Sry too late...but its better to be single..... atleast it doesn't hurt 😖.....I know this pain so baddd... u know?....it hurts to be in a relationship....it hurts alot alot alot.. still in pain😣
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
I dont know if this helps but I have struggled with moving on and what I believe is that if she truly is the one it will come to pass at some point. I just leave it in God's hands and live my life whilst in the back of my mind not letting go but also not stopping doing things if that makes sense. Hope it all works out for you guys God bless!❤
it’s been 15 months for me 😭😭 literally i thought this meant i had no chance but may the delulu come trululu he’s so gorgeous and sweet i love him forever
Mines been a year aswell and now he goes out with my best friend - I likes him for like 3 years and then we found out we were going to the same school together (we used ti do trampoline together outside of school) and I didn’t rlly know them then but I did have a crush on them. Then like a year and a few months in into the school year (the second acedemic year) I put something on my snap story, he said it was rlly good, then we started talking. Then we went out and my best friend tricked me into saying I love her more than him- like 5 hours into relationship- and she sent him the ss. He said I love you and I said it back, but he said, well do u love me more than ur best friend! I didn’t know what to do cuz we just go let together! So I said… well she is my bestfriend and we only got together today… so I said I love you back and he kinda stoped texting me like only once after that. Then that night, I would have thought he would send me a good night text. Well he didn’t. So when I was lying in bed, I had a horrible gut feeling like ur about to be sick, and it was when I was thinking of him- my first ever real boyfriend - and this kept me up till one in the morning - I decided to break up with him at one in the morning so I could get some sleep without feeling sick to my tummy. Anyway, I was still awake till 2, then I deleted the message, but I already put single on my story and a few people had saw it - luckily not him (he didn’t see the message yet) so I deleted the message and story and re sent it at like 7 in the morning before school and put it on my story again- my first ever real boyfriend that lasted like just less than a day! I still regret breaking up with him to this day. Like 3 or 4 years liking him and dating for a day. Then breaking up was all my fault. His response to my message tho was “alright” I was like wth at least show that u cared!!!
Can sm1 pls help me out bc I broke up with him just bc I felt like it was the wrong time like 2 months ago but now I feel like it is and it was a good relationship I ended it saying stuff that wasn’t rude or anything like that but I can’t remember exactly what I said but smt like I just feel like it’s not the right time at the moment and stuff like that I haven’t been rude to him but we do go to the same skl we are still friends but he was very understanding and he said he hopes I will come back but I did I probably will but don’t keep ur hopes up and now I feel like it’s the right time but I want to do it in private can someone help me figure out what to text him and how to know if he is dating anyone bc it’s the 2 week holidays for us in Australia rn so I can’t talk to him and we are still friends but I love him
I had that no contact after the break up and we recently just started talking again after 2 years. We talked it out and we’re in good terms now 😅 Just patiently waiting to get back since it was a shock for both of us. Just friends for now
Sometimes it’s a fresh start with the person. So it’s not actually “going back”. I don’t want to go back to the old relationship, I want something new and healthy with that person.
hey i messed it up for a prank it been 2 months anda her cousins said that she will not give me a chance what should i do cuz i wanna get her back so much i want her to like me again any help
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, I was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but I couldn't just let her go I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back.
Lol I stopped talking right after the breakup too in a hope he might miss me and approach me back but we never talked again and that’s the end of my love story
I wrote mine letters and she keeps the bit hasnt read them. Maybe she will never miss me. She left over some things that honestly just aren't true. Time has proved that. She is my heart but it's been six weeks so who knows anymore what she will do
Lol, my left me 5 years ago, about once a year I call her drunk.. lately we been talking.. are we getting back together, prolly not but we have dialogue about important stuff. She don’t hate me as much as she use to.. point is, I feel great, definitely in better standing with her than just dropping off the face of the earth. I lost contact with old friends. You think I miss them? Nope.. outta sight outta mind.. when you reach out though. You gotta be playful perverted and unapologetic- you’re welcome
Worst advice ever. First of all never get back to your ex or even if you want it don't break communication she/he will get partner within a month if someone really give shoulder to cry.
