6 Signs of a Toxic Person 

I know what Thís is like what you are saying Because They did all this to me They played the victim and acused me of it

Champion Tonto the Wonder Horse not always. My most recent ex was so anxious and insecure about herself that she put me as the sole source of her happiness and clung to me to the extreme. I tried to keep up. It was completely emotionally and mentally draining. She would manipulate me in different ways to get even more attention by trying to play with my emotions in negative ways. She was completely toxic to me and made me feel toxic by needing space and trying to have to firmly stick to my needs. I feel like a complete asshole even though I didn’t mean it in any kind of toxic way. I constantly felt like I had to walk on eggshells to the point I felt like I couldn’t even communicate with her for fear of hurting her. She was also extremely good at playing the victim card. Toxic people come in many different forms and they don’t always gaslight. There’s plenty of other ways people can be toxic.

I know for a fact my toxic maternal half sister have told other people I was toxic. When she was the one who was toxic towards me. She criticized me almost every time she came around. And who knows what horrible things she's told our cousins even as far back as 2010. Even before we had a fallen out. What's sad is how our cousins may care more for her than they do their own son. The only time she didn't say mean things to me was when I gave her money.

Oh yeah like that one time my ex cheated on me and said she basically had the right to because I glanced at a girl in the street.

Yup, just went through that. It's so mentally draining.

Good point!

Lol so true!!!

yes, and when they’re out of the room you feel free. they drain you

I was always happy when the toxic person in the office was on vacation or on a day off during the week. The workday went so much better!

If this is true, then my mom is definitely toxic

Yup...

Yeah that's the problem in this world, everybody wanna play victim and act stupid and act like they don't know what's going on!

It's not that they aren't told they are, it's just that they feel it's either overreactions and oversensitivity, or generally that they don't believe it. And even if they do, they won't care unless they're confronted by someone who they care about. I've been one myself a few years ago, that's why I recognise it so well.

They refused to take responsibility and admit what they have done to us! They are disgusting suckers!

You'd be surprised. Some are really deluded and others - the worst ones - know full well what they do.

I just realized that i may be a toxic dude to my best friend. Maybe my friend is or its me. idk man, its like a roller coaster :0

Same. Apparently, I am somewhat of a toxic person.

Same. I don't even need to watch this to know that I'm toxic. :( I'm trying to change for the better though. Hoping it'll work. If not, then I'm doomed

@@beanboy6664 me too. the one about making people feel bad because I'm not okay; I do that so often and it's like automatic. I'm trying to change it. Hope you can do better too!

Same... I know I got some trait of a toxic person.. I can't be perfect but I will try my best to become a better person ^^

@@communistcat3226 you'll find a way. At fist, try being kind with small actions and good luck!!

Take piece of mind by thinking of the toxic people who are stuck with other toxic people. 😂 I shouldn't laugh really, most of them don't have the ability to realise that they are toxic people.

Mmm yep my grandma sometimes

My sister finally went to college so I’m lucky

It really sucks

Ugh I want to get rid of him

Thanks for sharing this, that was such an emotional rollercoaster to read and I trust it wasn't easy to open up like that. 😢 It's so hard when you can't see the truth. I'm so glad you had friends to save you from that episode, though. ;) Your ex reminds me of myself... I expected unconditional love from my BFF but when she didn't talk to me that often I exploded on her and accused her of not caring. We're not talking and I'm not sure if we'll get back together. But what you said really made me realize how much pain I gave her, and I have to thank you for the dose of empathy. Looking back, part of the reason I "loved" her was to fill the hole inside me - by "hole" i mean the belief that I'm not loveable and that people don't want to care. (That's pretty scary to admit, considering that we saw each other as one of the most real friends we've ever had). But I've decided I'm going to move on and fill my hole so nobody else has to fall down it anymore. I hope you're healing from everything, and know that I'm going to make a dent in the amount of toxicity our society has. Love, kev

Falling inlove is something every empath should be wary of. Empaths don't get the risks involved in love and marriage till it's too late.

