How to chase goals THE RIGHT WAY. 

I've just realised I dont have any goals and I have no idea how to create any Btw awesome video as always ❤ Ruff, you beautiful man, can you help me?

this vid took so long to write gawdamn

What I mainly learned from this: Make quality things that make you happy, don’t turn things you love into work. If you do, it sucks.

Video summary: • Goals of successful and unsuccessful people are the same, but what differentiates winners from losers is that winners focus on the process. • be constant with the flow Winners work for the activity and not the final destination. They work even if they are tired because that is actually their dream. • Love your work If you're committing to the goal, the final destination, and not loving, prioritising and focusing and doing the activity for fun and not for the rewards, then you'll probably not achieve your goal. • Use goals as direction when you're lost and dk what and why you're pursuing the activity.

1. the goal of the loser is to commit to the goal whereas the goal of the winner is to commit to the activity 2.live in a constant flow 3. "A late video is only late till it gets released but a bad video is a bad video till the end of the time" 4. take action.

Really appreciate the genius metaphor ruff made about driving a car to chasing goals and cleverly explaining the value of loving what you do.

Dear Ruff, Thank you so much for everything. I mean it. I seriously do. You genuinely changed my life with a few videos and I don't think I could possibly go back to what I was before I saw your videos. I hope you keep improving as much as you've changed me because I know that you'll become whatever you aspire to be. You probably, no definitely changed all 124k subscribers you have. Thank you. Thank you so much. Regards vny

"Remove your final destination and ask yourself, if you would you still go on that road" "What separates winners from losers is that, It's not just a work for them, it's a play they do it because they enjoy doing it"

The man who loves walking will walk further than the man who loves the destination

Not surprised this vid took 3 months to make-its literal gold. Effort put in is directly proportional to the quality of work produced 🔥

"I'm still an obsessive person, don't worry, I'm not a sane person yet" -Ruff, 2023

Video Notes: Successful people and unsuccessful people have the same goal as everyone else. Goals don’t differentiate winners from loser. Goals just serve direction. The goal of losers is to commit to the goal, the final destination. The goal of the winner is to commit to the activity. Love the work. The end point is just a place. Commit to the activity, not the results. The goal is a mean to produce the best work. Take action.

I'm 32 years old and I've been suffering for 4 years due to a job issue. You have no idea how much you've helped me with this video. Thank you very much, keep doing what you love!

Don't know how to fully put it into words but I'm just really thankful that a channel like you exists man. An inspiration to the new generation. 🙏❤️

So,this is what I learned from the video: Focus on the process and learn to love it It’s not about the goal,it’s about what person you BECOME when you reach the goal. These lessons are extremely useful, I tried it and it works

I have been thinking about this concept for awhile, and to be frank I would not go to the gym if that final destination did not exist. I would not study hard nor would I work hard at anything. I want to love what I do but I just can't think of It as anything but a means to an end. I am struggling to love the process. Thanks for the vid tho you'r always able to broaden my perspective and I appreciate that.

Not a lot of people think about things like these and all I could say is that it's amazing how helpful these videos you make are. Keep it up man

So the lesson I have learnt from this video is to love and enjoy the process instead of thinking about the goal. So we should only worry about the tasks which are the process that wil eventually get us the goal. Thank you for making this video Ruff 👍

Thank you all the life advice you give us, glad to have people like you to give us a heads up and advice from learning from their own mistakes. You are authentic and real which is something that is rare these days. Thank you.

Man, I'm glad that I stumbled upon you in my youtube recommendations. I really love how you put stories into words. Just like how your editor said, "I love the way you think." After the first video that I watched from you, I subscribed right away. Love the vids, man. Thanks to you, I can finally see the most important things that I need to see.

Thank you so much for your advice ruff. All your videos have helped me pursue my ambition. I hope you make it big ❤️

It's hard to explain but I love your videos. You can really get a point across in an entertaining way and I love that. Keep making more and I'll be happy to keep watching!

It's not about what you get when you reach a goal....It's about who you've become...💯

this vid is my motivation 🫶

ruff is just a legend like he is dropping facts.

