The most simple thing is to be yourself. Sometimes you crush on someone without knowing but when you find the right view then you find out. None of this makes sense. 😂😂
without knowing? what do you mean by that and how does that work? and what has historically been the moment you realise you have a crush on someone? lol
I'm a guy. I came here to see if the advice for girls to impress a guy are any accurate, since I doubted the ones for guys impressing girls. The real truth is that there is no secret. Just be yourself. They either like you or they don't. This goes for both guys and girls.
Everything towards the beginning is me but i dont want to like this guy anymore but when ever i do see him my heart starts racing my hands start getting sweaty and i begin to stutter💕😂😫
i got hated zone by him and he told me straight to my face saying”I hate you” but my friend is being very secretive about him but idk what’s going on so yeah he HATES me so i got that coming for me 😐
I thought he liked me… B-but he doesn’t. Now I’m hurting.. But I can’t tell him But I need to. It is getting to the point where I’m depressed all the time But I’m still happy It is hard to explain How I have a crush But I don’t know if I should tell him Because I will get crushed ;( Idk I just wanted to make it :)) This is true, I don’t know how to tell him!
I really enjoyed your content but after this video i am so disappointed. Generalization is so stupid. And I mean the first and second tips could be cool if you just said "how to make a person like you" because it applies to both gender. You don't have to "go with the flow", "have the same interests" or "be funny" because tastes are different and depend on the person. And the "play hard to get" is total bullshit. Some persons may like that but i am pretty sure not everybody. All in all it is sexist and everybody should just do what they fucking want instead of watching "tips to get him to want you".
One of my friends told me someone likes me in A different class and I don’t like anyone in that class. But I feel like a guy who sits behind me REALLY likes me like A LOT.because he always flirts with me and makes me laugh and I kind of like him.And I have a huge crush in this guy who I’m really awkward around, like this dude told him twice because I’m so stupid and told some rando on like the second week of school who my crush was. So now he does that and the guy who I REALLY like has a girlfriend we will call him BOB and also today my the guy who told my crush I like him we will call him JOE told someone who is kind of a friend not really that I had a crush on BOB and she was like oooooooo and I was like I don’t like him anymore and like yelled and got in trouble and then I sat back down and was like I don’t like him anymore (even tho I did) but the the girl who we will call SOPHIA who is also a MAJOR tomboy turned around to BOB and was like Sally used to like you (which is not my name we will just call me sally) and he said what like a million times and JOE was grinning and I was like SOPHIA SHUT UP and finally he was like who and she was like that girl right there and she was pointing at ME. BOB just turned around and didn’t care but then later I went out to the lockers and ACCIDENTALLY opened his locker almost grabbed BOBS backpack and a different girl like laughed and I quickly closed his locker and went to mine and he had just walked out (and remember we are really awkward with each other) and the girl was like she just opened your locker and I ran away and he looked behind and I ran into the door cause I’m so stupid and now I think he thinks I’m some creeper and yeah so uh now I hate my life. If you read this entire thing you are 😎 awesome!!! This is why i hate my life HOpe you enjoyed👌 BYE btw this took forever to write Yes I’m in fourth grade yes elementary school is DRAMATIC
I have a huge crush right now and I do all these things except the flirting (Cause I’m just not that kind of girl) but I’m gonna try that eye contact thing and try not to come off creepy😹
When I was in class today,a boy kept on staring at me and he's been flirting with me and he said he wants to be my bf and then I just said this to myself in my head"boi wtf is wrong with u bitch that's now how u get a girl"
I’m just gonna go right to him and say I like him. And if he is acting weird I’m just gonna say. “Hey I just tried to make this awkward” and then I’m going to talk with my friends... Course i would be sad...:( Is it a good idea, course that is what ima do.