I have a friend in a relationship similar to what you went through. It's a mix of coersive and emotional abuse. It's about control and power. His "partner" is isolating him from those who love him, myself included. I've heard his abuser screaming at him over the phone just because he was sitting in my living room. Pure possessive jealousy. As it stands now, I haven't seen him for the last 6 mos. or heard from him for the last 2 mos. I'm worried but there is nothing I can do until he throws his abuser under the bus and moves on. I will be here for him. I made him that promise. You are a survivor. Let your wounds heal and know that you have people who care. All the best as you move forward.

Sounds like my ex narcissist boyfriend.

I have been there. Just be happy that you didn't marry him. Imagine a life with that abuse - not worth it. After less than 3 yrs of marriage and 2 daughters 1 & 2, I kicked his ass out. He went on to have 2 more wives. He was an a**hole, no regrets.

100% agree..... My mother is the same....

Who's this shitty person? The way you see the person that way only it appears to be. You can never blaim your mother to be toxic. Never ever in your life.

Get back to your mother and say sorry for misunderstanding her emotions.

Before calling someone shitty, I would suggest you to google or youtube the words 'toxic parents'. You would be surprised by the results. I do hope that you never come across toxic people in your life.... Ignorance is bliss they say.... By the way calling someone shitty without knowing their perspective is a sign of being toxic....

Yeah 😭

I had a few toxic people in my life and didn't know why they acted the way they do. I kept trying to be so nice to them...but it didn't work. I love my cat... she is such a sweetheart. I love to be with her everyday.... I wish people would be so nice and lovable like my cat. 🐈

Thank you! God bless you!

@@cherylann1602 yes and really become unsettled when self help gurus will tell you that these people are reflecting your own energy at you and all you have to do is love or nice it away and voila.

That's my older sister.😐

I want to become toxic to make other people feel bad for hurting me

True 😅

Your house can't be griefed, if you have no friends ;)

I would like this but it has 69 likes

@@helixxmusic 96 now 😓

My friend actually does that-

A lot of women I've dated have been toxic as second nature. They were not even aware they were toxic and abusive--because all their friends were the same way.

Dump them immediately....within two months of dating....tell them why..even if the truth hurts.....tell them

At least you only dated them and you know what to look out for. I married& had kids... They're very good at some of these traits. I didn't realize what was happening for a long time.

@@mjc4942 I married into it, her son is this video personified, but mommy wipes away his tears ( for35 years now) and tells him it’s not his fault, he’s perfect,...I’ve had more than enough, it’s the same reheated drama, over and over and......

Been there done that.. it’s emotionally draining to deal with these people.

But they come back every time

@@user-nq2th6ed5y lol nah only if u let them u gotta be stronger than that

I'm gonna fight back I'm not taking it anymore wanna be disloyal? Wanna abuse me? Wanna watch me cry? Wanna talk about how you are intimate with other?Wanna publicly shame me then stop crying when it happens to you😊

I went no contact, changed my cellphone number and moved away. Since I’m viewed as the problem I’m a problem solver and did what was necessary all the way around. Everyone who saw me as their problem are free now. Wasn’t that nice of me. Now I’m in the most wonderful three some called Me, Myself and I and I love all three of me 👍👍

@The Khool Guy the truth, they'll come around and say sorry and then do the same thing or even worse

Good for you! I hope you'll find a healthy friend that will care for you and won't hurt you. You did great 💪

@@hel2727 thank you so much and i hope so!

same here, friend for 13 years then girlfriend for 2 years. Left her last night, and no loss of sleep. She lost a best friend and lover. Feeling awesome....peace!

@The Khool Guy Your toxic people apologise? Mine just told me I suck for making them feel bad when I call them out, or just manipulated me into believing I'm the bad one in that situation.

When will YOU stop giving them another chance? 💔

@@yolanda3883 i have no chose. I have to live with my mom

@@daniellemarcheterre7336 I'm sorry that you're going through that. Terrible when it's the one person that is supposed to love you and protect you. I hope you have some kind of support. Please take care of yourself. ❤

@@yolanda3883 awww. Thx ❤ you too

I relate to that, Snowy Wolfie. I hope you can find the right people around you.

You can't speak for anyone but yourself.

