How to Get a Girlfriend if You're a Nice Guy 

Dan I got my beautiful GF with your Flow approach. To the guys reading this and watching Dan's videos...I was the classic nice man and it got me nowhere for over a decade. Dan's approach works. Its natural and it works. I highly recommend it! 👍

This guy is a genius. Give him your hard earned money and let him in return educate you. You need it

Great video One point I want to add: -The guy needs to be independent and not needy or desperate, this is very important.

The triggers you are listing are: dominance, playfulness, and having a sexual edge.

Hey Dan, so you wanted to hear some success stories using your techniques? I've been following your channel for a couple months and ended up reading your book "The Flow" I was always having trouble hooking up with chicks, I'm 24, 6'2, pretty good looking, dress nice and I'm hung like a horse but when it came to flirting or hooking up I was really awkward and your typical "Nice guy" I didn't understand why women didn't want to be intimate with me and why they would always go for guys that where less attractive than myself or where kind of douchey. But after I started listening to your advice, I put it into practice. I went out for drinks with a young lady and she was a little cold at first, trying not to laugh at my jokes or being nice "she was testing me" I just teased her whenever she would ask question and then I would touch her shoulder or something, then put her arm around her. She was laughing and started leaning in to me so I had her pull me with my necktie for a kiss. I teased, saying she was paying for all the drinks and the food. Next thing you know she says "You know you are totally getting laid tonight right?" We soon left for her place and made out at every stoplight on the way there. When we got to her place she threw my on the bed and went to town, she really liked using my necktie. We played paddie cake the whole night and by the next day I couldn't move I was so tired from having sex the whole night. When she went to take me back to the bar we met at she ended up buying me breakfast! So thanks Dan. My advice, is be confident, tease her a little and don't let her boss you around. Show her you've got balls and always bring a neck tie!

Just discovered this channel a couple of weeks ago, it's amazing how much I learned so far with just a few videos. Tbh, I don't usually see these kinds of videos, but this guy seems to really know his shit. However, one thing I think this guy never mention is that you have to practice first; obviously, you can't expect to be a master with women only seeing a couple of videos. At beginning, you're still going to be kind of nervous around a woman you really like. I say this from experience. But that's ok, it's completely normal, you just have to relax and don't forget what this man is preaching, and in time you'll find you're getting better with women everyday. Great video btw.

This guy needs millions of subscribers

You rock brother. You've turned me from a shy timid lonely man, into one that has to worry about these women finding out about each other. Thank you!

Ever since I've started using your techniques, girls have been volunteering their phone numbers to me. I haven't asked for a number in quite a while. And it hasn't been just because of what I've said. A lot of it was about my carefree/confident attitude which then translated into carefree/confident body language. Charisma and charm also goes a long way. But I've found it more effective to engrain the charm and charisma into my state of mind and into my ordinary personality _(as opposed to merely turning it on and off when a cute girl comes around and leaves)._

Your Video on flirting has literally made me a chick magnet, I can now say I have my choice with women, thank bro

Yes Dan , You changed our life you are the best love guru of the century you changed they way we see a relationship you have teached us the right approach that no one knows about. One final point I would like to share 😄Thanks a lots Dan for sharing you life experience with us you upgraded us. Thank You Lots of love from India.

Dan Just started watching your channel last week and I have to say you're the best at what you do. I'm 31 and watching dating vids because there's a woman I like and after a few years of being single (and kind of enjoying it) I realized I need to brush up on my game if I want to talk to her with actual expectations beyond just "Hi! How's it going?" From watching and learning from you and your commenters, I've realized that I'm doing a lot of things "right" already. But the main and most important areas of the game (talking/flirting, and keeping it interesting) are where I'm failing miserably. Let me elaborate, and I'm open to any suggestions any viewers might have. Thanks! Just to make sure I cover it because y'all are gonna think it: I have an athletic build, reasonably good looking, nothing immediately repulsive and have been told I make a great first impression. That said, I have an auditory disorder. It's weird because unlike severely hard of hearing people, I sound normal when I talk and act normal in conversations. No one would ever guess there was an issue at first until they really start getting into a conversation with me. In fact, I'm completely normal in quiet areas and face to face. But put me in a bar, a supermarket checkout lane, a party, near live music, or on a phone and the girl is up for one of the most awkward and frustrating conversation of her life. And the longer it goes on, the more anxious I become and while I don't show it in my body language, I always really just want the conversation to end because it becomes too exhausting. And if there's another guy at the bar who starts talking to me and trying to talk to the girl, I always lose because I can't do two conversations at once. It's very easy for him to show me up, so to speak, and even though I'm actually really smart and could hold my own with him in online chat which levels the playing field for me, well... he's not interested in making things fair. Literally, this is why I'm still single. I don't meet people. I run, I workout, I go to work, and I go to events by myself. So, what would you guys do?

