How to find your purpose with ONE simple question. (no bs guide) 

ngl when I found your channel I just assumed you where just as pretentious as any other self-improvement influencer and I still had that impression up until recently after some self reflection. Your confidence is genuine and is not something that you created to show it off, you want to have a good life and I can admit that it is admirable and this video just confirms it.

current purpose - get a haircut

The daily stoic is a good book. It taught me that external things don't fix internal problems and that peace naturally comes not because you're in a quiet place but because you within yourself is at peace whilst surrounded by hardships. Pretty cool book

Keytakeaway Core desire - main goal Constraint - layers/ things to improve Use the word "This is the season of" To make your self aware of what the current goal

Love your videos, Ruff!! I've been really enjoying the Daily Stoic along with gratitude journaling. ☺ Those two things have really transformed my life because whenever I am feeling sad or low about something, I remember to seek the beauty in the little things. The little things energize me and then I am off to be productive. ✨

I like some of the things you had to say like for instance the layers and how people don't really understand what they want to be, etc. It is finally nice to hear someone in this generation think for themselves rather than just strictly follow what everyone else does. However, I think life is more than having a singular puporse, I feel like life is more about doing the things that will make you happy and proud of yourself, rather than just focusing on finding the 1 thing you want to do with your life. Also about the depressed millionare thing you were saying, the thing is, imo, money does make you happy, it is certainly atleast a factor of happiness. Other factors include family, friends, and God (optional for religious people). Because the thing is, in this modern day world, more money will definitely make you more happy, it opens up so many more opportunities and experiences. I don't want to be controversial or anything so don't pay too much attention to who said this quote, but "if rich people are depressed, why havn't you seen them give away all of their money?". The education system and stuff teach us things like that "money doesn't make you happy", because like, not everyone can, nor should be rich (based off facts, don't take it the same way as "not everyone should be happy" because that is not the same thing and is not what I am saying). Not everyone can/should be rich because then the economoy won't function well, if everyones starting businesses, then who is going to be the doctor, be the construction worker, be the guy who flips burgers at Mcdonald's. However, to become succsesful, you need to work hard on something you are passionate about/not passionate about/something that works rather working hard on something that won't work, regardless of how you feel. Cuz at the end of the day, those who put in more time and effort than others, can reap the fruits of their labour. Cuz no one can be happy all the time, but it does pay off to do things you don't necessarily want to, to earn it. In summary, people don't need to have 1 purpose, you have 1 life and God wants you to live it to the fullest. People say they only need God to be happy, but God has given us all the tools we need four ourselves to become happy, because if we are happy, God is happy. Show God the beauty of his own creation. And most importantly of all, enjoy life! tldr: just had the greatest chicken nugget ever 11/10 would recommend

Thank you so much ruff! Everytime your video pops up I know what next I need to improve in my life. Really needed this

am i stupid or did this guy quadruple his subscribers in just a few months and i didnt even notice

glad to find you RUFF 🥺❤

keep your content format and style the same man you are gonna be extremely successful on youtube overtime, i wish you goodluck and all the best, love your videos

If this man became buddhist he would reach enlightment in a week

You're the best therapist I can ever have! We are very thankfull for your hard work!! (Btw i don't go to therapy or anywhere like that, im fine) Bro, all my friends are very worldly and, they distract themselvs from the deep meanings of things, that just makes me feel I don't belong to them, and its such a an uplifting feeling to listen to you! Just TEACH ME MASTER ☀️

You're wise beyond your years, keep it up. Learned a few things there, thank you.

This guy, I love these vids so much bc i can relate to him so much, and his advise has felt so practical in my life, and i have enjoy listening and applying it, for the past like week, but def gonna keep watching these vids.

What I learned from this video Limit input, reflect on your current constraint, eliminate the bs layers use the theory of constraints to analyse your life and align your life as much as possible with uour current layer/ current purpse. Purpose does not come from the external world. It comes from inside yiu. You can learn much more in the next 5 minutes if you consciously, truly ask yourself about your life than people have done in years. Thank you ruff

you know, i'm really glad i found about your channel. I think i just found a solution to a problem i have been facing this whole week. Thanks :)

not gonna lie the core layer of desire looks like bohr's model of an atom.