@@carolynjanesutton4932 nah i came here for me and one other person so they at least speak for me too

Yes , although I find myself very depressed and pushing people away because of my tendency to attract toxic people... A small part of me is checking I dont ever fall in these lines.. I worry I have inherited the bad Gene's from my toxic mother and sister ... I often ask my husband if I am anything like them... Luckily ,..no so far

@@fredeemoon6053 it's good of you to keep track of your emotions and patterns to make sure you're not harming anyone. but make sure nobody is harming you either

@@softwaterlily Yes I agree Should be part of school curriculum , teaching kids what to look out for... I'm fed up that I learnt all too late

related video, how to transmute into a dog and becoming loving (ergo, never gonna happen)

was actually hoping on same suggestion but its better to venture around more on this trope. i think best is to start listening to those emotions like guilt, shame, regret, jealousy, anger you've been blocking out or acting too highly upon. start researching what these emotions really mean, and better ways to let them out. its good to remember we've all dealt with our own kinds of trauma and have our own coping mechanisms around it (its highly likely we've developed these tropes from parents/people surrounded by but be ready to realise just how bad these tropes were, how they affected you and those around you). its never too late to break those bad habits; find alternatives. bad habits take a long while to break permanently so might be worth making part of routine with alarms for journalling, meditation, soothing music, going for a walk, etc. for me i was dealing with a lot of anger so once found calmness through that i felt okay. it'll also be worth looking up defense mechanisms, when these are too high we start to block out everything and rely too much on denial. realise when its time to be quiet, we don't always have to fill these silences with own "witty" comments.

I think a toxic person would never think that the problem comes from them. Also, trying to convince someone that is toxic that they are toxic, is like trying to convince a crazy person that they are crazy. And all of us can have toxic behaviors that we're not aware of, but it doesn't necessarily makes us toxic people, it's like a scale of toxicity. The solution is that we have to love ourselves and set boundries with people.

@@DARAxxi21 thanks. Like your comment. It’s a sign of maturity, something I see lacking at times in some of these comments.

Hey guys im a new youtuber and I just made a short video about toxic people its a bit different but if it catches your mind I would appreciate the support❤

That is gaslighting

Yes this is so true

no ur not toxic ur just flawed. toxic people NEVER change and will NEVER realize that they are toxic. If you thinks you are toxic then you are wrong or you may be a victum of a toxic person, because toxic people will also make you feel like YOu are toxic.

Hi Reema. I totally understand. I think you can really explore that question with a very good friend who will be honest with you. Just ask them. I've done that with my wife from time to time in case I have some blind spots. She's honest with me.....sometimes brutally honest. But, I give her that permission so that I can improve myself.

Someone called me toxic so I guess I might as well try and change

I am also in the journey of self-analyzation trying to figure out how to not have toxic tendencies. I want to change just struggling in that aspect. Wishing you all the best in your growth.

I've been toxic almost my entire life. It was the only thing I'd known but I decided to change and broke patterns and I improved as a person. Now I'm assertive and I can set boundaries (a big reason why I was toxic and I let toxic people get into my life). So, you can change and do better. Acceptance is the first step. You go, girl!😁❤

If you can...if it's in your work or your neighbor...it is really not easy to don't punch them.

Its like a rotten meat in the fridge. The sooner you throw it out the better otherwise risking dying from food poisoning or the fridge will be a big mess and stinky

In my life i never ever meet any toxic person. Everyone has an issues, no one is perfect. So PLEASE DO NOT GENERALISE PEOPLE CALLING THEM TOXIC. If you meet someone difficult to deal with Let them go on their way. Leave them without calling them anything. Work on yourself, dont keep blaming others. Sorry to say, but this kind of videos make us like, and helpful to leave someone, but not realy telling a truth. You might be toxic for someone else. In these days no one is thinking about dealing with problems and solving them, everyone is in rush to END the problems.

@@remabarve . Toxic people exist.This is not because you never face them, they doesn't exist and people desserve to be aware of it, for they safety.

rambo If you’ve never met a toxic person in your life then you have no idea what you’re talking about, so please be quiet.