See, this is bring broken down in a way I can finally understand. Thank you.

Dan, I am currently seeing a hot young woman but had been slipping into the friends zone. After watching dozens of your videos I began using my natural confidence and charisma on interacting with girls I had no real interest in. I playfully tease them and make them laugh. Then I just hand them my phone and request they add their numbers. Works! This has started to carry over in respect to the girl I'm seeing and truly interested in. One nice example was when I did not contact her for two days and she was practically in a frazzle, hoping she had not done something wrong. Clearly I had previously given her the power. Can't thank you enough, going to get the Flow and continue to watch more and more of your videos.

I am a simple guy. Once I see Dan's video I press LIKE!

hmm im starting to understand better now..thanks for your vids bro they've been helpful

This video gets to the point! Thank you Dan!

Great video thanks again, Dan. Al

love the examples

Great video, Dan. Very well explained.

Hey dan, probly watched like 30 of your vids the past few days, its been a reassurance for me, you should make a video on what to do when your friends girl not girl friend likes and shows interest in you, cause that's the problem I'm having, not with just 1 friend but multiple lol

Dan I'd be lost without you you are a godsend brother keep up the great work btw to everyone the flow is an amazing book you must download!!!

Hi Dan, you make awesome and usefull videos. thanks to your videos i realised the mistaked i make but now i got smarter :) i am going to recommend your videos to a good friend of mine who is now in adep shit because of a break-up. cheers mate! Robert

For the first time in my life I watched a video more than once For the first time in my life I've seen women asking for my attention without me uttering a word Dan videos changed something in me I can't describe Your Videos are life-changing Thank you so much

I am committed to watching all of your videos. This Video Done ❤

YES, Dan! Every woman wants a "nice" guy -- of course! And, I do think every woman wants a man who makes her feel special. However, she doesn't want (or at least will never respect) a doormat. She wants someone who is confident in his own worth, and most of all, has a life, some drive and ambition (as in goals outside of getting the girl.) Great tips - keep up the good work so more people can find happiness in their relationships, instead of the caustic bitterness we see so much of these days.

Hey Dan, I’ve Always Been Good With Women. But Listening To You Made Me Better, And Am Pretty Sure I Can Be Great If I Keep That Up. Am Grateful Bruv, Keep Up The Good Work. God Bless You...🙌🏿🙏🏿🇮🇹🇳🇬🇺🇸

What I have learned from your content has helped me reflect on my past, accept it and move on with even greater confidence and awareness of what change or changes I needed to make and to share it or relate to other guy friends with some of it. Thank you.

Awesome dan sir

Finaly some hope!

i used so manyof your techniques and i got so great resaults!!!!

I've learned a lot thanks Dan Bacon

These videos are game changer for me. Because so far, I've been trying hard to be a nice guy and impress girls by my niceness. This has given me failures and puzzles. I've tried the technique for one intense situation. Usually it would take three days to months to makeup a situation like this. But this time it took only thirty minutes to makeup the situation, and girl happily and actively gets contact with me.

Great job

Dan you have teach us the right way to be successful with women's you changed the way of my approach and results.

Amazing videos so far.

Hmmm, interesting... As a woman, I'll say you're onto something. Nice guys always seemed to me to be uncomfortable with their own sexuality...they sort of hide it from women, hoping this repression wins them some trust. It doesn't. Talking about your sexual feelings in non-threatening, but flirtatious ways is a great strategy for keeping yourself out of the friend zone....but talking about it in a vulgar, creepy or entitled way will have the opposite effect. It is a hard line to walk. I think "charming" might be a decent strategy.

Hey Dan , can you make a video about what to do when girlfriend wants to take a "break" with you. But still live together and how to get out of this "break" to get back together with her.

Awesome video. I use your tactics to get a girl friend, thanks.

Just what I need!

Great video, I applied your tips, and I got a girlfrid, and I'm dating my ex girlfriend in the same time. I can stand now for my personality in from of a women and not be afraid of rejection me. As much I adopt this attitude, she looks more and more n to me, she is inviting me at her place to have fun, she is making her available when ever I want to go. It is so interesting what it's happening. I stated watching your channel after I had my heart broken by one girl, I couldn't hang out with her, because I lost her. I became to needy I think with her, so she ran away! But with a different girl I applied your tips and I can fill a difference. I'm impressed.

Bro, this guy is spot on!

