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Yeah

Heartbreaking

So true

Yup

Yeah and i dont know why he quickly change

I feel u :( i got cheated on . We ve been together for 3 years. It hurts so much because i sincerely never doubt him.

+kidmen123In my case it was 2 years. She left me yesterday. Im feeling exactly how you described it. And yeah, none of us is alone in the feeling. Im just lost..

Just got dumped with my boyfriend for 5 years, 2 days ago. Fuck this feelings!

+Zemmel zem oh man that's horrible. I dont know if I can survive that long.

+Zemmel zem I already did that. But shit happens I accidentally saw a photo of him and his gf kissing today. 😢😢😢

+Henry Wardell You're welcome Henry

the same

That touched me a lot omg

Hoping for same

Glad you are alive and well :)

J Junior well said sir

I agree with this. 💯

How do you do it?

Yea how do you do it when your hearts been stopped all over?

The thing is, this logical way of thinking doesn't help. Right after a breakup the only feeling for the person who really loved the other is pain, apathy and despair. All you can think of is if the one you love will find someone soon, so soon as if they never loved you, that they won't even she'd a tear for you, the worst of all, that they are happy they left you. I don't know if you have ever been left by someone you truly loved, someone you thought you were gonna be with forever. But trust me, logical thinking is not what is I. your mind right then. There is only pain and infinite loneliness. For some people it takes two months to heal, for some others it takes two years. Maybe more.

+Night Dark I recently broke up with someone that I truly loved. That I saw a future with. It's been six months since he left me. At the beginning I was in agony, for months I was so hurt and confused. I felt betrayed, alone and just downright depressed. I felt like shit. But the thing is I've gone through it. I went through all the stages necessary. I've experienced him dating other people. And I feel like he has truly moved on. He would call me his psycho ex all just because I missed him and wanted to talk to him again. I'm not going to get hurt anymore. But since there is nothing I can do to change his mind and no chance he'll come back to me I've decided it's illogical to sit here and pine for someone who doesn't give a rats ass about me. It's logical to take care of yourself and make sure that you let the other person know with your actions that you've moved on too. With time you can heal a broken heart when you learn that the only person that matters is yourself.

+AniminxieCat I understand right after an intense breakup you will feel very intense feelings you just have to ride it out. The point is that if you focus on other things and focus on yourself the pain will start to subside and eventually you'll realise that the other person left you for a reason. It's not meant to be. And you just learn to deal. It comes naturally I think.

Animinxie how are u doing now? that was a great advice!!!

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my story is similar to yours I feel you😢

+Amy francis break ups happen, it's the way it goes. I'm on the verge of losing my girlfriend and if it happens it happens. My advise move on like I'm going to do. I'm watching this video and I'm hearing things I found out the hard way because there was RU-vid when I was a teen. I thought maybe I'd hear something new by watching, but nope it's all the same. I'll just stick to what I know. I'll move on and find somebody knew.

same

Same here.

Same I got dumped today....

The same thing just happened to me. Everyone called us a beautiful couple and said we were perfect and then he said he didn't love me anymore and I still don't understand really

Sadly Im in the same boat 23 years and 4 daughters all blown apart when my wife had a midlife crisis and had 3 affairs .

I can relate to this but from his point of view. I broke up with my ex but she didn't do anything wrong. On paper she was a perfect gf. She was loyal and loved me and I could tell that I was the only guy she wanted and never worried about her cheating even though she went to school two hours away and we would only see each other a couple times a month. Really like the perfect gf, after awhile I just wasn't happy with her and I had to end it. I was always mad at myself for hurting her like I did but I just knew that I couldn't be in a relationship that didn't feel real. Maybe he just needs to work some things out with in himself. Don't wait on it. I know it hurts but I hope everything will Be okay.

Going threw it hun

I know how you feel. It really hurts physically even. We just gotta stay strong and let time heal the wounds.

Same with my boyfriend..

sorry guys i hope u feel better

same.....

Same ..

Me too :( I still love her so much and I know I can be better but I can't get the chance

Eiqu Miller You're welcome Eiqu

Eiqu Miller hvad dælen?

Sam Dunmire he is the practical god ....