Good.👏👏👏

Sometime there is no way to cut them off.

one of my best friends does most of the things mentioned in the video, but idk how to cut them off, since we are in the same friend group and i have no friends to go if i get kicked out :( most other people are in there own groups, and i just don’t get along with them, so i’m going to stay in this friend group until i can try to become better friends with people... i don’t think its going to happen though honestly. i’m not good at making friends.

@@evelyn-bz7hv cut them off, I had to cut off a Friend of 6 years because of this. At first I felt so alone like no one to talk to no where to go,, then gradually I started to gather myself, minding my own business, studies etc. In this way I became brave and independent, I drastically improved in studies, I spent more time in my hobbies. Such things helped to boost my confidence and self esteem. Friends are not friends if the only thing they do is to use you, and make you emotionally weak so that you go back to them even after getting hurt by them. Wish this helps you, all the best.

@Mad lemming 17, wise words, I'm glad I came across what you wrote today!

Lmao how to cut off relatinship with parents

Exactly! You really don't want to stoop down to their level.

i have 2 like that

Stopped talking to my sister 12 years ago....best decision I’ve ever made. Family isn’t always “family”

Yes did the same and feeling so relieved and having peace

I am so proud of you!👏👏👏👏

@@missyidontgiveacrap9939 blood of the covenant is thicker than water of the womb

yeah that's true and the older i got. the more it bugs me with my sister is yelling at me I'm telling her off though

You think that.

Recognizing your flaws is the opposite of toxic. Toxic people never admit fault therefore they don't believe there's anything wrong with them,

@@breakingpoint3893 trust and believe they do. They will admit it but won't take accountability. And when they admit their fault. Is for a reason. Or reasons.

Omg, I feel so sorry for you, because only a totally ignorant and uneducated person can speak this way!

Same

YUP. Same😓💀

You abuse others?

@Sivert no, no, no I’m relating to this because some of my friends are doing these things

@@MrOliverLyons My advice its analyze the situation of each friend and watch how u feel in the scenario of they dont do X or Y things to you, if u feel an intermediate relief thats a huge sign you should cut them out of ur life. Nostalgic may play against you, since you will remember the good times and will make that a reason to dont cut them out, but really, those good moments doesnt allow them to treat u bad the rest of the time. I cut out a friendship cuz i felt ignored, only noticed when he needed/want something and would leave me without reply just because. Last time i invited him to a water park, he saw the msg, and replied 10 days later. I know he have some social and trust issues, i understood that but it was a friendship of a decade, and i didnt want to feel bad, and feel like i would have to wait for them to show me some affection/appreciation/care/interest in having me in his life. Basically, i was begging for love and i got tired. It was a little sad but i feel so much better and im happy with the current friends i have, sometimes i noticed they do things i would normally would had to ask and beg him (old friend) to do so i realice "yeah, it wasnt really a friendship after all"

You did a great job fam! No toxicity allowed in this household!! Proud of you😊👍

ur gay and fat? damn you just stirred the worst combination

You are very brave for letting that person go! Well done!

If I was the president all homophobic , racist , or rude to people for no reason and made them feel bad about themselves would be in jail

This video truly resonates deep, I myself have dealt with so many toxic people in my life🦠 So much so that I decided to Create my own video on Letting Go Of TOXIC People, If you are reading this right now and you are dealing with a TOXIC person Go ahead and Watch my video ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-CELIIlJkdvc.html

You hit the nail on the head. It’s very hurtful to be taken advantage of, especially when your tensions were always good/pure for the well-being of someone you truly cared for. Truth is they self sabotage and are destined to live a lonely, hellish life. Compassionate people, true friends are trouble by this as they truly are genuine in the desire to help. However, the harsh reality is that they can’t. One MUST SAVE THEMSELVES or face the consequences of FORFEITING your own peace, wellbeing & happiness for someone who is just incapable of giving a shit.

Éireann no that’s actually legit

That's what my phone also said

Pateron members

@@swatisaini6447 Patreon gives you time-travel? 🤔 Joking aside, either RU-vid should give 2x timestamps (one for release to Members/Patreons and one for general release) or should just list the date it was first published.

@@hectorandem2944 pateron is linked to RU-vid. They post video on pateron but it's released on RU-vid then it becomes available to public on whatever the date they set so comments also get published.