Very insightful, this stuff has been on my mind the last few weeks and you really helped clear it up for me. Thanks Ruff!

This one of the best video that has been posted in this channel, Great work Ruff!!

All this time I thought I felt so lost because I am in the wrong career path with what I am studying. But you just made me realise that I have just been focusing on the wrong areas. My current purpose is definitely my health and fitness, instead of business. I can continue studying the same thing, but I really need to start working out for real and change what I eat. And sleep better, reduce stress factors and meditate. This whole time I just kept thinking about which direction to go in when that wasn't even the problem lol

Wow ruff, you’ve been really active lately, thank you so much I’m so drained rn your videos always save me

My favorite channel on youtube. Thank you Ruff !

thanks a lot for your wise advice. social life... well, im currently doing good with my new class. but i cant identify with these people. some have similar financial interests and are also into self improvement, but there is this manipulative, narcississtic vibe that comes from one guy who actually taught me a lot but now that i read a lot about psychology and disorders, i started untrusting him. some other nice people in class are nice to talk to and hang around with, but they have a bad lifestyle (doing drugs, clubbing, give a shit about grades). it seems like its hard to find those people. maybe i should visit some places that people im looking for have in common regarding their interest. ... i dont know how to find people. i believe that ones friends have a huge influence on your journey and i want to choose them wisely.

needed this! love your message and the practical steps you've given

Exactly what I needed, I often have the motivation, goals, a plan for the day and after but never the true purpose. Thanks ruff many do struggle on this

Hi Ruff, first time commenting on a YT video. But, you're the best, man! Please keep doing videos like this. More power to your channel.

If I would start self-improvement again this would be the first video that I would recommend to myself. You just earned a subber

I just loved this video soo much cause it's a lot different than the other videos I saw. Although the main concept was same but the way you explained it was a lot different from what I saw in other videos.

U know it's a good day when ruff posts

Your improvement in videos is the improvement i want for my exams !! Dayyum>>

hey ruff, i had first watched the video on discipline and have been loving your style of videos ever since ❤ to the point and extremely helpful, basic tips, really easy to understand, lots of love to you ❤ keep going ❤ hope u see this ❤

What's up Ruff! I just want to thank you for this video, for making me realize the unnecessaries and important layers I must go through. For a while, I would think of a bad habit and try to break it, but wouldn’t be that easy. Sometimes, I can’t find or identify something that needs fixing. Currently, I'm aiming to really improve my writing because my teachers are grading the heck out of me from it 😅. Either too vague, doesn’t link up together, or say "I don't get why this is here." In addition, to my "horrible" reading skills 💀. It'll take a while, and I’m thinking of reading more books and relearn grammar. Thank you for making multiple motivational videos that helped keep my life life straight. Also, despite the ratio between subscribers and viewers. It doesn’t matter, as long you're doing a good job. 👍

thank you for this video! so much needed👍

I was soo focused in this that my mom told to get in the car and go to shcool but i didn't even noticed...

this is probably the best video i have seen in a while. Thankyou so much.

Thank you Ruff, you are an inspiration!

his underrated af , helpful video , keep going mate

Bro I was watching your "why my grades don't matter" & I saw my recommended. I got your video!!!

man i was just in the rabbit hole . I love you so much

Loving the new editing!

Not kidding, you gave me literal goosebumps bro

I like listening to your videos, and you are very well spoken. If you ever needed a video idea could you maybe talk more about self confidence? I have quite a problem with this myself, and I look forward to you making a video about it!

This was much needed I was heading in the wrong direction since so long I always wondered why I worked hard and still made no progress Guess it was just the constraints lingering

A new video to add to the folder.😊Thanks

bro, i just wanted you to know that you're amazing. keep it up!