+1

same😢😭💔

This is EXACTLY how I feel right now! I went through and am going through the same thing. I have no one.

Try my how to stop thinking about someone video. Good luck

same here! why!?💔💔😭😭

You may care about her happiness, but you won't be in a relationship with her just to make her happy. It will only be for you. It just makes you happy to make her happy, or you are afraid of feeling sad, worthless, or like you have no purpose if you aren't making someone happy

Okay. Let's agree that I care about her happiness but I care more about my own.

Leon Lind sameeee

Leon Lind same

Leon Lind same

king bach You're welcome Bach

+Noah Elkrief Hi Noah, i'm sorry that i'm stealing this thread, but i reeaally need some advice before going under. My boyfreind broke up with me today after almost a perfect 4 year relationship. His words where that he just don't love me "like that" anymore. I can tell that he wasn't happy, just like you are saying in this video, but here's the thing; Whenever i looked at him (without him knowing), i feel/did feel that i DO love him. Everything that's him, good or bad. And my thoughts just disappeared while i was just watching him. I just "was" for a second before he noticed me staring and asked me why. And, he was (well..IS) a huuuuge part in my life. I don't have a good connection with my family. The same with my freinds. For almost 3 years he was almost literally the only person i really hung out with. And without him i feel like n.o.t.h.i.n.g.. I know that i should reconnect with my freinds (and i am doing that in panic), but my identity has become "His girlfreind" (i was a confused 17-year old when we met..and i honestly didn't fall for him right away, instead he has grown to become so much more over time). Although we have a distant relationship since a year back, i always find myself wanting to share everything with him, to show him stuff and to just talk like we always do. And whatever thought that i have is linked to him, because he was the one who showed me that and teached me it. Like a bonus parent, in a weird way. I felt so safe with him.... He is my very best freind in so many ways, and he thinks so too. He really thought long and hard about it, because he is afraid to loose me as his freind. So, my questions are; What should i think about? Do you have any good advice or other videos that could help me? What should i do now that the major safety blanket around me has been tucked away and i'm panicing? Also, what do you think about when someone says that they don't love you anymore, but still does it in a another way "because i love you as my freind and because you make me happy" and so on, is that more of a confusing state of still actually loving me, or is that just HIS safety blanket speaking? And most importantly; Should i keep being in touch with him (because he gives me alot of advices from his point of view, and i know he really cares), or will that just lead me to other issues, like never being able to heal? I am so deeply hurt and i could've kept being his forever. I know this is the perfect time to just find myself and grow stronger at my own, but it feels like i have nothing. The only thing i have in my head is his soothing voice that always told me the right thing and calmed down.. But right know it only make me cry and i am so... lost. If this question is to long to answer on here, i can just email you or something, let me know. Thank you.

+IfYouMeetAWolf wow . just wow . your story is 100% like mine i need someone to help me cope with it i too feel like nothing those 3 years with her and i will not accept the fact she is gone !!! i just cant i have nothing no one else that i would ever want just only her but she "does not feel the same" How can she say that :( . wow i feel your pain !!! your not alone ! i grew a deep bond with this person . sucks cause you feel all is well and nothing not even the power of hate itself could take you from your lover :/ i need help :(

Dylan TheGreat It's nice to hear that i'm not alone in this... That i'm not the only one who "stupidly enough" let myself fall so hard for him (because that's what it feels like at the moment)... We haven't talked (chatted) with eachother for almost a week now, and i still miss him so much... 3-4 days after he broke up with me he just started to text me saying that he feels so lost, that he can't focus, and all he wanna do right now is to hug me.. And he wrote as in panic that he want me to promise that i'll always be there for him... And i said yes, it was a no-brainer. The day after we talked again, he said he felt so much better after he talked to me... And now he hasn't talked to me in a week... I don't know if i should feel proud that he trusts me and DO need me somehow.. Or if i should let myself feel used.. :(

+IfYouMeetAWolf You're a good person. I wish I could have met someone like you. Take care.

+Dylanj Williams How are you doing now?

Lord Kham Better

I'm glad :) Remember that change. It will serve you well in life! Have a wonderful life my friend.

