How to deal with abusive toxic people who say harsh things? | Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem

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@taqwabaloch Год назад

First always smile Second don't defend yourself Third don't argue with them .

@shamma_13 3 месяца назад

It's really HARD to forget what they said, May Allah forgive and Help us to forget it and remove such evil people from our Lives and protect us from them, Ameen ya Rabbi ❤

@ledam2654 2 года назад

Sometimes you have to confront them directly, because sometimes ignoring the bully does not work.

@tarakkhandakar 3 года назад

May Allah bless this sheikh.

@Justalayman 3 года назад

Ameen

@irinkhanam3832 3 года назад

Ameen.

@user-zm3no5xb6t 14 дней назад

They want you to respond in a negative way.. So always keep smiling face Don’t defend yourself, no need Don’t argue, just smile & look at them They’ll feel small after a while

@zoyq4435 3 года назад

I absolutely agree with sheikh. I have been like that in my in laws house.Not responding to them when they used to bully me.🙂

@TimTim__ Год назад

Smile Ignore and don’t defend don’t argue Play with phone/ show that you don’t care

@Mesmerising_Eyes 2 месяца назад

JazakAllahu khayran ❤ Love and prayers from Europe.

@tryorcry-po5mv 11 месяцев назад

but how can i not defend myself when someone calls me a terrorist how can i have a smile on face when they disrespect my religion

@ahadmdabdul 5 месяцев назад

Maa sha Allah! Very useful lesson by shaikh.

@Reminder_o 3 года назад

I will do this from now.

@MooiMeissje 3 года назад

Masha Allah, such great advice

@PleasingAllahOfficial 2 года назад

JazakAllahu Khayr Sheikh 🌼

@variolaa1089 3 месяца назад

Thank you so much.

@TimTim__ Год назад

Exactly! They want us to fall in their trap. We shouldn’t make their mission successful. Just brush it off, don’t give them response. And the smiling face! Yes to that. And next time, I’ll take the phone and play 😂 Sometimes it affects you so much mentally. But don’t worry, Allah sees your sufferings , make dua that He makes it easy for you.

@YUMANOAH 2 месяца назад

jazakallah akhi

@AnuAnushaa Год назад

My younger sister also has been treating me in a very bad way recently... I'll try and avoid her because i dont know how she can treat me the way she does but after some time i always ends up talking to her it gets awkward and it breaks the ideal family environment that i want but I guess it's time to get a little bit stern. I was worried that Allah swt might hold me accountable for this but now I know I can do this

@adilmalik4884 Год назад

Victory InshAllah

@sofiyarini 2 года назад

I agree, what abusive people want is for us to fell into their drama.. thx u Ustad at least i know I'm on the right path now to not respond with their comments

@sean87arnaout 2 года назад

Please Allah bless this sheikh

@arifnoufal7770 2 месяца назад

Jazak Allah

@lameezes9673 2 года назад

Assalamu Alaikum Sheikh! Please do a video about families dealing with drug addicts in the house. How long are we supposed to put and forgive the stealing of our property to feed their addiction before we had enough. And what should we do with them? How should we treat these slush addicts whom we love but it’s just too much :( it’s years and they always promise to rehabilitate and does only for a short time. Do we cut them off? Please do a video in this. Insha Allah Sheikh. May Allah reward you and your family for your good work.

@sanaliaquat181 6 месяцев назад

Thanks for this❤

@tasnimmalihahimi 19 дней назад

I tried to ignore my toxic sister. But she's evil. She tries many ways to hurt me with her words and actions. I keep silent. I remind myself that Allah dislikes the one whom people avoid bcoz of their hurtful speech. So i avoid her. But it makes me angry. Though i don't react,do nothing. Still it hurts ,i feel like slapping her or cursing her. I do nothing. But i don't know for how long i can tolerate her behaviour. She's not a good person and harms me in every way

@nahidaakter7706 3 месяца назад

It's quite impossible maybe sheikh never face those things 😊😊😊😊

@Ready2see 4 месяца назад

You are right 👍🏻 Alhamdulillah!! Can women in Islam have rights ,to shout not often while she is in anger when she is literally insulted by the relatives such as sister husband or inlaws !! When she realises her shout is wrong still she is bullied by her sister husband with lots of assassinating her for her character, what to do when , they shout at her and bully her without understanding her suffering?

@malikshehryar2969 10 месяцев назад

Jazakallah

@abdulmalikidris1278 Год назад

It's definitely not easy. I have been training, but endup relapsing.

@Aaqibbasheer 8 месяцев назад

And how can we attain that skill, how to do training Sheikh assist.

@neha08605 Год назад

if this happens everyday every hour that what we do

@TheMiketyson9 Год назад

Keep smiling 😃 don't worry be happy!

@TimTim__ Год назад

May Allah make it easy for you sis. This can be very exhausting mentally. Always be humble and if you can no longer find peace then try to move to a different place with Mehrams.

@user-df3ms9gk2i 2 месяца назад

what if it a parent and they always curse and if i stay quiet they get more angry

@fahimahossain7482 2 года назад

JazakAllahu khayraan

@jamaal5157 2 года назад

Sheik . When my mother and father is in a conflict . What should I do in order to reconcile it without anyone of them feeling offended.. Please 🙏 I need an answer Jazzakallahu kaira

@Justalayman 2 года назад

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