Wifi went out in our home. Currently at the restaurant to use wifi. I just realised life gave me the perfect opportunity for this. Thank you ruff. Until we meet again

This idea is really helpful. Thank you!

Keep it up RUFF❤

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WOAH THIS VIDEO WAS PACKED UP WITH SM USEFUL INFO, I LUV IT. Had to stop sum times to process and see how I can apply it in my own life before I was stroke in the face with the next tip xd amazing tbh

I really enjoy your content so much, it is really helpful. love from South Africa

Dude is so relatable

Amazing video per usual ❤

He has slowly become a part of my morning routine

You deserve a million subs❤

Ruff posted again 🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥

My purpose is to watch all videos on your channel. Each of them is worth more than those private couching sessions. Thank you for such a HIGH quality content

Watching this video I am just getting this thing in mind that Your soul needs peace 🕊️ Your heart needs love ❣️ And Your mind needs success 💯

I’ve been waiting for this song to pop up in your videos! 😁😁😁

I was waiting for your video 😍 Your advice really helped me a lot to change my mindset 😊 I'm a 18 year old girl and it's nice to see someone of my age group doing so well in self improvement and now I'm also on self improvement because of you 😉 Lots of love from India ❤️🇮🇳

NEW RUFF UPLOAD

loved this video keep it up bro

I want to learn...learn about everyone's prospective i wanna learn about everyone's reason

LETS GOOO its finally here o7

Loved it❤nice video😊

Very nice self reflection!!

i watched a lot of videos about that but you really brought up something ive never heard. I would expect a very old and experienced man give out this advide but its you, a seventeen year old. Now thats impressive

Wow - such wise words! Great content. Thanks 👍🏽

u r always spitting bars. mwah

Thankyou for this video. ( :

bro save my life

current purpose - improve social life

I read the constraint on ur thumbnail as croissant and was thinking it might be some deep question💀💀had to read again lol

I feel like I have multiple constraints at once because I am prepparing for something for two years and I'm doing as much as I can to feel complete as I am aware there will be more layers but I feel like there are multiple things I need to improve on, but do you think this counts?

This is how I have thought of it since i read the way of the superior man. I literally drew like the same exact diagram when i read it.

bro you're the best

Bro, every time I watch your video it makes me think.

I just realised how much other(external) stuff has been influencing or affecting "me"

How can i not like this video❤

Oh! I actually never thought like that.. thanks

keep making videos. u keep me going.

my core be encased in fifty layers of titaniuim

Hey, everyone. Don't give up, okay? Even if all the comments here are small, at least we're all trying to get better, together. Don't be too hard on yourself, get up, and try again. Okay? You'll be alright, I promise:)

I love those Minecraft refrences ❤

Bro I guess we dont need captions.But yeah splendid as anyways !

Dude's givin out liquid gold

I feel like just talking to you 1on1 would bring a thought to my life that is for the better also those 5 minute videos seem so long but only 5 minutes i dont know how its possible or if anyone else feels that way

bros showing us self improvement through bhor diagrams 💪

Ruff, the reason you play nice piano songs in your videos, does it have to do with you playing piano for a long time or do you think it's soothing for your content?

Plz make a video on how to manage time pressure and not run away from it due to time constantly going

Currently a 14 yr old trader and my parents are against me doing forex but Ima keep pushing 🙏

Hey, this is a very insightful video. I have a problem where i see my layer as 2 different problems as: 1. Having my day doing a job i dislike is constraining me thus giving me a purpose to have a job where i don’t feel wasting my day But at the same time i feel like: 2. I need to make more money to get more freedom in life I think this would translate into just make a business but i would love if anyone want to give input

happy childrens day ruff

This guys videos are kinda good. ( i never give out compliments )

The wisest TEEN , I've ever SEEN Mm, is it Bars ✌🏼

Amazing profile picture! And a very amazing video as well! You have a way with words😊 keep it up!!

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Bro made a jawbreaker

I know I'm on my exam but I gotta see ruff's new vid

i seriously wanna share your videos but gatekeep them for only myself at the same time-