How To Easily Start Conversations When She's NOT Showing Interest

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What do you say AFTER the opener? In particular, what if the opener goes badly, or even just not great. In this live-event video, I show how to deal with the various responses you might get when starting a conversation with a woman.
If you want to go really in depth about what to say to a girl in nearly any circumstance, check out: verbalgameacademy.com

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21 дек 2023

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@MrJeonghah 7 месяцев назад

In a sense this is just basic conversation skills you acquire as you interact with people in gradeschool. But its refreshing to have it modelled and fleshed out

@ChicagoJ351 7 месяцев назад

Yep, that’s the thing. Todd’s material is spot on, but it’s analyzing the obvious at times. And can be really technical. Do we really need it broken down and at this level of detail? Some say just go natural and all these things self correct and it’s much simpler. But, technical vs natural game is a debate that will go on forever it seems.

@MidwestAINewsroom 6 месяцев назад

Todd has a really bad "over analyze everything to death" habit- which is why he has to explain even the simplest concepts 50 different ways and make them sound super complicated.

@moleedaboi 6 месяцев назад

Kinda, yeah. Just go back to the basics.

@mtlicq 3 месяца назад

in gradsschool.interaction and conversation is with peers and teachers you see every day all year, not much with strangers. Now you're adult trying to socially connect with adults you just met and want to meet again for mutual benefit, instead of staying strangers apart.

@TheSongofSaya 3 месяца назад

But you may not develop specific skills that are required to spark chemistry. Chemistry has been explained in a simple way by another dating coached named Bobby Rio and it consists of 3 elements: fun, connection, and intimacy. If the vibe has only fun or connection, you end up in the friendzone, if it's only intimacy, you end up in just a one-night stand. These things don't naturally develop in school and there are a lot of factors to be considered if you want be serious about consistently sparking that attraction even after marriage. There's also the crucial part of your interaction where she'll keep testing you as a man such as teasing you or sometimes even insulting you and you have to pass them. Lots of relationships end in a break up because of certain things that both couple don't realize that cause the "spark" between them to dwindle and disappear. And no, it's not because of looks and money, and not because they chose the wrong partner, it's mostly because the woman simply no longer feels attraction, and the worst part is, her logical mind doesn't always understand it.

@MrX_117 7 месяцев назад

I work in sales and this reminds of the practices we do. In my mind this all starting to click.

@prashunpcchakraborty70 7 месяцев назад

Todd's wit is out of the world.

@rambo7135 6 месяцев назад

I soo needed this! Whenever I get a lukewarm response to a direct opener. Like an unenthusiastic "uhh thanks" I will either eject or say something else but if she's still not reacting positively then I just leave. I feel though when this happens women are not giving me a chance. But in a way I feel not all women like being complimented on the approach. It's kind of limiting that I can only go further with women who react positively.

@marioottaiano475 7 месяцев назад

Top video! I believe that confidence, coherence, sincerity, authenticity, integrity and being upfront incredibly reduce the amount of negative answers you get. Negative answers come when the vibe is off and you made a mistake like hesitancy, or you did not create the right warm up, or you showed shyness and you were not totally convinced to engage in a conversation, since people in general are on the defensive mode and they immediately understand if you are there for "good intentions" or not

@stephenm8725 7 месяцев назад

thanks Todd for the great advice. happy holidays everyone!

@Txjxsxa 7 месяцев назад

Todd is an AI, has access to our mind's algo & drops the exact value we need at the right time.

@IRISHTRETTO 7 месяцев назад

I agree.

@TheChosenOne570 7 месяцев назад

Video request: I would like to see more content on texting. I do well with approach and can even get numbers early. BUT, then, it falls apart from there. Am I going too fast? Am I going too slow? I want to make sure all my messages are meaningful and advances toward a date. Even then, I do kinda okay. I often get a first date and sometimes a few dates... but I feel the spark disappears because I'm going too slow or I scare them off by going too fast. Am I supposed to be texting them cute stuff and lame jokes even though I don't know them? Or just setting up plans ("It was great to meet you! We are going have a great time tonight!" or "you around? I'm around and I'd like to see you")? This gets more complicated when she's always busy. I tend to meet girls at events and they tend to say things like "I'm free Tuesday and Sunday" or "lets do lunch on Wednesday because blah blah blah." If I'm unable to meet one of their open days, then the whole interaction fizzles. I feel like I'm getting very close with these girls. So much better than I was doing 2 years ago. BUT, I'm still falling short somewhere and I really need to take my texting and early dates skills to the next level. You've been very very good at getting me in her phone, but I very rarely cross the finish line. Much appreciated! Great videos! I love your channel

@RafaelGringo 7 месяцев назад

There are some videos in his main channel about text game. In my personal experience, there is no right time to propose a date and set plans, but you should do it as soon as you convey your personality and feel that the girl thinks you would be fun to hang out with. But you need to bring this up only when the conversation is going really well and productively, with certain emotion and the right vibe. This way you will encourage the girl to continue the interaction with this good energy in mind (I mean, it doesn't have to be flashy or extraordinary, but rather relatable, fun and comfortable). My go-to line is "hey, this is going really well, we should continue this in person. Are you free next ----? Let's grab a drink or (insert a plan here)."