Wtf man the fuck up?

Don't worry. Being toxic to a degree where it's THAT bad, you would do it on purpose. If you're already questioning yourself like that you're doing just fine

In my life i never ever meet any toxic person. Everyone has a issues, no one is perfect. So PLEASE DO NOT GENERALISE PEOPLE CALLING THEM TOXIC. If you meet someone difficult to deal with Let them go on their way. Leave them without calling them anything. Work on yourself, dont keep blaming others. Sorry to say, but this kind of videos make us like, and helpful to leave someone, but not realy telling a truth. You might be toxic for someone else. In these days no one is thinking about dealing with problems and solving them, everyone is in rushing to END the problems.

When your questionong yourself then your not toxic

The fact that you care about not wanting to be toxic to those arounds you, shows you have a lot of good in you. Just keep nurturing the good and believe in yourself.

My parents are the same

Mine too

YES ! You are so right. I never noticed till now that they dont compromise.

Same, I tried telling them that they're toxic but they said im overeacting things

@@podmear3854 these people never change and don't tell them these things because if you did, they will just get so mad at you and hurt you again. And they will never be convinced.

I'm pretty sure they are the members

@@vishalbhat8602 Yeah probably

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@@Bornawinner777 by pulling a JD?

I’m learning languages to change country.

It is hard to deal with toxic family members. Remember this, their toxicity will either rub of onto you or it will destroy you. What toxic family members are not offering you is love, they are using you. You are no more than an item to be used to them. They do not care about your feelings. Sadly, you have to accept them as they are and as soon as you can remove yourself, it’s not easy, you deserve better, you are worth more x

Emotional and violent if they dont get their way ??? Give up ???

Your "good nature" can be just an excuse to try and keep people "sweet" and "on your side" and support your view of yourself as a "Nice Person". Of itself, it is also borderline manipulative. It can also be a survival technique, particularly as regards abusive households and parents, or someone who has authority over you in some way. Perfectly understandable, and kids use this survival technique all the time, when a parent is angry at them. However, as young adults or adults, we don't need to carry this onwards if the relationship is obviously abusive. You don't have to curry favor from someone who has never supported you in any way, has never been a rock to lean on in hard times, or hasn't ever had a good word to say to you. You do not need their so-called approval of you in any way. So they can literally call you every name under the sun because you won't help them move/give cash, or give them whatever it is they want, and it simply does not matter. Block/no contact/walk away.

How did things change? Was it a good decision?

@@kashvirshah3408 my life improved sooo much, I started getting fewer depressive episodes, I started to become more physically healthy, and even became a more open person

narcissists!!! be careful !

Hi Valerie, . My mother has shown all the signs that u hv mentioned.

My Karen radar is going off (RUN SIS!)

Aldo sage the house it would help the energy around them n bring everyone up!

Well at least you recognize who and what they are...

Yes i hear you there Its exactly the same i am doing right now Cause of what i have been put through I avoid people now mostly like the plague

I'm very sorry for that. I pray that you heal

Toxic bosses are horrible

I hope you will be able to. It seems you're halfway there, to making that decision. Once you realise that there's more stress and pain with them then without, even though you may feel lonely or sad initially, you'll probably feel much better once they're out of your life and can't have any negative impact upon you anymore. Now you know the signs, you're more likely to recognise them earlier on, so you can avoid relationships and friendships with toxic people.

Mikey M :D Please! Do YOURSELF A FAVOR!!!

You got to stand up to them. Tell them you have a life outside theirs and your wants and needs are just as important as theirs. Tell them you know their trying to guilt trip you. Its ok to say no. I'd even advise cutting them from your life completely. If they do this regularly, no good can come from it. Trust me. If they play the victim and say their "going through something" don't fall for it. (unless they actually r and its serious). Wish you the best dude

Same

me, too

I used to and as soon as I cut ties, my list of friends went down (:

Remember, toxicity attracts toxicity... So think of yourselves first

Let's all be friends

Are you okay?

You okay? Want to talk about it?