Thanks

Same

Going through the same situation and time frame. She was also a great person to me and would never hurt me but over time she began losing that love she had for me and I couldn't help but blame myself as if I did something wrong. I didn't want the relationship to end, but I couldn't do anything about it anymore. Anyways, remember your not alone and like the video said, find what makes you happy and believe in your heart that you will be able to overcome this:) we both will. Stay strong!

your situation is exactly like mine

how are you dealing with your situation, I've just been crying. please help

You're welcome Tenzin

Noah Elkrief I want to die

Tenzin Dechen I would of you do the no contract rule on her...!!!, its actually works all the time.. if you feel don't even try to talk to her for a year ...!!! that gonna make her realized that she fuck up.. but right now its best to move on don't put your situation in a bad note....!!! keep yourself busy and always put yourself first...!!! if so also block her from Facebook and Instagram either way how you feel too. just to avoid the issue ...

Sorry

Thank you :)

Sorry to hear that, man. Stay strong and surround yourself with people who care about you. I'm slowly coming to terms with it now. It's been tough and I have days when I keep thinking about her, but I'm sure with time I will move on. The key for me was to get rid of absolutely everything that reminded me of her. Photos, things we bought together. Get rid of all of it and start afresh.

a year! thats too long .. sorry to hear that .. I hope u r okay now ❤

S.T.V same here it hurts like hell but I want to focus on bettering myself so I never feel like this again

good peeps

S.T.V that's actually a good way of going about it

S.T.V The best reply ever, that's exactly how I live my life. When she left me it Motivated me so much to better myself and come back 100 times better. if only everyone could do this it would be so much easier 👍🏻

Same here...it's a good way to push yourself forward, care and love yourself more...but never forget to take care of yourself and continue learning and growing even when you find that special someone. For me, I noticed I always let go of myself after I meet that special person which at the end always end up failing...so this was a very good lesson learned

ckyrio Thanks for sharing, glad to hear it

Im in the same boat she always told me she believed i was bipolar no since she wants space i have been having horrible insomnia we made a beautiful son and i cared for her son too so it feels like triple heartbreaks... Nice video live the job opening line lol

NCGirl9ify You're very welcome. That's great to hear

was the break up a blindside?

Mashoto Shaku we had been getting into previous mini-fights before... nothing big, I wouldn't have thought any of them would've led to him breaking up with me. so yeah, never saw it coming.

+Morgan Mccarrey sounds to me like he got scared because of something. If the relationship is as you say, you know with the soul mate connection, then he could have gotten some kind of anxiety. anxiety and fear in a relationship triggers fight or flight responses and I have seen many people act out because of this. I am not at all saying it's your fault and it is likely the way he thought about things that caused him to clammer up and "escape"

Mashoto Shaku​ you're probably right... its just extremely hard to have lost someone youve loved for that long you know. Its kind of surreal almost. I mean its only been three days and its already hard enough, I dont know what it will be like in a few weeks or months.

+Morgan Mccarrey I know exactly what you mean. From experience working on yourself is probably the best thing you can do. What makes you happy? If money was no object what would you do with your life? It may be hard to think clearly right now, but finding the answers to these over time will give you true happiness and maybe get you in a state to trust another human again.

good man

How are you now brother ?

Chloe Minaya :)

Beto Ruiz You're welcome Beto

+Mia a same here

+Mia a same

same

Definitely how I feel

Totally same exp. 😭

Lauren whitworth I'm really glad to hear that Lauren. Thanks for sharing. And you're very welcome.

I feel ya....) :

dont worry. i swear things WILL get better for you!! i promise.

I have a corgi too ❤️

+Brendon MacKenzie You're welcome Brandon

I also..... I cry everyday and night.... my two year gf let me go.... grief

almost two month. still I am in grief... my heart is broken. I am valueless. I suffer it......