@sasapetroski981 6 месяцев назад

It's easy.. Don't waste to much time on one girl, if she don't want ask another girl, after 5 girls one will say yes

@RafaelGringo 7 месяцев назад

Hey, Todd! How to behave after a good, successful date with someone you really liked and want to see again without being needy and at the same time establishing that you really care about seeing them again?

@johnappleseed6514 7 месяцев назад

Hey Todd, I have a question. Would you consider that there are places that are off limits when it comes to approaching women? Some people suggest never approaching at your workplace, the gym, or a public transportation. What are your thoughts about this and do you believe that some places should be completely off limits?

@pariss1445 6 месяцев назад

Probably approaching a female doctor during surgery is off limits LOL. Just use common sense, with a dash of boldness. For example, a funeral might be fine if you are invited there, even though it could be a terrible time emotionally. You have to read the room.

@pahyzhahyz9634 7 месяцев назад

In your A to Z manifesto you had hooking, and creating a physical and emotional connection, why did you remove those from your system? Also how do you recommend making a physical or emotional connection?

@Fred-zt5ky 7 месяцев назад

yo Todd can you please put out more content about girlfriend game? as in, not how to get one, but how the make the relationship great and how to keep her! cuz this is my issue, I have no problem getting girls attracted to me and dating them for 6 months or so, but then they end up breaking up with me and I just don’t get why

@marioottaiano475 7 месяцев назад

You should apply exactly the same principles, most of the problems come when guys in general get the girl and they relax, they think "Ok, I got the girl, now I do not have to do anything else", they become complacent and start making stupid mistakes, I do not know what are your specific problems, but the fact is that your behavior in a relationship should not be different from the one you had before the relationship, since the girl creates expectations about you and the relationship, once expectations are violated the relationship starts to fall apart

@ConzultheGreat 7 месяцев назад

I agree with the other reply. If this keeps happening to you, it means that something about YOU is changing within that timeframe. Like guys, girls are huge fans of what-you-see-is-what-you-get. I guess what I’m trying to say is that, to keep a girl worth keeping (high value), you really do NOT get to rest that much. There is no *other side*, no happily ever after. It is a constant romance with a constant reward. If the romance (the surprise and delight) ever ends for her, she’ll do ONE of TWO things: 1) she’ll leave 2) she’ll stop trying to be attractive and start picking up bad, low value habits even if she sticks around

@marioottaiano475 7 месяцев назад

@@ConzultheGreat your answer is absolutely brilliant! Even though I find it too complicated for beginners to understand it. Let's say that Todd's model works in this way: in order to get the girl you should have a right balance of comfort and value, during the relationship you must keep this balance, if you put on too much value inside the relationship, the girl starts to feel scared, she feels that you are too much for her, she feels inadequate, and maybe she also feels that you hang out with other women, instead if you put on too much comfort, she starts to think that you are a wimp, you are a too easy guy with no balls and no spine, and she looks for someone better. So, the conclusion is that you must keep doing things you did before starting the relationship, and be careful to not violate this balance

@Starsteam1 7 месяцев назад

When do you move on from a rejection or if it's not going well to talk to another set?

@unitynofear7758 7 месяцев назад

In the end it's up to you. You can move on when you feel like you're inconveniencing them, or when you think you've failed a critical shittest, or you've been amogged (even by their friend saying 'tHaNk YoU!!!1!', or you're being ignored or getting IODs like eyerolls and puke emojis. Or you see another set and you want to approach or just move on and preserve state and momentum, or a friend of mine would stick through the awkward silence just to feel the traumatic feelings and release before leaving moving on. For example in nightgame if the set is going fine or even very good, you can still go and approach other sets and get back to this later.

@Mangalugab 7 месяцев назад

Why would I start and especially keep a conversation with sb that is not interested?

@aelfredrex8354 7 месяцев назад

Because it's all about your ego, not her situation. That's the way PUA works. She could be coming home from her mother's funeral, but it's way more important for the PUA to shoot his shot, because she really doesn't matter. After all, she's just a phone number and nothing more.

@-whackd 7 месяцев назад

If somebody is clearly not interested, like not replying to you at all twice in a row, say It was nice meeting you then approach next woman.

@Mangalugab 7 месяцев назад

Well said Man@@-whackd

@shehryarkhann 7 месяцев назад

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@RichDatingDragon 5 месяцев назад

👍

@stayhungry1503 2 месяца назад

I think there should be more focus on social situations. Hot girls are almost never alone.

@BV-ti1sf 7 месяцев назад

The woman just says go away, I have a boyfriend, or I am married, they could be lying, but you are toast. you can't compete with that.

@charzanboo9940 7 месяцев назад

If her body is positioned toward you (toes pointed toward you), it could be a test. Just say "That's great, what does he do?" Then suggest you two get a coffee/drink nearby.

@piexel_tales 5 месяцев назад

Does someone know how to escalate after a kiss and make out ?

@NeerajSingh-gn3hu 5 месяцев назад

when she says thank you , i come up with an answer.... thats nice ! so do you talk with everyone with manners or its just me getting this special treatment 😏 for further conversation