How To Create A Chore Chart That Works

Nicholeen Peck - Teaching Self Government

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Are chores not getting done? Exhausted from reminding them every minute of the day? As a parenting expert, I've been there and I've also found a way around it. So in this video, I will show you how to create a chore chart that works.
Watch and Enjoy!
Nicholeen Peck
Teaching Self-Government
Key Moments in this Episode
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00:00 Intro & Summary
00:40 Goal setting
01:34 Harvest Time
02:25 Components of a chore chart
04:18 Spice it up!
05:00 How we use chore charts & consequences
05:32 According to developmental need
08:15 Rotation System
10:13 Child labor?
11:53 Stewarding
13:26 F.I.S.
15:13 What's next
What To Watch Next
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What Does Self-Government Mean In Parenting?
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About Nicholeen Peck
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Despite your best efforts at raising children, is your family dysfunctional? Do your children set the rules and have control of your home instead of you? Are you looking for parenting skills that will help you create a united, happy family?
Then meet Nicholeen Peck, one of the world’s most effective parenting experts. Whether you want to fix child behavioral issues, create more unity in the home, or simply strengthen your family relationships, her proven system - Teaching Self-Government - can help you turn chaos into calm.
"People are starving for help to save their families," says Nicholeen.
Since 1999, her seminars, workshops, one-on-one training sessions, parenting videos and books have helped thousands of families worldwide regain peace, be happy and maintain unity in their home. The secret? Learning how to use effective family systems based on parenting that’s deliberate and pro-active (instead of reactive). It all starts with the principles of self-government. If you’re a family of faith, you’ll especially love how your faith and values can be woven into her parenting system.
In 2009, Nicholeen and her husband starred in the BBC reality TV show, “The World’s Strictest Parents” (watch here: bit.do/StrictestParents). She became an overnight sensation by turning around two out-of-control teenagers from England after just one week - without shouting, threats or manipulation. Her amazing success comes from the positive parenting techniques of using calmness, effective communication and principles of self-government.
Nicholeen Peck’s Accomplishments
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* Author of “Parenting: A House United,” “Popular Parenting Methods: Are They Really Working?,” “Roles: The Secret to Family, Business, and Social Success” and many other books and magazine articles.
* President of The Worldwide Organization for Women (WOW).
* Nicholeen regularly speaks at the United Nations and other congresses around the world as an advocate for strengthening families and motherhood.
* In 2009 her family was featured on the BBC reality show, “The World’s Strictest Parents.
* Trained as a foster parent for Utah Youth Village.
* Has parented many troubled foster children.
* Successfully raised (and raising) four children of her own.
Testimonials
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“Her loving parenting techniques work with ALL children.”
Kristi, www.thankfulme.blogspot.com
“Thank you for your insights and solutions. They have helped my family so much.”
Michelle
“My husband and I have started implementing some of your techniques, and our house has been so different!”
Julianne
“I feel that my children respect me more. I will be eternally grateful for what I have learned from Nicholeen Peck.”
Michelle Baker
“If you want to forge the strongest family bonds possible, to repair damaged relationships, and redeem a child that seems completely lost, then this program IS for you.”
Sandra
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7 июн 2024

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@pickledpenny604 2 года назад

This is absolutely amazing. I had no idea parents made their kids do anything these days haha in fact, I am doing research to get grown adults to learn how to do chores. It's so clear that many people have kids and never make them learn anything they'll need to run a house as an adult.

@iwantwalfelfriesyoutube9540 2 года назад

You are my go to, for inspiration, guidance and 🙏 although I have a hard time feeling guilt for not starting earlier.

@TeachingSelfGovernment 2 года назад

Thank you so much! I'm so glad I've been able to be an inspiration and a guide. Better late than never, right? Don't beat yourself up too much about it.

@ranjithasinghthakur Год назад

hey nicholeen thanks a ton. I needed how to do chore chart. its apt, practical, not boring. hoping ill be able to follow it with my children.

@TeachingSelfGovernment Год назад

You're welcome! I hope it was easy enough to follow and replicate in your own home. You've got this!

@OneLadyHeritage Месяц назад

Can you post an actual chore chart and/ or give chore ideas? Does each child have their own chart or is there one family chart and they pick from it?