I’m a dude for me #1 Have at least a little confidence #2 Act like your better than us not in a cocky way but that makes us want you #3 and most importantly Be thick (jk jk) sorry don’t hate me #3 smile and laugh when a girl talks to me and is nervous and rarely shows a real smile that’s how we’d imagine being with you and if you will laugh with us and be happy we find that attractive
“I love how you said this video is for a certain type of audience” vs the typical relationship coach that says this will 100% work for every man like bruh you must be kidding there’s some evil men out there that could literally have the entire world on a golden platter handed to them and they’d still turn it down😭
Hey, I think your thumbnail is a little bit misleading. It says "5 tips for him", but you're giving tips for someone interested in "him", so stereotypically her. Just wanted you to be aware of that. Otherwise, good video and keep it up!
Don't take this seriously 1 Pick your target 2 Find out everything about him 3 Stalk him on Facebook 4 Show up at his house 5 Tie him up so he will know you're interested 6 Make him go out with you 7 Be attractive 8 Make sure you are a good actress when you get sent to trial for wanting him
Izaya is My senpai really.I like boy the way they are I don t has boyfriend. But I wish I could have a boyfriend but I just a crazy anime freeing girl😥
Okay, if you want a guy to like you: 1. SMELL GOOD! if you smell good a guy will probably remember you as a nicer/better person to be around. 2. Dont focus too much on looking "hot" focusing on that will make you more "diva" try to focus more on intelligence and things like that. 3. be intelligent. intelligent people are more attractive and stand out more, which is more attractive to guys. 4. ASK HIM if you like a guy just ask him, he will probably say yes.. (this method only works if other people say you 2 should be together/ look alike Hope it helped!
As a guy, I'm most impressed by someone when they state their feelings for me in a nonchalant way. It exudes confidence, is obviously authentic, goes with the flow by dropping it casually which leaves the ball in my court without any pressure/clinginess, and best of all it demonstrates that if we were to get involved they'd be the kind of partner who'd vocalize their emotions. I find this very attractive, and my best relationships are ones that have started this way.
Hey. I'm a guy... I liked All of you vids except the last tip ## 5..... ( just was curious about this on for girls) .....Never Ever go out with a guy AND Show tons interest THEN BACK OFF.. Girls Never... That is a Game that we don't care for and will put you in the She is A FLAKE catagory... If you like the guy don't play games or you WILL LOSE THE GUY... So that was really bad advice.... Otherwise you Rock Practical P:)
Don't show neediness, but also don't show disinterest. If there's a chance for you guys to hang out, do it, because he most likely wants to as well, guys dont know what they want until you offer it to them. - a guy
It would come off as distant I do like the idea of waiting before responding to some texts. Wait to respond - then send a super sexy text..he thought you were too busy, but then you were super interested.
I’m a freshman in high school, and I have a crush on this guy, I’ve known him since elementary school, but I think I’m just now starting to like him. I’ve had lots of crushes as a kid, but with him it’s different. I don’t feel nervous or anxious around him, and I don’t get butterflies in my stomach. I feel really comfortable around him, and I enjoy talking to him and spending time with him. We text a lot, and I can be myself around him without thinking “does he think I’m weird?” We can be joking around with each other, and be sarcastic and insult each other in a playful way. He’s a good friend. :) He likes my bff though, and she likes him. She talks about him ALL THE TIME. 😢 someday, I hope he likes me back.
Thats funny. I seem to have a very similar problem. I have a crush on a girl whom i’ve known since kindergarten. I love her but, I’m pretty sure she does not like me, in that way, and she is already in a relationship.