I was once in your situation with an ex-fiance. I knew that what he was doing was deplorable, every one of my friends and family knew he was toxic, but I had it in my head that I could help him change for the better.

2 weeks ago... wut

Time travelers

BonBon Quemada I recently learned to never befriend a toxic ex.

@@scarletqueen6223 I typically dont befriend exes and this was the first time. I learned my lesson.

Devious way to get out of trouble😧

I can relate to your situation. I thought about it before, but I mean how can you be friends with an ex? like someone who didn't treat you in a good way when you were in a relationship with them, that's why it ended and then how do you expect they will treat you in a good way after it ends? 😅

Do you want to talk?

❤️❤️❤️

um omg hi?

Want to cuddled out the blues??

Trish Hamilton Same here.

You're not toxic at all. You bend over backwards so as not to want to hurt anyone in any way, intentionality or unintentionally

@Trish Hamilton Sounds like labeling yourself as “toxic” actually may not be accurate at all. Why do that to yourself? Sounds like there may be other things going on related to you being an extreme introvert.

"you become the people you surround yourself with"

@@obuma6459 well there's the case of Jesus Christ

@@obuma6459 that's my boy..................😅

I've dealt with a person who is toxic and who was being fake nice to me. I'm now trying to recover from it. I'm energetically drained

@@TakerMJCSfan I'm so sorry, fake-nice people are the worst.

Seriously blows having to apologize to someone who instigated the shit in the first place just to keep peace and prevent whatever from getting worse. So draining.

Same happens to me. I left them to deal with themselves.

Ugh people like that are pathetic. They'd probably have more friends if they learned a little loyalty. Sorry you had that experience, you sound like a much bigger person than them.

*If I was with a toxic person* Toxic person:*insulting and demaning me* Me:grabs chancla *SO U HAVE CHOSEN DEATH*

@@marinettedupaincheng4749 not as easy as you think.

I have spent the last two years trying to help an autistic friend with a bad drinking problem ,a complete nightmare, I have tried everything you name it ,cycling 9 miles the other day in the pouring rain, and spending over an hour with a work colleague, to get him some help ,we found some numbers for him to ring ,plus some information etc ,that very day ,he told me that he rang the numbers ,they do not exist ,and through them into the bin ,at this point I now realise it is pointless, and all it is doing to me is draining me ,and so I now have to step back ,and put me energy etc .into my voluntary charity work .

1 month-

@@slimeyli ya me too

The video was made 34 seconds ago IT SAYS YOUR COMMENT WAS MADE A MONTH AGO. RU-vid’s drunk again.. :

WHAT THE??? 1 MONTH AGO?!!!

This video was unlisted a month ago that's why.

#same and I refuse to have him in my life.period. #doorclosed

I'm equally toxic as my dad.

@Hasu Kim - It's important to set and maintain clear boundaries with toxic people, even a parent. It's good you recognise that he is, and can now identify the signs, so you can avoid relationships with others who display the same signs. Often when we grow up with dysfunctional parents, that becomes our "normal" and, unaware of the potential harm, we tend to repeat it by unconsciously seeking out others who are similar. Start to identify *your* needs and limits, so you can set boundaries with him, and learn ways to end conversations that are disrespectful, abusive and pushing your limits, while maintaining your dignity. That way you can heal, regain your personal power and autonomy, and hopefully have a respectful relationship with him. If not, distancing yourself may be your next best option.

@Ayontica Banerjee - It's a startling revelation when you realise that you possess similar traits as a parent who has been harmful towards you. It's a learned behaviour, as it was role-modelled to you by your parent, so it's no surprise that you'd pick up on some of it as well. Fortunately, recognising that within yourself is the first step to being able to change your thoughts and behaviours so that you're not acting in ways that impact others negatively. You can choose to change how you perceive or judge things, and how to treat people, and yourself, better.