@stephanke5600 2 года назад

Genius !!!!

@karentingler4937 2 года назад

Wow, you are amazing.

@Allie-wm4ho 2 года назад

I haven’t watch this yet but the reason I am hesitant to do a chore chart is because my three-year-old currently loves participating in chores. She loves the opportunity to clean her all of the dishwasher were clear the table. So what are other consequences she could earn?

@TeachingSelfGovernment 2 года назад

That's great! The whole idea of consequences is to teach cause and effect. So, it's totally fine if she likes to do chores. That's a bonus!

@Allie-wm4ho 2 года назад

@@TeachingSelfGovernment so it won’t make her associate chores with negative if I do that?

@AMF036 2 года назад

The thing that worries me is that my kids are 12, 7, 5 and 2, school mornings are tough getting everyone up and dressed, teeth brushed, lunches made, hair done, shoes, masks, backpacks, snack, school iPads, water bottles filled and in backpacks by the time the bus comes. Then, the bus doesn’t bring them home until 4pm, and about 5 months out of the school year they all have soccer practices right after school making it hard to even find time for dinner and homework on some days. I feel bad piling on chores during the hour or two they’re at home before bedtime. During the summer it’s easier to have them do their chores before they go outside to play. I guess I just have to balance it all. These years are tough, but they’re a lot of fun 🥰. I just want my kids to be good people who are also happy and healthy.

@CriTheBee 2 года назад

I hear ya, I'm struggling with the same stuff. Feels like those few moments before bedtime are the only time they have to just sit down, be bored and get the creative juices flowing. Maybe I need to delve a little more into this system. Still, really appreciate your comment. *fist bump*

@ASPLL23 Год назад

May i suggest packing the bags or most of what can be packed the night before? Of maybe just 1 or 2 small chores that won't take them too long. Maybe prepping their stuff for the next day as a chore?

@buckshot_honeymoon 2 года назад

I am begging for information about the brand name or link to this green blouse.

@TeachingSelfGovernment 8 месяцев назад

The brand is "Cocomo Woman." I hope that helps!

@elizabethfindlay5752 Год назад

I want to give my children a childhood, not be enslaved from too young in age to chores. Definitely want them learning all the needs of taking care of a house/ themselves as they get older. For myself, chores were brought in young and were used as manipulation. I was never taught some fundamentals of taking responsibility for a house but managed to learn as an adult. We did what *they didn't* want to do. I do believe finding a balance so our kids don't think as my siblings & I did - "I can't wait to have kids to be my slaves and do the chores." Your choice in having kids shouldn't make them do more because of whatever excuses you come up with. They definitely need to learn to work together, but they deserve to be kids, too.

@TeachingSelfGovernment Год назад

I most definitely agree that children should have a childhood! From what I've seen, children are best prepared for a successful adulthood by learning life and behavior skills early on in life. When taught young, they provide consistency for deeper learning as the children get older. Of course, everyone is entitled to their own opinions. I'm glad you felt comfortable enough to share yours. :)

@carissafisher7514 Год назад

Yeah, 3-4 definitely seems too young to be responsible for vacuuming or laundry. A toddler could barely reach into anything top loading! I think unloading silverware is a more appropriate chores for this age group. I remember plugging a vacuum cleaner back in when I was vacuuming before age 5 and it shocked me.

@carissafisher7514 Год назад

I am just wondering who cleans those kitchen floors, and I feel bad for whoever has to do them! I prefer lots of carpet! 😊

@TeachingSelfGovernment Год назад

I don't know! I go to a studio to film, so I'd guess it doesn't get too dirty. :)

@carissafisher7514 Год назад

@@TeachingSelfGovernment well they did a great job so hopefully you appreciate it! That’s a lot of work! My old house had 750 square feet of hardwood floors and I remember dust getting under the coffee table and couches too. I know it sounds crazy but, I have an area rug under my dining table because I prefer vacuuming so much more.

@Bigrhythm4 2 года назад

where is the chore chart?

@TeachingSelfGovernment 2 года назад

I don't have chore charts written up. However, this video tells you how to make one of your own that will fit your family's needs and children's developmental level. Thanks for asking!