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Best revenge is massive success , they will come to you for sure after tasting your success then you just ignore them , glow up guys level up have transformation and be the better version of yourself
If this isn’t the truest thing ever!!! The moment I realised my presence was not valued in my relationship. I simply left. Didn’t message them, look at their socials..nothing. Complete ghosted them (I’m a guy btw). And guess who popped up after several months later? My ex. And what did I do? Remove them again. Like seriously if someone treats you like ass, do you really think you won’t find someone out there that genuinely loves you? There’s 8 billion ppl out there, and your stuck missing a rat 💀
Yes. That includes: Blocking him, deleting him on social media, get your stuff back from his place and sell his gifts to get rid of them😂 H will think you never existed and were only dreaming
@@damsykli completely gave away gifts from her for free and a ghost acc pm-ed me about my special 1 year engraved anniversary watch which i know it was her hurting lmaooo
You shouldn't be worrying about whoever is in your past. You shouldn't be living your future based on someone's actions either. If you're thinking about how an ex missed out when you have achieved something, you really haven't moved on.
Cool video. Unfortunately, my 2 year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me. I still love him so much and can't stop thinking about him. I've tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail. avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
It's difficult to let go of someone you love. I was in a similar situation when my 12 year relationship ended. I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to get him back. I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who assisted me in reuniting with him.
I agree, moving on and being neutral is the best revenge. I caught myself in a situationship with a guy before who then ghosted me, he was the bare minimum. Time passed and our paths crossed again bc we had mutual friends but by then I had improved my life and was seeing someone new. Time continued and I stayed neutral and friendly, I continued to improve my life and he ended up running back to me and even claiming he loved me LOL. But it was too late, I turned him down and I continued my relationship with my new man who has more consistent, fun, and mature. When you move on and focus on yourself, you will know and allow better things to come to you!
my ex was a narcissist and i learned quickly that a negative reaction is still a reaction that feeds into his ego. forgetting him and moving on was the true power
If someone can get a reaction out of you they have power over you, my biggest superpower has been my ability to forget someone ever existed. Like it will take a couple of months max & after a certain amount of time I will actually forget them completely, name & all. Honestly think it’s trauma related but hey it has helped, I highly recommend out of sight out of mind.
I keep ghosting people who treat me like $hit and others keep making me feel bad about it. Treating me like I am childish for doing that...saying that I was supposed to be nice and give those people respect by telling them that I am leaving and giving them explanation. I don't feel bad about it because if you are going to disrespect me and treat me like $hit to the point of giving me anxiety then you won't get to talk to me anymore and ruin my days and life in general. Honestly makes me so mad when people make me feel bad for sticking up for myself and setting boundaries. I am happy to hear someone thinks what I do is cool and honerable.
@@gizem3143 You are so right. I just wish other people would respect me enough or at least be smart enough to see that what I am doing is right for me.
@@queenofneverland9007I'm so tired now😭. Okay so I have crush on this one colleague of mine for past 7 months. In the beginning we won't talk but then we became friends and even my freind noticed his actions which clearly screamed that he also likes me. But then some misunderstanding happened and he ever since he won't talk to me. For few days even I ignored him but then I decided to confront him and asked him if something wrong but he said there's nothing. And ever since we've been acting like enemies although we still make lot of eye contacts. Even I'm SO mad at him for being immature and not confronting me. And today there was a party in our office and I got ready for the first time like that coz all the time I love to be simple. I saw how he accidentally saw me and then turned back again to look at me coz I know I was looking beautiful. The whole day we had eye contact and I thought maybe things are gooling right but NO. When we were coming back again a misunderstanding happened. I was saying something to my freind who's also my colleague but he thought I'm talking about him and he looked angry. I don't know but his behavior piss me off. He never says anything to me but the eye contact we made was so powerful. His eyes were screaming anger and I swear now I really startes hating him. Although there some part of me still likes him but his actions always makes me hate him. I don't know what should I do. I think I'll just give up on him.
Absolutely the best revenge is no revenge. Trust me just give love to yourself that you want from others. Ain’t nothing will make you happier than loving yourself.
I am currently on no contact for 2 months now after having a really messy breakup.even begged him to be with me and threw tantrum on him for months.But now I realize that his calm reactions during that phase made me go even more crazier.Noe that I am in my no contact and glowing up and moving on(trying my best to) and as I am on my healing journey I can sense a lot more power to me and I can sense he is wondering what has happened to me.Hope everyone here heals soon and create their best version ❤
What I picked up is that I need to focus on myself, not in a selfish way but by upgrading my life to my own desire. Different people can gravitate toward me on the little path but ultimately it is a solo journey.