Here is a few of my own suggestions on how to get a guy to like you: 1. LOOK YOUR BEST. Fix your hair, wear at least a little makeup to enhance your features, be clean and wear clothes that fit you properly. Looks seem to be the number one feature more immature men look for in women, but at any age physical attraction is an important part of any relationship. There is nothing wrong with taking a little pride in your looks. 2. HAVE A LIFE. It's a lot of pressure for a guy if they are your whole world. Part of the fun of dating is you getting to be part of someone else's life and them becoming part of yours. Have plans so when they call sometimes you are busy (and not pretending to be busy). This also gives you new things to talk about when you are together. It's easy to want to drop everything for the guy you like, while its good to give him attention you don't have to be available 100% of the time. 3. HAVE PASSIONS. It's very attractive to see girls who are passionate about things. It shows you are an interesting person and you can share these passions with them more if you would like to. 4. BE KIND. Being kind in general makes people want to be around you more. This advice applies to your crush, and it can apply to your friend group as well. No one enjoys being around people who are constantly saying mean things about others. 5. ASK HIM OUT. Within the last few years I have started asking guys on dates. Guys love it, aside from them being treated it also shows you are very confident since it is more unusual in western culture. Keep it low pressure. Go into the dates with just the expectation of getting to know each other better. If you don't feel confident enough to do this you can text them a suggestion to hang out instead. Especially after talking about passions- examples "I love hiking, we should go together sometime" "that's really cool you love indie films. I heard there is one playing at the theater downtown. Would you want to see it with me?" If he turns you down just brush it off and still be friendly to him. 6. TOUCHING. It's best to break the touch barrier earlier rather then later. Breaking the touch barrier can be touching his arm when you are laughing at his jokes, giving him a hug hello. It makes people feel more comfortable around you. I work in a hair salon where I have to touch clients heads. In school I was taught to shake peoples hands immediately when I greet them to "break the touch barrier" its a psychological thing.
Speaking from experience though, ladies AND boys, don't date someone just because you think they are cute/hot/etc. You should feel good around them and love them for who they are, not what they look like, how popular they are, or because your friends pressured you into saying yes. Stay true to yourself and it should all work out.
I definitely agree with this!!! I’m following these steps though but not to date him… I just wanna hook up 💀… it would be the first time tho so idk how to even go about that let alone someone I see at work. At least I know my self worth and like I would never date him yk, I just wanna hook up w him cause he’s cute 😭 at least I’m honest.
I liked this guy for a couple of weeks, than one day he kept asking me who I liked, he even got his friends involved. So I got super sick of it so at the end of the day I told him I liked me and because it was Friday I was so worried if he didn’t like me or if I made it awkward. On Monday he came up to me and told me..... That he liked me! We didn’t date but a we talked so much! Well a couple of weeks later he started liking some else, who only likes him for popularity. She even told me! I still like him but no one knows! How do I get him to like me again? Also they’re dating
I am in a awkward situation at the moment (he knows and it's awkward my friends really want us together and stuff) so Ima give yall some advice if he literally doesn't know who you are. 1. look at him often but not too often and if he looks at you back smile and carry on with what you were doing 2. after you have done that just start randomly saying hi (I'm too nervous to do that but I'm getting there) 3. maybe at one random point go up and talk to him! shoot your shot (Now I am not there yet)
I'm gonna have to disagree on #5. If a girl sticks around me for one week but distances herself from me and makes excuses not to see me the next, I'll have given up on her by the end of it. I appreciate being available more than anything else, and if she doesn't live up to that, things are bound to go nowhere.
As a guy I watched this just to see if this is true and would work on me. The things I look for in a girl is Being clever Being cute(I prefer cute than hot) Be friendly and fun
The triangle technique: Left eye first, then the left eye and finally the lips Get sleep: It’ll make you look more attractive Fix hair: Will automatically give him/her/them butterflies in their stomach Social butterfly: Look I made this mistake once, Never. Avoid. Him Bite lips: Will make you look interested I hope this made it better for you ❤ Thx for reading
I did all of these (except the last one) and still got rejected... he tried to be as nice as possible and he told me his heart belongs to other girl. Then I completely stopped trying. I didn't text him at all. 8 days later, he texted me first and we talked for an hour. I guess this method "be available then unavailable" really works. That's what my best friend suggested me to do. I really wonder how will this situation turn out, will he like me at the end? Time will tell.