@@ayonticabanerjee8326 it was a similar process for me. I lost all my friends, lost belief in humanity, everything became a game of power and manipulation, but the crippling depression was a wake up call because I could feel my useless ego puffing up for no reason. Hurting others hurts us it's double edged sword. Then I surrendered to depression. I lost it all, no motivation to live or do anything. I could see myself standing on a an edge of a tall building a few months down the line. It was simply unable to imagine any other future for myself. Just like a flame about to go out burns brighter, I decided to give a last go, and invested myself fully in a play our college was making for a competition. My teacher had a bad impression of me through and through because I was very inconsistent with classes since I had lost all interest in life, it was just so hard to take myself and mover every morning just to see people who either ignored me or looked down on me or just used me and left. But there was a senior, i guess he somehow noticed something during play, and started to talk with me. Just study things, and research paper talk, some time pass talk nothing serious or emotional. Then one day we decided to meet up for the same, and I guess he deliberately kept changing the topic to other things. We ended up talking for a whole day, and honestly I was kind of alarmed. Because I didn't feel bad, I was comfortable, and somehow my trust in him became unshakable because I soon trusted his logic more than mine. We would discuss everything about the work, he would be able to understand what I wanted to say when I didn't even know what I was saying, but I consistently avoided emotional topics. And one time he ended up getting hurt bad because I trusted another person who was wrong person to trust in that situation. That day, I cried after years. Just because of a single look we passed. I'm such a stupid, I couldn't even bring myself to say sorry.. I just kept waiting around... Somehow just be there. It was like that for two three days or so. I kept being around but I wasn't even able to talk to him again. And he took the initiative again. After that, I apologies multiple times. After that guilt.. I tried to cut him off. Because I was so afraid of hurting someone. Quarantine with the narcissist was taking toll on me too. That fucker is so patient, after a month of no calls from me he suddenly called and kept asking me to speak. Until I cried and blurted somethings out finally. I put all this just to say, believe. It's okay to hurt, and be depressed, just try and please voice your emotions, so many times people are waiting. I hope this will help somehow. Good luck on your journey👍

Imagine if that was the whole video 😂

@@annabelaitken2600 Kicking toxic people out is kind of cruel. Imagine having no friends, just because your more different then the status quo. people constantly say i don't know what you're talking but, but they arn't really listening, even if they say they do, and they don't reply to it at all. autistics constantly have this problem. nobody really listens but they say they do, but they never speak back too you. you don't have to be constantly on edge all the time. people tend to overreact and take you literally which is dumb. how do you see from both sides if they don't, tell you there side. humans are weird.

*they're

@@free_money1945 whatever.

Stay away from her.

Can I your number? 🙂💯

Same here.

Yeah that's actually a good idea..-

Oh i seen that lol

Because girls get made for the littlest things

Most of the time

Lol that's not just exclusive to a particular gender

We see you

I'm here for you bc I had to fight my tears as well. You're not alone buddy

Your not buried ❤️

Same, glad to see a comment like this

Even if you’re actually toxic, know I’m happy because you clicked on this video Real toxic people wouldn’t really click on this It’s better late than never to change from being toxic!!

respect for that my man keep on doing better.. 👍

same here, friend for 13 years then girlfriend for 2 years. Left her last night, and no loss of sleep. She lost a best friend and lover. Feeling awesome....peace!

@@FSSRKeyno I'm happy for you. This is possibly the best outcome of your situation and the last words in your comment are so true.

Thankfully I don’t have toxic friends *the thing is it is not my friends it is my parents*

@@FSSRKeyno good for you my man! I hope you are doing well!

@@laletraa8650 I'm so sorry! Is there anything I can do to help? I feel so bad!

same here. I have been working on speaking up for my needs (as I tend to keep it to myself). And perhaps because my friend was never used to me speaking up (and because of that she's constantly talking down to me), or perhaps what i said had provoked her (no matter how well I worded the situation), She lashed out on me. I understand she is angry at the time, but I also am happy I made the decision to end the friendship for good. In fact, I regretted for not having done so any sooner.

Good move. Life goes on and lessons learned.

@@ratagris21 sure

Feel the same. Someone who creates their own tried to drag me down to their lower level... So I learned a new take on a saying That Misery NEEDS Company. And I am not going to stoop that low to keep them company.

I.Dont.Matter yes, I have a black cat.

i am a toxic people

@@weirdlyghostly1814 I am more toxic look fuck you scumbag born in the especific ocean jajjajajajajahaja

Well said.