I truly believe all of Simmone's followers are very aligned with her energy I just came back from my class and today I came to know that a bunch of guys who I don't talk to were saying that I look mid which is far from the truth I was really thinking how to get back on them or how to get Revenge so this is the perfect timing for her to upload the video ilyyy
LITERALLY YOU ARE ON TIME LOVE ❤ I had my first breakup i was already and literally it has been 6 days and i was feeling good until I had an evil idea of getting in relationship with anyone of his class just to make him regret breakup this was such a evil idea that even I was shocked and like how can i even think like that and you literally saved me from being a lowly person I need to improve now thank you alot simone 💗🙇🏻♀️i love you soo muchhh💌
great timing, just had my first situationship and im not feeling very fly like a g6. when you do clownery the clown comes back to bite fr 🙏🏻 stay safe yall
Gosh no wayy! Simone how did you read my mind! My bf cheated on me recently and this is exactly what I was looking for😭😭Whenever I am in problem Simone comes up with solutions!
In July, 2 girls of my internship made up a story about me and the coordinator fired me without any proofs. I can't take legal actions because it's an internship. I feel so betrayed and lost. They are working happily while I'm here, stuck waiting for me to graduate this month with no job expectations. It's been really hard to not think about this and I want a revenge every single day. Thank you for the video, it really resonates with me.
The best revenge is to focus all that energy on completely changing your current situation. sending you lots of luck love . i hope things work out for you
Thats disgusting! Trust me when I tell you karmawont forget their adress!!! & you might get to see it with your own 2 eyes karma may not arrive today or tomorrow or tomorrow but it's on its way & it won't miss their adress!! Belive that good things are coming your way!
I was in a very bad relationship before I came to Brazil about a year ago. Eventually I broke up with him but I kept contact to keep track of his whereabouts and how he is doing in life. Wholesome, isn't it ? Well no because as I grew I realized how much of a shitty person he is. When we were on facetime he would always make the most inappropriate comments about my weight gain on my bust area and how hot I've become (both of these things are so obvious, no need to make a fuss about it). Yesterday he was telling me, sorry no, he was lying about how he wanted to come visit me and we'll go to restaurants, he'll buy me shoes, perfumes and clothes etc (spoiler : he just wants to f**k me in an Airbnb). I blocked him this morning. Amen.
Simone, your channel is so inspiring!! I want to say, you made me think about everything. Because you had such a relatable past with me. I never had a friend for more than 4 years sticking with me, I could never keep any friends. I always tried, and I was the BREADWINNER of every friendship I ever had. I’d be Like “is this my problem? Is it my communication skills?” Then when I met someone that would also talk a lot with me, I said “you’re so rich!” As a compliment and a joke “I’m so jealous.” And then she starts arguing with me saying she’s not comfortable and I shouldn’t ever had done things like this. I got so heartbroken, I completely stopped talking to anyone in a loud and extrovert way, I was always shy. I never really talked because I’d always end up either being too boring, alone or too crazy and naughty. I blamed myself for everything until I realised it wasn’t me. It was just the people I chose to be around me
what a reward in my study break!!! thank you simone... i was just watching ur vid about your crazy room mate deepika lmaoo.. ive been binge watching ur vids a lot while doing homework or in study breaks and its my fav time of the day
God I love that girls story about ghosting. I wish I did that with my last situationship. Unfortunately, I was the calm girl initially. But then I got drunk and sent a text essay 🙄 moral of the story - don’t drink in excess in general; but definitely not when you’re in pain! Biggest regret. But I’m trying to forgive myself and live and learn
lmao it happened the same to me, I got drunk and sent some essay to my previous situationship... I even texted my first boyfriend (I didn't talk to him since like 10 years ago) the embarrassment is real🫣
I did the entire breaking no contact and going absolutely berserkct when the breakup happened and I remember my ex being so chilled out and laid back so yeah whatever she said o works
@@poppytaylor765 yup when I reached back the guy was acting all high and mighty but see I ended it like confessing my love then I changed numbers so it's been like 6months+ he has no Intel on me, so I feel better now!, u should try the same
Yo Simone, I'm a guy and this helped me, thanks. Now I think I'm traumatized to my ex because my thoughts right now is: "I hate women," but I'm trying to do better everyday to be a better person. I stalked her yesterday and it's the same thing that I saw from the previous ones that's filled with a lot of NEGATIVITY, I thought she might changed but she didn't--now I think I can rest in peace.
I was wondering if I should delete my tiktok acc? I'm not using it and we have convos there but we've been no contact for 2 months now. Should i just let my account there? I was planning to delete my account but I think she's gonna think something.