From experience, I believe setting goals to what I can accomplish is something that’s fulfilling enough for me. If the goal seems too far away, bring it closer. Then, when the goal seems too easy to accomplish, push it further out, both the goal, and the progress are part of the process. Progress is the key and the goal is the door. That way one can keep improving while challenging their limits. Just be happy with what you’re doing and achieving, that’s what matters. Be realistic with what you can do, it’s not all about the goal or all about the progress, it’s about what you want to do. Also great video Ruff, the fact that you manage to write such focused and thought scripts on the topic at hand is a show of passion, keep up the interesting videos!

Just came to a similar revelation a day or two ago in a call with a homie and now seeing this vid articulate it was super helpful. The 3 months of learning showed in the video, keep it up bro :)

thankyou so much man! you've seriously helped me a lot, with everything i do. I truly feel like a better person, so yeah thanks a lot, keep making great videos!

W vid Ruff! You have inspired me in so many ways to begin the changes in my life. Thanks for everything that you’ve done

Thanks bro for all these great videos. You brought us all into the right track. Whenever I feel lost I just come back here😌. Waiting for the next video❤.

Honestly, I think the validation i get from myself whenever i achieve something that aligns with my goals in this way is unmatched.

To be honest, I’ve been noticing that I’m not going anywhere with my goals this year. I was wondering what is the exact problem? After watching this video, it made so much sense and kinda opened up what I haven’t seen in myself. An obsession for the result and no enjoyment of the process whatsoever. Thank you for the hard work. It definitely worth 3 months of work 😎

grateful for the YT algorithm for bringing me into your channel. This is the first video of yours that I watched, and I'm grasping every bit of the words you utter. I'm making this my 8 minute ringtone. ❤

this is one of the most insightful and important vids ive watched from you ruff, and you already are so insightful as a yter

Ruff you really fascinate me with your videos. This video is an epic one. I got into sense now , even I was very obsessed over a goal which is not the right way to progress.. Thanks bro..❤

i swear, every damn video you share is a life lesson, and in every one of them, you quote sum awesome metaphors. Great stuff as always, keep on

aaaaa, so excited! i'll watch this after my class. thank you for an update, ruff! i love your videos sm

Ruff: why your goals aren't leading to progress? My life: because of family problems, financial issues, depression, ocd, anxiety etc.

The way you explain things is so great. Thank you for this ❤

Thanks for this one, @Ruff it was much needed.

hey ruff, i've been watching you since last year and you are the most practical person i've ever seen. thank you

ruff I think you’re a really cool person. I look up to what you do and how you do it and the background music makes me feel relaxed. I feel like I spend so much time ready to improve and doing all these things that days when I just sleep in make me feel worthless. You’re so cool dude thank you

What i learn from this video is : Commit to the activity not the goal. You will eventually make progress if you do it for fun and constantly doing that

All of these videos are incredible! Keep up the good work!

Damn bro you really dropped the hardest, most important video for me. Thanks man, your work really help me become a better person everyday.

"RUFF! 🐾 Ugh, this really hits home. Thank you so much man it's a really good vid

think the reason why ur videos are more relatable is because of the analogies you use, i love it

Wow... My eyes have been opened on another level. 0-0 Thank you so much, Ruff. You're helping a lot of people, including me. ^v^💖

i love your videos! That morning routine really helped me get into a better mindset and take atction!

Bro omg thank you so much, mahn. This video really showed me why I got marks less than my expected marks. I really had no idea why I kept losing. Thanks a lot. I'm really gonna adapt to this soon, in sha Allah ✨️💞

Bro just yesterday i realised that I was really focused on the goal rather than improving myself everyday. I forgot what I loved about this journey.And the next day you post this, talk about the timing lol. Anyways love the content

Really really appreciate the content you are creating ❤ Really helping me develop myself in a healthy manner Thank you brother

LOVEDDD ITTT Ruff your videos actually make me think so much and help me a lot! thanks

This video hit hard. The other videos are extremely great, I don’t even have constructive criticism since I agree with it so much, but this video just made my hair stand and I’m going through a turning point which is quite tough, but ruff you are doing a great job helping me and countless others. Love ya (no homo)

THIS IS A REALLY GOOD VIDEOOO mwah, xoxo you are a life changer

What I understand from this video is that the key to success in achieving our goals is to not actually pursure the final destination or reward, but to enjoy the process and have fun with it. Because that is what separates the winners from the losers.