Stop idealizing your ex partner. Make a list of his/her flaws and of the problems of your relationship. You might not find any at the beginning, but trust me, there are more than you think. My beloved boyfriend broke up with me 11 days ago. I did not expect it at all, it all seemed to be perfect between us. I still feel anxiety, I cry everyday and I miss him. But I've talked with my family and a friend of mine, I've analysed the situation, I've thought about our relationship and I realized it was not so perfect. My boyfriend wasn't perfect, nor he was for me. Make a list of all the problems, it will help you cope with your grieving and heal your broken heart. Remember, you existed before you began your relationship and you exist now. Your body works, you are a whole. Do what you like, don't ever think you're valueless because it is not true. Make another list of your qualities and of the things you're grateful for. You are a whole, you are unique, and you'll be your companion forever, so love yourself, surround yourself with positive people, relax, meditate or do some sports. Try to consider this break up as an opportunity to grow, to become more self-confident and strong and independent. I know it's terribly hard, and it will take time, but think of yourself, of your goals and try to reach them. Take care, good luck.

by the time I know everything she done. she was with me, but starts to cheat, I know her boyfriend. I do not find the reason why she love that man. I do not find the answer... every day I am with many questions I dont solve. uufffff....

There are many questions we can't solve. Stop asking you why she did what she did. You probably won't ever know the answer. I understand, however, since I keep asking myself why he left me, how it happened and so on. But we have to try to let go. It has happened, and unfortunately it hurts like hell, but we will recover and this can be an opportunity for us to grow and to be who we want to be. Good luck, you're not alone, I in this moment am getting anxiety over the thought of my ex boyfriend and am starting to cry. It just hurts so bad but we have to let go and keep on living our lives, which can be beautiful and more beautiful than it was with our ex partners.

Jeffrey Palmer We have the exact same story as of today, I feel for ya man

same just happened to me man, it was not 2 years though it was only 9 months. BUT exactly the same, talking about how much she loved me, and wanted a future but without a warning it was over. One day to the next. It sucks, I hope you're doing better.

Same my dude.

Looks like we are all in the same boat

Yeah I feel you man. You can't love someone who hasn't yet truly learned how to love themselves. I knew this yet I thought I was the exception, I tried to teach her to herself like I do. It all makes sense now.

+Papa Ousseynou Diagne Glad it helped Papa

krystylec You're welcome Krystylec

so sorry to hear that !hows now going ?did you get over ?

Travis Barton :)

Travis Barton how long did it take for you to get out of the pain ?

Me too bro

That of course is ok. When in a relationship in the future you will have lol graduated into knowing how to GROVEL!

Investigate why you acted the way you did, and address that emotion so it doesn't show up again in the next relationship

I am in the same boat. I guess the question is what does love for each other matter if you have no love for yourselves?

Thats what im sayin

Sargie29 My first girlfriend just broke up with me too. we really did love each other. but then she said that i had too many flaws anc caused her too much stress. And when she broke up with me she treated me like shit. And it hurt me. Because she had no respect for me. At all. And i really loved her and its gonna be hard to get over her.

Declan Lacey Im sorry to hear that man, its gonna be pretty hard for me to get over my ex too. Im gonna try and see if i get her back but if i cant then im gonna have to move on some how

Sargie29 I'm just like you. This girl I had loved broke up with me this afternoon. She wasn't ready for a relationship and she said it wasn't my fault. Me and her got complications in life. She was my first kiss. But I'm happy and understand with the decision she made. I'll still love her though, she never made me lonely. But yeah time to move on.

hey me too wanna chat?

Same fam 99%are prob boys

Try my other break up videos and loneliness videos as well if this didn't help

I am cat und dog

Same here two year and we split yesterday it's horrible

same here...3 days ago

same here, 2 hours ago. 2 year relationship done just like that.

I kniw

Good luck man...

+FrostyPancakeHD Feeling hopeless is one the worst places a human can be. We are sentient beings, meant to enjoy the fullness of life and its amazingness however when we loose perspective it can be very torturous. Do these things every night before you go to bed and when you wake up and sometime in the middle of the day. Write out a list of your positive traits, i.e. your a good listener, physically attractive, etc. Then write a list of 10 things you are thankful for, it doesn't matter how mundane it may seem. Idk what brand of spirituality you practice I have found prayer and meditation to be very helpful. I will think good thoughts and prayers for you!

Just stfu

+tbone martinez thanks :)

+Spicie Keuso why don't you mind your own business

+Spicie Keuso why don't u show me how to , since you're so goddamn smart telling people to shuddup

Watch it again