Mine relationshio ended 3years ago so after I went to a different school and I didnt know she was always there so I have to be in the aame school with her for 4 years and she talk to mw once but she dating someone and I like her the only girl of my life but I tried getting her back but I dont thibk my chance are going up😢
it depends. an ex can be various things; good, bad, toxic, immature/ unprepared, honest etc. an example that actually happened cause I know them is that both were immature and unprepared and the girl couldn't trust the boy cause of her trust issues with everyone and everything even though the boy was trustworthy. so she said sth which hurt him. he was ready to fix things but they still ended it cause it was obvious that it would go down hill. immediately after the break up, they stopped talking for a while and now they are good friends. just to add, at the earlier time they both were wobbly in their walk with Christ, but now they are strong in Christ and help each other grow by sharing what they know and have learnt from God when it is needed to be shared. plus I have exes that I still speak with except one so yeah. not all break ups and exes are as bad and drastic as we think they are. but not to ignore that some actually are. plus the lady in the video said that "it depends if that person is good for you or not"
Or you could have met them at a time in which there is a lot of turmoil in your life that you need to settle so you can be great for a relationship. So no. This bullshit with writing people off is dumb.
Me n my bf had to break up because of family problems and distance but after we faced all the hardships we decided to get together again. Now we're happier than ever 😊
omg i did this and me and my ex got back tg we broke up cuz we really didnt know each other snd it js felt rush but we decided to js talk and fall in love w each other again
Me and my on and off bf have broken up a few times. Every time we break up I own up to my mistakes a day and at the longest a week after and make it clear that some of his behaviors aren’t acceptable either. We have always agreed to fix it and change to better ourselves three of our break ups were within a few months and it was a rough patch but this time it’s because of differences with our paths and future. My point is own up to your mistakes. It might not work for everybody to fix it right after breaking up but the best way to show your ex that your willing to better yourself for yourself and for each other is to make sure he knows you’re willing and that your aware of your mistakes. If he’s not willing to own up to his, please don’t get back together with him. There’s no point in being in a Relationship that’s stagnant. You should always be bettering each other and be growing together individually and as a couple
Niki, I know you won’t see this, but I need your help. So, I really liked this boy. A month or so after I started liking him, the boy texted my friend that he liked me too, and was going to tell me! For some reason I got so freaked out, and I hated the idea of him telling me so I just stopped talking to him. I ignored him and everything. This was all right before school let out. Now it’s summer, and he’s going to a different school next year (still in the area). I like him again. A lot. We never text anymore so it be wierd if I did now, and I just want to see him. I don’t want to make a big deal out of it by apologizing and stuff, at least not untill we get close again. What do I do?
It’d be better to try this without having a “break” or breaking up. Just give each other space and time to see what they really want, aint no point in wasting each other’s time. Plussss usually people like to meet new “friends” when they are on breaks. Idk you did give a fair warning so i agree not sure you should be following this advice. Can come across someone toxic in your life, but good luck in life people, careful. I mean atleast you’re trynna do it in a positive light- Right?. Lol
I did this did not work (i broke up bc i thought i was too young) Literally today i told him that i still like him and asked him if he did he just said no :)
I get the whole your ex is an ex for a reason but like my ex was the best person I have ever dated and we only broke up because he had to move and I couldn’t so…I’m gonna try to get him back hopefully
How did that go with you? I made the same mistakes of dumping him even though I fell head over heels with him. It's been a year now and I haven't recovered yet, but I assume he moved on... Don't know what to do anymore
He treated me soooo good then my BROTHER embarrassed us so we broke up now he dating my friend ( we became friends then i figured out they were datinggg) 😭😭😭😭
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This worked for me yesterday actually. So me and my bf broke up he thought we should break up I was like alright ig ur right.. a few mins later tears down my face. I let it go for 10 mins told my friends then I saw him I broke down in tears.(he did it for peer pressure) then later on my friends told me he had red eyes when they talked to him and almost saw tears. He said he didn’t want to but his friends said he should. Later they said he said he still loves you and wants to get back together just you are the one who had to ask. So I did and now we acted like nothing happened. I also used this advice from the vid but we didn’t get back together we became close friends for 1 months we are kinda friends now but we just don’t talk.