I just to make that mistake tanks for bring my awareness back dan

Love all your videos,i definately will buy your e book and could you make a video how to attract women who already have a boy friend

I used to be Nice but i learned from you how to be frienly and how to talk in a sexually way without being creepy. It's fun a lot but in a plus is doing some exercise. It's true. Doing some exercise helps you to get more confindence. Trust me.

Dan I think I'm starting to learn quite a bit about attraction and how to interact with women by watching your content. Your videos are really informative and fun to watch. I got a couple questions: is it true that apart from her thinking of a guy as only a friend if he acts like a "nice guy", she would also think he's a pushover in the workplace and therefore has lower social status and/or earning power? Also, are there women who are genuinely turned on when a guy is mean/rude to her (I'm talking about crossing the line and going beyond playful teasing)?

What dan says really works. I liked a women we met a number of times, i was polite and trying to be perfect, we kept meetung on a freind basis, and nothing changed, then....I stumbled across Dan's video's, and a lot like them. Dan's are the real ones...I started messing with her when we met up, she started laughing, and telling me to stop doing that to her ( she was losing power and control over the situation but liked it) next thing suddenly she's inviting me into her private world, and acting like a submissive slave, ( in a good way) year...amazing ....I'm getting 'The Flow'

Dan! Can u please make a video on "what to do when we see a girl and think that she's out of our league!" Please make a video on this

Here is one for you dan I can get any woman after the ice is broken see I can talk be nice maker feel attracted but my issue is the first step braking the ice that first step it hard for me but after that it’s piece of cake what’s the best way to brake the ice ???? Thanks keep it up

Hey Dan you should make a video about dating more tomboyish girls.

I'll have to try some of those techniques, maybe I have been going about it all wrong this time.

Why didn’t come on your channel a few months ago before my break up 🤦‍♂️

Nice 1

Hello dan. Kindly share ur view about confident.. what kind of replay display confidence while talking to women?

Hey Dan. How are you mate? Just wanted to tell you that learning from your tips and advise help reveal the ideal person i wanted to be. And that resulted me almost getting in bed with someone who i hooked up with on a dating app. But i failed when it was time ti initiate my moves she kept giving me hurdles and now i have been put into the friend zone, and finally ghosted! Any advise you can give me? I feel like i know what i should do next time but at the moment I'm back at square one licking my wounds.

Hy Dan I have one question, if you are in your firt date with a girl and you are, for example bowling or playing a game, should you let her win or try to win?? Please help :)

Brother how to get your book in sri Lanka.give me some guide line.

The best part I've taken from these videos so far is the importance of being Confidant with the woman your after. Even if have to put it on sometimes it really does help to attract the ladies.

i use to heat mi life before i meet Dan but know i am z player...... i wanna live more tanks man

Hey dan .. i recently broke up with my love.. she said to me that its her family problem.. but i know that she gets bore of me,not feeling attracted anymore,she doesnot feel the sex with me,i was little insecure and being very nice to her..lack of confidence and ask her for any decisions... now before watching your videos and after breakup i was continously keep calling her ,texting her and asking her where she is going or with whom she is going.. She is now friend with me and talk to me but now i call rarely and call whenever she wants me to call.. now we have some talks and put some flirty talks in it.. can you give me some advice that what should i do more to make her attraction towards me .

Great insights! Being too nice to a women kills the initial attraction and makes for a boring relationship in the long run. But don’t be a jerk to her.either. 👍🏿🤷🏽‍♂️😎

what if both you and your ex agreed on no contact for 3 months. its been 2 months now we havent talked. I stumbled on your channel and you said not to do no contact. Should just talk to her? or will I look needy just like how I was in the relationship?

I have used the flow on regular girls and it has work I never knew women were turned on by cockiness and playful arrogance I always thought it turned them off and I would shut down but than I found out from fan that they only test our confidence I remained confident and they'd want to sleep with me!!!

I used to be friends with a hot stripper. We would always hangout and i never made a move on her because i knew two of her boyfriends. She treated me just like this.

i need your help so badly. so please answer to my story i wanna know why she is doing this and if there's a way back !! in brief. we broke up cause she saying am sensitive and fast anger person . and she refused any bagging back. then now she got new friend from social media she met him once. but now a days she is so caring to let me know his steps like she come just to let me know what he said funny. what he did what he like and always she refer to him as " my friend said " i want her back and wanna get rid of that guy and i want to know if she want me back or i should not try at all. thanks so much ❤️

I get confuse when I see my crush.what exactly is the move please.

Dan's the man if he can't do it no one can... Yeah..

i have seena lot of videos the ony guy who brings it to the point is him

I know it is not just niceness that will make her wet. but I did not know what I should do but thers is a something else .Thanks for giving me this information .

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I wish women was less picky..