Actually, this is your first video I watched, and it changed my mind. Like seriously. I began to relate it. Ruff, you created an amazing content. Crystal clear with what you said. I really liked or more like loved this video. Keep creating such more content. PS: Your voice adds another effect to your videos. Hehe.

Love u bro helped me out alot so far and im suprised and it gives me hope seeing you go from 700 subscribers to over 100k in pretty much half a year it makes me think i can do it too get into the top high school in my country

1. commit to the activity, not the goal/results 2. live in a constant flow state, always focusing on the task at hand 3. its not about what u get, it's about who you become 4. remove the final destination: if the goal didn't exist, would i still be doing this?

Man your my inspiration thank you for all your videos the videos you make helped me alot❤

bro is spitting bars like it’s nothing

I couldn't think enough about what you said in this video. Recently I was writing a goal and a plan to write songs and become a musician, and my friend told me "don't push or even blame yourself, just do it for fun" but I disagreed. Simply that I haven't tried hard enough to make any real progress; also if I just focus on the fun, I might not achieve anything (because it's like doing things for fun and not for the result). But when I see this video, I understand what you and my friend means. Actually, I think there should be a balance between the goal, the plan and the progress (as you said, focus on the destination, then progress, then the goal - that's what I thought). But only if you focus on the activity then things can move ahead. Of course, this is only apply to myself. If you feel like you want to do things for fun, it's ok. But I want to achieve something beside having fun, so I think I should pay more attention. Anyway, a great video as always.

for 2-3 months, I’ve been off self improvement and slacking on everything, getting back on, thank you for giving advice

profound af video incredible, and somehow i found relations to my league days and that made me a little happy. it means my time and energy spent on learning leauge is somewhat relevant the gps for me was like my eyes were glued to the map, constantly looking for plays to get to the goal of obtaining an objective or impressing my friends with my great awareness skills. all i was thinking about was results, and that sacrificed my actual gameplay, and i either end up dying first or leading my team to into a position they were not prepared for (the crash). i found a perfect synthesis of the two, where instead of focusing on the map, i focused on visualizing the most flashiest, funniest way i can execute a play and trying my best to replicate that play. this both impresses my friends and puts us in a good position in the game overall... and i have fun

Bro, Your the best man I don't know what to say! Like alot good since u have helped in a lot of problems

This video made me cry. I always loved drawing, so I started to share my art in Twitter, for so many years there, I obsessed over becoming a big artist, have a huge following and receive lots of likes & attention in my art, but it always flopped and it frustrated me, drawing started to become a chore. I started youtube just for fun because I genuinely enjoy creating videos and I want to produce them in the best quality I can, as creative as I can, I didn’t obsess over subs very much because yt was just a side hustle to me, as long as I was creating, I was good. Nowadays… I have a lot more responses over here on RU-vid than I ever did on Twitter, but for so many months I couldn’t understand why. After all, wasn’t Twitter the one I was obsessed with results? Then why are the results appearing in this platform, and not there? But after watching this video, now I understand. In Twitter, I was only caring about the big numbers, however here, I focused on the actual activity of creating. That’s what made the difference.

"When u achive the goal u don't get anything its just who you become " man thanks for the mental switch about obssessing over the goal without even realizing that the endpoint would not be some grand retribution of mine but it would just be me looking back at how hard i carved the road to get here and it will either be a half functional road which purpose was just to take me to my destination or a road that has a strong foundation and acts as pillar for my other goals as when you reach a destination that you were chasing for so long another destination loads up right into GPS of a brain ready to head off again

this video dropped at the perfect time. ive been wondering where i should go as an athlete after only making the b team, but now that there isn't any anxiety about joining the a team, i can have fun and learn. i love my sport anyways, so ill just focus on learning emulating and improving

you're right, i do love the process when i first jogged to a place that i set as a goal, i didn't feel any different that's when i realized that i only loved the procces

Man i just found this channel and this is some fire advice ty

Goated video as always.