@@shwetapadwal6510 wouldn't recommend. He continued to toy with me and my feelings. If he rejects you at the beginning just stop talking to him. He initiated talking with me even though he rejected me, but I was blind and inexperienced and allowed him to do that thinking he is developing feelings for me. At the end, we didn't even hook up or anything, I just broke it off telling him that I won't allow him to play with my feelings any longer. Bottom line is: don't play games, none of this hot and cold, available and unavailable shit, just be honest and sincere, if someone rejects you, stop talking to them, cut them off out of self respect and don't hope for anything.
Tips for girls be like: "Be yourself, stay self confident!" Tips for guys: "Do some hardcore parcour crazy mind reading actions, think in 4D, grow 1ft. in height and there might be a little chance. Just be the perfect and absolute fairytale prince." Excuse me but what?
What the hell what do you mean now your boyfriend will like you? If your boyfriend doesn’t like you then why would he be with you, not to be rude, but I think you mean now your friend will like you.
Just remember if he doesn't like you you can grieve for a little while but grow from it and get over him after all they do call it a crush for a reason
So I need answers. Names: Me,James,Justin,Robin (not real names ) So me and James are really good friends and we kinda flirt with each other. I like him and I Thinks he likes me but at the same time I think he don't. One day, me , Justin and Robin are one the PS4 in a party talking. You know giggling and things. And out of no where, Justin said someone one in out class liked me. I guessed mostly all the boys and Robin guessed James. Justin said it was James who liked me and he asked Justin to ask me to date him. Me being me, I was gonna burst out yes but I said no. I was so mad at myself. I said no because Robin was in the party with us and I knew he was gonna tease me or tell someone. The next day, Justin told James I said no. I didn't know tho. And days go by, I'm told Justin to tell James I want to say yes but I was scared to. He never told James. And this one day, he finally tells James and then I get a note saying James doesn't like me anymore because I made him look stupid because I rejected him. I tried to explain but I didn't want it to seem like I'm desperate for this boy ( which I am ). I liked him for so long ( 2 and a half years ) and I finally had my chance to date him but I ruined it. A little bit later, he starts to flirt with me. What should I do? Please reply
Vester van Beek what do you mean? Is it a good thing flirting? My crush recently got a haircut and it looked really good on him so I complimented it and he went sort of shy and awkward.. What does that mean?
Fuck this bullshit, this is why I'm staying single and if something happens it happens (However unlikely). Can someone plz tell me why we bother with this crap? Women of the world if you want, thhhiiis (Me), come at me like a rabid dog because I'm too fucking dim to realise otherwise and really don't care for romance at all anymore. That's now the best sales pitch I have and I'm not gonna change it,,, we now have the wonderful world of porn at our fingertips... :P
THEGREENBEAR1723 Then let me be a sad gingerbread man. :D Just out of curiosity... If I'm happy with the way I'm living my life in that area, why is that sad? Isn't there an Amy Ferrah Fowler out there for everyone, I assume no, but maybe I'll get lucky... ;p
I can agree with this video, nothing but helpful facts, it talks about how daily contact can be to our advantages to finding a partner, though it can also be bad if the person finds you annoying. It's also helpful to remember that some ones past relationship can influence their present relationship.
Help.. I had this crush on a boy and i thought he liked me too (he probably does) but today he confessed to my BFF face to face about his feelings that he liked her😭😭
Other guys here are saying that sex is the only thing boys want.. Hello! There are still guys in this world who are actually still waiting and looking for someone who we can just lay down with and talk to.. Ya, I'm cheesy
Wolf Playzz take her to see a scary movie, that will do something to her hormones and stuff and make her cling to you idk. unless your 7 then just ask if she wants to play mine craft
Sooo there's this guy I like and he's VERY popular and I don't know if he's into me. I don't know how to get the courage to go talk to him. Rumour has it that 2 of the popular girls like him. I always notice him staring at me in the corner of his eye and when I look he turns back round. Some of his friends told me he likes me but I don't know if it's true or not. All the guys out there, please help!
