How to Deal With Frustrating People

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In this episode of The Charged Life, high performance coach and #1 New York Times bestselling author Brendon Burchard shares simple ways to deal with frustrating people (and yourself).
This is Brendon speaking freestyle, recorded in one take without prompter or notes. Post your comments and questions for him below, and he might do an episode answering your question freestyle.
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SUMMARY:
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1. Keep perspective… People are struggling just like you.
2. Ask, “Have I been truly clear with people about what I think, want, and need?”
3. Consider people’s confidence and competence before you judge.
4. Make dealing with others well and with patience part of your character development.
5. Release control.
Get the full summary and transcript on Brendon's blog: tmblr.co/ZTb1Dv1XS24H7
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ABOUT BRENDON BURCHARD
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Brendon Burchard is one of the most followed personal development trainers of our time and a Top 100 Most Followed Public Figures on Facebook. A #1 New York Times bestselling author, his books include The Motivation Manifesto, The Charge, The Millionaire Messenger, and Life’s Golden Ticket. He is also the founder of High Performance Academy, the legendary personal development program for achievers, and Experts Academy, the world’s most comprehensive marketing training for authors, speakers, coaches, and online thought leaders. For these works, Larry King named Brendon "one of the top motivation and marketing trainers in the world."
After a car accident at 19 years old inspired him to turn his life around and follow his dreams, and then having the blessings to become a multimillionaire writer and trainer by the age of 32, Brendon has dedicated his life to helping others find their charge and share their voice with the world. His posts now reach more than 10,000,000 people per week worldwide, and he is the star and executive producer of the #1 self-help show on both RU-vid and iTunes.
Meet Brendon at www.BrendonBurchard.com
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ABOUT THE CHARGED LIFE
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The Charged Life is a weekly self-improvement show full of #motivation, #inspiration, and #high performance strategies with motivational speaker and author Brendon Burchard. Filmed in one take, without any notes or prompter, the show has become one of the most viewed direct-to-camera personal growth video series in the history of RU-vid. It's also been the #1 Podcast in all of iTunes and is regularly in the top podcasts in Self-Help and Health categories around the globe. Subscribe to the free motivational podcast here: itun.es/i66Y78r
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@Erzkreutz 9 лет назад

cant help but i think this message is kinda dangerous - because it basically invites people to emotionally abuse and use you while you say yourself: "UNDERSTAND THEM". i did this as good as i could for years and it left my mind pretty bruised...

@courage0243 8 лет назад

I've been in therapy for 6 months and this video gave me better advice than I got in all that wasted time with a certified counselor.

@patwarburtonr7488 2 года назад

Is anyone else weary of this sin filled, evil and sorrowful world and wishing that Jesus would return NOW for His children! 🙏

@ppd8085 7 лет назад

I don't believe in always appealing to a person's better nature because they might not have one. I carry myself with basic positivity but if someone is a dangerous amoral adversary, I'm not above giving them a taste of their own medicine in spades. "We sleep soundly in our beds because rough men stand ready in the night to visit violence on those who would do us harm." It's not nice but that's the way a lot of the world is. You have to be tough as well as kind and sometimes that means you have to end up dealing with some nasty stuff. That's life.

@shahshreeta 7 лет назад

agree with some aspects of this.. but there are also some deliberately obnoxious spiteful people who go out of their way to be frustrating no matter how much we have helped them cos they r harbouring some resentment toward us.

@Prxncessvaleria 7 лет назад

I'm sorry, this really hasn't helped me at all. My social anxiety and introverted personality are not the problem.

@trevsedgwick3324 2 года назад

This is advise that’s slightly off centre, never ever let someone abuse you,or allow them too much room for them to go on destroying you. The best way to help them is walk away and say this isn’t right. Plus you can often tell someone the truth but are they ready to here it. These are the profound questions that this guy is overlooking. It’s not for you to fix people it’s for people to realise all by them selves opps! I need to fix myself.

@free2bgloria 2 года назад

Here’s a tip: don’t deal with them 🤷‍♀️

@rajmalhotra420 3 года назад

I used to let people walk over and become a doormat when I was younger. Now I don't let anyone to personally make me inferior without my consent. The best way to deal with frustrating person whether they are bosses,managers,co-workers,clients,customers or even family and sometimes close friends is to learn to be Assertive rather then being 1.Submissive and 2.Aggressive. I have sometimes in the past been both 1 and 2. These responses are neither effective!! and will not lead to a practical resolution!! Learn the skill of being "Assertive!"

@ericwolfe5574 9 лет назад

Hey man. I'm literally what you described. I have an IQ of 140, and lately I've denounced my friends for doing things that I would never do. I've become more anti-social than ever because I get frustrated with people I used to be around. Your videos help me keep my ego in check.

@elisas2562 8 лет назад

I admire your trust in humanity, but in my experience I found that at work some people are just deeply dishonest and greed and they don't give a fig to run over other people and ruin other people's careers if this can help them to get ahead and make more money. And they have a perfectly smoot life at home. I am sorry to say that, but some people are just really ugly, and that is the reality in which we live.

@film_magician 9 лет назад

I've seen like 10 of your videos. I literally think this channel was made for me and I found it at a perfect time. Thank's Brendon.

@Emily-uw5tt 6 лет назад

The thinly veiled accusation that I am the frustrating person at the beginning IS VERY FRUSTRATING.... :)

@SchoolOfTrade 9 лет назад

I really appreciate the fact that Brendon's videos dont have ads at the beginning... that shows true class when it comes to online video IMO. Thank you for setting the example with that Brendon, advertising is the biggest threat to the material on youtube.

@ebaychick30 9 лет назад

brilliant spin...dealing with frustrating people is about re-aligning YOUR OWN perspective and acknowledge, atone and deal with your own "frustrating" traits. Sometimes WE are the issue not other people.

@KyleGillis 9 лет назад

Wow. Brendon really put me in perspective with this one.. I've been thinking so much of myself with what I'm doing and how I want to be "different" that I've been creating a bad and un-relatable gap between me and others. Time for some change!

@lsgmail4300 8 лет назад

I told her many times what I needed from her when I shared my day story at work, with people etc was to listen without rescuing, judgements, opinions; just listen. I even had to break down into small bits for her to understand my need but she continued to struggle to listen and reflect without rescuing. We went couple counselling and still didn't work. I left after 9 years!

@yaeljohnson4727 8 лет назад

I'm a person who frustrates people mostly because I over-explain. You just clarified why I always feel the need to explain my thought sequence. I always just want people to understand. The people that get frustrated with me about it are the people who just don't want to understand, they just want things to go the way they want them to go.

@yordankavetsova4232 9 лет назад

Brendon thank you for reminding me what humanity is.i started reading books on these topics and ur videos are definitely a big help for learning to be a better human being and to be the best you can ever be in each moment of your life. And I am learning from all your videos how genuine you are in your words and advise you are giving. Thank you for posting this here and giving everyone the opportunity to gain from your knowledge and to hear what you are saying because I think you are changing not only mine but many peoples lives

@rdewan10 8 лет назад

Brendon- Thank you for the reminder that we need to practice humanity. We usually expect the same level of performance from other people, without realizing that their situation might be different from ours. All we need to deal with is with ourselves. Our attitude and expectations. I love all your videos Keep up the great work.