how to find out what you want to do in life - watch this if you feel lost 

🌟 The first 1,000 people to use the link or my code *ruriohama* will get a 1 month free trial of Skillshare: skl.sh/ruriohama05221 🌟 ----------------------------------------------------------- ⏰ Timestamps ⏰ 00:00 Intro 01:37 Paradox of Choice 02:37 How to avoid decision fatigue? 03:00 Why is "do what you love" is a bad advice ----------------------------------------------------------- 04:01 3 main steps 04:09 Step-1 Discover your values 🌸 04:57 Q1 (value) 07:24 Q2 (value) 08:08 Q3 (value) 08:51 Q4 (value) 09:04 Q5:What advice would you give to people? (value) ----------------------------------------------------------- 11:36 Step-2 Figure out what you're good at 🌷 12:14 Q1 (talent) 12:36 Q2 (talent) 13:30 Q3 (talent) 13:49 Q4(talent) 14:23 Q5 (talent) 15:39 What if you still can't find your talent? ----------------------------------------------------------- 16:01 Step-3 Figure out what you're passionate about🌼 16:27 Q1 (Passion) 16:44 Q2 (Passion) 16:47 Q3 (Passion) 17:23 Q4 (Passion) 18:11 Q5 (Passion) ----------------------------------------------------------- 18:31 What to do after figuring them out? 🌈

Life is long. Your goal in life changes from when you are 10 or 20 or 40. I just hope that I can be on my deathbed and smile and say I had a good life.

Can anyone else still not figurw out their passion? Even after answering the questions they just felt random

"I truly believed that I can do it one day, it's just not today" Wow, that's enlightening

I just got rejected from an apprenticeship today, this video couldn't have come at a better time. Thank you Ruri, your content is always so real and encouraging.

Thanks for This video!

"There is nothing wrong nor right in this world, there re just different cultures and different value systems" I really appreciate people who understand this

You probably won't ever see this comment Ruri, but thank you. I'm currently studying computer science and am graduating uni this semester, though I've never been too sure if I enjoyed it or not. During quarantine, I've been reevaluating my life and have been trying to look deeper within. I've always had this childish goal of becoming a RU-vidr. I love receiving positive attention, and entertaining people: giving joy where I can. As I grew older, I've prioritized stability and comfort over all else, as I don't want my parents to worry about me; I want to be someone dependable, and meet their expectations. As I continued university, I've been told that I have gifts in communication, language, and empathy. I'm not sure if these comments have influenced my answers to your questions, but I genuinely enjoy meeting new people, and creating meaningful connections. I think I have a talent in voicing myself, projecting my thoughts, all the while keeping an open mind and listening to others. I think I'll give streaming and RU-vid a try once I graduate!

This is actually so so helpful. I’m currently 25 and I know what I want to do but it’s so hard to get there so this guidance is much needed 😅🙏🏽

Man. I answered the first question and now I have a paragraph written about why I respect my Mom the most in this world. I also feel like crying.

I realized that finding what I want to do in my whole life is the most important thing. This is exactly what I needed these days. Thank you Ruri!

The first thing people have to do is rely less on social media. Social Media is the root of most social and even educational problems we face. We are getting "connected" to a virtual world but at the same time disconnected from the real world. Using a smartphone daily takes up so much energy of a human being, its scary. Stop using the internet so much, go out and see the world. Thats a good way to find your own passion and what you want yourself.

~ Figure out your values ~ Question 1: WHO do you respect, and why? Question 2: WHICH experience influenced you the most during your teenage years? Question 3: WHAT do you feel we lack in society these days? Question 4: (Ask people around you) WHAT do you think I value the most? Question 5: WHAT advice would you give to other people? ~ Figure out what you're good at ~ Question 1: WHAT was the most fulfilling experience you've EVER had? Question 2: WHAT did you get annoyed about most recently? Question 3: ASK others to name your strengths Question 4: If you quit your job right now, WHAT would you regret about it? Question 5: WHAT is something you have succeeded in? ~ Figure out what you're passionate about ~ Question 1: WHAT would you like to learn about, even if you had to pay for it? Question 2: WHAT type of books do you tend to read? WHAT are they about? Question 3: WHAT is the thing/genre that moves you/makes you feel something? Question 4: WHAT type of job do you truly appreciate? WHAT type of job would you truly like to thank? Question 5: WHAT would you like to change about life? HAVE you been angry towards life? Thanks for sharing these questions and the video, Ruri. I hope many people will find out what they want to do with themselves by answering these questions. 😊

You are so on time, there are so many people including me that are struggling finding out what they want to do. Thank u for that

Graduated university as a UI/UX designer with Good grade, had been worked in a dream company for a year. But I decided to quit it 2 weeks ago because everything was so bored and looping everyday. Now staying at home, I'm doing what I've really wanted to do since university: Learn Japanese, drawing, guitar, photography... and find out more about myself, what I want and what I do in life. It absolutely makes me feel at ease.

I LOVE this kind of video Ruri! I've been feeling lost since I got my high school diploma. I'm 28 and still feel very lost. I'm trying to figure out what's best for me and hope to find it out soon. I've written down all my answers, but I need to have a vision now.

Just what I need! Thanks Ruri!

thank you, Ruri. i needed this.

love your content!

A huge thank you for bringing out this video!💙

Thank you for the precious lesson Ruri!

Thanks for this incredible video!

Thank you for this video. 😊 .

Just in time when thinking about it. Thank you Ruri

This was really enlightening!! tyvm!