me and my ex broke up bc i was getting a load of hate and I js couldn’t deal w it anymore, we’re still friends and i miss the relationship what do i do? my friend asked him if he missed it too and he said yes .. so idk
Someone help pls! So basically my ex (we got together at the start of December 2022 and broke up mid January 2023 and the other day he told me he wanted to get back with me but I don’t know if I want to get back with him. He only broke up with me bc he didn’t feel like he was ready to be dating but he’s asking me saying he will make it a good relationship and he promises also he said should we try and see how it goes. My friend thinks I should give him a chance and my mum thinks it’s probably best not to bc it will be hard to focus in school as I’m already struggling in school and I need to get better but she’ll support me no matter what. I’m in the middle of both of their thoughts like I wanna date him but I don’t at the same time bc it’s stressful and I don’t particularly like dating much sooooo idk what I should do:/
I just broke up with _______ because it was destroying my mental health because we were distant and they was ignoring me so I was like “do they even love me” “do they stay away because they think I’m annoying” and I just stopped being friends with one of their friends so then I knew my ex-friend was telling her lies because she does that so yeah
Finally *DOCTOR NENGAK LOVE SPELL CASTER* who brought my wife who left saying , she will never come back . But he came back crying and begging for reconciliation I will always thank you father
This is low key toxic asf.. not communicating is the worst way to go about things.. communication is key to a relationship. Not ignoring them.. this is what’s wrong with girls.. playing stupid games instead of communicating like adults.
@@NikiPatton so before hand nothing? Just break up? Not a reason still is toxic. If you can’t communicate with the person like an adult than the relationship sadly won’t last anyways. The reasoning behind this is childish. Communicating unhappiness is key.. if you can’t do that without breaking up than you don’t need each other.. obviously. Doing what you’re saying is toxic. I’ve lived through this before. Never ends well. But for the times communication was involved things ended on good terms and than you can start over again as friends and maybe think of a relationship again.. but ending it with no communication is not the answer.. I’m 36 and can say this with experience. What you speak of are called games in the real world. Real men won’t put up with that stuff. We will just be gone if a girlfriend just breaks up with no reason or communication.
Nah. I’ll just assume she’s with someone else. So, I’ll hook up with her cute friend that was always nice to me. But I’m toxic so don’t follow my advice.
Oh...I just ignore my ex and then he slowly started to miss me...but unfortunately...me and my ex broke up 2 years ago after 2 months of dating...we dated again a few months after...dated for 2 weeks...broke up again...then not long after...got back together....broke up woth me 2 days after...back in February...we dated only for the night...woke up with a breakup message. We recently started talking again...we became close to dating but he got with my bestfriend...broke up with her 17 days after...then we started talking again...he got back with my bestfriend and close to the end of their relationship...he started talking to me some...it wasn't right. Anyways, he broke up with her again after around 20-ish days...now me and him are talking some...ik I shouldn't but I have a problem with this stuff...he's the only guy I felt like this towards...its not easy to move on from him. Each time we broke up...I always ignored him.
This is a problem for me as I am the others end my bf got back together with me I told him after we broke up the first time I JUST WANTED TO BE FRIENDS he stoped talking to me and as I’m one of those people like it annoyed me I want to be just friends but ye and I still care about him as a freind I just don’t like him in that way anyway after like 3 months or whatever he asked me out again out of pity I said yes cuz I felt bad about braking up with him now I’m in the situation again where I don’t like him anymore and I’m still with him I’m about to brake up with him tonight I think and I feel rlly bad because it’s right near Christmas but I just can’t do it anymore I have been struggling really hard at the moment and just need to start fresh
Yes, having her back again can give you the best feeling ever! And you can make it happen inside 14 days and make her want to stay (without the need to manipulate her), read Treitan Mellory's Simple Paper. You'll have her nearly begging for you after only the first days lol.
Wait but I have a question so I had armgument so then I told her sorry and admitted my mistakes and told her I will give her space time apart. Then on tik tok her video popped up so that means I viewed just a video, did I ruin the process or should I keep going by not talking????