When you are paying so much attention to getting to your goal it tends to feel stressful and it can feel so hard to want to keep going. Unlike doing it for fun, the reward is the fun because you’re enjoying doing it. (I don’t know if what i said made sense lmao I was just trying to wright my thoughts)

Hi, 6:43 This advice is something that I needed to hear because I didn't realize the depth of it before. I am struggling in a competitive school for a competitive college entrance exam and I think this word of advice would bring a significantly huge change in my approach. Thank you ruff : )

This is exactly what I needed to today, thank you

bro u changed my life thank you 🙏

Right now am working on ambtions, I guess its made me more eager and determine. I love your inspiration keep the work up. Honestly i wait for the vids.

The fact you don’t monetize is crazyyy

highly inspirational shit right there man it took three months to make but will ripe fruits for generations to come

Nice point you made there, I think a lot of teens take a goal oriented approach, or a otucome oriented approach, and the biggest problem with it is that you have almost no control over the outcome, and your priority isnt really on the process of becoming apt to achieve that goal, but rather on achieving the goal. I'd cite a quote from bruce lee here which goes like "Not all goals are meant to be achieved, they are simply something to give you something to aim at"

The best line of the day for me that will help me to push myself for goals is doesn't matter if you achieved that goal what matters is who u became after achieving that goal ... I am new subscriber frompast two weeks I am following ur basic morning routine and it actually fucking change my morning it makes me so productive thanks 👍

Wow you totally inspire me bro💫

dude defined "Happiness is not something you achieve, you can still feel happy in the process of achieving it."

"We want the results, but also with huge life satisfaction. This is when we make the most progress but also when we feel the most fulfilled" - literally changed my life

I love your content bro. Its helped me so so much

i know i heard this advice from couple of self improvement or self help videos before but idk, it's ruff who really slap tf out of me about this one.

this was exactly what i needed to hear tysm!! also did you do sm to your audio I'm hearing your voice and the bg voice in diff ears I'm concerned if sm is wrong with me lmao-

Just when you said this, I understood that I've never seen any ad on this channel

We're the same age, and I see you as an accountability partner who reminds me of why I started. You remind me of how I was an year ago, so it helps me stay on track. Keep it up.

When I got my guitar, I would play everyday the entire day even when my fingers was hurting so much, because I had fun playing every time. 11 months since then I've reached my goal and now I'm able to play any songs that I want to play.

Lovely video , it shows how obsessed you're 👍👍👍

I really like how u interpret things going on in ur life and turn it into lessons and messages. Did u figure it all out by urself simply through observation or did u "take it" from other sources for instance books, historical figures, influencers, etc? The reason I ask is because I was going through the same thing but it lasted for more than a year now because I didn't know about the situation that I'm in. I was just amazed by the information and insights that u have, thankyou for ur time, luv ur videos.

Yknow its always a good day when ruff uploads

Love it!

Bro, this whole video was baaarrrrrrrss!! You are a fucking legend and nobody could ever convince me otherwise!

Such a quality Content ❤🎉

This helps. Im doing youtube videos as well, on a different channel. Ive been struggling because i put quite a bit of effort into my videos but am still under 100 subs after 1 whole year of doing this. I enjoy making them, but ive been wanting the rewards. Im slowly working on myself to just find hobbies and make my videos about the vids and i definitely have seen improvement. Anytime you post i watch because of all the self help teachers n whatnot you're my favorite because youre on this journey with us. Its not like someone telling you what to do, its someone basically walking hand n hand with you to get through this perilous journey we call life. Much love ruff. Continue to grow homie and we all shall as well.

Amazing content bro thanks :D

bro love this dude

That shot was clean 😱😱