Thank you for this video. Amazing content as always❤

I felt lonely and lost since i became a teenager. I did lots of thinking and searching about what i want from and to do in my life. This video is very special to me because it marks the end of me feeling lost. I hope the creator is proud of herself. I feel better and this video is partially why. Now for loneliness!

Gracias Ruri, siempre necesito vídeos así 💜🦋

I LOVE YOU!!! I LOVE THIS GIRL!

thanks for new video!

This is exactly what I was looking for, thanks so much ❤️

now im feel more fine , thank you so much Ruri 🙏💜

Thank you Ruri❤ Such an amazing mindset you have.

Thank you for this awesome content!

thank you for this video! it's literally what i needed the most

Thankyou for Sharing Ruri !❤

Great video Ruri! thanks for sharing all the lessons and experiences in your life!

Thank you ruri.

Love tour Channel, thank you for your hard work that you put in these vids ❤️

You are the best Ruri, I love you!!!

I appreciate your efforts ...each and everything is full of guidance !

This video is excatly what I needed. Thank you!

Thank you, Ruri. ❤️

Thanks a lot Ruri. It's really helpful. I'll have to watch it later

Thank you, young lady! Excellent video! Keep up your hard work!

i love the way you talk. You're very articulate!

Took me 2 hours but I loved it. Thank you, Ruri!

This is probably the best video

this video really helped, thanks allot Ruri.

I really like your videos Ruri. I need this stuff in my life right now.

You are a legend ruri❤️❤️🔥

This video is so great. Thank you very much Ruri.

You’re a positive and wonderful person, keep doing what you do 😊

Thanks for the video. 💥

The worth of these video is awesome!!

Yes Thank you I need this

Thank you for the video i'll be thinking and filling these questions in the days ahead

Thank you so much, for this video You are that person, who I recpect. Love u 💚

Ruri from the moment i sow u , i actually never stopped watching

My favourite youtuber. You inspire me alot. Thamk you

Thank you for taking the time to create this video. I came across you at random in my home feed, and I have been feeling lost recently. I appreciate you. ✌🏻

"You want to do something but you don't know what to do" bruhhh that's the story of my life basically lol thanks for this ruri ❤

I love dreams ...creative dreams to reality...!

Thank you Ruri. I've never think deeply with my life purpose, but now I know what I should do in my life.

Thanks, as always! you were the first person I fully understood in another language, and I really like hearing what you say

Your channel is my favorite channel.

Thank you for this kind of videos, it's make me feel relaxed and give me motivation

thank you so much Ruri you are one of the people I respect the most, you’re a genius!!! 🤯♥️

I'll watch this before sleeping. Actually I find your vids calming before getting asleep, Ruri and I am grateful with that. I love your vids.

Please never stop doing what you are doing. You are truly a light on this planet. Thank you.

Great. Thank you

easily this is one of the most interesting and helpful videos you've ever done, thank u Ruri appreciate it. keep it up ;)

A similar video to this ("Watch this if you feel like a failure") was what made me discover your channel. And I'm extremely glad that it did, because I'm at a point of life where I don't even know what my strengths/talents -if any- even ARE, much less if they can be applied anywhere. Seeing this vid be so similar to that first time really made it all go right around and I couldn't be more thankful. Keep up the great work and much love!😃

Thank you for this video Ruri. It made me and will make me think a lot. I’m so glad to find your RU-vid channel. ✨🙏🏻

U r advices soo good😁

You are amazing!

Ruri ❤ you are my Angel.. Whenever I get upset I listen you... I love you so much ❤

Hi Ruri i loved hearing your voice and explaining things about life, it really inspired me a lot. Keep safe always and stay healthy thank you.

Idk how your videos came up on my feed but this is my 2nd video. They seem to have appeared right when I needed them. Thank you for your videos.

Hi just wanna say thank you this helped me a lot :)

I have read lots of things, lots of videos about self-improvement but... This video became a medicine for me. I wrote all of them, I answered all of the questions honestly. Cross my heart, you are the best. Keep thriving ♥️

masterful content! thank you, this was a great video for the start of my day. stay the course. you really have a nice way of finding a passion within ones self.

your voice makes me listen without being bored. you spell words so fluently and gently. thanks 🌸

thank you for this, hearing advice from mikasa is so nice. im in my late 20s and still lost at life.

I'm 29.. I've been asking myself this question so many times throughout my life and I get so many different answers. This video is the response that makes the most sense to me.

Excellent video. I just had a major surgery and I've been thinking about what to do with my life moving forward. Thank you for making this video.👍👍

This was very helpful, I love your style of making videos 🙌🙌🙌

Good advice

This is my first time watching the RU-vid advice video from start till the end .

Thank you for Advice it helps a lot.

It's kinda new to me but I like the idea of asking new questions to ourselves to find values, talents and our passions to find our path in life, thank you ruri for coming up with the books that you read, I wish it really helped me a lot throughout my journey in pursuing my career and my life generally, sending love from Malaysia 🇲🇾 💙

Thank you.

Thank you is just not enough for the quality and time you shared in the video this is exactly what I needed Thank you from my bottom of heart to your video ❤️

I lovee how she talkss

Long life to you Ruri ! I feel really inspired listening you. Kiss !

Thanks that youtube let me meet Ruri's channel. Your content help me a lots for upgrade my personal life.

I respect your dedication and perseverance for your passion of becoming a youtuber...and here you are 😍😍😍

Thanks for this! Made plans to find work in another state, which didn’t work out, and now I’m back here in boring old home. Now I have a sense of what I should do.

I love you Ruri ❤

Thank you Ruri! You explain the content of the book into some practical steps, like we are 5 years old. And I think this is very important for everyone else.