain't no common ground with a grown adult who wants to do whatever they want. Are you suggesting this person puts up with this for the next 18 to 20 years until the grandkid has a kid and then they have to deal with the same issue another generation??

@thequeenhasarrived8395 2 года назад

25 isn't a child that's a young adult start treating her more of an adult then a child like how you refer her as.

@abbasmanasawala313 6 лет назад

Hi sir I am going to try it from tomorrow onward only really appreciate you

@MurtazaBadri 6 лет назад

Wish you courage and patience... do it at least for a month to see results.

@falaknaazkhan3354 2 года назад

Mr badri I always watch your videos can't remember how many times .. When ever I get upset of my 2 & 4Yrs children ... and go blank in my life .... it's like ray of light and enthusiasm ..... from now on Ward's I ll not yell at my child

@MurtazaBadri 2 года назад

Thank you for your kind share and wish you courage, patience and love to follow these rules. Also check our online parenting course... It will help you with your parenting. Visit www.thinklikeyourchild.com

@preetabhattacharyya5093 5 лет назад

I thank you sincerely from the bottom of the heart, I am struggling with my 11 year old son....you Really got me thinking...thank you🙏

@jumanaofficewala7719 2 года назад

Excellent. Keep it up

@genevievegrantham4070 5 лет назад

In 3 bullet points please confirm that i understand the rules correctly ? #dont shout and scream - communicate with love and care rather, #dont verbally abuse your child - communicate with love and care rather, #dont physically abuse your child - hug hold cuddle the child rather... Is that correct????

@MurtazaBadri 5 лет назад

Absolutely correct!

@sabihanaz1934 5 лет назад

Genevieve Grantham tfaalz

@sabihanaz1934 5 лет назад

Murtaza Badri r bjj

@tchernina 5 лет назад

Gee thanks!

@aishaaisha2650 5 лет назад

Yessss

@neetufarook6288 6 лет назад

Thanks sir I will follow ur golden rules🙏

@MurtazaBadri 6 лет назад

Awesome!

@shanthiebenezer203 5 лет назад

thats true. its a wonderful msg for us to follow. keep sharing. starts with yelling and ends with physical abuse. its all bcos of parents expectations are not met. we shall try and keep you informed

@vandanajoshi633 4 года назад

Same thing happens with me...I feel guilty. I tried not to do this again. Thank you sir. For guide us..

@MurtazaBadri 4 года назад

Pleasure to help

@divinasantosh2853 5 лет назад

Thank you very much for this video !!!

@MurtazaBadri 5 лет назад

Most welcome : )

@fcmfamilycreatingmemories6746 5 лет назад

I so agree with this... Kids won't listen to us if we are frustrated, I learned for experience and change it and saw the different! thank you for sharing this and keep the good work of spreading the good parenting!

@MurtazaBadri 5 лет назад

Thank you!

@FirsttimeYoutuber23 2 года назад

Challenge accepted sir , let’s see even I am having very stressful time with my kids

@MurtazaBadri 2 года назад

Do let me know how it goes

@MyHomeFoodsCrafts 2 года назад

Thank you so much for this video,, i m about to break my family if I don't watch this video,, i was just planning to puty 10 year old son in boarding school,, i understood that's not the way,, i will change myself sir,, thanks you so much,, God sometimes come on the form of angels 🙏😭

@MurtazaBadri 2 года назад

Wow you just made my day.... Happy to help and I am sure you are a good parent and have the best intentions... Just learn the parenting mindset and you should be good.

@ramannaik2078 5 лет назад

Very well said brother... god bless u

@davidkay7201 6 лет назад

Anyone who calls their kid an idiot is a good for nothing who does not deserve to be a parent.

@MurtazaBadri 6 лет назад

Totally bro!

@melody-fs2tp 2 года назад

I am going the process but thanks for the tips and when you single mum like me is more difficult

@omaisaftab8395 5 лет назад

Vry Important mesg in a vry simple way ..I want to b a good mother but most of d times my kids test my patience I really feel bad when I use bad wrds for them or when I beat them may Allah forgive me for that ..I always say sorry to my kids for being so bad sm times

@jaredfigueroa1317 Год назад

I really appreciate this video. I was raised by a single mother who worked constantly, and through no fault of her own, wasn't able to spend as much time on herself and her child (me) as is necessary for healthy development. As a father of three now, a real fear of mine is not providing them the best environment possible for healthy mental and emotional development. I have been researching child psychology and putting a lot of thought into this, and videos like yours are worth their weight in gold. It feels like a literal lifeline to someone who at times feels like they're drowning. Thank you so much for what you do.

@MurtazaBadri 10 месяцев назад

Most welcome... thank you for your kind words

@MurtazaBadri 10 месяцев назад

Pls schedule a call at www.murtazbadri.com/call for us to help you with your current parenting challenge.

@Destiny-jt7yi 5 лет назад

Asalam alikum May Allah reward u. This is exactly what parents need a teacher to teach them.

@MurtazaBadri 5 лет назад

Just playing my little part to bring some joy in parents and children's life.

@Destiny-jt7yi 5 лет назад

MashAllah keep the good work up.

@shanthask2257 5 лет назад

We are following these steps as much as possible with my grand daughter.

@gurdevkaur4505 5 лет назад

Thank you......that will help many in a great ways and many of the children will be saved from a mental torture.

@MurtazaBadri 5 лет назад

I really hope so. thanks for sharing

@ashjams370 5 лет назад

I feel so bad nowadays my 12 year son is sometimes giving me tough time....not listening n answering back he is so loving n sensitive...i feel too bad now...i am but strict vth him and imposing....i never hit my child never abuse...but nowadays I am getting so b0à mom...thanks bhai for guidance😊😊

@joyhsiuyinkwa3435 5 лет назад

Good job well done brother.......God bless........

@MurtazaBadri 5 лет назад

Thank you!

@Abkdegnghi 5 лет назад

I truly appreciate your thoughts i will make use of them in future for the fruitful result.

@ScorpionMaiden75 5 лет назад

How many parents are the monsters that the children copying? This is why I am seeking help. My parents were abusive and I refuse to keep this family curse from going any further... Thank you 🙏❤️

@farinaazim5061 5 лет назад

Please take a video on ADHD behavior management

@NJWAANAA 4 года назад

I love ur possitive energy that you charge us with😍😍😍

@nafisakhanofficial 5 лет назад

I subscribed right away. My son is 4 years 8 months old. He has speech delay and diagnosed with autism. Inshallah I will follow your advice. The rest I will leave it on allah.

@MurtazaBadri 5 лет назад

appreciate your interest wish you courage.

@sadaftanveer8817 5 лет назад

I have a baby boy of 7 months insha Allah I will use these golden rules...

@user-ft9tp4ss2d 6 лет назад

Thanks for the video and made me guilty, I sure follow these rules and take care of my sons...

@DomesticDiva95 5 лет назад

I m so guilty... i promx i try to follow ur golden rule. I m from a broken family that effected my personality so much. I try to avoid these thing but sometime i loose my temper on my two year old. i m so ashamed of myself.😭😭😭 Help me.