I tried to look neutral and it work! My ex came to ask me how can I feel so normal after a breakup and I just looked at him and laugh. He was sooo bad to me how can I feel sad. Now I love my liiife is good I dont waste money for his birthday i glow up and he ask me if he could be in relationship again with me for money. it was ridiculous lmfaoo Thx simone you save me im so thankful
ok so im pretty young and i used to do this all the time like leave people ghost them when i felt like they did something wrong to me. ive ghosted tons of friends and yea just weird people online without saying a word but always feel off about it afterwords. i recently ghosted this person who i met in a game and he was WEIRD.... i felt like i was being groomed so i did what i had to and blocked him on everything i had him on but again i felt bad about it even though i know i was not wrong. this makes me feel so much better! also anyone whos gonna do all this lemme tell you its not easy like the person will be on your head for a while but id suggest you not talk about them to anyone once you leave them and yea you'll eventually let them go and yes its very peaceful
If I’m getting ever cheated on I’m gonna do just like the girl did leave silently and never ghost forever omg this really gonna drive him crazy for the rest of his life 😂
This is good advice for guys too. Just pure coldness when someone mistreats you. It does get complicated though when someone had treated you super super well in the past and then does something hurtful. It's hard to retaliate then.
I'm so freaking angry at the moment... My girlfriend lied to me, used me and turned out to be a gold digger...I forgave her much and she promised to change...but then she cheated... I found this vid while looking for revenge ... but damn ... Idk... I wish I can let go of that pain and anger... It's been a month now and Im still not over her...
I’ve been through it too recently bro. She cheated on me and used me for money. The best revenge is to be successful in all aspects of your life and find someone better. You got this.
omg i love you sm simone, even though i know all this.. I ALWAYS listen to other peoples version of these things because you can always learn something new when people have different views on these things.
SO TRUE!! My ex wanted me to hate him so he lied about cheating on me. He couldn’t just break up with me like a normal person! Instead he had to make up bullshit just because he was in so much pain. I allowed it for a while but now I’ve completely put him out of my life and I’m my happiest. I don’t have any photos, any memories or anything. I’ve completely forgotten a year later. He told me I wouldn’t graduate from college without him, he always acted like I needed him. First off, never prove anything to them. Just know your worth and continue on to your own success. Throw them and the past in the trash.
I had a fightish thing w my best friends 2 years ago and first months Maybe even first year i was like i had to give them so much pain. More than they gave me. But that was not possible cuz i was literally looking at our pics before sleeping AND i was crying cuz i missed them. After a while, i made new friends and i started to not care at all. That was when they tried to come to me and comminucate. So the first point was the hardest yet the best part of taking revenge.
Truly being neutral is being stoic, you're not neutral if you ask yourself “How can i play on their mind for the rest of my life”. Being stoic is being unfazed.
Simone please make a video on how to deal with insecure/hater sisters/siblings. Mine's always trying to act like she's better than me in some way or is always making weird backhanded comments towards me
Notes: The best revenge is forgetting about past people Become neutral in this situation Become over what someone did to you … itll cause pain to them (life changing) they want to live in your brain Glowing up ENTIRE life: best revenge No contact Forgive people NEVER over share Exit relationships well and quietly Get over it yourself
It's my first time watch any of videos although I already subscribed her long ago.. the very first video that i saw was this and as soon as I saw the word 'Revenge' I just knew this is my sign & this my video!!
this works. unless the person has children with the other and shares custody or something similar. then it's more of a mental thing. the person can still stay mentally neutral.
Revenge is like swallowing a poison pill and expecting the other person to die... It is not good for the soul. Don't let people bother you. Forgive... move on as nothing happened.
oh and one more thing simone, maybe I have missed this one but is it okay if you make a video about your startups as a teen, highschool experience! it's gonna help a lot.
If they come back let them compensate until they pay for all the wrong they did to you in full. Certainly be the best version of yourself so they can see what their mistake.
I agree with you but what I did in the past that I feel good about it. is my wife slept with someone I knew. I didn’t do anything to her. I just broke it off then I caught up with him. Let’s just say I made it to where he can’t walk straight again, and he lost his job because he’s not able bodied anymore. Every time he limps to the menial job he has he thinks of me and that just makes me giddy with joy every time I think about it.
Win so big that all of them constantly compare themselves to you and then you'll forget they exist. Success is the only revenge. There is no other revenge.
Thanks Simone ! What a beautiful message you gave us. And beautiful hair, beaitiful skin you have. ✨️ wishing you a beautiful 2024 and more beauty and power and health ❤️
This need to revenge sounds to me like a childhood trauma response. Still good video and helped. I also feel the need to show my ex that I'm doing good and it was their lost.
Can you please make a video on not giving away your trust like freaking pamphlets and let them earn it and kinda elaborate on what earning trust actually means … what makes someone trustworthy ?? Anyone ?
Hello besties, could you advise me? My boyfriend is very attentive when giving me gifts and calling me cute nicknames, but lately I feel like he makes fun of me a lot, in addition to "joking" he told me that I looked like a pig, the worst thing? He knows that I don't have a good relationship with my food and among other things, besides that I feel that one day he loves me a lot and another day he ignores me, I should break up with him, right?
Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.